6 Best Vibrating Panties Reviewed [ACTUAL Tests]
I love the hands-free option of a panty vibrator and having tested a fair few out, I know that it’s quite hard to find a really good one! I’ve looked through all the ones I’ve tested myself and ones that have been tested by the Bedbible team and picked out the best vibrating panty vibrators there are! I’ve also ranked them for important features like how loud they are, their battery life, and their app capabilities.
Test Winner4.3  Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.3/5 User Ratings: 4.3/5 Based on 59 user reviews | Runner Up4.2 Overall Rating 4.2/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.1/5 Reviewed by: Daphne VeyUser Ratings: 4.2/5 Based on 212 user reviews | Best on a Budget4.5 Overall Rating 4.5/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.5/5 Reviewed by: Katie MoroneyUser Ratings: 4.6/5 Based on 4 user reviews | Best for Beginners4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Sika MoonsilkUser Ratings: 3.5/5 Based on 97 user reviews | Egg Vibrator4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.5/5 Reviewed by: Kasia HalinowskaUser Ratings: 4.2/5 Based on 1090 user reviews | Best G-Spot 4.4 Overall Rating 4.4/5 Bedbible Rating: 4/5 Reviewed by: Isabelle UrenUser Ratings: 4.8/5 Based on 41 user reviews |
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How We Test vibrating panties
We’re a team of 307 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best vibrating panties, our testers tried and reviewed 318 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre vibrating panties didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1014 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
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If You Are Looking For…
- The most discreet panty vibrator: The Lovense Ferri is the quietest panty vibrator, while the Lovense Lush 3 is the quietest internal panty vibrator. The We-Vibe Moxie+ is also quiet on the lower settings.
- Powerful stimulation: The Lovense Lush 3 and Lovense Flexer were the most powerful.
- Best app connectivity: The Lovense app is superior for its connectivity, long-distance play, and many other interactive features.
- Remote and App Controls: Both the We-Vibe Moxie+ and Satisfyer Little Secret come with the option of a physical remote and app controls.
App vs. Remote-controlled
Overall, I think app controlled vibrating panties are superior because it provides more vibration options, fun features such sync to music, and they are more discreet to use in public. Many also have the option for long distance control over WiFi.
Test Winner Lovense Ferri Vibrating Panties
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.3/5
Reviewed by:
Jen SchmidtUser Ratings:
4.3/5
Based on 59 user reviews
Rating: Lovense Ferri Vibrating Panties was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the vibrating panties.
Rating: Lovense Ferri Vibrating Panties was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovense Ferri Vibrating Panties was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: Lovense Ferri Vibrating Panties was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Magnets for secure attachment
- App control for full customisation and long-distance play
Pros
- ✅ Great app connectivity
- ✅ Lots of fun in app features
- ✅ Comfortable to wear in panties
- ✅ Quiet and discreet
Cons
- ❌ Loses pressure against clit when standing
- ❌ Higher settings get a little loud
Vibrations:
Rating: Lovense Ferri Vibrating Panties was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Ferri Vibrating Panties felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovense Ferri Vibrating Panties was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Ferri Vibrating Panties felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
The Lovense Ferri is a real stand out panty vibrator and was easily my choice as the best there is on the market currently. I think it really ticks the boxes in terms of vibration, wearability, and it has one of the best apps I’ve used to date!
Jen tested the Ferri out for us, primarily as a vibrator to use inside a strap-on harness, which is another fantastic way to use panty vibrators! She thought is was a “great for sex involving a strap-on” and loved the it “adds playfulness and ease to strap-on sex.”
She found the magnet held in place relatively well but could be misplaces with more vigorous thrusting, requiring a reposition from time to time. With general wear and movement such as walking, this is very unlikely to be a problem!
Jen rated the power as a 40/100, wishing it had a little more power. However, having felt the Ferri myself, I would say that while it isn’t as strong as bigger clit vibrators or wands, it is one of the more powerful panty vibrators out there. It really depends on what you are comparing to!
They did enjoy using the app and being able to make their own patterns. The in app features and reliable connectivity also make this a great vibrating panty toy for discreet public play!
