Bondage sex collar – Best in test for BDSM

 By  Sarah Williams
Last updated: Nov 11, 2021

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Stockroom red curved posture collar

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You should buy the Stockroom posture collar if you...

  • love the colour red
  • like good posture in a sub
  • are seeking a touch of elegance

You should NOT buy the Stockroom posture collar if you...

  • don't suit the colour red
  • want a collar with several rings
  • don't like items encircling your neck

Product description

The Stockroom has created a collar that is an absolute winner in its category – a quick Internet search reveals all similar collars to be double or even triple the price. Crafted from fine leather that’s firm and non-markable on the outside, but soft and gentle on the inside, this BDSM sex collar has one D-ring for use with a leash or other connectable toy. It is available in sizes S, M and L, and closes via a lockable buckle on the back – what this means is that it can be closed, but left unlocked so the wearer can remove it, or it can be locked and the key taken away for fun trust and power play with a partner. The collar stands 2.5 inches high from base to top and includes a rather thoughtful chin indent, which allows for a more comfortable position along the jawline – for the caring Dom/Domme in your life!

Pros

  • Incredible low price
  • Good control of a sub
  • Soft inner and durable outer

Cons

  • only available in one colour
  • only one lead/rope ring
  • subs might never want to take it off!
Features Stockroom posture collar
Width2.5 inches
Fasteningone lockable
Texturesoft
Materialsleather

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Conclusion

You genuinely can’t find a posture collar of this size and quality for cheaper on the market. In the beautiful, understate red tone and with classic leather on the outside and softer leather on the inside to protect the skin, it also comes in a decent variety of sizes. With a leash ring and a lockable closure and special chin area, it’s everything you could want from a entry or intermediate-level posture and training collar.

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XR Brands five-piece stainless steel shackle set

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You should buy the XR Brands shackle set if you...

  • are looking to take bondage to the next level
  • have a boner for stainless steel
  • want a kinky look

You should NOT buy the XR Brands shackle set if you...

  • have sensitive skin
  • are allergic to stainless steel
  • need a lower price point

Product description

Hustler Hollywood’s five-piece stainless steel kit is an attractive high-quality bondage item for those who love a touch of Medieval in the boudoir.  The sizing may not be for everyone, as it’s only available in either small or large, but if you fit their measurements, this is a fun approach to full body restraint that allows for some movement, if not much comfort. The great thing about this, though, is that it comes with a full, 30-day money back guarantee, so if it ends up being too restrictive or just not worth the dolla you dished, you’re in good hands. The pinch-hole lock is invisible once the shackles are fastened, and can be opened easily with the accompanying key. Everything connects by a cute, BDSM-standard O-ring on the torso. This shackle set can also be worn over clothes or as part of a costume for Halloween or a kink event.

Pros

  • Wipe clean
  • Exciting five-piece configuration
  • Slave appeal

Cons

  • Lack of sizing variety
  • No flexibility at vulnerable areas
  • Coldness of steel material
Features XR Brands shackle set
AdjustableNo
FlexibilityNone
Lengthneck - 12.5 inches
Lengthwrist & ankle - 6.75 inches

Conclusion

If a sexy slave vibe is your go-to, this should be the next purchase for your restraint library. If you’re small or large, this set will have you covered, but those seeking a medium, XL or other sizes will be out of luck. Stainless still has very little give, so be careful and move slowly to avoid any damage to bones or skin. Other than that, get your kink on and have fun!

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Heart lock choker

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You should buy the Heart lock choker if you...

  • want a cute collar
  • love soft leather
  • want to express love

You should NOT buy the Heart lock choker if you...

  • want a more formal slave look
  • don't like hearts
  • want to spend a little more

Product description

Never a sweeter way to say, “I own you” than this adorable heart locking choker/submissive collar! Available in red or black, this cute little number is made from soft, yet durable latigo leather. Featuring a heart-shaped padlock and corresponding key, this can be worn as a simple piece of costume jewellery as a choker necklace, or be gifted to the sub who has your Domly heart. This pleasurable piece comes in a variety of sizes, from S-2XL, perfect for necks of any size or shape. There’s no better way to openly show your devotion than wearing your heart right on your neck.

