The 11 Best Extreme Sex Toys for Hardcore Kinksters
Let’s dive into the world of extreme sex toys! From toys that will shockingly delightful Kinklab Neon Wand Electrosex Kit, to the rumblingly raucous Doxy Die Cast 3R, to the spreadable, bedable Master Series Deluxe Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar, I have something for everyone. Well…if you can handle it, that is!
Test Winner | Powerful Vibrations | Restraints | Impact Play | Spreader Bar | Clamps | Sounding | Cock Cage | Chastity Belt | CBT | E-stim |
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Motorbunny Buck | Doxy Die Cast 3R | Chained & Tamed | Tantus Dragon Tail | Wrist and Ankle Spreader | Tit Tuggers | Rosebud Sounds Kit | CB-6000 Chastity Kit | Locking Chastity Belt | Mike's Spikes Torture Device | Neon Wand Electrosex Kit |
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Extreme sex toys; how I tested 'em!
So, let me tell you exactly how I tested and reviewed these extreme sex toys! I first off checked in with Bedbible’s kinky network of freelance sex toy users. They were able to provide me with invaluable, firsthand info on each of these extreme toys. Next up I took a look at the toys in much more depth, studying each and every one of their features, from their quality, to their ease of use, and even their price. These are some of the most important things that you, as someone that’s hunting for extreme sex toys, want to know! I could then give each of the toys a well-informed star rating out of 5!

Types of Extreme Sex Toys
There are quite a lot of different types of extreme sex toys out there, but some are more popular than others. I’m going to talk you through three of the most popular types, and hopefully convince you that they’re worth giving a go!
- Restraints – These are the kinds of toys that will prohibit your movements or hold you in place. They’re the perfect option if you want to have complete control of your sub without them trying to stop you!
- Impact play toys – Sometimes you want to leave your mark when you’re playing with your extreme sex toys. Impact play toys include things like whips and spanking paddles, toys that really tease the senses and leave their mark after they’ve been used!
- CBT – Some cock owners absolutely love to put their little guy through hell! CBT toys (or cock and ball torture toys) punish and pleasure the penis in all kinds of fun and messed up ways!
The Best Online Shops for Extreme Sex Toys
You might find yourself wondering exactly what the best online shops for extreme sex toys are. There are lots of places where you can go shopping online, but you certainly can’t pick up these extreme toys at places like Amazon, eBay, or Etsy! You want to head over to stores such as Stockroom, Oxy Shop, Hustler Hollywood, SheVibe, and Lovehoney that really specialize in toys that will push you to your limits…and maybe beyond!
Reviews of the 11 best extreme sex toys
Test Winner DJ X Motorbunny Buck














The Buck by Doc Johnson & Motorbunny is a hybrid saddle vibrator and thrusting sex machine. It is remote controlled with the Motorbunny Link-enabled Controller, which allows it to be controlled via app as well. Use Buck endlessly with an unlimited A/C power supply. Buck is portable with a height of 10 inches, 11.5 inches width, and 13.5 inches of length. It comes with 6 silicone attachments: 3 buck attachments, 1 Vac-U-Lock adapter, 7-inch Thin Dong, and 7-inch Realistic Cock with Balls.
Pros
- ✅ App controlled
- ✅ Versatile functions
- ✅ Great vibrations
Cons
- ❌ No travel bag
- ❌ Quite large and indiscreet
Vibrations: The vibrations of the DJ X Motorbunny Buck are fairly quiet, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly
My verdict
The DJ X Motorbunny Buck is a beast of a toy to kick off these reviews with! All you have to do is choose which attachment you want to use, secure it to the buck, climb on, and you’re away! Wuthere are plenty of speeds and patterns to keep things interesting, and to make it even easier, it can all be controlled via an app, meaning that you can leave that in the hands of your partner. The silicone materials are all fantastic and durable and should be able to punish you in the best way. It’s a very versatile and adaptable toy that can be customized in whichever way arouses you most. For me, the DJ X Motorbunny Buck is a must-have, despite its lack of travel bag and its fairly large and indiscreet size.
You should buy the DJ X Motorbunny Buck if you...
- Want something that you can ride on
- Like the easily controllable vibration speeds/patterns
- Like toys that can be controlled with an app
You should not buy the DJ X Motorbunny Buck if you...
- Are looking for a sex toy that is a little bit smaller
- Want a travel bag included
Powerful Vibrations Doxy Die Cast 3R













