The 7 Best Butterfly Vibrators for Blissful Sensations

Isabelle Uren
byIsabelle Uren

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In this review, I’ve gathered info on all of the best butterfly vibrators available out there right now. Butterfly vibrators are the perfect way to enjoy hands-free fun at home and on the go. To help you find the perfect match, I have put in the hours to find, research, and rate the best butterfly vibrators out there. I know everyone needs something different from their butterfly vibrator so I’ve included a great range of products to suit everybody and every budget. To help you get started, I thought it might be nice to include all the information you need to get the most out of your new butterfly vibrator, from exciting ways to use it to how to clean it.

Test Winner4.3Venus Butterfly rating 4.3
Beginner3.9Dame Eva rating 3.9
Cheapest4.1Venus Butterfly Vibe rating 4.1
G-spot4.3Rotator Butterfly Kiss rating 4.3
Dual Vibrator4.3The Butterfly Effect rating 4.3
Couples4.5Butterfly Vibrating Ring rating 4.5
Panty Vibrator4.2Relentless Panty Vibrator rating 4.2
Venus ButterflyDame EvaVenus Butterfly VibeRotator Butterfly KissThe Butterfly EffectButterfly Vibrating RingRelentless Panty Vibrator
Venus ButterflyDame EvaVenus Butterfly VibeRotator Butterfly KissThe Butterfly EffectButterfly Vibrating RingRelentless Panty Vibrator
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Pros

  • Intense vibrations
  • Easy to use remote
  • USB charger

Cons

  • May not fit all users
  • May require some manipulation to find the best position

Pros

  • Great for couples
  • Hands-free, strap-free design
  • Smooth medical grade silicone

Cons

  • May require assistance to stay in place
  • Too loud - not super discreet
  • Can be tricky to get into position

Pros

  • Easy to adjust speeds
  • Harness for hands free stimulation
  • Adjustable straps

Cons

  • Too loud to be discreet in quiet places
  • Can be tricky to use harness
  • Not rechargable

Pros

  • G-spot stimulation
  • Rotating beads for internal stimulation
  • Easy to use

Cons

  • Only comes in pink
  • Vibrations may not be intense enough for some users

Pros

  • Discreet
  • Remote control
  • Dual stimulation

Cons

  • Won't stay on without underwear
  • The remote control doesn't work long distance

Pros

  • Super versatile
  • Stimulation for both partners
  • Flexible and comfortable to wear

Cons

  • Doesn't have a remote control
  • Can be fiddly to get the hang of

Pros

  • Easy to use
  • 16 settings
  • Great fit against body

Cons

  • Remote is not waterproof
  • Remote disconnects from toy after inactivity
  • Needs underwear to be used hands-free

How Were These Butterfly Vibrators Tested & Reviewed?

At Bedbible, our vision is simple: we want you to have better sex, better orgasms, and use better sex toys! No matter your gender, sexuality, relationship status, or identity, the right to pleasure is universal – that’s why our expert team of toy reviewers is as diverse as our readers are. So, when it came to testing the best butterfly vibrators, I searched high and low to find the best toys for every experience level and budget. Here’s what I took into account:

  • Affordability
  • Quality
  • Design
  • Noise Control
  • Durability
  • Suitability (beginner, intermediate, advanced).

Some of these products have also been tested by our own team of sex toy testers – our objective advice will help you pick the perfect sex toy for your needs.

How Were These Butterfly Vibrators Tested & Reviewed?
Read more about how we test products.

Types of Butterfly Vibrators

  • Classic – A classic one is defined as a hands-free version that is held against your vagina (with straps or by the wings). A good example of that is the Dame Eva.
  • Remote control – Works with remote control, and could therefore be used in public both alone and with a partner. The best remote control butterfly vibrator that we recommend is the Lovehoney Venus Butterfly.
  • With Penetration – Do stimulate both internal and external. So in its simplest form, it’s inserted into your vagina. The Venus Butterfly G-Spot Vibrator is a great example of this.