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Runner Up We-Vibe Moxie+
Overall Rating
4.2/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.1/5
Reviewed by:
Daphne VeyUser Ratings:
4.2/5
Based on 212 user reviews
Rating: We-Vibe Moxie+ was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the vibrating panties.
Rating: We-Vibe Moxie+ was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: We-Vibe Moxie+ was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: We-Vibe Moxie+ was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Magnetic base clips into panties
- Physical remote for close-range play
- App control for custom features and long-distance control
Pros
- ✅ Stays in place well
- ✅ Discreet, quiet vibrations
- ✅ Choice of app or physical remote
Cons
- ❌ App connection can be unreliable
- ❌ Not super strong vibrations
Vibrations:
Rating: We-Vibe Moxie+ was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of We-Vibe Moxie+ felt to the reviewer.
Rating: We-Vibe Moxie+ was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of We-Vibe Moxie+ felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
The Moxie+ didn’t quite make the top spot as the app isn’t quite reliable as the Lovense Ferri and it isn’t quite as quiet. However, it’s still a really great quality panty vibrator and I really appreciate that it has both the option of app controls and remote controls.
I actually tested the original Moxie and thought it was a really great quality vibrator in terms of design, materials and vibration quality! The only reason I wasn’t super keen on it was it was hard to get the pressure I desired when moving around — gravity really works against panty vibrators! While I didn’t give it a super high score, in terms of panty vibrators, it’s definitely one of the best I’ve come across!
And since then, WeVibe have made this upgrade, the Moxie+, which was tested for us by Daphne, who was surprised to find she “like[d] this toy way more than [she] thought [she] would.”
She was impressed with the toy commenting that “the quality is top notch.” Although the vibrations were on the more gentle end of the spectrum, the “strength and different patterns the We Vibe Moxie+ came with were pleasantly surprising” and a really great warm up toy. Daphne found that the “softest vibrations are quiet enough to use in public,” but the higher, more intense vibrations could give your secret away!
She had a bit of trouble with app to begin with but once she managed to connect it she was “surprised by how much I liked it after the initial fuss” commenting that it’s “easy and fun” to use.
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Best on a Budget Fantasy For Her Her Finger Vibe
Overall Rating
4.5/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5
Reviewed by:
Katie MoroneyUser Ratings:
4.6/5
Based on 4 user reviews
Rating: Fantasy For Her Her Finger Vibe was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the vibrating panties.
Rating: Fantasy For Her Her Finger Vibe was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fantasy For Her Her Finger Vibe was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Fantasy For Her Her Finger Vibe was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Molded to fit the curves of your vulva
- Silicone strap to hold it in place
- Can be used as a finger vibe or panty vibe
Pros
- ✅ Lovely soft silicone
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Very quiet
- ✅ Versatile
Cons
- ❌ No remote control
- ❌ Strap is a little big for small hands
Vibrations:
Rating: Fantasy For Her Her Finger Vibe was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fantasy For Her Her Finger Vibe felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Fantasy For Her Her Finger Vibe was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fantasy For Her Her Finger Vibe felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
Don’t let the name fool you, the Fantasy For Her Her Finger Vibrator is a versatile little vibe that also makes a great panty vibrator. It’s also the only panty vibrator in the review that comes in at under $50! I will say it’s more of straightforward vibrator without all the frills of app controls but our reviewer, Katie, really appreciated the simplicity!
She really enjoyed that it’s “easy to use and simple” and doesn’t require any set up or instruction manuals. She was actually “pleasantly surprised,” commenting that “for something that doesn’t look like much, [she] really loved it.” Katie also found it has a good range of vibrations with the “slower vibrations [being] more rumbly and the faster [being] more buzzy.”
She was a big fan of the silicone that “felt like a smooth, slippery dream.” She found it “was very easy to attach to my pants and at no point did the strap un-pop from its holes.” However, she found it “felt quite bulky.”
Best for Beginners Satisfyer Little Secret Panty Vibrator
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Sika MoonsilkUser Ratings:
3.5/5
Based on 97 user reviews
Rating: Satisfyer Little Secret Panty Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the vibrating panties.
