The 13 Best Bondage Collars for Tons of Fun
How We Rated and Reviews Bondage Collar BDSM Accessories
Collars (as an item) pretty much all do the same things in terms of functionality. Fortunately, by taking a closer look at these items we can objectively assess them against the competition, providing you with the recommendations you want while letting you know which products to avoid. Every item below has been given a “Bedbible Rating”, which is calculated based on a collar’s design, ease of use, and overall quality. This 1 to 5 numerical rating system makes it easy to see which collars are the best; simply read the in-depth review portion to learn why! We also let you know what the average customer thought of their purchase, using buyer reviews from multiple sources to calculate an average “User Ratings” score. Having rated and reviewed over 300 different sex toys, you can trust us to provide you with accurate, honest, and non-biased opinions on every product you see below!
Types of Bondage Collar
You’ll have a few different types of collars to choose from. There are actually a ton of different options perfect for every occasion, such as day collars for daily use or all metal bondage collar sets or that extra bit of restraint. Read about the similarities (and differences) of the most common variants below!
- Dog Collars – These collars are what most people think of when asked to describe a “bondage collar”. As the name suggests, these collars look similar to the collars worn by dogs, often integrating spikes and a D-ring that can have a leash attached to it.
- Decorative (Jewelry) – “Day collars” are decorative collars (often jewelry) that are worn throughout the day. Literally anything can be a decorative collar! To the average person, the collar will simply look like a fashion statement. However, to the BDSM practitioner, it represents their status & devotion in their BDSM relationship.
- Posture – A posture collar is designed to hold a sub’s neck in position, ensuring they have a good posture while wearing the collar.
- Muzzles & Masks – Ideal for people who enjoy roleplaying as animals (such as practitioners of pony or puppy play), muzzles and masks are generally strapped around the entire head and often resemble animals. Depending on the model in question, these items may focus more on visual appearance or primarily on silencing the wearer.
Bondage Collar Features
When selecting a bondage collar, you’ll probably already have a use for it in mind. However, have you considered all the things that your fantasies will actually require? Here are some features you should look for in your new collar.
- Lock – Although many bondage collars don’t come with a lock, you’ll have much more fun when the option to take your collar off is removed! Depending on the quality of the (if included) lock, you may need to upgrade the lock for a truly inescapable option.
- Leash – If puppy play is something you enjoy partaking in then getting a leash is a must! Some leather bondage collar sets will include a leash, but as long as your collar has a D-ring, you can attach a leash to it if one isn’t provided with the collar.
- Nipple Clamps – Add nipple play to your bondage scene using a bondage collar with integrated nipple clamps! You (or your partner) can tug on the chain for a bit of extra discipline.
- Restraints – While you can always buy restraints separately, it’s always fun if the restraints are built-in with the collar! Collars with restraints may be a bit more expensive, but they’ll usually be cheaper than buying each part of the outfit separately.
- Ball Gag – Tired of your sub making too much noise? Sexily silence them with an integrated ball gag! Make sure that the wearer’s mouth can comfortably accommodate the ball gag for extended periods of time to avoid jaw cramps.
FAQ
BDSM collar?
A collar is an item worn around the neck that signifies a consensual, adult relationship where the willing exchange of power is a key feature. That could be Master and slave, Dom/Domme and sub or any other permutation in the kink world. While most relationships in the "vanilla" world thrive on egalitarian principles, this kind of relationship thrives on hierarchy. That said, lots of people use collars just for fun and play in the bedroom - maybe to achieve a sexy or certain type of look, maybe for use with a leash - there are as many reasons to use a collar as there are people!
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The 13 Best bondage collars in Test
Stockroom red curved posture collar
The Stockroom has created a collar that is an absolute winner in its category – a quick Internet search reveals all similar collars to be double or even triple the price. Crafted from fine leather that’s firm and non-markable on the outside, but soft and gentle on the inside, this BDSM sex collar has one D-ring for use with a leash or other connectable toy.
