The 4 Best Fleshlights for Women – HerSpot Dildos and More

Kevin Foley
by Kevin FoleyUpdated:

If you’re looking for a brand new Fleshlight dildo then you’re in the right place! True, when it comes to Fleshlight for women products there aren’t many options, but that makes it all the more important that you buy the right one. I’ve reviewed the top female Fleshlight toys below, giving you the pros and cons of each. Keep reading to get informed!

Test Winner4.7Cobalt Lily Dildo rating 4.7
Curved4.7Plum Orchid Dildo rating 4.7
G-Spot4.5Golden Rose Dildo rating 4.5
Realistic4.8Johnny Sins rating 4.8
Cobalt Lily DildoPlum Orchid DildoGolden Rose DildoJohnny Sins
Cobalt Lily DildoPlum Orchid DildoGolden Rose DildoJohnny Sins
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Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
  • Offered in three sizes
  • Deep blue coloring
  • Maximum length of 5.1” to 7”
  • 1.44” to 1.64” maximum diameter
  • Lacks external textures
  • No XL version offered
  • Unique purple coloring
  • Curved shaft
  • Offered in three sizes
  • Maximum length of 6.7”
  • No color selection
  • Only offered in three sizes
  • Lacks external texturing
  • Bulbous head
  • Offered in three sizes
  • Perfect for solo & partner use
  • Easy to clean
  • Only for use with water-based lubes
  • Not textured
  • Realistic design
  • 6.62” of insertable length
  • 1.91” of maximum diameter
  • Has balls
  • Only one size offered
  • A bit pricey

How I Rated These Fleshlight for Women Toys

In order to make sure that I rated each and every one of these Fleshlight for women products as accurately as possible, I did a lot of research before writing this review.

I looked at various user reviews to learn more about each Fleshlight dildo, filling in the blanks with available information about the toys. I also compared them to similar toys, giving me a general idea of the standards that Fleshlight had set for themselves.

With my research done, I then moved on to giving each toy numerical ratings, based on a number of factors including design, pricing, ease of use, and quality. Once that was finished, I wrote a short review for each, highlighting the pros and cons of each model.

There aren’t too many to look at, but I highly recommend reading all the way through before making a decision. Each toy brings something unique to the table, so you’ll want to know exactly what you’re getting before spending your hard-earned money on a new toy!

How I Rated These Fleshlight for Women Toys
Read more about how we test products.

Types of Fleshlight Products for Women

At the moment, Fleshlight doesn’t have too many different product types in their Fleshlight women lineup. The most popular female Fleshlight products are their dildos and their vibrators.

Fortunately, unlike their stroker toys, these toys are offered at relatively competitive prices, making it possible for you to shop at Fleshlight.com on a budget!

Aside from dildos and vibrators, Fleshlight also offers couples sex toys, kegel balls, and anal toys.

Reviews of the 4 best fleshlights for women

Test Winner Cobalt Lily Dildo

4.7/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.3/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Kevin Foley

User Ratings:

5.0/5.0

Based on user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Cobalt Lily Dildo was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the fleshlight for women.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Cobalt Lily Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Cobalt Lily Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: Cobalt Lily Dildo was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Cobalt Lily Dildo

When looking at female-oriented toys, one of the Fleshlight for women products worth checking out is the Cobalt Lily Dildo.

Whereas many other dildos go for intricate designs or an ultra-realistic approach, the Cobalt Lily Fleshlight dildo takes a different route.

Offered in three sizes, this simple toy gives you a semi-firm shaft to enjoy, complete with a flared base to make the toy harness-compatible.

Thanks to the hollow inside, you should be able to stick this dildo to a smooth, flat surface and enjoy the toy hands-free if desired.

Simple, effective, and sure to make you keep coming back for more, the Cobalt Lily Dildo is a great all-around option for beginners and more experienced dildo enjoyers alike!