Remote VS No Remote

When it comes to picking a butterfly vibrator, there are a couple of different types to choose from. You can opt for a classic hand-held butterfly vibrator, a wearable butterfly vibrator, or even a remote control butterfly vibrator! The best option for you will depend on your personal needs, and whether or not you’re going to be using your butterfly vibe solo or with a partner. If you’re looking to get some clitoral vibration during sex, you might find that a wearable butterfly vibrator corresponds more to your needs. On the other hand, if you want to enjoy some fun power play with your partner, you might prefer a remote-controlled, Bluetooth butterfly vibrator to spice things up between the sheets (or elsewhere!)

Why Clitoral Stimulation Is Important for Vagina-Owners

If you have a vagina, you might already be aware that penetrative sex alone can’t always quite get you there. The good (and bad) news is, that you’re not alone: studies have found that over a whopping 80% of vagina-owners can’t orgasm without some form of clitoral stimulation. It’s time to close the orgasm gap!

The good news is, there are – quite literally – thousands of sex toys designed to help vagina-owners get that stimulation they need. Butterfly vibrators are amazing for clitoral stimulation. The fluttering sensation (provided by the butterfly “wings”) stimulates the labia, while the body of the vibrator zones in on the clitoris and builds those oh-so-dreamy sensations. You can even use this type of vibrator during sex: we’ve reviewed a wearable butterfly vibrator in this very round-up review!

How Does it Feel?

Really good! Imagine being stimulated on your “perfect spot” as long as you want to. There are no hands that suddenly miss the spot due to a lack of concentration and focus because it’s so nice. This perfect product stays in the position!

Reviews of the 7 best butterfly vibrators

Test Winner Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator

4.3/5.0

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.1/5.0

Based on 34 user reviews

81/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator was rated 81 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

74/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator was rated 74 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

71/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator was rated 71 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Medium

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator

This butterfly vibrator from Cal Exotics combines internal g-spot stimulation with intense clitoral vibrations to deliver intoxicating orgasms that just don’t quit!

The 2.75 insertable shaft holds the vibrating butterfly while also stimulating your g-spot with delicious vibrations that ripple through the shaft. The nose of the butterfly presses against your clit, while the antennae nestle around it, delivering intense vibrations from all angles.

The body-safe silicone is silky soft against your skin and is non-porous, making it safe, long-lasting, and easy to clean!

Once comfortably in place, this remote controlled vibrator is activated using the small, easy-to-use remote, which reaches up to 32.5 feet. Enjoy some hands-free solo fun or hand the remote over to your partner for a little power play. Not knowing when you’ll get the satisfaction you desire so badly makes it so much sweeter when you finally get it!

Pros

  • Intense vibrations
  • Easy to use remote
  • USB charger
  • G-spot stimulation

Cons

  • May not fit all users
  • May require some manipulation to find the best position

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator are silent, very powerful, and somewhat rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

My verdict

The dual stimulation of this toy delivers fully satisfying orgasms that will keep you coming back for more. While the insertable part is smaller than most dildos, it allows the vibrations to really hit your g-spot.

This toy is fantastic when used sitting up in a chair as you can grind against the toy for more intense stimulation. You can also give your partner full control of your orgasms with the remote control, making it great for orgasm denial or surprise, secret stimulation when you are out and about.

The soft silicone and pastel pink give the toy a cute, flirty style, but it would be nice if this also came in a more gender-neutral design. The other consideration when buying a butterfly vibrator is that it isn’t a one size fits all solution. Due to the design, this won’t fit all vaginas perfectly and the may require more manipulation to get the perfect position for some users.

The high-quality materials and USB charging make this a great purchase that will be used time and time again!

You should buy the Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator if you...

  1. ... well, just if you have a vagina, really. This thing is amazing!
  2. want to have something silent and discreet
  3. want to use it for couples play

You should not buy the Venus Butterfly Hands-Free G Vibrator if you...

