In the grand orchestra of sexual pleasure, there’s a soloist that steals the show every once in a while. The beautiful duet of the blended orgasm. A term that might sound like a smoothie you’d order at a sex-positive hipster café, but is actually just a term used to describe the type of orgasm that happens as a result from dual clitoral stimulation. Still not sure how that works? Well, that’s why I’m here.
Let’s go over the basics of a blended orgasm, the clitoris in its entirety, different methods of dual stimulation, and my expert pick of the best sex toys that can help you out!
Table of Contents
- What is a Blended Orgasm?
- The Key to Blended Orgasm: The Clitoris
- Dual Stimulation: Double the Fun
- Sex Toys for Dual Stimulation: Your Pleasure Arsenal
- Best Sex Positions for Dual Stimulation: The Kama Sutra of Blended Orgasms
- Tips for Blended Orgasm: Your Roadmap to Pleasure
- Conclusion: The Final Encore
What is a Blended Orgasm?
A blended orgasm is like a symphony of pleasure, a crescendo of climaxes that occurs when multiple areas of your erogenous zones are stimulated simultaneously. It’s like having your cake and eating it too, but in this case, the cake is your clitoris and g-spot, and eating it is… well, you get the idea.
Blended orgasms are not limited to just clitoral and G-spot stimulation. In fact, there are several other ways to achieve a blended orgasm. Here are a few:
Clitoral and Anal Stimulation:
This involves stimulating the clitoris and the anus simultaneously.
The anus is rich in nerve endings and can provide intense pleasure when stimulated.
Nipple and Clitoral Stimulation:
The nipples are another erogenous zone for many people. Sometimes even stimulating the nipples alone can build a powerful orgasm or “nipplegasm”.
Stimulating the nipples and the clitoris at the same time can lead to a powerful blended orgasm.
Vaginal and Anal Stimulation:
This involves stimulating the vagina (and possibly the g-spot) and the anus at the same time.
Clitoral and Erogenous Zones Stimulation:
This involves stimulating the clitoris and other erogenous zones (like the neck, inner thighs, or lower back) at the same time.
I would recommend using a sex toy or your fingers to stimulate the clitoris while you use your mouth, other hand and fingers to caress any other sweet spots.
For some people, sexual fantasies or dirty talk can be a big source f stimulation when building towards an orgasm. Combining this mental stimulation with physical stimulation (like clitoral or vaginal stimulation) can also lead to a powerful blended orgasm.
There you have it. It’s basically possible to achieve a beautiful blended orgasm from all these types of dual stimulation. However, most people might find themselves experiencing the most intense pleasure by focusing on external clitoral stimulation and vaginal penetration. So, in this post, we’ll be mainly focusing on how to achieve blended orgasms from this kind of stimulation.
Before we go into detail about how to achieve this, let’s take look into why doubling down on this kind of pleasure can feel oh so good…
The Key to Blended Orgasm: The Clitoris
More Than Meets the Eye
The clitoris, often hailed as the queen of female pleasure, is basically like an iceberg. There’s so much more to it than what meets the eye. What you see is just the tip while the rest of it extends inside the body, forming a wishbone-like structure that wraps around the vaginal canal.
This internal part of the clitoris is like a hidden pleasure-treasure, waiting to be discovered and stimulated through the vaginal wall. When combined with external clitoral stimulation, it’s like hitting the jackpot of jerking off, leading to a powerful blended orgasm.
The G-Spot is Actually Just The Internal Structure of the Clitoris
Studies researching the internal structure of the clitoris have concluded that the g-spot doesn’t actually have it’s own anatomical structure. That’s why g-spot stimulation isn’t actually “g-spot” stimulation, but rather stimulation the of the clitoral vestibular bulbs. So, when we talk about dual stimulation of the clitoris and the G-spot, we’re really talking about stimulating different parts of the same thing – the clitoris.
Here’s a fun fact: the closer the external part of the clitoris is to the vaginal opening, the more likely it is to achieve intense stimulation (and perhaps orgasm) during penetrative sex. This could explain why some people can climax from penetration alone. But remember, everyone’s different, and there’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to pleasure. So, explore and find out what works best for you!
