The 6 Best Spider Gags – The Ultimate Submissive Tool
Don’t be put off by the name, because spider gags are here to stay! For naughty subs or those who enjoy having their mouth pried open and helpless, a spider gag is a sexy, and incredibly efficient way of watching the wearer drool uncontrollably and submit to you; whether metal, plastic, or silicone spider gags are a great tool for humiliation, pleasure, and submission. In this review, we’ll look at the 6 best spider gags on the market today, and you’ll also find out which one made it into our Testwinner category!
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The process of testing the best spider gags took our team 23.5 hours of testing, researching, writing, and reviewing; just some of the features that we consider when conducting a test are, design, price, quality, durability, ease of use, pros and cons, and the shop itself.
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How to choose the best spider gag for you
- Size (gag and strap)- for beginners, a gag with a smaller O-ring and adjustable straps is a good idea, as this will help you to decide what feels most comfortable- if you do not want an adjustable strap, you’ll need to measure around your head and check the specifications of the gag you want before purchasing
- Material- for aesthetic, leather or vegan leather can look incredibly sexy; for comfort and flexibility, silicone is a great option and is super easy to clean; breathable gags tend to create more drool, and need to be thoroughly cleaned
- Strap or head harness- some spider gags come with a full-on head harness which can look very sexy, and aesthetically pleasing; some people prefer simple straps for ease of use and quick release
- Lockable or not- some gags have an option to be locked with a small padlock; a lockable gag should only be used by experienced players; unlike ball gags, spider gags do leave room to breathe out the mouth, however you should never leave someone who is wearing a spider gag alone or without a safe-word/action
- Price- pricier gags tend to be made from leather/vegan leather due to the look and durability of the gag; cheaper doesn’t nessecarily mean bad quality, and you should pick the gag that works best for you
Read on to see the top 6 spider gags in test, and to see which one landed a spot in our Testwinner category!
Reviews of the 6 best spider gags
Test Winner The Spider Gag
Overall Rating
4.5/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5.0
User Ratings:
0/5.0
Based on 0 user reviews
Rating: The Spider Gag was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spider gag.
Rating: The Spider Gag was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: The Spider Gag was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: The Spider Gag was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find The Spider Gag ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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The Spider Gag is a metal open mouth gag with an O shaped ring at the centre. The spider legs name comes from the spider legs on each side of the ring, which work to further retrain and keep the ring secure inside your mouth. Black leather straps come with a locking buckle to keep the gag firmly in place over the face.
Make your submissive drool with this gag which is also available without leather bucking straps. This allows you to choose other ways to attach the gag. Every item is made in-house by their skilled Los Angeles team, ensuring you enjoy a quality product.
Pros
- ✅ Stays firmly in place
- ✅ Made to measure
- ✅ Can be used with other straps
- ✅ High quality leather
Cons
- ❌ Can take time to arrive at your door
- ❌ Not very versatile
- ❌ Not for beginners
- ❌ Large size
My verdict
This spider gag is ideal if you want to make your submissive drool. The innovative metal O and high quality leather straps ensure that it never slips down. The shape doesn’t make it ideal for beginners but it will certainly transform your submissive play.
You should buy the The Spider Gag if you...
- Want made to measure piece
- Want a submissive training tool
You should not buy the The Spider Gag if you...
- want a penis or dildo to be inserted
- are a beginner
Cheapest Fetish Fantasy Spider Gag
Overall Rating
2.0/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
2/5.0
Reviewed by:
Amelia HarveyUser Ratings:
0/5.0
Based on 0 user reviews
Rating: Fetish Fantasy Spider Gag was rated 20 out of 100, which means it is terribly designed.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spider gag.
Rating: Fetish Fantasy Spider Gag was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is somewhat intuitive and easy to use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fetish Fantasy Spider Gag was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Fetish Fantasy Spider Gag was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other spider gags.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Fetish Fantasy Spider Gag for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
This sleek silver spider gag has a circular metal center which makes the perfect target. The 4 spiders legs help keep your mouth and jaw comfortable open for extended play. The leather strap is attached to the metal frame and can adjust to fit most sizes. Allow your submissive to enjoy a tight and secure fit without compromising on comfort.
