9 Best Butterfly Vibrators & Strap Ons

Isabelle Uren
by Isabelle UrenUpdated:

In this review, I’ve gathered info on all of the best butterfly vibrators available out there right now. Butterfly vibrators are the perfect way to enjoy hands-free fun at home and on the go. To help you find the perfect match, I have put in the hours to find, research, and rate the best butterfly vibrators out there. I know everyone needs something different from their butterfly vibrator so I’ve included a great range of products to suit everybody and every budget.

Test Winner4.3Venus Butterfly rating 4.3
Beginner3.9Dame Eva rating 3.9
Cheapest4.1Venus Butterfly Vibe rating 4.1
Panty Vibrator4.2Relentless Panty Vibrator rating 4.2
G-spot4.3Rotator Butterfly Kiss rating 4.3
Strap-on4.8Her Royal Harness Me2 rating 4.8
Double4.0Fetish Fantasy Strap-On rating 4.0
Dual Vibrator4.3The Butterfly Effect rating 4.3
Couples4.5Butterfly Vibrating Ring rating 4.5
Venus ButterflyDame EvaVenus Butterfly VibeRelentless Panty VibratorRotator Butterfly KissHer Royal Harness Me2Fetish Fantasy Strap-OnThe Butterfly EffectButterfly Vibrating Ring
Venus ButterflyDame EvaVenus Butterfly VibeRelentless Panty VibratorRotator Butterfly KissHer Royal Harness Me2Fetish Fantasy Strap-OnThe Butterfly EffectButterfly Vibrating Ring
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  • Intense vibrations
  • Easy to use remote
  • USB charger
  • G-spot stimulation
  • May not fit all users
  • May require some manipulation to find the best position
  • Great for couples
  • Hands-free, strap-free design
  • Smooth medical grade silicone
  • Waterproof
  • May require assistance to stay in place
  • Too loud - not super discreet
  • Can be tricky to get into position
  • Easy to adjust speeds
  • Harness for hands free stimulation
  • Adjustable straps
  • Removable bullet vibrator
  • Too loud to be discreet in quiet places
  • Can be tricky to use harness
  • Not rechargable
  • Easy to use
  • 16 settings
  • Great fit against body
  • Waterproof (not remote)
  • Remote is not waterproof
  • Remote disconnects from toy after inactivity
  • Needs underwear to be used hands-free
  • G-spot stimulation
  • Rotating beads for internal stimulation
  • Easy to use
  • USB rechargeable
  • Only comes in pink
  • Vibrations may not be intense enough for some users
  • Deep, rumbly and rhytmic vibrations
  • Thick silicone straps for waits and thighs
  • Easily adjustable straps
  • Dual-motor
  • Base may not line up with your clitoris
  • You have to wear it further down to feel the vibrations on your vulva
  • Attached remote for easy control
  • Elegant straps that are easy to adjust
  • Butterfly facing downwards for clitoral coverage
  • Battery-driven
  • If you're using both hands, remote may jingle around
  • Discreet
  • Remote control
  • Dual stimulation
  • Made with body-safe silicone
  • Won't stay on without underwear
  • The remote control doesn't work long distance
  • Super versatile
  • Stimulation for both partners
  • Flexible and comfortable to wear
  • Reachargable
  • Doesn't have a remote control
  • Can be fiddly to get the hang of

How Were These Butterfly Vibrators Tested & Reviewed?

At Bedbible, our vision is simple: we want you to have better sex, better orgasms, and use better sex toys! No matter your gender, sexuality, relationship status, or identity, the right to pleasure is universal – that’s why our expert team of toy reviewers is as diverse as our readers are. So, when it came to testing the best butterfly vibrators, I searched high and low to find the best toys for every experience level and budget. Here’s what I took into account:

  • Affordability
  • Quality
  • Design
  • Noise Control
  • Durability
  • Suitability (beginner, intermediate, advanced).

Some of these products have also been tested by our own team of sex toy testers – our objective advice will help you pick the perfect sex toy for your needs.

How Were These Butterfly Vibrators Tested & Reviewed?
Read more about how we test products.

Types of Butterfly Vibrators

  • Classic – A classic one is defined as a hands-free version that is held against your vagina (with straps or by the wings). A good example of that is the Dame Eva.
  • Remote control – Works with remote control, and could therefore be used in public both alone and with a partner. The best remote control butterfly vibrator that we recommend is the Lovehoney Venus Butterfly.
  • With Penetration – Do stimulate both internal and external. So in its simplest form, it’s inserted into your vagina. The Venus Butterfly G-Spot Vibrator is a great example of this.

