The 7 Best Pieces of Gay Bondage Gear For Queer Kinksters
If you’ve come to this site hoping to find some high-quality gay BDSM gear then you’re in the right place. Today, I’ll be showing you seven different pieces of gay bondage gear that will go along nicely with your current collection of gay fetish sex toys. I’ve included vegan-friendly gay BDSM gear, collars, chastity cages, beginner-friendly options, and much more. You’ll even find a few kinky gay sex toys worth picking up along the way! I ended up dubbing the Male Power Shoulder Harness the “Test Winner”. As a full-body harness and cock ring in one, it’s an excellent versatile piece of equipment that will surely look at home in any toy box. Of course, that’s not the only great offering I’ve found so it’s worth reading all the way through. Who knows: your favorite new piece of gay BDSM equipment could be waiting below!
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The Process of Picking the Best Gay Bondage Gear
With so many different pieces of gay bondage gear to compare, I had to use some sort of standardized rating process to accurately compare the different selections. As such, each product has been rated on a variety of factors including—but not limited to—value, design, quality, and ease of use.
I’ve gathered information from a few different sources, mainly customer feedback and available manufacturer data. By using multiple sources, I’m able to read between the lines, finding and pointing out the differences between manufacturer claims and real-world results.
With all of this information at hand, all that’s left to do is read through to find one you like!
The Most Popular Types of Gay Bondage Gear
Before I show you all of the different gay BDSM equipment I’ve found, I think it’s a good idea for you to get familiar with the most popular types of gay bondage gear. Don’t worry: the differences are quite obvious so you shouldn’t have any trouble remembering the differences!
- Restraint systems with a cock ring – Varying widely in design, these systems all serve the same purpose: to restrain the wearer while ensuring their erection stays harder for longer. The cock ring can also help prevent premature ejaculation, or even be used for orgasm denial!
- Chest harnesses – Wrapping securely around the chest and often featuring multiple O-rings for attaching additional accessories, chest harnesses serve as both a practical item and an ornamental piece.
- Gags – Every gag is designed to go inside the mouth. However, exactly what these kinky gay toys do depends on the design of the gag in question. Whereas some are meant to silence the wearer completely, others simply force them to keep their mouth open.
- Cuffs – Easy to use and perfect for some quick bedroom bondage, cuffs are an essential piece of gay BDSM gear. While many cuffs are designed to go around the wrists, some cuffs are designed to go around the ankles instead.
Reviews of the 7 best gay bondage gear
Test Winner Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring
Overall Rating
4.5/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5.0
User Ratings:
4.6/5.0
Based on 11 user reviews
Rating: Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the gay bondage gear.
Rating: Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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First up on my list of gay bondage gear is the Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring!
This versatile piece of equipment is fully adjustable, making it an excellent option for nearly anyone.
Its integrated O-rings make it instantly compatible with nearly any BDSM toys gay men might have one hand for bondage purposes, and the cock ring ensures you’ll stay more than ready throughout the experience.
Easily adjusted using the popper fastening and priced much lower than you’d expect, the Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring is a great piece of gay BDSM gear that you should consider picking up!
Pros
- ✅ Adjustable
- ✅ Integrated cock ring
- ✅ O-rings for adding accessories
- ✅ Affordable
Cons
- ❌ Metal type not disclosed
- ❌ No sizing options
My verdict
I chose the Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring as the “Test Winner” for a few different reasons, but the main one was just how versatile this harness is.
There are many different types of gay fetish sex toys. Since this harness features multiple O-rings in its design, you should be able to attach or integrate them into your setup without much effort.
Of course, not all kinky gay sex toys will be able to be mounted, but I think this harness gives you a good starting point.
Another bonus is the integrated cock ring, which should be more than adequate for most penises.
However, there are a few downsides to this harness, mainly the lack of transparency. The manufacturer doesn’t say what materials are used to make this toy, which is always nice to know.
It’s also worth noting that there’s only one size available. While the harness itself is adjustable, this may not be enough for extra small or extra large body types.
Still, I think this harness is an excellent offering overall. Offering versatility, adjustability, and an enjoyable user experience, I think this is a great option for most BDSM enthusiasts.
You should buy the Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring if you...
- Want a full-body harness
- Have a small budget
- Need an integrated cock ring
You should not buy the Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring if you...