Pros
- ✅ Discreet shipping
- ✅ Flexible strap
- ✅ One year guarantee
- ✅ Can't bite on it
Cons
- ❌ Very small ring size
- ❌ Metal could be stronger
- ❌ Awkwardly shaped spider legs
- ❌ Sizes not as advertised
My verdict
The strap can adjust to fit approximately 15″- 24″ around the face which allows for decent flexibility. The inner diameter of the metal ring is 1.25″, and the outer diameter of 1.75″, which is generally too small to insert a penis. Although the quality is good and the fit comfortable, many found it near impossible to use for oral sex.
You should buy the Fetish Fantasy Spider Gag if you...
- Are a Beginner
- Want a comfortable, flexible strap
You should not buy the Fetish Fantasy Spider Gag if you...
- Want to insert your penis
- Want something girthy
Harness Open Mouth O Ring - Spider Gag
Overall Rating
4.2/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4/5.0
Reviewed by:
Amelia HarveyUser Ratings:
4.3/5.0
Based on 11 user reviews
Rating: Open Mouth O Ring - Spider Gag was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spider gag.
Rating: Open Mouth O Ring - Spider Gag was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Open Mouth O Ring - Spider Gag was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Open Mouth O Ring - Spider Gag was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other spider gags.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Open Mouth O Ring - Spider Gag ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This effective spider gag promotes drooling, pleasuring your submissive. The hook and ring are both adjustable with a long buckle from the top of the forehead to the back of the head. This attaches to a leather loop with a side strap buckle through that. The hook and ring can be tightened to ensure the spider gag stays comfortably yet securely attached to the face.
Pros
- ✅ Value for money
- ✅ Supple straps
- ✅ Easy to put on
- ✅ Pad-lockable bundles
Cons
- ❌ Uncomfortable
- ❌ Poor quality materials
- ❌ Coated metal
- ❌ No separate adjustment buckle for the nose hook
My verdict
This spider gag is incredibly affordable and fantastic for beginners investigating their desires. The effective ring gag is easy to put on and is mostly secure, even if the nose and chin area wasn’t as secure as many customers would like.
You should buy the Open Mouth O Ring - Spider Gag if you...
- Want an affordable spider gag
- Want something easy to use
You should not buy the Open Mouth O Ring - Spider Gag if you...
- Are experienced with ring gag
- Want a harness with tension
DOMINIX Deluxe Silicone O-Ring Gag
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Amelia HarveyUser Ratings:
4.5/5.0
Based on 40 user reviews
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Silicone O-Ring Gag was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spider gag.
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Silicone O-Ring Gag was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Silicone O-Ring Gag was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Silicone O-Ring Gag was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend DOMINIX Deluxe Silicone O-Ring Gag for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This small-sized O-ring gag is ideal for beginner open-mouth bondage play. The medical-grade silicone ensures that it feels velvet to the touch and the O-shaped ring is rigid yet teeth-friendly. Adjust the silicone strap for a comfortable fit or add your own chains or leads! Although beginner-friendly, the buckle-fastened and lockable spider gag can enhance experienced bondage play.
Pros
- ✅ High quality materials
- ✅ Comfortable strap
- ✅ Easy to clean
- ✅ Soft and velvety to the touch
Cons
- ❌ Awkward size ring
- ❌ Not suitable for girth
- ❌ Strap big for small heads
- ❌ Too easy to flip the ring
My verdict
Enabling a comfortably tight fit, the high quality 100% silicone straps have a slightly stretchy finish for adjustability, while the metal connecting rings let even experienced bondage players take it to the next level. Ideal for fulfilling pony play fantasies and power play scenarios – you can easily attach a lead to this spider gag.
You should buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Silicone O-Ring Gag if you...
- Want a spider gag that can be easily removed
- Want to use with tapered dildos
- Are a beginner to spider gags
You should not buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Silicone O-Ring Gag if you...
- Want something very consructing
- Want to engage in oral sex
- Are experienced in gag play
Bondage Boutique XL Silicone O-Ring Gag
Overall Rating
3.0/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
3/5.0
Reviewed by:
Amelia HarveyUser Ratings:
3.0/5.0
Based on 14 user reviews
Rating: Bondage Boutique XL Silicone O-Ring Gag was rated 40 out of 100, which means it is designed ok.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spider gag.