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Surrender to the tremor-mendous intensity of the Doxy Die Cast, which courses out incredible vibrations in magical, multiple strengths. Cool aluminum and titanium are cast into a lustrous premium casing for an elite toy perfect for power queens. Cold chamber die casting forms the aluminum/titanium alloy casing using high-pressure injection, which then goes through a 5 stage polishing process to create its lustrous finish. While weightier (830g), the sizing is the same as other Doxy wands so it can take standard-size attachments.
Pros
- ✅ Handheld
- ✅ Rumbling vibrations
- ✅ Fairly discreet
Cons
- ❌ Not waterproof
- ❌ Gets hot
My verdict
If you’re into handheld toys and powerful vibrations, then you can’t go wrong with the Doxy Die Cast 3R. It is an easy to hold and simple-to-control toy that offers powerful rumbling vibrations exactly where they’re needed. The design is cool and sleek, and the three buttons on the front make it super easy to set to the vibration speed and pattern of your liking. It’s a great option if you want something more discreet than the DJ X Motorbunny Buck. There are a couple of issues with the Doxy Die Cast 3R that I have noticed. It is wired, so you have that to contend with, meaning that not only will it get in the way, but you can’t stray too far from a wall socket. Also, it is not waterproof, so if it gets wet it may break.
You should buy the Doxy Die Cast 3R if you...
- Like to use handheld masturbators
- Enjoy powerful, rumbling vibrations
- Want something that's fairly discreet
You should not buy the Doxy Die Cast 3R if you...
- Need a waterproof sex toy
- Prefer the feel of buzzy vibrations
- Don't want a wired sex toy
Restraints Sportsheets Saffron Chained & Tamed Restraints






Strap them in, things are about to get hot. Enhance your next scene with the Sportsheets Saffron Chained & Tamed, expertly designed to keep your partner at your mercy. Use all the pieces together or interchangeably for optimum positioning. Begin your next session with the posture collar for added control. Then add the double wrist cuff to lock their hands together and the double ankle cuff to keep them in place. Next, connect the cuffs and collars as you see fit and exude your power over them.
Pros
- ✅ High quality
- ✅ Plenty of restraint points
- ✅ Works very well
Cons
- ❌ May prove too difficult for some to use
- ❌ Materials may not be the comfiest
My verdict
The Sportsheets Saffron Chained & Tamed set allows you to cuff not only someone’s wrists but also their neck and ankles. It’s a great choice if you want to explore restricting your partner. The cold metal and the relatively soft leather is a nice juxtaposition, and they feel great alongside each other. The straps can be adjusted to make sure that they fit securely and won’t come loose. The Sportsheets Saffron Chained & Tamed set does allow for some slack, and it’s not the most extreme restraint kit that I have ever seen, yet it’s still a fun and exciting choice if that’s the kind of thing you want to go for. Some people may find it to be a little tricky to put on and will find themselves fiddling with it, but overall I have very few complaints!
You should buy the Sportsheets Saffron Chained & Tamed Restraints if you...
- Like to be tied up and restrained
- Enjoy the cold feel of metal
- Want ankle cuffs as well as wrist and neck
You should not buy the Sportsheets Saffron Chained & Tamed Restraints if you...
- Want something a little tighter
- Prefer rope to leather and metal
- Don't like things around your throat
Impact Play Tantus Dragon Tail Love Whip





