Dame – The 8 Best Beautiful and Powerful Vibrators
Why You Should Trust Our Reviews of Dame Vibrators
Having tested over 300 products, we’d like to think we know a thing or two about sex toys! Our ultimate goal is to become “your one and only source on the journey to better sex”, which means that the recommendations we provide need to be good ones: no uninformed listicles here! As such, you can trust that every product we recommend will be worth your hard-earned money, but don’t worry, we won’t sugarcoat everything. Instead, we write completely transparent reviews, highlighting both the positives and the negatives of each product. This gives you the ideal expectations, preparing you for the product before it even shows up at your door! After all, we certainly don’t want you to be disappointed with your new toy. If you read the article all the way through, you won’t be!
Types of Dame Vibrators
- Clitoral Vibrator – Designed specifically for clitoral stimulation, these travel-sized toys are perfect for those well-deserved solo sessions!
- G-Spot – If intense, targeted g-spot stimulation sounds like a dream come true, then one of these will surely be worth grabbing. Your dildo might do the job eventually, but these vibes can do it better!
- Clitoral Suction – Try something new with a clit sucker toy. Unlike many other toys, these vibes don’t actually touch your clitoris. Instead, they use air pressure to mimic the sensation of oral stimulation!
- Finger – Whether your partner needs a bit of assistance or you just desire something more, a finger vibrator is the perfect addition to both your alone time and your partner play!
- Wand – Enjoy the classic wand vibrator, fully refined to the standard of all Dame sex toys with strong vibrations, a plethora of functions, and a flexible neck to boot!
What is a Dame vibrator?
Dame vibrators are made for both form and function. They're pretty, not too intimidating, designed to work with your body, and they can pack a serious punch. Dame—founded in 2014—makes wearable and lipstick clitoral vibrators, internal vibrators, and internal/external vibrators. Dame vibrators are made by women, for women, and no matter your preferences, you're sure to find something that works well for you. Beyond personal toys, Dame makes toys designed for couples as well.
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The 8 Best Dame vibrators in Test
Dame Eva II Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator
The Eva II is a great hands-free wearable vibrator for solo use or wearing during foreplay and sex. This wearable clit vibrator has different speeds, and the arms keep the toy in position so that it stays right on your clit. However, don’t let this hold you back. You can pace Eva II anywhere you’d like to feel some string vibrations, like testicles or nipples.
Eva II is expensive compared to other similar toys, and she only has three vibration patterns, which the more advanced or adventurous might find disappointing.
The Eva II is a great wearable clit vibrator for those who enjoy powerful, concentrated vibes. If you’re not looking to burn a hole in your wallet, you might want to steer clear, but this could be a great choice if you are specifically looking to invest in a wearable vibrator. Eva II is great for couple play, but you could also use her for some hands-free solo pleasure with a choice of three different vibrations.
The Eva II can occasionally slip out of place during playtime, so you may find that you have to hold her in place with a finger or a pillow between your legs if you’re rocking doggy style.
Dame Arc G-Spot Vibrator
The Arc from Dame is a top g-spot vibrator. Its classic, simple design houses a powerful motor and deep, intense vibrations that make for some mind-blowing orgasms. This toy features a curved silicone shaft that is comfortable to hold, and you will enjoy playing with different angles to find the one that will make you purr. Use the easy buttons to explore the five different vibration patterns, each with five intensities. It’s a great toy to use alone or with a partner, and for some wet and wild times, you can bring it with you in the shower or bath.
The Arc by Dame is sleek, elegant and, most importantly, powerful. It may take a little time to find exactly which angles work best for you initially. Experienced users will love the silicone tip that you can use for more concentrated vibrations. However, it’s not the most budget-friendly. If you’re not looking to break the bank, the Arc may not suit you. Also, this vibrator can be pretty noisy when you get up to the highest vibrations, so you may need to wait until you have the house to yourself before playtime. If you like the idea of intense G-Spot stimulators, check out this roundup.
Dame Pom Soft Touch Clitoral Vibrator
The Dame Pom Soft Touch clitoral vibrator has an ergonomic design intended to fit perfectly in the palm of your hand. This clitoral vibrator has five vibration intensities, which each have five vibration speeds. Play with the toy all over your body and discover how those vibes feel on nipples! This toy is perfect for solo masturbation but can be lots of fun with one (or more) friends, too.