It is available in sizes S, M and L, and closes via a lockable buckle on the back – what this means is that it can be closed, but left unlocked so the wearer can remove it, or it can be locked and the key taken away for fun trust and power play with a partner.
The collar stands 2.5 inches high from base to top and includes a rather thoughtful chin indent, which allows for a more comfortable position along the jawline – for the caring Dom/Domme in your life!
| Width | 2.5 inches |
| Fastening | one lockable |
| Texture | soft |
| Materials | leather |
You genuinely can’t find a posture collar of this size and quality for cheaper on the market. In the beautiful, understate red tone and with classic leather on the outside and softer leather on the inside to protect the skin, it also comes in a decent variety of sizes. With a leash ring and a lockable closure and special chin area, it’s everything you could want from a entry or intermediate-level posture and training collar.
XR Brands five-piece stainless steel shackle set
Hustler Hollywood’s five-piece stainless steel kit is an attractive high-quality bondage item for those who love a touch of Medieval in the boudoir. The sizing may not be for everyone, as it’s only available in either small or large, but if you fit their measurements, this is a fun approach to full body restraint that allows for some movement, if not much comfort.
The great thing about this, though, is that it comes with a full, 30-day money back guarantee, so if it ends up being too restrictive or just not worth the dolla you dished, you’re in good hands.
The pinch-hole lock is invisible once the shackles are fastened, and can be opened easily with the accompanying key. Everything connects by a cute, BDSM-standard O-ring on the torso. This shackle set can also be worn over clothes or as part of a costume for Halloween or a kink event.
| Adjustable | No |
| Flexibility | None |
| Length | neck - 12.5 inches |
| Length | wrist & ankle - 6.75 inches |
If a sexy slave vibe is your go-to, this should be the next purchase for your restraint library. If you’re small or large, this set will have you covered, but those seeking a medium, XL or other sizes will be out of luck. Stainless still has very little give, so be careful and move slowly to avoid any damage to bones or skin. Other than that, get your kink on and have fun!
Heart lock choker
Never a sweeter way to say, “I own you” than this adorable heart locking choker/submissive collar! Available in red or black, this cute little number is made from soft, yet durable latigo leather. Featuring a heart-shaped padlock and corresponding key, this can be worn as a simple piece of costume jewellery as a choker necklace, or be gifted to the sub who has your Domly heart.
This pleasurable piece comes in a variety of sizes, from S-2XL, perfect for necks of any size or shape. There’s no better way to openly show your devotion than wearing your heart right on your neck.
| Adjustable | No |
| Flexibility | Lots |
| Materials | leather |
| Materials | nickel-plated lock |
At such a low price, there really isn’t a way to go wrong with this purchase! It suits both the sweet Dom/sub vibe and the slightly stricter play. And it can be worn as everyday jewellery – it’s the perfect day-to-night accessory!
Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar
Dominix has done it again! This no-frills, handy collar is both versatile and attractive, made from deluxe leather that will make your Dom or Domme as proud as the day you first said, “Your wish is my command”. Featuring a belt fastening, this leather collar is versatile in sizing and who can remove it – handy for if play needs to come to a stop quickly.
Whatever the size of your neck, this collar with two stud embellishments is a must-have little black number for social occasions and private play.
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Flexibility | Yes |
| Materials | leather |
| Materials | nickel-plated lock |
| Length | 21.5 inches |
| Length | Adjustable from 12.5-18 inches inches |
If you need a straight-forward, adjustable, attractive BDSM collar that doesn’t break the bank, look no further!
*Lovehoney disclaimer: long-term exposure to nickel has been found by the state of California to cause cancer.
Bondage Boutique Faux Leather Collar and Leash
Bondage Boutique’s cute, yet sexy faux leather collar calls to the vegan perv in all of us! With a generous adjustable belt fastening around the neck, most users will find this collar comfortable for both gentle and rough play.
The long leash rotates so that you won’t get stuck in any hilarious predicaments and it allows for safer play. The leash also features a quick-release clip for peace of mind that allows you to focus on the fun control play you love!
