Are BDSM collars safe?

Yes, provided you use them safely. It's always a good idea to make sure everyone involved with the collared fun are aware of the basic safety principles of any BDSM activity. Communication, consent, and safety is important. More on that later on in this post.

Is genuine leather or faux leather better?

Faux leather tends to be cheaper and requires less maintenance, whereas genuine leather requires more upkeep but is also considered to be a premium material.

How long can you wear a BDSM collar?

It really depends a lot on the type of collar you're wearing. A slim and mildly restrictive day collar may be alright to wear for longer periods of time. More heavy duty collars that restrict the movement in your neck and head should not be worn for more than 30 minutes at a time.

Can a dom wear a sub collar?

Yes, a dom could wear a sub collar if they wanted to. Ultimately, what the collar(s) mean to you is defined by yourself and your partner, although others might wonder why you are wearing one.

What type of collar is best for beginners?

There are a lot of good starter collars in this handy list, but in reality, most collars are easy to use. The best thing to do is discuss with your partner why you both want the collar and what it will be used for. Do you want kitten or puppy play? Then go for something with a bit of metal and a ring to attach a leash. For every day use, you may want something more discreet. The choice is yours!

Do I need a leash for my collar?

No, it’s perfectly fine to use a collar without a leash. Whether or not you decide to use one is up to you and your partner!

Are collars just for BDSM?

Of course not! Some people love the look and feel of a collar. Others may have a fairly vanilla relationship, but want to play around with all the different types of collars out there. Historically in the gay male clubbing scene, studded collars have been worn to signify being owned or just to let others know the person wearing it is gay and a kinkster.

I want to wear my collar all day long: is there anything I should consider?

If you’re planning on wearing a collar all day, we’d recommend choosing a collar that has padding on the inside. Of course, if you enjoy the discomfort then there’s nothing wrong with forgoing the padding: it’s all up to personal preference!

What if I struggle with things around my neck but still want a collar?

This can be a tough one, as collars are almost always worn around the throat area. But if you're a little uneasy about that, buy a looser-fitting collar and wear it low, more toward your collar bone. Play around with different tightness levels and always let your partner know any concerns before play.

What if my sub collar restricts my breathing?

Although bondage does involve restriction, limiting your ability to breathe is generally something you’ll want to avoid. If your collar restricts your breathing, either loosen the collar or purchase a bigger one.

How to make a BDSM collar?

You can technically fashion a BDSM collar out of a few household items, like silk scarfs, rope, or an old belt. Although it is very important to exercise basic caution when it comes to devices that could restrict breathing or mobility in the neck! I would recommend buying a cheap collar that ensures a basic level of comfort and safety instead of fashioning one for yourself. We generally do not recommend making your own sex toys and always recommend that you purchase purpose-made sex toys from a reputable shop. We are in no way responsible for any harm caused due to the use or sharing of these DIYs. You are 100% responsible for the outcome should you choose to make your own sex toys.

What does it mean when a dom collars a sub?

When a dom collars a sub, it means that they have claimed that person as their submissive. This could be in the role of their entire D/s relationship, or simply in a roleplaying situation.

Which bondage collar should I wear?

It depends on the meaning behind it. If it’s purely for fashion, then the choice is yours! If it’s for BDSM play, you’ll want something rugged that won’t rip under pressure. If it’s to represent your BDSM relationship then you’ll want to discuss the options with your partner. Regardless of the reasoning behind your purchase, you’ll want to make sure that it’s comfortable to wear (especially if it’s going to be a day collar!).

When are sub collars worn?

Sub collars can be worn for many different reasons. While play collars are often worn simply to establish roles during kink play, other types of collars (such as protection collars or permanent collars) signify the sub’s status in their current D/s relationship.

What to look for in a bondage collar?

If you’re wearing it as a fashion statement, choose any collar that fits your desired look. If you’re wearing it for BDSM play, we’d recommend opting for a collar with a D-ring that can be used to hook attachments to (such as nipple clamps).

Are sexual collars only for subs?

No, doms can wear them too! Even if you’re not into powerplay, they can be used. And they should, they’re a lot of fun!

Are sexual collars uncomfortable?

Most sex collars will sit comfortably as long as you adjust them to the right fit. Not too tight, not too loose.

Are collars the mark of a sub?

While collars are worn almost exclusively by subs, simply wearing a collar doesn’t always signify that someone is a sub. For some, the collar is simply a fashion statement.

Can sexual collars be dangerous?

Sex collars are not dangerous, as long as they are not too tight, they are perfectly safe to use. If you are worried about safety being an issue during playtime, make sure you have a safety word or safety action so that you can signal to your partner that it’s time to stop.

What is a mark of a dom?

