The 11 Most Extreme BDSM Toys for the Toughest Kinksters
Have you outgrown all of your beginner and intermediate BDSM toys and are trying to find new accesories that excite you? Looking to step up your bondage game or engage in some high intensity impact play? Perhaps you’re looking for more intense gadgets to help stimulate your inner kinkster. You’re in luck! In this review, I have selected some of the best extreme BDSM toys and hardcore bondage gear for the toughest kinksters out there!
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How Were These Extreme BDSM Toys Tested?
Here at Bedbible, we try to apply all of our expertise towards creating these throrough reviews. We have written over 500 reviews of different kinds of sex toys as a company. We spend our hours here browsing through the jungle that is the world of sex toys and accessories, and have over time become quite the experts at reviewing and rating these sexual devices.
We also make a point of matching the right kind of gear to the right kind of user! Especially in these kind of reviews of more hardcore bondage gear. We do our best to give an estimate of which level of experience is best suited for a specific product and why. We take into consideration the price range, the materials, the quality, the design, and the feedback to give an overall rating.
Types of Extreme BDSM Toys
There are many different types of more hardcore bdsm gear out there. Here are few that we also have some products for exploring further down in the post!
- Bondage – There is a ton of extreme bondage equipment availbale to crank up your sexual restraint game! Hardcore bondage gear usually has the capacity to restrict your full body. Devices like BDSM crosses, bondage sleepsacks, bondage boards, and bondage yokes really allow you to submit yourself completely… or to dominate someone completely!
- Impact Play – Impact play is easy to intensify with the right kind of gear. Up your game with some more advanced BDSM whips and floggers to increase the sensations upon impact!
- E-stim – Toys for electrostimulation come in all sorts of shapes and sizes! For more intense e-stim sensations products like electric nipple clamps, electric dildos, electric butt plugs, or even electric prostate massagers might be just the thing for you!
- CBT – Cock and Ball Torture is an extreme BDSM classic! There are many creative designs for different accessories to put your pecker under pressure. Male chastity cages are always a hit in this category. Cock pillories, ball stretchers and ball crushers are great tools for engaging in intense CBT!
Reviews of the 11 best extreme bdsm toys
Sex Swing Screamer Dual Hook Sex Swing
Overall Rating
5.0/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
5/5.0
User Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 91 user reviews
Rating: Screamer Dual Hook Sex Swing was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the extreme bdsm toy.
Rating: Screamer Dual Hook Sex Swing was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Screamer Dual Hook Sex Swing was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: Screamer Dual Hook Sex Swing was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Screamer Dual Hook Sex Swing if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Explore endless suspended positions with this sturdy Screamer Sex Swing. The two strong mounting points and all-metal hardware provides a secure and sturdy foundation for all the fun. The sleek and comfortable design ensures both functionality and comfort for longer lasting sessions! With the adjustable and removable strap design, you can freely experiment with different kinds of positions. If you’re looking to use this sex swing to engage in some extreme bondage and BDSM, you can purchase the Screamer Bondage Swing Kit instead. Apart from the swing itself, this kit includes 4 leather cuffs with faux fur for your ankles and wrists along with 4 adjustable webbing strap for full control over your sub.
Pros
- ✅ Dual hook for secure suspension
- ✅ Wide base for comfortable seating
- ✅ Heavy duty springs included
Cons
- ❌ Mounting tools not included
My verdict
This sex swing is a great option for beginners to start their journey on suspended fun! This heavy duty swing will allow you to relax and feel comfortable and weightless as you experiment with new and fun positions and angles! The best part is that you’re easily able to get this swing in a bondage version with the Screamer Bondage Swing Kit! See how it feels to be teased and tortured in the air!
You should buy the Screamer Dual Hook Sex Swing if you...
- are looking for a sturdy beginner sex swing
- want to explore fun suspended positions
- want the option to add extra restraints
You should not buy the Screamer Dual Hook Sex Swing if you...
- prefer sex swings that mount on a door
- want a swing that is extra padded
Whip Flicker Whip
Overall Rating
5.0/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Flicker Whip was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the extreme bdsm toy.