Pros

  • Good size range
  • Tough but soft Latigo leather
  • Heart lock and key

Cons

  • Only available in two colours
  • Not suitable for use with a leash
  • It might actually be too cute
Features Heart lock choker
AdjustableNo
FlexibilityLots
Materialsleather
Materialsnickel-plated lock

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Conclusion

At such a low price, there really isn’t a way to go wrong with this purchase! It suits both the sweet Dom/sub vibe and the slightly stricter play. And it can be worn as everyday jewellery – it’s the perfect day-to-night accessory!

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Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar

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You should buy the Dominix leather collar if you...

  • need a standard O-ring collar
  • want to protect your neck
  • want a light-weight collar

You should NOT buy the Dominix leather collar if you...

  • want to attach more than one accessory
  • want a lockable collar
  • don't like belt fastenings

Product description

Dominix has done it again! This no-frills, handy collar is both versatile and attractive, made from deluxe leather that will make your Dom or Domme as proud as the day you first said, “Your wish is my command”. Featuring a belt fastening, this leather collar is versatile in sizing and who can remove it – handy for if play needs to come to a stop quickly. Whatever the size of your neck, this collar with two stud embellishments is a must-have little black number for social occasions and private play.

Pros

  • Made of deluxe leather
  • Soft inner for comfort
  • Adjustable sizing

Cons

  • Doesn't lock
  • No-frills
  • Not as tight as some collars
Features Dominix leather collar
AdjustableYes
FlexibilityYes
Materialsleather
Materialsnickel-plated lock
Length21.5 inches
LengthAdjustable from 12.5-18 inches inches

Conclusion

If you need a straight-forward, adjustable, attractive BDSM collar that doesn’t break the bank, look no further! *Lovehoney disclaimer: long-term exposure to nickel has been found by the state of California to cause cancer.

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Bondage Boutique Faux Leather Collar and Leash

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You should buy the Vegan collar and leash if you...

  • don't want to buy animal leather
  • prefer to shop vegan
  • want an in-built leash

You should NOT buy the Vegan collar and leash if you...

  • want to use more than one attachment
  • want a lockable collar
  • don't like belt fastenings

Product description

Bondage Boutique’s cute, yet sexy faux leather collar calls to the vegan perv in all of us! With a generous adjustable belt fastening around the neck, most users will find this collar comfortable for both gentle and rough play. The long leash rotates so that you won’t get stuck in any hilarious predicaments and it allows for safer play. The leash also features a quick-release clip for peace of mind that allows you to focus on the fun control play you love! Even better, vegan leather doesn’t need any softening or leather treatment, meaning it’s pliable and comfortable as soon as you take it out of the box.

Pros

  • Vegan! Vegan! Vegan!
  • Pliable material
  • Adjustable sizing

Cons

  • Doesn't lock
  • Only one O-ring for attachments
  • Not as tight as some collars
Features Vegan collar and leash
AdjustableYes
FlexibilityYes
Materialsleather
Materialsnickel-plated lock
Lengthleash - 38 inches
LengthAdjustable from 14-18.5 inches inches

Conclusion

If you’re after a straightforward, no-fuss collar and lead in one, this is the product for you. It’s fully adjustable and comfortable, which means you can get your kink on without needing to constantly stop and adjust.

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Basics Collar with Nipple Clamps

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You should buy the Basics collar with clamps if you...

  • Want your nipple clamp and collar in one
  • love a clamped nip
  • are on a budget

You should NOT buy the Basics collar with clamps if you...

  • want non-attached nipple clamps
  • want a collar for daily use
  • aren't into clamped nips
  • want a secure collar

Product description

If you really love clamping someone else’s nipples or having yours clamped and you want to do that while attached to a collar, Basics has you covered! The brands collar with clamps can be used in a variety of ways, but it is designed for securing the neck and clamping nipples in an attractive, albeit not comfortable BDSM configuration. This collar with nipple clamps has rave reviews and since it’s so cheap, if you’re even mildly curious, give it a go! The clamps are adjustable and so is the collar, which attaches with a velcro fastening.

Pros

  • Criminally cheap
  • High-quality clamps
  • Comfy velcro fastening

Cons

  • Not lockable
  • Can only adjust the collar so far
  • Velcro fastening not very secure
Features Basics collar with clamps
AdjustableYes
Lengthfrom collar to nipple clamp - 23 inches
Materialsmetal
Waterproofyes

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Conclusion

At such a low price, anyone can get into the leash, nipple clamp and collar game, so if you’ve been curious, this is a great place to start!

