The 11 Most Extreme BDSM Toys for the Toughest Kinksters
| Sex Swing | Whip | Nipple Clamps | Sex Machine | ElectroSex | Ball Stretcher | Sound | CBT | Big Dildo | Anal Hook | Pump |
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| Screamer Sex Swing | Flicker Whip | Bondage Boutique Nipple Clamps | Hismith Premium Sex Machine | Kinklab Neon Wand | Ze Mango Ball Stretcher | OUCH! Urethra Plug | Mike's Spikes CBT Device | Fun Factory The Boss Dildo | OXY Anal Hook | Colt Muscle Nips Pumps |
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How Were These Extreme BDSM Toys Tested?
Here at Bedbible, we try to apply all of our expertise towards creating these throrough reviews. We have written over 500 reviews of different kinds of sex toys as a company. We spend our hours here browsing through the jungle that is the world of sex toys and accessories, and have over time become quite the experts at reviewing and rating these sexual devices.
We also make a point of matching the right kind of gear to the right kind of user! Especially in these kind of reviews of more hardcore bondage gear. We do our best to give an estimate of which level of experience is best suited for a specific product and why. We take into consideration the price range, the materials, the quality, the design, and the feedback to give an overall rating.
Types of Extreme BDSM Toys
There are many different types of more hardcore bdsm gear out there. Here are few that we also have some products for exploring further down in the post!
- Bondage – There is a ton of extreme bondage equipment availbale to crank up your sexual restraint game! Hardcore bondage gear usually has the capacity to restrict your full body. Devices like BDSM crosses, bondage sleepsacks, bondage boards, and bondage yokes really allow you to submit yourself completely… or to dominate someone completely!
- Impact Play – Impact play is easy to intensify with the right kind of gear. Up your game with some more advanced BDSM whips and floggers to increase the sensations upon impact!
- E-stim – Toys for electrostimulation come in all sorts of shapes and sizes! For more intense e-stim sensations products like electric nipple clamps, electric dildos, electric butt plugs, or even electric prostate massagers might be just the thing for you!
- CBT – Cock and Ball Torture is an extreme BDSM classic! There are many creative designs for different accessories to put your pecker under pressure. Male chastity cages are always a hit in this category. Cock pillories, ball stretchers and ball crushers are great tools for engaging in intense CBT!
FAQ
What Are Extreme BDSM Toys?
Extreme BDSM toys describe a category of BDSM toys that are mostly suitable for people of an advanced level of experience with BDSM and kink. Many BDSM toys that are beginner friendly (like restraints, floggers and whips, adjustable clamps etc) are actually also suitable for more intense play. In this case, more extreme often means more restrictive, more sturdy, or more intense or painful. That's why extreme BDSM toys also refers to whole pieces of BDSM furniture, heavy duty restraint systems, super intense impact toys, insertable e-stim gadgets, and even powerful automated sex machines!
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The 11 Best extreme bdsm toys in Test
Screamer Dual Hook Sex Swing
Explore endless suspended positions with this sturdy Screamer Sex Swing. The two strong mounting points and all-metal hardware provides a secure and sturdy foundation for all the fun. The sleek and comfortable design ensures both functionality and comfort for longer lasting sessions! With the adjustable and removable strap design, you can freely experiment with different kinds of positions. If you’re looking to use this sex swing to engage in some extreme bondage and BDSM, you can purchase the Screamer Bondage Swing Kit instead. Apart from the swing itself, this kit includes 4 leather cuffs with faux fur for your ankles and wrists along with 4 adjustable webbing strap for full control over your sub.
The Screamer Dual Hook Sex Swing was rated 40 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
are looking for a sturdy beginner sex swingwant to explore fun suspended positionswant the option to add extra restraints
prefer sex swings that mount on a door want a swing that is extra padded| Materials | Cotton canvas & metal |
| Maximum Weight | 300 lbs |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes |
| Colors Available | Black |
| Adjustable | Yes |
Dual hook for secure suspensionWide base for comfortable seatingHeavy duty springs included
Mounting tools not includedThis sex swing is a great option for beginners to start their journey on suspended fun! This heavy duty swing will allow you to relax and feel comfortable and weightless as you experiment with new and fun positions and angles! The best part is that you’re easily able to get this swing in a bondage version with the Screamer Bondage Swing Kit! See how it feels to be teased and tortured in the air!
Flicker Whip
This sleek and thin flicker whip is not only elegant but also viciously precise! Beware of the delicious stingy feeling when whipping that braided tassel at the tip across your bare skin! The whip is 34 inches long and complete with a red leather covered handle for a comfortable grip while you’re relentlessly teasing and torturing your sub.
