The 10 Best Sadist Toys to Inflict the Most Pleasurable Pain
The Testing of Sadist Toys
Here at Bedbible, we use three different methods to rate sex toys. Our preferred option is hands-on testing (if we’ve tested a product you can read about it by clicking on the “Read full review” link!). However, we’re not always able to get our hands on every toy, so we also use manufacturer information and real-user experiences to gather feedback on a product. This gives us plenty of viewpoints to work with (especially if we’ve also tested a toy ourselves), preventing the bias you’ll often find in reviews that rely on a single source for information. After all the research & testing have been completed, we then rate each product individually on its design, ease of use, and overall quality. You’ll be able to see two scores for each product: the “Bedbible Score” and the “User Ratings” score. We hope that having more than one opinion will be helpful in your search for new toys!
Popular Types of Sadist Toys
There are many different types of sex toys sadist people can enjoy. Actually, there are far more than the ones listed below, but we’ve written a quick overview of the most popular options for quick reference while online window shopping!
- Paddles – These dedicated spanking paddles come in a wide variety of sizes, designs, and can be made from many different materials. Generally, these are used on your partner’s thighs or backside and have a widespread impact.
- Floggers – If you’re interested in whips but don’t want something too big, a flogger might be the next best thing! Essentially miniature whipping toys, floggers can produce a sharp or deep pain depending on the materials used.
- Pinwheels – Perfect for sensation play, pinwheel toys can be dull, razor-sharp, and anywhere in-between. Drive your partner wild by rolling these toys over their bare skin!
- Massage Candles – Designed specifically to be poured onto the skin (no, don’t just use any old candle!), these candles melt and can be dripped onto your partner for an erotic type of sensation play. Many of them also offer benefits for your skin!
- Whips – A classic toy, BDSM whips are perfect for people with more ambitious partners. Able to inflict an extreme bite, these toys are best left to more advanced users with a high pain tolerance.
- Nipple Clamps – Whether you just want a light tug or a vice-grip clamp, there are plenty of these toys for any level of pain tolerance. Many can also be attached to chains, opening up a bunch of options for nipple play!
- Electrostim Wands – If you’re curious about electro-sex toys then an electrostim wand is a great place to start! Although many of them require external power sources, these toys offer a safe way to add a bit of “shock” into the bedroom.
What Are Sadist Toys?
Sadist toys are a special kind of sex toys that are designed for bondage and BDSM sexual practices. Sadist toys help couples play their kinkiest fantasies fully, explore new sexual boundaries and introduce roleplay and cosplay into their sexual life. There are different kinds of sex toys sadist people can use, but in general, they help couples represent the fantasy of a dominant individual and a sub. The amount of pain inflicted varies widely depending on the toy in question (and how it’s utilized!). Amongst the most representative sadist toys we can mention: cuffs, blindfolds, harnesses, whips, and spankers!
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The 10 Best sadist toys in Test
Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle
If you’re new to bondage and BDSM play or simply want to add a great sadist toy to your collection, the Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle is definitely worth considering.
The Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle is a kinky sadist toy that is noisy enough to make an audible impact without having to spank too hard thanks to its dual-layered spanking surface. It’s a split leather paddle with a SLUT logo to leave a mark on your sub’s skin.
Even if you are new to spanking and spanking tools, this sadist toy makes it easy for you to punish your partner thanks to its rigid handle with wrist loop.
Pair it with restraints or bend your partner for sassy punishment.
The Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle is an exciting sadistic toy that you can find in the market. Bend your partner or use restraints on them for a kinky sexual session!
The Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle is a masochist toy made of leather that has the word SLUT carved on it. It is light in weight and easy to handle even for unexperienced users. It’s double-layered spanking surface means that it leaves an audible impact that your partner will anticipate without having to spank to hard.
Even though the SLUT word doesn’t always imprint easily on your partner, the message definitely adds to the sadist game!
Doc Johnson Japanese Hot Wax Drip Bondage Candles (3 Pack)
The Doc Johnson Japanese Hot Wax Drip Bondage Candles (3 Pack) do not only create a romantic ambiance with your partner but also create an exciting pleasure-and-pain experience.
