The Best Sexy Gifts for Him Plus 5 Sexy Gifts for Her and Couples Too!

By Edie / November 04, 2021

The best sexy gifts for him or the perfect sexy gifts for her usually can’t be found in your local big-box or department store.

No, the best sexy gifts and sensual presents are found on online adult shops as well as brick and mortar sex toy and lingerie stores. But rather than wandering around aimlessly online, looking for the perfect sexy gift for her or him, we’ve laid them out, right here, for you to find.

That way, if you’re shopping for a sensual and sexy Christmas gift or a sexy anniversary gift for your partner, look no further!

Why Buy Sexy Gifts for Him?

Why buy sexy gifts for him?

With all of the tools, cologne and tech gadgets available, why should you buy sexy gifts for him? There are many reasons, the first being that a sexy gift will benefit you in the long run! For instance, say you get him a masturbating sleeve; he will use the sleeve which will help him build stamina and last longer when you’re burning up the sheets.

Plus, if you happen to have a headache, he has a way to take care of his needs while you get some much-needed rest.

In addition, any sex toy gift you buy for him, you can use together! Just because it’s a solo toy, doesn’t mean you can’t use that toy on him. Besides, have you ever played the “watch but don’t touch” masturbation game? Masturbating for your partner can be extremely arousing as well as teaching you a few things about what gets them off!

So, step out of the automotive isle and check out these 5 sexy gifts for him!

#1 Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage

Sexy gifts for him, sexy gifts for her and couples too. Quickshot Vantage

The Quickshot Vantage by Fleshlight is one of the best, small, sexy gifts for him that can add a big spark to your sexual relationship. This particular masturbating toy is discreet and easy to tuck away in a nightstand. Additionally, it’s perfect for the guy on the go to keep him satisfied on the road or on business trips.

Plus, not only can he use it to enjoy some solo time, you can use it together! First, use the Quickshot Vantage to give him the best hand job of his life.  You can pop also the sleeve out of the plastic ring and use it to make oral sex feel like you are the deep-throat queen (or king) or slip it on him and climb on top for some truly, bouncy, cowgirl (or cowboy) action.

Fleshlight has all sorts of sexy gifts for him that don’t look like your run-of-the-mill fleshy vagina! They have an entire line of ice Fleshlight to choose from. But if you’d like to learn more about the Quickshot Vantage, read my full review or check out my video.

#2 Pulse Duo Lux by Hot Octopuss

Sexy gifts for him, sexy gifts for her Pulse Duo Lux

If your favorite guy loves tech gadgets, the Pulse Duo Lux by Hot Octopuss is one of the hottest sexy gifts for him and it’s guaranteed to blow his mind, as well as other body parts! This penis vibrator is the first, hands-free “guybrator” that he can wrap around his package, lean back and enjoy. He can operate it via the side buttons or by using the remote-control watch.

What sets the Pulse Duo Lux aside from all other sexy gifts for him is that it has a strategically placed pulse plate that sends incredible vibrations into his penis right where the shaft meets the glans. Plus, it has an external vibrator, as well as a second remote-control watch, so he can lay back, flip his penis up and you can grind till you explode along with him!

See how the turbo setting can send you both into the stratosphere by reading my review.

#3 B-Vibe Rimming 2 Plug

Sexy gifts for him, sexy gifts for her, B-Vibe Rimming 2 Plug

Our number three suggestion on our top sexy gifts for him is the B-Vibe Rimming 2 Plug. This incredible, remote-controlled butt plug gives him all the feeling of a sensual rim job without having to do it yourself. Made from the highest-quality silicone, this butt plug is body-safe, comfortable and features spinning steel beads that give his backdoor a thrill like no other.

Plus, you can grab the remote-control and take full control of his excitement! Learn more about the B-Vibe Rimming 2 Plug here and see why this is one of the hottest sexy gifts for him you can give. And if you want to see the toy in action, you can watch my full video review on YouTube.