Pros

  • Offered in three sizes
  • Deep blue coloring
  • Maximum length of 5.1” to 7”
  • 1.44” to 1.64” maximum diameter

Cons

  • Lacks external textures
  • No XL version offered

My verdict

The other options I’ll soon show you are great, but still, I ended up choosing the Cobalt Lily Dildo as my “Test Winner”.

The main appeal of this female Fleshlight toy is its overall simplicity. The shaft is straight and the surface is non-textured. Really, the only thing that makes it stand out is its unique coloring.

Still, simplicity breeds consistency, and sometimes consistency is all you need to get the job done. Simply pick out your favorite size and enjoy!

It’s also worth noting that, unlike some other Fleshlight women products, this dildo is harness-compatible. If you have a partner that’s into pegging then this could be a big selling point!

Overall, I think this female Fleshlight toy is a winner. No, it’s not the most flashy option around, but it doesn’t need to be. It just needs to get the job done, and this blue bombshell definitely will.

Buy, if you...

  1. Need a harness-compatible toy
  2. Prefer straight-shaft dildos
  3. Prefer silicone toys

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Want over 7” of insertable length
  2. Prefer curved dildos
  3. Want a textured toy

Curved Plum Orchid Dildo

4.7/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.3/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Kevin Foley

User Ratings:

5.0/5.0

Based on user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Plum Orchid Dildo was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the fleshlight for women.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Plum Orchid Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Plum Orchid Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Plum Orchid Dildo was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Plum Orchid Dildo

If the Fleshlight women straight dildo toys just aren’t doing it for you then perhaps you’d prefer to try something with a bit of a curve… like the Plum Orchid Dildo!

Offered in three different sizes, made from platinum-cured silicone, and complete with a curved shaft for better G-spot targeting, this female Fleshlight toy is a great option for those who want something versatile.

Like the previous model, this dildo is harness-compatible, making it suitable for pegging. Thanks to the large flared base, it’s anal-safe, so you can also use it on yourself if desired.

If you’re looking for something that can offer a bit more precision when trying to hit that “perfect spot” then the purple Plum Orchid Dildo is definitely an option worth considering!

Pros

  • Unique purple coloring
  • Curved shaft
  • Offered in three sizes
  • Maximum length of 6.7”

Cons

  • No color selection
  • Only offered in three sizes
  • Lacks external texturing

My verdict

The Plum Orchid Dildo was my “Curved” pick. While it doesn’t offer quite as much precision as my next pick, I still think this is one of the better Fleshlight for women when it comes to G-spot stimulation.

Thanks to the flared base, you can easily suction this toy onto a surface or place it in your favorite harness, giving it some versatility beyond handheld activities.

This base also ensures it’s anal-safe, which is essential if you plan on using it for pegging. Aside from that, it’s a fairly simple Fleshlight dildo, with the deep purple coloring being the main thing that stands out in this design.

Still, if you’re after a simple toy but don’t like straight-shaft toys then I’d definitely recommend picking up the Plum Orchid Dildo for yourself.

Buy, if you...

  1. Plan on using a harness
  2. Prefer silicone toys
  3. Want a smooth shaft

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Want a textured shaft
  2. Prefer straight dildos
  3. Don’t like purple

G-Spot Golden Rose Dildo

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Kevin Foley

User Ratings:

4.5/5.0

Based on user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Golden Rose Dildo was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the fleshlight for women.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Golden Rose Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Golden Rose Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Golden Rose Dildo was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Golden Rose Dildo

Perfect for G-spot stimulation thanks to its bulbous head, the Golden Rose Dildo is one of the best Fleshlight for women products around.

Like other Fleshlight dildo toys, it’s offered in three sizes, offering up to a maximum length of 7” with a diameter of 1.649”.

The toy is made of firm but soft silicone, ensuring body-safe enjoyment with a filling sense of stimulation.

Like other Fleshlight dildo toys, the Golden Rose Dildo is harness-compatible, allowing you and a partner to enjoy switching roles for a bit.

Ultimately, if you’re looking for the best G-spot or P-spot stimulation that Fleshlight has to offer then the Golden Rose Dildo is simply a must-have toy to pick up!

