15 Best Strap On Dildos & Harnesses [Actual Reviews]

Isabelle Uren
by Isabelle UrenUpdated:

I’ve reviewed and ranked all of the very best strap-ons (took me 113 hours…). I looked at every type from the perfect pegging strap-on, strap-on for lesbians, His and hers strap-on dildos, harnesses, and even complete strap-on kits. With all the specs, ratings and reviews in one place, you can easily compare all the choices and find which one is going to work best for you and your partner.

Test Winner

4.4Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.3/5

Reviewed by: 

Emiel Vizzi

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 173 user reviews

Budget-Friendly

4.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.0/5

Based on user reviews

Best for Beginners

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 40 user reviews

Best for Intermediate

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 261 user reviews

Best Strapless

5.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Joseph Mohrmann

User Ratings:

0/5

Based on user reviews

Best Underwear

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Best Harness

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Jen Schmidt

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 54 user reviews

His Strap On

3.1Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

3.1/5

Bedbible Rating:

2/5

Reviewed by: 

John Shepard

User Ratings:

4.3/5

Based on user reviews

Set

4.6Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.2/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Rabbit

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Vicki Moss

User Ratings:

4.1/5

Based on 249 user reviews

Most Versatile

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 103 user reviews

Vibrating

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 12 user reviews

Hollow

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on user reviews

Advanced

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 41 user reviews

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Jess Adams

User Ratings:

4.0/5

Based on 34 user reviews

Tracey Cox Strap On DildoPhallic Strap On SetTantus Unisex Strap on KitLovehoney Intermediate Strap OnLovense LapisStrap-On-Me DivaSpareParts Joque HarnessNassToys Double Penetrator StudmakerVibrating Ultraskyn Strap On SetLovehoney Desire Strapless Strap-OnUnisex Strap on Harness BriefsDesire Strap On KitDoc Johnson Hollow Strap-On KitDeluxe Strap On Kit Fun Factory ShareVibe
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  • Complete kit
  • Multiple O ring and dildo sizes
  • Submersible
  • Dildos can be used with harness or own their own
  • O-ring can stretch over time
  • Straps can be awkward
  • Packaging is heavily gendered
  • Bullet vibe takes LR44 batteries which can be hard to find
  • Great price for a silicone dildo
  • Adjustable harness fits most sizes
  • Realistic texture and shape
  • Harness can get uncomfortable, especially at the back
  • Straps can rub
  • Dildo might be to small for anyone with anal experience
  • Harness not compatible with other dildos
  • Comfortable, adjustable harness
  • Two suction cup dildos
  • Perfect for beginners
  • Bullet vibe included
  • Harness compatible with other dildos
  • Too small those more experienced with anal play
  • Difficult to feel vibrations from the bullet vibe
  • Not a big size difference between the two dildos
  • Curved, silicone dildo
  • Pocket for bullet vibe
  • Adjustable, machine washable harness
  • Unisex harness
  • Compatible with other dildos
  • Straps are quite long
  • Can be a little uncomfortable for wearers with a penis
  • Very powerful motor
  • Good battery life
  • Customizable vibrations modes
  • Adjustable angles
  • I have experienced it slip out
  • Insertion point can be uncomfortable
  • Quite expensive
  • Really sexy design
  • Has lace and garters
  • Open back for free access
  • Snug and comfortable fit
  • Compatible with dildos (up to 1.6 in diameter)
  • Requires extra stablization
  • Does not come with a dildo
  • Fully adjustable
  • Thick, comfortable straps
  • Unisex design
  • Two bullet vibe pockets
  • Machine washable
  • Doesn't come with a dildo
  • Pricey
  • Super cheap
  • Body-safe silicone shaft
  • Very easy to clean
  • Slim, beginner-friendly dildo
  • Bullet vibrator is poor quality
  • Cock ring isn't adjustable
  • No vibrations up shaft
  • Three different size dildos
  • Varied dildo designs
  • Dual density dildos for ultra realistic feel
  • Vibrating Vac-U-Lock plug for added vibrations with remote control
  • 360 degree suction cup for hands-free use
  • Dildos very similar in size
  • Dildos are porous
  • Adjustable angle
  • Feels more intimate than a harness
  • Stimulation for both partners
  • Two motors
  • Clitoral stimulation
  • Too rigid for some
  • Can be difficult to hold in
  • Difficult to change settings when in use
  • The color can be off-putting for some
  • Sometimes needed a bit adjustment
  • Made of stretchy and breathable material
  • Look stylish and sexy
  • Able to use them in a variety of ways
  • Suitable for average sized and smaller dildos
  • Not adjustable
  • Don't come in sizes larger than XXL
  • Not able to change the size of the O-ring
  • On the cheaper side, which could lead to them breaking sooner than expected
  • Rechargeable
  • Remote control
  • Discreet charging & storage case
  • 20 vibration settings
  • Curved dildo for G-spot or P-spot stimulation
  • The vibrations could be stronger
  • Might be too small for some
  • Three different dildos
  • Can be worn over a penis
  • Can be used for double penetration
  • Silicone
  • Can be difficult to insert penis
  • Might be too small for some penises
  • Harness might not fit larger bodies
  • Harness not compatible with other dildos
  • two very different size dildos
  • one smooth, one textured dildo
  • harness compatible with other dildos
  • dildos have suction cup bases
  • larger dildo a little pointy
  • very big size difference might not suit some
  • Pleasure for both partners
  • Firm but flexible silicone
  • Rechargeable bullet vibrator
  • Can be difficult to hold in place
  • Might still need to buy a harness for support
  • Might need to prepare if using for anal penetration

How We Test strap ons

We’re a team of 265 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best strap ons, our testers tried and reviewed 47 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre strap ons didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 801 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

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Test Winner Tracey Cox Supersex Strap On Dildo

4.4/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.3/5

Reviewed by: 

Emiel Vizzi

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 173 user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap On Dildo was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on.

