The 4 Best Bondage Pillows for Rest and Restraint

Mariana Sarceda
by Mariana Sarceda
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Whether you’re taking your first step is into the world of BDSM, or you’re an absolute expert, bondage pillows are an absolute must. Specifically designed for perfect positioning, bondage pillows are amazing accessories that can really help heighten any exciting BDSM session! In this review we look at 4 of the absolute best (plus a few cheeky extras), and delve into the positives AND negatives of each. Because at the end of the day you need to be able to make a well-balanced decision when it comes to the bondage pillow that you buy!

How We Tested the Bondage Pillows in this Review

With so many lovers of bondage pillows out there, finding individual reviews was fairly easy. What we were looking for though were honest reviews that didn’t just play up the positives and downplay the negatives, no, we wanted well-balanced thoughts and reviews that fairly critiqued all aspects of the bondage pillows. And where possible we even had our own team of sex toy experts test them out, just to be sure! We then took all these objective and unbiased thoughts and opinions and distilled them into this review! So rest assured in the fact that not only have we put over 60 hours into this post, but we’ve also tried and tested these bondage pillows to the nth degree!

How We Tested the Bondage Pillows in this Review

Inflatable bondage pillow vs high density foam

Whether you’re looking at an inflatable bondage pillow or a high density foam piece of positioning furniture, you have to consider the pros and cons of each. Let’s dive a little deeper into it and take a look at the options!

  • Inflatable bondage pillow -Easily the most discreet and easy to hide away choice of the two, inflatable pillows can be blown up, used, cleaned, and then deflated again. This makes it simple to store away! They have a bounce to them that foam pillows don’t, and a light and easy to move should you decide to change things up.
  • High density foam – Thicker, firmer and more durable, high density foam is a great material for sex cushions, wedges, and any other positioning furniture. It feels soft to sit on and lay against, yet it has a strength and density that makes it stronger and more durable than its inflatable counterpart. Bondage pillows and items etc. made from high density foam are not easy to hide away though, making them pretty indiscreet!

What to look for when buying a bondage pillow

Before making your bondage pillow purchase it’s pretty important that you look out for a few things! These things are going to help you get the most out of your bondage pillow, so it’s always worth checking!

  • Number of restraint points – Some pillows have multiple restraining points, others only have a few. It all depends on how you want to use them, but checking how many actual restraining points there are will help you find out if they suit your needs or not!
  • How many cuffs are included – Cuffs are an integral part of BDSM play, and finding out how many (if any) cuffs are included with your bondage pillow is a pretty important thing! After all, you’re going to need to know if you need to do any extra shopping if cuffs aren’t included!
  • Any extra accessories – Sometimes bondage pillows come with extra accessories and other bits of kit. This might include ropes, blindfolds, whips, or other BDSM items that will help enhance the experience. It’s always worth figuring out if you get any extra free things with your purchase!

FAQ

Are all bondage pillows waterproof?
Yes. All the bondage pillows mentioned in this review are waterproof.
Why most bondage pillows have a 27° angle incline?
Most bondage pillows have a 27° angle incline because it is the optimal indline for deep penetration, G-spot stimulation and P-spot stimulation.
Can I make my own bondage pillow?
Yes! You can be creative and make your own bondage pillow. We've added a tutorial to create your own DIY bondage pillow above! Check it out!
How to use a bondage pillow with a partner?
Creativity and fantasy are your best friends when you think about how to use a bondage pillow with your partner. But if you run out of ideas, most manufacturers of bondage pillows provide plenty of ideas for bondage play.

What Is A Bondage Pillow?

