The 13 Best Bondage Collars for Tons of Fun

Sarah Williams
by Sarah Williams
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If you’ve been out in public within the last 20 years or so, chances are, you’ve probably seen someone wearing a bondage collar BDSM accessory. Some people wear these collars purely as a fashion statement, whereas others wear them to signify their role in their relationship: others only wear them during BDSM play! Although there is often a meaning behind someone’s metal bondage collar or leather bondage collar, in truth, anyone can enjoy these collars! Whether you’re intent on getting a collar or just curious about which styles are available, we’re sure you’ll find the collar for you on our list below.

How We Rated and Reviews Bondage Collar BDSM Accessories

Collars (as an item) pretty much all do the same things in terms of functionality. Fortunately, by taking a closer look at these items we can objectively assess them against the competition, providing you with the recommendations you want while letting you know which products to avoid. Every item below has been given a “Bedbible Rating”, which is calculated based on a collar’s design, ease of use, and overall quality. This 1 to 5 numerical rating system makes it easy to see which collars are the best; simply read the in-depth review portion to learn why! We also let you know what the average customer thought of their purchase, using buyer reviews from multiple sources to calculate an average “User Ratings” score. Having rated and reviewed over 300 different sex toys, you can trust us to provide you with accurate, honest, and non-biased opinions on every product you see below!

How We Rated and Reviews Bondage Collar BDSM Accessories

Types of Bondage Collar 

You’ll have a few different types of collars to choose from. There are actually a ton of different options perfect for every occasion, such as day collars for daily use or all metal bondage collar sets or that extra bit of restraint. Read about the similarities (and differences) of the most common variants below!

  • Dog Collars – These collars are what most people think of when asked to describe a “bondage collar”. As the name suggests, these collars look similar to the collars worn by dogs, often integrating spikes and a D-ring that can have a leash attached to it.
  • Decorative (Jewelry) – “Day collars” are decorative collars (often jewelry) that are worn throughout the day. Literally anything can be a decorative collar! To the average person, the collar will simply look like a fashion statement. However, to the BDSM practitioner, it represents their status & devotion in their BDSM relationship.
  • Posture – A posture collar is designed to hold a sub’s neck in position, ensuring they have a good posture while wearing the collar.
  • Muzzles & Masks – Ideal for people who enjoy roleplaying as animals (such as practitioners of pony or puppy play), muzzles and masks are generally strapped around the entire head and often resemble animals. Depending on the model in question, these items may focus more on visual appearance or primarily on silencing the wearer.

Bondage Collar Features 

When selecting a bondage collar, you’ll probably already have a use for it in mind. However, have you considered all the things that your fantasies will actually require? Here are some features you should look for in your new collar.

  • Lock – Although many bondage collars don’t come with a lock, you’ll have much more fun when the option to take your collar off is removed! Depending on the quality of the (if included) lock, you may need to upgrade the lock for a truly inescapable option.
  • Leash – If puppy play is something you enjoy partaking in then getting a leash is a must! Some leather bondage collar sets will include a leash, but as long as your collar has a D-ring, you can attach a leash to it if one isn’t provided with the collar.
  • Nipple Clamps – Add nipple play to your bondage scene using a bondage collar with integrated nipple clamps! You (or your partner) can tug on the chain for a bit of extra discipline.
  • Restraints – While you can always buy restraints separately, it’s always fun if the restraints are built-in with the collar! Collars with restraints may be a bit more expensive, but they’ll usually be cheaper than buying each part of the outfit separately.
  • Ball Gag – Tired of your sub making too much noise? Sexily silence them with an integrated ball gag! Make sure that the wearer’s mouth can comfortably accommodate the ball gag for extended periods of time to avoid jaw cramps.

