The 16 Best Flexible Dildos That Really Hit the Spot
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How we tested the best flexible dildos
We started off by scouring the internet for honest and unbiased reviews of various flexible dildos. We wanted to hear from the average person – no corporate shills, no suck ups, we wanted real-life thoughts and opinions on the flexible dildos. What we were after were people who would point out the flaws and the negatives, not just the positives.
And as if that wasn’t good enough, we even got some of our amazing sex toy tester team to try out the flexible dildos. They were able to cast a critical and subjective eye over the toys, not only raving about the many amazing sides, but also pointing out the downsides too. Now THAT’S the kind of honest opinion we’re after! Finally, we were able to use all these thoughts, feelings, and opinions to craft our very own detailed review!
Flexible dildo materials
Flexible dildos not only come in all shapes and sizes, but they also come in all kinds of material. We’re going to explore a few of the more well known ones and highlight some of their features as well as their drawbacks.
- Silicone – When it comes to flexible dildos, silicone is a great material to use It is body safe, feels uncannily life-like, and because it is non-porous it’s easy to keep clean. And importantly to this kind of toy, it also has a good flexibility to it. Just bear in mind that silicone-based or oil-based lubricants can break down the silicone toy, so it’s always best to go with water-based lubes!
- PVC – Sometimes referred to as a poor man’s latex, PVC is infamous for its general lack of quality. Flexible dildos made from PVC often contain a lot of chemicals so aren’t body-safe, and more often than not they look and feel like lesser-quality products.
- Jelly – Much like PVC, jelly flexible dildos contain chemicals that are pretty bad for your body. In fact, they are essentially cheap imitations of toys that do the exact same thing in a much less harmful and more safe way. The price might appeal to you, but the unintended side effects of using such a toy just aren’t worth it.
Different types of flexible dildos
Different types? You mean…there are different types of flexible dildo? Correct! Crazy world, isn’t it. So let’s take a little look at a few of the options available to you!
- Adjustable – If you want a dildo that you can adjust and move to your liking, then an adjustable one is what you’re looking for. Great for if you want to try out some awkwardly sexy positions!
- Soft and squishy – Sometimes you don’t want a rock solid dildo, sometimes you want something a little more flippy floppy and fun to have a play with. Lucky for you that they make dildos just like that for some flaccid fun!
- Curved – A straight dildo is all well and good, but sometimes you want something a little shaped and curved to be able to slide inside and hit that spot perfectly. A curved dildo will hook you in from the moment you set eyes on it!
How to choose the right size flexible dildo
Choosing a flexible dildo that’s the right size for you is pretty important! You want a dildo that’s not too big, not too small, that’s just right. In the Goldilocks zone, if you know what we mean! An oversized flexible dildo could cause some real damage, whereas an undersized dildo might not pleasure you nearly as much as you want to be pleasured.
Ideally you want to start off small and work your way up til you find a flexible dildo that meets your needs perfectly. Better off starting small and going bigger than starting large and damaging yourself! We would always recommend listening to your body. Your horny mind might want to go further and further, but if your body is telling you it’s time for a rest then it’s time for a rest. Choosing a dildo that’s the right size is important, but it’s not as important as your own safety!
FAQ
What is a Flexible Dildo?
A flexible dildo is any dildo that is not rigid and whose shape can be modified. 'Flexible' is an umbrella term that may refer to posable dildos that can be adjusted and hold their new shape or soft dildos that are bendy. Posable dildos are fantastic for g-spot or p-spot stimulation, whereas soft dildos are best suited to vaginal penetration. While they can also be good for anal penetration, the softer they are, the more difficult they'll be to insert. Flexible dildos are great for people who like to be in complete control of where the stimulation is targeted or those who prefer their stimulation on the softer, squishier side. You can use a flexible dildo to solo fun or with a partner — look out for suction cup bases or harness compatible dildos for hands-free fun!
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The 13 Best flexible dildos in Test
Fun Factory Limba Flex Posable Dildo
This bendy beauty from Fun Factory really delivers on flexible fun.
Featuring a posable metal core wrapped in soft, smooth silicone, you can bend it, shape it, any way you want it (yes that’s an American Breed reference, and I hope you enjoy humming that tune for the rest of the day).
Once you’ve found your chosen position the inner core holds the dildo firmly in position for you to enjoy. Then simply bend the dildo into a new position to experience new sensations each time you play.