Introducing the Tantus Dragon Tail, your one-stop silicone toy for stingy, thuddy, and insertable Tail needs. The narrow tip gives an amazing bite and gets in those hard to hit places other paddles can’t. It’s perfect for genital and targeted impact, as well as good all around play. Invert the paddle and the handle gives a nice thuddy hit. The rest of the handle offers up 7 inches of insertable length so you too can be the best dragon you can be.
Pros
- ✅ Both a whip and a paddle
- ✅ Handle can be inserted
- ✅ Flexible silicone
Cons
- ❌ Not as sharp as a whip or thudding as a paddle
- ❌ Some may not like the material
My verdict
I think the Tantus Dragon Tail Love Whip is a pretty neat sex toy if I’m being honest with you. It is long and whip-like, meaning you can whip away to your heart’s content. Then the broadside allows you to spank in the same way that you would with a paddle. The handle works well as an insertable device too, so you really do get lots of options. I love that it has some flex to it too, It makes for a much more impactful (pun intended) toy. While the Tantus Dragon Tail Love Whip does offer the best of both worlds, there are slightly better toys if you’re looking for that dull thud sensation. For example, there are spanking paddles out there that will do the job much better. Also, some people might not like this kind of painful impact play altogether, which is fair enough. Still, the Tantus Dragon Tail Love Whip does a lot and does it well, so I can’t judge it too harshly at all!
You should buy the Tantus Dragon Tail Love Whip if you...
- Enjoy to use whips and paddles
- Like a toy that gives you plenty of options
- Want a flexible yet firm whip
You should not buy the Tantus Dragon Tail Love Whip if you...
- Prefer more 'thud' paddles
- Want a more traditional whip
Spreader Bar Master Series Deluxe Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar





Put your submissive in the Deluxe Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar by Master Series to expose their most intimate parts. The leg spreader is 25 inches long with ankle cuffs that fit up to a 13 inch circumference. The arm spreader bar is 13.75 inches long with up to 10 inch circumference wrist cuffs. The wrist and ankle cuffs are made of leather material. The connector bars are 8 inches long. This spreader bar can be detached and used separately. It includes an Allen wrench to detach the connector bars.
Pros
- ✅ Spreads legs well
- ✅ Comfortable leather
- ✅ Strong metal
Cons
- ❌ Will probably get in the way
My verdict
Spreader bars are great for keeping whoever is wearing it wide open and vulnerable. That’s what the Master Series Deluxe Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar was designed for. And in all honesty, it does that well. It holds the legs wide open and even keeps the wrists cuffs, so they can’t tamper with anything or stop you. In the right position, there is so much that you can get up to while your sub remains restrained and spread out while the leather straps comfortably hold their wrists and ankles. Is the Master Series Deluxe Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar perfect, though? No, absolutely not. The one thing that I think will be the most inconvenient to people is the spreader bar itself will get in the way. That could prove to be a super inconvenient and annoying thing. And it’s not even padded, so coming into contact with it may prove painful! At least padding could have gone some way to making up for what his spreader bar lacks.
You should buy the Master Series Deluxe Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar if you...
- Want something to spread your partners legs
- Need added handcuffs for extra restraint
- Love the feel of metal and leather
You should not buy the Master Series Deluxe Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar if you...
- Don't like this kind of restraint
- Want something easier to use
- Prefer items that won't get in the way of your fun
Clamps Tit Tuggers





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The Tit Tuggers consist of a pair of erotic nickel-plated breast and nipple torment devices specially designed to pinch and pull the tits. They are pleasurably painful and playful, and even though they pinch hard, they feel good. The Tit Tuggers work by first clamping the clothespin-style pincher to the nipple. The clamper is fastened to a stem, and together they measure a total length of 6¼”. The stem is threaded. The curved metal arch has an opening in the center for the stem to fit through, and a wing nut on the outside holds it in place. The stem can be pulled through and tightened to pull the nipple out up to a total of 1½”.
Pros
- ✅ Pleasurably painful
- ✅ Solid metal
- ✅ Nice looking design
Cons
- ❌ Overly complicated to use
- ❌ Very expensive
- ❌ Pain won't suit everyone
My verdict
For those of you out there that wasn’t a bit of pain included in your nipple play, then the appropriately named Tit Tuggers will certainly get the job done. These metal clamps will attach to your nipples, and will gradually pull them harder and harder until you can’t handle it anymore. I love the design, though I can see why some would say they are over-engineered for what are essentially nipple clamps. They have a good weight to them too, so as well as a pinch and a pull, they also have that added weight. But man, are the Tit Tuggers expensive! I realize that they are made of metal, and they work in a very unique and cool way, but there are other nipple clamps out there that work just as well and cost a fraction of the price. Though, if you have the disposable income, I’d definitely recommend giving the Tit Tuggers a try, as they’re bound to elicit that pleasurable pain that you seek!
You should buy the Tit Tuggers if you...
- Like the feel of your nipples being clamped
- Enjoy the cold of metal on your breasts
- Can't resist a little bit of pain with your pleasure
You should not buy the Tit Tuggers if you...
- Don't like this kind of pain
- Want a more simple clamp
- Don't like your nipples being played with
Sounding XR Brands Rosebud Urethral Sounds Kit