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Dominix Deluxe Padded Leather Collar and Wrist Restraint Set

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You should buy the Dominix collar with cuffs if you...

  • want to feel fully restrained
  • need two-in-one bondage
  • are looking for a splurge item

You should NOT buy the Dominix collar with cuffs if you...

  • want a wider range of movement
  • want a collar for daily use
  • like a tighter collar

Product description

This luxurious padded collar attaches at the neck with clips that allow wrist cuffs to be attached to the neck collar. Best for those who have played with restraints before, Dominix’s deluxe cuff-and-collar set restricts a sub’s posture, meaning fun posture play in a variety of ways. Or, it can be used for simple bondage while you have your wicked way with your partner. In addition to the two rings for attaching to the wrist, it has an additional front ring that you can use with a leash or any other attachment for an extra level of naughty fun!

Pros

  • Comfortable bondage experience
  • High-quality metal clips
  • Adjustable neck and wrist sizing

Cons

  • Neck-to-wrist length isn't adjustable
  • Restricted to only one bondage configuration
  • Collar comes up a bit small WhilW
Features Dominix collar with cuffs
Lengthclips - 3.5 inches
Lengthfull set - 14.5 inches
Materialsmetal (nickel)
Materialsleather

Conclusion

While the collar comes up a bit small for larger users, the cuffs have rave reviews, with their sturdiness and fully-wrapped feeling as well as quality making for luxe BDSM play. The price point is a little high for what it is, but the quality is unquestionable, so with the holiday season coming up, this would make a great gift!

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Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring

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You should buy the Dominix collar with cock ring if you...

  • need that sweet cock ring action
  • want to play fun restrictive games
  • like a dual-purpose item

You should NOT buy the Dominix collar with cock ring if you...

  • are worried about movement restriction
  • are picky about cock rings
  • don't fit the size parameters

Product description

Cock rings and collars, oh my! In the case of the Dominix BDSM collar and cock ring, the sky is the limit for the fun you can have! The collar is made from fine leather with a softer inner casing that allows for full fun without unsexy neck chafing. The T-shaped front leads down a 22″ long metal chain to a cock ring made for different sized cocks. Now here’s where the versatile fun really starts: the chain is fully detachable, with a 1.6″ diameter cock ring on one end and a 2″ cock ring on the other. Conversely, you can use either O-shaped ring to attach any number of fun toys and create endless scenarios. This is only recommended for those with experience using cock rings, or very careful first-time users as the potential for injury to either neck or cock is too high with misuse. Remember to always play safely and that consent is king!

Pros

  • Intense bondage experience
  • Luxurious leather collar
  • Two different size cock rings

Cons

  • Only two size options for cock ring
  • Non-adjustable sizing
  • Stiff metal cock ring could cause discomfort
Features Dominix collar with cock ring
Length22 inches
Diametersmall ring - 1.5 inches
Diameterlarge ring - 2 inches
Materialsleather
Materialsmetal
Fasteningbuckle

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Conclusion

This collar and cock ring combo could really take things to the next level between you and your slave. If used correctly and carefully, it can bring fun, pain and pleasure into the bedroom all at once. The metal cock ring may be too restrictive (or too big), so that’ something to consider. But with so many different potential uses, it’s a really fun addition to any Domme or Dom’s collection!

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Alpha Dog Collar with spikes

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You should buy the Alpha spiked dog collar if you...

  • are super into puppy play
  • like a classic butch BDSM look
  • love metal spikes

You should NOT buy the Alpha spiked dog collar if you...

  • hate metal spikes
  • are allergic to metal
  • don't want a lockable collar

Product description

The Stockroom’s Alpha Dog collar has all the iconic gay-scene spiked glory you need! This luxurious spiked collar is perfect if you’re a switch and want to look both Domly and subly swanky all at once. Made of superfine Latigo leather, this BDSM collar features nickel-plated metal spikes and belt buckle fastening with an optional lock. Made for robust play, the hardware is, well, hard and will stand up to rigorous use, hopefully just like the sub in your life. Indulge in power play by locking the collar and taking it off when you say and only then. Use the O-ring for a leash or other toy attachments and have fun! Wear it to Pride or at home, but whatever you do, wear it with pride!