The Doc Johnson Japanese Hot Wax Drip Bondage Candles (3 Pack) are enticing sadist toys that burn hotter than a massage candle but cooler than a household candle for safe exploration. Drip this hot was over your lover to build suspense and awaken nerve endings with pleasurable pain.
It’s a sadistic toy that will leave a non-visible mark on the skin which fades within 12-24 hours when used correctly.
Since the Doc Johnson Japanese Hot Wax Drip Bondage Candles (3 Pack) are made of parafine, they are ideal for those starting with s&m toys who want to add a bit of painful excitement to their love sessions while keeping things safe at the same time.
Candles have always contributed to creating a romantic atmosphere but the Doc Johnson Japanese Hot Wax Drip Bondage Candles (3 Pack) are sadist toys that also entice and tease your partner and give a tota new meaning to a hot sex session.
Lit the Doc Johnson Japanese Hot Wax Drip Bondage Candles (3 Pack) and then slowly drip the wax on your partner’s body. These sadist toys burn hotter than a massage candle but cooler than a household candle and they are safe for exploring BDSM play.
Although the manufacturer says that it doesn’t leave any permanent, visible mark on the skin, this masochist toy can hurt you drip it to close to the body or if your partner has a low toleration to pain.
DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger 20 Inch
Made of high quality pure leather, the DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger 20 Inch is one of those sadist toys that, even if you are not into bondage and sadomasochist play, you’ll want to have on your bedside table.
The DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger 20 Inch is a great sadistic toy for sensory play and to add a whole range of new flavours and sensations to you sexual life with your partner. Playfully tease your naughty partner by caressing him or her on the skin with the long, soft leather fronds. After brushing his or her skin with this sadist toy, build up to satisfying stings with each and every thwack.
Let the lovely smell of leather of this s&m toy seduce you. The DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger 20 Inch makes and impressive slapping sound during play even if you don’t thwack that hard.
Great for BDSM and exciting sensory play, the DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger 20 Inch is one of those sadist toys that everybody can enjoy.
The DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger 20 Inch is a sadist toy made of high quality leather. The leather fronds are 20 inches long and it comes with a wrist strap for a firmer and more comfortable grab.
It’s one of those sadist toys that is great for couples that are just experimenting with s&m play or for couples that simply want to add some sensory play to the foreplay. But it’s also perfect for those more experienced in BDSM.
Use the DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger 20 Inch to tease your naughty partner. Use this sadist toy to caress their skin with the lengthy leather floggers, then build up to satisfying stings with each and every thwack. It not only feels delicious on bare skin but also has a fantastic smell of leather and makes an exciting sound after every whack!
Sportsheets The Motivator Leather Bondage Crop
The Sportsheets The Motivator Leather Bondage Crop is not for BDSM amateurs; it means serious business. Use this sadist toy to show your partner who’s the boss and leave no doubt about it.
The Sportsheets The Motivator Leather Bondage Crop is a sadistic toy made of leather and designed for intermediate spanking play. This masochist toy comes with a firm split-tipped riding crop and a 7-inch spanking surface for widespread sensation and audible impact. It also comes with a textured rubber handle to offer superb grip for confident swings.
Despite this sadistic toy being shorter than average, it is still long enough to be enjoyed by an individual in a steamy hot (and naughty) solo masturbation session.
The Sportsheets The Motivator Leather Bondage Crop is one of those sadist toys reserved for those with an intermediate to advanced experience in BDSM play.
The Sportsheets The Motivator Leather Bondage Crop is an interesting spanking tool to show your partner who’s the boss. This masochist toy comes with a firm split-tipped riding crop for intermediate spanking play, a 7-inch spanking surface for widespread sensation and audible impact and a textured rubber handle for a firmer grip.
Despite it’s shorter than other crops in the market, this sadistic toy is long enough to be used in individual play,
Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel
If you’ve read “50 Shades of Grey” or if you are into sensory play and want to take it to the next level, the Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel definitely has to be your next purchase.
Even though the Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel can seem quite an intimidating sadist toy, the truth is that it is a step up from feather ticklers.
This sadistic toy is made of metal and it can be used to boost your sensitivity. The Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel is made of nickel-free metal for hypoallergenic play. Roll this pinwheel on your or your partner’s skin and get ready to awaken prickly sensations.
