The Best Kinky Sex Toys for Bondage and Other Freaky Stuff

Isabelle Uren
by Isabelle UrenUpdated:

Today I’m bringing you the very best kinky sex toys, all of which have been tested by real people! I’m bringing you best option for every type of sex toy you could need in your kinky toolbox including, the, feather tickler, spanking paddle, nipple clamps, ball gag, flogger, and a selection of the best BDSM restraints!

Beginners 4.8Quickie Cuffs rating 4.8
Bondage Kit4.7Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits  rating 4.7
Ball Gag4.9Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag rating 4.9
Bed Restraints4.8Sportsheets Restraint System rating 4.8
Paddle4.3Sportsheets Slut Slapper Paddle rating 4.3
Flogger4.5Sportsheets Saffron Flogger rating 4.5
Nipple Suckers 4.5Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers  rating 4.5
Nipple Clamps4.4At My Mercy Nipple Clamps rating 4.4
Tickler4.3Scandal Feather Crop  rating 4.3
Cuffs4.9Over-the Door Restraints rating 4.9
Butt Plug4.6Lovense Edge 2 rating 4.6
Pinwheel4.2Fifty Shades Darker Pinwheel rating 4.2
Bondage Rope4.8Silk Kinbaku Bondage Rope rating 4.8
Chastity Cage4.3Chastity Discovery Set rating 4.3
Spreader Bar4.9Sportsheets Spreader Bar rating 4.9
Collar & Lead4.0Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Lead rating 4.0
Sex Machine4.5Hismith Premium rating 4.5
Wax Play4.8LELO Massage Candle rating 4.8
Electro play 4.5KinkLab Neon Wand rating 4.5
Quickie CuffsFifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Sportsheets Saffron Ball GagSportsheets Restraint SystemSportsheets Slut Slapper PaddleSportsheets Saffron FloggerFifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers At My Mercy Nipple ClampsScandal Feather Crop Over-the Door RestraintsLovense Edge 2Fifty Shades Darker PinwheelSilk Kinbaku Bondage RopeChastity Discovery SetSportsheets Spreader BarBondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and LeadHismith PremiumLELO Massage CandleKinkLab Neon Wand
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  • Comfortable and flexible
  • Small and discreet
  • Easy to store and travel-friendly
  • Very easy to use
  • Not adjustable
  • It's easy to take them off
  • Might be too big for smaller wrists
  • Can be used as handcuffs and bed restraints
  • Restraints compatible with most bed sizes
  • Easy to use and easy to install
  • Travel-friendly with storage bag included
  • Comes with a matching blindfold
  • Cuffs are easy to escape from
  • Like most other sets, this kit can't be adjusted length-wise under the mattress
  • Design isn't for everyone
  • Perfect for adventurous beginners
  • Good quality
  • Firm but comfortable in the mouth
  • Lockable design
  • Adjustable
  • The brand tag can feel slightly itchy
  • Ball is a little big for a beginner gag
  • Adjustable for different positions
  • Perfect for beginners
  • Budget friendly
  • Can be stored discreetly
  • Will probably need upgrading eventually
  • Not an investment kinky sex kit
  • Leaves an imprint
  • Beginner friendly toy
  • Cheap spanking toy
  • Not luxury quality
  • Suitable for beginners
  • Sexy design
  • Vegan-friendly
  • Wrist handle
  • Doesn't provide a very intense impact
  • Some people might prefer using real leather BDSM toys
  • Suitable for beginners
  • Made with soft silicone
  • Easy to use
  • The stimulation might be too delicate for more experienced users
  • Very simple design
  • Silicone tips for comfort
  • Elegant design
  • Easy to adjust
  • Satin storage bag
  • Might not fit larger nipples
  • Need to be quite tight to stay on
  • Might not be intense enough for more advanced play
  • Lightweight design
  • Crop and tickler in one
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Long handle for easy reach
  • Not good for hard spanking
  • Design won't suit all tastes
  • Comfortable cuffs
  • Versatile uses
  • Easy and non-intimidating
  • Good quality
  • A little tough to adjust
  • Not suitable for more heavy duty play or weight bearing
  • App controllable
  • Perfect for solo use or with a partner
  • Great to use in public
  • Customisable vibrations
  • Can slip out easily
  • Not a budget toy
  • Beginner friendly
  • Increases sensitivity
  • Can be used on any part of the body
  • Perfect for foreplay
  • Can be a little squeaky
  • 6 different color ways to choose from
  • Lovely and soft
  • Easy to use
  • Color can be distracting
  • Knots at end of rope get stuck
  • It can stretch a little
  • Great selection of accessories
  • Multiple sizes to try
  • Sits discreetly under clothes
  • Good value for the set
  • Could be too small for some
  • Risk of pinching
  • Anti-slip ring didn't work
  • Strong and sturdy
  • Comfortable cuffs
  • Cuffs can be used separately
  • Can be used in different positions
  • Cuffs feel a little stiff
  • Red and black design won't suit all tastes
  • Won't fit all bodies
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Fun design
  • Not the most durable toy
  • Powerful thrusting
  • Adjustable thrust settings
  • App-enabled control + long distance
  • Sturdy, heavy frame hold it still
  • Quiet for a sex machine
  • Heavy to move around
  • Tricky to clean
  • Only compatible with Hismith dildos
  • All-natural, skin-nourishing ingredients
  • Strong fragrance without being overpowering
  • Nice smooth consistency
  • 36 hour burn time
  • Needs a pouring spout
  • Melted wax is too thick for dripping
  • Intimidating look and sound
  • Four different shaped electrodes
  • Beginner friendly electro play
  • Easy to set up and use
  • Additional attachments available
  • Might not be intense enough for some
  • External use only

How I Picked the Best Kinky Sex Toys

Choosing and reviewing the best kinky sex toys took hours of researching, analyzing, and examining every detail of each product. To make this review informative and honest, I worked with BedBilble’s testers team to help me pick the best products for each category. I also spent hours browsing manufacturer websites and getting feedback from other testers who’ve used these kinky sex toys to ensure I highlighted all the good and bad stuff! That’s why this post has two separate rating systems, one based on my professional opinion and the other based on all the information from other testers. Everything to make sure you get a thorough and unbiased review of every product!