Pros

  • Luxury Latigo leather
  • Lockable for power play
  • Available in S, M, L or XL

Cons

  • Spikes can cause discomfort
  • Not suitable for those with nickel allergies
  • Only one O-ring
Features Alpha spiked dog collar
Width2.5 inches
Length11.5 - 18 inches
Diameterlarge ring - 2 inches
MaterialsLatigo leather
Materialsnickel-plated metal
Fasteningbuckle
Adjustableyes

Conclusion

If you’re into puppy play or dog play, or you just want to signal to other BDSM players that you love the game, this is the collar for you. With both the luxury you need to feel comfortable and exciting elements such as spikes and lockable fastening, you can have tons of fun with this spiked collar.

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Bondage Boutique Black Lace Collar and Cuffs

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You should buy the Bondage Boutique lace collar and cuffs if you...

  • love a chic bondage look
  • want a subtle taste of bondage
  • crave some Victoriana in your BDSM

You should NOT buy the Bondage Boutique lace collar and cuffs if you...

  • have a large or small neck
  • want actual restraints
  • don't like Velcro

Product description

Add a touch of damsel in dress Victorian chic to your BDSM play, every day Goth look or just a good ole lingerie day. Featuring rose gold, delicate chains which are fully detachable and Velcro-fastening chic collar and cuffs, this set is perfect for those who want an intro to the feeling of being restrained. The subtle look can be taken from boudoir to dance floor easily, particularly if you detach the chains. The Velcro fastening is the only real downside to this beauty, as it can cause discomfort or imbue the look with a slightly less classy look. But, at the price point, one can’t complain, especially as it’s soooo pretty.

Pros

  • Sweet lace look
  • Pretty rose gold chain
  • Low price

Cons

  • Gauche velcro fastening
  • No actual bondage use
  • More like lingerie
Features Bondage Boutique lace collar and cuffs
Materialsmetal
Materialsblack lace
Adjustableyes
Flexibilitylots

Conclusion

While it may be slightly more than you’d pay for what is essentially just a decorative bit of lingerie, this set is still cute enough to purchase as a pretty addition to your other, more serious bondage kit. It’s also perfect for bondage babies who are just starting out.

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Sex & Mischief Black Day Collar

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You should buy the Sex & Mischief discreet collar if you...

  • want a day-to-night collar
  • love a discreet look
  • not sure if you want a collar or choker

You should NOT buy the Sex & Mischief discreet collar if you...

  • want serious bondage
  • like a larger collar
  • don't like Velcro

Product description

Add a touch of damsel in dress Victorian chic to your BDSM play, every day Goth look or just a good ole lingerie day. Featuring rose gold, delicate chains which are fully detachable and Velcro-fastening chic collar and cuffs, this set is perfect for those who want an intro to the feeling of being restrained. The subtle look can be taken from boudoir to dance floor easily, particularly if you detach the chains. The Velcro fastening is the only real downside to this beauty, as it can cause discomfort or imbue the look with a slightly less classy look. But, at the price point, one can’t complain, especially as it’s soooo pretty.

Pros

  • Discreet every day look
  • Vegan leather
  • Easy on the wallet

Cons

  • Gauche Velcro fastening
  • No actual bondage use
  • More like lingerie
Features Sex & Mischief discreet collar
Materialsmetal
Materialsblack lace
Adjustableyes
Flexibilitylots

Conclusion

While it may be slightly more than you’d pay for what is essentially just a decorative bit of lingerie, this set is still cute enough to purchase as a pretty addition to your other, more serious bondage kit. It’s also perfect for bondage babies who are just starting out.

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The Traveler Restraint & Bondage 10 Piece Play Kit

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You should buy the The Traveler Restraint & Bondage 10-Piece Play Kit if you...

  • want a full BDSM starter kit
  • want a separate BDSM travel kit
  • love a full range of BDSM toys

You should NOT buy the The Traveler Restraint & Bondage 10-Piece Play Kit if you...

