The 8 Best BDSM Lingerie Sets

Kasia Halinowska
by Kasia Halinowska
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Are you a huge BDSM fan? Or maybe you are looking for sexy lingerie to spice things up in your bedroom. Either way, we found a wide selection for everyone in need of fresh and seductive lingerie. Explore delicate and chic teddys, wet look outfits, and a bunch of BDSM-related accessories. We also included a small informative section on a variety of materials you will approach while searching for BDSM lingerie. Hope you enjoy the article and find something hot for you or your partner!

How we test and review BDSM lingerie?

Our team’s mission is to give you informative and honest reviews of all kinds of sex toys.
We already wrote over 80 BDSM-related posts, so we know all about safety, comfort, and the different types of pleasure you might be looking for. Our testers and reviewers are educated on all kinds of safety features, the toxicity of materials, quality, and comfort, but most importantly, we also try the products ourselves to see how it really feels. Keeping in mind the different likes, expectations, and experiences of our readers, we try to give unbiased and thoughtful reviews that will help you make your sex life more enjoyable, with no regrets.

How we test and review BDSM lingerie?

BDSM lingerie comes in many forms. Whether you like leather clothing or something more delicate, it’s important to know the difference between the fabrics your lingerie is made of. Those benefits both your pleasure and health. I mean, no one wants itchy skin during a lovely BDSM session, right?
Here are the most popular BDSM lingerie materials you may find in stores:

Leather: a very durable and high-quality material. Leather lingerie is a very common choice among BDSM fans. Some people simply love the leather feel on the skin, but leather also brings a lot of confidence and the feeling of power and strength to its owner. That’s why this material is often used for S&M and for sub/dom sessions.
Leather is very durable; however, keep in mind that this fabric requires proper care.
Cleaning: Oils, conditioners, and delicate hand-washing is a must. It is also recommended to dry clean your leather items once in a while.

Silk: soft and luxurious fabric. It owes its fame to its delicate feel and beautiful movements. Silk is also not the easiest to maintain.
Cleaning: Hand-washing in cold water using delicate detergent is recommended. It is possible to wash silk in the washing machine, but only with a mesh bad.

Latex: Soft, stretchy, and very shiny material. It looks beautiful on the skin. However, it’s not breathable. Be careful if you have any skin condition (or allergy!) or it’s easily irritable.
Cleaning: Never put latex into a washing machine. Hand-wash it using lukewarm water and a small amount of gentle detergent.

Lace: usually made of cotton threads or synthetic fibers. Lace is tricky, if it’s made of good quality material, it looks very elegant and chic, while on the opposite, it looks very cheap and tacky. Make sure to check that before ordering lace lingerie online.
Cleaning: Depending on the fibers it’s made of, we recommend hand-washing your delicate or washing them in the washing machine in a mesh bag.

All the synthetic materials: polyester, nylon, spandex, lycra, elastane, etc., provide plenty of cheaper and easier to maintain alternatives to more expensive and better quality materials. You will see them in Faux Leather, Vinyl, or Mesh. They may look close to the original material, but they are less durable and not the best for your skin. Wearing non-breathable material around your intimate areas can cause rash, irritation, or infections. It’s okay to use these materials from time to time. Just be careful, observe your skin, do not wear it for too long, and follow the producer’s washing instructions.

FAQ

Where to buy BDSM lingerie?
You can find a wide selection of BDSM lingerie online, in shops like Lovehoney, HustlerHollywood, etc. There are also plenty of options in your local sex shop. Remember that BDSM lingerie doesn’t have to come BDSM label on it. Look for lingerie like corsets, harnesses, bustiers, or other sexy accessories.
Where to buy BDSM lingerie in plus size?
Online shops have plenty of queen or curvy sizes available. It is also important to look for lingerie with adjustable straps or more stretchy material for more comfort and support.
Is there any BDSM lingerie for men?
Some types of lingerie can be multi-purposeful. Harnesses, collars, and mesh lingerie can be used on men as well. But if you are looking for men’s lingerie specifically, sex shops have plenty of options, especially online.