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These elegantly edgy urethral sounds have small “rosebud” shaped tips, for stimulating as the “tip” slides in and out. Our set includes 8 sounds which have stainless steel shafts 11″ long topped with a “rosebud” or “bullet” shaped tip, in various sizes from 3mm to 10mm around. These sounds centralize the stimulation as they work their way in. This sound set provides great thermal/temperature retention so they can be used warmed and/or cooled for even more varied stimulation. The sounds are stored in a handsome leather-covered, velvet-lined zipper case.
Pros
- ✅ 8 piece kit
- ✅ High quality materials
- ✅ Handy carry case
Cons
- ❌ Not for beginners
- ❌ Won't be comfortable for some
My verdict
To some, the XR Brands Rosebud Urethral Sounds Kit might seem like an eye watering mountain of a challenge to use. They probably wonder how anyone can get anything out of those kinds of toys. But for those experienced in the sounding world, they will find that this particular kit is incredibly effective. The stainless steel is of ridiculously high quality, and the length will suit pretty much every length penis. Even the widths allow you to build up and work your way to the largest. They even all come in a handy storage kit, which is nice! However, there are definitely drawbacks to the XR Brands Rosebud Urethral Sounds Kit. Anyone that is not an expert may struggle with these toys. They are intense and could be incredibly painful for some. They are not for the faint of heart! Also, the price is very steep, so you have to be sure you want to tackle them!
You should buy the XR Brands Rosebud Urethral Sounds Kit if you...
- Love to partake in some sounding play
- Like inserting things into your penis
- Want an 8 piece kit AND a carry case
You should not buy the XR Brands Rosebud Urethral Sounds Kit if you...
- Can't stand putting things into your penis
- Worry it might hurt
- Aren't experienced with these kinds of toys
Cock Cage CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit






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Trap your manhood in 3.25 inches of medical-grade polycarbonate for chastity that’s comfortable all day long. Transparent, vented, and ergonomically formed for prolonged wear, CB-X cages are completely customizable for the perfect fit. Hypoallergenic and vented for comfort, the CB-6000 also boasts a urination/ejaculation hole, meaning there really is no excuse to remove it. Plus, it even comes with a set of plastic padlocks for those times when absolute discretion is required.
Pros
- ✅ See through design
- ✅ Padlock lock
- ✅ Well sized for most
Cons
- ❌ Not made of silicone
- ❌ May be too hard for some
My verdict
The CB-6000 Chastity Cage Kit allows you to wear this hard plastic cage for as long as you want while remaining comfortable and having a good wearing experience. The clear design means that you can see exactly what’s going on inside! You want to ensure that you get a CB-6000 Chastity Cage Kit that is right for you. Too big, and you’ll feel like you’re not restricted enough, but too small, and you run the risk of causing some damage. It is also pretty easy to escape if you really try, and the lock is fairly large and obtrusive, which can be an annoyance. Still, if you’re looking for something affordable and fun, then the CB-6000 Chastity Cage Kit is a great option.
You should buy the CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit if you...
- Enjoy sexy clear cock cages
- Want a cage for long-term wear
- Are looking for a chastity cage kit
You should not buy the CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit if you...
- Don't need the see-through feature
- Prefer silicone or metal cock cages
- Are looking for something more flexible
Chastity Belt Deluxe Locking Chastity Belt





