The 8 Best Rainbow Strap-On Dildos and Harnesses for Pride and Pleasure
Whether you’re looking for a bright and fun rainbow strap-on dildo, harness or a set of both, we’ve found the best of the bunch and gathered them together in one place! Do you want a dual-density dildo that feels almost exactly like the real thing, a super adjustable harness that gives back to charity with your purchase, a pride flag dildo that’s designed to give pleasure to the wearer and the receiver, or a rainbow strap-on kit that’s perfect for pegging? We’ve rated and compared them all, so you can find your perfect match.
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Vixen Mustang | Wet For Her Pride Fusion | Inclusion Rainbow Strap-On Harness | Rainbow Power Drive Strap-On | Lovehoney Super Soft Rainbow Dildo | Inclusion Rainbow Thigh Harness | Blush Avant Pride Dildo | Colours Pleasures Dildo |
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Why Should You Trust This Rainbow Strap-On Review?
If you’ve spent some time looking for your perfect rainbow strap-on already, you might have seen that the apparent choice available isn’t so stunning! Finding a good quality rainbow strap-on harness can be a challenge, and finding a full set with a harness and a dildo can be even trickier. You’ve only got so much time in a day, and you can’t spend hours and hours trawling through sex toy stores to find the best products…
Well, fortunately, I can! I’ve spent over 25 hours researching and writing this review, and have uncovered some hidden gems that really are the gold at the end of the rainbow! Using expert sex toy knowledge, I’ve shortlisted these 8 rainbow strap-ons for how they rank on several key features: design, ease of use, quality, features and price.
There are a mix of harnesses, strap-on compatible dildos and full sets to choose from, and, wherever possible, you’ll get first-hand reviews of them from real reviewers. Each time you see a Bedbible reviewer holding the toy in question, you’re reading their words on what they really thought of it, and why they recommend it! Plus, we’ve also included an aggregated rating from real customers across the internet.
How to Find Your Perfect Rainbow Strap-On
Here’s a quick guide of what to ask yourself whilst shopping for a rainbow strap-on. There are a lot of things to think about, and a lot of information to digest, so I’ve broken it all down into some crucial categories…
- Looking for a harness, or a dildo, or both? It’s important to know whether you’re buying a full strap-on kit, or just a harness or dildo. If you already own a harness, you might just need a dildo, but if you’re a complete beginner, you’ll probably need both.
- What harness style do you prefer? Do you want a harness that’s super secure and strapped in, or do you prefer something more comfortable? You can see all the main styles of strap-on harness in my ‘types of strap-on harness’ section below.
- What size dildo suits you best? Perhaps the most important part of picking a rainbow strap-on is the proportions of the dildo. You’ll want to pay attention to both the length and girth of the dildo, so that you can use it comfortably and safely, whilst still getting enough stimulation!
- Do you want the dildo to be phallic or not? This is 100% down to you and your partner’s personal preference, but it can really make or break your enjoyment of your new strap-on!
- Is it made from body-safe materials? Make sure that your dildo is made from a non-porous material like silicone, steel or glass. Porous materials like PVC, TPE, rubber and jelly are not body-safe, as they contain microscopic holes that can harbor bacteria and other germs, which cause infections, and almost impossible to thoroughly clean.
Reviews of the 8 best rainbow strap ons
Test Winner Vixen Mustang Tie-Dye Strap-On Dildo
From the moment I held the Vixen Mustang’s glorious silicone rainbow shaft, with its squishy outer layer, I knew it was something special. This dual-density dildo has a lot of hype, but it really lives up to it. It’s the most realistic-feeling dildo I’ve ever encountered, and its pronounced head is sculpted enough to really feel it but soft enough to be comfortable for harder thrusting. Whatever kind of stimulation you prefer, it doesn’t disappoint.