What is BDSM lingerie

BDSM lingerie comes in many forms, but the key indicator is the feeling that it gives somebody. Essentially BDSM lingerie serves one purpose, preparing the mind for a session. It may look very revealing, tight, and sexy, or it can be more delicate. It all depends on the scenery you are preparing. Some BDSM clothing has a function. Collars are useful for dom/sub sessions or harnesses can be used for bondage. However, there is a thin line between sexy lingerie and BDSM lingerie, some clothing can just be inspired by the aesthetics of BDSM, without any function behind it. Think of chokers, mesh, or using a harness as an accessory. But there is nothing wrong with that. These pieces can be a great introduction to BDSM or a base that can be paired with many toys. As long as the lingerie fits in the plan, they get the job done! BDSM is a huge playground, the fun of it starts with researching and trying out. You don't have to go for the most intense-looking outfit if you want to try something out. BDSM lingerie serves the purpose of YOUR choice.

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The 8 Best bdsm lingerie in Test

1 Test Winner

Lovehoney Fierce Tough Love Bustier Set

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Are you hungry for a tough kinky night? This set got you covered. It’s a great outfit for a real dominatrix. It contains a lot of sexy elements that will make you ready for the night right away.
– An open-cup bustier: leaving your breasts on a display, ready to fulfil all your fetish fantasies, like nipple clamps or other boob stimulation play.
– A thong with an open front and crotch
– Four adjustable garter straps for stockings
– Detachable cuffs with a long chain and lobster clasps

This set is available in many sizes, from very small to extra large.
The material is made of synthetic materials: polyester and elastane, which make it very stretchy, easy to put on and quite comfortable to wear. This piece will definitely make you hardcore sexy and you will fulfil many fantasies just by putting it on.

Lovehoney Fierce Tough Love Bustier Set test
Lovehoney Fierce Tough Love Bustier Set features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Fierce Tough Love Bustier Set if you...
are not a beginner with BDSM lingerie
enjoy having your intimate areas exposed
if you want inbuilt restraints
You should NOT buy the Fierce Tough Love Bustier Set if you...
enjoy proper BDSM materials like leather, silk or lace
looking for a piece to wear on daily basis as well
Lovehoney Fierce Tough Love Bustier Set features
Features
Materials88% Polyester, 12% Elastane 
Pros
Affordable
Decent quality
Comes with BDSM accessories
Easy to put on and to wear
Cons
Made with synthetic materials
Makes you feel sweaty after a while
Not made to wear for a very long time
Conclusion

That Bustier Set is a great starter for a more intense BDSM session. It contains many well-made accessories that go really well with the lingerie and can be used as a fun addition to your fantasies.

The bustier is comfortable to wear, and the adjustable shoulder straps are really helpful in adding more comfort and support, but they might be a bit tricky to put on at first.
The key to this set is openness- all the intimate parts are on display, breasts, front, and crotch. It literally opens the door for many sexual fantasies while still having plenty of fetish appeal.

One thing for sure is that this outfit is HOT. You look very hot in it; unfortunately, you might also feel hot and sweaty wearing it. That’s normal with synthetic materials; they are not very breathable. It is just a precaution to be extra careful if you have sensitive skin or any skin condition.

2 Cheapest

Vixen Edge of Seduction Studded Teddy

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Vixen’s Edge of Seduction is a good choice if you are dipping your toes into BDSM play or just want to spice up your sex life with some sexy lingerie. It may not be the most hardcore Dom accessory, but it is definitely sexy and will boost your confidence.

It is stretchable, studded Teddy with a leg harness to pair up with stockings. It’s easy to wear, simple but seductive design, that will reveal all of your sexy curves, like breasts and booty, without making you feel uncomfortable.

Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Edge of Seduction if you...
are a beginner with BDSM clothing
want to try out new type of lingerie
boost your confidence
You should NOT buy the Edge of Seduction if you...
if you want heavy duty BDSM lingerie for more intense play
enjoy very revealing lingerie
want to use insertable toys while wearing it
Features
Materials90% Nylon, 10% Spandex 
Pros
Easy to wear
Revealing but not too provocative
Affordable
Easy to accessorise
Cons
Cheap fabric
Mesh might rip quickly
Limited options for BDSM toys
Conclusion

Edge of seduction is a great option if you want to spice up things in the bedroom on a budget. If you are trying out to introduce BDSM into your sex life this is a good one to start with. Confidence in BDSM is key and the revealing part of this piece will show off all the goodies, without making you feel awkward.
Perhaps our BDSM Dom queens might find it too boring, but experimenting and changing your proffered styles could be fun as well.