Rating: Satisfyer Little Secret Panty Vibrator was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Satisfyer Little Secret Panty Vibrator was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Satisfyer Little Secret Panty Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- App controls using the Satisfyer App
- Comes with physical remote for close-range control
- Magnetic base that can be attached to underwear
Pros
- ✅ Quiet vibrations
- ✅ Comfortable to wear for long periods
- ✅ Maintains connection well
- ✅ 15 year warranty
Cons
- ❌ Vibrations could be stronger
- ❌ Better for foreplay/teasing than orgasm
Vibrations:
Rating: Satisfyer Little Secret Panty Vibrator was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Satisfyer Little Secret Panty Vibrator felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Satisfyer Little Secret Panty Vibrator was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Satisfyer Little Secret Panty Vibrator felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
I chose the Satisfyer Little Secret as the best for beginners as it’s not the most powerful in terms of vibration and it’s very affordable, so you don’t need to spend a huge amount before knowing if you enjoy vibrating panties!
Our reviewer, Sika, loved the Little Secret and thought it “was worth every penny!” In the past, she’d been disappointed that ‘discreet’ vibrators didn’t live up to their claims but was happy to find out the Little Secret “really is just as quiet as they claim its going to be!”
She discovered that “the reason it’s so quiet is because it’s a very low vibe” but actually really enjoyed that the vibrations were “an unending tease to keep me on the edge.”
I was impressed that for such a low price, the Little Secret comes with a physical remote and app controls. While Sika like the option of having both, she found the app and all it’s features “so much more fun.” She was also impressed by the connectivity and found that “even when changing apps, turning the screen on and off, texting and all the other things we do on our phones not once did it lose connection.”
Egg Vibrator Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5
Reviewed by:
Kasia HalinowskaUser Ratings:
4.2/5
Based on 1090 user reviews
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the vibrating panties.
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Internal/G-spot vibrator
- Flexible tail for clitoral vibrations
- App-controlled (customizable vibration patterns, long-distance play, and many other interactive fearers)
Pros
- ✅ Very discreet
- ✅ Powerful vibrations
- ✅ Long battery life
- ✅ Comfortable to wear
Cons
- ❌ Weak clitoral vibrations
- ❌ Could be too big for beginners
Vibrations:
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
The Lovense Lush is the toy that really got public play in the public eye and it’s third version is still a front runner in the egg vibrator category both in terms of power and app capabilities!
Kasia reviewed it for us and “had a blast using it!” She loved the “soft and smooth” feel of the egg, and having tried the Lush 2, I can say that I found the shape to be perfect for sitting against my G-spot!
Kasia also liked the shape, commenting that “it’s very comfortable to wear and walk around with.” Another big pro is that the Lush’s “vibrations are very powerful but quiet simultaneously.” Having taken the Lush 2 on a little walk around the park myself, I can totally vouch for both of these things!
She was a bit “underwhelmed” with clitoral stimulation, commenting that even though Lovense upgraded the tail design, the “vibrating tip is so small and flimsy.” The vibrations in the tail were “very delicate and weak even in the highest settings” so that also didn’t help.
Of all the apps I’ve tried, the Lovense one has really stood out in terms of how well it stays connected. Kasia was also impressed that the Lush App has some “amazing features that are super fun to experiment with” and I couldn’t agree more!
This isn’t a panty vibrator I’d grab when I’m in the mood for clitoral stimulation, I think it’s much more discreet than most clit-oriented panty vibrators because your body actually dampens the sounds of the vibrations!
Best G-Spot Lovense Flexer
Overall Rating
4.4/5
Bedbible Rating:
4/5
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.8/5
Based on 41 user reviews
Rating: Lovense Flexer was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the vibrating panties.
Rating: Lovense Flexer was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovense Flexer was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: Lovense Flexer was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Internal come-hither motion
- External vibrations
- App-controls with long-distance capabilities
Pros
- ✅ Powerful dual stimulation
- ✅ Great app connectivity
- ✅ Works well for long distance sex
Cons
- ❌ Too loud for public play
- ❌ Can be uncomfortable in some sitting positions
- ❌ Easy to press button on base of toy
Vibrations:
Rating: Lovense Flexer was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is noisy.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Flexer felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovense Flexer was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Flexer felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
I reviewed the Lovense Flexer and was quite surprised by just how much I liked it! I did have my suspicions that it would be a great idea that felt more like a novelty. However, the unique flexing sensation actually felt pretty great! By itself, it wasn’t enough to reach orgasm, but combined with the external vibrations, it felt fantastic!
