10 Best Chastity Cages to Control Your Cock

Well, fuck this heading. The average chastity cage also varies by a ton. But that is mainly with regards to materials, size, and color – and I’ll cover this at the very end.

Normal cock cages are typically made with:

• Silicone
• Plastic
• Metal
• Rubber

There are other materials, but then I would classify it as a very different chastity type, then a “normal” one.

For sizes a normal chastity cage should fit snugly, therefore you don’t want one that is to small, so that you feel discomfort.

But you actually also do not want one, that fits to loosely, as you will then easilier get aroused, the the point where the chastity cage does not stop your bodily reaction in time.

Put another way: Buying a normal chastity cage, that in your flaccid size fits you perfectly will prevent you from getting aroused so much, that you end up in discomfort.

Women can play too chastity games, and no, you don’t have to be a transgender (MTF) and wear a cock cage to call it a female chastity belt.

There are options out there for vagina owners.

Introducing the female chastity belt. Similar in functionality as the chastity cage – unfortunately, the different types of female chastity belts are limited.

If you are looking for one, you should most definitely have a look at our round-up of the best female chastity belts in test.

Looking for something to get your extreme chastity game to the next level. Then let’s enter the world of BDSM chastity cages together.

Take me by the hand, and let me walk your through all the different types of extreme chastity cages out there.

Spiked or with rivets

If you want to go super extreme with your chastity cage, then there are ones available out there in metal with spikes on the inside.

I haven’t been able to find ones in either rubber, silicone or any other softer materials with spikes.

So the only lighter option that I can recommend it chastity cages with rivets.

A good thing to think about, is if you want less pain, then pick the spiked chastity with the most spikes. It can seem counterintuitive. But the same way, you can lay on a bed of nails, because the pressure is evened out, you will also feel less pain the more spikes are on the inside of your chastity cage.

With Dilator / Catheter / Urethra (or Open Urethral)

In a sweet sweet combination of a silicone sound and a chastity cage you get a very intense stimulation of your urethra as well as that locked feeling.

If you want to increase the stimulation even more you could also try out a urethra vibrator in combination with your chastity cage.

There are also chastity cages that include functionality to get an open urethral access.

Be aware, that the dilator on the toy depicted is so long that it could almost resemble a catheter, and some people also call it that, but the medical term would need it to go all the way into your bladder then.

Electro chastity cages

So, you think electro sex toys are fun?

And you’re a chastity cage fanatic looking for that next exciting thing?

Well, let me give you the whole grail of your sex life.

Electric chastity cages.

I must assume, that you have heard about, or at least wondered if, the app-enabled chastity cage from Cellmate.

And, if you have heard about it, I also believe that you must have read the story on how their cage (or to be more specific, their app) was hacked, so that could have gotten permanently locked in their cages.

It’s important to say, that the story was mostly blown-up by popular media, because it’s fun and different. Not really a true danger, as CellMate also provides the opportunity for manual overrides. And it’s not like a hacker can log onto the app and make the cage squish your cock.

Most chastity cages are not necessarily built for long term wear, while most actually use them as so.

Finding the best chastity cage is a freaking jungle. And then add on top, that you want one for long term wear. Then you are almost in for an impossible mission.

Soft or hard?

So a question that people will typically pose is, if they should choose a soft chastity cage, or a hard chastity cage.

If they should go for silicone or rubber versus metal and plastic cages.

There is (and fuck me for saying this) no real answer to the question if you should go for something that is soft or hard.

But what you should go for is choosing the right size for your chastity cage!

If you choose something that is too small you will restrict blood flow (like when wearing a cock ring), and this can cause damage to your penis.

IUf you choose something that is to large, you will actually typically experience more discomfort, as the cage will alow your penis to much blood flow when you are getting aroused. Instead of preventing it, from reaching a point in the erection where it is not possible to hold back.

A comfortable chastity cage isn’t really a type, more that “the best vibrator for you” is a type of vibrator. And the only way of finding out is by trial and error.

You should feel, that your chastity cage feels snug and if you are starting to get aroused it should immediately get tight.

So in complete flaccid condition, your penis should at best touch the inner walls of the cage.

The ring and the base of your penis, should preferably never restrict blood flow.

A lot of different chastity cages are available, and some actually use different types of cock sleeve contraptions and cock rings can be used as a sex toy in chastity play.

Some cock ring contraptions have been called gates of hell, and is made of multiple cock rings attached to a leather base, that runs along the top of your penis shaft, with the rings around your penis.