Rating: Bondage Boutique XL Silicone O-Ring Gag was rated 40 out of 100, which means it is possible to figure out how it should be used.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Bondage Boutique XL Silicone O-Ring Gag was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: Bondage Boutique XL Silicone O-Ring Gag was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I advise Bondage Boutique XL Silicone O-Ring Gag for intermediate users, as it offers a good balance of complexity and learning potential.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This O-ring gag will let you enjoy oral pleasure as it is designed to stretch and open the lips of a submissive. Best suited to experienced gag wearers, the O-ring and leather straps allow for intense play. The rigid silicone-coated O-ring has 1.5 inches in outer diameter for an advanced stretch.
Pros
- ✅ Made using high quality materials
- ✅ Ring fits well behind the teeth
- ✅ No sharp edges
- ✅ Discrete packaging
Cons
- ❌ Very small
- ❌ Not for the XL advertised
- ❌ Only fits the tip
- ❌ Flattens on the tongue
My verdict
This O-ring gag is high quality and crafted using premium materials, which ensures comfort for the wearer. Many customers felt like they were misled by the XL description, with many girthy men only fitting in the tip!
You should buy the Bondage Boutique XL Silicone O-Ring Gag if you...
- Want a silicone spider gag
- Want something to keep the mouth open
You should not buy the Bondage Boutique XL Silicone O-Ring Gag if you...
- Are a beginner
- Want something for girthier equipment
Ouch! Silicone Ring Gag With Leather Straps
Overall Rating
4.0/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4/5.0
Reviewed by:
Amelia HarveyUser Ratings:
0/5.0
Based on 0 user reviews
Rating: Ouch! Silicone Ring Gag With Leather Straps was rated 50 out of 100, which means it is designed well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the spider gag.
Rating: Ouch! Silicone Ring Gag With Leather Straps was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Ouch! Silicone Ring Gag With Leather Straps was rated 30 out of 100, which means it is of mediocre quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Ouch! Silicone Ring Gag With Leather Straps was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Ouch! Silicone Ring Gag With Leather Straps for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
This velvety-smooth and totally adjustable ring gag has leather straps for restriction that never compromises on comfort. This gag allows you to stretch and open your sub’s lips for a range of play options. Because the silicone is medical and phthalate-free, it is rigid get gentle on the teeth.
Pros
- ✅ Velvety smooth
- ✅ Comfortable
- ✅ Easy to adjust
- ✅ Gentle on the teeth
Cons
- ❌ Low quality materials
- ❌ Not many online reviews
- ❌ Plain looking
My verdict
You should buy the Ouch! Silicone Ring Gag With Leather Straps if you...
- Are a beginner
- Want something fully adjustable
You should not buy the Ouch! Silicone Ring Gag With Leather Straps if you...
- Are experienced
- Want a luxe spider gag
Comparison of the 6 best spider gags
| Best | Test Winner | Cheapest | Harness | null | null | null |
| Overall score | - | - | 4.2 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 3.0 / 5.0 | - |
| Bedbible rating | 4.5 / 5.0 | 2.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 3.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | - | - | 4.3 / 5.0 from 11 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 40 users | 3 / 5.0 from 14 users | - |
| Price | Low | Low | Low | Medium | Medium | Low |
| Design | 70 / 100 | 20 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 50 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 80 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
| Quality | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 30 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Width | 4 inches | - | - | - | - | - |
| Height | 2.5 inches | - | - | - | - | - |
| Materials | Leather | - | Metal Coating, Leather | Silicone | Silicone | Silicone |
| Vibration modes | null | - | - | - | - | - |
| Diameter | - | 1.25-1.75 inches | - | - | - | 1.6 inches |
| Allergies | - | Phthalates Free | - | - | - | - |
| Length | - | 15-24 inches | - | 22.5 inches | 21.5 inches | 22.5 inches |
| Fastening | - | - | Buckle | Buckle | Buckle | - |
What's the point of a spider gag?
Spider gags will allow you to insert objects, body parts or toys into the mouth, whilst the gag is being worn. Spider gags are used in doctor/patient role play, dental play, bondage or humiliation play. The wearer is likely to drool, making it ideal for submissive.
Giving up your control and power can be mentally and sexually stimulating. Having someone trust you enough to give up control voluntarily can be sexually arousing as well as a big ego boost. Honestly, your sexual kinks and fetishes don’t need to be explained as long as everyone is aroused and there is consent.
What is the difference between gags?
Whether you’re a beginner to BDSM and are experimenting, or already have experience with a gag, there are lots of different types to play around with. Just like most things connected to sex, the gag you choose will depend on personal preference. What works for one, might not work for another.
