Fifty Shades of Grey, love it or hate it, has opened the world’s eyes to BDSM. All kinds of ideas about bondage, BDSM and other kinds of risque sexy stuff have moved into the mainstream cultural consciousness because of it.
In the ten years (yes, really) since the first book was released, it’s caused its fair share of controversy. From debates over its depictions of fetish practices to all kinds of news coverage of the ‘mommy porn’ craze, it’s been hard to avoid the Fifty Shades fever.
But whatever your views on the franchise, there’s no denying that it’s got a whole load of people interested in sex, and more specifically, sex toys. Purchases of sex toys mentioned in the books have gone up by over 400%, largely due to the new found popularity of jiggle, or kegel balls!
Worldwide sex toy retailer Lovehoney noticed this trend and gave the people what they wanted: a collection of official toys, accessories and bondage kits. Endorsed by author E. L. James herself, these high-quality, super sleek Fifty Shades of Grey sex toys allowed fans to re-enact their favorite scenes and sensual moments from the comfort of their own home.
Since their first collection released in 2012, the range has continued expanding to over 100 products, available at several online stores. Whatever your preferences, there’s something for everybody! Here are some of our absolute favorites, and why you might love them too…
The Iconic Rabbits
The original Greedy Girl is the crown jewel of the Fifty Shades of Grey sex toys collection. It’s world-renowned, and loved by millions of vagina-owners across the globe. It even came out on top in our rabbit vibrator rankings, and got five stars in our in-depth product review! This rechargeable rabbit features a girthy shaft and firm ears that allow you apply exactly the right amount of pressure to your clitoris. It also has three vibration speeds and 9 patterns to choose from, and two motors for powerful, rumbly vibes everywhere.
Want the rabbit vibrator experience, but with a little more… oomph? As well as its dual motors and 12 vibration modes, this mighty rabbit features a curved, bulbous tip that thrusts powerfully back and forth to massage your g-spot. The Greedy Girl Thrusting Rabbit also featured in our top rabbit vibrator rankings!
Yet, another addition to our rabbit vibrator top picks – we just can’t get enough of the Greedy Girls! This almost pocket-sized rabbit vibrator is perfect for on-the-go orgasms. It’s discreet, slim, and yet powerfully curved to reach and rumble your g-spot, making it ideal for beginners. Plus, despite its size, it still has 3 vibration speeds and 7 patterns, so there’s no need to compromise on intensity.
Greedy Girl Clitoral Rabbit Vibrator
Forget what you thought you knew about rabbit vibrators – this Greedy Girl is here to change the game. This petite pleasure machine is designed to delight your clitoris with its flexible ears that flicker and vibrate. The nub of the rabbit’s nose is also ideal for applying firmer pressure to your sweet spots. Perfect for those who love the idea of rabbit ears but want to make clitoral stimulation the star of the show.
This panty vibrator is designed to get up close and personal with the clitoris and deliver some powerful orgasms. Just slip it into your underwear and use the remote control to build-up to bliss. Alternatively, let go of the reins and hand it off to a partner for some sensual foreplay. The saddle shape and soft silicone makes it super comfy to wear wherever you feel like it. Read more about it in Isabelle’s rundown of the best butterfly vibrators.
This is a beginner-friendly butt plug with a difference. The smooth silicone and smaller size means it’s easy to insert (with plenty of water-based anal lube). Once in, use the remote control to get the vibrations going and you or your partner moaning. With a huge range of vibration options, this is sure to become a bedroom staple, either alone or together. You could even try wearing it during PIV sex for the ultimate sensations.
Could this sleek and sexy vibrator be the next addition to your nightstand? It’s one of the most versatile Fifty Shades of Grey sex toys, with a slim shaft that is angled to directly hit your g-spot, as well as a bulbous tip for massaging your clit or perineum. Perfect if you want a toy that can slip between you and your partner and provide a little something extra.