Reviews of the 9 best butterfly vibrators

Test Winner Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.1/5.0

Based on 34 user reviews

81/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator was rated 81 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

74/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator was rated 74 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

71/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator was rated 71 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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PricePrice

Rating: Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator

This butterfly vibrator from Cal Exotics combines internal g-spot stimulation with intense clitoral vibrations to deliver intoxicating orgasms that just don’t quit!

The 2.75 insertable shaft holds the vibrating butterfly while also stimulating your g-spot with delicious vibrations that ripple through the shaft. The nose of the butterfly presses against your clit, while the antennae nestle around it, delivering intense vibrations from all angles.

The body-safe silicone is silky soft against your skin and is non-porous, making it safe, long-lasting, and easy to clean!

Once comfortably in place, this remote controlled vibrator is activated using the small, easy-to-use remote, which reaches up to 32.5 feet. Enjoy some hands-free solo fun or hand the remote over to your partner for a little power play. Not knowing when you’ll get the satisfaction you desire so badly makes it so much sweeter when you finally get it!

Pros

  • Intense vibrations
  • Easy to use remote
  • USB charger
  • G-spot stimulation

Cons

  • May not fit all users
  • May require some manipulation to find the best position

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator are silent, very powerful, and somewhat rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Verdict

The dual stimulation of this toy delivers fully satisfying orgasms that will keep you coming back for more. While the insertable part is smaller than most dildos, it allows the vibrations to really hit your g-spot.

This toy is fantastic when used sitting up in a chair as you can grind against the toy for more intense stimulation. You can also give your partner full control of your orgasms with the remote control, making it great for orgasm denial or surprise, secret stimulation when you are out and about.

The soft silicone and pastel pink give the toy a cute, flirty style, but it would be nice if this also came in a more gender-neutral design. The other consideration when buying a butterfly vibrator is that it isn’t a one size fits all solution. Due to the design, this won’t fit all vaginas perfectly and the may require more manipulation to get the perfect position for some users.

The high-quality materials and USB charging make this a great purchase that will be used time and time again!

Buy, if you...

  1. ... well, just if you have a vagina, really. This thing is amazing!
  2. want to have something silent and discreet
  3. want to use it for couples play

Don't buy, if you...

  1. want to use it while having penatrative sex

Beginner Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator

3.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

3.9/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

3.3/5.0

Based on 18 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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PricePrice

Rating: Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator

This uniquely designed, hands-free couple’s vibrator from Dame is the perfect addition to either solo or partner play and definitely doesn’t feel like three’s a crowd.

The wings fit snugly inside the labia, meaning the Eva II can be worn comfortably during penetrative intercourse without the need for straps and delivers shared stimulation so you and your partner can really vibe together.
The smooth silicone-covered body delivers sweet and steady vibrations with three different intensities, allowing you to build the intensity to reach the most amazing orgasms.

This wearable vibrator looks like a cute little love bug and has an understated design that is both playful and inviting. It also comes in two neutral colors, giving it universal appeal.

The portable, USB charging carry case keeps it juiced up and ready to go whenever you are.

Pros

  • Great for couples
  • Hands-free, strap-free design
  • Smooth medical grade silicone
  • Waterproof

Cons

  • May require assistance to stay in place
  • Too loud - not super discreet
  • Can be tricky to get into position

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator are fairly quiet, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Verdict

The Eva II is a great couple’s vibrator that gives your clitoris the attention it deserves while being discreet enough not to distract from the moment.

It can be tricky to get it in place at first, but once in place, it delivers enough buzz to complement penetration and build-up to intoxicating orgasms without being too overwhelming. This is especially good for those who find it difficult to reach orgasms from penetration alone. However, if you are looking for stronger vibrations then this might not be the best toy for you.

The main critique of this butterfly vibrator is that it can be a little on the loud side, so it’s not the best if you are looking for something that you could use in public. It would also be great if the arms were flexible, so they could adjust to fit your body better.

While the price tag is a little high, the overall quality and finish of the Eva II are top-notch, making it a good investment for couples looking to level up their orgasms. The new model also has the added bonus of being waterproof, so it’s ready for some exciting underwater exploration!

Buy, if you...

  1. want a handsfree vibrator
  2. prefer not using a harness nor a dildo on your butterfly vibrator

Don't buy, if you...