  1. want to use it while having penatrative sex

Beginner Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator

3.9/5.0

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

3.9/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

3.3/5.0

Based on 18 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Medium

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator

This uniquely designed, hands-free couple’s vibrator from Dame is the perfect addition to either solo or partner play and definitely doesn’t feel like three’s a crowd.

The wings fit snugly inside the labia, meaning the Eva II can be worn comfortably during penetrative intercourse without the need for straps and delivers shared stimulation so you and your partner can really vibe together.
The smooth silicone-covered body delivers sweet and steady vibrations with three different intensities, allowing you to build the intensity to reach the most amazing orgasms.

This wearable vibrator looks like a cute little love bug and has an understated design that is both playful and inviting. It also comes in two neutral colors, giving it universal appeal.

The portable, USB charging carry case keeps it juiced up and ready to go whenever you are.

Pros

  • Great for couples
  • Hands-free, strap-free design
  • Smooth medical grade silicone
  • Waterproof

Cons

  • May require assistance to stay in place
  • Too loud - not super discreet
  • Can be tricky to get into position

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator are fairly quiet, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

My verdict

The Eva II is a great couple’s vibrator that gives your clitoris the attention it deserves while being discreet enough not to distract from the moment.

It can be tricky to get it in place at first, but once in place, it delivers enough buzz to complement penetration and build-up to intoxicating orgasms without being too overwhelming. This is especially good for those who find it difficult to reach orgasms from penetration alone. However, if you are looking for stronger vibrations then this might not be the best toy for you.

The main critique of this butterfly vibrator is that it can be a little on the loud side, so it’s not the best if you are looking for something that you could use in public. It would also be great if the arms were flexible, so they could adjust to fit your body better.

While the price tag is a little high, the overall quality and finish of the Eva II are top-notch, making it a good investment for couples looking to level up their orgasms. The new model also has the added bonus of being waterproof, so it’s ready for some exciting underwater exploration!

You should buy the Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator if you...

  1. want a handsfree vibrator
  2. prefer not using a harness nor a dildo on your butterfly vibrator

You should not buy the Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator if you...

  1. can't see yourself spending too much money on a good vibrator

Cheapest Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe

4.1/5.0

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.1/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

3.8/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.4/5.0

Based on 15 user reviews

60/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is designed well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

63/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe was rated 63 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

55/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe was rated 55 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Medium

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe

The hands-free venus butterfly vibe from cal exotics lets you sit back, relax and enjoy the intense stimulation. The adjustable straps hold the butterfly in place, allowing you to use your hands for other pleasures.

The strong vibrations are controlled with a dial on the remote control to turn the speed up or down as you desire. The tantalizing vibrations also ripple out into the wings that sit over your labia adding another layer of excitement.

The removable bullet vibrator means this is a versatile toy that can be used for all-over vibrating stimulation, making it perfect for teasing the nipples or other sensitive areas.

Pros

  • Easy to adjust speeds
  • Harness for hands free stimulation
  • Adjustable straps
  • Removable bullet vibrator

Cons

  • Too loud to be discreet in quiet places
  • Can be tricky to use harness
  • Not rechargable

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe are fairly quiet, gently, and very buzzy

SoundSound rating

Rating: Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

My verdict

A true classic, this butterfly vibrator is great value for money. The strap helps it stay in place in different positions although you might need to give it a helping hand to apply a bit more pressure.
It can be tricky to get your hand off the straps at first but once you work it out, you’ll be on your way to some fantastic orgasms.
The dial function on the remote control makes it easy to switch up the speed. This is great for slowing down the vibrations just before your orgasm to make the fun last even longer!
While it would be nice to have a wireless control, this butterfly vibrator is one of the cheaper models on the market, making it a great option for someone wanting to try out some hands-free, clitoris-loving fun!

You should buy the Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe if you...

  1. want easy to adjust straps
  2. want strong vibrations
  3. have a weak grib

You should not buy the Hands-Free Venus Butterfly Vibe if you...