You can ride this flexible dildo using the suction cup or in a harness and being waterproof, it’s perfect for some fun in the shower or bath.
The Fun Factory Limba Flex Posable Dildo was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Want a flexible dildo for vaginal and anal play Prefer your dildos on the smaller side or you are first-time userWant a harness-compatible flexible dildoEnjoy hands-free riding
Prefer a larger dildoAre looking for a vibrating flexible dildo| Length | 5 inches |
| Insertable length | 4.5 inches |
| Diameter | 1.19 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Weight | 0.24 lbs |
| Adjustable | Yes |
Easy to poseHolds it shape wellAvailable in two sizesStrong suction cupSmooth siliconeHarness Compatible
Small size may be too small for some peopleThis is a fantastic flexible dildo that holds its shape very well. Once in position, you are good to go and don’t need to keep readjusting to maintain the position. The suction cup has some strong staying power too!
When used for vaginal penetration, the small size is best suited to beginners, although this length is also good for targeted g-spot stimulation. This is also a great size for anal penetration. For anyone who prefers a little more size, you are in luck as Fun Factory has also made a bigger size.
Given the quality and versatility of the dildo, this is a great price. Not only can you explore different shapes and sensations, but you also have the option to use it hands-free with the suction cup or pop it into a harness. Also, the silicone is high-quality and easy to clean.
Satisfyer Charming Smile
Satisfyer’s Charming Smile is here to charm your sweet spots with flexi, curvy, vibrating fun.
The curved silicone shaft delivers 12 thrilling vibrating functions to tease your g-spot, with easy-to-use controls to turn up the heat just when you need it.
Fully waterproof and with a finger loop handle for easy control this lavender lover is as practical as it is pretty!
The Satisfyer Charming Smile was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Rating: Satisfyer Charming Smile was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Satisfyer Charming Smile felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Satisfyer Charming Smile was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Satisfyer Charming Smile felt to the reviewer.
Love flexible but firm G-spot vibrations! Prefer a smaller dildo — this is perfect for first time usersWant a flexible dildo for external or vaginal useHave limited strength or mobility in your handsPrefer a larger dildoDon't enjoy g-spot stimulationWant a posable dildo| Vibration modes | 12 |
| Length | 7.3 inches |
| Insertable length | 4.6 inches |
| Diameter | 1.7 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone & ABS plastic |
| Rechargeable | Yes |
| Vibration modes | No |
| Weight | 7.76 lbs |
| Flexibility | Yes |
Curved tip for g-spot stimulation12 vibration functionsBody flexes to fit your body WaterproofFinger loop handleGreat for vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulationCurved tip might be not suit all bodiesCan be a little tricky to find the right positionThis compact vibrator may be small in size and price tag, but it doesn’t compromise on power. There’s a great range in the different intensities, and the controls are easy to use. The loop handle is also a great addition, making it easy to massage your g-spot or even use the curved tip to stimulate your clitoris and surrounding areas of the vulva.
The Charming Smile sticks with Satisfyer’s signature playful, colorful look. These designs are perfect for people who enjoy non-representational sex toys that are very inviting and non-intimidating.
The curved tip is quite pronounced, so it might not suit everyone’s body, but it’s fantastic if you enjoy focussed g-spot massage and vibrations.
Lifelike Lover Classic Posable Realistic Dildo
This flexible realistic dildo comes with its own bendy superpower. Enjoy the lifelike details of the sculpted head, realistic balls, and raised veins with the added bonus of being able to bend it to suit your needs.
You can enjoy this dildo hands-free with the suction cup base or in a harness for pegging and strap-on penetration.
The Lifelike Lover Classic Posable Realistic Dildo was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Are looking for a first-time anal or vaginal dildo. Enjoy hands-free masturbationWant a harness-compatible posable dildoPrefer a realistic designPrefer a non-porous materialPrefer non-representational designs| Length | 6.5 inches |
| Insertable length | 6 inches |
| Diameter | 1.59 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Phthalate-Free PVC |
| Adjustable | Yes |
Flexible, posable coreSculpted headSuction cup Realistic testiclesMade from PVC, which is a porous material that cannot be fully cleanedThis flexible, realistic dildo from Lovehoney’s Lifelike Lover Classic range is a great option for first-time flexible dildo users. The size of this dido makes it ideal for exploring the pleasures of vaginal or anal penetration alone or with a partner.
The realistic details add some great textures that enhance the sensations and definitely look the part if you enjoy representational dildos.