Rating: Flicker Whip was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Flicker Whip was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: Flicker Whip was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Flicker Whip if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This sleek and thin flicker whip is not only elegant but also viciously precise! Beware of the delicious stingy feeling when whipping that braided tassel at the tip across your bare skin! The whip is 34 inches long and complete with a red leather covered handle for a comfortable grip while you’re relentlessly teasing and torturing your sub.
Pros
- ✅ Elegant and slim
- ✅ Powerful stingy sensation
- ✅ Comfortable grip
Cons
- ❌ Not super flexible
My verdict
This Flicker Whip is great way to amp up your impact play with some serious force and stingy sensation! If you’re on the lookout for an unyielding yet slim and elegant stinging whip to explore higher heights with, this long device may be for you! It is not the cheapest flicker whip available but you definitely get what you paid for in terms of quality and performance in this product.
You should buy the Flicker Whip if you...
- want a stingy sensation
- are looking for a longer whip
- enjoy intense impact play
You should not buy the Flicker Whip if you...
- prefer a milder impact
- want a thuddy sensation
Nipple Clamps Bondage Boutique Squeeze & Tease Nipple Clamps
Overall Rating
3.1/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
2/5.0
Reviewed by:
Katie ElizabethUser Ratings:
4.3/5.0
Based on 100 user reviews
Rating: Bondage Boutique Squeeze & Tease Nipple Clamps was rated 45 out of 100, which means it is designed well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the extreme bdsm toy.
Rating: Bondage Boutique Squeeze & Tease Nipple Clamps was rated 50 out of 100, which means it is somewhat intuitive and easy to use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Bondage Boutique Squeeze & Tease Nipple Clamps was rated 45 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Bondage Boutique Squeeze & Tease Nipple Clamps was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other extreme bdsm toys.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Bondage Boutique Squeeze & Tease Nipple Clamps ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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Looking for more extreme nipple clamps? These industrial-style clover clamps offer a firm squeeze on your sensitive nipples, making you yearn for the release. Non-adjustable for intense unyielding tightness for experienced kinksters. Each clamp has two rubber-tipped pinchers with a textured surface for extra stimulation. The wide surface area of the clip itself allows for better grip and control of the clamps.
Pros
- ✅ Easy to grip and control
- ✅ Textured tips for extra stimulation
- ✅ Strong pinching grip
- ✅ Unique style
- ✅ Chain can tolerate weight
- ✅ Adds high pain quickly
Cons
- ❌ Slighty small opening
- ❌ Short chain
- ❌ Not adjustable
- ❌ Bulky
My verdict
This is the perfect accessory for someone who has grown out of their beginner or intermediate adjustable nipple clamps and now looking for something even tighter with an unyielding grip. It becomes very intense very quick…
The non-adjustable design is made for more advanced kinksters who know which sensations they’re into and which boundaries they’re willing to explore in terms of pain and pinching on the nipples. Play around with tugging on the clamps once they’re on or try adding some weights for makeshift weighted nipple clamps!
You should buy the Bondage Boutique Squeeze & Tease Nipple Clamps if you...
- love a pinching sensation on your nipples
- want intense nipple play
- need your nipple clamps to stay put
- Enjoy intense pain
- Are an experienced pain player
- Are looking for something you can add weights/decorations/ additions to your nipple chains
- Would like an affordable option for your pain play
You should not buy the Bondage Boutique Squeeze & Tease Nipple Clamps if you...
- want your clamps to tighten when you pull the chain
- need adjustable pinchers
- Are new to pain play
- Are looking for an all-day wear clamp
- Don't enjoy intense pain
Sex Machine Hismith App-Controlled Premium Sex Machine
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Tawney SerenUser Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 99 user reviews
Rating: Hismith App-Controlled Premium Sex Machine was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the extreme bdsm toy.
