The 28 Best Strap Ons for Perfect Partner and Power Play

Isabelle Uren
by Isabelle Uren
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We’ve got all of the very best strap-ons for every type of strap-on sex in one place, so you can find your perfect match! So whether you want the perfect pegging strap-on, a strap-on for lesbians, a new harness, or a complete strap-on kit, we’ve got the best picks on the market right here! With all the specs, ratings and reviews in one place, you can easily compare all the choices and find which one is going to work best for you and your partner, so you can start enjoying strap-on sex in no time!
Test WinnerCheapestBeginnersIntermediate Strapless Advanced Vibrating Vibrating RabbitDouble EndedHollowLesbianHarness
Supersex Strap On Pegging Kit
Phallic Strap On Set
Tantus Unisex Strap on Kit
Lovehoney Advanced Strap On
Fun Factory ShareVibe
Deluxe Strap On Kit
Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set
Desire Strap On Kit
Happy Rabbit Strapless Strap On
Together Toy
Doc Johnson Hollow Strap-On Kit
Double Dildo Vibrating Four
Joque
Supersex Strap On Pegging KitPhallic Strap On SetTantus Unisex Strap on KitLovehoney Advanced Strap OnFun Factory ShareVibeDeluxe Strap On Kit Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On SetDesire Strap On KitHappy Rabbit Strapless Strap OnTogether ToyDoc Johnson Hollow Strap-On KitDouble Dildo Vibrating FourJoque
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Why Trust Our Review?

Choosing a strap on, especially if it’s your first time can be pretty daunting! It’s hard to know what sets one apart from the other and what will work best for you and your partner.

Luckily for you, we have plenty of sex toy experience — we’ve reviewed more 500 products, in fact! We pour all of that knowledge and experience into each review to hunt out the best products and supply you with all the information you need to make the best decision.

We also know that every body is different, so we don’t only rely on our expert knowledge. We also take reviews and ratings from all the people who have used the product, and where possible, get one our testers to take it for a spin and give their honest opinion.

Why Trust Our Review?

Things to consider when buying a strap on

  • Harness Style — You want a harness that is going to be comfortable, and supportive, but also one that matches your style and makes you feel like your sexiest self! The two main options are strap-style harnesses, which are the most supportive but can be fiddly, and underwear-style harnesses, which offer a little less support but can feel more natural. If you have a bigger body, there are also some really great plus-size harnesses out there.
  • Harness Material — If you want a strap on for everyday use, I would recommend going for something machine washable. However, if you are looking for more of BDMS style, a leather harness definitely looks the part!
  • Dildo Size — Whoever is on the receiving end should pick the dildo. If you are using your strap-on for anal play/pegging, or you are just getting into penetrative play, I recommend going for something smaller. Check out the beginner’s option in the review for our favorite first time strap on.
  • Dildo Shape — If you are looking for some delicious g-spot or p-spot stimulation, shop for a strap on that comes with a curved dildo.
  • Dildo Material — As always, we recommend buying a non-toxic, non-porous dildo, such as silicone dildo, as this is safe for your body, easy to care for, and long-lasting.
  • Dildo Compatibility — Some harnesses are only compatible with a very limited range of dildos, whereas others can be used with a wider range, giving you more options to switch things up. Harnesses that use O-rings, for example, can be used with any dildo with a flared base, giving you endless opportunities to try new dildos in your trusty harness.
  • Vibrations — Some strap ons come with bullet vibrators that can be inserted into the dildo or the harness for some extra stimulation while some do not. However, if you crave strong vibrations, I would recommend looking for a strap on with built in vibrations as the quality and strength of the vibrations tend to be better.

FAQ

How to put on strap on
Harness style — loosen the harness so you can step into it, one leg at a time. Pull it up and tighten the straps a bit. Place the dildo in the harness, and then fully tighten the straps so the harness is snug and secure.
Who can wear a strap on?
Vulva owners can wear all types of strap on, whereas penis owners will need to look for a unisex strap on, which has a hole in the harness for their penis or a hollow strap on, which has space inside the dildo for their penis.
Who can use a strap on?
Strap ons can be part of all types of partner sex. They are commonly used by two partners with vulvas to experience penetration or worn by a person with a vulva to penetrate their penis-owning partner (a.k.a pegging). People with penises may also choose to wear a strap on if they erectile dysfunction, want to increase the size of their penis, or for double penetration.
What lube can I use with a strap on?
You should use water-based lubrication with your strap on, unless your dildo is made of glass or stainless steel, in which case, you can use any lubricant of your choice.
Where can I buy a strap on dildo?
All of the strap on dildos in this post are from shops we love and trust, so you can shop with peace of mind. You should also shop from reputable sex toy stores, online or in person.