FAQ

What type of collar is best for beginners?
There are a lot of good starter collars in this handy list, but in reality, most collars are easy to use. The best thing to do is discuss with your partner why you both want the collar and what it will be used for. Do you want kitten or puppy play? Then go for something with a bit of metal and a ring to attach a leash. For every day use, you may want something more discreet. The choice is yours!
Are collars just for BDSM?
Of course not! Some people love the look and feel of a collar. Others may have a fairly vanilla relationship, but want to play around with all the different types of collars out there. Historically in the gay male clubbing scene, studded collars have been worn to signify being owned or just to let others know the person wearing it is gay and a kinkster.
What if I struggle with things around my neck but still want a collar?
This can be a tough one, as collars are almost always worn around the throat area. But if you're a little uneasy about that, buy a looser-fitting collar and wear it low, more toward your collar bone. Play around with different tightness levels and always let your partner know any concerns before play.
Which bondage collar should I wear?
It depends on the meaning behind it. If it’s purely for fashion, then the choice is yours! If it’s for BDSM play, you’ll want something rugged that won’t rip under pressure. If it’s to represent your BDSM relationship then you’ll want to discuss the options with your partner. Regardless of the reasoning behind your purchase, you’ll want to make sure that it’s comfortable to wear (especially if it’s going to be a day collar!).
What to look for in a bondage collar?
If you’re wearing it as a fashion statement, choose any collar that fits your desired look. If you’re wearing it for BDSM play, we’d recommend opting for a collar with a D-ring that can be used to hook attachments to (such as nipple clamps).

BDSM collar?

A collar is an item worn around the neck that signifies a consensual, adult relationship where the willing exchange of power is a key feature. That could be Master and slave, Dom/Domme and sub or any other permutation in the kink world. While most relationships in the "vanilla" world thrive on egalitarian principles, this kind of relationship thrives on hierarchy. That said, lots of people use collars just for fun and play in the bedroom - maybe to achieve a sexy or certain type of look, maybe for use with a leash - there are as many reasons to use a collar as there are people!

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The 13 Best bondage collars in Test

1 Posture

Stockroom red curved posture collar

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The Stockroom has created a collar that is an absolute winner in its category – a quick Internet search reveals all similar collars to be double or even triple the price. Crafted from fine leather that’s firm and non-markable on the outside, but soft and gentle on the inside, this BDSM sex collar has one D-ring for use with a leash or other connectable toy.

It is available in sizes S, M and L, and closes via a lockable buckle on the back – what this means is that it can be closed, but left unlocked so the wearer can remove it, or it can be locked and the key taken away for fun trust and power play with a partner.

The collar stands 2.5 inches high from base to top and includes a rather thoughtful chin indent, which allows for a more comfortable position along the jawline – for the caring Dom/Domme in your life!

Stockroom red curved posture collar test
Stockroom red curved posture collar features
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You should buy the Stockroom posture collar if you...
love the colour red
like good posture in a sub
are seeking a touch of elegance
You should NOT buy the Stockroom posture collar if you...
don't suit the colour red
want a collar with several rings
don't like items encircling your neck
Stockroom red curved posture collar features
Features
Width2.5 inches
Fasteningone lockable 
Texturesoft 
Materialsleather 
Pros
Incredible low price
Good control of a sub
Soft inner and durable outer
Cons
only available in one colour
only one lead/rope ring
subs might never want to take it off!
Conclusion

You genuinely can’t find a posture collar of this size and quality for cheaper on the market. In the beautiful, understate red tone and with classic leather on the outside and softer leather on the inside to protect the skin, it also comes in a decent variety of sizes. With a leash ring and a lockable closure and special chin area, it’s everything you could want from a entry or intermediate-level posture and training collar.

2 Metal

XR Brands five-piece stainless steel shackle set

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Hustler Hollywood’s five-piece stainless steel kit is an attractive high-quality bondage item for those who love a touch of Medieval in the boudoir.  The sizing may not be for everyone, as it’s only available in either small or large, but if you fit their measurements, this is a fun approach to full body restraint that allows for some movement, if not much comfort.

The great thing about this, though, is that it comes with a full, 30-day money back guarantee, so if it ends up being too restrictive or just not worth the dolla you dished, you’re in good hands.

The pinch-hole lock is invisible once the shackles are fastened, and can be opened easily with the accompanying key. Everything connects by a cute, BDSM-standard O-ring on the torso. This shackle set can also be worn over clothes or as part of a costume for Halloween or a kink event.

