The 7 Best Luxury Bondage Items For Sumptuous Submission

    by Anastasija Migulovska
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    If you are looking to upgrade the look and feel of your BDSM collection, or just want to splurge on luxury bondage paraphernalia — then keep on reading. When it comes to luxury bondage gear, we look for high-quality materials, the versatility of the product, whether it has alternate methods of use and if the value matches the price offered. So, moving forward you can find detailed reviews of carefully-curated staple bondage items, based on detailed research for the respective category.
    • Several luxury bondage accessories reviewed
    • In-depth research of other user’s experiences
    • Pros and cons discussed
    • Alternative suggestions

    How we tested the best luxury bondage items

    When it comes to reviewing these luxury bondage items, we stopped at nothing to discover every little thing about them. We left no stone unturned in looking at both their pros AND their cons because that’s the kind of review we wanted to write – an unbiased and well-balanced one. We spent tens of yours looking at the manufacturers websites as well as gathering firsthand thoughts and opinions from people that have actually used these luxury bondage items. When it comes to sex toys of any size, shape, or variety, we never want to be accused of covering up the truth, you see! That’s why we strived to give you the whole truth!

    How we tested the best luxury bondage items

    What makes something a luxury bondage item

    Bondage items are bondage items are bondage items, right? They’re all pretty much the same, right? Wrong! Luxury bondage items step up the bondage game! So let’s take a look at a few of the areas in which they excel!

    • Materials – The materials used in luxury bondage items are always that bit more premium. They might look the same as the materials used in any other bondage item, but look a little close, and you’ll find they look more expensive, and when you touch them they feel of a higher quality. In cheaper items you might get fabric, in luxury bondage items you will get leather or silk. Similarly, where some cheaper items might be made of ABS plastic, the luxury items will be made from silicone.
    • Quality – As we just mentioned when talking about materials, the overall quality of luxury bondage items are just a step above the rest. More time, money, and effort has been put into them, and that is reflected in the high quality.
    • Design – Design wise many bondage items might look similar or even the same, but take a closer inspection, and you’ll find that the designs have been enhanced and refined in order to provide more intense pleasures. While you’ll find that cheaper bondage items work perfectly well, you will notice that the designs of the luxury bondage items take it to the next level!

    FAQ

    What does a basic luxury bondage collection include?
    Staple bondage collections should include the following: Restraints (usually cuffs, rope, or sash restraints), sensory deprivation gear (blindfold and/or earplugs), and sensory stimulants (crop, tickler, flogger). Optional: collar and ball gag.
    What makes BDSM gear fall under luxury bondage?
    Luxury bondage items are not always high-priced. When we categorize something as luxury bondage gear, we have considered the materials of the piece, its versatility, and its longevity. On top of this, extensive user review research provides additional POVs that help us determine the value of a product.
    Is luxury bondage gear for beginners?
    Yes. The amount of experience you have in bed doesn't determine which products one should use. If a piece of luxury BDSM equipment meets your preferences, feel free to experiment - alone or consensually with a partner.
    Where can I buy luxury bondage products
    Right here, by clicking the links on this review! We work alongside some of the most respectable and amazing sex toy shops in the business, because we understand that you're going to want the most smooth and easy shopping process possible!

    What are luxury bondage items?

    Luxury bondage items are part of the vast plethora of BDSM accessories available for solo and mutual practice of any of the BDSM categories. These items are made from high-quality materials and are designed to last after extensive use.

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    The 7 Best luxury bondage toys in Test

    1 Wrist Cuffs

    Bondage Boutique Black Rose Wrist Cuffs

    Design: 98
    Ease of Use: 99
    Quality: 98
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    With a sophisticated black rose pattern, on the top and sumptuous faux-fur, on the bottom — the Black Rose wrist cuff by Bondage Boutique is your gateway into luxury bondage. Comfortable and secure, the 4-hole buckle fastening cuffs can fit 5-7.5  inches and they come with a 6-inch quick-release chain that ties the two wrist cuffs together. The eye-pleasing pattern and sturdy hold, make this luxury BDSM accessory perfect as a gift for your kinkier friends, or for upgrading your BDSM gear collection.