- Prefer silicone accessories
- Want color options
- Don’t like studs
Cheapest Buckling Cock Ring/Chain Leash Set
Overall Rating
4.7/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.3/5.0
Reviewed by:
Kevin FoleyUser Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 7 user reviews
Rating: Buckling Cock Ring/Chain Leash Set was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the gay bondage gear.
Rating: Buckling Cock Ring/Chain Leash Set was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Buckling Cock Ring/Chain Leash Set was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Buckling Cock Ring/Chain Leash Set was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other gay bondage gear.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Buckling Cock Ring/Chain Leash Set for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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Enjoy BDSM with a bit of CBT? If so, then the Buckling Cock Ring/Chain Leash Set might be worth picking up!
This toy is essentially a gay BDSM collar for your cock, complete with a chain and leather handle for easy “guidance”.
Whether you’re the one leading or the one being led, this leash set is sure to add a lot of excitement to your sex life.
Priced to sell and easy to use, the Buckling Cock Ring/Chain Leash Set is the perfect addition to any sex of gay BDSM sex toys!
Pros
- ✅ Made of high-quality materials
- ✅ Can be used with other cock rings
- ✅ Simple design
- ✅ High-quality materials
Cons
- ❌ No vegan options
My verdict
Despite being the “Cheapest” piece of gay bondage gear on this list, I still think the Buckling Cock Ring/Chain Leash Set will be an attractive option for some, especially those into light CBT.
Easy to use and able to work with essentially any size of penis, this x is certainly an accessible option. Being detachable, the chain can also be used with other gay BDSM gear, adding to its overall value.
The price of this product is very good, costing less than $30 for both the chain and the adjustable cock ring. When paired with some other gay bondage toys, I think you’ll get a lot of use out of this item.
The only real downside is the lack of a vegan leather option. Aside from that, there aren’t any downsides to speak of.
If the idea of leading your partner around by their penis (or vice versa) sounds attractive to you then this is definitely a toy you’ll want to get your hands on!
You should buy the Buckling Cock Ring/Chain Leash Set if you...
- Want to lead your partner
- Need a simple toy
- Love the look of leather and metal
You should not buy the Buckling Cock Ring/Chain Leash Set if you...
- Are vegan
- Aren’t into CBT
- Don’t have an interested partner
Beginner DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Cross-Body Harness
Overall Rating
4.5/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.3/5.0
Reviewed by:
Kevin FoleyUser Ratings:
4.8/5.0
Based on 9 user reviews
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Cross-Body Harness was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the gay bondage gear.
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Cross-Body Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Cross-Body Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Cross-Body Harness was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Cross-Body Harness for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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If you’re looking for a simple piece of gay bondage gear then the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Cross-Body Harness is a good option.
Designed to highlight your pecs, this cross-body harness wraps tightly around your torso. Made of leather, this harness will give you the ideal look you’re going for!
The harness can be easily used with other gay BDSM equipment, thanks to integrated O-rings on the front & the back.
Suitable for use with all of your favorite kinky gay toys, this harness is easily a staple of any BDSM toy collection.
Pros
- ✅ Adjustable
- ✅ Made with genuine leather
- ✅ Integrated O-rings
Cons
- ❌ A bit pricey
My verdict
This harness is a great option for beginners looking to start their own collection of gay BDSM gear. It’s very basic in design, but it offers both the looks and the functionality that you’ll want in your BDSM toys gay play setup.
The main downside of this harness is that it doesn’t offer anything beyond the basic harness. It would’ve been nice to have an integrated cock ring along with the harness itself (like the model above). Still, simplicity is best for complete beginners.
This item won’t be good for vegans, as the harness is made from actual leather. That said, most people will find this to be a positive thing.
If you’re just starting a collection or want something easy to use, it’s easy to recommend the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Cross-Body Harness!
You should buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Cross-Body Harness if you...
- Love leather
- Prefer buckles to press-fits
- Need something adjustable
You should not buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Cross-Body Harness if you...
- Prefer studs
- Want integrated accessories
- Are vegan
Collar DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring
Overall Rating
4.4/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.3/5.0
Reviewed by:
Kevin FoleyUser Ratings:
4.5/5.0
Based on 26 user reviews
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the gay bondage gear.
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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Remember how I said the last option didn’t have a cock ring? Well, this one does!
Combining a high-quality leather collar with a metal cock ring, the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring is a simple piece of kink gear that makes it easy to get freaky at home.
Equipped with a quick-release clip for worry-free play, including two sizes of cock rings, and completely adjustable, this affordable piece of x will go along perfectly with the rest of your gay fetish sex toys.