A bondage pillow is an accessory that couples often use to enhance foreplay and sexual intercourse, especially if the are into BDSM or playful restraints. Bondage pillows are often made from polyurethane and high-density foam and they help users adopt and maintain different positions comfortably during sex. They are available in various shapes so that they can adequately support both partners. The most common bondage pillow shapes are ramp, wedge and prism. Bondage pillows are usually placed under the woman's lower body to provide deeper penetration during missionary sex and make G-spot stimulation easier. They can also be used to enhance oral and rear-entry sex. A bondage pillow comes with accessories such as wrist cuffs, blindfolds and/or ankle cuffs for playful restraint and bondage. It usually has a soft velvety outer surface for improved sensuality to the touch and a waterproof-liner

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The 4 Best bondage pillows in Test

1 Test Winner

Liberator Black Label Wedge with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers

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95/100
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99/100
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94/100
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Low

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0.0/5.0

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The Liberator Black Label Wedge with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers is a bondage pillow that invites you to explore and express your kinkier side. Its wrist cuffs, blindfold and tethers gives you the opportunity to tie your partner and explore restraining arts.

Its 27° angle and firmness make this bondage pillow a perfect addition to the sex life of couples interested in deeper penetration, trying new positions and more intentse G-spot stimulation. If your neck aches after giving oral sex, using the Liberator Black Label Wedge with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers will give you more support for endless pleasant sessions.

You won’t regret investing in this sex toy!

Liberator Black Label Wedge with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers  test
Liberator Black Label Wedge with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers  features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Liberator Black Label Wedge if you...
Explore the restraining arts in sex
Are interested in more support and lift for missionary position
Prefere a deeper penetration angle
Want to try new positions
Love bonding
You should NOT buy the Liberator Black Label Wedge if you...
don't like exploring new positions in sex
are not into bonding
want a less pricey sex toy
Liberator Black Label Wedge with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers  features
Features
Length14 inches
Width24 inches
Height7 inches
WaterproofYes 
MaterialsMicrofiber - original microfiber cover - 100% nylon 
TextureSoft, luxurious 
Pros
Made of top quality materials
For deep penetration
Great for exploring new positions
Perfect for bonding and restraining arts
It comes with wrist cuffs, blindfold and tethers
Easy to use
Cons
It's a bit pricey
You may want a larger wedge
Not for hard bondage
Conclusion

If you want to spice up your sex life with your partner or would like to introduce some light bondage, thei Liberator Black Label Wedge with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers is your best purchase. This bondage pillow is soft, comfortable, luxurious and it gives you the right angle for G-spot stimulation and deeper penetration.

The Liberator Black Label Wedge with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers  is the bondage pillow that makes trying new positions easier and funnier. Let your sex drive guide you or look into the different positions suggested in the users’ manual for lots of hours of pleasure and fun!

 

2 Cheapest

DOMINIX Deluxe Large Inflatable Wedge, Handcuff and Blindfold Set

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85/100
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75/100
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90/100
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Low

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0.0/5.0

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N/A

The DOMINIX Deluxe Large Inflatable Wedge, Handcuff and Blindfold Set is the cheapest bondage pillow available in the market. It’s an inflatable sex wedge with blindfold and attachable handcuffs for elevated play.

Of all the bondage pillows you can find, the DOMINIX Deluxe Large Inflatable Wedge, Handcuff and Blindfold Set is not pricey at all, thus making it ideal for couples that want to try bondage or restraining arts but prefer not to invest a lot of money in it.

This inflatable sex toy makes it easier to try new positions, enjoy a deeper penetration and better G-spot stimulation.  Add the detachable cuffs to the game together with the velvet-lined blindfold and you’ll take the whole sexual experience to the next level.

 

DOMINIX Deluxe Large Inflatable Wedge, Handcuff and Blindfold Set test
DOMINIX Deluxe Large Inflatable Wedge, Handcuff and Blindfold Set features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Inflatable Wedge if you...
Want to improve sexual play with your partner
Are interested in more support and lift for missionary position
Prefer a deeper penetration angle
Want to try new positions
Love bonding
You should NOT buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Inflatable Wedge if you...
are not into inflatable toys
are not interested in a wider range of sexual positions
DOMINIX Deluxe Large Inflatable Wedge, Handcuff and Blindfold Set features
Features
Length13 inches
Width35 inches
Height24.5 inches
MaterialsVelvet-lined blindfold 
Pros
Velvet-lined blindfold
Cheapest bondage pillow
Explore new positions
Perfect for bonding and restraining arts
Cons
It's difficult to inflate
It's quite large once inflated
It can be difficult to store once inflated due to its size
Conclusion

Those interested in introducing bondage pillows to their sexual activity with a partner should definitely consider the DOMINIX Deluxe Large Inflatable Wedge, Handcuff and Blindfold Set. It’s the cheapest bondage pillow available and it makes exploring new sexual positions easier and more comfortable.

