The 3 Best Bondage Yokes for Spreading and Securing

Josh Gill
by Josh Gill
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Let’s talk about bondage yokes! They’re a fun BDSM accessory that people absolutely love, and that’s why we’ve decided to look at 3 of the absolute best yokes out there! In this review we’re going to be looking at the good, the bad, and the ugly of each, all in hopes of helping you find the ideal bondage tool for you! We even include a few extra accessories, plus a few hints and hits! Got any questions about bondage yokes? Don’t be afraid to ask them! We’re happy to help – especially if it helps improve your sex life!
Test winnerBeginnerHarness
Stockroom Adjustable Yoke
Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set
Bondage Boutique Harness
Stockroom Adjustable YokeBondage Boutique Collar and Cuff SetBondage Boutique Harness
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How we tested the best bondage yokes

Testing bondage yokes was an absolute pleasure – not only for us but also our sex toy testers and army of freelancers! Firstly our freelancers provided some invaluable info on the yokes that we were reviewing. They weren’t afraid to give some honest, unbiased, and truthful critiques. Perfect! Our sex toy testing team broke the yokes down, looking at all aspects of them, from the positive high points to the negative low points. Once we’d spent tens of hours researching, testing, and studying these BDSM bad boys, we were able to put together our well-informed, well-thought-out, and thorough review!

How we tested the best bondage yokes

FAQ

Do bondage yokes hurt?
No, they shouldn't do. While they are designed to hold you firmly and tightly, they are also designed to be comfortable and easy to wear. If there is any pain or discomfort while using your bondage yokes, you should stop using it immediately!
Where can I buy bondage yokes?
Right here, by following the links that we've included in this review! We love to work alongside several of the most awesome and reliable sex toy shops around. So when you click on those links and get directed to those shops, you can be assured that they are some of the best in the business!
Can I make my own DIY Bondage Yoke?
You can, in theory. HOWEVER we would always recommend buying from a professional manufacturer of bondage yokes. Their yokes have been tries, tested, and certified as safe and okay to be used as vigorously as you want. One that you've made at home might break and cause some harm!

What are bondage yokes?

Bondage yokes are a kind of BDSM item used to restrain whoever is wearing it. They often prevent them from moving their arms or legs, and include a collar for around the neck. All kinds of things can be attached to the yokes via the D-rings that many of them include, meaning they can be combined with other BDSM toys for extra fun! Some bondage yokes are designed for the upper body/arms only, while others are aimed more at full-body restriction. They are a real turn on, and loved by BDSM fans around the world!

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The 3 Best bondage yokes in Test

1 Test winner

Stockroom Adjustable Yoke

Design:

Rating: Stockroom Adjustable Yoke was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bondage yoke.

85/100
Ease of Use:

Rating: Stockroom Adjustable Yoke was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
Quality:

Rating: Stockroom Adjustable Yoke was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

90/100
Price:

Rating: Stockroom Adjustable Yoke was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

Medium
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Bedbible rating:

Rating: Stockroom Adjustable Yoke was rated 4.5 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The Bedbible rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. 1 indicates a very bad product, while 5 indicate a very good product. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Stockroom Adjustable Yoke.

4.5/5.0

User rating:

Rating: Stockroom Adjustable Yoke was rated 0 out of 5, which means it is a very bad product.

What it is: The User rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. The score is an aggregated rating of all online ratings. We find and aggregate all ratings based on a weighting system that takes into account how many reviews are available at each source.

N/A

Stockroom Adjustable Yoke is a simple yet exciting BDSM accessory that is made up of a metal bar, two leather fleece-lined bondage wrist cuffs, and a fleece-lined leather collar. It keeps your arms in a raised position, away from your body, not allowing you to have much of a range of movement no matter how hard you try! The length of each side of the yoke is adjustable, so you can make sure that it fits you perfectly. It also disassembles into three pieces making it extra easy to store and transport.