What is a strap on?

A strap on is a harness with a dildo that allows you be the penetrating partner without having a penis or an erection. The harness is worn like a pair of underwear and holds a dildo of your choice, allowing anyone to experience what it is like to penetrate their partner as if they had a penis. Strap ons are often be used for penetrative sex between two partners with vulvas or for pegging — where a vulva owning partner penetrates their partner anally. There are also hollow strap ons that can be worn over a penis to experience a bigger erection or help with erectile dysfunction. There really is a strap on for every occasion!

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The 13 Best strap ons in Test

1 Test Winner

Tracey Cox Supersex Strap On Pegging Kit

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The strap on set that has it all! The super sex strap on kit from sex and relationship expert Tracy Cox comes with not one but two silky soft silicone dildos for you and your parter to explore. The harness has a unisex design, meaning it can be worn by anyone and it comes with three O-rings so you can use it with any flared base dildo that takes your fancy! And, on top of all of that it comes with it’s very own bullet vibrator that can be slipped inside the harness for some added stimulation for the wearer!

Tracey Cox Supersex Strap On Pegging Kit test
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap On Pegging Kit features
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Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Supersex Strap On Pegging Kit if you...
want two different size dildos
are looking for a full strap on kit
enjoy p-/g-spot pleasure
want optional vibrations
You should NOT buy the Supersex Strap On Pegging Kit if you...
prefer an underwear style harness
want the dual stimulation of a strapless strap on
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap On Pegging Kit features
Features
Vibration modes7 
Insertable lengthSmall dildo: 4.5 inches; Large dildo: 6 inches
DiameterSmall dildo: 0.87 inches; Large dildo: 1.5 inches
WaterproofYes (not bullet vibrator) 
MaterialsSilicone (dildos) 
RechargeableNo 
Harness SizeUp to 65 inches (US dress size 6-28) inches
Pros
Two different size dildos with suction cup bases
Bullet vibe included
Harness adjustable up to 65 inches (size 6-28)
Dildos are curved for p-/g-spot stimulation
3 O-rings included
Harness compatible with other dildos
Cons
Vibrator pocket not in the right location
Bullet vibrator is quite weak
Conclusion

This really is a fantastic kit, and the perfect place to start your strap on adventure. The smaller, smooth dildo is perfect for people who are new to penetrative play or anyone trying anal sex for the first time, while the larger dildo is great if you want a little more stimulation in terms of size and texture. Having two dildos means you can each choose your favorite or work your way up from the smaller to the bigger one, and as both have suction cup bases, you can even ride them hands free! The harness is really easy to use as well and I love that it can be used with any harness compatible dildo, so you will never get bored! Not to mention, it’s machine washable! The bullet vibrator isn’t the strongest, as you might expect, and it’s difficult to get it in the right position in the pocket for clit stimulation, but it can be used handheld for other areas, like on the nipples. Overall a high quality, versatile strap on kit at a very reasonable price!

2 Cheapest

Silicone Phallic Strap On Set

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If you are looking for a silicone strap on at a great price, this is the strap on for you! The 4.25 inch, realistic, silicone dildo features a veiny shaft and sculpted head that adds to lifelike sensations. Simply screw it on to the  harness and you ready to play! The harness has a faux leather black design and is fully adjustable to fit most waist sizes!

Silicone Phallic Strap On Set test
Silicone Phallic Strap On Set features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Phallic Strap On Set if you...
want a budget strap on
are new to strap on play
prefer a realistic design
like the thong-style harness
You should NOT buy the Phallic Strap On Set if you...
want a non-realistic design
want a harness you can use with other dildos
prefer a curved dildo for g-/p-spot pleasure
want a very high-quality harness
Silicone Phallic Strap On Set features
Features
Insertable length4.25 inches
Diameter1.25 inches
WaterproofYes (Dildo) 
MaterialsSilicone (dildo), Faux leather (harness) 
Harness SizeFits most waist sizes inches
Pros
Great price for a silicone dildo
Adjustable harness fits most sizes
Realistic texture and shape
Cons
Harness can get uncomfortable, especially at the back
Straps can rub
Dildo might be to small for anyone with anal experience
Harness not compatible with other dildos
Conclusion

I didn’t think it would be possible to find a strap on set this cheap that comes with a silicone dildo! This is a great option for anyone wanting to for a cheap strap-on dildo. The dildo is a quite small, so might not be the best option if you already have some experience with penetration. The straps can also be a little uncomfortable to wear for a long time. You should also bear in mind that this harness is not compatible with other dildos, but at such a steal, that’s not really a surprise!