#4 Sexy Advent Calendar for Him

Sexy gifts for him, sexy gifts for her, Lovehoney Advent Calendar for him

Ah, the holidays; a time for gathering with friends and family and exchanging gifts. And no sexy gifts are more spectacular than Lovehoney’s collection of Advent calendars for adults!

Not sure which of the sexy gifts for him he will love most? Look no further than the Lovehoney Advent Calendar for Him. With 12, top-notch sex toys, this gift set will surely pleasure him while relighting that bedroom fire between the two of you. This gift set includes two types of masturbation cups, cock rings, a prostate stimulator, butt plugs, a bullet vibrator and more! Take a look at our guide for sex toys kits if you’re interested in package deals like this one.

On the first day of Christmas, my true love gave to me; all sorts of amazing orgasms!

#5 Universal Launch Fleshlight Bundle

Sexy gifts for him Fleshlight Universal Launch Bundle

Shopping for sexy gifts for him doesn’t mean you are shopping for your husband or boyfriend. On the contrary, these gifts would also be perfect for your BFF, brother or penis-owing buddy. The Universal Launch Fleshlight Bundle is the cream of the crop when it comes to sexy gifts for guys as Fleshlights are the best-selling male sex toys in the world!

This incredible sexy gift bundle includes the famous Fleshlight, a bottle of Flesh Lube and the Universal Launch. What in the world is a Universal Launch? It’s just the most insane sex toy that allows a Fleshlight user to snap his toy in place, press a few programming buttons and hold on while the Universal Launch does all of the stroking for them!

In addition to a ready-to-use, high tech sex toy, your gift recipient will also be part of the Fleshlight VIP program and have access to Flesh-cams and exclusive member perks!

The Best Sexy Gifts for Her

Sexy gifts for her beautiful curvy woman

Although it’s always best to make sure she’s okay with surprise sex toys, buying sexy gifts for her is something that will make her happy and will benefit you as well! After all, studies have shown that the more a woman experiences orgasm, the more sex she desires. Therefore, check out the following 5 sexy gifts for her and see just how exciting you can make Christmas, her birthday or your anniversary!

Plus, most of these sexy gifts can be used together!

#1 An Out-Of-This-World Mini Vibrator

Sexy gifts for him, sexy gifts for her Tri-it Changed Vibrator

Mini vibrators are the quintessential bedside must-have for all people, but especially as one of the best sexy gifts for her. These small but powerful little sex toys are great for her me-time as well as the perfect little tool that can be used by the two of you!

Mini vibrators can be used to stimulate all of her girly-parts but can also be used for massages, perineum stimulation and pressed between two bodies during intercourse!

  • The We-Vibe Touch is a luxury mini vibrator that’s exquisitely silky, incredibly powerful and super-quiet. Plus, it’s unique shape and size make it the right vibrator to slip between you while you’re enjoy the horizontal bop! Read my written review or go check out my video review and see just how fantastic this little beauty is.
  • The Tri-It Charged vibrator is a uniquely sculpted mini vibe with low, rumbly sensations that will have her begging for more! The trio of clitoral stimulating nubs wrap her clitoris in thrilling, rumbling vibrations and this thing goes forever (it seems) on a single charge. It’s made from smooth silicone and can be used solo or held in place during penetrative sex.

#2 The Baci

Sexy gifts for her The Baci

Clitoral stimulators with air-pulse technology are all the rage and my number 2 suggestion on our list of the best sexy gifts for her. The Baci, created by Lora DiCarlo, is a luxury sex toy for vulva-owners who only want the best. You can find our round-up reviews of other luxury brands like LELO, We-Vibe, Womanizer, and even about luxury sex machines or luxury bondage toys. Lora DiCarlo sex toys are made with the finest, medical-grade silicone and have won countless awards for their robotics. Plus, they are patented, so you won’t find a sex toy like this anywhere else.