Stockroom Adjustable Yoke test
Stockroom Adjustable Yoke features
Recommended for the beginner and intermediate

The Stockroom Adjustable Yoke was rated 40 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Stockroom Adjustable Yoke if you...
You should buyEnjoy this kind of bondage device
You should buyLove the feel of high quality steel and leather
You should buyWant a yoke that can be easily stored away
You should NOT buy the Stockroom Adjustable Yoke if you...
You should NOT buyThis kind of bondage device doesn't do it for you
You should NOT buyDon't like things around your throat
You should NOT buyAre looking for a more affordable yoke
Stockroom Adjustable Yoke features
Features
MaterialsMetal and leather 
LengthBetween 30 inches and 37.5 inches
Width(Wrists) up to 2.86 inches, (collar) up to 5.09 inches
Pros
ProsSimple and clean design
ProsEasy to put on and remove
ProsHigh quality materials
ProsBreaks apart for storage/transoprt
Cons
ConsQuite expensive
ConsLocks/snap hooks sold separately
ConsNot the most exciting thing ever
Conclusion

If you want something that’s customizable, easy and comfortable to wear, and made out of premium materials, then the Stockroom Adjustable Yoke is just the thing for you. Because of the overall quality of it, it’s fine to wear for as long as you need to wear it. The materials are easy to clean and feel as great as they look. The main issue is that the Stockroom Adjustable Yoke doesn’t come with any locks or snap hooks to fasten the actual wrist straps or collar, rendering the whole thing a little bit pointless. The locks/snap hooks are sold separately, and while they don’t cost much, you would think that they would be included with the yolk itself!

2 Beginner

Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set

Design:

Rating: Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bondage yoke.

80/100
Ease of Use:

Rating: Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
Quality:

Rating: Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

80/100
Price:

Rating: Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other bondage yokes.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

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Bedbible rating:

Rating: Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The Bedbible rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. 1 indicates a very bad product, while 5 indicate a very good product. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set.

5.0/5.0

User rating:

Rating: Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set was rated 4.5 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The User rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. The score is an aggregated rating of all online ratings. We find and aggregate all ratings based on a weighting system that takes into account how many reviews are available at each source.

4.5/5.0

Sources
Rating star4.5/5Lovehoney.com (17)

The Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set features adjustable restraints that allow you to take your bondage play to the next level. It consists of a buckle-fastened adjustable collar and cuff restraints that are tailored to fit most people. There are three D-rings on the collar plus one on each cuff to which you can attach the 32 inch lead. And if you need to get out of the Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set in a hurry, it also has a quick release clip for fast removal! Perfect for all you playing options!

Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set test
Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set features
Recommended for the beginner and intermediate

The Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set was rated 40 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set if you...
You should buyWant a yoke that allows a little movement
You should buyLove adjustable and comfortable collars
You should buyAre looking for an affordable BDSM yoke
You should NOT buy the Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set if you...
You should NOT buyAre looking for stronger wrist restraints
You should NOT buyNeed the chains to be a little longer
You should NOT buyDon't want the collar and cuffs to be attached
Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set features
Features
MaterialsFaux leather 
Length20.5 inches
Width(Wrists) up to 3.02 inches, (collar) up to 5.57 inches
Pros
ProsSuper adjustable
ProsQuick release clips
ProsVery affordable
Cons
ConsNot the strongest restraints
ConsChains could be longer
ConsNot for more experienced users
Conclusion

If you want a bondage yoke that has all you need in it for your first time, the Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set has your back. It has a collar, cuffs, chains, clips, buckles, and D-rings, all of which can be used in various ways to customize your naughty experience. It gives you enough freedom that you have some movement, but it’s still unforgiving enough to ensure that you don’t get too carried away thinking you have your freedom! Granted, it might not be the first choice for those that are more experienced with bondage yokes: The restraints aren’t the strongest, and the chains could be a little longer, but these are only nitpicks really. But overall thought the Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set is a great and super affordable starter set if you’re just wanting to try out BDSM yokes!

3 Harness

Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Harness

Design:

Rating: Bondage Boutique Harness was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bondage yoke.

85/100
Ease of Use:

Rating: Bondage Boutique Harness was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

70/100
Quality:

Rating: Bondage Boutique Harness was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

85/100
Price:

Rating: Bondage Boutique Harness was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

Low
Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
Bedbible rating:

Rating: Bondage Boutique Harness was rated 4.5 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The Bedbible rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. 1 indicates a very bad product, while 5 indicate a very good product. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Bondage Boutique Harness.