  1. can't see yourself spending too much money on a good vibrator

Cheapest Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe

4.1/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.1/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

3.8/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.4/5.0

Based on 15 user reviews

60/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is designed well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

63/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe was rated 63 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

55/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe was rated 55 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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PricePrice

Rating: Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe

The hands-free venus butterfly vibe from cal exotics lets you sit back, relax and enjoy the intense stimulation. The adjustable straps hold the butterfly in place, allowing you to use your hands for other pleasures.

The strong vibrations are controlled with a dial on the remote control to turn the speed up or down as you desire. The tantalizing vibrations also ripple out into the wings that sit over your labia adding another layer of excitement.

The removable bullet vibrator means this is a versatile toy that can be used for all-over vibrating stimulation, making it perfect for teasing the nipples or other sensitive areas.

Pros

  • Easy to adjust speeds
  • Harness for hands free stimulation
  • Adjustable straps
  • Removable bullet vibrator

Cons

  • Too loud to be discreet in quiet places
  • Can be tricky to use harness
  • Not rechargable

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe are fairly quiet, gently, and very buzzy

SoundSound rating

Rating: Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Verdict

A true classic, this butterfly vibrator is great value for money. The strap helps it stay in place in different positions although you might need to give it a helping hand to apply a bit more pressure.
It can be tricky to get your hand off the straps at first but once you work it out, you’ll be on your way to some fantastic orgasms.
The dial function on the remote control makes it easy to switch up the speed. This is great for slowing down the vibrations just before your orgasm to make the fun last even longer!
While it would be nice to have a wireless control, this butterfly vibrator is one of the cheaper models on the market, making it a great option for someone wanting to try out some hands-free, clitoris-loving fun!

Buy, if you...

  1. want easy to adjust straps
  2. want strong vibrations
  3. have a weak grib

Don't buy, if you...

  1. want premium materials

Panty Vibrator Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator

4.2/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.2/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.4/5.0

Based on 62 user reviews

73/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator was rated 73 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

75/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

70/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator

This toy is easy to use and sits comfortably in your underwear, especially when sitting down. Great if you want to add some fun to reply to emails! The wireless remote also makes it great for solo or partner play and the volume is great for using discreetly in mid-volume settings.

The added storage bag is a nice touch that gives it an extra feel of luxury and the sleek neutral design is more universally appealing than some of the more pink and sparkly toys on the market.

You might need to experiment to fin which underwear works best to hold the vibrator in the right spot but once you do, it’s easy to get going.

It can be a little noisy on the higher settings so might not be so discreet in very quiet places but great in louder areas and around the home.
The overall quality and design make this a great addition to any type of couple play and it can also be used solo or to stimulate other sweetly sensitive areas of the body.

Pros

  • Easy to use
  • 16 settings
  • Great fit against body
  • Waterproof (not remote)

Cons

  • Remote is not waterproof
  • Remote disconnects from toy after inactivity
  • Needs underwear to be used hands-free

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator are fairly quiet, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Verdict

This toy is easy to use and sits comfortably in your underwear, especially when sitting down. Great if you want to add some fun to reply to emails! The wireless remote also makes it great for solo or partner play and the volume is great for using discreetly in mid-volume settings.

The added storage bag is a nice touch that gives it an extra feel of luxury and the sleek neutral design is more universally appealing than some of the more pink and sparkly toys on the market.

You might need to experiment to fin which underwear works best to hold the vibrator in the right spot but once you do, it’s easy to get going.

It can be a little noisy on the higher settings so might not be so discreet in very quiet places but great in louder areas and around the home.
The overall quality and design make this a great addition to any type of couple play and it can also be used solo or to stimulate other sweetly sensitive areas of the body.

Buy, if you...

  1. want something similar to a butterfly vibrator (without it ACTUALLY being one)
  2. want products of high quality form a known brand

Don't buy, if you...

  1. don't want to overpay
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G-spot Rotator Butterfly Kiss

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

3.6/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5.0

Based on user reviews

70/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Rotator Butterfly Kiss was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

66/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Rotator Butterfly Kiss was rated 66 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

68/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Rotator Butterfly Kiss was rated 68 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Rotator Butterfly Kiss was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Rotator Butterfly Kiss

The rotator butterfly kiss vibrator is a trio of tantalizing pleasure that hits all the right spots.

The bulbous end delivers g-spot stimulation, the shaft has rotating and vibrating beads, while the butterfly delivers flickering clitoral stimulation. A combination that’s sure to deliver some intense orgasms. And with the functions being powered by two separately controlled motors and five different vibration speeds, you can have it just how you like it.