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This leather chastity belt has a waist belt, and a second belt going between the legs which flares out in an hourglass shape around the crotch area, giving more coverage in front and in back, while narrowing between the legs to conform to pelvic anatomy. Both bands are adjustable and stay securely in place with a small lock.
Pros
- ✅ Premium leather
- ✅ Fairly discreet under clothes
- ✅ Simple to wear
Cons
- ❌ Some may not like leather
- ❌ Pretty expensive
My verdict
If you want to restrict yourself (or your sub) from being able to relish in any carnal pleasures, then the Deluxe Locking Chastity Belt is a fun and sexy option. Made from premium leather, it sits flush against the body and doesn’t really allow you to partake in any hanky-panky. This is great if that is the kind of torture you’re going for! The leather feels and smells great, and feels very natural against your skin. It is also a pretty discreet garment, meaning that it should remain fairly undetected underneath your clothes if you wanted to wear it while on the go. Some people may not enjoy the Deluxe Locking Chastity Belt as much as others, as they may not find leather to be the best material. Also, on top of that, the price is a pretty big turnoff too!
You should buy the Deluxe Locking Chastity Belt if you...
- Want to stop yourself being able to have fun
- Like a nice high quality leather chastity belt
- Need something that could be discreet under clothes
You should not buy the Deluxe Locking Chastity Belt if you...
- Don't want to restrict your fun I that way
- Want something a little cheaper
- Don't like the look and feel of leather
CBT Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device





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The interior of the locking stainless steel cylinder is covered with adjustable sharp or blunt-tipped Allen screws, perfect for going medieval on your cock! Unlike other spiked chastity devices, one of the unique features of Mike’s Spikes is that the spikes are fully removable and adjustable, which means you have full control over how many spikes to include or the distance the screws are inserted to adjust for your girth. The screws can also be loosened and the device worn as a spiked ball stretcher. The choice is yours!
Pros
- ✅ Perfect for extreme toy lovers
- ✅ Surprisingly straightforward to use
- ✅ Good size and weight
Cons
- ❌ Very extreme
- ❌ Could be very painful
My verdict
One of the most extreme toys in this review is the Mike’s Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device. It’s essentially a metal ring that you put your cock into, before tightening the many spikes into your flesh. It provides you with a stabbing, poking prodding, icy cold feel. It’s certainly not a toy for the faint of heart. This toy is well-made and sized surprisingly well for most people to use, but when it comes to handling the level of pleasure/pain, then it’s much more of an advanced toy. This is not the sort of extreme toy you would start out your journey on; this is the endgame! As far as I’m concerned unless you are 110% sure you can handle such an extreme toy and all the painful pleasures it provides, then I might give the Mike’s Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device! That’s not to say it’s a bad toy, it’s just…EXTREME!
You should buy the Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device if you...
- Want to feel spikes in your cock
- Are looking for a truly extreme toy
- Enjoy cock and ball torture
You should not buy the Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device if you...
- Don't want to put your willy through that
- Worry about how difficult it is to use
- Want something a little less extreme
E-stim Kinklab Neon Wand Electrosex Kit