It’s a s&m toy with the right weight to awaken interesting sensations without manual pressure.
The Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel can be used safely on every part of your body.
The Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel is one of the preferred sadist toys amongst those who like exploring different sensations during foreplay. Even though it can look a bit scarier because of its metal spikes, this pinwheel is nothing more than a step up from feather ticklers.
The Fifty Shades Darker Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel is a sadistic toy that can be used on any part of the body. Tease your partner with it and caress the thighs, belly, chest, nipples to arouse tinkling sensation on him or her and have them begging for more.
It comes with a dreadstring storage bag for comfortable storage and transportation.
Entice Tiered Intimate Rose Gold Nipple Clamps
If you love nipple play or if you want to surprise your partner with a visually pleasing sadist toy that will entice their senses, the Entice Tiered Intimate Rose Gold Nipple Clamps is a very interesting option.
The Entice Tiered Intimate Rose Gold Nipple Clamps are adjustable nipple clamps that provide enhanced sensory play.
If the idea of using a clamp around your nipples seems scary, rest assured that this sadist toy is perfectly safe to use. The screw-pin crocodile clips feature PVC cushioning and offer a custom pinch and they are nickel-free and non-tarnishing for logevity and safety.
The rose gold color of the clamps and chains is completely flattering against all skin complexions and both men and women can use this masochist toy.
The Entice Tiered Intimate Rose Gold Nipple Clamps are visually appealing sadistic toys. Use them on your nipples to enjoy a gentle throbbing as blood flows to your nerve-ending making your nipples erect and ultra-responsive. Remove them and experiment with fingers, vibrators or your lover’s tongue to take full advantage of their enhanced sensitivity.
The Entice Tiered Intimate Rose Gold Nipple Clamps is one of those sadist toys suitable for all levels of experience. Particularly attractive for men and women interested in nipple play, this sadist toy will enhance the sensitivity of your nipples keeping them aroused and erect until you take the clamps off and you continue with the sensual play either with a vibrator, fingers or your lover’s tongue.
The Entice Tiered Intimate Rose Gold Nipple Clamps is a comfortable sadist toy but some users have complained about the fact that the clamps don’t seem to stay in place for long and the pinch not being strong enough. Bear this in mind if you pretend to use these nipple clamps for extended periods of time or if you are used to this kind of sadist toys and need something a bit harder.
Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Whip
The Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Whip is a sadist toy that will greatly satisfy the expectations of men and women with intermediate to advanced experience in BDSM. Whether you are into s&m toys, cosplay, role play or fancy dress for foreplay, the Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Whip will let the master in you come out and claim your authority.
Fans of sadist toys will fall in love immediately with the Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Whip. Its faux snakeskin leather is perfect for intermediate to advanced play. It’s also easy to handle or for indoor use as it is slightly shorter than 3 feet long.
Afraid to handle this tempting red whip? Don’t! This masochist toy comes with a firm 5 inch handle and wrist strap that ensure a flawless grip for confident swings.
The Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Whip is a whip perfect for sadist toys lovers and for those who love adding cosplay and roleplay to their foreplay.
Not for amateurs or new to bondage, the Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Whip is made of faux red leather and has an optimal length both for indoor use. With every thwack of the whip, it inflicts plesant pain to your sub while making it clear who’s the boss in the relationship.
With its deep red color, it stands out from other sadist toys. Some users have mentioned that it took them quite a few time to master the use of the Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Whip and make sure that the end of the whip hit where they aimed.
ElectraStim Bi-Polar ElectraPaddle Leather Spanking Paddle
The ElectraStim Bi-Polar ElectraPaddle Leather Spanking Paddle takes spanking to the next level. Suitable for beginners and advanced sadist toys enthusiasts, it’s a great spanking paddle for electrostimulation play.
When spanking with the ElectraStim Bi-Polar ElectraPaddle Leather Spanking Paddle the sub will feel a cross between throbby vibrations, widespread tingles and pins and needles but without the numbness. It’s the perfect gift for those into sadist toys that will love to add electrostimulation to their experience.
While you can use it as a regular spanker, it is best used with the E-Stim power pack to directly awaken nerve endings with subtle (or not so subtle) electrical currents.
