The Best BDSM Sex Shops For All Your Dark Desires

By Isabelle Uren / July 18, 2022

Which BDSM sex shops slap harder than the Slut Slapper Spanking Paddle, I hear you ask? I’ve rounded up my favorite sex toys stores to stock up on all manner of teasing and torture devices. Whether you are looking for new BDSM furniture to deck out your dungeon, some sensation play tools or anything else your kinky heart desires, these shops will have just the thing!

As with all sex toy shopping, you want to make sure you only shop from trusted, reputable shops, like the ones in this post. This means you can shop with peace of mind, knowing you are getting quality products and great customer service. BDSM should be torturous, shopping for BDSM accessories shouldn’t be!

Best for BDSM Beginners — Lovehoney

Although Lovehoney isn’t only a BDSM sex shop, it does have a fantastic range of very accessible BDSM accessories. With it’s accessible and non-intimidating design, it is the perfect place to start your BDSM adventure. They have a wide range bondage items, including all kinds of restraints, impact play toys, and sensory deprivation accessories.

They also stock larger items like of sex furniture, such as swings, sex machines, and chairs to help you fulfil all your BDSM fantasies!

Not to mention, it’s the perfect place to stock up on all kinds of sex toys for your BDSM scenes. The Original Magic Wand Rechargeable is the perfect tool for teasing a partner with some of the most powerful vibrations out there!

Beginners and more advanced players alike are able to find great BDSM accessories at Lovehoney. This is the best sex shop for handcuffs for first timers, and they stock some really great beginner’s bondage kits for anyone who wants to get into BDSM but isn’t sure where to start. For the advanced players who know what they want, there are more kink specific sections, such as cock and ball toys, chastity play, electro sex toys, and medical fetish accessories.

Be sure to check out their BDSM and bondage guides as well for loads of great info on how to practice BDSM safely and get the most out your toys!

Lovehoney’s top BDSM sex toy brands:

  • Bondage Boutique — Lovehoney’s own brand is a perfect starting point for your BDSM journey.
  • Dominix — A luxurt BDSM brand from Lovehoney for more advanced players.
  • Fifty Shades of Grey — For Fifty Shades of Grey lovers are “bound” to love the official sex toy collection!
  • Fetish Fantasy — A popular BDSM brand with a wide range of products.
  • Sportsheets — A bondage brand specialising in soft bondage and mild s & m accessories.

Lovehoney BDSM Best Sellers

Bondage Boutique Bound to Please

Keep your partner exactly where you want them with this fully adjustable under bed restraint system from Bondage Boutique. Quick and easy to set up, this restraint set is travel friendly for bondage on the go!

Bondage Boutique Red Hot Passion Kit

The Red Hot Passion Kit is the perfect introduction to BDSM, with a whole range of exciting toys! The six piece kit allows you to explore bondage, sensory deprivation, and sensation/impact play, all for a great price!

Bondage Boutique Nipple Clamps

These crocodile style nipple clamps from Bondage Boutique are adjustable, making them beginner friendly. They also have a soft tips to protect your skin! If you crave a little more, you can give the chain a tug to turn up the sensation.

Best Product Selection — The Stockroom

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The Stockroom is a top quality BDSM sex shop that caters to all kinds of kinks! Started by a man on a mission to source great bondage equipment at an affordable price, The Stockroom has grown into a pleasure playground full of tools to tease and torture.

As well as having their own signature Stockroom brand, The Stockroom has also acquired Stormy Leather and Syren Latex. They also stock products from the top sex toy brands and more niche brands as well!

Stockroom is the place to go for serious BDSM players, with toys and furniture that are made to withstand some serious play.

If you are looking to build your own sex dungeon, their dungeon furniture selection has pretty much everything you could dream of, from a St Andrew’s cross right up to a coffee table cage for keeping your naughty sub in their place.

As well as the big statement pieces, this BDSM sex shop has a wide range of smaller accessories, including almost every type of restraint possible, sensation toys, and more mainstream sex toys that are also amazing for all sorts of BDSM scenes.

Stockroom is also amazing sex shop for whips, floggers, and paddles, especially if you are looking for something with an artisan touch.

The Stockroom BDSM Top Sellers

Premium Garment Leather Collar

This premium collar transports you into sub space and allows your master to easily attach a lead or other restraints. Made of high quality leather in Los Angeles, the collar comes in a choice of black, pink, or red to match your style!

Premium Garment Leather Wrist Cuffs

Pair the collar with these premium leather wrist cuffs. These extra strong and super sexy cuffs will keep you firmly in place no matter how much you writhe and struggle!