The mark of a dom is the method in which a dom claims “ownership” of his sub. This can be done in various methods including (but not limited to) branding, tattoos, urine, ejaculate, bite marks, or ink.

Do I need to wear a sexual collar if I'm a sub?

You don’t *need* to wear a collar if you don’t want to. While they’re certainly a common accessory, whether or not to include a collar in your roleplay is between you and your dom!

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17 Best BDSM Collars For Bondage and Submissive Sex

bySarah Williams

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|Updated: November 06, 2023

This post are my rankings of the 17 best Bondage Collars meant for BDSM relationship and sex play. These rankings are the results of months of testing and comparison by myself and the Bedbible Testers.

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Bondage Boutique Collar and Lead Set	DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar	Stockroom Posture Collar	XR Brands Steel Shackle Set	BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps	Sex & Mischief Shadow Sparkle Collar & Cuffs	Spiked Alpha Dog Collar	DOMINIX Deluxe Collar with Cock Ring	Bondage Boutique Glow Collar and Leash	Bondage Boutique Lace Collar and Cuffs	Sportsheets Neck and Wrist Restraint	Posture Collar With Silicone Ball Gag	Sex & Mischief Black Day Collar	Master Series Sweet Heart Choker	Heart Lock Choker	Zoë Ligon x The Stockroom Leather Collar	Spartacus Slut Collar
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Pros ✅Aesthetically Pleasing ✅Leash & Collar Set ✅Soft Fur Lining Cons ❌Cheap lead material	Pros ✅Made of real deluxe leather ✅Soft, padded inner for comfort ✅Adjustable sizing Cons ❌No locking mechanism ❌Design may not appeal to everyone ❌Not as tight as some collars	Pros ✅Affordable ✅Great for controlling your sub's posture ✅Soft inner and durable outer Cons ❌Only available in black ❌May be too tall for some wearers	Pros ✅Wipe clean ✅Exciting five-piece configuration ✅Slave appeal Cons ❌Lack of sizing variety ❌No flexibility at vulnerable areas ❌Collar and cuffs are not adjustable	Pros ✅Affordable ✅Adjustable alligator-style nipple clamps ✅Easy Velcro fastening Cons ❌Not lockable ❌Velcro fastening not very secure	Pros ✅Sultry, sparkly design ✅Adjustable collar and cuffs ✅Versatile chain Cons ❌Chain could be longer ❌Collar is only fastened with Velcro, and is not lockable ❌Sparkly material may irritate sensitive skin	Pros ✅Luxury Latigo leather ✅Lockable for power play ✅Available in S, M, L or XL Cons ❌Spikes can cause discomfort ❌Not suitable for those with nickel allergies ❌Only one O-ring	Pros ✅Intense bondage experience ✅Luxurious leather collar ✅Two different size cock rings Cons ❌Only two size options for cock ring ❌Non-adjustable sizing ❌Stiff metal cock ring could cause discomfort	Pros ✅Affordable ✅Vegan leather ✅Glows in the dark! Cons ❌Lower quality ❌Can stain easily ❌Some may prefer a longer leash	Pros ✅Sweet lace look ✅Pretty rose gold chain ✅Low price Cons ❌Velcro fastening ❌No actual bondage use ❌More like lingerie	Pros ✅Restraints ✅Removeable Cuffs ✅Comfy/Non-itchy material Cons ❌Made from cheaper material	Pros ✅Removeable ball gag ✅Collar keeps head at a fixed angle ✅Made to last Cons ❌Expensive ❌May be intimidating for begginers	Pros ✅Discreet and versatile ✅Comfortable velvet ✅Easy to put on Cons ❌Not so durable ❌May not stand up to more intense play ❌One-Size	Pros ✅Cutesy pink colour ✅Darling heart adornment ✅Three-snap closure Cons ❌Flimsy construction ❌No bondage ❌Not for use with attachments/leashes	Pros ✅Tough but soft Latigo leather ✅Heart-shaped lock and key ✅Suitable for bondage play and day wear Cons ❌Only available in two colours ❌Only fits necks up to 16.5 inches around ❌Heart lock may feel too chunky for some	Pros ✅Cute and elegant look ✅Gender-neutral colors meant to include all kinds of kinksters ✅Suitable for heavy duty use Cons ❌Only available in one color	Pros ✅Great tool for humiliation play ✅Sexy accessory for visual stimulation ✅Adjustable Cons ❌No attachment points for a leash ❌Not suitable for heavy duty use ❌Limited adjustability