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Make the sparks fly! The Neon Wand from Kinklab is a visually stunning way to stimulate your senses! With its gorgeous, glowing glass attachments and its unique ability to literally make sparks fly from your fingertips, this instrument of pleasure has an incredible repertoire of ways to discharge static electricity across the skin’s surface, creating sensations that range from a warm tingle to an attention-getting, focused sting. The Neon Wand is a popular device from Kinklabs Electro-Erotic line that creates an electrical discharge across the surface of the skin. The electricity produces sensations over a broad range, from a pleasurably warm tingling, to a more intense, focused sensation that some find painful.
Pros
- ✅ Lots of attachments
- ✅ Very customisable
- ✅ Straightforward to use
Cons
- ❌ Pretty painful
- ❌ Very expensive
- ❌ Wired
My verdict
The Kinklab Neon Wand Electrosex Kit is certainly one that will grab your attention. This electrically powered sex toy is going to send shooting sensations to wherever it is directed. The many attachments allow you to experience the pleasurable pains in all kinds of ways, and you have lots of customizable options to choose from. This is a completely safe kind of toy, but still, there’s something about it that seems kind of dangerous! For me, the Kinklab Neon Wand Electrosex Kit is one of those toys that I would leave to the most extreme of extreme sex toy users. Some might not like the idea of incorporating electricity into sex toys and might find the sensations to be far too far beyond anything they can handle. That’s a valid point, which is why, as cool as this kit is, I would leave it to the more advanced sex toy users!
You should buy the Kinklab Neon Wand Electrosex Kit if you...
- Think you can handle this electrifying toy
- Don't have any kind of electric sensitivities
- Want a whole kit of attachments
You should not buy the Kinklab Neon Wand Electrosex Kit if you...
- Don't like the idea of using electricity
- Are looking for a more affordable toy
- Prefer sex toys that aren't wired
Comparison of the 11 best extreme sex toys
Best | Test Winner | Powerful Vibrations | Restraints | Impact Play | Spreader Bar | Clamps | Sounding | Cock Cage | Chastity Belt | CBT | E-stim |
Overall score | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | - | 4.8 / 5.0 | 3.5 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | - | 4.3 / 5.0 | - |
Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 3.5 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 3.5 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 3.5 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.9 / 5.0 from 46 users | 4.2 / 5.0 from 40 users | - | 5 / 5.0 from 13 users | 3.5 / 5.0 from 4 users | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 3 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 85 users | - | 5 / 5.0 from 7 users | - |
Price | Medium | High | Medium | Low | Medium | Medium | High | Medium | Medium | Medium | Medium |
Design | 90 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
Ease of use | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 60 / 100 |
Quality | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
Sound | 60 / 100 | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Power | 60 / 100 | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Buzzy/Rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Materials | Silicone | Silicone, aluminium, and titanium | Metal and leather | Silicone | Metal and leather | Metal | Stainless steel | Hard plastic | Leather | Metal | ABS Plastic, glass, and copper |
Length | Various inches | 13.5 inches | - | 16.75 inches | (leg spreader) 25 inches, (arm spreader) 13.75 inches | 6.25 inches | 12 inches | 3.5 inches | Up to 40 inches | - | 13 inches |
Insertable length | Various inches | - | - | 6.75 inches | (ankle cuffs) 14.1 inches, (wrist cuffs) inches | - | 6 inches | - | - | - | - |
Width | Various inches | 1.9 inches | - | - | - | 2 inches | - | - | - | (without spikes) 1.75 inches | - |
Vibration speeds | 11 | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Vibration patterns | 2 | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Rechargeable | Yes: via mains | Yes: mains powered | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | Yes: mains powered |
Vibration modes | - | Speeds and patterns | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Waterproof | - | No | No | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | No |
Fastening | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | Lock and key | - | - | - |
If by Extreme You Mean Huge
Some people equate huge sex toys to extreme sex toys. And if that sounds like you…well, you’re in luck! I have a few big boys to tell you all about!

Cock Locker Inflatable Monster Realistic Dildo

More fun than a bouncy castle, this mightily meaty inflatable dildo with realistic veins and smooth dome head is definitely worth a go. Climb on top of its 11 awesome inches and inflate until you’re really feeling pumped! The beauty offers a resting size of 9 inches in circumference and 10.75 inches insertable length. Blow it up to get a whopping 12 inches circumference and 11.25 inch insertable length, if you can handle this monster.

Doc Johnson TitanMen Master Tool No.4 Butt Plug

With curves that put even Christina Hendricks to shame, this sensually smooth and beefy butt plug offers exceptional stretching sensations for advanced anal explorers. Coat its contours in thick water-based lube to experience its ripples of pleasure. Perfect for sating your anal desires, this hefty toy from Doc Johnson is a triple stack of texture, length and girth. The squeezable PVC helps you to conquer bigger anal toys by stretching you without feeling too solid, letting you work your way up to bigger ass play.

Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo

A head for business and a body for sin, The Boss brings you a big shot of dildo dominance wrapped up in silky smooth silicone and over 7 inches of girth-tastic length. Proficient in both vaginal and anal penetration, it’s easy to see why he’s in charge. Crafted in solid but supple silicone, The Boss boasts a gorgeously pronounced glans and velvety veining increasing in size at the base for extra stimulation.
Add Some Hard Core BDSM Accessories
Want to take things a bit more hardcore with your BDSM accessories? Yeah? You do! Awesome! I have just the toys for you!

Dominix Deluxe Leather Open Cup Body Harness with Cuffs

Harness the power of this leather harness for full-body restraint and next-level bondage play. Buckle-fastened and fully adjustable for the perfect fit, the deluxe design features 2 wrist cuffs and a plethora of O-rings for additional restraints. Cupless and crotchless for swift access, the Dominix Deluxe harness is strategically designed for erotic exposure. Strap your sub into place with the ergonomically placed buckles to achieve the most comfortable, most reliable restraint possible.