How I Picked the Best Kinky Sex Toys
Read more about how we test products.

Kinky Sex Guide: The Most Popular Kinks for You to Try

If you are ready to get kinky, here are a few types of play you might get interested in:

  • Bondage: Bondage play involves restraining a partner’s movement using different types of restraints like ropes or cuffs. It creates a sense of power exchange between the partners, where one partner becomes a dom, and the other takes a more submissive role.
  • Impact play: It’s all about spanking, striking, teasing, and slapping a partner’s body with various objects, such as paddles, floggers, or whips.
  • Wax play: It’s a more sensual type of play that involves dripping hot wax on your partner’s body. It feels erotic and could be an amazing foreplay action.
  • Sensory deprivation: Limiting somebody’s senses enhance the intensity of other sensations. It can also create a sense of vulnerability, which many people find arousing.
  • Roleplay: Changing personas, dressing up, creating scenarios, all of that can really spice up your relationship and embrace your wild fantasies.
  • Temperature play: Using hot or cold items like glass or metal sex toys will bring new exciting sensations to your bedroom.

Reviews of the 19 best kinky sex toys

Beginners Quickie Cuffs

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.8/5.0

Based on 40 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Quickie Cuffs was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Quickie Cuffs was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Quickie Cuffs was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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Rating: Quickie Cuffs was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other kinky sex toys.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Quickie Cuffs

Get ready for a spicy quickie with the Quickie Cuffs! Whether you’re a seasoned bondage enthusiast or a curious beginner, these cuffs are the perfect addition to your collection. Made from silky soft silicone, they’re incredibly flexible and stretchy, so they’ll fit most wrist sizes comfortably.
But what makes the Quickie Cuffs special is their size and user-friendly design. You can get straight to the action whenever the mood strikes with no straps, buckles, or keys to fuss with. And because they’re so compact and discreet, you can take them anywhere! They’re perfect for couples who love a little thrill and excitement and will spice up your sex life in all the right ways.

Pros

  • Comfortable and flexible
  • Small and discreet
  • Easy to store and travel-friendly
  • Very easy to use

Cons

  • Not adjustable
  • It's easy to take them off
  • Might be too big for smaller wrists

Verdict

Quickie Cuffs are the perfect choice for discreet, portable bondage fun. Their foldable and compact design makes them easy to take anywhere, and the silky soft silicone ensures a comfortable and satisfying experience. They’re also easy to use and remove, making them ideal for beginners. However, they may not be suitable for those who prefer more intense bondage play.

Buy, if you...

  1. are looking for a small and discreet bondage accessory
  2. are new to bondage play
  3. want a pair of cuffs that you can easily travel with

Don't buy, if you...

  1. prefer more heavy-duty cuffs or restraints
  2. are looking for adjustable cuffs
  3. prefer kinky sex toys with a heavier BDSM aesthetic

Bondage Kit Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

4.7/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.5/5.0

Based on 262 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

The Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit is perfect for anyone who wants to try some versatile and practical sexual restraints. The detachable velcro cuffs and adjustable straps make it perfect for beginners and allows you to explore a lot of different bondage fantasies!

This bondage set fits most bed sizes and can be kept discreetly in its storage bag which also makes it super convenient to take travelling with you.

There are 4 ankles and wrist cuffs included in the set. They are easy to fasten, are padded and feel soft on your skin, and you can use the kit as just handcuffs or as bed restraints since the cuffs are eaisly detachable.

Pros

  • Can be used as handcuffs and bed restraints
  • Restraints compatible with most bed sizes
  • Easy to use and easy to install
  • Travel-friendly with storage bag included
  • Comes with a matching blindfold

Cons

  • Cuffs are easy to escape from
  • Like most other sets, this kit can't be adjusted length-wise under the mattress
  • Design isn't for everyone

Verdict

I think the Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit is the perfect entry level kinky sex toy for bondage fans because it’s budget friendly and easy to use, so perfect for experimenting with different kinds of restraints.

I absolutely love when bondage kits have detachable cuffs. This means that you’ve automatically gotten an extra pair of hand cuffs or ankle cuffs to use in any way you want independently of the restraint system you bought them with! So, you can use this kinky sex kit just as handcuffs or as bed restraints. You can also explore some sensory play with the matching blindfold that’s included!

I’m also a big fan of the concept of under-the-bed restraints that can turn most beds into a kinky piece of sex furniture! This kit is both easy to use, easy to install, and easy to take with you on the go! It folds down to fit in its storage bag which makes it perfect for discreet storage or to take with you on romantic (and kinky) trips.

All in all, I think this is a good quality, beginner-friendly, versatile, practical, and relatively affordable kinky bondage toy!

Buy, if you...

  1. Want a beginner friendly bondage kit
  2. Are looking for a travel friendly bondage kit
  3. Like the idea of detachable cuffs to use be themselves
  4. Like using velcro cuffs

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Want a heavy-duty bondage kit
  2. Have shorter limbs and a very wide or long bed
  3. Aren't a fan of the bright silver design

Ball Gag Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Joseph Mohrmann

User Ratings:

4.8/5.0

Based on 13 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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PricePrice

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other kinky sex toys.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag

The Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag is not just your average ball gag, the silicone ball is comfortable yet firm and will prevent your partner from making any noise! The silicone is also 100% body-safe and safe to clamp your teeth around.

The vegan leather strap is adjustable up to a 9 inch head diameter, and it has a small loop on the buckle fastening to slip a small padlock through.

This red ball gag has that classic kinky sex toy look that will add a nice visual to your playtime while also keeping your sub’s sounds nice and muffled.

Pros

  • Perfect for adventurous beginners
  • Good quality
  • Firm but comfortable in the mouth
  • Lockable design
  • Adjustable

Cons

  • The brand tag can feel slightly itchy
  • Ball is a little big for a beginner gag

Verdict

I really like the classic design of the Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag. It looks really sexy and works beutifully as a muffling gag. One thing that sets it apart from old school ball gags is that it’s made of high quality, body safe materials. The ball is made of 100% non-porous silicone which is safe to put in your mouth and super easy to clean. The strap is made of high quality vegan leather to give it that nice dungeon-y feel but without requiring a lot of leather care and maintenance.