That way blood flow is restricted, and it makes it harder and painful to masturbate.

Imitating a bird’s cage, the chastity cages that are most of the time made out of steel will make your penis look like a trapped bird.

It is basically just a pattern style of the penis cage enclosement, where you do not have full coverage, but rather somewhat square wholes between metal bars.

In essense, just micro version of a bird cage – for your penis.

• Sissy chastity cage – typically small and humiliating for the wearer on purpose.
• Vibrating chastity cage – self-explanatory, but I have not been able to find a single good chastity cage with integrated vibrators in them. So you might have to improvise a makeshift chastity cage with a vibrator here.
• Harness chsatity cage with straps – Some might want the chastity cage closer to the body for a snugger fit, a harness can help with that.
• With or without key locks – a lot of chastity cages will come with the option for a lock, so that your femdom or lover can hold the key while you are locked in.
• Training chastity kits and sets – if you for example want to train to wear a smaller chsatity cage, then buying a kit with multiple sizes and shapes will be super benificial.
• Nub chastity cage – an extremely small chastity cage, that will typically only be a small “nub”, and therefore compress your penis in a very confined space.
• Cute chastity cage – albeit somewhat subjective, it typically refers to pink or purple chastity cages of smaller sizes.
• Discrete chastity cage – For public wear, it is preferable with a discreet chsatity cage, that doesn’t show as a very visible bulb in your pants. For one, because you don’t want anyone to notice. And if they don’t figure out it is a cock cage, then secondly because it defeats the purpose of a cage (assuming that is your thing), that other people with notice your bulb, and find it attractive.
• Cruel chastity cages – very much in the BDSM category, several cages here could go under the type of “cruel”. In essense you want to induce more pain, and electricity, spikes or really restrictive chastity cages can achieve that.
• With butt plugs – I have seen a few examples of this, where the cock cage has an integrated butt plug. You can also just wear a butt plug on the side, but with it attached to the cage it looks more like a monster you are forced to wear, and it might even stay in place better.
• Adjustable – they are not really. Unless you cheat and buy something along the lines of a chastity cage imitation.
• Curved – Most cock cages, that come in larger sizes will have downward curve so that it follows the curve of your penis.
• Fully enclosed – if you really want to feel trapped you can go for a chastity cage that is fulle enclosed. Most will have a “pee” hole, so that you can still releive yourself, which additionally takes care of preventing any moisture build up.

There are plenty shops available that will either make a custom chsatity cage to your specifications or even 3-d print it to your exact dimensions.

You also have the option of making your very own makeshift chastity cage.

We will provide a blog post later with exact step-by-step details, but for now – you have to think of your own ideas. It could include a full body harness, that is locked with a lock and key and wears like a female chastity belt.

We have been over quite a few of the materials, but here is a full list:

• Silicone
• Plastic
• Metal (stainless steel typically)
• Rubber
• Resin (lightweight)
• Leather
• Latex

• Micro – typically even inverted chastity cages
• Tiny – just a small nudge, either for very small penises or people who prefer a very tight fit
• Medium – well, just your size.
• Large – for those big boys
• Extra large (XL) – if your an extremely big boy or prefer the pain assosiated with getting half-way of a hard on, that really presses agains’t the inner walls of the chastity cage.
• Flat – no real size can be attached to this, as this will jsut be a flat wall that your penis presses agains’t.
• Tight – the micro, tiny and small chsatity cages will do this for you. But think about the width rather than the length of the cage.
• Wide – Room to grow in diameter, but not in length, this will put more pressure on your penis head than your penis shaft.

• Pink
• Purple
• Yellow
• Black
• Blue
• See-through
• Steel

• CB – they will call their chastity cages numbers, so e.g. CB-6000, CB-3000 etc.
• Cellmate – the App-enabled chastity cage with the hacking problem I wrote about before.
• DOMINIX – A brand from the well-known Lovehoney, cheap and relaible.
• Birdlocked
• Mystim – electro chsatity cages
• Oxballs – typically not “real” cock cages, but rather silicone full coverage sleeves for both penis and balls.
• Man cage – they have some GREAT reviews, we have also reviewed one of their toys, the Man Cage Model 19

As you might expect, there are a lot of different types of locks for chastity cages! Maybe yours broke and you are looking for a replacement, or you’re simply looking for a different type of chastity cage lock.