As a strap-on dildo, the Mustang is an ideal option. It has a wide, flared non-slip base that sits well in a strap-on harness, and a gentle curve that’s great for both g-spot and prostate stimulation during pegging play. Plus, the firm core means that it won’t bend too much as you thrust.
Pros
- ✅ Strap-on harness compatible
- ✅ Super realistic dual-density feel
- ✅ Body-safe, hand-poured, platinum-grade silicone
- ✅ Flexible but firm
Cons
- ❌ Not a real suction cup base
- ❌ Can require a lot of lube
My verdict
The Vixen Mustang is certainly not cheap, but, in my humble opinion, it’s worth every penny. If you’re looking for a rainbow strap-on dildo that’s extremely high-quality, very versatile and, frankly, heavenly to use, you’ve found it.
That’s why it’s this review’s best-in-test! Of course, it doesn’t come with a harness, but it will easily slip into any one you have, but can just as easily be used without one, too.
For a real realistic dildo that’s super playful in color, I highly recommend the Mustang.
Buy, if you...
- Are looking for a harness-compatible rainbow dildo
- Love realistic-looking and feeling dildos
- Want a high-quality, body-safe dildo
- Prefer a strap-on dildo with some squish
Don't buy, if you...
- Want a dildo with a real suction cup base
- Prefer a rigid dildo
- Are on a budget
- Are looking for a more 'rainbow-y' rainbow dildo
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Dual Stimulation Wet For Her Pride Fusion Strap-On Dildo
From lesbian sex toy specialists Wet For Her, the Wet For Her Pride Fusion Strap-On Dildo was specially designed to be worn in a strap-on harness. The angled base is textured and has a ridge in the middle so it can stimulate the clitoris of the wearer as they thrust! This means that it pairs really well with a baseless harness like the Inclusion rainbow harness, mentioned fruther down on the list.
As for the receiver, the non-phallic shaft is slightly curved with a large bulbous head to provide plenty of stimulation where you need it most. Made from 100% hand-poured silicone, it’s smooth, soft and long-lasting.
Pros
- ✅ Moulded, textured base for clitoral stimulation
- ✅ Pride flag rainbow design
- ✅ Curved shaft with bulbous tip
- ✅ Body-safe silicone
Cons
- ❌ Pricier than other dildos in this review
- ❌ No suction cup
- ❌ May be tricky to use for beginners
- ❌ Quality isn't completely premium
My verdict
It’s always nice when you find sex toys designed specifically for what you’re looking for, and it’s even better when they were designed by people who actually use those toys and know what they’re talking about!
I really like that the Wet For Her Pride Fusion has a totally unique design that is designed to offer some dual stimulation while you’re enjoying your strap-on play. With the Pleasure Base, there’s been given some thought to the wearer’s stimulation as they thrust and pound! Plus, that pride flag rainbow design is something I hardly ever see on sex toys, and I love it!
One thing I do have to mention about this dildo is that it’s still quite firm. If the wearer doesn’t enjoy grinding as a method of clitoral stimulation, it might not offer that much stimulation. Also, for a dildo that’s on the pricier side of similar products, our tester was expecting a higher quality product. Still, I think it’s a decent quality rainbow strap-on dildo that offers a unique way of making your experience pleasurable for both parties.
Buy, if you...
- Want a strap-on dildo that can stimulate the wearer too!
- Like that it has an inclusive pride flag color scheme
- Are looking for a comfortable, ergonomic design
- Enjoy grinding stimulation
Don't buy, if you...
- Are on a tight budget
- Want a dildo with a suction cup base
- Want a strap-on kit with a harness included
Harness Inclusion Rainbow Strap-On Harness
The Inclusion Rainbow Strap-On Harness is a gorgeous harness that’s bound to appeal to anyone looking to introduce a little fun and color to their play. It has a secure double leg strap design and fits a wide range of sizes (and there is also a plus-sized version available). Easy-to-use ladder clips allow for a lot of adjustability on the hips and around the legs, and you can quickly swap out the 1.5 inch O-ring for your preferred size, thanks to the snaps in the front! With a crotchless design, you can use the Inclusion harness with a regular strap-on dildo or a strapless strap-on, but can also enjoy riding a dildo or vibrator whilst wearing it!