My verdict The super-soft fur lining means that you won’t have to worry about any rubbing or chaffing on the neck. And if you’re into aesthetics then its rose pattern will definitely be easy on the eye. This sex collar is definitely worth the money, it’s budget-friendly and comes with a lea... Read review	My verdict If you need a straight-forward, adjustable, attractive BDSM collar that doesn’t break the bank, look no further! ... Read review	My verdict You genuinely can’t find a posture collar of this size and quality for cheaper on the market. In the beautiful, understate black color and with classic leather on the outside and softer leather on the inside to protect the skin, it also comes in a decent variety of sizes. W... Read review	My verdict If a sexy slave vibe is your go-to, this should be the next purchase for your restraint library. If you’re small or large, this set will have you covered, but those seeking in-between sizes will be out of luck. Stainless steel has no give to it, so be careful and move slowl... Read review	My verdict At such a low price, anyone can get into the leash, nipple clamp and collar game, so if you’ve been curious, this is a great place to start. The BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps is incredibly easy-to-use, making it suitable for beginners. The adjustable nature of the nipple... Read review	My verdict If you’re all about the look, you can’t get much more sexy and sultry than this collar and cuffs set. Try wearing it for a sensual photoshoot and leave your partner drooling for more! It also works great for BDSM play, though the chain may not stand up to more intense... Read review	My verdict If you’re into puppy play or dog play, or you just want to signal to other BDSM players that you love the game, this is the collar for you. With both the luxury you need to feel comfortable and exciting elements such as spikes and lockable fastening, you can have tons of fu... Read review	My verdict This collar and cock ring combo could really take things to the next level between you and your slave. If used correctly and carefully, it can bring fun, pain and pleasure into the bedroom all at once. The metal cock ring may be too restrictive (or too big), so that’ someth... Read review	My verdict After my experience with the Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash, I can confidently say it’s a unique and enjoyable addition to my BDSM toolkit. I was a little unimpressed with its initial appearance, but its glow-in-the-dark feature truly shines, adding a fu... Read review	My verdict While it may be slightly more than you’d pay for what is essentially just a decorative bit of lingerie, this set is still cute enough to purchase as a pretty addition to your other, more serious bondage kit. It’s also perfect for bondage babies who are just starting o... Read review	My verdict The neoprene velcro means that you won’t have to worry about this collar scratching or chaffing, the collar is also padded making it super comfortable for any sub. This set isn’t just great value for money but it’s also very versatile as the cuffs can be replaced with lockable or... Read review	My verdict Although this is an expensive leather sex collar, it is definitely worth it and should be a staple piece in everyone’s bondage collection. The D-Ring at the front also means that you can attach other accessories to it, think a lead, cock ring, wrist restraints, the possibilities ... Read review	My verdict If discretion is the name of the game for you, and you’re looking for a comfy, cozy collar fit, then I highly recommend the Sex & Mischief Day Collar. It may not stand up to intense tugging due to the Velcro fastening, it’s perfect for creating that sensual, submi... Read review	My verdict With AdamEve offering a discount code at checkout, this is only $8.95, a total bargain! So even if you just want it for an evening out or for the intimate times at home where you want to show your sub your softer side, it’s worth it. ... Read review	My verdict At such a low price, there really isn’t a way to go wrong with this purchase! It suits both the sweet Dom/sub vibe and the slightly stricter play. And, it can be worn as everyday jewellery — it’s the perfect day-to-night accessory! ... Read review	My verdict I’ve chosen this collaboration item as the test winner of this round-up review because of it’s glowing reviews and versatile look and feel. This collar can be used as a cute fashion statement, a sexy accessory during non-BDSM activities, and, of course, a functional a... Read review	My verdict Even though this collar is purely decorative and does not offer tue functionality in that heavy-duty-bondage sense, I would still say it has plenty of function! Alone the role this sexy visual statement piece could add to your arousal if you’re a fan of humilitation play or... Read review