Want to take full control of your partner (or have them do the same to you)?
Well, you can with the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring!
Pros
- ✅ 2-in-1 design
- ✅ Comes with two cock rings
- ✅ Adjustable
- ✅ Quick-release clip
Cons
- ❌ Only one size of chain included
- ❌ Over $20
My verdict
As my “Collar” pick, you can trust that this piece of gay bondage gear is durable, easy to use, and provides a good value for the price!
Although there are definitely cheaper options out there, I think this one is reasonably priced for what it is. You get one collar, the chain, and two sizes of cock rings for the price.
Including multiple chains would have been nice, but sadly, that’s not offered here. I think a clipped design would’ve really helped make this toy a better gay BDSM collar.
Customer feedback is generally positive, with most reporting a snug fit and lots of fun with their partners.
While I probably wouldn’t recommend this to single individuals (unless you just want it for the looks), I think it’s a great option for couples who love experimenting with new gay BDSM sex toys.
You should buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring if you...
- Want a 2-in-1 toy
- Need a prop for control
- Love the look of leather & metal
You should not buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring if you...
- Are vegan
- Won’t use the cock ring
- Aren’t comfortable with metal rings
Gag Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone O-Ring Gag
Overall Rating
4.4/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.4/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
0/5.0
Based on 0 user reviews
Rating: Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone O-Ring Gag was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the gay bondage gear.
Rating: Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone O-Ring Gag was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone O-Ring Gag was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone O-Ring Gag was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone O-Ring Gag for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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Bondage gags are an essential piece of gay bondage gear, but not everyone is comfortable with the idea of having their airway completely blocked off. Enter, the Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone O-Ring Gag!
This silicone and metal piece of gay BDSM gear can be easily used by anyone familiar with BDSM gear.
Completely adjustable, comfortable, and easy on your teeth, this gag will go perfectly with all of your other favorite gay bondage toys.
Made to last and offered at a fair price, this O-ring gag will surely help you take your BDSM play to the next level!
Pros
- ✅ Gentle on the teeth
- ✅ Made of silicone
- ✅ Adjustable
- ✅ Vegan-friendly
Cons
- ❌ Somewhat pricey
- ❌ Metal type not disclosed
My verdict
If you’re looking for a gag then I think my “Gag” pick will do the job nicely! One of the main issues people can run into with this type of gay BDSM equipment is long-term teeth damage with continued use.
Fortunately, since the ring is made from silicone, you won’t have that issue with these kinky gay toys! The strap is also made of silicone, and the rings on the side are made from metal. This setup makes the gag extremely easy to clean and sterilize, which is great for a toy that goes inside your mouth.
The strap is adjusted using a buckle system, which should be able to easily accommodate most head sizes. Really, my only minor complaint would be pricing. At full price, this gag costs barely $50!
Even so, I’d say it’s worth picking up if you have the cash. You can expect this gag to last a long time, making the upfront cost seem a bit more reasonable.
The only people I wouldn’t recommend this to are those who want an obstructive gag (like a ball gag). However, if breathability is important to you then the Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone O-ring Gag is the gag for you!
You should buy the Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone O-Ring Gag if you...
- Want a simple O-ring gag
- Prefer silicone toys
- Are vegan
You should not buy the Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone O-Ring Gag if you...
- Want your mouth obstructed
- Prefer clip fasteners
- Need a budget-friendly option
Chastity CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit
Overall Rating
4.3/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.2/5.0
Reviewed by:
Kevin FoleyUser Ratings:
4.4/5.0
Based on 85 user reviews
Rating: CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the gay bondage gear.
Rating: CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
High
Rating: CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is very expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
When it comes to BDSM toys gay chastity can definitely be a turn-on. If chastity play is something you and your partner enjoy then the CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit is worth adding to your collection!
The cage will easily keep your equipment under lock and key, yet still allows for needed functionality via the urine/semen hole.
Coming with one metal padlock, five plastic locks, and a key, this kit has everything you need to get started on your chastity journey.
Whether you’re the one being locked up or the one holding the key, this piece of gay BDSM gear is sure to change the dynamic of your sex life!
Pros
- ✅ Transparent design
- ✅ Urine hole
- ✅ Hypoallergenic
- ✅ Includes plastic padlocks
Cons
- ❌ Expensive
- ❌ Only offered in one size
My verdict
Earning the “Chastity” mention on this list, the CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit is the perfect item for beginners and more experienced chastity players alike.