Pros
- ✅ Handmade
- ✅ Highly adjustable and secure
- ✅ O-ring can be easily swapped out
- ✅ Crotchless design
- ✅ Proceeds go to creating queer- and trans-friendly environments in rural Canada
Cons
- ❌ Polypropylene material can feel scratchy
- ❌ O-ring and snaps contain nickel
- ❌ Standard size has a max. hip size of 54"
- ❌ No padding behind the O-ring
My verdict
Each colorful Inclusion Rainbow Harness is handmade by a trans activist in Canada, and the proceeds of every sale go towards creating queer- and trans-friendly spaces in rural Ontario schools. They’re incredibly well-crafted and comfortable to wear, and by purchasing one, you know that you’re contributing towards a fantastic cause!
If you’re looking for a rainbow strap-on harness that can be used again and again, in all kinds of strap-on play, this could be exactly what you need. Just pop in your favorite dildo, or pair it with one of the rainbow dildos I’ve recommended in this very post! Some may be put off by the lack of padding behind the base of the dildo, but you can remedy that with a product like the soft BumpHer dildo base.
Buy, if you...
- Are looking for a cute rainbow strap-on harness!
- Prefer a very adjustable harness
- Are looking for a crotchless, open strap-on harness
- Want to do some good for the LGBTQ+ community with your purchase
Don't buy, if you...
- Have hips larger than 54" (get the plus-size version instead!)
- Have very sensitive skin or want a softer harness
- Prefer a underwear/brief-style harness
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Strap-On Kit Rainbow Power Drive Strap-On
Shift into your sexiest gear with this all-in-one rainbow strap-on kit! The Rainbow Power Drive Strap-On comes with a simple thong-style harness with elasticated straps and a padded front panel that cushions your body from the dildo. It’s super easy and quick to put on, and looks an absolute treat. The rainbow dildo has an insertable length of 6.5 inches, but is a slim 1.1 inches in diameter, making it ideal for newbies. Plus, it’s made from body-safe silicone and can be used for both vaginal or anal play.
Pros
- ✅ Has everything you need to get started
- ✅ Body-safe silicone dildo
- ✅ Comfortable dildo base
Cons
- ❌ O-ring can't be switched out
- ❌ Harness is not very secure
- ❌ Only fits up to a 38 waist
My verdict
If you don’t already own a strap-on harness or dildo, try out the Rainbow Power Drive kit for size! It’s a great starting point for newbies who want something that’s not fussy or too intimidating, and it really takes the rainbow brief to heart.
Since the straps are elasticated, it might not be the tightest, most secure-fitting harness out there, especially if you’re on the smaller side. It’s also not possible to change the O-ring for a different size if you want to use another size of dildo with the harness. However, those are often things you think about later on in your strap-on journey.
Buy, if you...
- Are looking for a complete rainbow strap-on kit
- Are a strap-on beginner
- Don't yet own a strap-on dildo or harness
- Prefer a slimmer dildo for pegging play
Don't buy, if you...
- Would prefer a more secure harness
- Want to be able to switch out the O-ring for different sizes
- Prefer a non-phallic dildo
Soft Lovehoney Super Soft Silicone Rainbow Dildo
If you love a dildo with some flexibility, then you may just love this Super Soft Rainbow Dildo from Lovehoney. This semi-phallic dildo has a vibrant rainbow color scheme, and a strong, wide suction cup that allows it to sit securely inside the strap-on harness of your choice. There’s enough flex to make for a super comfortable ride, but not too much squish that it bends out of shape! That pronounced head is also perfect for rubbing up against the prostate or g-spot, but with a diameter of 1.4 inches, it’s nice and approachable for beginners, too.