    Bondage Boutique Black Rose Wrist Cuffs test
    Bondage Boutique Black Rose Wrist Cuffs features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    You should buy the Black Rose if you...
    Want luxury wrist cuffs
    Prefer cuffs over rope
    Like to practice BDSM
    You should NOT buy the Black Rose if you...
    Do not enjoy bondage
    Prefer rope
    Want more attachments
    Bondage Boutique Black Rose Wrist Cuffs features
    Features
    Diameter5 - 7.5 inches
    FasteningBuckle 
    WaterproofNo 
    Length12 inches
    Storage Bag IncludedNo 
    MaterialsFaux-fur 
    TextureSoft 
    Pros
    Sturdy cuffs
    Comfortable lining
    Luxury detailing
    Quick-release chain
    Cons
    Not for larger wrists
    Edges might fray
    Conclusion

    Soft and comfortable, the Black Rose cuffs are made from plush lining, that doesn’t agitate the skin during longer sessions, and provides a sturdy hold at the same time. Part of the Black Rose collection, this luxury bondage piece both looks good and feels good, while the adjustable buckle fastening will help you achieve a secure fit. The quick-release chain is easy to use and provides a secure hold, however, due to the one-sided clasp design, it takes just a bit of extra force to break it. Overall, the high-end bondage accessory feels soft and secure, without overly affecting your budget, and is perfect for anyone interested in pursuing BDSM.

    2 Thigh Cuffs

    Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Wrist-to-Thigh Cuffs

    Design: 87
    Ease of Use: 81
    Quality: 94
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    Aesthetically pleasing and catering to anyone interested in pursuing power play via BDSM, the luxury bondage wrist-to-thigh cuffs are made from cruelty-free snakeskin that looks great on anyone. The buckle-fastening wrist cuffs adjust between 7-11 inches in circumference, while the thigh cuffs adjust between 18-26 inches. With no more unnecessary wiggling from your sub, you are free to use this luxury bondage gear in any position you can imagine doing so.

    Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Wrist-to-Thigh Cuffs test
    Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Wrist-to-Thigh Cuffs features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    You should buy the Bondage Boutique Snakeskin if you...
    Want luxury BDSM items
    Want adjustable cuffs
    Like eye-pleasing designs
    You should NOT buy the Bondage Boutique Snakeskin if you...
    Need versatility
    Don't like snakeskin
    Prefer free wrists
    Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Wrist-to-Thigh Cuffs features
    Features
    FasteningBuckle 
    Clitoral suctionWrist modes
    AdjustableYes 
    WidthWrist: 7-11 inches, Thigh: 18-26  inches
    MaterialsFaux leather  
    WaterproofSplashproof 
    TextureOuter: Snakeskin, Inner: Smooth 
    Pros
    Rotates for multiple positions
    Sleek snakeskin
    Study and secure
    Plus-size friendly
    Beginner friendly
    Cons
    Pricey
    No additional attachment rings
    Awkward in certain positions
    Conclusion

    The luxury bondage accessory by Bondage Boutique is made from sturdy-feeling red snakeskin, which is a breath of fresh air compared to regular all-black designs. With the wrist cuffs being stitched onto the thigh part, the high-end bondage item will keep the sub motionless, and the adjustable straps help you find a snug fit, however, this also limits the range of positions you can try. Despite this, the luxury bondage cuffs are well made and can fit bigger bodies for some bound fun.

    3 Collar

    Stockroom Rose Gold Snake Collar and Leash

    Design: 95
    Ease of Use: 97
    Quality: 96
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    The dreamy microfiber exterior of this luxury bondage collar is adorned with a snakeskin pattern print, that immediately conjures up lustful images in our minds. Sleek and eye-catching, this collar and leash set doubles up as a choker necklace due to its design and aesthetically pleasing nature. Luxury BDSM collars can often be bulky and mostly come in dull-looking black designs, so this is where the Rose Gold Snake shines, letting you channel your inner submissive in a glamorous way! Perfect for power play, slave training, and domination, or pair with other bondage straps for additional submission.