Also, the design is simple, so you can easily accessorise it with some chokers, body harnesses, or masks.

Just be cautious of the material, it is not the highest quality, so do not wear it if your skin can get irritated easily.

3 Harness

DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Full Body and Leg Harness

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This very sexy DOMINIX set is a dream if you are looking for more kinky pieces. It’s a must-have for a bondage fan because it features few O-rings for leashes, ropes or cuffs.
The straps are made of leather and they have buckles for adjusting the perfect fit for your body. They also add more of a hardcore rock n’roll feel to it!

The openness of this piece allows all of your BDSM fantasies to come into play. Chokers, strap-ons, chastity cages and more.

DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Full Body and Leg Harness test
DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Full Body and Leg Harness features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Deluxe Leather Full Body if you...
if you enjoy harnesses and restrains
like having your intimate parts exposed
are into leather BDSM accessories
want a harness specifically for bondage
You should NOT buy the Deluxe Leather Full Body if you...
are on a budget
do not use leather items
want more public appropriate accessories
DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Full Body and Leg Harness features
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MaterialsLeather 
Pros
Plenty of adjustable straps
High-quality leather
Can be used with many other toys and accessories
Cons
Can be difficult to get on for beginners
Conclusion

Looking for an accessory for enhancing your bondage play? Then, you found it! All the leather and buckles will bring out the beast ready for a good BDSM session. You can wear it privately in your bedroom but if you are a brave fashionista it can be a sexy item that you can wear over your underwear or even clothes.

Pair it with many other BDSM accessories like collars or nipple clamps, and even toys.
Because of the good amount of adjustable straps is very comfortable to wear.

4 With Clamps

DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps

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Now, that’s something for a sub-lover- a leather collar with adjustable tweezer-style clamps.
Perfect for stimulation and enhancing sensitivity on your nipples or/and clitoris and labia.

A simple design, good quality leather collar, and easy-to-adjust clamps might be something for a beginner at BDSM or an advanced user looking for simplicity and high-quality products.
You can use it for all-over stimulation of your intimate areas or you can focus on a specific one and explore further.

DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps test
DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Deluxe Leather Collar if you...
you enjoy/want to try nipple, labia, or clitoral clamping
simplicity and good quality
You should NOT buy the Deluxe Leather Collar if you...
do not enjoy intense clamping/pinching
are vegan and don’t wear leather
DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps features
Features
MaterialsCollar: Leather, Clamps: Steel with PVC tips 
Pros
Made of leather and steel
Simple design
Includes 4 clamps to use how you choose
Cons
Can be difficult to move around
Can be tricky to get into at first
Conclusion

If you like pinching and clamping, you are in heaven! This harness is very easy to use and so adjustable. The clamps operate manually, so you (and your partner) can be in control of the pressure and tightness of the tip. There are also additional O-rings to choose the placement of chains, but you can also add there other accessories.

The leather collar plus the cold of the metal chains feels amazing on your body. These clamps do a really good job with precise pinching. They will increase blood flow in your nipples (or other places) making them more sensitive for further play.
Just remember that using clamps with your partner is based on trust and open communication. Don’t be afraid to try it, be delicate and patient.

5 Corset

Daisy Corsets Lavish Lace

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BDSM lingerie doesn’t mean it’s all about leather and latex. If you feel more comfortable in something classy, maybe this lace corset speaks more to you.

This alluring lingerie is made of high-quality satin with a lace net. Don’t worry about the corset being too complicated to take off when the bedroom heats up quickly. It has a zipper in the front, making the corset super easy and fast to remove.

This lingerie piece is an excellent addition to your boudoir collection, but you can also wear it with casual clothes.
Lace corset with a leather jacket, what a sexy duo.