Rating: Hismith App-Controlled Premium Sex Machine was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Hismith App-Controlled Premium Sex Machine was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: Hismith App-Controlled Premium Sex Machine was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I advise Hismith App-Controlled Premium Sex Machine for intermediate users, as it offers a good balance of complexity and learning potential.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This powerful and sturdy sex machine with a strong stainless stell frame provides you with trustworthy thrusts and impressive speeds to play with! The motions of the sex machine are easily controlled via the app for some remote control action. This also allows the user to share the controls with someone else – perfect for long-distance play!
Pros
- ✅ App-controlled
- ✅ Heavy duty automatic thrusting
- ✅ Powerful strokes
Cons
- ❌ Loud
- ❌ Takes up a lot of space
My verdict
Although this is more sturdy and extreme BDSM gear, it is also relatively accessible as the frame itself only weighs 25 lbs. Of course, it takes a up more space than most other sex toys and it might not be your most quiet thrusting item, but what else can you expect from a sex machine? This compact yet powerful machine that allows for remote (and long-distance) control really is an exciting device to step up your BDSM game and explore even more aspects of power play and submission!
You should buy the Hismith App-Controlled Premium Sex Machine if you...
- want to enjoy realistic thrusting without a partner
- want a powerful machine to use on your sub
- like app-controlled settings
You should not buy the Hismith App-Controlled Premium Sex Machine if you...
- don't have space for this large machine
- don't want to disturb roommates with the noise
- don't enjoy a thrusting motion
ElectroSex Kinklab Neon Wand ElectroSex Kit
Overall Rating
5.0/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
0/5.0
Based on 0 user reviews
Rating: Kinklab Neon Wand ElectroSex Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the extreme bdsm toy.
Rating: Kinklab Neon Wand ElectroSex Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Kinklab Neon Wand ElectroSex Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: Kinklab Neon Wand ElectroSex Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Kinklab Neon Wand ElectroSex Kit if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This lightweight Neon Wand Kit comes with 4 glass attachments for a varied sensation of skin contact to experiment with. This wand creates an erotic electric discharge on the surface on the skin when in contact. The intensity can easily be controlled via the dial on the wand itself or the preferred electrode you’re using. This delicious sensation can vary a lot, going from a mild warm tingling to a concentrated intense (sometimes pleasantly painful) feeling.
Pros
- ✅ 4 glass attachments for variation
- ✅ Lightweight wand (for longer sessions)
- ✅ Long power chord
- ✅ Elegant lighting in the glass probes
Cons
- ❌ Not as powerful or painful as other wands
My verdict
The fact that the highest settings on this wand still does not reach the often painful levels that other wands would, makes this Neon Wand accessible for beginners looking to explore e-stim sensation play but is also perfect for intermediate to advanced kinksters to use on more sensitive body parts. The lightweight design and the 4 attachments allow you to easily experiement with different sensation and different levels.
Remember! Do not use electro sex toys on people with heart conditions or pregnant people!
You should buy the Kinklab Neon Wand ElectroSex Kit if you...
- enjoy e-stim wands
- want to explore different sensations with attachments
- want to play with milder electrical sensations
You should not buy the Kinklab Neon Wand ElectroSex Kit if you...
- want more intense or painful e-stim toys
- don't enjoy e-stim sensation play
- have a pacemaker, a heart condition, or are pregnant
Ball Stretcher Ze Mango Magnetic Ball Stretcher
Overall Rating
5.0/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Ze Mango Magnetic Ball Stretcher was rated 94 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the extreme bdsm toy.
Rating: Ze Mango Magnetic Ball Stretcher was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Ze Mango Magnetic Ball Stretcher was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: Ze Mango Magnetic Ball Stretcher was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Ze Mango Magnetic Ball Stretcher if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This thick and weighty magnetic ball stretcher is made of sturdy stainless steel with a sleek matte finish. The rounded design makes for comfortable and visually impressive stretching device! With the simple snap-on, snap-off magnetic function to secure the stretcher around your scrotum, you’re free to do as you please without worrying about it staying in place. The simple design also allows for versatile use as it doubles as a cock ring!