Pros
- ✅ Flexible and soft
- ✅ Body-safe silicone
- ✅ Strong suction cup
- ✅ Harness-compatible
- ✅ Affordable
Cons
- ❌ May be too small for some
- ❌ Not as squishy as advertised
My verdict
There is some debate in the review section of the Lovehoney Super Soft Rainbow dildo about whether the softness is just right, or if there’s not enough squish. Of course, that really comes down to personal taste, but I think that it’s good that it still has some firmness, as it makes it the perfect consistency for strap-on play.
If you’re looking for a rainbow strap-on dildo that’s versatile, not too large, and budget-friendly, try this one out for size!
Buy, if you...
- Love a softer-feeling dildo
- Are looking for a dildo with a suction cup base
- Are a strap-on beginner
Don't buy, if you...
- Would prefer a non-phallic dildo
- Enjoy a dildo that can provide firm pressure
- Are looking for a girthy dildo
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Thigh Harness Inclusion Rainbow Thigh Strap-On Harness
Strap-on play isn’t all about traditional pelvic harnesses, you know! Whether you don’t have the mobility necessary for a regular-style strap-on harness, or you want to try out some new positions, why not give a thigh strap-on a go?
This offering, from the same creator as the Inclusion rainbow harness above, is one of my favorites. It has three rainbow straps that can be independently adjusted with ladder clips, and snaps that allow you to easily switch out O-ring sizes. This featured size fits thighs up to 25 inches around, but there is also a second size that fits up to 40 inches. And, just like the other Inclusion harness, the proceeds of these thigh harnesses go towards creating queer- and trans-friendly spaces for rural Canadian kids.
Pros
- ✅ Accessible for a ranges of abilities
- ✅ O-ring can be easily swapped out
- ✅ Handmade
- ✅ Proceeds go to creating queer- and trans-friendly spaces in rural Canada
Cons
- ❌ Material may be uncomfortable on bare thighs
- ❌ O-ring and snaps contain nickel
- ❌ Doesn't have the same look as a pelvic harness
- ❌ No padding behind the O-ring
My verdict
The Inclusion Thigh harness is truly an inclusive accessory! Whether you want to strap it to your thigh, arm or an inanimate object, the adjustable rainbow straps mean it will do the job with ease. Simply strap in your fave dildo and you’re off to the races, or change up the O-ring if you want something bigger or smaller.
Buy, if you...
- Like to switch between different-sized dildos
- Want to do some good for the LGBTQ+ community with your purchase
- Have issues with mobility or other that prevent from using a pelvic harness
- Want a versatile rainbow strap-on harness
Don't buy, if you...
- Enjoy the look of a pelvic harness
- Like harnesses made from softer materials
- Are looking for a rainbow strap-on kit with a dildo
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G-Spot Blush Avant Pride P1 Freedom Dildo
The P1 Freedom Dildo from the Blush Avant Pride range is my top pick for those looking for a non-phallic rainbow strap-on dildo. It has a gently curved, undulating shaft with a pronounced, bulbous head that seeks out your sweetest spots. One reviewer remarked that “the top part feels more like fingers” than a traditional realistic dildo, though this dildo can much deeper than your fingers can! With its suction cup base, it’s absolutely perfect for vaginal or anal strap-on play, especially for newbies or those who prefer something slimmer.
Pros
- ✅ Non-phallic design
- ✅ Platinum-cured, body-safe silicone
- ✅ Curved shaft with bulbous head
- ✅ Harness-compatible
- ✅ Strong suction cup
Cons
- ❌ May not be stable in a harness, depending on the O-ring used
- ❌ May be too small for some
My verdict
This rainbow strap-on dildo sets itself apart from the rest by its looks alone. Its smooth silicone shaft has plenty to stimulate you and your partner all the way down to the base, and yet it’s slim enough for all experience levels to enjoy.
Since it is slimmer, make sure to use the right size O-ring to avoid it wobbling around in your harness.
Buy, if you...