  1. want premium materials

G-spot Rotator Butterfly Kiss

4.3/5.0

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

3.6/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5.0

Based on user reviews

70/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Rotator Butterfly Kiss was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

66/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Rotator Butterfly Kiss was rated 66 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

68/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Rotator Butterfly Kiss was rated 68 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Medium

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Rotator Butterfly Kiss was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Rotator Butterfly Kiss

The rotator butterfly kiss vibrator is a trio of tantalizing pleasure that hits all the right spots.

The bulbous end delivers g-spot stimulation, the shaft has rotating and vibrating beads, while the butterfly delivers flickering clitoral stimulation. A combination that’s sure to deliver some intense orgasms. And with the functions being powered by two separately controlled motors and five different vibration speeds, you can have it just how you like it.

An upgrade in this model means it is fully waterproof and sure to add more excitement to your morning shower or an extra treat to a luxurious bath!

Made from body-safe silicone, this toy feels super soft against your skin, especially when used with a water-based lube, and is easy to keep clean.

Pros

  • G-spot stimulation
  • Rotating beads for internal stimulation
  • Easy to use
  • USB rechargeable

Cons

  • Only comes in pink
  • Vibrations may not be intense enough for some users

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Rotator Butterfly Kiss are noisy, very powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Rotator Butterfly Kiss was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is noisy.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Rotator Butterfly Kiss felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Rotator Butterfly Kiss was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Rotator Butterfly Kiss felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

My verdict

The combination of internal and external stimulation gives this toy some serious orgasm power.

The silky silicone feels great with a slick of water-based lubrication and is non-porous and long-lasting. The overall design looks great and could only be improved with some more color options for those who aren’t so into bright pink.

While it’s not hands-free, this waterproof butterfly vibrator is a great shower companion and can be used alone or for double penetration with a partner.

The higher price tag makes this more of an investment, but for that price, you do get a waterproof, silicone toy with two independently controlled motors.

You should buy the Rotator Butterfly Kiss if you...

  1. want great g-spot stimulation while keeping the butterfly design
  2. enjoy double stimulation and orgasms

You should not buy the Rotator Butterfly Kiss if you...

  1. need strong vibrations

Dual Vibrator Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect

4.3/5.0

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.0/5.0

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Medium

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect

The Butterfly Effect is a unique wearable butterfly vibrator that features a bulbous shaft for deep G-spot stimulation and wide-reaching wings that cradle and caress your clitoral. Each of the two independent motors buzzes with 8 tantalizing vibration modes, giving you a variety of ways to explore and escalate your pleasure.

With the wireless remote, you’re in control of the intensity and pattern, whether you’re using it for some discreet public play or in the intimacy of your home. When you’re ready to get wet and wild, this vibe is fully submersible, making it the ultimate partner for your aquatic adventures!

Pros

  • Discreet
  • Remote control
  • Dual stimulation
  • Made with body-safe silicone

Cons

  • Won't stay on without underwear
  • The remote control doesn't work long distance

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect are quiet, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect felt to the reviewer.

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Rating: Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect felt to the reviewer.

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BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

My verdict

In conclusion, The Butterfly Effect is a versatile and powerful companion that promises to elevate your pleasure to new heights. Its intuitive design, coupled with the freedom of wireless control and the joy of waterproof capability, makes it an excellent addition to any collection. Whether you’re indulging alone or with a partner, this vibrator offers a unique and deeply satisfying experience. Rechargeable, ready for water play, and equipped with diverse vibration modes, it’s designed to captivate and cater to your every desire.

You should buy the Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect if you...

  1. are looking for a wearable butterfly vibrator
  2. like the option of remote control
  3. like public play

You should not buy the Evolved Novelties The Butterfly Effect if you...

  1. prefer a vibe with a strap
  2. don't like insertable sex toys

Couples CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring

4.5/5.0

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

0/5.0

Based on user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

85/100
QualityQuality

Rating: CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring

Sharing really is caring with this couple’s vibrator. Designed to stimulate both partners, this small toy is big on pleasure!