The ball is slightly big for a complete beginner. So perhaps, this is actually more for very adventurous beginners or more intermediate kinksters. Alternatively, you could have a look at the Sportsheets Saffron Breathable Ball Gag from the same collection. This offers a slightly smaller ball with holes to breathe through!

Overall, I think it’s a delightfully freaky sex toy that will add a kinky dimension to sex. It’s a great entry level kinky sex toy that’s comfortable but firm. Always make sure that your partner is comfortable using non-verbal signals as you won’t be able to hear them!

Buy, if you...

  1. Want to try out kinky oral sex toys
  2. Love the idea of muffling your (or your partner's) sounds
  3. Are looking for a beginner-friendly ball gag
  4. Want an easy to clean ball gag

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Prefer genuine leather
  2. Have a smaller mouth or jaw
  3. Would rather use a breathable ball gag

Bed Restraints Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5.0

Based on 1128.9 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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PricePrice

Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

The Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System is an amazing entry-level kinky sex kit that will allow you to restrain a partner, or be restrained by a partner, by attaching it to any bed.

It’s comfortable but firm and you can adjust the straps to try different positions.

The straps are easily concealable under the mattress for discretion when you’re not using them, and they’re compact enough to take with you for fun while you travel.

You might find that you want to upgrade your set to invest in a more luxurious, or expert level set once you’ve got to grips with this one.

Pros

  • Adjustable for different positions
  • Perfect for beginners
  • Budget friendly
  • Can be stored discreetly

Cons

  • Will probably need upgrading eventually
  • Not an investment kinky sex kit

Verdict

This kinky sex kit is the perfect beginners bdsm set because it’s really easy to use and it’s comfortable for the wearer.

It’s also very discreet as it fits under your mattress so no need to worry about hiding it!

You will probably find that you will want to upgrade this set once you have some experience, so it’s probably not the best set for anyone with lots of experience.

Buy, if you...

  1. Want a discreet bdsm set
  2. Are looking for strong restraints
  3. Haven't used restraints before
  4. Prefer comfortable restraints

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Want a luxury bondage set
  2. Are very experienced with kinky toys

Paddle Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Katie Elizabeth

User Ratings:

4.6/5.0

Based on 76 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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PricePrice

Rating: Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other kinky sex toys.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle

The Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle is a great beginner friendly slapping paddle that will leave a sexy imprint on your partners rear.

The dual-layered spanking surface creates a loud ‘slap’ without requiring a massive impact, so you get the satisfying sound without having to hit too hard which makes it the perfect tool for lighter bdsm play.

Pros

  • Leaves an imprint
  • Beginner friendly toy
  • Cheap spanking toy

Cons

  • Not luxury quality

Verdict

This one is a great beginner paddle if you want to experiment with spanking but without causing too much discomfort. For the same reason it’s probably not suited to anyone with lots of spanking experience, unless you are just buying it for the imprint!

It’s budget friendly which does also mean that if you’re looking for a luxury paddle then this might not be your best bet.

Buy, if you...

  1. Love the idea of a paddle that leaves an imprint
  2. Haven't used a spanking toy before
  3. Want a budget friendly kinky toy
  4. Are a kinky sex toy beginner

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Want a luxury paddle
  2. Don't enjoy spanking

Flogger Sportsheets Saffron Flogger

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

0/5.0

Based on user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Sportsheets Saffron Flogger

The Sportsheets Saffron Flogger is the ultimate BDSM accessory that will take your kinky play to the next level! Made from 100% vegan leather, this flogger is stylish and ethical. With its classic flogger style, this stunning accessory features 30 broad falls with a mesmerizing dual-color design of black and red, making it a true feast for the eyes. Its metal handle is sturdy and has a convenient wrist loop for added safety and control during sensual sessions. And the best part? This versatile flogger can deliver both intense thwacks and tantalizing sensations when the soft faux leather falls are dragged over your most sensitive areas.

So, whether you’re an experienced kinkster or just starting out, the Sportsheets Saffron Flogger is a perfect match for you!

Pros

  • Suitable for beginners
  • Sexy design
  • Vegan-friendly
  • Wrist handle

Cons

  • Doesn't provide a very intense impact
  • Some people might prefer using real leather BDSM toys

Verdict

The Sportsheets Saffron Flogger is a versatile and affordable option for both beginners and experienced kinksters. With 30 broad falls and a dual-color design, it offers a wide range of sensations for a satisfying experience. You can also use the Sportsheets Saffron Flogger on its own or combine it with other BDSM toys to create a truly unforgettable experience. And if you’re looking for a complete matching set of BDSM accessories, the Sportsheets Saffron collection has got you covered. You can create the ultimate kinky fantasy with the same high-quality vegan leather and captivating dual-color design.

While it may not be the largest or thuddiest flogger out there, it’s a great choice for those seeking a good quality and safe accessory.

Buy, if you...

  1. are ready to explore impact play
  2. are looking for a flogger for beginners
  3. prefer vegan leather accessories

Don't buy, if you...

  1. enjoy intense spanking
  2. are looking for a heavy and thuddy impact
  3. prefer real leather toys

Nipple Suckers Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers

4.5/5

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Overall Rating

4.5/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.4/5.0

Based on 88 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

95/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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PricePrice

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other kinky sex toys.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers

If you’re looking to add a new level of sensation to your BDSM play, the Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers are an absolute must-have! Made from smooth silicone, these nipple suckers provide gentle suction for a tantalizing experience.

Easy to use and adjust, these nipple suckers are perfect for beginners or experienced players looking to explore nipple play. The compact size makes them easy to pack and bring with you on the go, so you can indulge in your kinky cravings wherever and whenever you desire.
Not only do the Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers feel amazing, but they also look sleek and stylish. Featuring the iconic Fifty Shades of Grey logo, these nipple suckers are a must-have for fans of the franchise.

So if you’re ready to take your BDSM play to the next level, add the Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers to your collection today!

Pros

  • Suitable for beginners
  • Made with soft silicone
  • Easy to use

Cons

  • The stimulation might be too delicate for more experienced users
  • Very simple design

Verdict

The Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers are a great addition to any BDSM collection. Made from soft silicone, they offer a gentle suction that can add new pleasure to your playtime. They are easy to use and perfect for both beginners and experienced players. On the positive side, they are stylish and feature the Fifty Shades of Grey logo. On the negative side, some may find the suction too mild, and they may not fit all nipple sizes. Overall, they are a great choice for those looking to explore nipple play with a stylish and high-quality accessory.