3 Beginners

Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap On Harness Kit

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Lovehoney.com
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SheVibe
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Spectrumboutique
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Tantus are known for their top quality silicone dildos and this starters strap on set is no exception! The kit comes with two smooth silicone dildos that a perfect for anal or vaginal penetration. The smaller dildo measures just 4.5 inches long and a petite 0.8 inches wide, which is perfect this is your first experience with penetration! You also get a slightly bigger dildo, giving you something to work up to! The harness is easy to adjust and can be used with any flared based sex toy!

Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap On Harness Kit test
Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap On Harness Kit features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Tantus Unisex Strap on Kit if you...
want two different size dildos
enjoy added vibrations
prefer smooth dildos
are looking for smaller dildos
need a unisex harness
You should NOT buy the Tantus Unisex Strap on Kit if you...
prefer realistic
enjoy a larger dildo
like dildos with textural details
want a vibrating strap on
Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap On Harness Kit features
Features
Vibration modes1 
LengthSmall dildo: 4.5 inches; Large dildo: 5.25 inches
DiameterSmall dildo: 0.8 inches; Large dildo: 1.14 inches
WaterproofSplashproof 
MaterialsSilicone (dildos) 
RechargeableNo 
Harness Size17-60 inches (US dress size 4 - 30) inches
Pros
Comfortable, adjustable harness
Two suction cup dildos
Perfect for beginners
Bullet vibe included
Harness compatible with other dildos
Two color options
Cons
Too small those more experienced with anal play
Difficult to feel vibrations from the bullet vibe
Not a big size difference between the two dildos
Conclusion

This set makes for an absolutely fantastic starter strap-on. The non-phallic design is not intimidating in any way and the smooth surface means they glide easily when used with water-based lubrication and the rounded tips are easy to insert. The curve also provides some gentle g-spot or p-spot stimulation without being too intense. I would say these are only suitable if you are beginner and if you have more experience or prefer a larger dildo, I would recommend looking at the intermediate or advanced options as these might be a little on the small side for you! The harness is also well designed, comfortable to wear, and can be used with other dildos, which is great if you want to size up!

4 Intermediate

Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap On Kit

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Take things to the next level with this strap on set from Lovehoney! The 7 inch dildo gives you a little more to play with and really ups the sensation! It also features a more pronounced curve to really massage your g- or p-spot with each thrust. The harness offers plenty of support so you can focus on enjoying the moment and it comes with three different size O-rings to use with other flared base dildos, and there’s also a pocket for a bullet vibrator. The harness is machine washable, making upkeep a breeze!

Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap On Kit test
Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap On Kit features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Lovehoney Advanced Strap On if you...
want a bigger sized dildo
need a unisex harness
enjoy g-/p-spot stimulation
You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Advanced Strap On if you...
are new to strap on sex
prefer a vibrating dildo
Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap On Kit features
Features
Length7 inches
Insertable length6 inches
Diameter1.5 inches
WaterproofYes 
MaterialsSilicone (dildo) 
Harness Size28-65 inches inches
Pros
Curved, silicone dildo
Pocket for bullet vibe
Adjustable, machine washable harness
Unisex harness
Compatible with other dildos
Cons
Straps are quite long
Can be a little uncomfortable for wearers with a penis
Conclusion

With an insertable length of 6 inches and a diameter of 1.5 inches, this strap on is perfect for anyone with some penetrative experience under their belt. The dildo is made from lovely, soft silicone that feels fantastic with a slick of water-based lube. It’s also great that it comes with three O-rings so you can swap in any other dildo for more variety. This is a great price for silicone strap on kit and well worth the modest investment!