    Stockroom Rose Gold Snake Collar and Leash test
    Stockroom Rose Gold Snake Collar and Leash features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    You should buy the Rose Gold Snake if you...
    Want a luxury bondage collar
    Want high-end materials
    Have a bigger budget
    You should NOT buy the Rose Gold Snake if you...
    Want a black collar
    Want something cheap
    Prefer a nylon strap
    Stockroom Rose Gold Snake Collar and Leash features
    Features
    MaterialsMicrofiber, lambskin lining, nickel-free hardware 
    TextureSmooth 
    Width15 - 18 inches
    LengthLeash: 2 feet 5 inches
    WaterproofNo 
    Pros
    Comfortable collar
    Quality materials
    Beginner-friendly
    Cons
    Expensive for a collar
    No additional rings
    Conclusion

    Lined with soft lambskin, that doesn’t chafe the sub’s delicate neck, the Rose Gold Snake by Stockroom is a luxury bondage accessory that will channel the wearer’s glamorous sexuality. The microfiber collar is adjustable and doesn’t feel chokey while allowing the wearer full mobility in the neck during use. With the high-quality bondage gear and materials, a high price is bound to follow so if you’re on a tight budget, consider other BDSM collar options. For anyone who likes to enjoy power play or just loves to pair kinky accessories with their everyday clothes, the Rose Gold Snake is the collar for you!

    4 Spreader Bar

    Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Spreader Bar

    Design: 96
    Ease of Use: 97
    Quality: 97
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    The luxury bondage spreader bar from the Fifty Shades of Grey Collection is the perfect length for extensive bondage sessions. Transform your bedroom into your own Red Room sex dungeon with the Bound to You spreader, made from black faux leather, and antique gold-plated metal. Perfect to combine with the wrist and ankle cuffs from the came collection or any other cuffs from your bedroom. Two quick-release clips adorn each end, which makes play possible in multiple positions, regardless of your gender or role preference.

    Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Spreader Bar test
    Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Spreader Bar features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    You should buy the Bound to You if you...
    Want a staple spreader
    Want luxury bondage items
    Enjoy being hogtied
    You should NOT buy the Bound to You if you...
    Prefer more motion
    Want a less intimidating item
    Don't have cuffs
    Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Spreader Bar features
    Features
    MaterialsFaux Leather, Nickel-free hardware 
    TextureSmooth 
    Length20 inches
    FasteningClip 
    AllergiesVegan, Nickel-free 
    Pros
    Luxury materials
    Beginner-friendly
    Lightweight, yet sturdy
    Versatile
    Cons
    No included cuffs
    Short bar
    Conclusion

    Slightly shorter than conventional spreader bars, the luxury bondage bar from the Fifty Shades Collection is called Bound To You and is quite a versatile piece of gear for users of all levels and genders. Made from imitation leather which covers a lightweight metal bar, the high-quality bondage item has 2 easy-release clips on each side, so you can use it for multiple positions, regardless of whether you enjoy binding the hands, feed, or both. The downside is that the bar doesn’t come with included cuffs, however, it’s compatible with most bondage accessories. We suggest using the bar to connect a collar to an anal hook, as an advanced method of use.

    5 Ball Gag

    ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Rose Ball Gag

    Design: 97
    Ease of Use: 94
    Quality: 93
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    The designer ball gag by Zalo & Upko offers novelty and versatile kinky play. Made for luxury bondage, the lavish Italian leather straps are durable and adjustable with a buckle fastening. The silicone ball gag is average-sized, making the high-end bondage item beginner-friendly, while the removable rose provides an opening for some zesty mouth-fingering or tongue play. In addition, removing the rose makes the gag breathable, for less trained users.

    ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Rose Ball Gag test
    ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Rose Ball Gag features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    You should buy the Rose if you...
    Want a versatile ball gag
    Like novelty designs
    Like BDSM torture
    You should NOT buy the Rose if you...
    Don't like gagging
    Prefer a regular ball gag
    ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Rose Ball Gag features
    Features
    DiameterBall : 1.57 inches, Hole: 0.87 inches, Rose : 2.67 inches
    LengthStraps total: 20 inches
    MaterialsSilicone, Italian Leather 
    AdjustableYes 
    FasteningBuckle 
    WaterproofSplash proof  
    AllergiesNon-porous, Latex-free 
    Pros
    Novelty rose design
    Luxury leather straps
    Hole for finger play
    Removable rose
    Cons
    Only spot clean
    Buckle pulls hair
    Conclusion

    If you are looking for a 2-in-1 luxury bondage toy that will last you a long time, consider the Zalo and Upko Rose ball gag. The removable rose instantly provides you a breathable ball gag, while the hole it leaves can be used with fingers or the dom’s tongue. Although ball gags can instantly raise the level of kinkiness in the bedroom, make sure everyone involved is comfortable with using them, regardless of their level or gender.  High-quality bondage gear made from leather can be quite expensive, and this is the case with the Rose, which for some users can be a turn-off.