This stretchy, body-safe silicone ring enhances stamina and girth, while the butterfly teaser stimulates the clitoris. And with its 12 vibration settings, there are plenty of vibes to choose from! Waterproof and rechargeable, it’s perfect for adventurous, uninterrupted pleasure up to 80 minutes on a single charge. Plus, with a memory chip that remembers your last setting, you can dive back into your favorite sensations. It’s an ideal pick for partners looking to heighten their intimate moments together.

It’s small, discrete, and USB chargeable making it great for at-home or travel.

Pros

  • Super versatile
  • Stimulation for both partners
  • Flexible and comfortable to wear
  • Reachargable

Cons

  • Doesn't have a remote control
  • Can be fiddly to get the hang of

Vibrations: The vibrations of the CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring are silent, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

My verdict

This small, unassuming vibrator is a bit like a transformer, only much sexier! It can be worn in so many different positions, making it a great way to add some extra excitement to your and your partner’s repertoire. With its focus on shared pleasure, ease of use, and innovative features like a memory chip and waterproof design, it’s a stellar choice for those looking to enhance their intimate connection. Quick to recharge and easy to enjoy, this dual-ring promises a more fulfilling and exciting experience for both partners!

It could be improved with a remote control to make it easier to switch between the settings.

You should buy the CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring if you...

  1. want stimulation for both you and your partner
  2. prefer both internal and external stimulation
  3. like penetrative sex

You should not buy the CalExotics Dual Butterfly Vibrating Ring if you...

  1. want something that doesn't need adjusting too
  2. find wearing a cock ring uncomfortable
  3. are looking for a sex toy for public play

Panty Vibrator Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator

4.2/5.0

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.2/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.4/5.0

Based on 62 user reviews

73/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator was rated 73 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the butterfly vibrator.

75/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

70/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Medium

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Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

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A Closer Look at the Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator

This toy is easy to use and sits comfortably in your underwear, especially when sitting down. Great if you want to add some fun to reply to emails! The wireless remote also makes it great for solo or partner play and the volume is great for using discreetly in mid-volume settings.

The added storage bag is a nice touch that gives it an extra feel of luxury and the sleek neutral design is more universally appealing than some of the more pink and sparkly toys on the market.

You might need to experiment to fin which underwear works best to hold the vibrator in the right spot but once you do, it’s easy to get going.

It can be a little noisy on the higher settings so might not be so discreet in very quiet places but great in louder areas and around the home.
The overall quality and design make this a great addition to any type of couple play and it can also be used solo or to stimulate other sweetly sensitive areas of the body.

Pros

  • Easy to use
  • 16 settings
  • Great fit against body
  • Waterproof (not remote)

Cons

  • Remote is not waterproof
  • Remote disconnects from toy after inactivity
  • Needs underwear to be used hands-free

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator are fairly quiet, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

My verdict

This toy is easy to use and sits comfortably in your underwear, especially when sitting down. Great if you want to add some fun to reply to emails! The wireless remote also makes it great for solo or partner play and the volume is great for using discreetly in mid-volume settings.

The added storage bag is a nice touch that gives it an extra feel of luxury and the sleek neutral design is more universally appealing than some of the more pink and sparkly toys on the market.

You might need to experiment to fin which underwear works best to hold the vibrator in the right spot but once you do, it’s easy to get going.

It can be a little noisy on the higher settings so might not be so discreet in very quiet places but great in louder areas and around the home.
The overall quality and design make this a great addition to any type of couple play and it can also be used solo or to stimulate other sweetly sensitive areas of the body.

You should buy the Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator if you...

  1. want something similar to a butterfly vibrator (without it ACTUALLY being one)
  2. want products of high quality form a known brand

You should not buy the Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator if you...