It worked great nestled in some panties and the internal arm meant that it stayed put really well. It also means that it keeps a good connection with the clitoris, unlike my We-Vibe Moxie that drops down slightly with gravity.
Unfortunately, it’s quite loud so it’s not a toy I use for discreet public play. I also have mixed feelings about how rigid the silicone is. On the one hand, it makes the flexing feel more intense, but on the other, it can be a bit uncomfortable in different positions.
The app features work really well and make it easy to control the vibrations and flexing separately. The app also has great bluetooth and wifi connectivity. I’ve used the Lovense App with a few different Lovense toys and it is by far my favorite. It’s so easy to use and has a great range of features.
Comparison
| Best | Test Winner | Runner Up | Best on a Budget | Best for Beginners | Egg Vibrator | Best G-Spot |
| Overall score | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.3 / 5.0 from 59 users | 4.2 / 5.0 from 212 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 4 users | 3.5 / 5.0 from 97 users | 4.2 / 5.0 from 1090 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 41 users |
| Price | Premium | Premium | Moderate | Moderate | Premium | Premium |
| Design | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
| Quality | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
| Sound | 20 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
| Power | 40 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | somewhat buzzy | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | somewhat buzzy | somewhat rumbly | somewhat rumbly |
| Vibration modes | 3 | - | - | - | - | - |
| Vibration patterns | 10 | Preset: 7 | 7 | Preset: 8 | Preset: 4 | Preset: 10 |
| Materials | Silicone | Silicone | Silicone | Silicone, ABS Plastic | Silicone | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Length | 3 inches | 3 inches | 3.25 inches | 3.4 inches | 8 inches | 4 inches |
| Width | 1.06 inches | 1 inches | 1.75 inches | 1.5 inches | - | - |
| Rechargeable | USB | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Charging Time | 60 minutes | 90 minutes | - | 180 minutes | 60 minutes | 70 minutes |
| Battery Life | 180 minutes | 120 minutes | 90 minutes | At least 60 minutes | Up to 300 minutes | 90-120 minutes |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes | Yes | No | No | Yes | Yes |
| App Controls | Yes | Yes | No | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Remote Controls | No | Yes | No | Yes | No | No |
| Colors Available | Pink | Blue or black | Purple | Black | Pink | Pink |
| Vibration speeds | - | Preset: 3 | 3 | Preset: 3 | Preset: 3 | Preset: 3 |
| Travel Lock | - | No | - | No | No | No |
| Diameter | - | - | - | - | 1.4 inches | 1.4 inches |
| Insertable length | - | - | - | - | - | 3.2 inches |
Comparing the Apps
Next, I’m going to compare the features available in the main apps mentioned in the review. This is important if the app is going to be your main way of controlling your vibrating panties.
If you love getting adventurous and trying new things, I would recommend looking for an app with lots of different features to explore like the Lovense Remote App. If, on the other hand, you aren’t
Lovense Remote
Lovense is widely regarded as having one of the best apps in the sex toy industry, and I totally agree! It’s easy to use and has a lot of great features. Not to mention, it’s got the most reliable connectivity out of all the apps I’ve tried.
Here are the features you can enjoy on the app:
- Create, save and share custom patterns
- Vibrate to music or ambient sound
- Close and long distance control
- Chat function with text, image, voice and video option
- Control roulette — be paired anonymously with a random partner
- Speed mode — vibrations get more intense the more you move your phone
- Game mode
- Alarm
- Interactive video
- Long distance group play
We-Vibe App
The We-Vibe app has some great features! Not quite as many as Lovense but not far behind!
Here are the features available on the We-Vibe app:
- Create and save custom vibration patterns
- Control multiple toys at once
- Chat with call, voice, video and photo sharing
- Vibrate to music or ambient sound
- Playlist mode — use blocks of vibration pattern to build a longer vibration series
Satisfyer Connect App
The Satisfyer App is surprisingly good for a more budget-friendly app-enabled sex toy experience. It doesn’t have nearly as many features but the connectivity is pretty reliable.