    6 Sash Restraints

    Sportsheets Silky Sash Restraints

    Design: 99
    Ease of Use: 99
    Quality: 93
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    When it comes to luxury bondage, you don’t always have to go for intimidating leather designs. The sash restraints by Sportsheets feel silky and luxurious, and are made from non-slip satin which can be used for bondage, blindfolding or even gagging. Ideal for beginners who want to dip their toes in light bondage, the 4 foot x 4 inch versatile restraints can be safely used on any appendage of your choosing. Non-intimidating, this pair of sash restraints are the perfect high quality bondage gear for anyone on a smaller budget.

    Sportsheets Silky Sash Restraints test
    Sportsheets Silky Sash Restraints features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    You should buy the Silky Sash Restraints if you...
    Want simple restraints
    Like silky materials
    Want sensual BDSM
    You should NOT buy the Silky Sash Restraints if you...
    Want hard restraints
    Want buckle cuffs
    Need items for rough play
    Sportsheets Silky Sash Restraints features
    Features
    Length48 inches
    Width4 inches
    FasteningKnot and bow 
    Pros
    Silky and high-quality
    Versatile restraints
    Beginner-friendly
    Washable
    Cons
    Nothing
    Conclusion

    If you’re on a budget or simply do not enjoy handcuffs, a great luxury bondage alternative is the Sportsheets Silky Sash Restraints. They can be used in a plethora of ways: from binding your wrists and ankles, to gagging and blindfolding — which makes this piece of high-quality bondage gear a true hidden gem. The versatile sash restraints not only offer practical usages in multiple positions, but they save space in your bedroom by replacing bulky cuffs and mouth gags and leaving room for your vibrators. Perfect for kinky users of any gender and experience, who are looking for luxury bondage made simple.

    7 Harness

    Stupid Cute Bust Harness

    Design: 98
    Ease of Use: 98
    Quality: 98
    Price: 0/5

    Bedbible rating: 0

    User rating:
    No user rating

    Made from high-quality leather, the baby pink harness is, as the name suggests, Stupid Cute. An eye-catching version of Stockroom’s best-seller, this luxury bondage harness is made to go around the neck under the breasts and has two pairs of different size D-rings, that can be used to attach other restraints to the harness. Luxury BDSM accessory is handcrafted from high-end materials that will keep your skin chafe-free while you practice power play. Pair with the Stupid Cute restraints for a complete set!

    Stupid Cute Bust Harness test
    Stupid Cute Bust Harness features
    Recommended for:
    BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
    You should buy the Stupid Cute if you...
    Want a bust harness
    Want to attach more restraints
    Like BDSM clothing
    You should NOT buy the Stupid Cute if you...
    Want a black harness
    Are on a budget
    Prefer to be naked
    Stupid Cute Bust Harness features
    Features
    MaterialsLeather, nickel-plated hardware 
    DiameterCollar: 11.5 - 14.5 inches, Breast: 24.5 - 34.5  inches
    LengthCollar to Under breast: 8.5 to 11.5 inches
    TextureSmooth 
    Pros
    Comfortable
    Adjustable
    2 sets of D-rings
    Can be worn as fashion item
    Cons
    No included restraints
    Expensive
    Conclusion

    If you want to explore your glamorous side during your BDSM exploits, consider the Stupid Cute underbust harness for your next session. The luxury bondage harness is made in a pretty pink color that looks great against multiple skin tones and helps the wearer feel confident during playtime. This piece of quality bondage gear is handcrafted with high-quality leather, making the price tag quite high. If this doesn’t suit your liking, you can always opt to try out a Shibari rope bondage technique and make yourself a custom rope harness. Anyway, the Stupid Cute harness can be adjusted to fit multiple sizes, making it comfortable to use regardless of your breast size.

    The Perfect Luxury Bondage Gift Set

    Luxury bondage sets make the perfect gift for when you want your significant other to “take a hint” about what you want to do in the bedroom. Alternatively, luxury BDSM sets can be a great way to encourage your friends to explore their wild sides, releasing their inner vixens in the process. Regardless of whether you’re purchasing a luxury bondage set for yourself or want to spoil your obedient sub, you’re in for a wild ride with all of the included items.