The different types of locks are…

• Soft
• Hard
• Electronic and Rechargable
• Integrated
• Reusable with key
• Plastic and non-reusable

Here are some that we recommend:

• integrated lock on OxyShop
• Reusable padlock with two keys
• Heart padlock
• Small padlock

There are also some awesome one-time usage options that don’t even require a key. These are usually made out of brittle plastic and can be broken. Fortunately, they’re numbered, so, as a master, you’ll know if this has happened. See, for example, these numbered padlocks for chastity cages

And, not to mention perhaps the most innovative and fun solution: the electronic timer lock. Yes, it is a thing. You put in the number of hours you want to have the chastity cage locked and voila!

For extra security, try a keyholder. You can keep an extra spare key in there, and break it open in case of any emergencies.

It can also add an extra layer for entrapment for both the caged and the cager.

These keyholders, that come in three different colors, and can be found relatively cheap here.

If you are looking to find a very exciting accessory for your male chastity cage, then you may want to consider sounding. Sounding is the insertion of a rod into the urethra, and can be both pleasurable and submissive. We’ve written all about what sounding feels like, so you can decide whether you want to give it a try! To spice things up even more, you could even buy a urethra vibrator. Just remember to do your research beforehand, as urethral play comes with risks and needs to be done safely to avoid harm. Here are two good sounding accessories for your chastity cage that we recommend:

• A three piece silicone sounding kit.
• Complete kit of integrate-able urethra sounding stimulators in metal. They can be screwed onto the chastity cage.

Sometimes a chastity cage fits too loosely, and might not put enough pressure.

Since a really large part of the sensation of a chastity cage is that feeling of being tightly trapped, this can be a problem.

If you want to upgrade your chastity cage so that you feel more trapped, this can be done with a harness.

It’s a fantastic harness that fits inside/below your chastity cage. You can even place the harness ring in-between your ring and tube of the chastity cage.

Some chastity cages come with spikes already integrated, such as the all-too-famous Mike S chastity cage.

Interestingly, you can also buy extra, different-sized spikes for it. That means you can switch it up to hurt more or less, depending on your preferences.

The default spikes have a small nub at the end of each spike, but you can buy ones that are truly sharp, too!

These types of spikes go in-between the ring and the tube of the chastity cage. There are also some pieces called anti-slip rings. A word of warning, though, they are made out of real metal and can hurt a lot! Make sure you know the risks before you add any spikes to your chastity cage.

These is absolutely awesome! To control you partner even more, or be controlled, why not purchase a leash?

That way, the leash can be pulled on and around, ensuring absolute obedience!

Most chastity cages will have somewhere to fasten a leash accessory, like a ring or hole in the cage.

You could also just buy any other type of leash with some sort of attachment mechanism. Oftentimes, a sexual collar leash works well, as the selection is typically broader (and kinkier!). This one is a great example.

Most are either a metal or leather leash with a swivel quick-release clip, which makes it super simple to put on or release again.

When buying a new ring for your chastity cage, please make sure to look for one from the same brand. Otherwise, it might not fit on the tube of the cage.

Sometimes, if you have a steel chastity cage, like a birdcage chastity cage, then look for a metal ring from the same brand. You can sometimes mix steel with plastic, but often it won’t stand the test of time as well.

There are a ton of different extra rings available for every kind of chastity cage, so I’m not going to list each one.

But, if you are looking for extra rings CB-X chastity cages (a very popular brand), then trustworthy BDSM sex shop The Stockroom has some parts.

If your chastity cage is broken and you’re looking for replacement parts to fix it, or if you want to replace something on your cage, then your best bet is to buy directly from the brand.

Occasionally you’ll find that don’t sell the specific spare part you’re looking for as a single item. For example small nuts, bolts and screws aren’t often sold separately. This might require you to purchase a new cage entirely.

However, if you purchase from a reputable brand then you are much more likely to be able to find spare parts. You could also contact their customer service department, especially if your cage is still under warranty.

Some of the more reputable chastity cage brands are:

• CB-X
  CX
• Master Series
• Dominix
• Fetish Fantasy
• Man Cage (see e.g. our review of the Man Cage Model 19)

You might have noticed that this guide is only for male chastity cage accessories.

Of course, we don’t like to exclude the ladies, but this could end up being one long guide! So, if you are interested in purchasing a good female chastity belt instead (or accessories for it), then have a look at our round-up review of the best female chastity belts!