You can choose between an eye-catching Jade green or a sensual purple. Make sure to clean thoroughly after each use, especially around the shallow grooves on the toy, with warm, soapy water.
This small, travel-sized vibrator has five intensities and five vibrating speed patterns, so you’ll have lots to explore and discover. The Dame Pom is an ideal vibrator for beginners because you can experiment with these patterns at your own pace.
Press the tip into your clitoris to begin stimulation. It’s waterproof, so you can take this toy into the shower or bath for some me-time. Plus, it’s super compact, so you can easily slip it into your luggage when you travel. Whilst it’s pretty pricey, you get what you pay for. The Dame Pom is made from medical grade silicone, safe for the body and easy to clean.
If you’re looking for more wearable clitoral toys to use during penetrative sex, then check out our roundup here.
Kip Lipstick Vibrator by Dame
Kip’s prism shape and soft silicone allow it to sit comfortably in your hand like an ergonomic pencil, so you can deliver vibrations precisely where you want them to go. It’s the perfect size for travel and comes with a discreet little bag, so you can bring this baby with you wherever you go! And it has a travel lock, so you don’t have to worry about any incriminating buzzing coming out of your handbag.
The controls enable you to move up and down through the settings, so if you miss your favourite, you don’t have to cycle through them all to get back to it. Five intensities, each with five speeds, give you plenty of options for knee-trembling orgasms.
Kip Lipstick by Dame is a high-quality small clit vibrator perfect for both beginners and more experienced users. Its surfaces give you lots of options for both precise and broad stimulation, and the easy to use controls will ensure smooth vibrations without frustrations.
Kip is perfect for solo play and can be used with a partner. The pointed tip of the toy can be jabby at the wrong angles, so be gentle while you find what works for you. Overall, it’s a great vibrator with a variety of functions and patterns, and you can carry it around with you in your purse!
AER Silicone Rechargeable Pressure Wave Suction Toy
The Aer Pressure Wave aims to mimic the flutter of a tongue and the suction of a mouth by blasting your clitoris with rhythmic pulses of air. Its intuitive shape allows you to experiment with different angles until you find what works for you. The sucker has five intensity levels and five patterns, and though it definitely brings the intensity, the Aer is not too rough. However, we suggest starting at the lowest intensity while you get comfortable with the toy.
Are you curious about which would win in a sexual smackdown; a clit licker or clit sucker? Read our take here.
This fantastic little clit sucker is sure to give you a wild ride! With 25 different patterns to choose from, you’ll be blissfully preoccupied for hours. The toy is compact and comes in a discreet periwinkle blue bag, making it the perfect little travel companion. Plus, it’s waterproof! So you can play with it in the shower to start your day off with a bang.
When starting out with this toy, make sure to go slow and be gentle with yourself while you work out your best angles.
The Fin Finger Vibrator by Dame
Are you looking to spice up your sex life? We have a helping hand for you! The Fin Finger is a fun little toy that you can take anywhere with you and use to turn up the heat in any sexual situation.
The Fin slips perfectly onto your fingers so that you can direct your vibrations as you please. If you’d prefer to feel the vibrations through your fingers, you can slide Fin down the back of your fingers and harness it to your knuckles, and you will get a quieter buzz. During masturbation, you can buckle Fin to the base of your fingers so that it presses up against your clit while your fingers roam further south.
Available in beautiful jade or navy blue.
If you want to spice up your solo play or enhance foreplay, the Fin Finger vibrator is a must. It fits ring sizes 4-12 and is perfect for beginners to clitoral vibrators. But don’t just stop there! Let Fin roam all over your body and find tantalizing places to tease. Fin’s vibrations feel good against nipples, testicles, ticklish spots, and you need to go and find out where else! Fin is best used where noise isn’t a concern and is ideal for those that love gentle vibrations.
Zee Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator by Dame
Whoever said dynamite comes in small packages must have been talking about the Zee Bullet by Dame. Zee is small and straightforward but not too simple. It comes with three different speeds, so you can choose what feels best for you without having to cycle through a ton of settings you don’t use. We love the tapered tip for pinpoint pleasure, but we also enjoyed changing the angle for broader, more rumbly vibrations. Its size is also perfect for slipping into the back of your dildo to create a gentle vibrator. What can’t this little bullet do?
Zee is waterproof, so you can bring it into the shower with you to steam things up! And when you run out of battery, Zee is super easy to charge with any USB cable, so you’ll be up and running again in no time.