This transparent piece of gay bondage gear comes with a variety of accessories, which is a nice change from standalone cages. In addition to the metal lock, you also receive plastic locks that should allow you to pass through metal detectors without attracting unwanted attention.
These gay fetish sex toys are unique in the sense that they will actually prevent you from being able to have sex, but that’s exactly how they excel: by making the buildup even more intense! Not everyone will enjoy chastity play, but for those that do, I think this cage is worth it.
That said, the CB-6000 is pretty pricey. At around $150, it’s an investment you’ll want to think about before you make it.
However, being high-quality, comfortable to wear, coming with a small variety of accessories, and fitting on most penises, I think it’s worth the premium that the company is asking for.
You should buy the CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit if you...
- Enjoy chastity play
- Need a long-term wear cage
- Don’t mind paying a premium
You should not buy the CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit if you...
- Lose track of keys often
- Need a budget-friendly option
- Have a flaccid length >3.5”
Thigh Sling Saffron Thigh Sling By Sportsheets
Overall Rating
4.3/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4/5.0
Reviewed by:
Mariah LyonsUser Ratings:
4.5/5.0
Based on 6 user reviews
Rating: Saffron Thigh Sling By Sportsheets was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the gay bondage gear.
Rating: Saffron Thigh Sling By Sportsheets was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Saffron Thigh Sling By Sportsheets was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Saffron Thigh Sling By Sportsheets was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Saffron Thigh Sling By Sportsheets for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
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Lots of gay bondage gear is meant to enhance the experience but does little to support you. That’s where the Saffron Thigh Sling comes in!
With this sling, you’ll be able to enjoy both your partner’s body and all of your favorite gay BDSM sex toys in whatever position you’d like. Forget getting tired: the Saffron Thigh Sling has all the support you need!
Able to be used for a variety of different positions and completely adjustable for maximum comfort, this sling is perfect for both vanilla and BDSM-based sexcapades alike!
Pros
- ✅ Vegan-friendly
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Provides neck support
- ✅ Allows for hands free positioning and deeper penetration
- ✅ Fully adjustable straps
- ✅ Storage bag!
Cons
- ❌ No genuine leather option offered
- ❌ No color options
- ❌ Straps can slip mid session
- ❌ You WILL get sticky thighs/neck
My verdict
My “Thing Sling” pick is one that I’m sure you’ll instantly fall in love with! It’s perhaps not an essential piece of gay BDSM gear, but I think it’s one that you’ll get a lot of use out of.
Despite its appearance, the Sling is actually made from PU vegan leather, making it available to more people and also easier to keep clean. It’s also fully adjustable, so you won’t need to worry about struggling to get comfy.
With support behind your neck and two stirrups holding your feet in place, you’ll definitely be able to use this toy more than you would other gay bondage toys. Also, there are two d-rings possible for you to restrain even more body parts.
I don’t really have any major complaints with the sling. It is a bit pricey, but considering how many different ways you can use it, I’d argue that it’s worthwhile.
If you want to take your sex life to the next level but worry about having the stamina to hold positions, overcome those potential issues easily using the Saffron Thigh Sling!
You should buy the Saffron Thigh Sling By Sportsheets if you...
- Have trouble holding positions
- Want neck support
- Have an active sex life
- Want deeper penetration
- Want the option for hands free positions
You should not buy the Saffron Thigh Sling By Sportsheets if you...
- Don’t need help holding positions
- Prefer genuine leather
- Want a different color
- Have neck issues
- Want a more rigid positioning device
Comparison of the 7 best gay bondage gear
| Best | Test Winner | Cheapest | Beginner | Collar | Gag | Chastity | Thigh Sling |
| Overall score | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | - | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.6 / 5.0 from 11 users | 5 / 5.0 from 7 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 9 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 26 users | - | 4.4 / 5.0 from 85 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 6 users |
| Price | Low | Low | Low | Low | Low | High | Low |
| Design | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Quality | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Materials | Stretchy material, metal | Leather, metal | Leather, metal | Leather | Silicone | Polycarbonate | PU Vegan Leather, Nylon |
| Openings | Cock ring | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Fastening | Press stud | Buckle | Buckle | Buckle | Buckle | Lock and key | - |
| Flexibility | Flexible | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Adjustable | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | - | - |
| Length | - | 36.5 inches | 17 to 24 inches | 22 inches | - | 3.5 inches | Straps: up to 48 inches, Thigh Cuffs: up to 32 inches |
| Diameter (internal) | - | (Cock ring) 0.75 to 2.75 inches | - | (S) 1.6 inches, (L) 2 inches | (O-ring) 1.5 inches | - | - |
| Harness Size | - | - | (Chest) 27 to 40 inches | - | - | - | - |
| Quick-release valve | - | - | - | Quick-release clip | - | - | - |
| Allergies | - | - | - | Latex-free | Latex & phthalate-free | Latex-free | - |
| Insertable length | - | - | - | - | - | Up to 3.25 inches | - |
| Width | - | - | - | - | - | 1.38 inches | - |
| Waterproof | - | - | - | - | - | - | Yes |
| Storage Bag Included | - | - | - | - | - | - | Yes |
| Colors Available | - | - | - | - | - | - | Black & Red |
More Extreme Gay Bondage Gear for Experienced Kinksters
If the gay BDSM equipment we’ve looked at so far hasn’t been up to your standards then you might be hoping for some more extreme kinky gay toys. Here are a few that might pique your interest!