Daisy Corsets Lavish Lace test
Daisy Corsets Lavish Lace features
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enjoy wearing corsets
are looking for high-quality lingerie
like satin and lace
You should NOT buy the Lavish Lace if you...
are looking for something very revealing
want a wet look lingerie
Daisy Corsets Lavish Lace features
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MaterialsSatin and Lace 
Pros
High quality
Comfortable
Classy and seductive look
Zipper makes it easier to take off
Cons
Might be a bit hard to put on at first
Conclusion

This Corset is so comfortable to wear. The high-quality satin is strong but very soft and feels so rich on your skin. It’s a perfect piece. If you like corsets, this is a great addition or even a starter. Because of the front zipper, the corset is more functional. Taking off a corset without experience can be tricky and funny looking rather than sexy. But with this one, you don’t have to worry about it.

The classy and simple design allows the piece to be worn in the daylight without looking too provocative (unless that’s what you like).
The quality of this piece is of a high standard. And the price is very reasonable in comparison to other competitors.

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Fantasy Lingerie Pamela Caged Teddy

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Elegant, simple, and seductive! Pamela Caged Teddy is beautiful and versatile lingerie. It doesn’t reveal too much of the goodies, but it compliments the body’s curves. The black straps and the balconette add a bit of spice to this chic design.
It comes with detachable garters, so pair it up with sexy stockings or wear it with regular clothes. It’s up to you!

This teddy is made of nylon and spandex. It may not be the highest-quality product, but it is stretchable, durable, and affordable.

Fantasy Lingerie Pamela Caged Teddy test
Fantasy Lingerie Pamela Caged Teddy features
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You should buy the Pamela Caged Teddy if you...
want simple and elegant lingerie
are on the budget
like to wear sexy lingerie in public
You should NOT buy the Pamela Caged Teddy if you...
want very sexy and revealing lingerie
are looking for a lingerie for bondage
want high-quality item
Fantasy Lingerie Pamela Caged Teddy features
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Materials80% Nylon, 20% Spandex 
Pros
Affordable price
Elegant look that can be easily worn in public
Easy to accessorise with
Cons
Cheap fabric
Conclusion

Pamela Caged Teddy is for someone searching for chic lingerie to add some spice to the bedroom.
It is definitely elegant, and it is going to look very sexy with anything – alone, with stockings or in casual clothes. It may not scream BDSM lingerie, but if you add some authentic accessories like chokers or harnesses, you might be pleasantly surprised.

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Coquette Darque Wet Look Half Cup Bustier

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This wet look, half cup bustier is a real dominatrix’s calling. It’s just so sexy!
The wet look fabric with the addition of 7 plastic bones will sculpt your body and embrace your curves. The underwired padded cups will add a natural-looking fuller shape to your breasts.
If you are looking for something that will invite your partner for some nipple playtime, it is an excellent choice! Wear it with stockings and nipple pasties for a complete BDSM authenticity.

The fabric is made of nylon and elastane. It may not provide the real leather feel, but it’s way more affordable.

Coquette Darque Wet Look Half Cup Bustier test
Coquette Darque Wet Look Half Cup Bustier features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Half Cup Bustier if you...
like the BDSM authentic look
enjoy nipple stimulation
are on a budget
want to achieve the wet look fantasy
You should NOT buy the Half Cup Bustier if you...
value high-quality materials
like the leather feel on your body
want to wear it for a longer period
Coquette Darque Wet Look Half Cup Bustier features
Features
MaterialsNylon (80%) Elastane (20%) 
Pros
Very sexy and revealing
Perfect for breasts/nipple stimulation
Body sculpting
Cons
Cheap material
Might be tight and hard to put on
Conclusion

If you are hungry for a real BDSM session and you need the right outfit for it, this might be it.
This extremely hot and revealing lingerie will make you ready for plenty of fun and toys. Plus, this will make your body look so stunning. This piece is made perfectly for some nipple action, so embrace it and have fun!

The price is very affordable, but keep in mind that this fabric is not breathable. Be careful with that, don’t wear it for too long to avoid any skin irritation.

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Cottelli Wet Look Teddy

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Are bondage and restraints your type of fantasy? (but you are not advanced at it yet)
This teddy gives you the impression of restricted movement. The wet-look fabric adds to it by covering all your intimate parts. In addition, there are zippers placed in strategic positions. You can use them to give your partner a hard time accessing you or might enjoy the feeling of being more controlled and restricted.

If that sounds like fun foreplay to you, you might enjoy this lingerie.