Even better, vegan leather doesn’t need any softening or leather treatment, meaning it’s pliable and comfortable as soon as you take it out of the box.
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Flexibility | Yes |
| Materials | leather |
| Materials | nickel-plated lock |
| Length | leash - 38 inches |
| Length | Adjustable from 14-18.5 inches inches |
If you’re after a straightforward, no-fuss collar and lead in one, this is the product for you. It’s fully adjustable and comfortable, which means you can get your kink on without needing to constantly stop and adjust.
Basics Collar with Nipple Clamps
If you really love clamping someone else’s nipples or having yours clamped and you want to do that while attached to a collar, Basics has you covered! The brands collar with clamps can be used in a variety of ways, but it is designed for securing the neck and clamping nipples in an attractive, albeit not comfortable BDSM configuration.
This collar with nipple clamps has rave reviews and since it’s so cheap, if you’re even mildly curious, give it a go! The clamps are adjustable and so is the collar, which attaches with a velcro fastening.
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Length | from collar to nipple clamp - 23 inches |
| Materials | metal |
| Waterproof | yes |
At such a low price, anyone can get into the leash, nipple clamp and collar game, so if you’ve been curious, this is a great place to start!
Dominix Deluxe Padded Leather Collar and Wrist Restraint Set
This luxurious padded collar attaches at the neck with clips that allow wrist cuffs to be attached to the neck collar. Best for those who have played with restraints before, Dominix’s deluxe cuff-and-collar set restricts a sub’s posture, meaning fun posture play in a variety of ways.
Or, it can be used for simple bondage while you have your wicked way with your partner. In addition to the two rings for attaching to the wrist, it has an additional front ring that you can use with a leash or any other attachment for an extra level of naughty fun!
| Length | clips - 3.5 inches |
| Length | full set - 14.5 inches |
| Materials | metal (nickel) |
| Materials | leather |
While the collar comes up a bit small for larger users, the cuffs have rave reviews, with their sturdiness and fully-wrapped feeling as well as quality making for luxe BDSM play. The price point is a little high for what it is, but the quality is unquestionable, so with the holiday season coming up, this would make a great gift!
Dominix Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring
Cock rings and collars, oh my! In the case of the Dominix BDSM collar and cock ring, the sky is the limit for the fun you can have! The collar is made from fine leather with a softer inner casing that allows for full fun without unsexy neck chafing. The T-shaped front leads down a 22″ long metal chain to a cock ring made for different sized cocks.
Now here’s where the versatile fun really starts: the chain is fully detachable, with a 1.6″ diameter cock ring on one end and a 2″ cock ring on the other. Conversely, you can use either O-shaped ring to attach any number of fun toys and create endless scenarios.
This is only recommended for those with experience using cock rings, or very careful first-time users as the potential for injury to either neck or cock is too high with misuse. Remember to always play safely and that consent is king!
| Length | 22 inches |
| Diameter | small ring - 1.5 inches |
| Diameter | large ring - 2 inches |
| Materials | leather |
| Materials | metal |
| Fastening | buckle |
This collar and cock ring combo could really take things to the next level between you and your slave. If used correctly and carefully, it can bring fun, pain and pleasure into the bedroom all at once. The metal cock ring may be too restrictive (or too big), so that’ something to consider. But with so many different potential uses, it’s a really fun addition to any Domme or Dom’s collection!
Alpha Dog Collar with spikes
The Stockroom’s Alpha Dog collar has all the iconic gay-scene spiked glory you need! This luxurious spiked collar is perfect if you’re a switch and want to look both Domly and subly swanky all at once. Made of superfine Latigo leather, this BDSM collar features nickel-plated metal spikes and belt buckle fastening with an optional lock.
