The 5 Best Lesbian Sex Shops and LGBTQ+ Friendly Stores

Looking for a lesbian-friendly sex shop that’s trustworthy and offers high-quality toys? You’re not alone — many sex stores can leave queer people feeling excluded and forgotten. However, things are changing!

Today, there are a number of sex shops that are actively creating inclusive and encouraging spaces for LGBTQ+ people to explore their sexuality and find products that work for them.

We wanted to highlight some of the best! So, here are our favorite lesbian sex toy stores, both online and physical…

1. Wet for Her

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If you’re looking for a sex shop that sells a huge range of high-quality lesbian sex toys, then look no further than Wet For Her.

Founded in 2009, Wet For Her is both an online sex shop and sex toy manufacturer that caters specifically to lesbians. They specialize in non-realistic toys, like non-phallic dildos, finger vibrators and more. They also stock a huge selection of strap-on harnesses.

Whether you’re looking for toys to use as a couple or alone, Wet For Her has you covered. Some of their bestselling lesbian sex toy creations include the Finger Extender, the Union Double Dildo, a vibrating strapless strap-on, and the RockHer Mini Scissoring Vibrator.

Their shipping is always discreet, and is free within the US when you spend over $65! Plus, you can join their loyalty program and earn points and discounts on your purchases. We also recommend checking out their blog for all kinds of inclusive tips and advice on sex and sex toys.

2. Eve’s Toys

Eve’s Toys is a sister store of one of America’s biggest online sex toy stores, Adam & Eve, along with the gay male-oriented store AdamMale. Adam & Eve was founded all the way back in 1971 as a mail-order condom company, but has grown a whole lot since then. They’ve fought many legal battles along the way for the mainstream acceptance of adult toys and sexual wellness products.

They created Eve’s Toys as a sex shop specifically for lesbian and genderqueer individuals. It’s a friendly and welcoming environment to buy sex toys. Their aim is for lesbians to feel inspired, encouraged and empowered! Along with the usual dildos and vibrators, you’ll find a range of nipple toys, anal toys and BDSM toys, too.

Eve’s Toys offers a 100% satisfaction and price match guarantee with every purchase, and always delivers your products discreetly. When you sign up with your email address, you can also get 25% one item, as well as a free gift!

3. Spectrum Boutique

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Spectrum Boutique is a gorgeous-looking online sex shop that is perfect for lesbians looking for their new favorite toy. It’s geared towards all identities, not just those with vulvas, and doesn’t gender any of its products. Instead you’ll find lists of products for vaginas, penises, nipples and more, as well books and guides on everything from periods to butt stuff.

It was founded in 2015 by Zoë Ligon, a sex educator, journalist and author, and self-proclaimed ‘Dildo Duchess’. Her aim was to create a trustworthy and inclusive sex toy store that anyone could find pleasure from without fear or shame.

Every product in Spectrum Boutique’s collection is 100% body-safe and curated by Ligon herself. One collection particularly worth checking out is the ‘Queer Makers’ list of toys from queer-owned brands!

Spectrum Boutique’s shipping is always discreet, and is free on US orders over $135. For an extra 10% off your first order, sign up to their newsletter!

4. Babeland

Babeland started out as a brick-and-mortar sex shop in Seattle in 1993, founded in response to the distinct lack of female-friendly sex stores at the time. Since then, they’ve opened two more physical stores in NYC, as well as an online store.

Today, their shops are a wonderland of diverse, inclusive and high-quality sex toys, with plenty of lesbian-friendly options. On, you’ll find that they don’t ascribe gender to any of the products they sell. Instead, you can search though them by the type of toy you’re looking for, or the kinds of parts you have.

You may also notice their Come for a Cause program, which supports many different worthy causes. They’re currently supporting the Transgender Law Center, and you can add a donation toward them in any order you place. Babeland, partnered with sex toy brand We-Vibe, will match these donations up to $2,000.

Like the other lesbian sex shops on this list, Babeland offers very discreet shipping. Plus, spend over $69 and shipping is free.

5. SheVibe

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Finally, we have SheVibe. This store was founded back in 2006 by husband and wife team Sandra Bruce and Thor Mikelic. They were joined by graphic and web designer Keith Beresnoy and a less-than-conventional business partner, Marvel Comics illustrator Alex Kotkin.

The result is a sex shop bursting with fantastic (and humorous) artwork, educational content, and loads and loads of sex toys for lesbians and everyone else. Their variety of strap-on harnesses alone is enough to make you blush! They also remain committed to inclusivity and don’t gender any of the products that they sell.

SheVibe supports many queer and sex-positive causes and programs, including Trans Lifeline, Sex Workers Action Program, Women’s Law Coalition, Women of Color Collective, The Trevor Project and more.

If you want to order from SheVibe, you’ll be guaranteed discreet shipping and free shipping within the US on orders over $68. Be sure to sign up to their Power Up Points Program to earn discounts and other perks — you can earn 10 points for every dollar you spend!