If you’re looking for more weird and wonderful ways to use a bullet, check out our guide here.
This little dynamite bullet is the perfect toy for any occasion! Take it with you wherever you go, and use Zee to spice up your solo play or bring some buzzy vibes to your foreplay. Zee can be used in the shower, on a plane, against your clitoris, or your nipples- the possibilities are endless!
Some more experienced bullet users may find the gentle vibrations a bit too mild, but as a handy, versatile toy, this one checks all of our boxes.
The Com Wand Vibrator by Dame
This versatile wand can be used as a sensual, erotic vibrator or body massager after a tense day. Those vibrations are strong, so we suggest getting a feel for the different settings and experimenting with pressure on your hand before moving this beast anywhere near your sensitive clitoris.
Com’s flexible neck contours to your curves and lets you rest your arms to work your magic at the perfect angle. Com’s ergonomic handle also makes it easy to hold in place during intercourse.
If you’re interested in some smaller, less intimidating wands, check out our roundup here.
In our opinion, we saved the best for last. This fiesty bedroom beast is a marvel to behold and will have you moaning like a jungle cat in no time. This is definitely not the toy you want for a long, slow session. This toy gets results fast.
A sensationally filling girth and an ergonomic handle that helps you reach any angle you can imagine make for a rip-roaring ride with the Com Wand Vibrator. Not only that, but at the end of a long, hard day, you can use this bad boy to massage your aching shoulder muscles.
The Com loses points because it only lasts for an hour of play on a full charge (though honestly, with the intense vibrations of this hefty machine, we don’t think our wrists could manage much longer anyway!)
Find Your Perfect Position
As we’ve just seen, Dame has got you covered no matter what kind of vibrator you’re after. Not only that, but they want to help you reach all of the perfect angles, too.
Dame's Collection of Care and Wellness Products...
Not only does Dame have your back (and front!) covered for the sexy stuff, they’ve also got whatever lotions and potions you need to ensure everyone, and everything is clean, comfortable, and well lubricated.
Why are Dame Products So Expensive?
We’ve found that certain toys out there are cheaper than Dame, and they get the job done. However, Dame is a company of women making toys for women, and they listen to what their customers want. The extra you pay for Dame is reflected in their ergonomic, body-safe, durable, quality products. Their toys are made from high-grade ABS plastic and medical-grade silicone to ensure you are safe.
Dame Products often hosts sales or deals, so if the price still seems too much to pay, you could keep an eye on your favourite toys online and snatch them up at a discount.
Who is Dame?
Dame Products is a young female-run sex toy company based in Brooklyn, NY. It is owned by Alexandra Fine, the Co-Founder and CEO of Dame Products. In 2014 Fine tamed up with mechanical engineer, Janet Lieberman, to launch Dame Products, “a line of vibrators for women (by women) that are aimed at closing the pleasure gap.”
Alexandra Fine, Co-Founder and CEO of Dame Products
How to use Dame Vibrators
This article features a range of vibrators that can be used in creative ways. External vibrators are mostly designed to stimulate the clitoris and labia but can also be used on other sensitive areas like the nipples. Internal vibrators are designed to stimulate inside the vagina, or anally if they have a flared base. And some of them are pretty good shoulder massagers, too!
We’ve compiled everything you need to know if you’re new to the wild and wonderful world of vibrators. If you’d like to dive deeper, read our guide here.
First things first, before you use a vibrator, lube up! With intense vibrations, lubricating both you and your toy before play is a must. It stops any friction and makes insertion easier and more comfortable. Don’t forget to use only water-based lube with silicone toys.
Set the Scene
Create a sexy and safe environment for yourself or you and your partner(s). The orgasmic waves rocking through your body always feel better when you feel comfortable and in the mood.
Don’t limit yourself! explore your whole body with your toy and see where vibrations might feel good. Maybe hand the reins to a partner and allow them to tease you and please you all night.
There are a few ways to use Dame vibrators to stimulate the clitoris during sex. You could keep a rabbit vibrator internally and held over your clit externally while enjoying anal stimulation, or stimulating a partner. Another method is by using a wearable clit vibrator so that you are being stimulated continuously throughout sex. See what you like!
How to Clean Dame Vibrators
Dame produces some great sex toy cleaners that you can purchase alongside your toy. However, it is also sufficient to clean most toys with warm, soapy water (check instructions for electrical toys).
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.