Independent of your experience with s&m play, the ElectraStim Bi-Polar ElectraPaddle Leather Spanking Paddle is the sadist toy for those interested in electrostimulation. The ElectraStim Bi-Polar ElectraPaddle Leather Spanking Paddle brings a new dimension to sadist play.
Even though it can be used as a regular paddle, if you use it with the E-Stim power pack it will directly awaken the nerve endings of your sub with subtle or not electrical currents. Tease your sub with this sadist toy and lead them to feel throbby vibrations, widespread tingles and pins and needles all at the same time!
You are advised to start on a very low setting and take things up from there. Remember that you should never use this type of sadist toys anywhere across the chest or the nipples.
Doc Johnson Silicone Flogger Whip with Dildo Handle
The Doc Johnson Silicone Flogger Whip with Dildo Handle is one of the most exciting and versatile sadistic toys available in the market. It’s great for teasing, punishing and enticing your sub in more than one way.
The Doc Johnson Silicone Flogger Whip with Dildo Handle is a silicone 4-frond flogger whip for vibrating spanking play. In fact, its 4x bulbed weighted tips deliver prominent impact for a pleasant and slightly painful experience.
In addition, its ergonomic silicone handle not only provides a comfortable and safe grip for the spanker but also doubles as a well-curved dildo to give penetrative pleasure to your sub. Curved in the right place, this sadist toy sensually massages the internal walls of your sub’s vagina for deep pleasure.
The Doc Johnson Silicone Flogger Whip with Dildo Handle is a sadist toy that is versatile and offersa plenty opportunities of play. Suitable for beginners and advanced s&m players, this sadistic toy may not be the best purchase for those totally new to whips or whipping.
The Doc Johnson Silicone Flogger Whip with Dildo Handle is a sadist toy whip made of silicone that inflicts mild pain to your sub. Independent of the amount of force that you apply to each thwack, the truth is that silicone is heavier than leather and the whip can feel harder on your sub’s skin and flesh.
What makes this masochist stand out from other whips in the market is that its silicone handle does not only provide a comfortable grip for the user but also doubles as a dildo. The Doc Johnson Silicone Flogger Whip with Dildo Handle has a curvy handle made of body-safe silicone with the curves in the right place for pleasant internal stimulation.
With a 5.5 insertable length, your sub may need a larger one to stimulate her G-spot but it will still tease her erotically and keep her begging for more.
Lovehoney Red Heart Riding Crop
If you’re new to bondage or have a new sub and you’d like to test the waters first or you simply want to add some naughtiness to your foreplay, the Lovehoney Red Heart Riding Crop should make it to your bedside table.
The Lovehoney Red Heart Riding Crop is a sadist toy that consists of a slender bondage crop with a red heart-shaped tip for next-level spanking play. The tip is extra wide to spread sensation without having to go to hard at it.
The Lovehoney Red Heart Riding Crop has a flexible stem to sensually tease your sub and enhance the feelings of dominance in the beholder. In addition, the dual-sided bold red tip opens the door to new sensations.
Tease your sub with the silky side of the red heart tip for lovely soothing strokes or slap your partner with the leather side for ear-bending sensations.
Are you interested in spicing up your solo play? The Lovehoney Red Heart Riding Crop has a flexible stem that is long enough for comfortable solo use.
This sadist toy is ideal for couples who want to experience the excitement of BDSM with minimal pain.
The Lovehoney Red Heart Riding Crop is one of those sadist toys that can be enjoyed almost by everybody. It should make it to your bedside table if you’re new to BDSM, if you want to add some naughtiness to your foreplay or if you want to add another spanker to your collection of sadistic toys.
The Lovehoney Red Heart Riding Crop is has a flexible stem that is long enough even for solo masochist stimulation. This s&m toy may be light but you shouldn’t let the weight deceit you. Its heart -shaped tip has a silky and a leather side.
While the silky side can tease and sensually caress your sub, you can slap him or her with the other side for tingling sensations.
Bear in mind that it is not a sadist toy for hard slapping. You may need something slightly heavier or larger for a more painful experience.
Want Something A Bit More Extreme?
If you are a bondage fan and have been experiencing BDSM for quite a long time now, you may feel it’s time to go for more extreme sensations.