XR Brands five-piece stainless steel shackle set test
XR Brands five-piece stainless steel shackle set features
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You should buy the XR Brands shackle set if you...
are looking to take bondage to the next level
have a boner for stainless steel
want a kinky look
You should NOT buy the XR Brands shackle set if you...
have sensitive skin
are allergic to stainless steel
need a lower price point
XR Brands five-piece stainless steel shackle set features
Features
AdjustableNo 
FlexibilityNone 
Lengthneck - 12.5 inches
Lengthwrist & ankle - 6.75 inches
Pros
Wipe clean
Exciting five-piece configuration
Slave appeal
Cons
Lack of sizing variety
No flexibility at vulnerable areas
Coldness of steel material
Conclusion

If a sexy slave vibe is your go-to, this should be the next purchase for your restraint library. If you’re small or large, this set will have you covered, but those seeking a medium, XL or other sizes will be out of luck. Stainless still has very little give, so be careful and move slowly to avoid any damage to bones or skin. Other than that, get your kink on and have fun!

3 Locking

Heart lock choker

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Never a sweeter way to say, “I own you” than this adorable heart locking choker/submissive collar! Available in red or black, this cute little number is made from soft, yet durable latigo leather. Featuring a heart-shaped padlock and corresponding key, this can be worn as a simple piece of costume jewellery as a choker necklace, or be gifted to the sub who has your Domly heart.

This pleasurable piece comes in a variety of sizes, from S-2XL, perfect for necks of any size or shape. There’s no better way to openly show your devotion than wearing your heart right on your neck.

Heart lock choker test
Heart lock choker features
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You should buy the Heart lock choker if you...
want a cute collar
love soft leather
want to express love
You should NOT buy the Heart lock choker if you...
want a more formal slave look
don't like hearts
want to spend a little more
Heart lock choker features
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AdjustableNo 
FlexibilityLots 
Materialsleather 
Materialsnickel-plated lock 
Pros
Good size range
Tough but soft Latigo leather
Heart lock and key
Cons
Only available in two colours
Not suitable for use with a leash
It might actually be too cute
Conclusion

At such a low price, there really isn’t a way to go wrong with this purchase! It suits both the sweet Dom/sub vibe and the slightly stricter play. And it can be worn as everyday jewellery – it’s the perfect day-to-night accessory!

4 Leather

Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar

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Dominix has done it again! This no-frills, handy collar is both versatile and attractive, made from deluxe leather that will make your Dom or Domme as proud as the day you first said, “Your wish is my command”. Featuring a belt fastening, this leather collar is versatile in sizing and who can remove it – handy for if play needs to come to a stop quickly.

Whatever the size of your neck, this collar with two stud embellishments is a must-have little black number for social occasions and private play.

Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar test
Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar features
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You should buy the Dominix leather collar if you...
need a standard O-ring collar
want to protect your neck
want a light-weight collar
You should NOT buy the Dominix leather collar if you...
want to attach more than one accessory
want a lockable collar
don't like belt fastenings
Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar features
Features
AdjustableYes 
FlexibilityYes 
Materialsleather 
Materialsnickel-plated lock 
Length21.5 inches
LengthAdjustable from 12.5-18 inches inches
Pros
Made of deluxe leather
Soft inner for comfort
Adjustable sizing
Cons
Doesn't lock
No-frills
Not as tight as some collars
Conclusion

If you need a straight-forward, adjustable, attractive BDSM collar that doesn’t break the bank, look no further!

*Lovehoney disclaimer: long-term exposure to nickel has been found by the state of California to cause cancer.

5 Vegan

Bondage Boutique Faux Leather Collar and Leash

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Bondage Boutique’s cute, yet sexy faux leather collar calls to the vegan perv in all of us! With a generous adjustable belt fastening around the neck, most users will find this collar comfortable for both gentle and rough play.

The long leash rotates so that you won’t get stuck in any hilarious predicaments and it allows for safer play. The leash also features a quick-release clip for peace of mind that allows you to focus on the fun control play you love!

Even better, vegan leather doesn’t need any softening or leather treatment, meaning it’s pliable and comfortable as soon as you take it out of the box.

Bondage Boutique Faux Leather Collar and Leash test
Bondage Boutique Faux Leather Collar and Leash features
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don't want to buy animal leather
prefer to shop vegan
want an in-built leash
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want to use more than one attachment
want a lockable collar
don't like belt fastenings
Bondage Boutique Faux Leather Collar and Leash features
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AdjustableYes 
FlexibilityYes 
Materialsleather 
Materialsnickel-plated lock 
Lengthleash - 38 inches
LengthAdjustable from 14-18.5 inches inches
Pros
Vegan! Vegan! Vegan!
Pliable material
Adjustable sizing
Cons
Doesn't lock
Only one O-ring for attachments
Not as tight as some collars
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If you’re after a straightforward, no-fuss collar and lead in one, this is the product for you. It’s fully adjustable and comfortable, which means you can get your kink on without needing to constantly stop and adjust.