  1. don't want to overpay

Comparison of the 7 best butterfly vibrators

BestTest Winner Beginner Cheapest G-spot Dual Vibrator Couples Panty Vibrator
Overall score4.3 / 5.0 3.9 / 5.0 4.1 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 - 4.2 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.4 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 3.8 / 5.0 3.6 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0
User rating4.1 / 5.0
from 34 users
3.3 / 5.0
from 18 users
4.4 / 5.0
from 15 users
5 / 5.0
from 4 users
4 / 5.0
from 1 users
- 4.4 / 5.0
from 62 users
PriceMedium Medium Medium Medium Medium Low Medium
Design81 / 100 90 / 100 60 / 100 70 / 100 90 / 100 80 / 100 73 / 100
Ease of use74 / 100 85 / 100 63 / 100 66 / 100 85 / 100 80 / 100 75 / 100
Quality71 / 100 80 / 100 55 / 100 68 / 100 90 / 100 85 / 100 70 / 100
Sound20 / 100 60 / 100 60 / 100 80 / 100 40 / 100 20 / 100 60 / 100
Power80 / 100 60 / 100 40 / 100 80 / 100 60 / 100 60 / 100 60 / 100
Buzzy/Rumblysomewhat rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly somewhat buzzy somewhat rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly
Vibration modes12 3 Adjustable speed 5 8 12 -
Length3 inches2 inches3.5 inches8 inches--3.5 inches
Insertable length2.6 inches---4.5 inches--
Diameter1.05 inches1.7 inches3.6 inches1.5 inches1.25 inches1.25 - 1.5 inchesN/A inches
WaterproofNo Yes No Yes Yes Yes Yes
RechargeableYes Yes No Yes USB Yes Yes
Battery Life50 minutes60-300 minutesN/A minutesN/A minutes-55 - 80 minutes45 minutes
Charging TimeN/A minutesN/A minutesN/A minutesN/A minutes-90 minutesN/A minutes
MaterialsSilicone Silicone Jelly, Rubber Silicone SIlicone Silicone Silicone
Travel LockNo Yes No No -No No
Remote Controls----Physical remote --
Vibration patterns------10
Vibration speeds------6
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Butterfly Attachments for a Magic Wand

This nifty little magic wand attachment can transform your magic wand vibrator into a flickering, fluttering butterfly. This is great if you don’t want to spend money, space or resources on buying another toy.

 Lovehoney Butterfly Bliss Clitoral Mini Wand Attachment

Lovehoney Butterfly Bliss Clitoral Mini Wand Attachment

 Lovehoney Butterfly Bliss Clitoral Mini Wand Attachment

The textured pad and trembling antennae deliver intensely satisfying vibrations straight to your clitoris while the wings add a flutter of vibration and keep your body right on your hot spot.

Features

  • Cheap alternative to buying a new toy
  • Wings and antennae provide flickering clitoral stimulation
  • Fits any wand vibrator
  • Can be used to stimulate the clitoris or other sensitive areas
  • Textured for added stimulation
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Comparing The Best Butterfly Vibrators

Best Rated
Dame Eva: It has the highest Bedbible rating of 4.6/5.0, and an impressive design score of 90/100, suggesting a user-friendly and aesthetically pleasing build. The ease of use score of 85/100 makes it user-friendly and perfect for beginners.

The Butterfly Effect: This product also has a high Bedbible rating of 4.5/5.0 and an equal design score of 90/100, indicating its quality and thoughtful design. Its ease of use score is also high at 85/100, making it a great choice for users who value both form and function.

Most Powerful
Venus Butterfly: With a power rating of 80/100, it’s one of the most powerful options. It also features 12 vibration modes, providing a wide range of intensity and pattern options for varied experiences.

Rotator Butterfly Kiss: This also has a power rating of 80/100, making it equally powerful. It comes with 5 vibration modes, offering a decent range of options to experiment with different sensations.