Pros

  • Bulbous head
  • Offered in three sizes
  • Perfect for solo & partner use
  • Easy to clean

Cons

  • Only for use with water-based lubes
  • Not textured

My verdict

Thanks to the bulbous head on the end of this female Fleshlight toy, the Golden Rose Dildo ended up being chosen as my “G-Spot” pick.

The shape of the head helps provide extra pressure to your G-spot or P-spot. When paired with the slight curve of the shaft, this toy makes it easy to target, stimulate, and enjoy your inner workings (even when you can’t see them!).

Like other Fleshlight women products, the toy is made of platinum-cured silicone and offered in three sizes. Having some size variation is nice, as it means that anyone can give these toys a shot, even if they have particular sizing preferences.

However, this toy still doesn’t have any external texturing, which I think is a bit of a downside. Even a few more bumps for stimulation would have been nice. Unfortunately, this dildo only has an enlarged head for extra stimulation.

Still, these are fairly basic toys. Out of the Fleshlight lineup, I’d say this one is probably one of the most stimulating. Whether you’re simply itching to try out a new dildo or want one specifically for G-spot targeting, I’d say the Golden Rose Dildo is worth adding to your cart.

Buy, if you...

  1. Want a toy for G-spot stimulation
  2. Love silicone dildos
  3. Need something for harness play

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Don’t care about G-spot stimulation
  2. Want something realistic
  3. Prefer textured toys

Realistic Johnny Sins

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Kevin Foley

User Ratings:

5.0/5.0

Based on 20 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Johnny Sins was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the fleshlight for women.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Johnny Sins was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

95/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Johnny Sins was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Johnny Sins was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Johnny Sins

Last but not least on this list of Fleshlight women toys is the Johnny Sins!

This female Fleshlight product is built with realism in mind, from the accurately detailed exterior to the actual shape of the shaft.

Unlike the other options I’ve shown you, this one actually looks like a penis, so if you’re going for the most realistic experience possible then this is definitely a toy worth checking out.

Offering a lot of shaft diameter with a decent amount of insertable length, this toy is probably a bit ambitious for beginners. Still, if you’ve used a dildo before and are ready to take things to the next level, Johnny Sins will happily help you get there!

Pros

  • Realistic design
  • 6.62” of insertable length
  • 1.91” of maximum diameter
  • Has balls

Cons

  • Only one size offered
  • A bit pricey

My verdict

The Lovehoney Health Silicone Dilator Set isn’t overpriced, but it’s not exactly cheap either. Still, I’d say this set of silicone dilators is worth it, especially if you’ve never used a pelvic floor dilator before.

The set comes with five dilators, a storage bag, and a guide on how to use dilators. This is especially valuable to newcomers who might not know how or how long to use these devices for.

The dilators themselves are covered in silicone, making them body-safe and comfortable against your body. Completely waterproof (and thus easy to clean), maintaining these for long-term use is a painless task.

Ultimately, although plenty of people can benefit from using the Lovehoney Health Silicone Dilator Set, I think this set is best suited for those just starting out, mainly due to the smaller sizes that are included in the kit.

Buy, if you...

  1. Are a fan of Johnny Sins
  2. Prefer more realistic toys
  3. Want a toy with balls

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Prefer over 2” of shaft diameter
  2. Prefer toys without balls
  3. Want a straight dildo