The Flicker Whip was rated 30 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
want a stingy sensationare looking for a longer whipenjoy intense impact playprefer a milder impactwant a thuddy sensation| Length | 34 inches |
| Materials | Leather, nylon & metal |
Elegant and slimPowerful stingy sensationComfortable gripNot super flexibleThis Flicker Whip is great way to amp up your impact play with some serious force and stingy sensation! If you’re on the lookout for an unyielding yet slim and elegant stinging whip to explore higher heights with, this long device may be for you! It is not the cheapest flicker whip available but you definitely get what you paid for in terms of quality and performance in this product.
Bondage Boutique Squeeze & Tease Nipple Clamps
Looking for more extreme nipple clamps? These industrial-style clover clamps offer a firm squeeze on your sensitive nipples, making you yearn for the release. Non-adjustable for intense unyielding tightness for experienced kinksters. Each clamp has two rubber-tipped pinchers with a textured surface for extra stimulation. The wide surface area of the clip itself allows for better grip and control of the clamps.
The Bondage Boutique Squeeze & Tease Nipple Clamps was rated 60 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
love a pinching sensation on your nippleswant intense nipple playneed your nipple clamps to stay putdon't enjoy pinching or pain on your nippleswant your clamps to tighten when you pull the chainneed adjustable pinchers| Length | 20 inches |
| Materials | Metal |
| Adjustable | No |
Easy to grip and controlTextured tips for extra stimulationStrong pinching gripSlighty small openingShort chainThis is the perfect accessory for someone who has grown out of their beginner or intermediate adjustable nipple clamps and now looking for something even tighter with an unyielding grip. The non-adjustable design is made for more advanced kinksters who know which sensations they’re into and which boundaries they’re willing to explore in terms of pain and pinching on the nipples. Play around with tugging on the clamps once they’re on or try adding some weights for makeshift weighted nipple clamps!
Hismith App-Controlled Premium Sex Machine
This powerful and sturdy sex machine with a strong stainless stell frame provides you with trustworthy thrusts and impressive speeds to play with! The motions of the sex machine are easily controlled via the app for some remote control action. This also allows the user to share the controls with someone else – perfect for long-distance play!
The Hismith App-Controlled Premium Sex Machine was rated 70 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
want to enjoy realistic thrusting without a partnerwant a powerful machine to use on your sublike app-controlled settingsdon't have space for this large machinedon't want to disturb roommates with the noisedon't enjoy a thrusting motion| Thrust Modes | 0-240 RPM. Fully adjustable thrust settings. |
| Insertable length | 8 inches |
| Diameter | 1,4 inches |
| Weight | 25 lbs |
| Materials | Stainless steel (frame), ABS plastic (controller), silicone (dildo)) |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Remote Controls | Wired, wireless, and app-enabled |
| Rechargeable | No (corded power) |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes |
App-controlledHeavy duty automatic thrustingPowerful strokesLoudTakes up a lot of spaceAlthough this is more sturdy and extreme BDSM gear, it is also relatively accessible as the frame itself only weighs 25 lbs. Of course, it takes a up more space than most other sex toys and it might not be your most quiet thrusting item, but what else can you expect from a sex machine? This compact yet powerful machine that allows for remote (and long-distance) control really is an exciting device to step up your BDSM game and explore even more aspects of power play and submission!
Kinklab Neon Wand ElectroSex Kit
This lightweight Neon Wand Kit comes with 4 glass attachments for a varied sensation of skin contact to experiment with. This wand creates an erotic electric discharge on the surface on the skin when in contact. The intensity can easily be controlled via the dial on the wand itself or the preferred electrode you’re using. This delicious sensation can vary a lot, going from a mild warm tingling to a concentrated intense (sometimes pleasantly painful) feeling.
The Kinklab Neon Wand ElectroSex Kit was rated 40 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
enjoy e-stim wandswant to explore different sensations with attachmentswant to play with milder electrical sensationswant more intense or painful e-stim toysdon't enjoy e-stim sensation playhave a pacemaker, a heart condition, or are pregnant| Materials | PPV plastic hardware, copper tube, and glass rods |
| Length | 13 inches |
| Rechargeable | No - corded |
4 glass attachments for variationLightweight wand (for longer sessions)Long power chordElegant lighting in the glass probesNot as powerful or painful as other wandsThe fact that the highest settings on this wand still does not reach the often painful levels that other wands would, makes this Neon Wand accessible for beginners looking to explore e-stim sensation play but is also perfect for intermediate to advanced kinksters to use on more sensitive body parts. The lightweight design and the 4 attachments allow you to easily experiement with different sensation and different levels.