Black Wooden Cock Ring Pillory
Simple but effective, the Black Wooden Cock Ring Pillory is a piece of gay bondage gear that’s sure to drive your partner wild. Restricting their hands, their cock, and their balls within its tight grasp, the pillory is perfect for everything from submissive training to CBT!
Nipple Clamps/Cock Ring Set
Lots of people enjoy nipple play. If you’re one of those people then this Nipple Clamps/Cock Ring Set might be worth checking out. Complete with a cock ring below and two adjustable nipple clamps up top, this set is perfect for any light torture session!
Leather Torso Harnesses
Combining a completely adjustable leather torso harness with an integrated cock ring, this harness gives you the look you’re after and the stamina you’ll need to get the job done!
KinkLab Leather Hog Tie Bondage Kit
Ever been hogtied? If not, then you’re in for a treat! With the Kinklab leather Hog Tie Bondage Kit, you’ll be able to restrain your partner completely. Made from leather and secured with nickel-plated metal hardware, this hog tie kit is a great addition to any BDSM toy collection!
BDSM Safety
Regardless of whether you’re using one of the pieces of gay bondage gear on this list or something a bit more fetish-specific, when it comes to BDSM, first and foremost on your mind should be safety!
Communication is an essential part of safe BDSM. Before trying anything, both you and your partner need to be on the same page. This means discussing what you want to try, what’s ok, and what’s off limits.
This also means establishing a safe word. A “safe word” is a word that you use in place of (because, in BDSM, “no” doesn’t always mean no!).
A good safeword is something you’d never use normally, such as “teriyaki”. Of course, you and your partner can use whatever safe word you want, as long as you both know what it is!
With boundaries agreed upon and a safe word established, you’re ready to move on to actually testing out your gay bondage gear.
How to Use Gay Bondage Gear
There are many different types of gay bondage gear. Even so, you’ll follow the same general steps when using most of them. Here are those steps!
Figure Out How to Put the Gear On
Most gear will use either buckles or press studs to secure itself in place. First, figure out where these are on your gear, and then determine which ones offer adjustability. From there, figure out how the gear will be placed on the wearer.
Put the Gear in Place
Once you have that all figured out, it’s time to put the gear on! Don’t worry too much if it takes a bit to put on your first time. As you get more familiar with the process and the gear itself, this will become a much quicker process!
Adjust as Needed
After the wearer has put the gear on, you may need to perform some adjustments. Adjust your gay BDSM gear as needed. With the gear in place, you can add any accessories that you may be using. From there, it’s up to you & your partner how things turn out!
How to Clean Gay Bondage Gear
Cleaning gay bondage gear is just like cleaning gay fetish sex toys in the sense that different methods work for different materials! All gear can be easily cleaned using antibacterial soap and warm water. However, if your gear is made from genuine leather then it may be a better idea to use saddle soap instead. This will help the leather stay in good condition for longer. I generally recommend using soap and water first, then washing away any leftover soap with water only. From here, pat your gear dry and leave it out to completely air dry before storing it away. Just like with sex toys, avoid storing your gear away while it’s still damp. Doing so can cause bacteria to grow!
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.
FAQ
What is Gay Bondage Gear?
Gay bondage gear is bondage gear that will be especially useful in gay BDSM encounters. It comes in many different shapes, designs, and materials, but generally focuses on accommodating penises and anal sex. Commonly used materials include leather, silicone, faux leather, and metal.
Reviewed by:
Kevin Foley