Red Bolero Straightjacket

Made of high-quality, light and medium-weight garment leather, latigo belting, and nickel-plated hardware, the Red Bolero Straitjacket is a fantastic addition to our signature line of quality leather gear. Like a traditional straitjacket, our Bolero Straitjacket has a buckling collar and back closures in addition to the extra-long glove-like sleeves that extend beyond the fingertips. The sleeves end with a small rectangular ring on one and a 1” wide strap on the other.

The Punisher Muzzle

This menacing-looking leather muzzle has a skull-like design and a snap-on blindfold. It will restrain you and keep you from being able to articulate yourself in the sexiest and most BDSM way possible! When wearing The Punisher Muzzle, you’ll be in no doubt that you’re not in charge! It is held securely in place by four straps, and four lockable chrome buckles (collar not included).

Master Series Pleasure Fister Textured Glove

Sometimes, there’s just absolutely nothing like the touch of a friendly hand. When things get a little beyond friendly, though, you might be craving a little more. Entering from stage left, the Pleasure Fister! Now, we’ve seen massage gloves with textured palms before, but we haven’t seen a glove with a textured palm AND a different shape for every finger…until now.
BDSM Furniture for Your Sex Dungeon
If you’re lucky enough to have a sex dungeon of your very own, then boy oh boy do I have some awesome BDSM furniture suggestions that will make it an even more erotic place to be!

Master Series Queening Chair

Find yourself the Queen (or King) of the bedroom. Now you can sit on your partner’s face with ease using the Queening Chair by Master Series. It is 27 inches long, 20 inches wide, and 13 inches tall. It is made of wood, PU leather, and metal. The top has a comfortable cushion to sit on with an 11 inch by 8 inch face hole. Inside rests a head hammock that wraps and secures outside the box.

Obedience Extreme Sex Bench

Strap your lover into the Obedience Extreme Sex Bench and act out your dark fantasies! This piece of sex furniture is ergonomically shaped to leave your partner exposed for spankings, penetration, or both! You can adjust the height of the arms and legs or remove the U-shaped head support for a more customized experience. There are optional straps that will allow you to restrain your partner for bondage play, and the buckles are easy to use and are quick to release.

Leather Sling, Web Style

This style of sling is made from 3″-wide strips of black leather, woven together like a big leather hammock and riveted together with nickel-plated rivets. This sling is trapezoidal in shape: about 37″ long, 22½” wide at the top (where your head rests), and 16″ wide at the base. It comes with a leather pillow and a set of leather stirrups. For use in suspended sex and/or bondage, this sling makes a great centerpiece in a playroom.
How to use extreme sex toys
How exactly do you use your extreme sex toys? Good questions! And while there are all kinds of different toys that I have reviewed, all of which work differently and do different things, there are some universal rules that apply to them all! So let’s go through those rules!

Choose extremely wisely!

When choosing which extreme sex toy you want to use, you have to be damn sure that THAT’S the one that you want. After all, they offer drastically different and intense experiences that only the most advanced of users may enjoy. So carefully think if that’s the toy for you, and whether you’ll get anything that is overall pleasurable out of it!

Take things slow and steady!

Don’t just crank things up to 11 and jump on in. Especially when it comes to extreme sex toys. That’s how you hurt yourself! Start slow and steady. You could even find an intermediate level toy that allows you to work your way up to the extreme version. Just be careful and don’t let your horny brain rule your decisions. That’s when people get hurt and accidents happen! And that’s not sexy at all!

Clean up when you're done!

As with all sex toys, you need to make sure that your extreme sex toys are cleaned up and perfect when you’re finished them. Especially those sex toys that end up covered in some kind of bodily fluid! Just imagine picking up your sex toy the next time you want to use it only to find it’s covered in bacteria and other gross-ness. Ewww!
To find out more, check out the resources I included in the ‘How to clean extreme sex toys’ section of this post!
How to clean extreme sex toys
You might find yourself wondering exactly how you clean your extreme sex toys when you're done using them. Well, luckily for you I have provided some handy resources that will help you keep them sanitised and hygienic for use time and time again!
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.
FAQ
What are extreme sex toys?
Extreme sex toys are the kinds of toys designed for those that can take the most intense and crazily pleasurable sensations that sex toys have to offer! These aren't the kinds of toys for your beginners or amateurs; these are the kinds of toys for those that really do have what it takes to handle them!
Reviewed by:
Tawney Seren