Pros
- ✅ Sleek and elegant
- ✅ Weighted and comfortable
- ✅ Simple magnetic fastening
Cons
- ❌ Non-adjustable
My verdict
This is great ball stretcher for all levels of experience. Whether you’re a beginner ball stretcher or a more experienced user, this accessory is a great way to enjoy the feeling of stretching out in a comfortable and elegant way with a simple magnetic fastening that’s super easy to get in and out of. Although, if you’re more into extreme weighted or spiked stretchers with more constrictive designs, this may be a bit simple for you.
You should buy the Ze Mango Magnetic Ball Stretcher if you...
- are looking for a simple ball stretcher
- want a secure fit
- like an easy magnetic function
You should not buy the Ze Mango Magnetic Ball Stretcher if you...
- prefer more intense ball stretchers
- want more accessories on your ball stretcher
Sound OUCH! Silicone Vibrating Urethra Plug
Overall Rating
4.5/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.5/5.0
Based on 2 user reviews
Rating: OUCH! Silicone Vibrating Urethra Plug was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the extreme bdsm toy.
Rating: OUCH! Silicone Vibrating Urethra Plug was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: OUCH! Silicone Vibrating Urethra Plug was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: OUCH! Silicone Vibrating Urethra Plug was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I advise OUCH! Silicone Vibrating Urethra Plug for intermediate users, as it offers a good balance of complexity and learning potential.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Made of soft but firm silicone this urethra vibrator can be inserted up to 4,1 inches into the penile urethral opening. The vibrating feature is activated by a remote controller. There are 20 different vibration modes to explore within this whisper-quiet motor at the base of the urethra plug itself. Add a buzzy feature to your silicone sound experience with this easily insertable plug!
Pros
- ✅ Added vibrations to your sounding gear
- ✅ Remote controlled
- ✅ Deep insertion for ultimate prostate stimulation
Cons
- ❌ Only available in one color
My verdict
If you’re looking to take the next step on your sounding journey and open to adding a buzzy element to your urethral plugs, I think this product would be great for you! The insertable length is deep enough to stimulate the prostate while the shaft is sleek and slim enough for beginners as well. Actually, if you’re a completely new to what sounding is and feels like I still think this plug would be a good starter product. Then when you’re ready to explore the vibrating feature, it’s already there!
You should buy the OUCH! Silicone Vibrating Urethra Plug if you...
- are looking to explore sounding
- want to add vibrations to your urethra plug
You should not buy the OUCH! Silicone Vibrating Urethra Plug if you...
- are not into deep sounding
- do not enjoy vibration sensations around (or in) your penis
CBT Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device
Overall Rating
4.9/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 6 user reviews
Rating: Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the extreme bdsm toy.
Rating: Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I advise Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device for intermediate users, as it offers a good balance of complexity and learning potential.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This hardcore CBT stainless steel cylinder toy is both adjustable and versatile! You can use it as a CBT device around the shaft of the penis for pleasantly painful erections or as a ball stretcher! You can either use the adjustable sharp or blunt allen screws to find the sweet spot for you and just the right amount of restriction you’re looking for. Add a padlock (not included) to make this torture device into a customizable restrictive spiked chastity cage.
Pros
- ✅ Adjustable screws for tailored torture
- ✅ Heavy and sturdy cylinder cage
- ✅ Can be used as a chastity cage
Cons
- ❌ Padlock and allen wrench not included
My verdict
This extreme BDSM toy is perfect for going medieval on your dong! The visual aspect adds a delicious element to the torture. You can also be fully in charge of the intensity of this CBT device by adjusting the amount of screws in the cylinder and how far you want them to dig into you. Perfect for when you want to convert it into a ball stretcher or chastity cage! Devices like this are generally for the more experienced CBT users but the adjustable element makes it a bit more approachable for people with less experienes as well.
You should buy the Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device if you...
- are looking for an adjustable CBT device
- want a CBT cock ring and ball stretcher in one
- enjoy spikey torturous pleasure on your shaft
You should not buy the Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device if you...
- prefer fully restrictive chastity cages
- have a penis girth that exceeds 1,7 inches
Big Dildo Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo
Overall Rating
4.7/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.9/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.5/5.0
Based on 31 user reviews
Rating: Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the extreme bdsm toy.