The Baci is sculpted to engulf her clitoris and the surrounding, nerve-rich tissue in phenomenal puffs of air and rumbly thrumming. Plus, the raised face of this small wonder sends those vibrations throughout the labia for an orgasm that will make her want to return the favor. This is my absolute favorite sex toy of all time and I’m sure she will love it. You can read all about the Baci in my written review or by watching my YouTube video.

However, if you need more budget-friendly options for sexy gifts for her, the Rose Queen vibrator will give her all of the oral sex sensations of the high-end suckers plus a vibrating wand that you both can share! Plus, this sex toy is extremely affordable. I enjoyed reviewing the Rose Queen and even made a video review, for those who don’t enjoy reading reviews.

#3 Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator by 50 Shades of Grey

Sexy gifts for her Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

Rabbit vibrators make wonderfully sexy gifts for her. The Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator inspired by the 50 Shades of Grey franchise is a sex toy that not only looks sexy but will give her the blended orgasms she’s only dreamed of. Best yet, you can use this incredible vibrator on her and have complete and total control of her without even breaking a sweat!

This vibrator combines a sensually curved, insertable, g-spot vibrator with a mind-boggling number of settings, along with clitoris stimulating bunny ears that hug her clit with wow. The easy-to-use buttons make solo time a breeze whether she’s putting on a show for you or enjoying a warm bubble bath or shower.

Yes, it’s waterproof!

You can read my review of the Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator on the review section of our site or hop on over to YouTube and watch the video review.

#4 12 Days of Play Advent Calendar for Her

Sexy gifts for her 12 Days of Play Advent Calendar by Lovehoney

One of the best sexy gifts for her packs 12 sexy gifts into a single, beautiful package. The 12 Days of Play Advent Calendar for Her by Lovehoney saves you $110, if you were to buy these gifts individually. This gorgeous gift set includes a sensual card game, blindfold, butt toys, a clitoral sucker, nipple clamps and much more. This is definitely the perfect gift as it gives her plenty of exciting sex toys to try alone and with you!

What a way to destress and have some fun during the holidays!

#5 Sexy Lingerie Advent Calendar

Sexy gifts for her Sexy Lingerie Advent Calendar by Lovehoney

So, what if that lady in your life just isn’t the sex toy type, yet would still love to receive sexy gifts? Lovehoney also has a Sexy Lingerie Advent Calendar for Her that spoils her with 7, beautiful lingerie pieces that will light your fire while making her feel glamorous and desirable.

These Advent calendars are available in 2 sizes – up to 12 and curvy sizes from 14-20 – and include gorgeous, exclusive pieces of lingerie created with comfortable, floral lace specifically for Lovehoney shoppers. This is one of those sexy gifts for her that will turn you on for 7 consecutive nights.

Sexy Gifts for Couples to Keep that Fire Burning

Sexy gifts for him, sexy gifts for her and couples too

If you’re in search of the perfect sexy gifts for couples, whether for yourself or a couple you know, here are some sensuous ideas for gifts that keep on giving while keeping that relationship sizzling hot for years to come!

#1 Adult Advent Calendar

Sexy gifts for him, sexy gifts for her and couples too Adult Advent Calendar

While Lovehoney offers sexy gifts for him and her in the way of Advent calendars, they have gone above and beyond with their exclusive, Adult Advent Calendar. This collection of desirable goodies is beautifully boxed and includes sexy gifts for couples for a full 24 nights! This gift set includes items like sexy games, massage products, tasty, edible creams, a blindfold and other exciting toys as well as a Womanizer Classic worth a whopping $129.99!

Talking about more bang for your buck! This sexy gift should be at the top of every couple’s wish list this holiday season! Or, you could buy it now and put it away for an upcoming anniversary.

#2 Fulfill Fantasies

Sexy gifts for him, sexy gifts for her and couples too Vibrating Panties

We all have sexual fantasies we cannot wait to fulfill with our significant others. But what types of sexy gifts for couples would fit that description? So many! Here are the perfect sexy gifts to help you fulfill those public sex fantasies.