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How We Rated and Reviews Bondage Collar BDSM Accessories

Bondage collars (as an item) pretty much all do the same things in terms of functionality. Fortunately, by taking a closer look at these items, I can objectively assess them against the competition, providing you with the recommendations you want while letting you know which products to avoid. Every item below has been given a “Bedbible Rating”, which is calculated based on a collar’s design, ease of use, and overall quality. This 1 to 5 numerical rating system makes it easy to see which collars are the best; simply read the in-depth review portion to learn why! I’ve also let you know what the average customer thought of their purchase, using buyer reviews from multiple sources to calculate an average “User Ratings” score. Having rated and reviewed over 300 different sex toys, you can trust Bedbible to provide you with accurate, honest, and non-biased opinions on every product you see below!

Things to Consider

Although it can be tempting to purchase the first sub collar that catches your eye, there are a few things you’ll want to consider before swiping your card.

Size – Will the collar fit around your sub’s neck? If the collar in question has other adornments (such as harnesses), you’ll need to ensure that these will fit properly as well.
Lockable – While having a sub collar that can be locked is a nice touch for some, others may not require it. Generally, a non-lockable collar will be cheaper.
Comfort – You should establish how long you intend your sub to wear this specific collar. If it’s only for short-term wearing then comfort is less important. However, if you intend this collar to be worn for extended periods of time then comfortability is especially important.
D-rings – If you’re buying a sub collar with the idea of chaining your sub, then you’ll want to make sure that the collar in question has D-rings. Without these, you won’t have any safe ways to chain your sub!
Style – This all comes down to personal preference. While traditional leather collars are great, you may want to consider alternative options before settling down with the basics.

Reviews of the 17 best bondage collars

Test Winner Bondage Boutique Collar and Lead Set

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4.5/5.0

Overall Rating

80/100

Design

100/100

Ease of Use

70/100

Quality

Low

Price

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I recommend Bondage Boutique Collar and Lead Set for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.

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A Closer Look at the Bondage Boutique Collar and Lead Set

If you’re looking for a sex collar and leash set that does the job and looks beautiful while doing it then this is the one for you! This collar is adjustable, so you’ll find a snug fit somewhere between its 13.5” and 16.5” adjustable length. It also comes with a 39” lead to fulfil those BDSM fantasies.

Pros

✅ Aesthetically Pleasing
✅ Leash & Collar Set
✅ Soft Fur Lining
✅ Lead is removeable
✅ Budget friendly

Cons

❌ Cheap lead material

My verdict

The super-soft fur lining means that you won’t have to worry about any rubbing or chaffing on the neck. And if you’re into aesthetics then its rose pattern will definitely be easy on the eye. This sex collar is definitely worth the money, it’s budget-friendly and comes with a lead. What more could a sub want? If you’re looking for something that uses high-quality material, then the thin lead might be a turn-off for you. But you could always replace it with a different one.

You should buy the Bondage Boutique Collar and Lead Set if you...

are looking for something aesthetically pleasing
are into BDSM play
want a collar that doesn't rub or chafe

You should not buy the Bondage Boutique Collar and Lead Set if you...

want something with higher quality materials
don't like BDSM play
prefer plain collars

Padded DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar

4.7/5.0

Overall Rating

80/100

Design

95/100

Ease of Use

80/100

Quality

Low

Price

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I recommend DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.

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A Closer Look at the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar

DOMINIX Deluxe has done it again! This no-frills, handy collar is both versatile and attractive, made from deluxe leather that will make your Dom or Domme as proud as the day you first said, “Your wish is my command”. Featuring a belt fastening, this leather collar is versatile in sizing and who can remove it – handy for if play needs to come to a stop quickly.

Whatever the size of your neck, this collar with two stud embellishments is a must-have little black number for social occasions and private play.

Pros

✅ Made of real deluxe leather
✅ Soft, padded inner for comfort
✅ Adjustable sizing
✅ Beginner-friendly

Cons

❌ No locking mechanism
❌ Design may not appeal to everyone
❌ Not as tight as some collars

My verdict

If you need a straight-forward, adjustable, attractive BDSM collar that doesn’t break the bank, look no further!

You should buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar if you...

Need a standard O-ring collar
Are looking for a comfortable bondage collar
Want something lightweight to wear

You should not buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar if you...

Want to attach more than one accessory
Are looking for a lockable BDSM collar
Don't want a real leather collar

Posture Stockroom Tall Curved Posture Collar

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4.8/5.0

Overall Rating

85/100

Design

70/100

Ease of Use

100/100

Quality

Low

Price

Recommended for

I advise Stockroom Tall Curved Posture Collar for intermediate users, as it offers a good balance of complexity and learning potential.

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A Closer Look at the Stockroom Tall Curved Posture Collar

The Stockroom has created a collar that is an absolute winner in its category — a quick Internet search reveals all similar collars to be double or even triple the price. Crafted from fine leather that’s firm and non-markable on the outside, but soft and gentle on the inside, this BDSM sex collar has one D-ring for use with a leash or other connectable toy.

It is available in sizes S, M and L, and closes via a lockable buckle on the back – what this means is that it can be closed, but left unlocked so the wearer can remove it, or it can be locked and the key taken away for fun trust and power play with a partner.

The collar stands 4 inches high from base to top and includes a rather thoughtful chin indent, which allows for a more comfortable position along the jawline — for the caring Dom/Domme in your life!

Pros

✅ Affordable
✅ Great for controlling your sub's posture
✅ Soft inner and durable outer

Cons

❌ Only available in black
❌ May be too tall for some wearers

My verdict

You genuinely can’t find a posture collar of this size and quality for cheaper on the market. In the beautiful, understate black color and with classic leather on the outside and softer leather on the inside to protect the skin, it also comes in a decent variety of sizes. With a leash ring and a lockable closure and special chin area, it’s everything you could want from a intermediate to advanced level posture or training collar. Just make sure to check the measurements first, as this bondage collar is definitely on the tall side!