Rating: Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This Fun Factory The Boss dildo is a big one! A firm, smooth, and girthy silicone shaft with a large pronounced realistic head and textured veining for enhanced internal stimulation. This baby will give you 7,5 whole inches of fullness either vaginally or anally. The suction cup at the base allows for hands-free fun and more controlled insertion. Make sure to use plenty of lube when you go to see The Boss… It might not be the best for beginners but for the rest you are in for the real deal.
Pros
- ✅ Firm and heavy dildo for solid fun
- ✅ Realistic design
- ✅ O-ring harness compatible
- ✅ Suction cup
Cons
- ❌ Can be a bit too firm
- ❌ Only available in one color
My verdict
This big bossy dildo really seems to be a crowd pleaser! If you’re really into a long, girthy, sturdy, and weighty dildo with a suction cup for both solo and harnessed fun, then this toy is definitely for you! It might not be suitable for people who prefer slimmer shafts or internal vibrations. Although if you’re looking to up your big dildo game, this might be the perfect toy for you!
You should buy the Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo if you...
- love a full feeling when using a dildo
- enjoy a basic suction cup dildo
- like a weighty dildo
You should not buy the Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo if you...
- don't like girthier dildos
- prefer vibrating or thrusting dildos
Anal Hook OXY Stainless Steel Anal Hook
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.8/5.0
Based on 66 user reviews
Rating: OXY Stainless Steel Anal Hook was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the extreme bdsm toy.
Rating: OXY Stainless Steel Anal Hook was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: OXY Stainless Steel Anal Hook was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: OXY Stainless Steel Anal Hook was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
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Recommended for
I advise OXY Stainless Steel Anal Hook for intermediate users, as it offers a good balance of complexity and learning potential.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This OXY Anal hook is made from surgical grade stainless steel. It is completely body-safe, rust-free, non-porous, firm and smooth. Anal hooks are great way to combine anal stimulation with the pleasures of hardcore bondage gear. The tip with the ball is inserted into the anus (with plenty of lube!) and then ropes, chains, or cuffs can be fastened through the eyelet of the hook to secure your sub in any given position! This way, anal hooks give you the option to play around with predicament bondage, where your sub gets to experience being pulled and tortured by oppositional forces.
Pros
- ✅ Basic anal hook with a ball on insertable tip
- ✅ Easy to clean
- ✅ Ideal for temperature play
Cons
- ❌ No added textures or shapes in insertable shaft
My verdict
If you’re looking to try an anal hook for the first time, you can hardly go wrong with this classic design of extreme bondage gear. Once you’ve understood the concept, this anal hook is easy to use and great material for firm, secure, and, of course, safe fun! For a thorough cleaning, be sure to unscrew the ball and wash separately. Allow to dry completely and put away for safe storage.
You should buy the OXY Stainless Steel Anal Hook if you...
- want to enjoy anal bondage
- looking for an advanced prostate stimulator
You should not buy the OXY Stainless Steel Anal Hook if you...
- prefer anal thrusting instead of static pleasure
- want deep anal stimulation
Pump Colt Muscle Nips Pumps
Overall Rating
5.0/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.9/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Colt Muscle Nips Pumps was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the extreme bdsm toy.
Rating: Colt Muscle Nips Pumps was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Colt Muscle Nips Pumps was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Colt Muscle Nips Pumps was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I advise Colt Muscle Nips Pumps for intermediate users, as it offers a good balance of complexity and learning potential.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This nipple pump consists of two multi-use heavy-duty cylinders with a flared base for secure suction, a flexible silicone hose with individual air valves for adjustable use and for quick and easy release. The valves allow the air hose to be removed while maintaining the suction within the cylinders. The squeeze trigger handle lets you easily control the suction and air flow.
Pros
- ✅ Individual valves for adjustable suction
- ✅ Easy-release air valve
- ✅ Easy squeeze trigger handle
Cons
- ❌ Not available in other colors or designs
- ❌ The hoses are a bit short
My verdict
This nipple pump will definitely help you on your way to more intense nipple play! If you want to explore something that’s a bit next level from nipple clamps or individual manual nipple suckers, then this pump is the way to go! The powerful suction will allow you to enjoy an enhanced sensation with synchronized pump and release!