Buy, if you...

  1. want to explore nipple stimulation
  2. are looking for a gentle stimulation
  3. enjoy discreet kinky toys

Don't buy, if you...

  1. enjoy intense nipple stimulation
  2. prefer a more heavy-duty style
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Nipple Clamps Fifty Shades Darker At My Mercy Chained Nipple Clamps

4.3/5

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Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.2/5.0

Based on 150 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fifty Shades Darker At My Mercy Chained Nipple Clamps was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fifty Shades Darker At My Mercy Chained Nipple Clamps was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

95/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fifty Shades Darker At My Mercy Chained Nipple Clamps was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Fifty Shades Darker At My Mercy Chained Nipple Clamps was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Fifty Shades Darker At My Mercy Chained Nipple Clamps

I think the Fifty Shades Darker At My Mercy Chained Nipple Clamps are a fantastic combination of kink and elegance! The tweezer style clamps are easy to adjust to find your perfect level of pinch. I really appreciate that the tips are coated in silicone for comfort while you play.

The delicate chain doesn’t only look the part, it also means you can give it a little tug for some extra sensation!

Pros

  • Silicone tips for comfort
  • Elegant design
  • Easy to adjust
  • Satin storage bag

Cons

  • Might not fit larger nipples
  • Need to be quite tight to stay on
  • Might not be intense enough for more advanced play

Verdict

I would say the Fifty Shades Darker At My Mercy Chained Nipple Clamps are a great set of clamps for beginner and intermediate nipple clamps users. If you are looking for more of an intense pinch, I recommend checking out these weighted nipple clamps.

I like the overall design of the clamps and think the cute satin storage bag is a lovely little extra as well! They are also pretty cheap and can be worn during all kinds of kinky activities! Just keep in mind, they might pop off during more vigorous activity!

Buy, if you...

  1. Love nipple play
  2. Want lightly weighted nipple clamps
  3. Prefer tweezer style clamps
  4. Enjoy having a chain to tug on

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Want very intense clamps
  2. Prefer heavier weights

Tickler CalExotics Scandal Feather Crop

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.2/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.4/5.0

Based on 133 user reviews

82/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: CalExotics Scandal Feather Crop was rated 82 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: CalExotics Scandal Feather Crop was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

85/100
QualityQuality

Rating: CalExotics Scandal Feather Crop was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: CalExotics Scandal Feather Crop was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the CalExotics Scandal Feather Crop

I love a good multi-use tool in and out of the bedroom! Not only do you get a tickler to tease your partner, but you also get a cheeky little crop to keep them in line! The epitome of a little slap and tickle!

I think they work great together for sensation play as you can alternate between soft strokes and a sharp spank!

The longer handle also makes it easier to explore your partner’s body.

Pros

  • Lightweight design
  • Crop and tickler in one
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Long handle for easy reach

Cons

  • Not good for hard spanking
  • Design won't suit all tastes

Verdict

The Scandal Feather Crop makes a great tool for dipping your toes into sensation play. The feather is lovely and soft and the long handle makes it easy to sweep it over your partner’s body. The crop side is also very beginner-friendly as it’s relatively low impact.

I’m not the biggest fan of the red lacy design but that’s just personal preference.

Buy, if you...

  1. Want to be naughty and nice
  2. Enjoy light tickling
  3. Want a beginner friendly crop

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Want a more intense crop
  2. Prefer a tickler with feathers

Cuffs Bondage Boutique Over-the Door Restraints

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Cierra Addington

User Ratings:

4.8/5.0

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Bondage Boutique Over-the Door Restraints was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Bondage Boutique Over-the Door Restraints was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

95/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Bondage Boutique Over-the Door Restraints was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: Bondage Boutique Over-the Door Restraints was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Bondage Boutique Over-the Door Restraints

Why just get cuffs when you can also get door restraints! This Over-the-Door Restraint Set from Bondage Boutique allows to you to restrain your partner in the standing position against any door or detach the cuffs and use them separately!

I really love how easy these cuffs are to use. They lock into place behind and strong, closable door and the velcro makes it easy to get your partner strapped in securely!

These beginner-friendly cuffs are also padded for comfort.

Pros

  • Comfortable cuffs
  • Versatile uses
  • Easy and non-intimidating
  • Good quality

Cons

  • A little tough to adjust
  • Not suitable for more heavy duty play or weight bearing

Verdict

I love a bit versatile bondage equipment! Why buy two products when you can get the same in one! These door restraints are a fun way to explore both handcuff play and standing bondage!

I think the overall quality is great, especially considering the low price! These velcro restraints are definitely more beginner friendly and aren’t design for heavy duty bondage but they are secure and well-made!

I would also say that they make a great bondage item for travelling with as they are small and versatile!

Buy, if you...

  1. Want some versatile handcuffs
  2. Are looking to explore standing bondage
  3. Prefer velcro restraints

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Prefer leather cuffs
  2. Want cuffs with buckles
  3. Need heavy duty restraints
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Butt Plug Lovense Edge 2

4.6/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Tim Vecere

User Ratings:

4.2/5.0

Based on 12 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Edge 2 was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

70/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Edge 2 was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Edge 2 was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

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Rating: Lovense Edge 2 was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Lovense Edge 2

The Lovense Edge 2 is a powerful prostate massager made from luxurious feeling silicone that is perfect for solo play or play with a partner.

Its app controllable meaning you can use it for hands free solo fun, or pass the control over to a partner, or you can even use it as a long distance relationship sex toy.

As well as having completely customisable vibration speeds and patterns, you can also adjust the position of the arm to give you precise p-spot stimulation that will take you over the edge to an explosive deep internal orgasm.

The size of this one means that we would recommend that you have some anal toy experience before using it.

Pros

  • App controllable
  • Perfect for solo use or with a partner
  • Great to use in public
  • Customisable vibrations

Cons

  • Can slip out easily
  • Not a budget toy

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Lovense Edge 2 are fairly quiet, extremely powerful, and somewhat rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Edge 2 was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Edge 2 felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovense Edge 2 was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is extremely powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Edge 2 felt to the reviewer.