You should buy the Stockroom Tall Curved Posture Collar if you...

Like good posture in a sub
Are seeking a touch of elegance
Want a sturdy and crease-proof bondage collar

You should not buy the Stockroom Tall Curved Posture Collar if you...

Want a collar for daily wear
Have a shorter neck and need a posture collar less than 4 inches tall
Aren't into real leather

Metal XR Brands 5 Piece Stainless Steel Shackle Set

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4.2/5.0

Overall Rating

80/100

Design

70/100

Ease of Use

85/100

Quality

High

Price

Recommended for

I endorse XR Brands 5 Piece Stainless Steel Shackle Set for experts due to its advanced features. Beginners ambitious for a challenge will find it a robust tool for growth.

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A Closer Look at the XR Brands 5 Piece Stainless Steel Shackle Set

This five-piece stainless steel shackle kit is an attractive, high-quality bondage item for those who love a touch of the Medieval in the boudoir. The sizing may not be for everyone, as it’s only available in either small or large, but if you fit their measurements, this is a fun approach to full body restraint that allows for some movement, if not much comfort.

The pinch-hole lock is invisible once the shackles are fastened, and can be opened easily with the accompanying key. Everything connects by a cute, BDSM-standard O-ring on the torso. This shackle set can also be worn over clothes or as part of a costume for Halloween or a kink event.

Small:

Collar: 15″ circumference; Wrist Cuffs: 6.75″ circumference; Ankle Cuffs: 7.25″ circumference; Collar Chain: 12.5″ long; Wrist & Ankle Chains: 6.75″ long; Chain Between O-Rings: 30.25″ long

Large:

Collar: 17.5″ circumference; Wrist Cuffs: 7.25″ circumference; Ankle Cuffs: 8.5″ circumference; Collar Chain: 12.5″ long; Wrist & Ankle Chains: 6.75″ long; Chain between O-Rings: 31.25″ long

Pros

✅ Wipe clean
✅ Exciting five-piece configuration
✅ Slave appeal

Cons

❌ Lack of sizing variety
❌ No flexibility at vulnerable areas
❌ Collar and cuffs are not adjustable

My verdict

If a sexy slave vibe is your go-to, this should be the next purchase for your restraint library. If you’re small or large, this set will have you covered, but those seeking in-between sizes will be out of luck. Stainless steel has no give to it, so be careful and move slowly to avoid any damage to your body. Other than that, get your kink on and have fun!

You should buy the XR Brands 5 Piece Stainless Steel Shackle Set if you...

Are looking to take bondage to the next level
Want a collar and restraint set
Love the stainless steel look

You should not buy the XR Brands 5 Piece Stainless Steel Shackle Set if you...

Aren't prepared to pay a premium price
Are looking for an adjustable bondage collar
Want a collar suitable for day wear

With Nipple Clamps BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps

Product BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps

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4.4/5.0

Overall Rating

75/100

Design

90/100

Ease of Use

70/100

Quality

Low

Price

Recommended for

I suggest BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.

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A Closer Look at the BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps

If you really love clamping someone else’s nipples or having yours clamped and you want to do that while attached to a collar, BASICS has you covered! This collar with attached alligator nipple clamps creates a real feeling of submission, and you’ll be left in a predicament of whether to stay still or move your body and have the chains tug on your nips. It’s also incredibly affordable, so if you’re even mildly curious, give it a go! The clamps are adjustable and so is the collar, which attaches with a super easy Velcro fastening.

Pros

✅ Affordable
✅ Adjustable alligator-style nipple clamps
✅ Easy Velcro fastening

Cons

❌ Not lockable
❌ Velcro fastening not very secure

My verdict

At such a low price, anyone can get into the leash, nipple clamp and collar game, so if you’ve been curious, this is a great place to start. The BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps is incredibly easy-to-use, making it suitable for beginners. The adjustable nature of the nipple clamps is also an advantage, allowing for a customizable level of intensity, and who can resist the look of the chain draped attractively between the breasts?

Keep in mind, however, that this bondage collar may not be sturdy or secure enough for some. Plus, it’s important to check the measurements before you buy!

You should buy the BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps if you...

Want an accessory that feels both sexy and submissive
Enjoy intense nipple stimulation
Are on a budget

You should not buy the BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps if you...

Want a collar for daily use
Aren't into clamped nips
Are looking for a more heavy-duty collar

With Cuffs Sex & Mischief Shadow Sparkle Collar and Cuff Set

Product Sex & Mischief Shadow Sparkle Collar and Cuff Set

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4.8/5.0

Overall Rating

95/100

Design

90/100

Ease of Use

85/100

Quality

Low

Price

Recommended for

I recommend Sex & Mischief Shadow Sparkle Collar and Cuff Set for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.