Kinklab Agent Noir Neon Wand Electrosex Kit

If you are looking for a thrill, this complete Neon Wand Electro Sex Kit will certainly add a spark to your sensation play! This top seller comes with 10 attachments for even more ways to tease!

Best BDSM Sex Shop for Male Subs — OXY Shop

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OXY shop caters to the penis owning submissive’s every desires! If you love submitting to your mistress/master, cuckolding, sissy play, or cock and ball based BDSM, you will love OXY Shop.

This is the place to go when you want a new and exciting way to lock up your cock! OXY shop has a massive selection of chastity devices to keep you in penile penitentiary.

Their bondage selection features more niche items than a general sex toy shops. Some highlights include Shibari ropes and rings and heavy duty BDSM furniture that will restrain even the naughtiest of subs!

OXY shop also stocks some very niche fetish items, including an incredible range of fantasy dildos and a whole separate shop for foot fetishes, with some of the most realistic looking feet I have ever seen!

Top BDSM products from OXY Shop

Heavy Cock Ring

This hefty cock ring weighs a whopping 0.77 lbs! Made of surgical grade stainless steel, the ring can be worn around your shaft or slip it around your balls for some serious ball stretching.

HT V4 Silica Gel Cage

The new and improve HT V4 Silica Gel Chastity Cage and is a great cage for everyday wear. Choose between five sizes to get a snug and secure fit. Plus, the cage also comes with 4 ring sizes.

Ball Busting Bundle Set

The ultimate set in ball busting! With a ball bonger, a poll ball crusher, an acrylic ball crusher, and a five row Wartenberg wheel, this four piece set will really push your cock and balls to limit.

Best For Beautiful Bondage — Spectrum Boutique

Spectrum Boutique logo

Another general sex toy store that’s made it into the top BDSM sex shops is Spectrum Boutique! The lust child of Dildo Duchess, Zoe Lignon, Spectrum stocks a wide range of sex toys and wellness products. The shop takes pride in having a no-nonsense and educational approach to all things sex.

All of Spectrum Boutique’s products are picked out by the Dildo Duchess herself, and there is a really amazing selection of BDSM tools and toys. This is the place to go if you are looking for some extra pretty restraints to match your aesthetic or some new sensation toys to add to your tool kit.

Zoë Ligon x The Stockroom Limited Edition Premium Garment Leather Collar

Not to mention, Ligon paired up with The Stockroom to create some super beautiful, limited edition mint green restraints, including wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, a collar, and a leash.

The restraints are made from high-quality garment leather, which is soft, strong and incredibly sexy!

Top BDSM Accessories From Spectrum Boutique

ZALO & UPKO Rose Ball Gag

This gorgeous ball gag made from luxury Italian leather is for the sexual, sensual, submissive in you! The detachable rose reveals a whole that’s just perfect for slipping your fingers into your sub’s mouth!

Spartacus Plush Collar With Chain Leash

This green vegan leather collar and leash set is just what you need for parading your naughty sub around and keeping them under strict control!

The Traveler Restraint & Bondage Kit

For those who want to be prepared to play wherever, whenever, this 10 piece kit restraint and bondage kit comes in a beautiful sleek black storage bag.

Other Top Shops for All Your BDSM Needs

BDSM play really is what you make of it and can incorporate pretty much any kind of sex toy that tickles your fancy! While BDSM sex shops are usually the go to, there are plenty of kinky brands making that can add a little more spice to your BDSM scenes!

Hismith Premium App Controlled Sex Machine

Hismith Sex Machines

If you the idea relentless thrusting sends you into a frenzy of excitement, Hismith have you covered with their range of very reasonably priced sex machines. Their premium model comes with app and remote control, which is ideal for power play. Get into position and let the machine go to work while your partner takes the controls.

If one whole just isn’t enough, they also have a double penetration sex machine to give the ultimate in full satisfaction. Just be warned, you might be a little weak at the knees after!

And for the penis owners, you can get their male bundle, which is their signature thrusting machine with a range of penis and prostate pleasing attachments.

SexSwing.com

If you are looking to elevate your bondage play, Sexswing.com have a massive selection of sex swings. They even have a whole section dedicated to bondage swings and slings.

The best thing about Sexswings.com is they really know their stuff! These sex swing experts know all there is to know and sell everything you need to get started, including a large selection of sex swing frames.

On top of that, they have loads of great resources to help you find the swing of your dreams!


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