Comparison of the 4 best fleshlights for women

BestTest Winner Curved G-Spot Realistic
Overall score4.7 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.3 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 4.4 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0
User rating5 / 5.0
from 1 users
5 / 5.0
from 3 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 4 users
5 / 5.0
from 20 users
PriceAffordable Affordable Affordable Moderate
Design80 / 100 80 / 100 85 / 100 90 / 100
Ease of use90 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100
Quality90 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 95 / 100
Sound----
Power----
Buzzy/Rumbly----
MaterialsPlatinum-cured silicone Platinum-cured silicone Platinum-cured silicone SuperSkin
Length(Small) 5.1 inches, (Medium) 6 inches, (Large) 7 inches(Small) 5.1 inches, (Medium) 5.75 inches, (Large) 6.7 inches(Small) 5.35 inches, (Medium) 6 inches, (Large) 7 inches8.125 inches
DiameterAt base (Small) 1.44 inches, (Medium) 1.55 inches, (Large) 1.64 inchesAt base (Small) 1.44 inches, (Medium) 1.55 inches, (Large) 1.64 inchesAt base (Small) 1.44 inches, (Medium) 1.55 inches, (Large) 1.64 inches(At largest point) 1.91 inches
Colors AvailableCobalt blue Plum purple Rose gold -
AllergiesHypoallergenic and body-safe Hypoallergenic and body-safe Hypoallergenic and body-safe Phthalate-free
Insertable length-5.2 inches-6.63 inches
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Add Some Buzz With Fleshlight Vibrators

Now that I’ve shown you the Fleshlight for women dildo selection, let’s take a look at some of their other offerings. Here are four vibrators you won’t want to miss!

Poppy Bloom Bullet Vibrator

Poppy Bloom Bullet Vibrator

Poppy Bloom Bullet Vibrator

Compact, pink, and offering three distinct speeds, this high-powered bullet vibe is the perfect travel buddy for those with a single AA battery on hand.

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Iris Bloom Power Rabbit Vibrator

Iris Bloom Power Rabbit Vibrator

Iris Bloom Power Rabbit Vibrator

Offering internal and external pleasures at the same time, the Iris Bloom rabbit vibrator is a rechargeable powerhouse that uses three different motors to make your toes curl!

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Jasmine Bloom G-spot Palm Vibrator

Jasmine Bloom G-spot Palm Vibrator

Jasmine Bloom G-spot Palm Vibrator

Designed specifically for G-spot stimulation, this handheld vibrator is perfect for a long night in. With three vibration speeds and four vibration patterns, it offers a simple but satisfying experience that you’re sure to savor.

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Lotus Bloom Palm Vibrator

Lotus Bloom Palm Vibrator

Lotus Bloom Palm Vibrator

This palm-sized vibrator is portable and powerful. Offering five vibration speeds and patterns, you can instantly enjoy amazing clitoral stimulation at the click of a button!

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HerSpot Essentials

One of the more helpful Fleshlight women products that this company offers is a lineup of premium lubricants. If you want to ensure that your first female Fleshlight goes off without a hitch, consider adding one of these to your cart as well!

Sensitive Lube by HerSpot

Sensitive Lube by HerSpot

Sensitive Lube by HerSpot

Optimized for those who’ve run into issues with other lubricants, HerSpot Sensitive is a water-based lubricant that’s gentle on sensitive skin, enriched with vitamins, and completely additive-free.

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PH Balanced Lube by HerSpot

PH Balanced Lube by HerSpot

PH Balanced Lube by HerSpot

If you’re looking for a lubricant that prioritizes vaginal health then this is definitely one you’ll want to check out. Enriched with vitamins and flower extracts, this gentle lube is a great alternative to harsh, mainstream lubes.

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Aloe Lube by HerSpot

Aloe Lube by HerSpot

Aloe Lube by HerSpot

Enriched with aloe, fragrance-free, and gentle on sensitive skin, this Aloe Lube is a great option for those who want a superior slide with a dash of skin care.

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Fleshlight for Women Comparison

There might only be four Fleshlight for women products that I’ve shown you today, but it’s still pretty hard to memorize the details for each one. To help you out when selecting a Fleshlight dildo, here’s a quick summary of which one you should pick (and why).

If you prefer straight dildos then the Cobalt Lily Dildo is the one you want. Colored a beautiful blue and harness-compatible, this toy offers a simple, straightforward, and satisfying experience.

Want a bit of curved? Consider the Plum Orchid Dildo instead. This model is relatively simple, offered in three sizes, and is colored in a pleasant purple.

Maybe you want the best G-spot stimulation possible. In that case, you’ll definitely want to go with the Golden Rose Dildo. Thanks to the bulbous head, this toy is excellent for G-spot stimulation. Oh, and did I also mention that it’s curved for a better internal reach?