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BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Verdict

The Lovense Edge 2 is an incredibly high-tech vibrating butt plug that can be controlled from anywhere in the world via the app!

You can completely customise the vibrations on the app too, but it’s perfectly functional and easy to use just with the buttons on the actual toy.

We’d recommend that this is best suited to intermediate anal players, and that as always you use lots of [af_link id=”28047″]Water-Based Anal Lubricant[/af_link]!

Buy, if you...

  1. Prefer p-spot stimulation
  2. Want an app controllable vibrator
  3. Are looking for a waterproof anal vibrator
  4. Love customising your vibrations
  5. Enjoy giving control to a partner

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Haven't used an anal toy before
  2. Want a budget vibrator
  3. Don't like insertable toys

Pinwheel Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Brett Jangles

User Ratings:

4.5/5.0

Based on 101 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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Rating: Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel

This one definitely looks a lot scarier than it feels!

The Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Pinwheel is the perfect step up for anyone who has tried using feathers as a sensory stimulator.

Pinwheels are amazing kinky sex toys for couples as running the spikes over your partners skin will tease the nerve endings of your partner’s body, so once you finally give into let them climax they will have an explosive orgasm like never before.

Pros

  • Beginner friendly
  • Increases sensitivity
  • Can be used on any part of the body
  • Perfect for foreplay

Cons

  • Can be a little squeaky

Verdict

Don’t be fooled by the scary look of this one!

It’s actually super gentle and is a great way to start off experimenting with pinwheels because it will go easy on you. Equally, it is probably too gentle for anyone who has experience with pinwheels.

Pinwheels are an amazing bdsm kinky toys as they heighten your sensations so everything feels way more intense, and usually where there is greater intensity there are better orgasms!

Buy, if you...

  1. Want to try bdsm kinky toys
  2. Are looking for a beginner friendly pinwheel
  3. Want a toy that will increase your sensitivity
  4. Enjoy using kinky toys during foreplay

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Want a super sharp pinwheel

Bondage Rope Oxy Rainbow Silk Kinbaku Bondage Rope

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Katie Elizabeth

User Ratings:

5.0/5.0

Based on user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Oxy Rainbow Silk Kinbaku Bondage Rope was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

70/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Oxy Rainbow Silk Kinbaku Bondage Rope was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Oxy Rainbow Silk Kinbaku Bondage Rope was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: Oxy Rainbow Silk Kinbaku Bondage Rope was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other kinky sex toys.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Oxy Rainbow Silk Kinbaku Bondage Rope

I love the cute rainbow design of this bondage rope from Oxy. And it ins’t only serving cute! This bamboo fiber rope is also lovely and soft for a more sensual bondage rope experience!

You can really make some beautiful creative ties with this rope. It would look fantastic as a harness!

The rope comes as an 8 meter length and you can choose between six different multicolored designs.

Pros

  • 6 different color ways to choose from
  • Lovely and soft
  • Easy to use

Cons

  • Color can be distracting
  • Knots at end of rope get stuck
  • It can stretch a little

Verdict

I really appreciate when brands offer something a little different to the usual BDSM black or red and I really love how playful this design is! Just keep in mind that the mix of colors can be a bit distracting and make it harder to find your place in more complex ties.

The rope is great quality and softness makes it comfortable to be tied up in! It does also mean it has a little stretch and the knots aren’t as tight and firm as they would be with a rougher fiber.

That being said for decorative or more gentle rope bondage, I think this is a fantastic bondage rope!

Buy, if you...

  1. Are new to bondage rope
  2. Love a more fun color way
  3. Prefer soft silky ropes

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Need rope for suspension
  2. Want very firm rope for unmoveable knots
  3. Prefer a coarser natural rope
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Chastity Cage Oxy Chastity Discovery Set

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

George Martin

User Ratings:

4.7/5.0

Based on 21 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Oxy Chastity Discovery Set was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

70/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Oxy Chastity Discovery Set was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

65/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Oxy Chastity Discovery Set was rated 65 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: Oxy Chastity Discovery Set was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Oxy Chastity Discovery Set

If you are curious about the allure of having your cock locked away, the Chastity Discovery Set could be the best kinky toy for you!

I think it’s a great idea to get a comprehensive set like this as then you have multiple ring sizes and cages to explore! In the kit you get:

  • 2 different length cages
  • 3 different size rings
  • A lock with 2 keys
  • A key safe set
  • 3 plastic security locks for the key safe;
  • An anti-slip ring
  • Urethral tube
  • Drawstring bag to store

Pros

  • Great selection of accessories
  • Multiple sizes to try
  • Sits discreetly under clothes
  • Good value for the set

Cons

  • Could be too small for some
  • Risk of pinching
  • Anti-slip ring didn't work

Verdict

I think this chastity cage kit is great value for money! Whether you don’t know which size will fit you best or you want the option to switch it up a bit, this kit has you covered!

I would say it generally very well constructed, although there is some risk of pinching when attaching the cage to the rings. Also, the anti-slip ring wasn’t a success as it didn’t fit securely. The urethral insert won’t be to everyone’s tastes, but if you are into urethral toys and sounding it’s a fun addition and gives you new cages horizons to explore!

The open design also makes it relatively easy to urinate and wash while wearing just the cage or the cage and catheter together.

Buy, if you...

  1. Want try male chastity
  2. Are curious about urethral insert
  3. Want a range of sizes to try
  4. Prefer a metal chastity cage

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Have a bigger than average penis
  2. Want something truly inescapable
  3. Need a metal detector-friendly cage
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Spreader Bar Sportsheets Spreader Bar

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5.0

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Spreader Bar was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Spreader Bar was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Spreader Bar was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Sportsheets Spreader Bar was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Sportsheets Spreader Bar

The Sportsheets Spreader Bar is a great bondage accessory for those looking to take their restraint play to the next level.

The strong metal bar has four attachment points for the padded cuffs, and you can easily clip them on or off. This makes it much easier to get into or change position.

The cuffs are completely adjustable and fasten closed with a buckle. As they are detachable, you can also use them for any other cuff-based bondage that takes your fancy!