6 With clamps

Basics Collar with Nipple Clamps

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If you really love clamping someone else’s nipples or having yours clamped and you want to do that while attached to a collar, Basics has you covered! The brands collar with clamps can be used in a variety of ways, but it is designed for securing the neck and clamping nipples in an attractive, albeit not comfortable BDSM configuration.

This collar with nipple clamps has rave reviews and since it’s so cheap, if you’re even mildly curious, give it a go! The clamps are adjustable and so is the collar, which attaches with a velcro fastening.

Basics Collar with Nipple Clamps test
Basics Collar with Nipple Clamps features
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You should buy the Basics collar with clamps if you...
Want your nipple clamp and collar in one
love a clamped nip
are on a budget
You should NOT buy the Basics collar with clamps if you...
want non-attached nipple clamps
want a collar for daily use
aren't into clamped nips
want a secure collar
Basics Collar with Nipple Clamps features
Features
AdjustableYes 
Lengthfrom collar to nipple clamp - 23 inches
Materialsmetal 
Waterproofyes 
Pros
Criminally cheap
High-quality clamps
Comfy velcro fastening
Cons
Not lockable
Can only adjust the collar so far
Velcro fastening not very secure
Conclusion

At such a low price, anyone can get into the leash, nipple clamp and collar game, so if you’ve been curious, this is a great place to start!

7 With cuffs

Dominix Deluxe Padded Leather Collar and Wrist Restraint Set

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This luxurious padded collar attaches at the neck with clips that allow wrist cuffs to be attached to the neck collar. Best for those who have played with restraints before, Dominix’s deluxe cuff-and-collar set restricts a sub’s posture, meaning fun posture play in a variety of ways.

Or, it can be used for simple bondage while you have your wicked way with your partner. In addition to the two rings for attaching to the wrist, it has an additional front ring that you can use with a leash or any other attachment for an extra level of naughty fun!

Dominix Deluxe Padded Leather Collar and Wrist Restraint Set test
Dominix Deluxe Padded Leather Collar and Wrist Restraint Set features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Dominix collar with cuffs if you...
want to feel fully restrained
need two-in-one bondage
are looking for a splurge item
You should NOT buy the Dominix collar with cuffs if you...
want a wider range of movement
want a collar for daily use
like a tighter collar
Dominix Deluxe Padded Leather Collar and Wrist Restraint Set features
Features
Lengthclips - 3.5 inches
Lengthfull set - 14.5 inches
Materialsmetal (nickel) 
Materialsleather 
Pros
Comfortable bondage experience
High-quality metal clips
Adjustable neck and wrist sizing
Cons
Neck-to-wrist length isn't adjustable
Restricted to only one bondage configuration
Collar comes up a bit small WhilW
Conclusion

While the collar comes up a bit small for larger users, the cuffs have rave reviews, with their sturdiness and fully-wrapped feeling as well as quality making for luxe BDSM play. The price point is a little high for what it is, but the quality is unquestionable, so with the holiday season coming up, this would make a great gift!

8 With cock ring

Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring

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Cock rings and collars, oh my! In the case of the Dominix BDSM collar and cock ring, the sky is the limit for the fun you can have! The collar is made from fine leather with a softer inner casing that allows for full fun without unsexy neck chafing. The T-shaped front leads down a 22″ long metal chain to a cock ring made for different sized cocks.

Now here’s where the versatile fun really starts: the chain is fully detachable, with a 1.6″ diameter cock ring on one end and a 2″ cock ring on the other. Conversely, you can use either O-shaped ring to attach any number of fun toys and create endless scenarios.

This is only recommended for those with experience using cock rings, or very careful first-time users as the potential for injury to either neck or cock is too high with misuse. Remember to always play safely and that consent is king!

Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring test
Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Dominix collar with cock ring if you...
need that sweet cock ring action
want to play fun restrictive games
like a dual-purpose item
You should NOT buy the Dominix collar with cock ring if you...
are worried about movement restriction
are picky about cock rings
don't fit the size parameters
Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring features
Features
Length22 inches
Diametersmall ring - 1.5 inches
Diameterlarge ring - 2 inches
Materialsleather 
Materialsmetal 
Fasteningbuckle 
Pros
Intense bondage experience
Luxurious leather collar
Two different size cock rings
Cons
Only two size options for cock ring
Non-adjustable sizing
Stiff metal cock ring could cause discomfort
Conclusion

This collar and cock ring combo could really take things to the next level between you and your slave. If used correctly and carefully, it can bring fun, pain and pleasure into the bedroom all at once. The metal cock ring may be too restrictive (or too big), so that’ something to consider. But with so many different potential uses, it’s a really fun addition to any Domme or Dom’s collection!

9 Spiked

Alpha Dog Collar with spikes

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The Stockroom’s Alpha Dog collar has all the iconic gay-scene spiked glory you need! This luxurious spiked collar is perfect if you’re a switch and want to look both Domly and subly swanky all at once. Made of superfine Latigo leather, this BDSM collar features nickel-plated metal spikes and belt buckle fastening with an optional lock.

Made for robust play, the hardware is, well, hard and will stand up to rigorous use, hopefully just like the sub in your life. Indulge in power play by locking the collar and taking it off when you say and only then. Use the O-ring for a leash or other toy attachments and have fun! Wear it to Pride or at home, but whatever you do, wear it with pride!

Alpha Dog Collar with spikes test
Alpha Dog Collar with spikes features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Alpha spiked dog collar if you...
are super into puppy play
like a classic butch BDSM look
love metal spikes
You should NOT buy the Alpha spiked dog collar if you...
hate metal spikes
are allergic to metal
don't want a lockable collar
Alpha Dog Collar with spikes features
Features
Width2.5 inches
Length11.5 - 18 inches
Diameterlarge ring - 2 inches
MaterialsLatigo leather 
Materialsnickel-plated metal 
Fasteningbuckle 
Adjustableyes 
Pros
Luxury Latigo leather
Lockable for power play
Available in S, M, L or XL
Cons
Spikes can cause discomfort
Not suitable for those with nickel allergies
Only one O-ring
Conclusion

If you’re into puppy play or dog play, or you just want to signal to other BDSM players that you love the game, this is the collar for you. With both the luxury you need to feel comfortable and exciting elements such as spikes and lockable fastening, you can have tons of fun with this spiked collar.

10 Sexy

Bondage Boutique Black Lace Collar and Cuffs

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Add a touch of damsel in dress Victorian chic to your BDSM play, every day Goth look or just a good ole lingerie day. Featuring rose gold, delicate chains which are fully detachable and Velcro-fastening chic collar and cuffs, this set is perfect for those who want an intro to the feeling of being restrained.

The subtle look can be taken from boudoir to dance floor easily, particularly if you detach the chains. The Velcro fastening is the only real downside to this beauty, as it can cause discomfort or imbue the look with a slightly less classy look. But, at the price point, one can’t complain, especially as it’s soooo pretty.

Bondage Boutique Black Lace Collar and Cuffs test
Bondage Boutique Black Lace Collar and Cuffs features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Bondage Boutique lace collar and cuffs if you...
love a chic bondage look
want a subtle taste of bondage
crave some Victoriana in your BDSM
You should NOT buy the Bondage Boutique lace collar and cuffs if you...
have a large or small neck
want actual restraints
don't like Velcro
Bondage Boutique Black Lace Collar and Cuffs features
Features
Materialsmetal 
Materialsblack lace 
Adjustableyes 
Flexibilitylots 
Pros
Sweet lace look
Pretty rose gold chain
Low price
Cons
Gauche velcro fastening
No actual bondage use
More like lingerie
Conclusion

While it may be slightly more than you’d pay for what is essentially just a decorative bit of lingerie, this set is still cute enough to purchase as a pretty addition to your other, more serious bondage kit. It’s also perfect for bondage babies who are just starting out.

11 Discreet

Sex & Mischief Black Day Collar

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Add a touch of damsel in dress Victorian chic to your BDSM play, every day Goth look or just a good ole lingerie day. Featuring rose gold, delicate chains which are fully detachable and Velcro-fastening chic collar and cuffs, this set is perfect for those who want an intro to the feeling of being restrained.