5 Strapless

Fun Factory ShareVibe

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Fun Factory
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Lovehoney.com
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The ShareVibe from Fun Factory is a strapless strap-on designed to pleasure both partners at the same time. As well as the two shafts, the ShareVibe has a removable, rechargeable bullet vibrator that slips into the base and a silicone ridge that adds some extra clitoral stimulation! Plus, the harness-free design allows for a more intimate strap-on experience as there’s no harness between your bodies.

Fun Factory ShareVibe test
Fun Factory ShareVibe features
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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Fun Factory ShareVibe if you...
want to explore more intimate strap-on play
want stimulation for both partners
You should NOT buy the Fun Factory ShareVibe if you...
want something totally hands-free
don't want to use a harness for extra support
are new to penetrative play
Fun Factory ShareVibe features
Features
Vibration speeds2 
Vibration patterns3 
Length11 inches
Insertable length5.5 inches
Diameter1.4 - 1.6 inches
WaterproofYes 
MaterialsSilicone 
RechargeableYes 
Battery Life45-90 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockNo 
Pros
Pleasure for both partners
Firm but flexible silicone
Rechargeable bullet vibrator
Cons
Can be difficult to hold in place
Might still need to buy a harness for support
Might need to prepare if using for anal penetration
Conclusion

The ShareVibe is a really great quality strapless strap-on that makes for some great pegging or strap-on play! If you are using it for anal penetration, you might want to use a smaller dildo to prepare first, especially if you are new to anal sex. While this is a really well-made strapless strap-on, it does have the same issue as all strap-ons in that it can be difficult to hold in place. As the wearer you will most likely need to hold the ShareVibe or use it with a strap-on harness for extra stability.

6 Advanced

Lovehoney Deluxe Strap On Kit

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Bring on the big boy with the Deluxe Strap On Kit from Lovehoney! Perfect for people who crave the full on satisfaction of a bigger dildo or are working their way up to it! The smaller dildo provides the perfect warm up for the larger, 8-inch whopper! With realistic veins and a sculpted head, the larger dildo also offers enhanced sensations and a little more realism compared to the smaller, smoother dildo. And if that wasn’t enough variation for you, you can also use the three included O-rings to sub in another dildo of your choice. The harness is easy to adjust and will fit anyone with up to a 67 inch waist.

Lovehoney Deluxe Strap On Kit  test
Lovehoney Deluxe Strap On Kit  features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Deluxe Strap On Kit if you...
are ready for a bigger dildo
want two dildos for variation
want a harness to use with other dildos
You should NOT buy the Deluxe Strap On Kit if you...
prefer a smaller dildo
are looking for a vibrating strap on
Lovehoney Deluxe Strap On Kit  features
Features
LengthSmall dildo: 5.6 inches; Large dildo: 8  inches
DiameterSmall dildo: 1.14 inches; Large dildo: 1.87 inches
WaterproofYes 
MaterialsSilicone (dildos) 
Harness Sizeup to 67 inches inches
Pros
two very different size dildos
one smooth, one textured dildo
harness compatible with other dildos
dildos have suction cup bases
Cons
larger dildo a little pointy
very big size difference might not suit some
Conclusion

Another great set with two high quality silicone dildos, but the large dildo in this set is definitely for the more experienced out there. At 8 inches long and just under 2 inches in diameter, not only is it big, but you can also really feel the textural details and curve. The only issue with the larger dildo is that the end can feel a little pointy when thrusting hard. The smaller dildo is considerably smaller at just 5.6 inches long and 1.14 inches wide, which is fine for a warm up or anal use, but if you want two dildos for training/stretching, it’s quite a large jump from the small to the large. I would recommend using a medium size dildo in between, as going directly from the small to the large might be too intense. Luckily, you get three O-rings, so you can easily buy a medium size dildo to fill that gap (pun intended).

7 Vibrating

Vac-U-Lock Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set

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This versatile strap on kit is the ultimate in strap on realism! The three different dildos are made of dual density Ultraskyn for the most lifelike look and feel. Choose your dildo of the day and lock into place using either the standard Vac-U-Lock attachment or magically transform any on the dildos into a vibrator using the vibrating Vac-U-Lock base. It even comes with a remote control, making it super easy to switch between the 7 different vibrations modes without interrupting the action! As well as two bases and three dildos, you also get 3 different size O-rings, water based lubricant, toy cleaner, and toy powder, so you really are set for all the strap on fun you can imagine! What’s more, the two Vac-U-Lock bases can be used with any Vac-U-Lock dildos for even more variety!