  • don't want to splash out
  • want to purchase each item separately
  • don't like at least six of the items in the kit

Product description

Whether you need to replace a lot of your BDSM play kit, are looking to jump into the world of D/s with both feet or just want a separate kit for travelling (now it’s always work and pleasure), this 10-piece kit from Spectrum Boutique is for you. The handy roll-up kit is available in either red and black or grey and black with rose gold accents. Each item is, honestly, really pretty. The kit includes:

  • blindfold
  • leash
  • collar,
  • wrist cuffs (x 2)
  • ankle cuffs (x 2)
  • cuff chains
  • nipple clamps (x 2)
  • ball gag
  • mini flogger &
  • paddle

Pros

  • Full S&M kit
  • Gorgeous implements
  • 10 pieces

Cons

  • Collar and cuffs are only minimally adjustable
  • Case is a tad flimsy
  • Zinc metal used
Features The Traveler Restraint & Bondage 10-Piece Play Kit
Materialsfaux/vegan leather
Materialszinc-plated metal
Adjustableyes
Flexibilitysome
LengthLeash - 38 inches
LengthCollar - 21 inches
LengthCuffs - 14 inches

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Conclusion

It’s a bit expensive until you think about what’s included and the high quality of the items Spectrum Boutique has produced. As a starter kit or dedicated travel kit, it’s one of the best on the market and will make a fine addition to any BDSM home.

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Master Series Sweet Heart Choker

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You should buy the Pink heart choker if you...

  • want a choker style collar
  • love pink and hearts
  • don't use a leash

You should NOT buy the Pink heart choker if you...

  • want a high-end item
  • use a collar for bondage
  • want a lockable collar

Product description

This cutesy, saccharine-sweet heart choker is a subtle nod to being owned – so subtle, it just looks like a choker! With three snap buttons to fasten it, this pink collar has a softer inner so you can wear it all the time. The faux leather material is great for vegans and the two metal studs make for a cute detail. Perfect for sweet yet naughty fun or for the babygirl / babyboy in your life. Even better, the metal is nickel-free, so get this round your neck!

Pros

  • Cutesy pink colour
  • Darling heart adornment
  • Three-snap closure

Cons

  • Flimsy construction
  • No bondage
  • Not for use with attachments/leashes
Features Pink heart choker
Materialsfaux/vegan leather
Materialszinc-plated metal
Adjustableyes
Fasteningsnap buttons
Length13.5-17.5 inches

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Conclusion

With AdamEve offering a discount code at checkout, this is only $8.95, a total bargain! So even if you just want it for an evening out or for the intimate times at home where you want to show your sub your softer side, it’s worth it.

Stockroom red curved posture collar

How to use a BDSM collar

Always make sure you maintain consent throughout the session. It’s best to have a safeword and always best to check if the person wearing the collar can breathe fine. You can use collars along with a leash to guide or consensually ‘degrade’ a submissive, or for fun play leading the around the bedroom (or house!). Many people in the kink scene wear them as fashion accessories to let others know that they’re a fellow kinkster. Whatever way you use it is really up to you and your partner!

How to clean a BDSM collar

How you clean your collar depends totally on what type of collar it is. If it's metal, a damp cloth is your best bet. If leather, there are specialist leather cleaning products out there. Remember to always check the label and to follow the manufacturer's instructions!

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FAQ

There are a lot of good starter collars in this handy list, but in reality, most collars are easy to use. The best thing to do is discuss with your partner why you both want the collar and what it will be used for. Do you want kitten or puppy play? Then go for something with a bit of metal and a ring to attach a leash. For every day use, you may want something more discreet. The choice is yours!

Of course not! Some people love the look and feel of a collar. Others may have a fairly vanilla relationship, but want to play around with all the different types of collars out there. Historically in the gay male clubbing scene, studded collars have been worn to signify being owned or just to let others know the person wearing it is gay and a kinkster.

This can be a tough one, as collars are almost always worn around the throat area. But if you're a little uneasy about that, buy a looser-fitting collar and wear it low, more toward your collar bone. Play around with different tightness levels and always let your partner know any concerns before play.

BDSM collar?

A collar is an item worn around the neck that signifies a consensual, adult relationship where the willing exchange of power is a key feature. That could be Master and slave, Dom/Domme and sub or any other permutation in the kink world. While most relationships in the "vanilla" world thrive on egalitarian principles, this kind of relationship thrives on hierarchy. That said, lots of people use collars just for fun and play in the bedroom - maybe to achieve a sexy or certain type of look, maybe for use with a leash - there are as many reasons to use a collar as there are people!

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