Pros

  • Strong and sturdy
  • Comfortable cuffs
  • Cuffs can be used separately
  • Can be used in different positions

Cons

  • Cuffs feel a little stiff
  • Red and black design won't suit all tastes
  • Won't fit all bodies

Verdict

Although I think spreader bars can be a little intimidating, I had a lot of fun trying this one out! Yes, some positions are a little intense but that part of the appeal and you can work your way up to them! I love that you can clip the cuffs on and off and decide whether to restrain your wrists and ankles or just one or the other.

The Sportsheets Spreader Bar feels very well made and the cuffs are comfortable to wear as they have a decent amount of padding. That being said, they feel a little stiff at first.

I’m not the biggest fan of red and black together but it’s not the worst combination. It also matches all the other fun BDSM accessories in the Saffron collection.

Buy, if you...

  1. Want to explore full body restraint
  2. Love a versatile bondage tool
  3. Prefer fake leather
  4. Want restraints with buckles

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Prefer real leather
  2. Want an adjustable spreader bar
  3. Need something lockable

Collar & Lead Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Lead

4.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

3.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Christine Cromartie

User Ratings:

4.4/5.0

Based on 10 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Lead was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Lead was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

70/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Lead was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Lead was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other kinky sex toys.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Lead

Looking for a playful and eye-catching addition to your BDSM collection? Try the Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash! Crafted from high-quality faux leather, this BDSM collar and leash set features a white exterior that transforms into a glowing green under cover of darkness. It’s the perfect way to set a cheeky and seductive mood during your playtime. This set is very pretty and comfortable to wear; the collar and loop handle is lined with soft material, ensuring ultimate comfort during use. And with a long chain leash, it’s perfect for a hot power play or even puppy play.

Pros

  • Comfortable to wear
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Fun design

Cons

  • Not the most durable toy

Verdict

I highly recommend this glow-in-the-dark set to anyone wanting to discover the world of leashes, collars, and submissive roleplaying. It’s a great way to add some fun and excitement to your kinky adventures without breaking the bank. The leash is comfortable and easy to wear, so you won’t have to worry about any complicated or uncomfortable setups. Although it may not be the highest quality leash out there, it’s still a great option to try out some new dynamics and add a little extra excitement to your playtime.

Buy, if you...

  1. want to try wearing collars and leashes
  2. are into power play
  3. want a comfortable collar and a long leash

Don't buy, if you...

  1. are not into glow-in-the-dark accessories
  2. prefer more heavy-duty kinky sex toys
  3. are looking for leather accessories
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Sex Machine Hismith Premium App Controlled Sex Machine

4.5/5

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Overall Rating

4.5/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Tawney Seren

User Ratings:

0/5.0

Based on user reviews

75/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Hismith Premium App Controlled Sex Machine was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Hismith Premium App Controlled Sex Machine was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

70/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Hismith Premium App Controlled Sex Machine was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: Hismith Premium App Controlled Sex Machine was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Hismith Premium App Controlled Sex Machine

The Hismith Premium is a serious piece of kinky kit! If you love intense thrusting but hate the arm ache that comes with masturbating or you love a little power play, this is the ultimate bedroom power tool!

I love that you get a range of ways to control it from the wired twist dial, which I love for close range partner play, to the app control which lets you give control to a partner anywhere in the world for long distance power play!

It’s also great that it can be used in different positions and it’s easy to manually adjust the angle of penetration. I also really appreciate that it comes with a silicone dildo so it’s ready to as soon as you are!

Pros

  • Powerful thrusting
  • Adjustable thrust settings
  • App-enabled control + long distance
  • Sturdy, heavy frame hold it still
  • Quiet for a sex machine

Cons

  • Heavy to move around
  • Tricky to clean
  • Only compatible with Hismith dildos

Verdict

I think the Hismith Premium is a fantastic quality sex machine for a very reasonable price! At just under $500 you are getting a serious piece of kit! I would say it’s hard to find a similar quality at this price, especially with app controls!

The frame is very heavy, which makes it hard to move around, but also means that the machine doesn’t move during use.

I was also impressed by the quality of the silicone dildo! If you are ready to invest in a sex machine to fulfil some kinky fantasies, this is one of the best options out there!

Buy, if you...

  1. Love relentless thrusting
  2. Want a sex machine with adjustable angles
  3. Love the idea of long-distance control

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Prefer vibrations over thrusting
  2. Are on a tight budget
  3. Don't have the space for it
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Wax Play LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candle

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.8/5.0

Based on 77 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candle was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candle was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candle was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candle

Enjoy the sensation of the warm wax against your skin as your partner’s hands explore your body. The Lelo Flickering Touch Massage Candle is a fantastic way to ignite the senses and get you ready for some kinky play!

I really love the elegant design and that they’ve gone for a fresh but sexy scent! This one is Snow Pear & Cedarwood but it’s also available in Vanilla & Crème De Cacao and Black Pepper & Pomegranate.

Each candle has a burn time of up 36 hours.

Pros

  • All-natural, skin-nourishing ingredients
  • Strong fragrance without being overpowering
  • Nice smooth consistency
  • 36 hour burn time

Cons

  • Needs a pouring spout
  • Melted wax is too thick for dripping

Verdict

I think this is candle is a lovely sensual way to ease into wax play. It’s made from skin-nourishing oils that melt at a relatively low temperature, so it’s a low risk, high reward kinky activity!

I really enjoyed the scent and found that it was strong without being too overwhelming. I’m also very impressed you get a very decent sized candle that will last multiple sessions.

The only real downside is the lack of pouring spout, which would make it much easier to drizzle the melted wax.

Buy, if you...

  1. Love sensual massage
  2. Enjoy a fresh scent
  3. Are new to wax play
  4. Want a long-lasting massage candle

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Want to use your candle as lube
  2. Prefer hotter wax play
  3. Want colored candles
  4. Are looking for drip candles

Electro play KinkLab Neon Wand

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.6/5.0

Based on user reviews

70/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: KinkLab Neon Wand was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the kinky sex toy.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: KinkLab Neon Wand was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: KinkLab Neon Wand was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: KinkLab Neon Wand was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the KinkLab Neon Wand

The Neon Wand is shocking in all the right ways! From the glowing glass electrodes to the formidable buzzing sound, it’s bound to keep your partner on their toes!

The sensation ranges from a mild tingle to a sharp zap and the intensity it easy to adjust using the twist control on the bottom of the remote. I really like that it’s a totally beginner-friendly electro sex toy.