The subtle look can be taken from boudoir to dance floor easily, particularly if you detach the chains. The Velcro fastening is the only real downside to this beauty, as it can cause discomfort or imbue the look with a slightly less classy look. But, at the price point, one can’t complain, especially as it’s soooo pretty.

Sex & Mischief Black Day Collar test
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Sex & Mischief discreet collar if you...
want a day-to-night collar
love a discreet look
not sure if you want a collar or choker
You should NOT buy the Sex & Mischief discreet collar if you...
want serious bondage
like a larger collar
don't like Velcro
Features
Materialsmetal 
Materialsblack lace 
Adjustableyes 
Flexibilitylots 
Pros
Discreet every day look
Vegan leather
Easy on the wallet
Cons
Gauche Velcro fastening
No actual bondage use
More like lingerie
Conclusion

While it may be slightly more than you’d pay for what is essentially just a decorative bit of lingerie, this set is still cute enough to purchase as a pretty addition to your other, more serious bondage kit. It’s also perfect for bondage babies who are just starting out.

12 Slave

The Traveler Restraint & Bondage 10 Piece Play Kit

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90/100
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Whether you need to replace a lot of your BDSM play kit, are looking to jump into the world of D/s with both feet or just want a separate kit for travelling (now it’s always work and pleasure), this 10-piece kit from Spectrum Boutique is for you.

The handy roll-up kit is available in either red and black or grey and black with rose gold accents. Each item is, honestly, really pretty.

The kit includes:

  • blindfold
  • leash
  • collar,
  • wrist cuffs (x 2)
  • ankle cuffs (x 2)
  • cuff chains
  • nipple clamps (x 2)
  • ball gag
  • mini flogger &
  • paddle
The Traveler Restraint & Bondage 10 Piece Play Kit test
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the The Traveler Restraint & Bondage 10-Piece Play Kit if you...
want a full BDSM starter kit
want a separate BDSM travel kit
love a full range of BDSM toys
You should NOT buy the The Traveler Restraint & Bondage 10-Piece Play Kit if you...
don't want to splash out
want to purchase each item separately
don't like at least six of the items in the kit
Features
Materialsfaux/vegan leather 
Materialszinc-plated metal 
Adjustableyes 
Flexibilitysome 
LengthLeash - 38 inches
LengthCollar - 21 inches
LengthCuffs - 14 inches
Pros
Full S&M kit
Gorgeous implements
10 pieces
Cons
Collar and cuffs are only minimally adjustable
Case is a tad flimsy
Zinc metal used
Conclusion

It’s a bit expensive until you think about what’s included and the high quality of the items Spectrum Boutique has produced. As a starter kit or dedicated travel kit, it’s one of the best on the market and will make a fine addition to any BDSM home.

13 Cute

Master Series Sweet Heart Choker

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60/100
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This cutesy, saccharine-sweet heart choker is a subtle nod to being owned – so subtle, it just looks like a choker! With three snap buttons to fasten it, this pink collar has a softer inner so you can wear it all the time.

The faux leather material is great for vegans and the two metal studs make for a cute detail. Perfect for sweet yet naughty fun or for the babygirl / babyboy in your life. Even better, the metal is nickel-free, so get this round your neck!

Master Series Sweet Heart Choker test
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Pink heart choker if you...
want a choker style collar
love pink and hearts
don't use a leash
You should NOT buy the Pink heart choker if you...
want a high-end item
use a collar for bondage
want a lockable collar
Features
Materialsfaux/vegan leather 
Materialszinc-plated metal 
Adjustableyes 
Fasteningsnap buttons 
Length13.5-17.5 inches
Pros
Cutesy pink colour
Darling heart adornment
Three-snap closure
Cons
Flimsy construction
No bondage
Not for use with attachments/leashes
Conclusion

With AdamEve offering a discount code at checkout, this is only $8.95, a total bargain! So even if you just want it for an evening out or for the intimate times at home where you want to show your sub your softer side, it’s worth it.

How to clean a BDSM collar

How you clean your collar depends totally on what type of collar it is. If it's metal, a damp cloth is your best bet. If leather, there are specialist leather cleaning products out there. Remember to always check the label and to follow the manufacturer's instructions!

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
materials

Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.

Author
Sarah Williams