Here’s what you explore on the Satisfyer Connect App:
- Close and long distance control
- Chat with video option
- Create, save and share patterns
- Vibrate to music or ambient sounds
Comparing Connectivity
As well as knowing what features you are getting in your app controlled vibrating panties, it’s important to know what the connectivity is like.
Having tried all of the apps in this review and more, I know that good app connectivity can really make or break the experience. When they work, they add a whole new layer of fun to using your toy and when they don’t, it’s infuriating and a real mood killer!
Once again, the Lovense app and toys came out on top here, but I was also pleasantly surprised by the Satisfyer connect app! Here’s my lowdown of my experience using the different apps.
Lovense Remote
I found the Lovense Remote App the easiest to connect to. It was quick and intuitive. As long as my bluetooth is turned on, the app does the rest. Once paired/set up it also connects automatically when the toy is turned on, and I have the app opened.
I’ve found it extremely reliable when using it long distance, with partner’s being able to take control quickly and easily. It’s also mostly reliable when using the bluetooth connection for close-range control. It has a good range but can drop out occasionally. Luckily, it also reconnects itself.
We-Vibe App
The We-Vibe has definitely gone through some major improvements and the connectivity is much better these days, but it does still seem to be a little unreliable. Some users have problems connecting to the device or maintaining a connection while others seem to have no problems. The reconnection process doesn’t seem to be as seamless either. You often have to unpair/repair the device to get things going. The long-distance controls are less reliable as well!
Satisfyer Connect App
The Satisfyer Connect App is nice and easy to connect, making it great for those who aren’t so into tech. It maintains long-distance and close-range connection well. It only disconnected from the bluetooth when I moved to a different floor.
Which is the Quietest Panty Vibe?
Public play has become an increasingly popular and panty vibrators, particularly remote or app control ones, are the perfect tool! When I first tried wearing my vibrator in public, I was nervous about the sound giving me away so I did a simple decibel test to find out how loud it really was and I got my boyfriend to listen and see if he could hear it. Here’s how these vibrating panties compare in terms of volume.
Quiet vibrators
The quietest panty vibrators, and therefore most discreet vibrators in the review are the Satisfyer Little Secret, the Lovense Lush 3, which reaches up to 43 decibels, and the Lovense Ferri which is in the range of 40-45 decibels.
The WeVibe Moxie+ is quiet on the lower levels of vibrations but gets a little loud on the higher settings.
Loud Vibrators
The Flexer is the loudest vibrator in the review, and having tried it myself, I wouldn’t recommend it for public play.
Comparing the Battery Life
Battery life is also a big consideration if you want to use your vibrating panties for some long, drawn out teasing or you want to enjoy some public play! The last thing you want is your battery to die just as things are heating up!
Here’s how the best vibrating panties compare on battery life. You might not be that surprised to find out that Lovense toys are packing some serious play time with some of the best battery lives in the review!
Long Battery Life
- The Lovense Lush 3 has the longest battery life with 300 minutes
- The Lovense Ferri comes in second place 180 minutes, which is still enough for a good night’s worth of play!
Medium Battery Life
The We-Vibe Moxie and Lovense Flexer and Lovense Dolce have battery lives of up to 120 minutes.
Short Battery Life
The Satisfyer Little Secret has the shortest battery life at 6o minutes
Choosing Between Love Eggs and Panty Vibrators
The most common forms of panty vibrators are remote-control love eggs and external clit stimulators, but if you don’t have much experience with one or the other, it can be a bit tricky to figure out which might feel the best for you. If you’re not sure which type will work best for your needs, here’s a few things to consider about each of them:
Love Eggs
- They are worn inside the vagina for internal stimulation
- They usually vibrate or pulsate to stimulate the g-spot and give you deep internal orgasms.
- They also usually have a ‘tail’ that remains outside your body so you can easily control it and take it out when you’re done. Sometimes the tail also acts as a clit vibrator for added stimulation.
- The sounds are muffled by your body so they can be more discreet.
- They are less likely to move around.
Clit Stimulators
- They sit outside the body, resting against and stimulating the clitoris.
- A large proportion of people with vaginas need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, making these kinds of toys popular.
- They are often held in place by magnets.