    Accessorize Your Luxury Restraints

    Luxury bondage restraints will help build excitement in the bedroom and enhance the power play sessions with your dominant, by helping you both achieve certain bound positions. But for when you want to find other ways to stimulate the senses, consider BDSM accessories that will help you bring enticing sensations to the submissive such as tickling, pain, and whipping.

    What is BDSM?

    Given its rising popularity over the years, both as a practice and as a lifestyle, most of us have likely encountered the term BDSM during our intern perusals. However, not many are familiar with the true meaning of BDSM — the umbrella term that encompasses a variety of sexual behaviors and practices, that are categorized under groups: bondage & discipline, domination & submission, and sadism & masochism. To better understand each pair, we will discus the highlights and goals of each sub category to have a better perspective on how you can implement basic practices into your bedroom for luxury bondage experiences.

    Bondage and discipline

    Despite the physical act of binding your partner in order to limit their motion, B&D is a psychological practice, which in any case requires consent and safe words. The balance of will it takes to achieve a certain level of discipline, regardless of whether you are tied up or not, benefits both the sexual relationship and deepens the bond between partners. The gratification from achieving discipline can be as satisfying as the foreplay leading up to the sexual act.

    Domination and Submission

    Starting off a BDSM relationship often comes with choosing roles that each partner wants to be: dominant, a submissive or a switch, according to their need for power exchange. Most of the time this has to do with the power dynamic of the relationship, which can come naturally or after a comprehensive discussion with your SO regarding the roles. On the submissive side, the role is described as earning satisfaction from sensory deprivation, pain, punishments, physical bondage, and/or being ordered around. On the flip side, the dominant role will demonstrate skill, power and total consensual control over the submissive.

    Sadism and Masochism

    Despite the terms’ ill repute, S&M is growing in popularity due to the orgasmic blissful sensations that come when one chooses to welcome a bit of pain into their life. Masochists are in broad terms people who enjoy pain, while sadists are people who enjoy giving pain, however keep in mind that like the other subcategories, S&M has its nuances — a masochist might like enduring pain, but not the way the stimulus itself feels, and sadist might enjoy the reactions from their sub, but not the act of inflicting pain. So for anyone practicing, make sure to negotiate and be clear during the contracting stage.

    How to use luxury bondage items?

    Luxury bondage items are fairly straightforward to use and are often combined to create different sensations or stimuli for the submissive. While most of the high-end bondage gear pieces come with included instructions on how to properly use the respective item, rarely do any of them include additional instructions for safe and proper BSDM practice. So before you proceed with your kinky skylarking, check out these must-do steps to ensure you have fun while staying safe!

    How to use luxury bondage items?

    Consent and contract

    Consent and contract

    When partaking in any sexual relationship, regardless of whether it’s luxury bondage or vanilla, consensually proceeding together will help you stay safe and avoid a toxic dynamic. By giving consent, you are allowing for certain sexual and BDSM acts to happen, so take control of what is allowed beforehand. Having a negotiation, or a contract before you proceed, due to the nature of certain BDSM practices, will help everyone involved have an idea of what is going to occur.

    Establish your limits and have safe words

    How to use luxury bondage items?

    Whatever the situation is, impact play or bondage, having an upfront contact and comprehensive discussion of your likes and dislikes will help the dominant responsibly mold their actions according to the sub’s preferences. In addition, having established limits before the beginning of the BDSM relationship will help the submissive feel comfortable, instead of mistreated, humiliated, or hurt. Setting up safe words (yellow/red system), or safe signs (hand squeezing, blinking, or headshaking) will make sure the sub has the freedom to stop the action at any given point they aren’t feeling safe or comfortable.

    How to use luxury bondage items?
    How to use luxury bondage items?

    Have fun

    Have fun

    BDSM is all about finding the right balance between pain and pleasure, obedience and discipline, and is here to deepen the intimacy between the partners involved. Make sure to have fun and enjoy yourself during your kinky exploits, letting go of the fear, trusting that your dominant will take care of you.

    How to clean luxury bondage accessories?

    Regardless of the material and the luxury bondage gear's intended use, the best option is to check with the manufacturer's care and clean instructions. This way you can determine the materials and the best way to go about cleanings, such as spot cleaning, washing, or gentle scrubbing. We've included an infographic for reference.

    Porous
    materials

    Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

    Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

    Non-propous
    materials

    Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

    Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

    The toys with electrical
    components

    If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.

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