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A Closer Look at the Sex & Mischief Shadow Sparkle Collar and Cuff Set

This super cute, sparkly bondage collar has a D-ring at the neck that leads down to two equally sparkly wrist cuffs, ready to keep you or your sub trained and restrained. Each cuff has an adjustable buckle closure, and the collar has an easy Velcro closure. Since the chain can be unhooked and repositioned, you can wear it as is or experiment with different positions and postures. For example, you could also wear the chain just around the cuffs, without attaching them to the collar, or loop both cuffs on the chain hook to allow for more movement. With the D-ring on the collar, you’re also free to attach additional accessories, like a leash!

Pros

✅ Sultry, sparkly design
✅ Adjustable collar and cuffs
✅ Versatile chain

Cons

❌ Chain could be longer
❌ Collar is only fastened with Velcro, and is not lockable
❌ Sparkly material may irritate sensitive skin

My verdict

If you’re all about the look, you can’t get much more sexy and sultry than this collar and cuffs set. Try wearing it for a sensual photoshoot and leave your partner drooling for more! It also works great for BDSM play, though the chain may not stand up to more intense play or any drastic movements. However, reviewers have reported that the materials are comfortable and easy to use, especially for beginners!

You should buy the Sex & Mischief Shadow Sparkle Collar and Cuff Set if you...

Want to feel fully restrained
Like the idea of a two-in-one bondage collar
Are into the cute, sparkly aesthetic

You should not buy the Sex & Mischief Shadow Sparkle Collar and Cuff Set if you...

Would prefer a wider range of movement
Want a lockable collar
Are looking for strong chains that can withstand more pulling

Spiked Alpha Dog Collar with Spikes

4.8/5.0

Overall Rating

100/100

Design

85/100

Ease of Use

100/100

Quality

Medium

Price

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I advise Alpha Dog Collar with Spikes for intermediate users, as it offers a good balance of complexity and learning potential.

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A Closer Look at the Alpha Dog Collar with Spikes

The Stockroom’s Alpha Dog collar has all the iconic gay-scene spiked glory you need! This luxurious spiked collar is perfect if you’re a switch and want to look both Domly and subly swanky all at once. Made of superfine Latigo leather, this BDSM collar features nickel-plated metal spikes and belt buckle fastening with an optional lock.

Made for robust play, the hardware is, well, hard and will stand up to rigorous use, hopefully just like the sub in your life. Indulge in power play by locking the collar and taking it off when you say and only then. Use the O-ring for a leash or other toy attachments and have fun! Wear it to Pride or at home, but whatever you do, wear it with pride!

Pros

✅ Luxury Latigo leather
✅ Lockable for power play
✅ Available in S, M, L or XL

Cons

❌ Spikes can cause discomfort
❌ Not suitable for those with nickel allergies
❌ Only one O-ring

My verdict

If you’re into puppy play or dog play, or you just want to signal to other BDSM players that you love the game, this is the collar for you. With both the luxury you need to feel comfortable and exciting elements such as spikes and lockable fastening, you can have tons of fun with this spiked collar.

You should buy the Alpha Dog Collar with Spikes if you...

Are super into puppy play
Like the classic butch BDSM look
Want a kinky collar that also functions as a posture collar

You should not buy the Alpha Dog Collar with Spikes if you...

Want a more subtle spiked or studded look
Aren't into real leather
Are sensitive to nickel

With Cock Ring DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring

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4.5/5.0

Overall Rating

90/100

Design

80/100

Ease of Use

80/100

Quality

Low

Price

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I suggest DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.

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A Closer Look at the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring

Cock rings and collars, oh my! In the case of the DOMINIX Deluxe BDSM collar and cock ring, the sky is the limit for the fun you can have! The collar is made from fine leather with a softer inner casing that allows for full fun without unsexy neck chafing. The T-shaped front leads down a 22″ long metal chain to a cock ring made for different sized cocks.

Now here’s where the versatile fun really starts: the chain is fully detachable, with a 1.6″ diameter cock ring on one end and a 2″ cock ring on the other. Conversely, you can use either O-shaped ring to attach any number of fun toys and create endless scenarios.

This is only recommended for those with experience using cock rings, or very careful first-time users as the potential for injury to either neck or cock is too high with misuse. Remember to always play safely and that consent is king!

Pros

✅ Intense bondage experience
✅ Luxurious leather collar
✅ Two different size cock rings

Cons

❌ Only two size options for cock ring
❌ Non-adjustable sizing
❌ Stiff metal cock ring could cause discomfort

My verdict

This collar and cock ring combo could really take things to the next level between you and your slave. If used correctly and carefully, it can bring fun, pain and pleasure into the bedroom all at once. The metal cock ring may be too restrictive (or too big), so that’ something to consider. But with so many different potential uses, it’s a really fun addition to any Domme or Dom’s collection!