Vac-U-Lock Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set test
Vac-U-Lock Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set features
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Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set if you...
enjoy larger dildos
want added vibrations
prefer a realistic look and feel
are looking for a versatile luxury strap on kit
You should NOT buy the Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set if you...
prefer non-porous toys
are new to penetrative play
are on a budget
haven't tried strap on sex/ pegging before
Vac-U-Lock Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set features
Features
Vibration modes7 
Length8.25 inches 7.25 inches, & 7.25  inches
Insertable length8.25 inches, 6.5 inches, & 6.25 inches
Diameter1.75 (all dildos) inches
MaterialsUltraskyn (TPR/TPE) 
RechargeableYes 
Remote ControlsYes 
FasteningVac-U-Lock 
Harness SizeUp to 69 inches inches
Pros
Three different size dildos
Varied dildo designs
Dual density dildos for ultra realistic feel
Vibrating Vac-U-Lock plug for added vibrations with remote control
360 degree suction cup for hands-free use
Water based lubricant, toy cleaner, and toy powder included
Available in three different skin tones
Cons
Dildos very similar in size
Dildos are porous
Conclusion

This set is pretty pricey but it does come with so many different ways to enjoy it! I think the vibrating base is super smart as it gives you two ways to enjoy each dildo — with and without vibrations. On top of that the swivelling base makes it easier to use the strap ons in a wider range of positions. The dildos look and feel extremely lifelike and you can choose between with or without balls. It’s also fantastic that there’s a choice between three different skin tones. The only down side to this set is that Ultraskyn is a porous material, meaning it can’t be fully sterilized and has miniscule holes that can harbour germs and mold over time. At this price, I would expect the dildos to be made of silicone.

8 Vibrating

Desire Luxury Vibrating Strap On Kit

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This purple pleaser comes with two inbuilt vibrating motors for enhanced stimulation. The smooth curve allows to you to direct those vibrations to the most sensitive spots — the g-spot for vulva owners or the p-spot for penis owners, and the vibrations can be controlled using the remote so you don’t have to stop and fiddle around looking for the buttons! The unisex harness can be worn by anyone and is full adjustable, making this strap on both practical and pretty! And the icing on the cage is the sleek, black storage case, which allows you to travel or charge your strap on discreetly wherever you go!

Desire Luxury Vibrating Strap On Kit test
Desire Luxury Vibrating Strap On Kit features
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Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Desire Strap On Kit if you...
want a strap on with built-in vibrations
prefer to have a remote control
want a harness that can be used with other dildos
You should NOT buy the Desire Strap On Kit if you...
are not interested in the vibrating feature
are new to penetrative play
Desire Luxury Vibrating Strap On Kit features
Features
Vibration speeds12 
Vibration patterns8 
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter1.59 inches
WaterproofYes (not remote) 
MaterialsSilicone (dildo) 
RechargeableYes 
Remote ControlsYes 
Storage Bag IncludedYes — case 
Pros
Rechargeable
Remote control
Discreet charging & storage case
20 vibration settings
Curved dildo for G-spot or P-spot stimulation
Cons
The vibrations could be stronger
Might be too small for some
Conclusion

If you love vibrations, this is such a step up from the usual bullet vibrators, which can often be disappointing and leaving you craving more. I also love that you get a remote as there’s nothing worse than having to stop play to change the settings. The dildo is a lovely, sensual purple color and the size best suits someone who has experience with anal or vaginal penetration before. The black storage case is also a really nice touch and definitely makes it feel like a luxury product. It is a little pricier but if you know you love strap on sex and vibrations, I would say it’s definitely spending a little extra!

9 Rabbit

Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strapless Strap On

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This strapless strap on really goes the extra mile when it comes to stimulation! Not only does the Happy Rabbit deliver stimulation to both partners simultaneously, the wearer also gets some delicious clitoral vibrations from the rabbit ears! Choose between a whopping 12 vibration modes in the shaft and three for the wearer to find your perfect couple’s combo! This vibrant vibrator is also USB rechargeable and fully waterproof for some seriously sexy shower time.

Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strapless Strap On test
Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strapless Strap On features
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Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Happy Rabbit Strapless Strap On if you...
prefer a strapless design
enjoy vibrations
want added clit stimulation for the wearer
You should NOT buy the Happy Rabbit Strapless Strap On if you...
prefer the support of a harness
don't enjoy clitoral stimulation (wearer)
prefer a softer dildo
Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strapless Strap On features
Features
Vibration modesShaft – 12 
Vibration speedsPony — 3 
Length8 inches
Insertable lengthPony: 4.5; Shaft: 5.5 inches
DiameterPony: 1.43; Shaft: 1.35 inches
WaterproofYes 
MaterialsSilicone 
RechargeableYes 
Travel LockYes 
AdjustableYes 
Pros
Adjustable angle
Feels more intimate than a harness
Stimulation for both partners
Two motors
Clitoral stimulation
Cons
Too rigid for some
Can be difficult to hold in
Difficult to change settings when in use
The color can be off-putting for some
Conclusion

This is a great option if you are looking for a double ended strap on that can stimulate both partners at the same time, especially if you both love vibrations! You can adjust the angle, which makes it easier to find the right fit or use this strap on in different positions. The shaft and bulb are very rigid, which some people can find too intense, so if you prefer a softer or more realistic feeling dildo, this won’t be the best choice for you. Also, as with almost all strapless strap ons, it can be difficult to hold the bulb in place, and I would recommend combing it with a harness or underwear style harness for extra support. Unfortunately, this strap on only comes in bright pink, which isn’t going to be everyone’s cup of tea, but at least it’s easy to spot in the dark!

10 Double Ended

Together Toy Double Ended Rabbit Vibrator

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70/100
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The best of both worlds for both partners! This double ended rabbit vibrator is designed to deliver hands-free, dual stimulation to two vulva owners at the same time. With an insertable arm and a clitoral stimulator for both partners, neither of you have to settle for less. Not only that, the innovative ‘Echo’ feature responds to contractions in your kegel muscles with extra stimulation for your partner, so you can really tune into each other’s arousal.

Together Toy Double Ended Rabbit Vibrator test
Together Toy Double Ended Rabbit Vibrator features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
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Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Together Toy if you...
want simultaneous stimulation
both enjoy dual stimulation
both have vulvas
You should NOT buy the Together Toy if you...
do not enjoy clitoral stimulation
prefer thrusting
have a bigger or smaller than average distance from your clitoris to your vulva
Together Toy Double Ended Rabbit Vibrator features
Features
Vibration speeds3 
Length16 inches
Insertable length5.5 inches
Diameter1.6 inches
WaterproofYes 
MaterialsSilicone 
RechargeableYes 
AdjustableYes 
Pros
Echo function increases vibrations when squeezed by partner
Internal and clitoral stimulation for both partners
Simultaneous stimulation
Cons
Won't fit all bodies
Ridges can be annoying
Can be tricky to figure out
Only 3 vibration settings
Conclusion

I love the idea behind this double ended vibrator — it really does take pleasure equality to the extreme. However, in practice, it is something that is very difficult to get right. Firstly, with such a specific design, it’s unlikely that both the internal arm and clitoral stimulator will be the right fit as everyone’s vulva is a different shape and size. Secondly, it is somewhat difficult for both partners to find a position and move in a way they find stimulating, while also maintaining contact with the clitoral stimulator. So while I do really like thought of this vibrator, it is quite a lot to pay for something that might not fit both of your bodies in the way you want it to.

11 Hollow

Doc Johnson Silicone Hollow Strap-On Kit

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80/100
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80/100
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85/100
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This sleek, black, silicone, hollow strap on set can be worn by vulva owners and penis owners alike! The three silicone dildos feature a hollow canal that can accommodate a penis, allowing you to give your partner the pleasure of a bigger, harder erection. It also a tool if you have erectile dysfunction. The unique silicone harness is sturdy but comfortable and sits snugly against your body, and it’s quick and easy to switch between the three different style dildos to suit your desires.

Doc Johnson Silicone Hollow Strap-On Kit test
Doc Johnson Silicone Hollow Strap-On Kit features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Doc Johnson Hollow Strap-On Kit if you...
want a strap on to wear over a penis
have erectile dysfunction
want to add more length or girth to your erection
want a variety of different size dildos
want to explore double penetration
You should NOT buy the Doc Johnson Hollow Strap-On Kit if you...
are looking for a strap to be worn only by a vulva owner
have a larger than average penis
prefer a vibrating dildo
are new to penetration
Doc Johnson Silicone Hollow Strap-On Kit features
Features
Insertable lengthS: 7 inches; M: 7.5 inches, L: 8  inches
DiameterS: 1.9 inches; M: 1.9 inches, L: 2.2 inches
Diameter (internal) 1.75  inches
WaterproofYes 
MaterialsSilicone 
Harness Size28-48 inches inches
Pros
Three different dildos
Can be worn over a penis
Can be used for double penetration
Silicone
Cons
Can be difficult to insert penis
Might be too small for some penises
Harness might not fit larger bodies
Harness not compatible with other dildos
Conclusion