4.5/5.0

User rating:

Rating: Bondage Boutique Harness was rated 5.0 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The User rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. The score is an aggregated rating of all online ratings. We find and aggregate all ratings based on a weighting system that takes into account how many reviews are available at each source.

5.0/5.0

Sources

The Bondage Boutique Harness is an upper-body bondage yoke made out of an incredible looking/feeling faux snakeskin. It is fully adjustable at the neck, wrists and waist to ensure that it will fit people of all shapes and sizes, and despite its design it can be work in a couple of different ways: firstly you can wear it down your back to keep the hands cuffed behind the body, and secondly you can wear it down the front of your body if you want to mix up your positioning. There are also plenty of D-rings along the harness which allow you to clip a lead to your sub! See – you have a lot of naughty options!

Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Harness test
Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Harness features
Recommended for the intermediate user

The Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Harness was rated 60 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Bondage Boutique Harness if you...
You should buyWant an excellent quality bondage yoke
You should buyRequire some sturdy heavy duty clips
You should buyNeed it to fit people of all shapes and sizes
You should NOT buy the Bondage Boutique Harness if you...
You should NOT buyWant something better sized
You should NOT buyDon't enjoy this level of bondage
You should NOT buyAre looking for something cheaper
Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Harness features
Features
MaterialsFaux Leather 
Length(Lead) 44.5 inches
Width(Wrists) up to 2.7 inches, (collar) up to 5.49 inches, (waist) up to 13.68 inches
FasteningBuckles 
AllergiesLatex-free, phthalate-free  
Pros
ProsGreat looking snakeskin design
ProsCan be worn in multiple ways
ProsAdaptable and customizable
Cons
ConsMight not fit everyone perfectly
ConsCuffs attached by chains - not a pole
ConsNot ideal for those that prefer steely cuffs
Conclusion

For the price you pay, the Bondage Boutique Harness is an exciting and erotic choice. It’s a yolk that is made out of a faux snakeskin material, with metal hardware, and believe us when we say that the combination of the two feels fantastic! It’s great that you can wear it in a variety of ways, and the number of D-clips on it makes it easily customizable. You could even add some other bits and pieces from your bedroom arsenal, if you really wanted to! The harness might not fit everyone though, despite being pretty adjustable. Also, it may offer a little too much freedom in come configurations. Still, it’s a worthy contender to consider when looking for a bondage yoke!

Comparison of the 3 best bondage yokes

Stockroom Adjustable Yoke
Stockroom Adjustable Yoke
Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set
Bondage Boutique Collar and Cuff Set
Bondage Boutique Harness
Bondage Boutique Harness
BestTest winner Beginner Harness
Overall score- 4.8 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.5 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0
User rating- 4.5 / 5.0
from 17 users
5 / 5.0
from 18 users
PriceMedium Low Low
Design85 / 100 80 / 100 85 / 100
Ease of use90 / 100 90 / 100 70 / 100
Quality90 / 100 80 / 100 85 / 100
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MaterialsMetal and leather Faux leather Faux Leather
LengthBetween 30 inches and 37.5 inches20.5 inches(Lead) 44.5 inches
Width(Wrists) up to 2.86 inches, (collar) up to 5.09 inches(Wrists) up to 3.02 inches, (collar) up to 5.57 inches(Wrists) up to 2.7 inches, (collar) up to 5.49 inches, (waist) up to 13.68 inches
Fastening--Buckles
Allergies--Latex-free, phthalate-free
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The Most Stylish BDSM Yoke Around

So the bondage yokes we’ve seen so far are cool looking, sometimes a little brutal and tortuous looking…but what about something stylish? That’s right – you can get stylish bondage yokes too! Just take a look at this one!

Sex and Metal Secretary Yoke

Sex and Metal Secretary Yoke

Sex and Metal Secretary Yoke

If you’re wanting something classy, then the Sex and Metal Secretary Yoke is a great choice. Why? Because not only does it feature an industrial design aesthetic, but also it has an artisan craftsmanship edge that really makes it stand out from the crowd. The cherry red steel neck is attached to a collar and two wrist straps. Everything is fully adjustable too, meaning you can make it fit no matter what size you are! The collar and cuffs can even be detached from the pole to be used separately, so no matter what kind of fun you want, this classy bad boy is here to please!