Remember! Do not use electro sex toys on people with heart conditions or pregnant people!
Ze Mango Magnetic Ball Stretcher
This thick and weighty magnetic ball stretcher is made of sturdy stainless steel with a sleek matte finish. The rounded design makes for comfortable and visually impressive stretching device! With the simple snap-on, snap-off magnetic function to secure the stretcher around your scrotum, you’re free to do as you please without worrying about it staying in place. The simple design also allows for versatile use as it doubles as a cock ring!
The Ze Mango Magnetic Ball Stretcher was rated 40 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
are looking for a simple ball stretcherwant a secure fitlike an easy magnetic functionprefer more intense ball stretcherswant more accessories on your ball stretcher| Diameter (internal) | 1,3 inches |
| Materials | Stainless steel |
| Height | 1,2 inches |
| Weight | 0,6 lbs |
Sleek and elegantWeighted and comfortableSimple magnetic fasteningNon-adjustableThis is great ball stretcher for all levels of experience. Whether you’re a beginner ball stretcher or a more experienced user, this accessory is a great way to enjoy the feeling of stretching out in a comfortable and elegant way with a simple magnetic fastening that’s super easy to get in and out of. Although, if you’re more into extreme weighted or spiked stretchers with more constrictive designs, this may be a bit simple for you.
OUCH! Silicone Vibrating Urethra Plug
Made of soft but firm silicone this urethra vibrator can be inserted up to 4,1 inches into the penile urethral opening. The vibrating feature is activated by a remote controller. There are 20 different vibration modes to explore within this whisper-quiet motor at the base of the urethra plug itself. Add a buzzy feature to your silicone sound experience with this easily insertable plug!
The OUCH! Silicone Vibrating Urethra Plug was rated 65 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
are looking to explore soundingwant to add vibrations to your urethra plugare not into deep soundingdo not enjoy vibration sensations around (or in) your penis| Vibration modes | 20 |
| Rechargeable | USB |
| Charging Time | 120 minutes |
| Battery Life | 60 minutes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Length | 5,3 inches |
| Diameter | 0,2 inches |
| Insertable length | 4,1 inches |
Added vibrations to your sounding gearRemote controlledDeep insertion for ultimate prostate stimulationOnly available in one colorIf you’re looking to take the next step on your sounding journey and open to adding a buzzy element to your urethral plugs, I think this product would be great for you! The insertable length is deep enough to stimulate the prostate while the shaft is sleek and slim enough for beginners as well. Actually, if you’re a completely new to what sounding is and feels like I still think this plug would be a good starter product. Then when you’re ready to explore the vibrating feature, it’s already there!
Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device
This hardcore CBT stainless steel cylinder toy is both adjustable and versatile! You can use it as a CBT device around the shaft of the penis for pleasantly painful erections or as a ball stretcher! You can either use the adjustable sharp or blunt allen screws to find the sweet spot for you and just the right amount of restriction you’re looking for. Add a padlock (not included) to make this torture device into a customizable restrictive spiked chastity cage.
The Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device was rated 70 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
are looking for an adjustable CBT devicewant a CBT cock ring and ball stretcher in oneenjoy spikey torturous pleasure on your shaftprefer fully restrictive chastity cageshave a penis girth that exceeds 1,7 inches| Height | 1,5 inches |
| Diameter (internal) | 1,7 inches |
| Length | 0,6 (screw length) inches |
| Materials | Stainless steel |
Adjustable screws for tailored tortureHeavy and sturdy cylinder cageCan be used as a chastity cagePadlock and allen wrench not includedThis extreme BDSM toy is perfect for going medieval on your dong! The visual aspect adds a delicious element to the torture. You can also be fully in charge of the intensity of this CBT device by adjusting the amount of screws in the cylinder and how far you want them to dig into you. Perfect for when you want to convert it into a ball stretcher or chastity cage! Devices like this are generally for the more experienced CBT users but the adjustable element makes it a bit more approachable for people with less experienes as well.
Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo
This Fun Factory The Boss dildo is a big one! A firm, smooth, and girthy silicone shaft with a large pronounced realistic head and textured veining for enhanced internal stimulation. This baby will give you 7 whole inches of fullness either vaginally or anally. The suction cup at the base allows for hands-free fun and more controlled insertion. Make sure to use plenty of lube when you go to see The Boss…