With an interesting array of sadist toys to choose from, we have profesionally reviewed three that we considerer are perfect for adrenaline seekers. Are you ready?
Restraints For Your Sub
Restraints for subs are traditional sadist toys and almost a must-have for anybody interested in BDSM and an interesting sex toy for couples looking to explore their kinkier and more playful side and discover a totally new range of sensations after having one of the partners with restrained movement.
We have professionally reviewed some that you’ll probably like to consider.
What Does S&M Stand For?
S&M is an acronym that stands for sadism and masochism. S&M, also known as sadomasochism or sadomaso, describes an interaction, especially related to sexual activity, in which one person enjoys inflicting physical or mental suffering on another person, who in turn derives pleasure from experiencing pain.
In S&M, there’s gratification, especially sexual, gained through inflicting and receiving pain. Restraining, bondage, whipping, slapping, using sex candles or electrostimulation are some ordinary practices of couples that are into sadomasochism.
Couples that are into S&M often introduce sadist toys such as whips, restrainers, nipple and clitoris clips, spankers or sex candles to inflict pain onto their partner as they both find the act of inflicting and receiving pain gratifying.
How To Be Safe With Sadistic Play
Sadistic play can be erotic, playful, kinky and naughty but it ALWAYS has to be safe. Whether you are the sub or the dominator, there are certain rules and tips you should follow to enjoy safe sadistic play.
It doesn’t matter how experienced or not you are with BDSM, we have compiled a set of tips that will help you enjoy a safe S&M relation.
Learn About Healthy BDSM
Take your time to read and learn about what successful, healthy sadistic play looks like. Accept that some of the things you learn may appeal to you but not to your partner and be ready to negotiate and reach an agreeable routine.
Communicate with your partner
Before you explore sadistic play, sit down with your partner and discuss what each of you needs, wants, expects, prefers and dislikes.
Having a clear and straight-forward communication is essential to enjoying a safe sadistic play. Remember that miscommunication may make the other partner feel unheard or unsafe.
Sadist play is a fantasy and it has to be respectful of the boundaries of the other partner. Since it can affect the emotional well-being of someone, it’s important that you’re always prepared and responsible.
Start Slow with Safe Sadist Play
Experimenting with sadist play safely doesn’t mean that you have to start with whips, being tied up or commanding your partner to wear a harness and walk on a leash.
If you are new to bondage or are trying s&m with a new partner, take things slowly.
Maybe, you can start with a feather on your body, playing with an ice cube or with a blindfold and build it up from there.
Play it Safe
Communication with your partner doesn’t end when you’re negotiation what you like and don’t like in your sadist play session. It is even more important during your safe sadist play to keep it within safe boundaries.
If you’re the dominant, stay connected to your sub at all times.
If at any part of your sadist play they gasp, have cold feet or hands, have trouble breathing or are visibly uncomfortable, stop immediately.
Using a safe word is also a good idea. Choose one that you wouldn’t normally use during sex play such as a colour. Whenever your sub uses that word, stop immediately. Many couples use RED to stop, YELLOW to proceed with caution and GREEN to go.
How to Use Sadist Toys
Sadist toys can be used in multiple ways. Let’s look into some of the options they offer.
Sadist toys are great for couples play. They can open up a whole new world of sexual experiences and help you discover new boundaries.
Sadist toys can help couples be more creative sexually and explore their fantasies.
BDSM & Bondage Play
One of the main reasons why you may consider buying sadist toys is for BDSM and bondage play.
These sadistic toys make it easy for couples to explore their kinkiest fantasies.
Many sadist toys, especially clit clamps, whips, nipple clamps and slappers are great for external stimulation.
From caresses, to tickles, to thwacks and spanks, there’s a whole world of ways in which you can use sadist toys.
How to Clean Sadist Toys
Sadist toys, are any other kind of sex toy needs to be cleaned thoroughly after every use. It's important to do it in the correct way and follow the instructions provided by the manufacturer. Remember that sadist toys that require or use electricity cannot be cleaned with water, only with a slightly moistured cloth. 1- Read the manufacturer's instructions on how to best clean and take care of your sadistic toys. Follow them. 2- Use a sex toy cleaner product. 3- Leave the masochist toys to dry completely.
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.