So of course, one of the first thoughts when talking about cock cages is dominance/submission element of BDSM. Handing over complete control of your penis to your dom can be the ultimate act of surrender. The dom can also relish in their power they hold, especially with their sub weakened by their constant state of arousal .

As well as the visual and physical turn on of wearing a penis cage, the psychological aspect can be a massive turn on. A famous thought experiment by George Lakoff goes something along the lines of don’t think of an elephant, and what do you think of? An elephant of course! The same goes for chastity cages, telling you can’t be aroused or have an erection still makes you think of both.

Orgasm denial can also be explored through the use of chastity cages. By limiting and restricting orgasms, the anticipation increases and can lead to the eventual release being more powerful or longer-lasting.

It could also be the thrill of having a sexy secret as you go about your day that turns you on. Many cages are designed so that they can be worn discreetly and for long periods. If using a cage with a key holder, this sexy secret between the two of you can also increase intimacy.

• Helping to develop control over premature ejaculation
• Control excessive masturbation
• More intense orgasms
• Developing trust with your partner or key holder
• Developing other ways to be intimate with a partner
• Finding a more balanced sex drive in a relationship

The Cell Mate chastity device, a wirelessly locking chastity device for men, found itself in trouble when internet security experts discovered a serious security flaw. The Pen Test Partners found that hackers could remotely access the device, potentially leaving users locked in the devices with a ransom hanging over them.

Unlike most chastity devices on the market, the Cell Mate has no manual unlock function or emergency release and can only be unlocked via the connected smartphone.

Hacking with the device involved interfering with the server, which also gave access to a lot of secure information, another risk of using smart sex toys.

You can read the full story here.

While Cell Mate’s story is one of the most extreme, it’s not the first security flaw Pen Test Partners have discovered in a sex toy.

In 2017, they discovered that a vibrator with a camera could be hacked, leaving some very intimate pictures vulnerable to being leaked.

Another discovery, uncovered by hackers “goldfisk” and “follower,” revealed that the We-Vibe 4 Plus, a bluetooth enable vibrator, had major security weaknesses. You can read the full story here.

As this is a relatively new area, it is taking some time for the security to catch up with the innovation, but one man, who goes by the name Renderman, has created the Internet of Dongs project, which is dedicated to researching and enhancing online privacy and security within the sex toy and intimate device industry. The project takes a judgement-free approach and aims to collaborate with manufacturers, so we can enjoy safe and secure fun.

Although app-enabled sex toys can add excitement to a long-distance session, you might want to seriously consider the security risks before buying anything.

These articles have some great guidelines for maintaining security when getting it on online.

• The Internet of Dongs
• Fifty shades of vulnerable: How to play it safe with your smart sex toy
• Mozilla’s *privacy not included buyer’s guide

Before locking the cage, you need to decide if you will be keeping the key yourself or handing it over to a key holder or key holding service. If you choose to give your key to someone else, always make sure it is someone you trust, and choose a safeword beforehand should you need to remove the device at any time.

Apply lubrication to your shaft and balls so that it can easily slip through the base ring. Slide the base ring over your shaft and balls. remembering that you must be flaccid to use a chastity device. The ring should now sit close to your body, behind your shaft and testicles.

You can now slip your flaccid penis into the cage part of the device, making sure that it isn’t too tight. You should have some wiggle room so that you can move around comfortably but not enough to get an erection.

Once the base and cage are lined up and connected, you can lock your cage using a small padlock. You are now cock locked and at your key holder’s mercy! Depending on the model and your experience with chastity cages, you can leave them on for extended periods of time, but be sure to remove you cage to wash your penis and check for any signs of damage to the skin.

Measure the circumference of your flaccid penis and balls. The most accurate way to do this is by using a piece of string and a ruler. Wrap the string around the base of the shaft and the balls, leaving enough room for the string to move around your penis without being loose enough to fall off. You can use a pen to mark the string and measure it against the ruler. This will give you the circumference. If you need the diameter, you can work out the diameter by dividing your measurement by 3.14.

Next, and more important, is measuring the length of your shaft when flaccid as this will determine the length of the cage. With a straight back, hold your flaccid penis out at 90° against your ruler. If you want a snug fit, you should subtract 1/4 – 1/5 inches from this measurement.

Choose the cage according to your measurements. If you want a snug fit, you should subtract 1/4 – 1/5 inches from your length measurement. Some people may prefer to go for a smaller cage for added intensity or a larger cage to allow for movement and some level of erection.