You should buy the Colt Muscle Nips Pumps if you...
- want to enhance nipple sensitivity and size
- are looking for a step up in nipple play
You should not buy the Colt Muscle Nips Pumps if you...
- don't like individual nipple pumps
Comparison of the 11 best extreme bdsm toys
| Best | Sex Swing | Whip | Nipple Clamps | Sex Machine | ElectroSex | Ball Stretcher | Sound | CBT | Big Dildo | Anal Hook | Pump |
| Overall score | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 3.1 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | - | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 2.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 5 / 5.0 from 91 users | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 100 users | 5 / 5.0 from 99 users | - | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 2 users | 5 / 5.0 from 6 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 31 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 66 users | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users |
| Price | Medium | Medium | Low | Medium | Medium | Medium | Low | Low | Medium | Low | Low |
| Design | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 45 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 94 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 50 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Quality | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 45 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 97 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Materials | Cotton canvas & metal | Leather, nylon & metal | Metal | Stainless steel (frame), ABS plastic (controller), silicone (dildo)) | PPV plastic hardware, copper tube, and glass rods | Stainless steel | Silicone | Stainless steel | Silicone | - | Acrylic (cylinder), silicone (hose), ABS (handle, release valve), POM (connector & on/off valves) |
| Maximum Weight | 300 lbs | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes | - | No | Yes | - | - | - | - | - | Yes | - |
| Colors Available | Black | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Adjustable | Yes | - | No | Yes | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Length | - | 34 inches | 20 inches inches | - | 13 inches | - | 5,3 inches | 0,6 (screw length) inches | - | - | Cylinder: 2 inches |
| Fastening | - | - | Squeeze clamp | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Thrust Modes | - | - | - | 0-240 RPM. Fully adjustable thrust settings. | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Insertable length | - | - | - | 8 inches | - | - | 4,1 inches | - | 7,5 inches | 5 inches | - |
| Diameter | - | - | - | 1,4 inches | - | - | 0,2 inches | - | 1,7 inches | Ring: 1,5 inches, Ball: 0,8 inches | - |
| Weight | - | - | - | 25 lbs | - | 0,6 lbs | - | - | - | - | 0,4 lbs |
| Remote Controls | - | - | - | Wired, wireless, and app-enabled | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Rechargeable | - | - | - | No (corded power) | No - corded | - | USB | - | - | - | - |
| Diameter (internal) | - | - | - | - | - | 1,3 inches | - | 1,7 inches | - | - | - |
| Height | - | - | - | - | - | 1,2 inches | - | 1,5 inches | - | - | - |
| Vibration modes | - | - | - | - | - | - | 20 | - | - | - | - |
| Charging Time | - | - | - | - | - | - | 120 minutes | - | - | - | - |
| Battery Life | - | - | - | - | - | - | 60 minutes | - | - | - | - |
| Waterproof | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | Submersible | - | - |
| Flexibility | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | Firm | - | - |
| Allergies | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | Latex-free and phthalate-free | - | - |
| Width | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | Cylinder: 1,5 inches |
| Quick-release valve | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | Yes |
If You Are Into Shocking Stimulation
Do electro sex toys excite you? If you’re interested in other devices that create an erotic electric charge, I’ve got you covered!
Electroshock Cock Ring with Ballstrap
E-stim toys can do wonders, especially when they’re wearable! This cock and ball ring will not ony keep all of you in place physically, it will also keep you in your submissive place as the exciting electrical jolts shock and tease you.
ElectraStim Electrosex Silicone Komodo Dildo
Looking for some powerful internal jolts? This Electrosex Komodo Dildo will allow you to feel the delicious stings deep inside of you while being penetrated vaginally or anally.
Volt Electro-Flare Rechargeable Anal Plug
If you’re more interested in some static anal play, I’ve got just the thing for you! This Electro-Flare Anal Plug is remote controlled to give you some truly surprising shocks to your sphincter and prostate.
Looking for Sex-Dungeon Furniture?