An upgrade in this model means it is fully waterproof and sure to add more excitement to your morning shower or an extra treat to a luxurious bath!

Made from body-safe silicone, this toy feels super soft against your skin, especially when used with a water-based lube, and is easy to keep clean.

Pros

  • G-spot stimulation
  • Rotating beads for internal stimulation
  • Easy to use
  • USB rechargeable

Cons

  • Only comes in pink
  • Vibrations may not be intense enough for some users

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Rotator Butterfly Kiss are noisy, very powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Rotator Butterfly Kiss was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is noisy.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Rotator Butterfly Kiss felt to the reviewer.

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Rating: Rotator Butterfly Kiss was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Rotator Butterfly Kiss felt to the reviewer.

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BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Verdict

The combination of internal and external stimulation gives this toy some serious orgasm power.

The silky silicone feels great with a slick of water-based lubrication and is non-porous and long-lasting. The overall design looks great and could only be improved with some more color options for those who aren’t so into bright pink.

While it’s not hands-free, this waterproof butterfly vibrator is a great shower companion and can be used alone or for double penetration with a partner.

The higher price tag makes this more of an investment, but for that price, you do get a waterproof, silicone toy with two independently controlled motors.

Buy, if you...

  1. want great g-spot stimulation while keeping the butterfly design
  2. enjoy double stimulation and orgasms

Don't buy, if you...

  1. need strong vibrations

Strap-on Her Royal Harness Me2 Strap-On

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

0/5.0

Based on user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Her Royal Harness Me2 Strap-On was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Her Royal Harness Me2 Strap-On was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

95/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Her Royal Harness Me2 Strap-On was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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PricePrice

Rating: Her Royal Harness Me2 Strap-On was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Her Royal Harness Me2 Strap-On

The Royal Harness Me2 butterfly strap-on is a perfect plus-one in the bedroom. The rounded ergonomic base provides stimulation to the giver from the textured bumps. The shaft is slightly curved to hit all the right spots, and it’s pliable to suit your or your partner’s needs.

The straps are easily adjustable, and it sticks gently to your skin because it’s made from silicone. You can also remove the straps for regular dildo, or clitoral action. It’s got 2 motors that offer 10 vibrations from the base and 10 in the shaft.

You can use Her Royal Harness for either vaginal or anal penetration because of the wide base. It is, however, not a small strap-on for anal penetration, so be sure to go slow if you’re a beginner! Simply choose you’re preferred entrance and stick to that to ensure optimal hygiene.

Pros

  • Deep, rumbly and rhytmic vibrations
  • Thick silicone straps for waits and thighs
  • Easily adjustable straps
  • Dual-motor

Cons

  • Base may not line up with your clitoris
  • You have to wear it further down to feel the vibrations on your vulva

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Her Royal Harness Me2 Strap-On are quiet, very powerful, and somewhat rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Her Royal Harness Me2 Strap-On was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Her Royal Harness Me2 Strap-On felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Her Royal Harness Me2 Strap-On was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Her Royal Harness Me2 Strap-On felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Verdict

Her Royal Harness butterfly strap-on deserves to be put on a pedestal for its deep, rumbly vibrations and rhythmic pulsations. The shaft is quite girthy which provides a sense of fulfillment.

Of the 3 butterfly strap-ons in this review, this one is the only one that both vagina and penis owners can wear. If you wear it as a vagina owner, I would be aware of adjusting the harness slightly lower than other harnesses to get the most out of the base vibrations, or add a hands-free vibrator to fit your clit!

Overall, this is our test winner due to its great technology and material quality. With two powerful motors and adjustable straps, you’ll have plenty of fun playing with a partner.

Buy, if you...

  1. Want powerful vibrations
  2. Enjoy clitoral stimuli
  3. Like a hard, pliable shaft

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Want a double-dildo
  2. Don't want a curved shaft for G or P-spot stimulation
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Double Fetish Fantasy Elite Strap-On

4.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

0/5.0

Based on user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fetish Fantasy Elite Strap-On was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fetish Fantasy Elite Strap-On was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fetish Fantasy Elite Strap-On was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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PricePrice

Rating: Fetish Fantasy Elite Strap-On was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Fetish Fantasy Elite Strap-On

Brilliantly sculpted, battery-driven, and body-safe! That would be my pitch to describe the Fetish Fantasy Elite Strap-on. The double dildo keeps both of you satisfied whilst providing the opportunity to intertwine the giver and receiver roles.