Ball Gag
The ball gag is the classic style you will see in movies. Generally, this design features a strap that fastens behind the head. They feature a solid, strong ball made from latex or rubber which will keep your partner from making noises.
The ball can also be soft, so the wearer can bite down during play.
Hollow ball gags allow air to flow freely through them, allowing more access and not restricting breathing.
Bit Gag
Bit gags are similar to ball gags, except they have a bit mouthpiece instead of a ball.
Much less intrusive than ball gags, they will make your partner drool and give the impression of submission.
O Ring Gag
The O-ring style of gag keeps a small part of the wearer’s mouth open without the requirement for their whole mouth to stay open.
It prevents talking, but still allows you to moan, drool and even scream!
The ring part of the design also allows you to insert tools or body parts.
Spider Gag
The Spider Gag is a sibling to the O-ring gag, but just with a spike protruding from the mouthpiece.
Spider gags are generally more comfortable than a Jennings gag, but not quite as comfortable as a bit gag design.
How to use a spider gag
A ball gag may cause the wearer to drool uncontrollably and instead of speaking they will just moan and grunt. The wearer is usually considered the submissive partner and the other participants are the dominant participants. Here are some other tips on how to use a spider gag:
Set expectations
With any BDSM play, the most important thing is that there is mutual consent between the partners. Before you start using a spider gag, in fact, any type of gag, you should discuss what you are both comfortable. Set a limit on how long you want to use it and how tight is realistically comfortable for the time scale.
Use a safe signal
Safe signals and words are common in BDSM. Because a gag limits the wearer’s ability to speak, you need to choose a non-verbal safe signal that lets your partner know that the gag needs to be removed. Popular actions include aggressively shaking the head (if your hands are tied) or using an audible toy like squeezing a squeaky toy.
Never leave the wearer alone
If you are physically restraining your partner, you should never leave your partner wearing a spider gag alone. They should only be allowed to be alone wearing the gag if they can easily, and safely, remove it themselves.
Don’t use with a cold
If you have a cold, sinus infection or any other illness that makes it hard to breathe through your nose, avoid using a spider gag. This is because you cannot breathe through your mouth whilst wearing a ball gag and rely on your nose to breathe.
Use with other toys
A spider gag is a fantastic BDSM toy for beginners. Once you feel comfortable using a ball gag, you may want to explore other toys. Popular toys to use alongside spider gags include blindfolds, nipple clamps and handcuffs.
How to clean a spider gag
It’s important that you maintain a neat and clean spider gag, no matter how dirty you are in the bedroom. Because gags go in the mouth, it is vital you pay special attention to cleaning them. You don’t want to risk your mouth coming in contact with bacteria when you are enjoying your favorite fetish. Spider gags are not difficult to clean and when done right won’t take much time either. If you are properly cleaning and storing your spider gags, they will last for a longer period of time. We always recommend cleaning your spider gag immediately after use. The longer they sit around uncleaned, the harder it will be for them to be cleaned. This is because common residues will only get harder as the hours pass, which means more elbow grease is needed to remove them. Spider gags need to be sterilised every time before use. Use a steriliser or steam them. Steam them by using 2 different pans, one with water and the other with the spider gag in, ensuring the steam touches the mouth gag and not the boiled water. This will remove the bacteria from the surface of the mouth gag and eliminate any risks. How you clean your spider gag will depend on what materials they are made out of. Some materials need to be cleaned at a certain temperature, whilst others are much lower maintenance. No matter the materials, always read and respect the cleaning instructions.
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.
FAQ
What is a Spider Gag?
A spider gag is a type of mouth gag that is used to intensify sexual pleasure and play. The spider gag is a slight variation of the ring gag, as it has hooks to stop the ring from being flipped horizontally, and to pry the mouth open wider. A spider gag will leave your partner speechless and drooling, but you will still have access to their open mouth. Though spider gags are great for submission and humiliation, they should still fit comfortably in the wearer's mouth; as everyone has different sizes/shapes of mouth you should always check the specifications of a spider gag before purchasing. For beginners, you should start with a smaller, more flexible spider gag such as one with a ring made from silicone that is also adjustable. Spider gags can be made from many different kinds of material, however the most popular materials are leather, vegan leather, silicone, and plasitc; they will most likely have a metal, silicone, or plastic spider ring. As you are likely to drool excessively when wearing a spider gag, you should make sure your gag is made from easy to clean material.
Reviewed by:
Amelia Harvey