You get a selection of 4 different types of electrodes that are perfect for teasing different areas your body.

Pros

  • Intimidating look and sound
  • Four different shaped electrodes
  • Beginner friendly electro play
  • Easy to set up and use
  • Additional attachments available

Cons

  • Might not be intense enough for some
  • External use only

Verdict

If you are looking to take your teasing and punishment to the next level, I can highly recommend the Neon Wand from KinkLab. I would say this is definitely a case of it’s bark is worse than it’s bite, but that’s what makes it fun!

The sound and anticipation of the next zap really adds a lot of tension and excitement! The zaps themselves range from being quite gentle and more tingle to a bit of a sharp sting, especially when used in more sensitive areas.

I also really appreciate that the cord is nice a long, so although it’s mains powered, you don’t need to be too close to the plug.

 

Buy, if you...

  1. Want a gentle intro to electro-play
  2. Love exploring new sensations
  3. Enjoy BDSM punishments
  4. Like tingly sensations

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Are looking for intense electrostimulation
  2. Are pregnant
  3. Have a pacemaker or heart condition
  4. Want to explore internal stimulation

Comparison of the 19 best kinky sex toys

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Overall score4.8 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 - 4.5 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 - 4.8 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.7 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.2 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 3.5 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0
User rating4.8 / 5.0
from 40 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 262 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 13 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 1128.9 users
4.6 / 5.0
from 76 users
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4.2 / 5.0
from 150 users
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Design90 / 100 80 / 100 95 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100 80 / 100 95 / 100 90 / 100 82 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100 95 / 100 80 / 100 90 / 100 80 / 100 75 / 100 95 / 100 70 / 100
Ease of use95 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 85 / 100 90 / 100 95 / 100 70 / 100 100 / 100 70 / 100 70 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 85 / 100 95 / 100
Quality90 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 80 / 100 95 / 100 95 / 100 85 / 100 95 / 100 90 / 100 80 / 100 90 / 100 65 / 100 90 / 100 70 / 100 70 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100
Sound----------60 / 100 --------
Power----------100 / 100 --------
Buzzy/Rumbly----------very rumbly --------
MaterialsSilicone Polyester Silicone, PU, Nickel-free metal Polypropylene webbing, plastic hardware, nickel free metal hardware, Velboa fabric, Velcro Nylon cord, nickel free metal hardware, RBSE glass batten, cowhide leather Polyurethane, nickel free metal, nylon Silicone Metal, Silicone Crop: PVC, Feathers: Marabou, Fabric: Polyester Polyester, hard plastic, Metal, PVC, Latex Silicone Metal Bamboo silk Stainless Steel Stainless Steel, Nickel-Free Metal, Polyurethane Foam Faux leather, metal Stainless Steel (Frame), ABS Plastic (Controller), Silicone (Dildo) -PPV Plastic Hardware + Copper Tube + Glass Rods
FasteningSlip-on Cuffs: Velcro, Mask: Elastic, Straps: Carabiner Clips Buckle ------Velcro ---Key operated lock Buckle Lobster clip ---
WaterproofYes Yes Yes -------Submersible --Yes -Yes --No
AdjustableNo Yes, both Cuffs & Straps -fits 4-12 inch wrists -----Yes, up to 8 inches -----Yes Yes --
FlexibilityYes -----Yes ---Firm Rigid -------
Length-null inchesTotal: 24 inches63 inches12.5 inchesFalls: 17 inches, Handle: 6 inches2 inches19 inches21 inchesWrist cuff: 9.5 inches inches4.5 inches7.5 inches(26.25 feet) 315 inches1.38 and 1.8 inchesBar: 24.75, Cuffs: inchesOverall: 25.5 inches, Handle: 7.5 inches18.4 inches-13 inches
Storage Bag Included-Yes Yes ---No Yes -No Yes -No Yes --Yes Metal lid -
Colors Available-Black/Silver Black/Red ------Black --Rainbow and solid colors ----Available scents: Vanilla & Crème De Cacao (Brown), Snow Pear & Cedarwood (Green), and Black Pepper & Pomegranate (Red) Black/red handle + purple glow or white handle + red glow
Diameter--1.8 inches-2.5 inches-1.5 inches---1.35 inches-0.24 inches1.6, 1.8 and 2 inches-Collar: 6.5 inches1.6 inches--
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Insertable length----------3.5 inches--4.38 inches--1.2 to 6 inches--
Vibration speeds----------3 --------
Vibration patterns----------4 --------
Rechargeable----------Yes -----No (Corded power) -No — mains powered
Battery Life----------100 minutes--------
Diameter (internal)-------------1.3 inches-----
Height----------------17.7 inches3.4 inches-
Thrust Modes----------------0-240 RPM Fully Adjustable Thrust Settings --
Remote Controls----------------Wired, Wireless, and App-Enabled --
Maximum Weight----------------25 lbs--
Travel Lock----------------No --
Ingredients-----------------Soy wax, shea butter, apricot kernel oil, perfume (Linalool, hexylcinnamaldehyde) -
Width-----------------2.9 inches-
Weight-----------------0.33 lbs-
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Kinky Sex Toys for Men

We’d hate for anyone to feel neglected so her are a few extra special toys for penis owners!

Chastity Cages

Chastity Cages

Chastity Cages

Chastity cages are a wonderful way of mixing up the balance of power between partners, because the wearer is forced to be at the key-holder’s mercy and must do everything that they request if they want to be freed and pleasured.

Some chastity cages are designed for long-term wear so that you can keep them on all day, giving you the maximum effect of excitement and frustration.

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Ball Separators, Stretchers & Dividers

Ball Separators, Stretchers & Dividers

Ball Separators, Stretchers & Dividers

Ball Separators, Stretchers & Dividers are kinky sex toys for men that gently tug on and restrict the balls for ultimate arousal.

Using these kinky toys increases the whole sexual experience for penis owners because it heightens sensations and these devices make orgasms last longer.

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Urethral Sounds

Urethral Sounds

Urethral Sounds

Urethral sounding as you may have guessed is the activity of inserting objects into the urethra for pleasure.

The urethra is full of nerve endings so urethral sounding stimulates you in ways that no other toy can.