Best Features
The Butterfly Effect: It comes with a physical remote control, adding an element of convenience and versatility, especially for couple’s play or more dynamic solo sessions. Additionally, it has 8 vibration modes, offering a good range of settings to choose from.

Butterfly Vibrating Ring: While it doesn’t have a remote control, it stands out with 12 vibration modes, one of the highest among the products listed. This variety allows for a more tailored experience to suit different preferences and moods. Plus, it is a perfect toy for couples that enjoy penetrative sex.

What is so Special About Butterfly Vibrators?

With so many different types of vibrators and stimulators on the market, it can be difficult to know what they do and which one is best for you. Here is a quick explanation of what a butterfly vibrator does!

Puts your clit in the spotlight

Puts your clit in the spotlight

Puts your clit in the spotlight

The glorious clitoris, small but mighty and overlooked for so long. But, no more! It’s finally time to put your clitoris in the spotlight. Butterfly vibrators are just one of many toys designed specifically with clitoral stimulation in mind and with good reason!

The clitoris has a high number of nerve endings, making it one of the most sensitive erogenous zones and a powerhouse of pleasure and for many women, clitoral stimulation is the main route to reaching orgasm.

How does the butterfly help with this?

How does the butterfly help with this?

How does the butterfly help with this?

While the clitoris extends inside the body, butterfly vibrators work by applying delicious flicks, flutters and vibrations to the part that sits outside of the body.

Butterfly vibrators often feature a butterfly with a body that vibrates and presses against the clitoris with antennae that sit around the clitoris and wings that envelope the labia for intense stimulation either alone or with a partner.

How to Use a Butterfly Vibrator

So now you know all about the joys of butterfly vibrators, here are a few exciting ways to use your new toy for solo or partner play.

 How to Use a Butterfly Vibrator

For clitoral stimulation during penetration

For clitoral stimulation during penetration

Most butterfly vibrators with a harness or adjustable arms are designed to fit snugly against your clitoris while leaving you open to enjoy penetration. Simply get the butterfly vibrator in place and have your partner enter you either with a penis or dildo. Go for positions where the clitoris is more exposed, such as the butterfly position, so you can easily apply more pressure to the toy as needed.

 How to Use a Butterfly Vibrator

Foreplay

Foreplay

Ok, so this is a broad category and leaves a lot to your imagination. Vibrators that sit inside the pants or are worn with a harness are a great way to get in the mood for a steamy session. As well as using butterfly vibrators on the clitoris during foreplay, you can also use those juicy vibrations to excite or parts of the body such as the nipples.

 How to Use a Butterfly Vibrator

Control and orgasm denial

Control and orgasm denial

Wearable vibrators that come with a wireless remote control are ideal for adding an element of control to partner play. Hand over the remote and put yourself at the mercy of your partner. Not knowing when you’re going to get that sweet buzz or how strong it will be, adds a whole new layer of excitement. You can also add in some orgasm denial by letting your partner reach the brink of orgasm and then stealing it away, repeating the process again and again to build the anticipation.

 How to Use a Butterfly Vibrator

Secret stimulation in public

Secret stimulation in public

If the thrill of getting caught excites you, why not take your wearable vibrator out for a little walk. This excitement can be heightened by putting your partner in control if your toy comes with a remote. The intense sensation and exhilaration of being outside can make for some electrifying orgasms. You just have to try and keep a straight face and make sure you go for a model with quiet vibrations.

 How to Use a Butterfly Vibrator

Double penetration

Double penetration

​Butterfly dildo vibrators that come with insertable shafts or g-spot stimulators are perfect for trying out double penetration with a partner with either a penis or dildo. The intense stimulation of vaginal and anal penetration with the butterfly stimulating your clitoris is bound to push you over the edge.