This hollow strap on set is a really great way to add a little more length and girth to your erection, and give you partner a little extra stimulation. It’s also fantastic if you want to live out the fantasy of having sex with someone else, as although it’s still your partner, you get to experience three different sized penises! I would say this is best suited to penis owners with a smaller penis size otherwise it can be a little uncomfortable to wear. Although you can also slip your penis through the hole in the harness for some double penetration action! The thick waistband and silicone harness also make this comfortable to wear and easy to clean. The downside is that you can only use this harness with the dildos provided as it does not feature a Vac-U-Lock system or O-rings. If this doesn’t tickle your fancy, check out our other top strap ons for penis owners.

12 Lesbian

Wet For Her Double Dildo Vibrating Four

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100/100
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75/100
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85/100
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Wet For Her specialise in lesbian sex products and this double dildo features their signature finger design, which is perfect for anyone who does not enjoy phallic designs. The bulb of the dildo sits inside the wearer’s vagina, while the two finger shaft provides stimulation to the other partner. It also comes with a removable, USB rechargeable bullet vibrator that slots into the base and send vibrations throughout the toy.

Wet For Her Double Dildo Vibrating Four test
Wet For Her Double Dildo Vibrating Four features
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Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Double Dildo Vibrating Four if you...
prefer a non-phallic design
want simultaneous stimulation for both partners
want added vibrations
prefer a smaller bulb/pony
You should NOT buy the Double Dildo Vibrating Four if you...
want the support of a harness
prefer inbuilt vibrations
want a phallic design
Wet For Her Double Dildo Vibrating Four features
Features
Vibration speeds5 
Insertable lengthShaft: 4.7  inches
DiameterShaft: 1.38 inches; Bulb: 1.34 inches
MaterialsSilicone 
RechargeableYes 
Pros
Non-phallic design
Smaller bulb
Removable, rechargeable bullet vibe
Cons
Might be too small for some
Can be tricky to keep in place
Best used with a harness/ harness underwear
Conclusion

I absolutely love Wet for Her’s finger design vibrators and think it’s so great to have a fun, non-phallic option available that can feel more natural to some people. Not to mention, the soft lilac colour is just beautiful! As with all strapless strap-ons the bulb can be trick to hold in place, so you might want to throw on a harness or harness underwear to help keep it in place. The smaller bulb size is perfect for people with less penetrative experience or anyone who prefers something smaller. It’s great that the bullet vibrator is rechargeable but it doesn’t give as strong vibrations as most inbuilt vibrators, so bear that in mind you crave really powerful vibrations.

13 Harness

SpareParts Joque Harness

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90/100
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90/100
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The Joque unisex harness is comfortable and secure, allowing you greater control over your strap-on, so you can focus on the moment and not your harness!

Both the waist and legs are adjustable so you can find the perfect fit for your body. The harness is fitted with a stretchy O-ring that can accommodate any dildo between 1.25 and 2 inches in diameter, making it easy to switch between your favorite dildos.

The Joque also has two pockets for you to slip your favorite bullet vibrator into!

SpareParts Joque Harness test
SpareParts Joque Harness features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Joque if you...
are looking for a comfortable, secure harness
prefer jock style straps
want to invest in a high-quality harness
You should NOT buy the Joque if you...
prefer a harness with a thong back
want something sexier
you want a harness that comes with a dildo
SpareParts Joque Harness features
Features
MaterialsNylon and spandex 
Harness Size20 inches - 50 inches inches
AdjustableWaist and legs 
Pros
Fully adjustable
Thick, comfortable straps
Unisex design
Two bullet vibe pockets
Machine washable
Cons
Doesn't come with a dildo
Pricey
Conclusion

The Joque is one of the best strap-on harnesses on the market! The thick adjustable straps make it comfortable, even over longer periods of time, and give you great control of the dildo, all of which makes strap-on sex feel much more seamless and intimate. It’s super easy to get on and off as well which is a big pro. Plus, once you are done, it’s easy to throw in the washing machine! I would recommend this to anyone who engages in strap-on sex on a regular basis — this is definitely worth the investment!