Dual Stimulation: Double the Fun
Achieving a blended orgasm requires a bit of skill, a lot of exploration, and the willingness to let loose and have fun. Whether you’re flying solo or dancing with a partner, the key is to experiment with different types of touch, pressure, and sex toys to find what makes your toes curl.
Here are some methods to try:
Blended Orgasm With Solo Play
When it comes to self-pleasure, your hand can be your best friend. Dual stimulation has never been easier, because… You guessed it, you have two hands! You can use your fingers to stimulate the clitoral glans while a few fingers from the other hand are stroking the g-spot internally.
If you’re not a fan of multitasking, you can always get some assistance. Perhaps a g-spot vibrator can take over the insertable functions and you can focus on manual clitoral stimulation! Or if you’re the type of person who loves intense vibrations on your clit, a bullet vibrator or magic wand vibrator can work its magic while your other hand is stimulating the g-spot.
Of course, if yo have both toys, you can easily combine them and simply focusing enjoying the automated pleasure. However, you may get tired of holding and using two sex toys at once. That’s why dual stimulation sex toys already exists! With these babies, you can lean back and relax while they pamper you in several ways. I’ll get back to these kind of sex toys in the next section!
Blended Orgasm With Partnered Play
When working towards a blended orgasm in partnered play, communication is key. It’s like a sensual game of “Simon Says.” Let your partner know what feels good and guide them in stimulating your erogenous zones. Make a fun activity out of it and take the time to explore each of your bodies. Take turns “pleasure mapping” each other’s bodies, to find out which type of sensations (and where) your partner really enjoys. They can use their fingers, tongue, or sex toys to stimulate your erogenous zones – multiple at once!
My best tip for achieving blended orgasms with a partner is to think of it as a team effort. You guys are helping each other bring one of you to a mindblowing orgasm. You can make use of all of your ressources combined. Every hand and finger can caress something. Each mouth can be busy with something. Your genitals can be put to work as well! Don’t forget about the less visited erogenous zones like the breasts, nipples, perineum, or the anus. These can also contribute to a blended orgasm when stimulated in conjunction with the clitoris or g-spot.
Sex Toys for Dual Stimulation: Your Pleasure Arsenal
There’s a wide range of sex toys designed specifically for dual stimulation, and they can be a game-changer when it comes to achieving blended orgasms. Most of these sex toys work wonders for this kind of pleasure because they offer:
- Dual Stimulation
- Customizable Vibration Settings
- Ergonomic Design and Adjustability
Here are a few to consider:
A rabbit vibrator is an ideal choice for some serious dual stimulation. They have an insertable shaft for internal stimulation and a smaller arm for clitoral stimulation, providing simultaneous pleasure to both areas. They come all sorts of shapes and sizes! Some have special designs for clitoral stimulation, like rabbit ears, or internal pulsating functioncs! We’ve had these three rabbit vibrator personally tested by members of our tester team. Click on the products to check out their in-depth reviews!
C-shaped vibrators are great for achieving blended orgasms due to their ability to stimulate the clitoris and g-spot simultaneously. Much like rabbit vibrators, C-shaped vibrators are designed to provide simultaneous stimulation to both the clitoris and the g-spot. One end of the “C” is inserted into the vagina to stimulate the g-spot, while the other end rests against the clitoris. Unlike most rabbit vibrators, these babies are hands-free and wearable! Once inserted, the vibrator stays in place, allowing you (or your partner) to use your hands for other forms of stimulation.
They’re often referred to as couple’s vibrations, as some of them can be worn during penetrative sex. The We-Vibe Chorus is one of the best couple’s vibrators out there! The inserted part stimulates the g-spot and provides added tightness for the penetrating partner, while the external part simultaneously stimulates the clitoris.