You should buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring if you...

Have a penis, or have a partner that enjoys wearing a cock ring
Want to play fun restrictive games
Like the idea of having your cock on a leash

You should not buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Cock Ring if you...

Are looking for a flexible cock ring
Don't fit the size parameters

Vegan Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash

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4.3/5.0

Overall Rating

85/100

Design

95/100

Ease of Use

70/100

Quality

Low

Price

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I recommend Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.

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A Closer Look at the Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash

The Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash Set is a perfect initiation tool for those exploring the world of BDSM or kink. This unique set, featuring a collar and leash, is made from a flexible faux leather material that transforms from a subtle white in daylight to a captivating glow when darkness falls, adding an element of surprise to your nocturnal adventures. The collar has seven adjustable holes and a buckle fastening, ensuring a comfortable fit for a variety of neck sizes. The interior is lined with a soft fabric to ensure comfort for the neck and hands. This set is a great choice for those who prefer to avoid real leather, but still enjoy an edgier look.

Pros

✅ Affordable
✅ Vegan leather
✅ Glows in the dark!
✅ Beginner-friendly

Cons

❌ Lower quality
❌ Can stain easily
❌ Some may prefer a longer leash

My verdict

After my experience with the Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash, I can confidently say it’s a unique and enjoyable addition to my BDSM toolkit. I was a little unimpressed with its initial appearance, but its glow-in-the-dark feature truly shines, adding a fun twist to our playtime. It’s comfortable, easy to use, and affordable, although it may not be the most durable piece of kit long-term.

You should buy the Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash if you...

Like the idea of a leash with your collar
Like the leather look, but want to stay away from animal products
Enjoy a bit of whimsy or fantasy in your bondage play
Are on a budget

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Are looking for a premium looking and feeling bondage collar
Prefer a more traditional kinky look
Want a more subtle or cute collar for day wear

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Lacy Bondage Boutique Black Lace Collar and Cuffs

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4.1/5.0

Overall Rating

90/100

Design

100/100

Ease of Use

70/100

Quality

Low

Price

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I recommend Bondage Boutique Black Lace Collar and Cuffs for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.

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A Closer Look at the Bondage Boutique Black Lace Collar and Cuffs

Add a touch of damsel in dress Victorian chic to your BDSM play, every day Goth look or just a good ole lingerie day. Featuring rose gold, delicate chains which are fully detachable and Velcro-fastening chic collar and cuffs, this set is perfect for those who want an intro to the feeling of being restrained.

The subtle look can be taken from boudoir to dance floor easily, particularly if you detach the chains. The Velcro fastening is the only real downside to this beauty, as it can cause discomfort or imbue the look with a slightly less classy look. But, at the price point, one can’t complain, especially as it’s soooo pretty.

Pros

✅ Sweet lace look
✅ Pretty rose gold chain
✅ Low price
✅ Stretchy material

Cons

❌ Velcro fastening
❌ No actual bondage use
❌ More like lingerie

My verdict

While it may be slightly more than you’d pay for what is essentially just a decorative bit of lingerie, this set is still cute enough to purchase as a pretty addition to your other, more serious bondage kit. It’s also perfect for bondage babies who are just starting out.

You should buy the Bondage Boutique Black Lace Collar and Cuffs if you...

Love a chic bondage look
Want a subtle taste of bondage
Crave some Victoriana in your BDSM

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Have a large or small neck
Are looking for more sturdy restraints

With restraints/cuffs Sportsheets Neck and Wrist Restraint

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4.3/5.0

Overall Rating

70/100

Design

70/100

Ease of Use

70/100

Quality

Low

Price

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I recommend Sportsheets Neck and Wrist Restraint for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.

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A Closer Look at the Sportsheets Neck and Wrist Restraint

Whether you’re looking to get down and dirty into some BDSM play or you’ve been at it for years, this is the sex collar for you. This collar has 9-D Rings along the back so that you can adjust the restraints to the height that you’d like. The collar and cuffs are also adjustable by velcro, so anyone is sure to find a snug fit.

Pros

✅ Restraints
✅ Removeable Cuffs
✅ Comfy/Non-itchy material

Cons

❌ Made from cheaper material

My verdict

The neoprene velcro means that you won’t have to worry about this collar scratching or chaffing, the collar is also padded making it super comfortable for any sub. This set isn’t just great value for money but it’s also very versatile as the cuffs can be replaced with lockable or even tighter cuffs to up the kink and please advanced players.

You should buy the Sportsheets Neck and Wrist Restraint if you...