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Using a Bondage Yoke Safely

Bondage yokes are amazingly fun, naughty, and exciting! That’s just a fact! But when you’re using them it’s super important to keep safety at the forefront of your mind, no matter how horny you are! So let’s go through how to use your bondage yokes safely!

Find something you're both comfortable using!

Find something you're both comfortable using!

Find something you're both comfortable using!

Not everyone has the same experience level when it comes to bondage yokes. Finding something that suits both you AND your partner is essential to having good BDSM bondage fun!

Make sure you get their informed consent!

Make sure you get their informed consent!

Make sure you get their informed consent!

Before strapping your partner into the bondage yoke, make sure that you talk with them and you both understand what is about to happen. You both need to know what you’re getting into and what kind of thing to expect. It’s pretty vital that you’re both on the same page!

Establish a safeword!

Establish a safeword!

Establish a safeword!

As we’re sure you can imagine, being in a bondage yoke for quite some time can get a little bit taxing and tiring – no matter how fun it is! So if you ever need to stop and take a break, you need to establish a safeword. THat is, a word that when spoken indicates that you need to stop and take a break. If you hear your partner calling out the safeword you need to stop whatever you’re doing straight away and take them out of the yoke!

Aftercare is important too!

Aftercare is important too!

Aftercare is important too!

Looking after your bondage yokes is important if you want to be able to use them time and time again. So after each and every use it’s important to check that everything is still working as it should be and there’s nothing that could cause any damage or harm. This is an easy enough task to do while cleaning up!

How to use bondage yokes

Bondage yokes look kind of scary and intimidating at first, don’t they! But they’re actually not that scary, and using them isn’t too tricky. But we’re going to go through a few of the main points, just in case you do have any questions about using your yoke.

How to use bondage yokes

Make sure your bondage yoke is good to go!

Make sure your bondage yoke is good to go!

Before anyone gets strapped into the bondage yoke, it is important to ensure that the yoke is in perfect condition and good to go. Check everything is working, that you have all you need, and that there’s nothing that will cause any harm or damage. When you’re happy that everything looks good…it’s time to get to work!

Check that you're both on the same page!

How to use bondage yokes

It’s always a good idea to make sure you’re both on the same page regarding what’s going to be happening while using the yoke. Having that informed consent means you both understand what kind of thing you’re going to be getting up to, and agree that you both want to do it!

How to use bondage yokes
How to use bondage yokes

Attach the bondage yoke and have fun!

Attach the bondage yoke and have fun!

It’s time to get that bondage yoke strapped on! Make sure that you adjust it, so it’s comfortable for you (or your sub). It’s all about having fun and restricting their movements, but comfort is also a priority too. No one’s going to be that turned on if they are in pain or uncomfortable while wearing something! And don’t forget to have fun!

Know when to stop!

How to use bondage yokes

Understanding each other’s limits is essential when using bondage yokes. You both need to understand when enough is enough. That’s part of the reason why you need to establish a safety word and respect your partner’s decision if they choose to say it. It ensures that everything remains safe and fun, and that no one is pushed further than they want to go.

How to use bondage yokes

How to clean bondage yokes

Just think about all the exciting stuff you and your partner get up to when a bondage yoke is involved! The chances of it getting a bit dirty are fairly high - that's why you need to make sure that you keep it clean! Here are a few handy resources that will help you keep your bondage yoke sanitized and hygienic!

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
materials

Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.

Author
Josh Gill
Josh Gill

As a trained journalist and a freelance writer, I never thought I’d fall into writing about sex toys. But here I am, and I must say, I’m glad I’m here! There’s a whole world of sex toys out there that can be enjoyed by men, women, and everything in between, and if I can get across my passions via my writing, then I’m certainly doing something right! Everyone loves sex, and everyone should be able to express that love however they want and with whomever they choose. Besides, who says men can’t enjoy sex toys too? Certainly not me!

Age: 34
Gender: Male
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Intermediate
All-time favorite sex toy: Fleshlight Review
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