G-Spot & Clitoral Suction Stimulators
These toys are designed to stimulate both the g-spot and the clitoris at the same time. Like a regular rabbit-like vibrator, the insertable arm is shaped and bulbed for firm g-spot massage. However, the clitoral stimulation part uses air pressure to create a suction-like sensation. Basically a g-spot vibrator and a clit sucker all in one! This creates a sensation that is different from traditional clitoral vibrations. Some people may prefer the gentle sucking sensation over the vibrations!
Best Sex Positions for Dual Stimulation: The Kama Sutra of Blended Orgasms
Alright, so you’re ready to explore the realm for blended orgasms within your partnered sexlife. I personally believe that partnered sex is one of the best places to enjoy a dual stimulation orgasm. All those extra fingers, hands, and other appendages can really help maximize your dual, triple, or quadrupled pleasure.
Alre you also curious about exploring blended orgasms during penetrative sex? Certain sex positions are ideal for facilitating dual stimulation. Here are a few to try:
In the cowgirl position, the person with the vagina is on top. This allows them to control the angle and depth of penetration for optimal g-spot stimulation.
Simultaneously, they or their partner can stimulate the clitoral glans manually or with a toy.
Doggy style allows for deep penetration and g-spot stimulation. The person penetrating can reach around to stimulate the clitoris, or the person being penetrated can do it themselves.
Doggy style is also easily customizable to accommodate all your favorite angles! Lean forward or back, spread your legs further apart or closer, stand on your arms or lean your head against the bed – do whatever variation feels good to you!
In the spooning position, both partners lie on their sides, with one partner behind the other. This position allows for g-spot stimulation through penetration, and easy access for clitoral stimulation with a slightly lifted leg.
Adjust the positions to your needs. Perhaps one person needs to scoot a bit down or up, or bend forward to make penetration easier. You can have your partner help lift your leg up during penetration.
Tips for Blended Orgasm: Your Roadmap to Pleasure
Now we’ve been through everything you need to know about blended orgasm. So, how to have a blended orgasm? I’ve got some basic tips for us to end on. Hopefully, this will help guide you to your multi-faceted climactic bliss.
- Know Your Body: Understanding your own body and what feels good to you is the first step. Spend some time exploring your body and discovering your erogenous zones. Perhaps you’ll learn about a few new areas to play aroud with!
- Experiment with Dual Stimulation: Try stimulating different erogenous zone at a time. Whie the g-spot and clitoral glans is a staple for mindblowing dual stimulation, you could shake things up and try some different pleasure combinations. Clitoris and anus, g-spot and nipples, or… all of the above?
- Use the Right Tools: Consider using sex toys designed for dual stimulation, like the products listed above – rabbit vibrators and C-shaped vibrators. These can make it easier to achieve a blended orgasm. Dual stimulation that builds towards an orgasm can be a little bit of a tall order for your hand alone!
- Take Your Time: Don’t rush to reach orgasm. Spend time building up arousal through foreplay and slow, deliberate stimulation. Play around with multiple stimulation sources on different areas. Enjoy the pleasure playground that is your body!
- Communicate with Your Partner: If you’re with a partner, let them know what feels good to you. Guide them in stimulating your erogenous zones. Take advantage of the fact that you now have extra hands to pamper you! Try adding some more erogenous zones to your blended bliss.
- Relax and Enjoy the Journey: Try not to focus too much on the end goal of having a blended orgasm. Instead, relax and enjoy the exploration of your own pleasure. Even if your session does not result in the kind of blended orgasm you were looking for, you still got to experience some new sensations. You got to unlock some new pleasure codes that you can easily make use of for your next session!
Conclusion: The Final Encore
Fireworks, sparks, defeaning applause. There you have it. Blended orgasms that can feel absolutely… stunning. They can come about in many different ways. That’s why they can also feel very different from person to person. Whether you’re using your fingers, sex toys, or trying out new sex positions, the journey towards a blended orgasm can be just as enjoyable as the destination.
So, take your time, communicate openly with your partner, and most importantly, have fun along the way! After all, the world is your oyster, and you’re the pearl diver. Dive deep, explore your body, and discover the treasure of blended orgasms!