- Are looking for a non-phallic strap-on dildo
- Aren't a fan of large, girthy toys
- Want a curved dildo that can provide plenty of prostate/g-spot stimulation
Don't buy, if you...
- Are looking for a strap-on kit with a harness
- Prefer thicker, girthy dildos
Realistic Colours Pleasures 6 Inch Pride Dildo
Looking for a rainbow strap-on dildo that’s as filling as it is fun? Meet the Colours Pleasures 6 Inch Pride dildo! It’s made from top-to-tail silky silicone and firm to the touch, perfect for those with some strap-on experience who want something intense and satisfying. With an insertable length of 6 inches and a diameter of 1.75 inches at its widest point, it’s not the most extreme size-wise, but it’s certainly more suited to intermediate users. Enjoy its realistically-textured shaft and pronounced head as it thrusts in and out, and be sure to use plenty of water-based lube!
Pros
- ✅ Realistic shape and texture
- ✅ Strong suction cup
- ✅ Firm stimulation
- ✅ Long and girthy
Cons
- ❌ Not beginner-friendly
- ❌ May be too large for some
- ❌ Has very little squish to it
My verdict
Those who love a girthy dildo are sure to enjoy the Colours Pleasures 6 inch Dildo, especially when it’s clad in such fun rainbow colors! If you’re looking to upgrade to something larger without going crazy, this might be the perfect solution.
However, it also comes in other sizes, including a smaller 5 inch version that was reviewed by a Bedbible tester, and a expert-level 8 inch model!
Buy, if you...
- Love a longer, thicker dildo
- Are looking for a realistic-looking and feeling dildo
- Prefer a firmer strap-on dildo
- Like having a suction cup base
Don't buy, if you...
- Are a strap-on beginner or prefer smaller dildos
- Want a dildo with more squish to it
- Are looking for a non-phallic dildo
- Want a rainbow strap-on kit with harness included
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Comparison of the 8 best rainbow strap ons
Best | Test Winner | Dual Stimulation | Harness | Strap-On Kit | Soft | Thigh Harness | G-Spot | Realistic |
Overall score | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.7 / 5.0 from 108 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 207 users | 5 / 5.0 from 2 users | 5 / 5.0 from 2 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 40 users | 4 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 153 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 10 users |
Price | Premium | Moderate | Affordable | Moderate | Affordable | Affordable | Affordable | Affordable |
Design | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
Ease of use | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
Quality | 100 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Power | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Length | 7.5 inches | 7.9 inches inches | - | (Dildo) 7 inches | 7 inches | - | 6 inches | 8.5 inches |
Insertable length | 6.5 inches | 6 inches | - | (Dildo) 6.5 inches | 6 inches | - | 5.25 inches | 6 inches |
Diameter | 1.6 inches | 1.37 inches | (O-Ring) 1.5 inches | (Dildo) 1.1 inches | 1.4 inches | (O-ring) 1.5 inches | 1.4 inches | 1.75 inches |
Materials | Platinum-Grade Silicone | Silicone | Polypropylene, ABS Plastic, Metal | (Dildo) Silicone | Silicone | Polypropylene, ABS Plastic | Silicone | Silicone |
Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Machine-Washable | - | Yes | Machine-Washable | Yes | Yes |
Storage Bag Included | No | No | - | No | No | No | No | No |
Colors Available | Tie-Dye, 3 Flesh Tones | Rainbow | Rainbow | Rainbow | Rainbow | Rainbow | Rainbow | Rainbow |
Flexibility | - | Flexible | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Harness Size | - | - | Fits Hips Up to 54 inches | Fits Up to a Size 38 inches | - | Fits Thighs Up to 25 inches | - | - |
Adjustable | - | - | Yes | Yes | - | - | - | - |
More Pride Flag Strap-On Dildos!