The low price also makes it accessible and a good way to try out a flexible dildo without investing too much. That being said, it is made of PVC, which is a porous material, so you might want to consider using a condom.
Lovehoney Super Soft Silicone Galaxy Dildo
Get ready for some out-of-this-world orgasms with this stunning, stellar dildo from Lovehoney.
Treat your body to some sensually soft, bendy silicone with incredible swirling designs.
This flexible dildo is completely waterproof and can be enjoyed hands-free suctioned to any flat, smooth surface.
The Lovehoney Super Soft Silicone Galaxy Dildo was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Prefer your silicone toys on the soft sidenjoy this dildo vaginally or anally and it is harness compatible (1.75-inch O ring).Want a dildo for anal or vaginal useWant a dildo you can use hands free (suction cup or harness)Enjoy more intense internal massage and g-spot stimulation. Prefer realistic designsWant a posable dildo| Length | 7 inches |
| Insertable length | 6 inches |
| Diameter | 1.43 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Flexibility | Yes |
Super soft and bendySwirling galaxy design WaterproofStrong suction cupThe softness may make it a little harder to insert anallyIs this not one of the most beautiful-looking dildos you ever did see? As well as the magical design, this dildo feels amazing! Although it isn’t super squidgy, it definitely has squeeze appeal and is much bendier than other dildos. This softness makes it easier to use vaginally than anally, although it can be used for either.
This flexible dildo is made of high-quality silicone and can be used in a harness or with the suction cup, all for a relatively low price, making it a fantastic addition to any bedside table.
If you can’t get enough of the design, don’t worry, Lovehoney has made a matching galaxy butt plug!
We-Vibe Nova 2
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Discreet shipping and billing#1 biggest American retailerShipping rate: $7.99Like other We-Vibe products, the Nova 2 delivers powerful, rumbly vibrations. The addition of the posable g-spot arm makes this a better fit for more bodies. The clitoral arm also has some flexible helping it to maintain clitoral contact. It might take some trial and error to find the right position, but once you do, you won’t be disappointed.
The vibrator itself is high-quality with soft silicone that is easy to clean. The app, however, can be temperamental and has some connectivity problems meaning it can lose connection.
This is a high-end product and is, therefore, a bit more expensive. At this price, you would expect the app connection to be more reliable.
The We-Vibe Nova 2 was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
Rating: We-Vibe Nova 2 was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of We-Vibe Nova 2 felt to the reviewer.
Rating: We-Vibe Nova 2 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of We-Vibe Nova 2 felt to the reviewer.
Love dual stimulationHave found it hard to find the right position with other rabbit vibratorsLove the idea of app-controlled solo or partner play Want a toy for long-distance sex Prefer a full feeling from your penetrative toys — the curved arm is more focussed on G-spot stimulation| Vibration modes | 10 |
| Length | 8.5 inches |
| Insertable length | 5 inches |
| Diameter | 1.35 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Rechargeable | Yes |
| Vibration modes | 120 |
| Vibration modes | 90 |
| Vibration modes | Yes |
| Vibration modes | We-Connect |
| Vibration modes | Yes |
| Adjustable | Posable clitoral arm |
Dual stimulation Powerful, rumbly vibrationsPosable g-spot arm Can be controlled with the We-Connect app Can be controlled long-distanceCan take some practice to find the right position App has connectivity issues and can be difficult to connect or loses connectionLike other We-Vibe products, the Nova 2 delivers powerful, rumbly vibrations. The addition of the posable g-spot arm makes this a better fit for more bodies. The clitoral arm also has some flexible helping it to maintain clitoral contact. It might take some trial and error to find the right position, but once you do, you won’t be disappointed.
The vibrator itself is high-quality with soft silicone that is easy to clean. The app, however, can be temperamental and has some connectivity problems meaning it can lose connection.
This is a high-end product and is, therefore, a bit more expensive. At this price, you would expect the app connection to be more reliable.
Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies Double-Ended Dildo
Double-ended and double the fun. With 18 inches of length and two ends to choose from, you’ve got plenty to play with. Choose to keep all the bendy fun to yourself for some double penetration or share the pleasure with a partner.
This double-ended flexible dildo has raised veins to add some textural sensations and can be enjoyed in the bath or shower.
The Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies Double-Ended Dildo was rated 50 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
Want a dildo for solo double penetration Are looking for a dildo to share with your partner