How to Clean a Butterfly Vibrator

It’s important to clean your sex toys before and after every use to prevent any nasty infections and keep them in top condition. And after all the love they show you, it’s only fair to give a little back! As butterfly vibrators contain electrical parts, you have to be careful when cleaning them and never submerge them in water unless they are completely waterproof. When it comes to cleaning toys, always manufacturer’s guideline first. Oh and don’t forget to get into all the nooks and crannies for a full and thorough clean! If your butterfly vibrator is made of a non-porous material such as silicone or some hard plastics, it can be washed with a soapy cloth and dried before storing in its own storage box or bag. If your butterfly vibrator is made of a porous material such as rubber, vinyl or Cyberskin, you can wash your toy with a soapy cloth but be extra gentle when cleaning and drying your toy as these materials degrade more easily.

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
materials

Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.

FAQ

What does a butterfly vibrator do?
A butterfly vibrator stimulates both the greater labia area while providing intense stimulation to the clitoris.
Who can use a butterfly vibrator?
Traditional butterfly vibrators are designed for people with clitorises. However, couple's vibrators are designed to stimulate both partners as vibrations can also feel fantastic for people with penises. You can also use vibrating toys on other areas of the body such as the nipples or the head of the penis.
What is the difference between a vibrator and butterfly vibrator?
The main difference between a standard bullet vibrator and a butterfly vibrator that bullet vibrators are used to apply stimulation to the clitoris whereas butterfly vibrators often feature wings to stimulate the labia and antennae that flicker with the vibrations. Butterfly vibrators are also often handsfree, being held in place with a harness, insertable shaft or underwear.
What is the best material for a butterfly vibrator?
As with all sex toys, non-porous materials are safer and longer-lasting than porous materials as they are easier to clean. Body-safe or medical grade silicone is a great material for a butterfly vibrator as it is easy to clean and feels soft against your body. Porous materials such as jelly or TPE/TPR /rubber are cheaper but porous and therefore cannot be fully cleaned and will degrade over time.
Can I use a butterfly vibrator during intercourse?
Absolutely! A lot of butterfly vibrators are designed so they can be worn during penetration. Choose a couples vibrator or one that comes with a harness that keeps the vibrator in place.
How do I use a remote control butterfly vibrator?
Remote control butterfly vibrators can be lots of fun to use with a partner! While certain models might differ, most remote control butterfly vibrators will come with either an app-control or physical remote control: a remote control will be powered by Bluetooth and allow a partner (or yourself!) to control the sensations hands-free!
Who invented the butterfly vibrator?
Feminist inventor Joani Blank invented the iconic Butterfly sex toy in 1977, after identifying a gap in the market for hands-free clitoral stimulators. Historically, clitoral and labia stimulation was used by Doctors as a means to treat "female hysteria" - and the first-ever vibrator was invented to relieve doctors from arm cramps!
Where to buy a butterfly vibrator?
We always recommend buying your sex toys from reputable adult toy retailers. We only ever recommend trustworthy sex toy shops with great customer service, to ensure that you're guaranteed authenticity and quality.
Are butterfly vibrators loud?
Most butterfly vibrators will be quite discreet, especially if they're designed to be app-controlled. However, you should always check out reviews beforehand if you're worried about noise. In all our vibrator reviews, we rate the toy's noisiness on a scale of 1-5.

What is a Butterfly Vibrator?

A butterfly vibrator is a sex toy designed for external clitoral stimulation. It often looks like its namesake, with wings that sit over the labia and sometimes with antennae that sit either side of the clitoris. Some butterfly sex toys have a harness that holds them in place, which also looks like a butterfly, whereas others have an insertable part that sits inside the vagina. The butterfly clit stimulator delivers delicious buzzing sensations to your clitoris while the wings lightly stimulate your labia, leading to trembling orgasms whether used alone or with penetration.

Author
Isabelle Uren
Isabelle Uren

Site Manager | Aiming to empower people to embrace sexual pleasure one sex toy at a time or two, whatever takes your fancy! As well researching and writing about all things sex, I study Tantra and love finding new way to enhance intimacy, alone or with a partner. My life philosophy is the three Ms approach — meditation, masturbation, and mmm a good cup of tea!

Age: 32
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: Doxy Die Cast
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