The 11 Best Transgender Sex toys for Sheer Queer Pleasure

Test Winner | C-Ring | Butt Plug | Grinding Pad | Strap-On Harness | Dildo | Sleeve | Masturbator | Prostate Vibrator | Chastity |
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Lelo Sila | We-Vibe Verge | b-Vibe Snug Plug 3 | VibePad | Spareparts Joque | Number One Laboratory B.J. Dildo | Hot Octopuss PULSE SOLO ESSENTIAL | FTM Pitstop Peenpocket | Lelo Hugo | Sakura Blossom Tiny Flower Chastity Cage |
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How Did We Test and Review These Transgender Sex Toys?
Finding sex toys that suitable for all kinds of trans bodies can be super difficult. It really is a jungle out there! Here at Bedbible, we aim to be your go-to source of help when it comes to your sexual pleasure. To write this review, I’ve scoured the internet for the very best products that could be suitable for different kinds of trans experiences, different desires, and different bodies. I’ve had our team of testers provide in-depth reviews of some of the products. I have then researched all available user reviews on the rest.
In the review, I’ve rated each individual product based on their design, quality, value, performance etc. I’ve also done my best to let you know who the individual products might be best suited for in terms of anatomy and sensation.

A Guide to Finding the Best Trans Sex Toys
This review is meant to provide anyone and everyone out there with some concrete guidance when it comes to buying trans sex toys. Buying sex toys is usually a very gendered experience as the designs and the language around different kinds of sex toys are usually very catered to cisgender people within a very binary understanding of gender.
This review exists because we want to provide you with an informational space to avoid any unnecessary triggers or dysphoria while scrolling through shop sites. Hopefully, you’ll be able to use this review of the top 11 best sex toys suitable for all kinds of trans bodies to find your next sex toy in the most comfortable way possible.
Everyone deserves to have a good relationship with their body and sexuality. Sex toys are a great way to improve and strengthen that relationship. Some sex toys can help you explore your pleasure in new ways and help you connect to your own sexuality. They’re great tools to use when you’re looking to rethink gender-confined sexual pleasure in ways that allow you to tune into your own gender-non-conforming sexuality.
Different Types of Trans Sex toys for Different Trans Folx
Of course, not all the same kind of sex toys will be suitable for all kinds of different trans bodies and different stages of transition. Your pleasure centers depend largely on your current anatomy.
Some people might be looking for toys that are suitable for clitoral stimulation after experiencing bottom growth. Vibrators with broad stimulation or clit suckers with wide suction nozzles may be more suitable here. In terms of using masturbators on an enlarged clitoris, smaller and slimmer silicone strokers made for this purpose may be suitable as a first-time masturbator.
Some post-op trans women may be looking for something to help them in a different transitional stage. Vibrating dilators, slim dildos or vaginal plugs may help maintain post-operative vaginal penetration.
The different sex toys available and suitable for different kinds of trans bodies will basically always come down to anatomy, personal preferences, likes and dislikes in terms of different sensations. Do you enjoy penetration or external stimulation only? Do you like realistic toys or something non-representational? The most important question to ask is: what does my body like and what is compatible with its dimensions right now?
FAQ
What is a Transgender Sex Toy?
Basically, anything can be a transgender sex toy. Trans bodies can look super different and have very different anatomies and pleasure centers. Good thing there are so many different types of sex toys can provide a lot of diverse stimulation in versatile ways. The sex toys in this review are selected based on how well they might cater to different physical and visual needs from all kinds of trans people. A transgender sex toy will often provide versatility, a suitable aesthetic (for your individual pleasure), functions to provide you with the proper kind of stimulation for you, and a design with dimensions that are compatible with your anatomy.
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The 11 Best transgender sex toys in Test
Lelo Sila Pleasure Air Clitoral Stimulator








You might think this is just another regular clit sucker, and I mean, yes, this is definitely a clit sucker – and a vibrating clit sucker at that! But the Lelo Sila is especially well-designed for people who have larger clitorises. The toy itself is disc-shaped and fits snugly in your hand during use. The suction nozzle is softer and more flexible than on other similar products. The rim itself is wider and sends the vibrations to a broader area aroudn the clitoris. The opening itself is quite large and will most likely do a great job at enveloping enlarged clitorises as a result of hormone therapy. If you’ve been missing some well-fitted clit sucking action because of bottom-growth, the Lelo Sila is here to save the day!
Enjoy the 8 different suction intensities, the 8 vibrations modes. It’s also 100% waterproof and suitable for fun in the shower!