The remote control is battery-driven and affects the 2 strong motors in both shafts. And because the remote is attached to the harness, you can control the vibes without having to pause what you’re doing.

Both dildos are slightly bent and act as a G or P-spot vibrator. You’ll also feel tingling sensations from the pronounced textures and details. The material is elite silicone meaning it matches the temperature of your body. The straps are slim and easy to adjust.

Pros

  • Attached remote for easy control
  • Elegant straps that are easy to adjust
  • Butterfly facing downwards for clitoral coverage

Cons

  • Battery-driven
  • If you're using both hands, remote may jingle around

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Fetish Fantasy Elite Strap-On are fairly quiet, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Fetish Fantasy Elite Strap-On was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fetish Fantasy Elite Strap-On felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Fetish Fantasy Elite Strap-On was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fetish Fantasy Elite Strap-On felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Verdict

The Fetish Fantasy butterfly strap-on is great for the cooperative couple who enjoys sharing rhythms, vibes, and orgasms. The butterfly facing downward is a nice touch that helps ensure more contact with the clitoral area.

This strap-on butterfly is battery-driven, so I would recommend removing the battery whenever it’s not in use. This helps to prolong the lifetime and therefore, the quality of the motors.

The entire strap-on is made from silicone, and the straps are easily adjustable. I would mention that because the straps are slim, they may not offer the best stability during the rougher rounds.

Buy, if you...

  1. Both enjoy thick, slighty detailed dildos
  2. Like controlling via remote
  3. Want simultaneous stimuli

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Want a girthier option
  2. Are unsure of the internal dildo as the wearer
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Dual Vibrator Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.0/5.0

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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PricePrice

Rating: Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect

The Butterfly Effect is a unique wearable butterfly vibrator that features a bulbous shaft for deep G-spot stimulation and wide-reaching wings that cradle and caress your clitoral. Each of the two independent motors buzzes with 8 tantalizing vibration modes, giving you a variety of ways to explore and escalate your pleasure.

With the wireless remote, you’re in control of the intensity and pattern, whether you’re using it for some discreet public play or in the intimacy of your home. When you’re ready to get wet and wild, this vibe is fully submersible, making it the ultimate partner for your aquatic adventures!

Pros

  • Discreet
  • Remote control
  • Dual stimulation
  • Made with body-safe silicone

Cons

  • Won't stay on without underwear
  • The remote control doesn't work long distance

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect are quiet, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Verdict

In conclusion, The Butterfly Effect is a versatile and powerful companion that promises to elevate your pleasure to new heights. Its intuitive design, coupled with the freedom of wireless control and the joy of waterproof capability, makes it an excellent addition to any collection. Whether you’re indulging alone or with a partner, this vibrator offers a unique and deeply satisfying experience. Rechargeable, ready for water play, and equipped with diverse vibration modes, it’s designed to captivate and cater to your every desire.

Buy, if you...

  1. are looking for a wearable butterfly vibrator
  2. like the option of remote control
  3. like public play

Don't buy, if you...

  1. prefer a vibe with a strap
  2. don't like insertable sex toys

Couples CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

0/5.0

Based on user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

85/100
QualityQuality

Rating: CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring

Sharing really is caring with this couple’s vibrator. Designed to stimulate both partners, this small toy is big on pleasure!

This stretchy, body-safe silicone ring enhances stamina and girth, while the butterfly teaser stimulates the clitoris. And with its 12 vibration settings, there are plenty of vibes to choose from! Waterproof and rechargeable, it’s perfect for adventurous, uninterrupted pleasure up to 80 minutes on a single charge. Plus, with a memory chip that remembers your last setting, you can dive back into your favorite sensations. It’s an ideal pick for partners looking to heighten their intimate moments together.

It’s small, discrete, and USB chargeable making it great for at-home or travel.

Pros

  • Super versatile
  • Stimulation for both partners
  • Flexible and comfortable to wear
  • Reachargable

Cons

  • Doesn't have a remote control
  • Can be fiddly to get the hang of

Vibrations: The vibrations of the CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring are silent, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Verdict

This small, unassuming vibrator is a bit like a transformer, only much sexier! It can be worn in so many different positions, making it a great way to add some extra excitement to your and your partner’s repertoire. With its focus on shared pleasure, ease of use, and innovative features like a memory chip and waterproof design, it’s a stellar choice for those looking to enhance their intimate connection. Quick to recharge and easy to enjoy, this dual-ring promises a more fulfilling and exciting experience for both partners!

It could be improved with a remote control to make it easier to switch between the settings.

Buy, if you...