The DOMINIX Deluxe Large Inflatable Wedge, Handcuff and Blindfold Set is not easy to inflate and it’s quite large in size. However, it guarantees you deep penetration and perfect G-spot stimulation.  If you are interested in bondage and restraining arts, take advantage of its handcuffs and blindfold set!

3 Beginner

Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit (8 Piece)

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80/100
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70/100
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87/100
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Low

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The Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit (8 Piece) is a bondage pillow perfect for those who are new to bondage and BDSM play. This 8-piece kit invites curious and playful couples of any sexuality or gender to start experiencing with bondage.

This bondage pillow and kit comes with velcro cuffs and quick-release clips to keep play safe. It’s a super versatile kit as all straps and cuffs are adjustable and tailorable for a super comfort and senxual experience at all times.

The Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit (8 Piece) is ideal for playful couples and for those who don’t like boring sex!

 

Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit (8 Piece) test
Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit (8 Piece) features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit if you...
new to bondage
love trying new positions
are looking for a sex toy for all genders and sexualitiies
want to play safe bondage
You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit if you...
are not interested in bondage
need instructions on how to use the different items in the set
the swing is not ideal for more curvaceous lady
Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit (8 Piece) features
Features
MaterialsFaux fur and velcro 
FasteningVelcro and quick-release clips 
Pros
Perfect for all genders and sexualities
Great for beginners
Adjustable straps and tailorable cuffs
Velcro cuffs and quick-release clips keep play safe
Cons
Straps may not be tight enough for all users
Some users couldn't find the instructions
Swing is not ideal for curvaceous ladies
Conclusion

If you are new to bondage, the Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit (8 Piece) bondage pillow should be your next purchase. It’s a super complete set that includes a satin blindfold, velcro-fastened wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs, a sex position wedge and much more.

Cuff and restraints are soft and can be quickly released to keep play safe. The Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit (8 Piece) is one of the best bondage pillows for beginners. Playful and inquisitive couples of all genders and sexualities can be assured to enjoy hourson end of sexual play!

4

Liberator Black Label Hipster with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers

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93/100
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84/100
Quality:

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94/100
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Low

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0.0/5.0

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N/A

The Liberator Black Label Hipster with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers is an ideal bondage pillow for couples who are interested in exploring their kinkier side in a safe way.

Made of firm-foam core and with a moisture-resistant cover, the Liberator Black Label Hipster with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers is a bondage pillow that helps couples take their sexual sessions to the next level. Its high and low curves stimulate arousal, cuffs can be easily attached for soft bondage play, and the whole wedge make missionary position and doggie stlyle sex more intense.

 

Liberator Black Label Hipster with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers  test
Liberator Black Label Hipster with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers  features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Liberator Black Label Hipster if you...
want to explore your kinkier side
love trying new positions
love bondage, BDSM and playful restraint
want a sex toy to share with your partner
You should NOT buy the Liberator Black Label Hipster if you...
are not interested in bondage
are looking for less pricey bondage pillows
don't like having fun while having sex
Liberator Black Label Hipster with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers  features
Features
MaterialsMicrofiber cover- Fully supportive polyurethane foam, polyester liner 
FasteningVelcro and quick-release clips 
Length33 inches
Width24 inches
Height10 inches
Pros
For safe bondage and playful restraints
Made of top quality materials
Excellent design
Ideal for playful couples that love strong sensations
Cons
Only available in black
Expensive bondage pillow
Conclusion

Soft to the touch but firm to lie on it, the Liberator Black Label Hipster with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers is an interesting bondage pillow for playful couples. Its an ideal complement to enhance the sexual experience of couples interested in enjoying more intense sensations.