- They can be a little louder than egg vibrators as they are outside the body.
If you want to see more vibrating panties, why not check out our guide to butterfly vibrators?
What to Look for When Choosing the Best Panty Vibrator
Here is a short guide to help you choose the best panty vibrator for your needs!
Material Safety
Always look for vibrating panties made from body-safe materials that are free of harmful chemicals such as phthalates. The best option is always silicone vibrators, as they are non-porous and easy to clean. ABS plastic is also a safe choice for a panty vibrator.
Avoid any soft plastics, such as rubber or PVC, as they are porous and can contain nasty chemicals.
Power and Battery Life
Some vibrating panties are battery-operated, and you need to replace them after a certain number of uses. Others are rechargeable and can be easily charged with a USB charger. Rechargeable vibrating panties tend to be more powerful, and you don’t need worry about replacing the batteries!
If you want to wear your vibrating panties on the go, look for a long battery life, as you don’t want it dying half way through the fun!
Noise Level
Some vibrating panties can be noisy, distracting, or disruptive during use. Check the noise level if you want to use your vibrating panties for public play!
Intensity and Type of Vibration
Consider whether you enjoy very powerful stimulation or prefer more subtle vibrations. Lovense vibrating panties tend to be on the stronger end of the scale, so this is a good option if you prefer very powerful stimulation, whereas Satisfyer panty vibrators tend to be more gentler.
You should also consider if you prefer more buzzy vibrations or rumbly vibrations.
App Connectivity
If you are looking for an app-controlled panty vibrator, it’s good to do some research into the features and connection quality. You should also consider if it offers the opportunity for long distance play via wifi as well as short distance bluetooth control.
Internal vs External Stimulation
If you love clitoral stimulation, look for an panty vibrator that sits in your panties and rests against the clitoris. These are usually held in place by magnets.
If you prefer internal stimulation, you should look for an egg style vibrator, or a panty vibrator that provides both internal and external stimulation.
Ease of Use
When it comes to enjoying your vibrating panties, you want to make sure the controls are easy to use, especially if you are using them out in public! Look for vibrating panties with an app or remote control that has intuitive controls.
Is it Discreet?
Look for a panty vibrator that is easy to hide and doesn’t stick out of your underwear. It’s also a good idea to make sure you have a small bag for it so you have somewhere to put it if you need to take it out while you are out and about!
Price
The price of vibrating panties can vary quite a lot, from under $50 to well over $100. Satisfyer make some great, cheaper options, while We-Vibe and Lovense are more premium price products.
Brand
Some people have a brand of sex toys they know and love, and that can be a good starting point in your search for the perfect vibrating panties!
You can also read reviews to get an idea of the brand and their products.
All You Need to Know About Vibrating Panties Connectivity
Good connectivity is a very important feature when choosing any sex toy. And with wearable vibrators, the requirements are even higher! Here are my thoughts on what makes for a good app.
Reliable connection
A reliable connection is essential for a connected sex toy to function properly. Bluetooth or Wi-Fi connectivity can sometimes be unreliable. Connectivity issues can happen if other devices interfere, the range is exceeded, the batteries are low, or the software is outdated.
Meanwhile, remote controls that are physically connected to sex toys tend to maintain a strong connection with the toy, but their range is often more limited compared to sex toys controlled through mobile apps.
Range
Some sex toys have a short range and require the user to be close to the toy to control it, while others have a longer range that allows for remote control from another room or even from a different location altogether.
Remote-controlled toys usually have a shorter range (approximately 30 to 200ft), while app-controlled toys can be controlled from longer distances, even worldwide, via the internet. Which is a great feature if you are in a long-distance relationship.
Ease of Use
Mobile apps offer a wide range of features: unlimited vibration patterns, the ability to connect the divide to your favorite playlists, and, most importantly, connecting to your partner anywhere!
However, not all apps are intuitive, and logging in to the app can take a while. The remotes are very simple to use, but their abilities are limited.
Discreetness
A a very important feature, especially if you are interested in public play! Obviously, using your phone to control the vibes is way more discreet than holding a remote control.
However, remember that apps may collect data or require access to sensitive information, which could compromise privacy.
Reviewed by:
Jen Schmidt