Love using restraints or being restrained
Like BDSM play
Want something that's versatile
Want removeable cuffs

You should not buy the Sportsheets Neck and Wrist Restraint if you...

Don't like restraints
Want something straight forward to use
Want something that's high quality

With Ball Gag Posture Collar With Silicone Ball Gag

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4.7/5.0

Overall Rating

100/100

Design

90/100

Ease of Use

100/100

Quality

High

Price

Recommended for

I find Posture Collar With Silicone Ball Gag ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.

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A Closer Look at the Posture Collar With Silicone Ball Gag

Looking to silence your sub? This is the sex collar for you. Made from beautiful, high-quality leather, this curved collar will keep your subs head positioned at the right angle and silence them with a silicone ball gag. You will have complete control over your sub as it’s lockable at the back. It also comes in three different sizes, small, medium and large, so you won’t have to compromise on fit.

Pros

✅ Removeable ball gag
✅ Collar keeps head at a fixed angle
✅ Made to last
✅ Three different sizing options
✅ High quality leather
✅ D-Ring at front to attach other accesories

Cons

❌ Expensive
❌ May be intimidating for begginers

My verdict

Although this is an expensive leather sex collar, it is definitely worth it and should be a staple piece in everyone’s bondage collection. The D-Ring at the front also means that you can attach other accessories to it, think a lead, cock ring, wrist restraints, the possibilities are really endless. Don’t fancy the ball gag? That can be removed too. Ball gag not tight enough? It can be tightened. This collar really is a no brainer.

You should buy the Posture Collar With Silicone Ball Gag if you...

Are looking for a high quality collar
Are not on a budget
Are an advanced/intermediate player
Love the idea of using a ball gag
Are looking for a versatile collar
Are looking for a collar to use with other accessories, e.g. lead, cuffs

You should not buy the Posture Collar With Silicone Ball Gag if you...

Are on a budget
Are a begginer

Discreet Sex & Mischief Black Day Collar

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4.7/5.0

Overall Rating

85/100

Design

100/100

Ease of Use

80/100

Quality

Low

Price

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I recommend Sex & Mischief Black Day Collar for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.

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A Closer Look at the Sex & Mischief Black Day Collar

The Day Collar from Sex & Mischief is a versatile accessory that can be sported both in public and in the bedroom. It’s light and comfortable to wear, thanks to the velvet interior and vinyl exterior. On the front, you’ll find a metal ring that you can attach a leash or charm to, but it also looks great on its own! The low-profile design means it can pass easily as an everyday choker.

Pros

✅ Discreet and versatile
✅ Comfortable velvet
✅ Easy to put on

Cons

❌ Not so durable
❌ May not stand up to more intense play
❌ One-Size

My verdict

If discretion is the name of the game for you, and you’re looking for a comfy, cozy collar fit, then I highly recommend the Sex & Mischief Day Collar. It may not stand up to intense tugging due to the Velcro fastening, it’s perfect for creating that sensual, submissive look.

You should buy the Sex & Mischief Black Day Collar if you...

Want a day-to-night collar
Are looking for a discreet but kinky collar
Aren't sure if you want a collar or a choker

You should not buy the Sex & Mischief Black Day Collar if you...

Are looking for a more sturdy fetish collar
Want a larger collar
Don't like Velcro

Cute Master Series Sweet Heart Choker

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4.6/5.0

Overall Rating

80/100

Design

90/100

Ease of Use

60/100

Quality

Low

Price

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I recommend Master Series Sweet Heart Choker for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.

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A Closer Look at the Master Series Sweet Heart Choker

This cutesy, saccharine-sweet heart choker is a subtle nod to being owned – so subtle, it just looks like a choker! With three snap buttons to fasten it, this pink collar has a softer inner so you can wear it all the time.

The faux leather material is great for vegans and the two metal studs make for a cute detail. Perfect for sweet yet naughty fun or for the babygirl / babyboy in your life. Even better, the metal is nickel-free, so get this round your neck!

Pros

✅ Cutesy pink colour
✅ Darling heart adornment
✅ Three-snap closure

Cons

❌ Flimsy construction
❌ No bondage
❌ Not for use with attachments/leashes

My verdict

With AdamEve offering a discount code at checkout, this is only $8.95, a total bargain! So even if you just want it for an evening out or for the intimate times at home where you want to show your sub your softer side, it’s worth it.

You should buy the Master Series Sweet Heart Choker if you...

Want a choker style collar
Love a cute, feminine aesthetic
Aren't interested in using a leash with your bondage collar

You should not buy the Master Series Sweet Heart Choker if you...

Are looking for a more high-end item
Use a collar for bondage
Want a lockable collar

Choker Stockroom Heart Lock Choker

4.9/5.0

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