The curves of the Liberator Black Label Hipster with Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold and Tethers ensure great support to the back or the arms for missionary or doggy-style sex, and if you love giving and receiving oral sex, it also provides excellent support to the legs and your neck won’t hurt either!

Queening Chair with Restraints

Sitting on your partner’s face is easier and more comfortable with the Master Series Queening Chair with Restraints. Made of wood, PU leather and metal, the Master Series Queening Chair with Restraints is an interesting addition to any of the bondage pillows profesionally reviewed above.

 

 

 

BDSM Sex Bench

The Obedience Extreme Sex Bench is an interesting piece of sex furniture that complements perfectly any of the bondage pillows reviewed above. Has your partner misbehaved? Ask him or her to lie on the bench and spank them! Are you into deep penetration? The Obedience Extreme Sex Bench makes it easier and more pleasant for both of you!

 

 

The Ultimate Bondage Furniture

The Black Label Esse is a luxurious piece of furniture that is ideal for bondage play.  It is a perfect match to a bondage pillow as it facilitates playful restrain, bondage and BDSM with your partner.

How To Create Your Own Bondage Pillow

If a commercial bondage pillow is off your budget but you are really interested in adding one to your sexual repertoire, then this DIY bondage pillow can be a good way to test the grounds and see if it really works for you and your partner.

Keep in mind that this DIY bondage pillow is probably not waterproof and it will sink in on excess weight.

 

Buy High Quality Foam

Buy High Quality Foam

Buy High Quality Foam

Buy high quality foam and cut it into a wedge shape or cut
multiple pieces to create a wedge shape

Stick the Foam Together

Stick the Foam Together

Stick the Foam Together

Use a bit of gorilla glue to stick the blocks of foam together. Once applied, press the foam together.

Leave it to dry completely.

Cut It Into Shape

Cut It Into Shape

Cut It Into Shape

Cut the block of foam into the shape of a wedge. You can use a framing square to get a perfect triangle.

Having a 27° angle is the optimal angle incline!

Foam can be hard to cut. You may have to use a sharp knife such as chef’s knife.

Make Your Own Waterproof Wedge

Make Your Own Waterproof Wedge

Make Your Own Waterproof Wedge

An unused yoga mat can help you make your bondage pillow waterproof.

Cut the mat into shape and sew it as if you were creating a sleeve for your wedge.

Pulled the sleeve over the foam, make the cuts you need and stitch the entire thing shut.

 

 

Make it Soft to the Touch

Make it Soft to the Touch

Make it Soft to the Touch

Since the yoga mat may not be soft enough to the touch, you can cover it with a smooth piece of clothing such as velvet for the outmost sensual experience with your homemade bondage pillow.

How to Use A Bondage Pillow

Bondage pillows are super versatile sex toys. Adding a bondage pillow to your sexual repertoire makes it easier and fun to spice up your sexual repertoire.

How to Use A Bondage Pillow

Couples Play

Couples Play

A bondage pillow is ideal  for couples play and to explore a wider range of sexual positions in a comfortable manner.

Internal Stimulation

How to Use A Bondage Pillow

Reaching your partner’s P-spot or G-spot is easier with a bondage pillow.

The wedge shape of the bondage pillow provides the right angle for deep internal stimulation.

 

How to Use A Bondage Pillow
How to Use A Bondage Pillow

BDSM & Bondage Play

BDSM & Bondage Play

Needless to say, a bondage pillow is the ideal partner for BDSM and bondage play.

Most bondage pillows come with wrist cuffs and blindfold for a sensual bondage session.

How to clean a Bondage Pillow

Sex is fun and bondage can be kinkier but your bondage pillow should never be dirty. 1- Remove the soft cloth cover of your bondage pillow and put it in the washing machine. 2- Use a damp cloth to clean the waterproof surface of the bondage pillow. Pat it dry with a dry cloth.

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
materials

Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.

Author
Mariana Sarceda
Mariana Sarceda
Age: 30
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Hetero
Sex toy experience: Intermediate
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