Lastly, if you’re the type of person who prefers realism, go with the Johnny Sins dildo. Realistically textured, anatomically accurate, and named after a real star, this dildo is a great option for those who want a lifelike experience.

How to Use a Fleshlight for Women

Using these female Fleshlight toys is quite easy. Still, it’s something you’ll want to make sure you do, especially if you want to get the most out of your new toy. Not quite sure how to go about it? Here’s how!

How to Use a Fleshlight for Women

Check Your Toy

Check Your Toy

Even brand-new toys can come with defects. Check to make sure your particular toy is in good condition. While you’re at it, give it a quick cleaning before grabbing a bottle of your favorite lube.

How to Use a Fleshlight for Women

Prep Your Toy

Prep Your Toy

Next, you’ll have to lube both yourself and the toy. You’ll want to lubricate yourself inside and out. For the dildo, try to mainly lubricate the head and shaft, as lubricating the base will make the toy challenging to hold on to.

How to Use a Fleshlight for Women

Insert Your Toy

Insert Your Toy

With everything all lubed up, it’s time to finally insert your toy! Take things slowly, and don’t be afraid to add more lube if necessary. Once you’ve inserted it, experiment with different depths, angles, and speeds to find what works best for you.

How to Clean a Fleshlight for Women

These Fleshlight for women are simple to clean, requiring only antibacterial soap and some warm water to get the job done. Clean once using soap and water, then wash away any leftover soap using water only. You can also sterilize your Fleshlight dildo if it, a.) doesn’t contain any internal electronics, and b.) is made purely of silicone. To do so, simply boil a pot of water. Once boiling, drop the toy in the water and leave it there for five minutes. Once done cleaning and/or sterilizing your toy, pat it down with a dry towel. From here, leave it out to air dry completely before storing it away. Remember to never store your toy away before it’s completely dried, as doing so can allow bacteria to grow in the leftover moisture.

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
materials

Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.

FAQ

What type of lube should I use with Fleshlight for women toys?
I recommend sticking with water-based lubricants. These lubes won’t damage your sex toy’s materials, helping ensure that you can keep enjoying them for a long time!
Are Fleshlight for women toys anal-safe?
All of the main Fleshlight for women toys listed below are anal-safe. If you’re not sure, though, there’s an easy way to check. Take a look at the product. Does it have a flared base? If so, chances are, it’s anal-safe!
Are Fleshlight for women toys body-safe?
It depends on the toy. However, most Fleshlight for women toys are made of or covered in silicone, which is a body-safe non-porous material.
Who can use Fleshlight for women toys?
Well, women, men, and basically anyone who wants to! Although these toys were designed with the female form in mind, dildos are very versatile toys. With a bit of creativity, even most vibrators can be enjoyed by anyone.
Where is the best place to buy Fleshlight for women toys?
Although there are quite a few online stores that sell Fleshlight for women toys, I’d recommend sticking solely to the official Fleshlight website. This will give you access to the latest products while also ensuring that you receive a genuine product!

What is a Fleshlight for Women?

A Fleshlight for women toy is a toy produced by Fleshlight that’s designed primarily to be used or enjoyed by women. Generally, these toys take place in the form of a dildo or vibrator, unlike the “male” toys (which are primarily stroker toys). Although Fleshlight doesn’t have a lot to offer women at this time, it’s nice to see that they are slowly expanding their offerings.

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Kevin Foley

Content writer | As a writer, I work with many different topics. However, my work for BedBible is especially fulfilling, as it gives me the opportunity to promote sexual wellness, educate readers, and expand my personal knowledge on the aforementioned topics. I believe that approaching sexuality with a genuine desire to learn is the best way to expand one’s personal horizons, leading to healthier, more fulfilling relationships—both with yourself and with your partner(s)—down the road.

Age: 27
Gender: Male
Sexual orientation: Straight
Sex toy experience: Intermediate
All-time favorite sex toy: Lelo F1S v2
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