Show your prostate some love with this Fifty Shades of Grey vibrator specifically designed to target the prostate and perineum. The curved, wavy shaft provides plenty of stimulation as you insert it, and the T-shaped bar nestles against your perineum for incredible blended sensations. This remote control massager could be a real upgrade for both solo and partner play.
Love eggs, or egg vibrators, are designed to be worn internally inside the vagina so that they can nuzzle up to the g-spot. This lightweight and ergonomic egg is perfect for beginners. It can be worn as a warm up for the main act or even used solo for some thrilling sensations. You could even take it outside the house! Indulge in some discreet public play, thanks to the remote control that can be used up to 10 meters away.
Vibrating penis rings are one of the ultimate ways to upgrade sex for both you and your partner. Why not do it in style and elegance with this silken silicone Fifty Shades of Grey offering? This ring sits near the base of the penis and gently constricts for heightened sensations. The textured vibrator is perfectly positioned to hit the clitoris simultaneously during PIV sex, meaning enhanced stimulation for both of you. The bullet vibrator is even removable so you can start off with some foreplay teasing and then slip it in and go to town!
Anal beads may seem intimidating at first, but they’re incredibly popular for a reason! This unisex toy can give anyone super stimulation and extra-intense orgasms, either for the prostate or a-spot. Just slip the tapered beads in during play and thrust and twist to your heart’s desire. Then, use the loop to pull them out mid-climax for extended, amazingly intense orgasms, just like Christian Grey would.
The world of butt plugs is so vast, it can be hard to wrap your head around. If you want to give one a go (and we highly recommend it), this Fifty Shades plug is a great place to start.
At 3.25 inches around, this slim and smooth silicone plug is easy to insert with the help of some water-based anal lube. It creates a delicious sense of fullness, stimulating all your nerve-endings without being overwhelming. Once inside, you can use the loop to gently twist or thrust the plug for even greater sensations.
As I mentioned earlier, much of the excitement around the Fifty Shades of Grey sex toys has actually been around pleasure balls! There a few different kinds out there, including Kegel balls like these ones. They can be inserted into the vagina and held there using the pelvic floor muscles. This can result in stronger and more intense orgasms, and some practicers even find they feel tighter down there, too!
This set is perfect for beginners and comes with four different weights that allow you to practice and progress. Just slip them in their silicone cradle, adding some water-based lube, and insert them. Or, if you’re super experienced, you can even use them without the cradle for an intense workout.
For the über-experienced Kegel ball user, only the best and weightiest pleasure balls will suffice. These solid, metal Kegel balls have a combined weight of 7.8oz! Experience intense internal g-spot massage alongside an advanced pelvic floor workout. Connected by a strong and smooth silicone string, they’re easy to insert, remove and clean.
Ben Wa balls, otherwise known as jiggle balls, are pleasure balls with a delightful difference. Each of these silicone-coated balls contains another internal ball that moves around as you do. Once in their smooth silicone cradle and inside the vagina, these create unbelievable and unpredictable sensations around your g-spot that will have you wriggling with pleasure, too.
The balls have a combined weight of 2.2oz, making them ideal for beginner and intermediate users. If you’re really in the Fifty Shades mood, you could even experiment with some discreet public play and allow your partner to watch as you become more and more aroused.
This adjustable penis will have you coming back again and again, thanks to its customizability and versatility. Slide the cord to fit your penis and enjoy enhanced sensations, increased stamina and potentially even an enlarged erection size! They’re ideal for those who aren’t suited to other, standard-sized penis rings or if you want to experiment with wearing a penis ring behind the testicles for even greater pleasure.
Bondage & BDSM Beauties
Wondering about where to start building your own collection of Fifty Shades of Grey-esque tools? Try these silky twin blindfolds! Sensory deprivation can be incredibly arousing during erotic play, allowing one to tease and explore the other’s body while, leaving at the mercy of the dominant partner’s sexual whim. These masks make it sexy and comfortable, with satiny fronts and a luxurious faux fur backing.