The most discreet way to enjoy some public sexual thrills is by using vibrating panties. But not just any vibrating panties, panties with a secret remote-control you can keep in your pocket! From the one-size-fits-all, soft, stretchy, tie-side panties to the silky, flat, ergonomic panty vibrator, these gift-worthy vibrating panties from The Screaming O are absolute perfection.

And even the box speaks to class, beauty and sophistication!

But hold on! What about him? Why does he get to have all the fun controlling her vibrator?

No worries! The Screaming O also has a vibrating cock ring with a secret remote-control ring, so she can control his public pleasure too! The cock ring is soft, silicone and isn’t made to fit tight like most erection rings. Therefore, it’s perfect for wearing underneath clothing. And with a tiny but powerful bullet with several settings of low, rumbly vibrations, he won’t be able to sit still.

With this set of secret vibrators, dinner out will never be the same again! So if you’re seeking two of the best, sexy gifts for couples, The Screaming O has got this fantasy covered.

#3 Near or Far, Try Virtual Sex!

Sexy gifts for him, sexy gifts for her and couples too Lovense Lush 2

The internet has made it possible to have a relationship with someone across the world. We can keep in touch through email, text and even video chat! But we miss the human touch. Well, you can reach out and touch your lover, whether they live across town or on the other side of the planet with one of the best sexy gifts for couples.

The Lovense Lush 2 is a dual vibrator, worn by her, that features Bluetooth connectivity and can be run via app. Made from lush silicone, the Lush 2 by Lovense provides internal stimulation along with a light clitoral sensation from the attached tail. You decide the vibration level via the app or, listen to your favorite songs and the Lush 2 will vibrate to the beat!

According to Isabelle, it’s an amazing toy, as long as you don’t play the song “Macarena”.

Next, grab the Lovense Max 2 male masturbator, sync it with the Lush 2, using the app, and not only can you stimulate one another, long distance, the two, high-tech sex toys, react to one another! The perfect sexy gifts for long-distance lovers!

#4 Kama Sutra Getaway Kit

Sexy gifts for him, sexy gifts for her and couples too Kama Sutra Weekend Getaway Kit

Not everyone loves sex toys, and that’s okay! Some just love sexy gifts for couples that are a little more on the tame side. The Kama Sutra Getaway Kit is perfect for those who love a little romance and fun, without the vibrating toys. Plus, this kit is so incredibly popular, it’s been around since I started selling adult products 30 years ago!

The kit comes in a beautiful, zipper pouch and includes everything you need for a night of sensual massage, touch and relaxation. The Treasure of the Sea bath salts are pure Heaven and will have her feeling relaxed, restored, sexy and ready for some “we time.” Or, light the included candle and join your partner for a luxurious, scented soak.

Use the warming, delectable massage oil, delicious, edible, shimmering honey dust (spread on the body with a feather applicator) and savor the touch of your lover’s hands and lips. No special occasion required!

#5 Jealousy-Free Threesome

Sexy gifts for him, sexy gifts for her and couples too Sex Doll

Give your lover the gift they’ve been craving: a threesome! No, you need not swipe left and right to find your third person, you can order your perfect playmate anytime. Whether you are looking for a male sex doll or female sex doll, a curvy body or petite, ordering a custom sex doll is extremely easy and will allow you both to explore your most thrilling fantasies…. With zero jealousy.

This probably isn’t one of the best sexy gifts you give as a surprise, but if you’ve talked about having a third party join you in the bedroom, why not discuss the gift of a sex doll? Sure, they can be pricy, but the dolls last a lifetime, don’t ask for dinner first and never say no to a night of thrilling sexcapades!

Sexy Gift-Giving is Fun

When it comes to gift-giving, it’s the thought that counts. So, think outside the box and into the toy box when searching for sexy gifts for him. And when you’re out of ideas when shopping for your girlfriend or wife, consider sexy gifts for her too! Not only will your selection surprise and delight him/her/them, you are likely to be thanked in ways you can only dream of.