It’s important to be really careful with urethral toys and start off slow and small and then you can work your way up so that you don’t injure yourself.

You also need to ensure that your urethral toy is sterile before use in order to prevent urinary tract infections.

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Types of Kinky Sex Toys and Accessories

Sometimes more is more, so we thought we’d add just a few more types of freaky toys to our list for good measure!

Electro Sex Toys

Electro Sex Toys

Electro Sex Toys
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Electro sex toys are kinky toys that stimulate your erogenous zones with gentle electrical currents.

The human body is a wonderful conductor of electricity so you will feel the current travel through your body for stimulation like no other.

You should only use electro sex toys from trusted retailers, and never make your own!

Canes

Canes

Canes
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BDSM canes are a popular kinky sex toy for anyone who enjoys spanking.

You can find canes in lots of different materials, some that are gentler and perfect for beginners such as leatherette canes, or more experienced and intense canes like those made from rattan.

Some canes leave imprints like love hearts or words which can add to the fun!

Spanking can be as gentle or as painful as you like it, just start of slowly and gently and work your way up if you want to.

Medical Fetish toys

Medical Fetish toys

Medical Fetish toys
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Medical fetish toys are kinky sex items that have been designed to look and feel like medical instruments, perfect for anyone who loves the idea of feeling helpless on the medical table.

Most medical fetish toys will give you some level of discomfort, and for the most intense experience why not add some role play into the mix too!?

Collars

Collars

Collars
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BDSM collars are often used in bdsm play, particularly in power play between a dom and a sub.

You can attach a leash to your collar, or just wear it for the aesthetic appeal.

Spanking bench

Spanking bench

Spanking bench
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Spanking benches are designed with punishment in mind!

They are set up perfectly for for spanking, and it’s actually really easy to make them yourself if you’re not ready to commit to buying one just yet.

The only major difference between spanking benches and ordinary is that that are made to be comfortable and they often also have other restraints attached to them.

Sex Tables

Sex Tables

Sex Tables
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Sex tables are a great way to help you with certain positions, they also often come with added features like restraints and cages!

Female Chastity

Female Chastity

Female Chastity
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The primary purpose of female chastity belts are to increase frustration. by removing the wearers ability to have an orgasm, whether that’s from self-gratification, oral, or sex, all options are removed. This gives the key holder total power over the wearer’s pleasure, and they can maintain this power whether just in the short term to enhance sex that day or they can be worn over long periods of time.

BDSM Whips

BDSM Whips

BDSM Whips
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BDSM whips are kinky toys that are used for different sensations whether that’s tickling, whipping, spanking, whatever you fancy!

You can experiment with the different intensities of sensations, but as always it’s best to start off gentle!

Bondage Swings

Bondage Swings

Bondage Swings
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Bondage swings are just like normal sex swings so are suspended from the ceiling, allowing you to achieve more difficult positions with ease, but they usually also include added mechanisms for restraint play.

Spreader bars

Spreader bars

Spreader bars
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Spreader bars are used to keep you or your partners limbs spread open, so that this allows easy access to your erogenous zones.

You can use spreader bars on the arms or the legs depending on what sexual positions you want to use.

Anal Hooks

Anal Hooks

Anal Hooks
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Anal hooks are curved objects usually made from stainless steel. There will normally be one rounded end that is for inserting into the wearer, and then the other end can be attached to ropes for intense restraint play.

You can also use anal hooks to spice your alone time up and for temperature play thanks to being made from stainless steel.

Floggers

Floggers

Floggers
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A flogger is a versatile BDSM tool that can enhance all types of sensation play. Typically made from leather, it features tassels that can lash, spank, or tickle your partner’s body. Floggers can create a range of sensations, from a light tickle to an exciting drag over your sensitive areas.

Spanking paddles

Spanking paddles

Spanking paddles
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Spanking paddles come in various materials, including leather, faux leather, plastic, acrylic, wood, silicone, and fabric, each providing a unique sensation. Wooden or leather paddles provide a more thuddy impact, while silicone or plastic paddles provide a sharper sting.

Sounding toys

Sounding toys

Sounding toys
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Urethral toys are a bit different from your typical sex toys. They’re specially designed to stimulate the nerve endings in your urethra, which can provide a totally unique and intense sensation. If you’re thinking about giving urethral play a try, just remember to start small and use plenty of lube to keep things comfortable and safe.

Kinky Play Safety

When it comes to any kinky activity, safety should always be a top priority! Whether you’re into bondage, impact play, or something else, it’s important to communicate with your partner(s), set clear boundaries, and have a safe word in place. Make sure you’re using quality equipment and know how to use it properly to avoid any accidents. And don’t forget to check in with each other afterward to make sure everyone’s feeling good and cared for!

FAQ

Who can use kinky sex toys?
Anyone! There are so many different kinds of kinky toys that there is something for every experience level and preference. You can get super gentle and soft kinky sex items like satin ties for restraining or blindfolds, to more advanced toys like urethral sounds.
Are kinky sex toys painful?
No they shouldn't be! Some people enjoy some levels of discomfort so you can buy toys for this. Kinky sex toys aren't designed to hurt you, so if you find that something you are using is causing you pain then you need to double check the instructions and make sure that the toy isn't faulty.
Are kinky sex toys expensive?
It totally depends on what you buy and the quality of the item. You can always find budget friendly options for toys that suit your preferences, but you can also find luxury versions if you are looking for kinky toys that will last you a lifetime.

What is a kinky sex toy?

Kinky sex toys covers a huge variety of different types of sex toys, from restraints such as handcuffs or ropes, sensation enhancers such as ticklers and pinwheels, frustration devices like chastity cages, or objects that you can use for punishment like floggers. Any toy that is used in bdsm would be considered a kinky sex toy, but you can get a huge range from gentle beginner kinky toys to extreme kinky toys that are for advanced bdsm players.

Author
Isabelle Uren
Isabelle Uren

Site Manager | Aiming to empower people to embrace sexual pleasure one sex toy at a time or two, whatever takes your fancy! As well researching and writing about all things sex, I have studied Tantra and am currently studying towards becoming a psychosexual therapist. My life philosophy is the three Ms approach — meditation, masturbation, and mmm a good cup of tea!

Age: 32
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: Doxy Die Cast
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