Made for robust play, the hardware is, well, hard and will stand up to rigorous use, hopefully just like the sub in your life. Indulge in power play by locking the collar and taking it off when you say and only then. Use the O-ring for a leash or other toy attachments and have fun! Wear it to Pride or at home, but whatever you do, wear it with pride!
| Width | 2.5 inches |
| Length | 11.5 - 18 inches |
| Diameter | large ring - 2 inches |
| Materials | Latigo leather |
| Materials | nickel-plated metal |
| Fastening | buckle |
| Adjustable | yes |
If you’re into puppy play or dog play, or you just want to signal to other BDSM players that you love the game, this is the collar for you. With both the luxury you need to feel comfortable and exciting elements such as spikes and lockable fastening, you can have tons of fun with this spiked collar.
Bondage Boutique Black Lace Collar and Cuffs
Add a touch of damsel in dress Victorian chic to your BDSM play, every day Goth look or just a good ole lingerie day. Featuring rose gold, delicate chains which are fully detachable and Velcro-fastening chic collar and cuffs, this set is perfect for those who want an intro to the feeling of being restrained.
The subtle look can be taken from boudoir to dance floor easily, particularly if you detach the chains. The Velcro fastening is the only real downside to this beauty, as it can cause discomfort or imbue the look with a slightly less classy look. But, at the price point, one can’t complain, especially as it’s soooo pretty.
| Materials | metal |
| Materials | black lace |
| Adjustable | yes |
| Flexibility | lots |
While it may be slightly more than you’d pay for what is essentially just a decorative bit of lingerie, this set is still cute enough to purchase as a pretty addition to your other, more serious bondage kit. It’s also perfect for bondage babies who are just starting out.
Sex & Mischief Black Day Collar
Add a touch of damsel in dress Victorian chic to your BDSM play, every day Goth look or just a good ole lingerie day. Featuring rose gold, delicate chains which are fully detachable and Velcro-fastening chic collar and cuffs, this set is perfect for those who want an intro to the feeling of being restrained.
The subtle look can be taken from boudoir to dance floor easily, particularly if you detach the chains. The Velcro fastening is the only real downside to this beauty, as it can cause discomfort or imbue the look with a slightly less classy look. But, at the price point, one can’t complain, especially as it’s soooo pretty.
While it may be slightly more than you’d pay for what is essentially just a decorative bit of lingerie, this set is still cute enough to purchase as a pretty addition to your other, more serious bondage kit. It’s also perfect for bondage babies who are just starting out.
The Traveler Restraint & Bondage 10 Piece Play Kit
Whether you need to replace a lot of your BDSM play kit, are looking to jump into the world of D/s with both feet or just want a separate kit for travelling (now it’s always work and pleasure), this 10-piece kit from Spectrum Boutique is for you.
The handy roll-up kit is available in either red and black or grey and black with rose gold accents. Each item is, honestly, really pretty.
The kit includes:
- blindfold
- leash
- collar,
- wrist cuffs (x 2)
- ankle cuffs (x 2)
- cuff chains
- nipple clamps (x 2)
- ball gag
- mini flogger &
- paddle
It’s a bit expensive until you think about what’s included and the high quality of the items Spectrum Boutique has produced. As a starter kit or dedicated travel kit, it’s one of the best on the market and will make a fine addition to any BDSM home.
Master Series Sweet Heart Choker
This cutesy, saccharine-sweet heart choker is a subtle nod to being owned – so subtle, it just looks like a choker! With three snap buttons to fasten it, this pink collar has a softer inner so you can wear it all the time.
The faux leather material is great for vegans and the two metal studs make for a cute detail. Perfect for sweet yet naughty fun or for the babygirl / babyboy in your life. Even better, the metal is nickel-free, so get this round your neck!
With AdamEve offering a discount code at checkout, this is only $8.95, a total bargain! So even if you just want it for an evening out or for the intimate times at home where you want to show your sub your softer side, it’s worth it.
How to clean a BDSM collar
How you clean your collar depends totally on what type of collar it is. If it's metal, a damp cloth is your best bet. If leather, there are specialist leather cleaning products out there. Remember to always check the label and to follow the manufacturer's instructions!
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.