Alright, if you’re truly aiming for decadence and heavy-duty equipment, you might want to look into some BDSM furniture!
Steel Puppy Cage Deluxe
This puppy cage leaves little room for your sub to squirm around in. Put them on all fours while you tease them from the outside of the cage or simply use this versatile cage as an inescapable time-out space for playful punishment.
Medieval Dungeon Wood Neck Stockade
BDSM stockades like this will really bring out your medieval side! Intensify your sub’s restraint with this wooden neck stockade that can be used for upright partial suspension with a suspension bar.
Stockroom Stockade
A full-body stockade will give you the whole package of brutal restraint. With wrist and ankle cuffs connected to a steel body forcing your sub onto all fours, this stockade is great for keeping them in place while you are in complete control of their pleasure and pain!
The Dore Alley Dungeon Bed
The perfect centerpiece for your sex dungeon! This large and sturdy bondage bed with a practical design is the ideal piece of furniture for someone looking for something that doesn’t necessarily scream “dungeon” but still needs to be a functional kinkster bed.
Extreme Bondage Gear
Still on the look-out for some extra gear to use in your hardcore bondage adventures? Here are a few more product recommendations for you to take things up a notch!
Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope 10 Meter
Bondage rope is a great tool for all levels of experience with BDSM. It’s super versatile, available in all sorts of colors and lengths, and comfortable to wear! Use it for everything from simple wrist or ankle restraints to intricate body harnesses or breast bondage.
Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Restraint Harness
Looking for a bondage rope alternative to create full body bdsm harnesses? Well, there’s plenty of options of there! This adjustable leather harness, for example, has built in straps, D-rings, cuffs, and a collar. This stylish design is a great way to restrict your sub and customize your experience by adding other accessories!
Steel Suspension Bar
Ready for take-off with your new heavy duty suspension bar? If you want to expand your bondage options with positions that require different levels of overhead support and suspension, this steel suspension bar is a must-have!
How to Use Extreme Bondage Toys
If you’re here looking for extreme BDSM toys, I’m assuming you are familiar with the use of this kind of gear, so I won’t go into the absolute basics of how to use BDSM toys. But here are some general things to remember while playing with hardcore bondage gear!
Consent
If you’re an experienced kinkster, you should already know that consent may be the most important aspect of engaging in hardcore BDSM. Although it never hurts to be reminded! Consent and trust is absolutely vital to safe BDSM fun.
Safety
When playing around with extreme bondage gear and especially when playing around with pleasure and pain, safety precautions should be a priority! Make sure to have some safety shears, extra keys for padlocks, and perhaps even a first aid kit on hand for emergencies. Better safe than sorry!
Work Your Way Up...
Alright, having fun with hardcore BDSM equipment is not a race! The whole point is to explore and enjoy new sensations. So go for it and explore the different levels of intensity, but take it slow so you have time to adjust to the sensations.
Pushing Boundaries & Respecting Limits
Consent and communication are a big part of successful BDSM. But exploring your personal limits can be a really fun part of engaging in this kind of play in the first place! I like to say that the healthy balance is to have fun experimenting with pushing boundaries while totally respecting limits.
How to Clean Extreme BDSM Toys
Cleaning and storing your extreme BDSM toys properly varies and depends on the size and material of your toy. Most non-porous materials like silicone, ABS plastic, glass, or metal can be washed with a mild soap and warm water or with a sex toy cleaner. Check if your toy is waterproof (splash-proof or fully submersible) before you figure out it's best to clean it. Larger pieces of furniture can be wiped down with a damp cloth.
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.
FAQ
What Are Extreme BDSM Toys?
Extreme BDSM toys describe a category of BDSM toys that are mostly suitable for people of an advanced level of experience with BDSM and kink. Many BDSM toys that are beginner friendly (like restraints, floggers and whips, adjustable clamps etc) are actually also suitable for more intense play. In this case, more extreme often means more restrictive, more sturdy, or more intense or painful. That's why extreme BDSM toys also refers to whole pieces of BDSM furniture, heavy duty restraint systems, super intense impact toys, insertable e-stim gadgets, and even powerful automated sex machines!
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