We all love a rainbow strap-on, but pride doesn’t end there! As well as the P1 Freedom dildo above, Blush also makes a whole range of pride flag-themed dildos for you to choose from. Here are three of my favorites from the expansive range…
Blush Avant Pride P3 Beauty Dildo
The P3 Beauty dildo is a lesbian pride flag dildo with a semi-phallic design and a gently curved that’s wonderful for g-spot stimulation. Place it into a strap-on harness, hold it by the base, or stick the suction cup to a smooth surface for a hands-free ride!
Blush Avant Pride P2 True Blue Dildo
The P2 True Blue dildo has an identical shape to the rainbow dildo featured earlier, but with a trans pride flag color scheme. That means the same deliciously pronounced head and bumpy shaft for stimulation all the way down.
Blush Avant Pride P8 Love Dildo
And finally, we have the P8 Love dildo, in a beautiful bisexual pride flag design. This has the most realistic design of the three here, with super veiny textures down the shaft and ridges around the glans that give you plenty of stimulation when playing with just the tip. At 7 inches of insertable length, this is definitely for more experienced users, but gives you plenty of room to play around.
Types of Harnesses for Your Rainbow Strap-On Dildo
If you don’t already have a harness for your rainbow strap-on dildo, you’ll need one! There are plenty of options to choose from when it comes to the style, and there’s no one solution that works best for everybody. Which one you choose will depend on your needs, but here’s a guide to help you pick the style that best suits you…
Traditional Double Leg Strap Harness
The most common (and probably best-loved) style of strap-on harness is the double leg strap harness. These have a horizontal strap that goes around the hips and two vertical straps that go from the bottom of the O-ring, underneath the crotch and around the leg up to the hip strap. This means you have a super secure fit, especially when the straps are adjustable! Some harnesses have a padded base underneath the O-ring to cushion your body from the dildo, but others do not.
The Inclusion harness in the list above is an example of a double leg strap harness, as well as this very affordable one from Lovehoney.
Jock Strap-Style Harness
Another popular style is the Jock strap-style harness. You might have trouble telling them apart from the double leg strap style, mostly because they often have double leg straps, too! However, the difference is the O-ring and base, which has a softer, more flexible design that is very reminiscent of a jock strap. The O-ring is often sewn in, so it is not replaceable, but it can feel more comfortable and natural in placement.
One particular Bedbible favorite is the Joque harness by Spareparts, which has a wide, comfortable hip strap that distributes pressure more evenly across your skin.
Lovehoney Unisex Harness Briefs
There are also a growing number of strap-on harnesses with no straps at all! These look just like boxer briefs or boy short panties, but with a sneaky O-ring sewn into the front. Simply pull them on, slip in a dildo and you’re ready to go.
Of course, strap-on underwear is not as adjustable as more traditional harnesses, but it can be extremely comfortable, and still very secure if you purchase the correct size. Pictured here is the Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs, which are fantastic quality!
Thong-Style Harness
Love the look of a thong, but want it in a strap-on format? There are plenty of harnesses out there with thong-style straps — one around the hips and one between the cheeks. These are often popular with beginners who are using smaller, lighter dildos, like the Sportsheets Bikini Strap-On Kit here. However, what you gain in style you may lose out on in security, as you have fewer straps to adjust to your body.
Body Harness
And finally, you also have a whole world of body harnesses to explore! I touched on these earlier with the Inclusion thigh harness, but there are also many other options to choose from. I love the Unicorn Collaborators leather hand harness, pictured here, but you can also find leg harnesses, face strap-ons, and even some to attach to your feet! Whatever the reason may be that you need or enjoy an alternative strap-on harness, there’s a design out there for you.
FAQ
What is a Rainbow Strap-On?
Strap-ons, rainbow or not, are usually made up of two parts: a harness and a dildo. There are lots of styles of strap-on harness to choose from (and you can see them all in my explainer section below), and even more dildos! The styles you go for will depend on several factors, including your experience level and budget, but your comfort is also super important.
Reviewed by:
Isabelle Uren