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Find Your Perfect Harness

Maybe you all ready have your favorite strap on friendly dildo and just need the harness to go with it or you want to keep your options open (can you you ever really have too many dildos or vibrators?) In that case, you are best off shopping for just a strap-on harness. Strap-style harnesses offer the most support, whereas underwear style harnesses can feel a little more natural. If you have a dildo already, always make sure to check that the harness is compatible with your dildo before purchasing!

Lovehoney Full-Back Strap On Harness

Lovehoney Full-Back Strap On Harness

Lovehoney Full-Back Strap On Harness

The extra wide strap on this harness from Lovehoney provides a little more support and makes it extra comfortable, especially for larger bodies, as the strap will not dig into the skin. It also comes with three different size O-rings so you can enjoy different size dildos depending on your mood, and it has a pocket for a bullet vibrator!

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Lovehoney Unisex Crotchless Open-Back Lace Harness Briefs

Lovehoney Unisex Crotchless Open-Back Lace Harness Briefs

Lovehoney Unisex Crotchless Open-Back Lace Harness Briefs

This underwear style harness from Lovehoney is easy to slip into and doesn’t have any straps to adjust. They are compatible with any dildo up to 1.5 inches in diameter and can be used for extra support with a strapless strap on. Not only that, they have a cheeky crotchless design, so the wearer can get some too!

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Spareparts Tomboii Harness Boxer Briefs - Black & Red

Spareparts Tomboii Harness Boxer Briefs - Black & Red

Spareparts Tomboii Harness Boxer Briefs - Black & Red

Another underwear style harness, these boxers from have not one but two holes so you can enjoy double penetration. And if you thought that was good… it has three, yes three bullet vibe pockets! That’s an impressive pair of pants if you ask me!

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Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Luxe Harness with Plug and O-Rings

Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Luxe Harness with Plug and O-Rings

Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Luxe Harness with Plug and O-Rings

If you already have a Vac-U-Lock dildo, you can simply lock it onto this harness and go! Not only that, you can use the three different O-rings with any harness compatible dildo. The Swiss army knives of harnesses!

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Best Harness Compatible Dildos

Which dildo you choose for your harness depends on which type of harness you have. If your harness has an O-ring, you can use any suction cup dildo or dildo with a flared. You just need to make sure your O-ring is big enough to accommodate your dildo. Some harnesses, particularly the ones by Doc Johnson, have a vac-u-lock plug that can only be used with vac-u-lock compatible dildos. Check out our complete post on vac-u-lock strap-ons. Here are some of my top O-ring compatible dildos to use with your strap-on harness!

Vixen Mustang

Vixen Mustang

Vixen Mustang

The Mustang from Vixen is an amazing dual density dildo. The combination of a firm core and soft outer layer gives it a more realistic feel. Plus, it comes in a choice of rainbow tie-dye or realistic skin tones.

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Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo

Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo

Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo

This curved silicone dildo is a great choice if your harness has an O-ring. The slight curve in the shaft makes this perfect for more intense g-spot or p-spot stimulation.

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Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Silicone Dildo 6 Inch

Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Silicone Dildo 6 Inch

Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Silicone Dildo 6 Inch

If you love the realistic look, the Lifelike Lover Luxe Silicone Dildo ticks all the boxes! The 6-inch shaft features a sculpted head and raised veins that extra sensation with each thrust and it even has lifelike balls!

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Ready-to-use Strap-on Sets

If you are ready to dive into strap-on sex and just want to get started, it can be a good idea to look for a strap-on kit that comes with everything you need! This means you don’t have to buy a harness and dildo separately. Plus, there’s no risk of getting a dildo that doesn’t work with your harness. If you didn’t already find your perfect strap-on set above, here are a few more!

Tracey Cox Supersex Rechargeable Remote Control Strap-On Pegging Kit (3 Piece)

Tracey Cox Supersex Rechargeable Remote Control Strap-On Pegging Kit (3 Piece)

Tracey Cox Supersex Rechargeable Remote Control Strap-On Pegging Kit (3 Piece)

If you love some added buzz with your strap-on play, this vibrating strap-on kit from Tracy Cox is a great option. It comes with a curved silicone dildo and removable, rechargeable bullet vibrator. Plus, you get a remote control so you can easily switch up the vibrations during use.

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