I picked out the Lelo Sila as the Test Winner in this review because of it’s wider suction nozzle. Not only is this just a great quality sex toy. It provides delicious, rumbly vibrations and some serious suction with sonic wave technology. It’s compact, discreet, easy to hold and easy to use. But the size and material of the suction nozzle is definitely what makes it suitable as a transgender sex toy. Perfect for trans men who have experienced some bottom growth after receiving homrone therapy. The Lelo Sila will be able to envelop and pamper larger clitorises with its flexible and wide-rimmed suction nozzle.
I do acknowledge that this is mostly a test winner for trans people with this particular anatomical context. Of course, the Lelo Sila will not do much for people who don’t have clitorises, but I will stress that sonic wave technology can feel great on other body parts as well – on the nipples, scrotum, perineum etc. The sky’s the limit!
We-Vibe Verge App Controlled Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring





A really great option for versatile transgender sex toys are “c-rings”. They’re basically vibrating cock rings that have been given a less gendered label. Because c-rings are so much more than cock rings! Yes, of course, they can be used on penises, but they’re also great on other toys, like dildos or some larger butt plugs to provide some extra sensations during all kinds of penetration. They’re also great finger vibrators! Ideal for both solo and partnered use.
My top pick for a versatile c-ring vibrator is the We-Vibe Verge. A flexible yet sturdy ring with a firmer vibrating tip. The tip is slightly curved for some ergonomic stimulation to your favorite areas, like the perineum, scrotum, labia, clitoris, etc. It also works great as a finger vibrator if you enjoy some semi-manual stimulation. The We-vibe Verge can be worn for some fun public play or be worn around the house. The app-controlled feature can really add a lot of hands-free fun!


If you’re looking for some great versatility and delicious, rumbly vibrations that can pamper basically any part of your body, you can’t go wrong with the We-Vibe Verge! This little gadget is great for couples (with any and all kinds of genitals). It’s comfortable to wear for longer periods of time, the curved tip allows you to flip the c-ring around to whichever angle works for whichever body part you’re using it for.
If you already know that you need super intense vibrations to build pleasure, then you might want to look for something that packs better punch. I would definitely say that the We-Vibe Verge is better for some gentle, rumbly vibrations for a milder build-up.
b-Vibe Snug Plug 3 Large Weighted Silicone Butt Plug






Butt plugs are the ultimate kind of sex toy that really is suitable for all kinds of bodies. We all have buttholes and a lot of us enjoy putting stuff in them! I’ve picked out one of my favorites for this review.
The b-Vibe Snug Plug 3 is wonderful weighted butt plug. If you’re not a fan of anal vibrations but really enjoy the sensation of fullness (either by itself or in combination with vaginal penetration) this (not so) little plug might be for you. Two heavy metal balls lay at the center of the plug providing some serious girth and weight. Coated in super smooth silicone. A barrel-shaped plug makes the plug feel very intense during wear. The long and flexible neck and T-shaped base makes the plug super comfortable to wear for longer periods of time. Use it around the house for warm-up or enjoy the fullness from some double penetration action!


The Snug Plug 3 is definitely better suited for the more experienced anal adventurer. The barrel-shaped plug is only slightly tapered at the tip and the insertion requires quite a bit of patience and warm-up. Luckily, the Snug Plug is also available in two smaller sizes. So you shouldn’t be scared off completely, if you think you might enjoy this sensation.
Designed for comfortable extended wear, it’s a great to wear around the house or when you’re out and about. The comfortable wear and T-shaped base also makes it easy to use in combination with other se toys – especially other insertables. Fullness is definitely on the menu when using the Snug Plug 3!
VibePad Remote Control Grinding Pad






The Vibepad is a great hands-free sex toy for anyone who loves to grind away towards orgasms! Two ergonomically shaped waves to reach whichever external sweets spots you desire. Two motors that send strong vibrations to your grinds and a battery-operated remote control to adjust the settings without having to fiddle with any buttons on the Vibepad itself. Although, always great to have the option.
The Vibepad works great for sending impressive vibrations to the vulvas in particular but also works wonders for the perineum, scrotum, and anus! In this sense, the Vibepad can work for a lot of different people!


Although the Vibepad is versatile to a certain extent, there’s still a big con in not really being able to stimulate other erogenous zones that aren’t near your genitalia. The Vibepad is pretty static and designed to sit and grind on. It’s not great to use as a handheld vibrator to drag across the skin, inner thighs, or nipples, if you every wanted to show those body parts some love.
Of course, if you’re mostly looking for something focused on sending vibrations to your lower genitalia, and you love grinding away and working for you orgasms, then the Vibepad is a great option!
Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness





The Spareparts Joque is a great quality strap-on harness that will make all kinds of strap-on sex super comfortable, easily adjustable, and compatible with a lot of different kinds of dildos!
This baby is made of nylon and spandex and has thick, padded straps to provide you with some long-wear comfort. It’s nice and light yet makes sure you have lots of stability and control over your thrusting. The three straps that go around each leg and the waist are all fully adjustable and easy to remove. The strechy O-ring opening makes it compatible with a lot of different sizes of dildos with a flared base or suction cup dildos all the way up to two inches in diameter!