Cottelli Wet Look Teddy test
Cottelli Wet Look Teddy features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Wet Look Teddy with Arm Restraints if you...
like/would like to try bondage or restraints
want to be in full control
like the wet look aesthetics
You should NOT buy the Wet Look Teddy with Arm Restraints if you...
are advanced with restraints
want high-quality products
do not like bondage or restraints
Cottelli Wet Look Teddy features
Features
Materials90% Polyester, 10% Elastane 
Pros
Wet look aesthetic
Additional zipper and restraints
Price
Cons
Synthetic material
The restraints are not adjustable
Zippers can be dangerous
Conclusion

Whether you like the idea of restraints or you have already tried it, this might be a nice strater accessory. The restraints are easy to play with, and you can just take them off yourself if you start feeling too uncomfortable. If you prefer the tighter fit, you can treat these straps like an additional part of the design. The wet look is really desired in BDSM, and this lingerie does a great job of serving it without the piece looking too tacky. When all the zippers are zipped, this piece looks quite elegant and powerful, especially the higher neck feature.

Speaking of zippers, I am a bit worried about them. I recommend you be extra careful and slow with those. Nip clamping is nice, but nip/clit zipping is not so much. About the material- not the highest quality, but it makes it affordable and easier to care for. Do not wear it for too long and observe your body’s reaction to the fabric (especially the intimate parts and the neck), and you will be fine.

BDSM Accessories to Complete the Look

Do you already have a harness or a corset, but you feel like you want more to fulfil your fantasy? Complete your BDSM look with these sexy accessories. Whether you enjoy rock n’ roll leather outfits or you are a fan of the wet-look, you will find something for yourself.
Here are our top suggestions:

More Bondage Restraints

Fancy more bondage accessories?
Here are our top recommendations for restraints, leads, or cuffs. This section is dedicated to more experienced BDSM fans, but if you and your partner are open to exploring something new, you are more than welcome!

How to use

Choosing any type of lingerie can be a bit overwhelming. Finding the right size, choosing materials, preparing the skin, and accessorizing is a lot. Sometimes putting it on is a workout itself!
Here are some tips that might make the whole process easier:

How to use

Explore

Explore

BDSM lingerie serves its purpose. You just have to find which one! Look up different types of BDSM, explore it with your partner, and then find something that fits your needs.

Start slow

How to use

Everything looks cool on the internet, however, when it comes to BDSM lingerie, think of what you are going to feel comfortable in. Don’t pressure yourself to get in the tightest and most revealing outfit if you’ve never tried anything like it before. You want to feel sexy, not scared and stiff.

How to use
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Prepare your skin

Prepare your skin

Putting something very tight or not breathable on freshly shaved skin is not the greatest idea. You can avoid redness and skin irritation by getting an intimate female aftershave lotion.
Also, if you have latex/vinyl or leather lingerie, you can try using some baby powder to get in it faster and get easier!

Accessorise

How to use

Once you have found your lingerie, don’t stop there. Add sexy stockings, chokers, harnesses, anything that makes you feel even hotter.

How to use
How to use

Date night

Date night

Some BDSM lingerie can be worn in public. You can wear some pieces over/or instead of your regular underwear, or you can use them as a part of your outfit. Depending on the place you are meeting, and your bravery, showing your date a glimpse of what’s to come is a big turn-on!

Proper aftercare

How to use

When investing in lingerie, remember about aftercare. Unfortunately, in most of the cases washing machine is not an option. In addition, high-quality products like latex or leather require conditioning. If you want to use your lingerie more than a few times, you might want to look into that.

How to use

How to clean BDSM lingerie

Before washing any type of lingerie, make sure to check the producer’s instructions. We always recommend gently hand-washing your lingerie to make sure it won’t lose its properties. Some items are washing machine safe, but only when washed with a mesh bag and delicate washing program. Different ways of cleaning depend on the different types of materials. Usually, synthetic fabrics are easier to care for than natural ones. When it comes to leather lingerie, hand-wash it delicately with gentle detergent and damp cloth. Leather also requires additional oils and conditioners to maintain its quality. Most silks can be washed only in cold water, using very gentle detergent and conditioner. With latex, vinyl, or any other wet-looking fabric, never put it in the washing machine; hand-wash it using lukewarm water and a small amount of gentle detergent.

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
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Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.