  1. want stimulation for both you and your partner
  2. prefer both internal and external stimulation
  3. like penetrative sex

Don't buy, if you...

  1. want something that doesn't need adjusting too
  2. find wearing a cock ring uncomfortable
  3. are looking for a sex toy for public play

Comparison of the 9 best butterfly vibrators

BestTest Winner Beginner Cheapest Panty Vibrator G-spot Strap-on Double Dual Vibrator Couples
Overall score4.3 / 5.0 3.9 / 5.0 4.1 / 5.0 4.2 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 - - 4.3 / 5.0 -
Bedbible rating4.4 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 3.8 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 3.6 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0
User rating4.1 / 5.0
from 34 users
3.3 / 5.0
from 18 users
4.4 / 5.0
from 15 users
4.4 / 5.0
from 62 users
5 / 5.0
from 4 users
- - 4 / 5.0
from 1 users
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PricePricey Pricey Moderate Pricey Moderate Moderate Pricey Moderate Affordable
Design81 / 100 90 / 100 60 / 100 73 / 100 70 / 100 95 / 100 80 / 100 90 / 100 80 / 100
Ease of use74 / 100 85 / 100 63 / 100 75 / 100 66 / 100 90 / 100 80 / 100 85 / 100 80 / 100
Quality71 / 100 80 / 100 55 / 100 70 / 100 68 / 100 95 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 85 / 100
Sound20 / 100 60 / 100 60 / 100 60 / 100 80 / 100 40 / 100 60 / 100 40 / 100 20 / 100
Power80 / 100 60 / 100 40 / 100 60 / 100 80 / 100 80 / 100 60 / 100 60 / 100 60 / 100
Buzzy/Rumblysomewhat rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly somewhat buzzy neither really buzzy nor rumbly somewhat rumbly somewhat rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly
Vibration modes12 3 Adjustable speed -5 Base: 10; Shaft; 10 Internal Dildo: 7; External Dildo: 7 8 12
Length3 inches2 inches3.5 inches3.5 inches8 inches-Internal Dildo: 4.8; External Dildo: 5 inches--
Insertable length2.6 inches----6.5 inches-4.5 inches-
Diameter1.05 inches1.7 inches3.6 inchesN/A inches1.5 inches1.5 inchesInternal Dildo: 1.5; External Dildo: 1.5 inches1.25 inches1.25 - 1.5 inches
WaterproofNo Yes No Yes Yes Yes Splashproof Yes Yes
RechargeableYes Yes No Yes Yes Yes -USB Yes
Battery Life50 minutes60-300 minutesN/A minutes45 minutesN/A minuteshigh speed: 90 minutes; low speed: 150 minutes--55 - 80 minutes
Charging TimeN/A minutesN/A minutesN/A minutesN/A minutesN/A minutes120 minutes--90 minutes
MaterialsSilicone Silicone Jelly, Rubber Silicone Silicone Silicone, Nickel-Free Zinc Alloy (clasps) Silicone, ABS Plastic SIlicone Silicone
Travel LockNo Yes No No No ---No
Vibration patterns---10 -----
Vibration speeds---6 -----
Harness Size-----Harness fits waist up to 52 inchesHarness fits waists up to 43 inches--
Colors Available-----1 - Purple 1 - Purple --
Remote Controls-------Physical remote -
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Butterfly Attachments for a Magic Wand

This nifty little magic wand attachment can transform your magic wand vibrator into a flickering, fluttering butterfly. This is great if you don’t want to spend money, space or resources on buying another toy.

 Lovehoney Butterfly Bliss Clitoral Mini Wand Attachment

Lovehoney Butterfly Bliss Clitoral Mini Wand Attachment

 Lovehoney Butterfly Bliss Clitoral Mini Wand Attachment

The textured pad and trembling antennae deliver intensely satisfying vibrations straight to your clitoris while the wings add a flutter of vibration and keep your body right on your hot spot.

Features

  • Cheap alternative to buying a new toy
  • Wings and antennae provide flickering clitoral stimulation
  • Fits any wand vibrator
  • Can be used to stimulate the clitoris or other sensitive areas
  • Textured for added stimulation
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Comparing The Best Butterfly Vibrators

Best Rated
Dame Eva: It has the highest Bedbible rating of 4.6/5.0, and an impressive design score of 90/100, suggesting a user-friendly and aesthetically pleasing build. The ease of use score of 85/100 makes it user-friendly and perfect for beginners.