This soft and sensual feather tickler is the next step in sensory play. The perfect companion to your blindfold, this tool allows you make incredibly titillating strokes that stimulate your lover’s most sensitive areas. This tickler non-intimidating for the bondage-beginner and is sure to get you hungry for the next thrill.
There’s nothing quite the feeling of gentle restraint while you writhe and squirm around in pure pleasure. With a cool metallic and satin-y exterior, super soft interior, adjustable velcro fastenings and quick-release clips, these stylish handcuffs are a perfect introduction for beginners – designed to be effective but never uncomfortable.
Attach the cuffs to each other to restrict movement or to other bondage restraints like bed straps (also available in the Fifty Shades of Grey sex toys collection), or even a lead to take the power play even further.
You know that famous saying, “the nipples are the window to the orgasm”? …Okay, maybe I made up that quote, but my point still stands! Playing with and teasing your partner’s nipples (whatever their gender) can really open up sensations and feelings of arousal that they may never have reached before, and these nipple suckers could be an exciting new way to do it.
Just squeeze and release them on the nipples to create a gentle vacuum that draws blood to the region and makes them extra-specially sensitive. Then, remove them and lightly caress your partner’s nipples for electrifying thrills.
You can’t say BDSM without mentioning ball gags – they’re a quintessential part of the bondage toolkit. They can enhance power play and sexual tension, increase feelings of (consensual) helplessness, and muffle moans, all of which can be highly erotic for some.
Try it out in style with this faux leather and antique gold gag. The 5.5 inch silicone ball has some bite to it and doesn’t cut the corners of the mouth, and the buckled strap is adjustable for most head sizes. You could even use the D-rings to attach more restraints or leads and get extra spicy with it.
Get creative with your sensory play with this versatile bondage accessory from the collection of Fifty Shades of Grey sex toys. This black and metallic silver flogger can be used to deliver teasing strokes across the body before building to quick flicks and sharper, firmer swings that will tantalize your partner’s super-sensitive nerve endings. Focus on their erogenous zones for an even more powerful sensory experience.
Smaller than traditional flogger whips, this item is a little less intimidating than its full-sized peers and ideally travel-sized for a hot weekend away.
Take nipple play to a whole new level by experimenting with these chained nipple clamps. The idea is the same as with nipple suckers: draw blood toward the surface of nipples to increase their sensitivity and create all kinds of tingles and arousal, except much more intense. The silicone-tipped clamps can be adjusted to your desired pinch, while the extra weight of the chain pulls downward for even more sensation.
Sometimes a firmer hand is required to fulfil your fantasies, which might just be the job for a spanking paddle like this one. Choose between two kinds of sensation to inflict on your partner – sensual stroking with the padded metallic satin side, or a solid spanking from the firm faux-leather side? The ergonomic design of this paddle will allow you to get in touch with your dominant side and build up the erotic excitement for both of you.
What was once a pretty scary-looking medical device has taken on a new meaning in the world of BDSM, and is actually much more approachable than it first seems. Gently roll the 22 spikes across your lover’s skin, letting the weight of the pinwheel do the work of exciting their senses, teasing their nerve endings and leaving them begging for more.
While some slight pain may be part of the erotic process, this tool isn’t designed to be uncomfortable! It’s the perfect tool for any part of the body, wherever you want to arouse.
So, there you have it! Our 25 favorite Fifty Shades of Grey sex toys and accessories – though it was a very tough time deciding which ones should make the cut. With over 100 products to choose from, it’s almost guaranteed that there’s a sleek-looking Fifty Shades of Grey toy out there for you to enjoy, even if you weren’t quite captivated with any of our picks.
Almost every one of the Fifty Shades of Grey sex toys is packaged with a soft satin bag or sleek envelope for safe and hygienic storage. They could also make a perfect erotic gift for a fan of the series that feels both luxurious and thoughtful, and could help them discover a new favorite thing to do in bed!