The 7 Best Spanking Benches for BDSM Connoisseurs
Our Review and Rating Procedure
Nothing beats hands-on testing, so we always try to personally test products when possible (if we’ve had the opportunity to do so then you can read about it by clicking on the “Read full review” link!). However, hands-on testing isn’t the only method we use to gather information about a product. We also use manufacturer websites and real-user reviews. Using multiple sources helps prevent bias, ranging from inflated manufacturer’s claims to one-off poor user experiences. In every review, we highlight both the positives and negatives of each product, allowing you to gather all the relevant information on a single page! Every product receives a “Bedbible Rating” and a “User Ratings” score, allowing you to compare our impression to the general customer impression. We hope this will be helpful as you search for a new spanking bench!
Do You Really Need a Spanking Bench?
Just like a sex couch or a sex table, a spanking bench is one of those items you don’t necessarily “need” but one that you’ll be happy you have! These benches can add another level of immersion to your role play, really emphasizing the sub/dom roles. They’re not single-purpose either: they can be used for both BDSM and intercourse! Since they often integrate restraints into their designs, they can make the restraining process a lot easier. Depending on the position they hold your sub in, they can also help enhance your positioning, making deeper penetration a simple task.
How to Choose Your Ideal Spanking Bench
Whether this is your first spanking bench or the latest addition to your dungeon, there are a few different factors you’ll want to consider when trying to find the ideal spanking bench for you & your partner. Refer to the list below while looking at your sex furniture options!
- Sizing – There are two important sizes to consider here: the size of the actual bench and the size of the person who will be on it. You should also take weight limits into account (there are high-capacity models available for those who require them). Sizing will affect how comfortable the person on the bench is, but also affects how easily you can “access” them. When in doubt, don’t be afraid to measure!
- Material – You can find spanking benches made from a variety of materials including microfiber, leather, vinyl, and faux fur (with the frames often being made from aluminum or steel). The material used will affect the comfort of the spanking bench during use (as well as its visual appeal) so you should compare your options.
- Restraint Points – The number of restraint points you require will depend on exactly what you’re doing, but in general, more is better! Some spanking benches will come with restraints; others will only have hooks (requiring your own straps/restraints). You should consider all potential use options when deciding how many restraint points you’ll need.
- Storage & Disassembly – Spanking benches are generally fairly large, making storage a potential issue. They also tend to be heavy, making moving them an obstacle. However, some models are designed to be quickly disassembled, which will help alleviate these issues. You should ensure you have the space (or storage space) for your new spanking bench before committing to the purchase.
- Price – Spanking benches can be very costly items, especially if you’re looking at a premium bench! It’s important to remember that a higher cost doesn’t always mean a superior product, but you should still aim to find a high-quality item that will last for years to come. Longevity is important! If a specific product you love is out of your price range, we recommend checking to see if financing options are available!
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The 7 Best spanking benches in Test
Obedience Extreme Sex Bench
If you’re on the hunt for a bondage spanking bench that also doubles as amazing sex furniture, look no further than the Obedience Extreme Sex Bench! This high-quality bench supports up to 400 lbs., can be adjusted to perfectly fit your partner, is padded for long-term comfort, and even allows you to move the head support section for some extra fun! All of these features come at a competitive price, striking the perfect balance between performance and pricing. If you’re ready to expand your love life beyond the bed but don’t feel ready (or inclined) to make a full-scale dungeon, take a sex-positive step in the right direction by purchasing this multi-purpose spanking bench!
At a little over $800 out the door, it’s not particularly accurate to call this piece “affordable sex furniture”. Still, we think you get a lot of bang for your buck, which is why we definitely recommend this spanking bench! Its high weight limit of 400 lbs. means it can support nearly any size of sexual partner, which is an issue you might run into with lower-quality furniture. The design (which fully supports your partner’s face, forearms, mid-section, and lower legs) of this bench allows you to perfectly adjust your partner’s position to your liking, opening up a world of options in terms of sexual intercourse as well as BDSM encounters. The bench also includes a wide variety of straps, which will prevent your partner from moving (and keep them safe during “fun time”!).
Have you ever wanted to bang in a bean chair? If so, we’ve got the product for you! The Zeppelin Cocoon is a bean bag chair designed specifically to aid you in any type of sexual encounter, meaning you can use it for regular sex as well as for kinky BDSM encounters! Lay your partner down and paddle their bum to your heart’s content as they lay there basking in pleasure and pain (you can do this literally anywhere with enough floor space!). Best of all, this is a prop you can leave in your regular living space since it looks just like a regular bean bag. Choose from three colors & start figuring out what you want to use it for first while you eagerly await the mailman’s arrival!
Unlike the rest of the items on this list, the Zeppelin Cocoon actually isn’t a bench at all, but that doesn’t mean you can’t use it for some spanking fun! Both a blessing and a curse, the bean bag design allows your partner to assume any position that’s convenient, and the bean bag can even be draped over other furniture if you want to flog them against a specific object (such as the kitchen counter!). Obviously, ingenuity and creativity aren’t for everyone: some people just want something that they can set up and start using right away! If that sounds like then the Zeppelin Cocoon probably isn’t for you. However, if you don’t mind trading restraints and straps for easy storage & the ability to use your new furniture anywhere then the Zeppelin Cocoon might have a positive influence on your sex life!
Padded Spanking Bench
This BDSM bench doesn’t mess around: your partner isn’t getting out of their punishment this time around! Fitted with knee rests for your sub or slave, simply use one of the many attachment points to restrict their movements or even immobilize them entirely. Polished steel and washable vinyl combine to make a heavy-duty product that won’t give (no matter how much your partner tries to escape!) and can easily be cleaned after use. Made to order, you will have to wait a bit before receiving your BDSM bench but the wait will surely be worth it: now all that’s left to decide is whether to strap your partner to the top or to bend them over the side & let them have it!