The Butterfly Effect: This product also has a high Bedbible rating of 4.5/5.0 and an equal design score of 90/100, indicating its quality and thoughtful design. Its ease of use score is also high at 85/100, making it a great choice for users who value both form and function.

Most Powerful
Venus Butterfly: With a power rating of 80/100, it’s one of the most powerful options. It also features 12 vibration modes, providing a wide range of intensity and pattern options for varied experiences.

Rotator Butterfly Kiss: This also has a power rating of 80/100, making it equally powerful. It comes with 5 vibration modes, offering a decent range of options to experiment with different sensations.

Best Features
The Butterfly Effect: It comes with a physical remote control, adding an element of convenience and versatility, especially for couple’s play or more dynamic solo sessions. Additionally, it has 8 vibration modes, offering a good range of settings to choose from.

Butterfly Vibrating Ring: While it doesn’t have a remote control, it stands out with 12 vibration modes, one of the highest among the products listed. This variety allows for a more tailored experience to suit different preferences and moods. Plus, it is a perfect toy for couples that enjoy penetrative sex.

What is so Special About Butterfly Vibrators?

With so many different types of vibrators and stimulators on the market, it can be difficult to know what they do and which one is best for you. Here is a quick explanation of what a butterfly vibrator does!

Puts your clit in the spotlight

Puts your clit in the spotlight

Puts your clit in the spotlight
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The glorious clitoris, small but mighty and overlooked for so long. But, no more! It’s finally time to put your clitoris in the spotlight. Butterfly vibrators are just one of many toys designed specifically with clitoral stimulation in mind and with good reason!

The clitoris has a high number of nerve endings, making it one of the most sensitive erogenous zones and a powerhouse of pleasure and for many women, clitoral stimulation is the main route to reaching orgasm.

How does the butterfly help with this?

How does the butterfly help with this?

How does the butterfly help with this?
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While the clitoris extends inside the body, butterfly vibrators work by applying delicious flicks, flutters and vibrations to the part that sits outside of the body.

Butterfly vibrators often feature a butterfly with a body that vibrates and presses against the clitoris with antennae that sit around the clitoris and wings that envelope the labia for intense stimulation either alone or with a partner.

Remote VS No Remote

When it comes to picking a butterfly vibrator, there are a couple of different types to choose from.

You can opt for a classic hand-held butterfly vibrator, a wearable butterfly vibrator, or even a remote control butterfly vibrator!

The best option for you will depend on your personal needs, and whether or not you’re going to be using your butterfly vibe solo or with a partner.

If you’re looking to get some clitoral vibration during sex, you might find that a wearable butterfly vibrator corresponds more to your needs.

On the other hand, if you want to enjoy some fun power play with your partner, you might prefer a remote-controlled, Bluetooth butterfly vibrator to spice things up between the sheets (or elsewhere!)

Why Clitoral Stimulation Is Important for Vagina-Owners

If you have a vagina, you might already be aware that penetrative sex alone can’t always quite get you there.

The good (and bad) news is, that you’re not alone: studies have found that over a whopping 80% of vagina-owners can’t orgasm without some form of clitoral stimulation.

It’s time to close the orgasm gap!

The good news is, there are – quite literally – thousands of sex toys designed to help vagina-owners get that stimulation they need.

Butterfly vibrators are amazing for clitoral stimulation.

The fluttering sensation (provided by the butterfly “wings”) stimulates the labia, while the body of the vibrator zones in on the clitoris and builds those oh-so-dreamy sensations.

How Does it Feel?

Really good! Imagine being stimulated on your “perfect spot” as long as you want to.

There are no hands that suddenly miss the spot due to a lack of concentration and focus because it’s so nice.

This perfect product stays in the position!

Regular Strap-On versus Butterfly Strap-On

Strap-ons are a great addition to your and your partners’ pleasure.

Whether it be penetrative sex, power play, oral or gender affirmation.

Strap-ons are usually designed to be worn and used on a partner, however, newer designs have focused on direct physical stimuli for both parts.

So what are the differences between regular strap-ons and butterfly strap-ons?

Regular Strap-Ons 

  • Designed to be worn and used on another person than the wearer
  • Often associated with BDSM
  • Can be used by all genders

Butterfly Strap-Ons 

  • Designed to provide stimuli to both parts
  • Intertwines the dominant and submissive roles
  • Most are designed to be worn by vagina owners
  • The butterfly is oftentimes used to stimulate the wearers’ clitoris

FAQ

What does a butterfly vibrator do?
A butterfly vibrator stimulates both the greater labia area while providing intense stimulation to the clitoris.
Who can use a butterfly strap-on?
Most are designed with an internal and external stimulator. Therefore, vagina owners are the ones using butterfly strap-ons. There are options without an internal stimulator or shaft that penis owners can use.
Who can use a butterfly vibrator?
Traditional butterfly vibrators are designed for people with clitorises. However, couple's vibrators are designed to stimulate both partners as vibrations can also feel fantastic for people with penises. You can also use vibrating toys on other areas of the body such as the nipples or the head of the penis.
What is the difference between a vibrator and butterfly vibrator?
The main difference between a standard bullet vibrator and a butterfly vibrator that bullet vibrators are used to apply stimulation to the clitoris whereas butterfly vibrators often feature wings to stimulate the labia and antennae that flicker with the vibrations. Butterfly vibrators are also often handsfree, being held in place with a harness, insertable shaft or underwear.
What are the best materials for a butterfly strap-on?
I always recommend internal stimulators made of medical-grade silicone since it's the safest and most hygienic option. If you want a butterfly toy with straps, you can choose the material you think is most comfortable to have strapped around your waist and thighs.
What is the best material for a butterfly vibrator?
As with all sex toys, non-porous materials are safer and longer-lasting than porous materials as they are easier to clean. Body-safe or medical grade silicone is a great material for a butterfly vibrator as it is easy to clean and feels soft against your body. Porous materials such as jelly or TPE/TPR /rubber are cheaper but porous and therefore cannot be fully cleaned and will degrade over time.
Can I use a butterfly vibrator during intercourse?
Absolutely! A lot of butterfly vibrators are designed so they can be worn during penetration. Choose a couples vibrator or one that comes with a harness that keeps the vibrator in place.
What lube can you use for a butterfly strap-on?
I always recommend water-based lubricants for toys, and that applies for butterfly strap-ons as well! Water-based lubricants are the safest option for medical-grade silicone.
How do I use a remote control butterfly vibrator?
Remote control butterfly vibrators can be lots of fun to use with a partner! While certain models might differ, most remote control butterfly vibrators will come with either an app-control or physical remote control: a remote control will be powered by Bluetooth and allow a partner (or yourself!) to control the sensations hands-free!
Who invented the butterfly vibrator?
Feminist inventor Joani Blank invented the iconic Butterfly sex toy in 1977, after identifying a gap in the market for hands-free clitoral stimulators. Historically, clitoral and labia stimulation was used by Doctors as a means to treat "female hysteria" - and the first-ever vibrator was invented to relieve doctors from arm cramps!
Where to buy a butterfly vibrator?
We always recommend buying your sex toys from reputable adult toy retailers. We only ever recommend trustworthy sex toy shops with great customer service, to ensure that you're guaranteed authenticity and quality.
What are the different kinds of butterfly strap-ons?
There's products with external attachments for giving pleasure, and there's products with both internal and external attachments for equal stimuli. They come with either straps or as strapless strap-ons. You can also find butterfly strap-ons for solo use only.
Are butterfly vibrators loud?
Most butterfly vibrators will be quite discreet, especially if they're designed to be app-controlled. However, you should always check out reviews beforehand if you're worried about noise. In all our vibrator reviews, we rate the toy's noisiness on a scale of 1-5.

What is a Butterfly Vibrator?

A butterfly vibrator is a sex toy designed for external clitoral stimulation. It often looks like its namesake, with wings that sit over the labia and sometimes with antennae that sit either side of the clitoris. Some butterfly sex toys have a harness that holds them in place, which also looks like a butterfly, whereas others have an insertable part that sits inside the vagina. The butterfly clit stimulator delivers delicious buzzing sensations to your clitoris while the wings lightly stimulate your labia, leading to trembling orgasms whether used alone or with penetration. What is a butterfly strap-on? A butterfly strap-on is a version of standard strap-ons, however, they are meant to provide simultaneous stimuli to the giver and receiver. Butterfly strap-ons are designed to stimulate the giver's clitoris, and oftentimes they come with double-dildos for extra pleasure. You can find butterfly strap-ons with or without vibration.

Author
Isabelle Uren
Isabelle Uren

Site Manager | Aiming to empower people to embrace sexual pleasure one sex toy at a time or two, whatever takes your fancy! As well researching and writing about all things sex, I have studied Tantra and am currently studying towards becoming a psychosexual therapist. My life philosophy is the three Ms approach — meditation, masturbation, and mmm a good cup of tea!

Age: 32
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: Doxy Die Cast
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