75/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap On Dildo was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

85/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap On Dildo was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap On Dildo was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The strap on set that has it all! The super sex strap on kit from sex and relationship expert Tracy Cox comes with not one but two silky soft silicone dildos for you and your parter to explore. The harness has a unisex design, meaning it can be worn by anyone and it comes with three O-rings so you can use it with any flared base dildo that takes your fancy! And, on top of all of that it comes with it’s very own bullet vibrator that can be slipped inside the harness for some added stimulation for the wearer!

Pros

  • Complete kit
  • Multiple O ring and dildo sizes
  • Submersible
  • Dildos can be used with harness or own their own

Cons

  • O-ring can stretch over time
  • Straps can be awkward
  • Packaging is heavily gendered
  • Bullet vibe takes LR44 batteries which can be hard to find

Why I Chose It

This really is a fantastic kit, and the perfect place to start your strap on adventure. The smaller, smooth dildo is perfect for people who are new to penetrative play or anyone trying anal sex for the first time, while the larger dildo is great if you want a little more stimulation in terms of size and texture. Having two dildos means you can each choose your favorite or work your way up from the smaller to the bigger one, and as both have suction cup bases, you can even ride them hands free! The harness is really easy to use as well and I love that it can be used with any harness compatible dildo, so you will never get bored! Not to mention, it’s machine washable! The bullet vibrator isn’t the strongest, as you might expect, and it’s difficult to get it in the right position in the pocket for clit stimulation, but it can be used handheld for other areas, like on the nipples. Overall a high quality, versatile strap on kit at a very reasonable price!

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Budget-Friendly Silicone Phallic Strap On Set

4.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.0/5

Based on user reviews

50/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Silicone Phallic Strap On Set was rated 50 out of 100, which means it is designed well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on.

70/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Silicone Phallic Strap On Set was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

60/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Silicone Phallic Strap On Set was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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Rating: Silicone Phallic Strap On Set was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other strap ons.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

If you are looking for a silicone strap on at a great price, this is the strap on for you! The 4.25 inch, realistic, silicone dildo features a veiny shaft and sculpted head that adds to lifelike sensations. Simply screw it on to the  harness and you ready to play! The harness has a faux leather black design and is fully adjustable to fit most waist sizes!

Pros

  • Great price for a silicone dildo
  • Adjustable harness fits most sizes
  • Realistic texture and shape

Cons

  • Harness can get uncomfortable, especially at the back
  • Straps can rub
  • Dildo might be to small for anyone with anal experience
  • Harness not compatible with other dildos

Why I Chose It

I didn’t think it would be possible to find a strap on set this cheap that comes with a silicone dildo! This is a great option for anyone wanting to for a >cheap strap-on dildo. The dildo is a quite small, so might not be the best option if you already have some experience with penetration. The straps can also be a little uncomfortable to wear for a long time. You should also bear in mind that this harness is not compatible with other dildos, but at such a steal, that’s not really a surprise!

Best for Beginners Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap On Harness Kit

4.7/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 40 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap On Harness Kit was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap On Harness Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap On Harness Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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Rating: Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap On Harness Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Tantus are known for their top quality silicone dildos and this starters strap on set is no exception! The kit comes with two smooth silicone dildos that a perfect for anal or vaginal penetration. The smaller dildo measures just 4.5 inches long and a petite 0.8 inches wide, which is perfect this is your first experience with penetration! You also get a slightly bigger dildo, giving you something to work up to! The harness is easy to adjust and can be used with any flared based sex toy!

Pros

  • Comfortable, adjustable harness
  • Two suction cup dildos
  • Perfect for beginners
  • Bullet vibe included
  • Harness compatible with other dildos
  • Two color options

Cons

  • Too small those more experienced with anal play
  • Difficult to feel vibrations from the bullet vibe
  • Not a big size difference between the two dildos

Why I Chose It

This set makes for an absolutely fantastic starter strap-on. The non-phallic design is not intimidating in any way and the smooth surface means they glide easily when used with water-based lubrication and the rounded tips are easy to insert. The curve also provides some gentle g-spot or p-spot stimulation without being too intense. I would say these are only suitable if you are beginner and if you have more experience or prefer a larger dildo, I would recommend looking at the intermediate or advanced options as these might be a little on the small side for you! The harness is also well designed, comfortable to wear, and can be used with other dildos, which is great if you want to size up!

Best for Intermediate Lovehoney Intermediate Unisex Strap On Kit

4.7/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 261 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovehoney Intermediate Unisex Strap On Kit was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovehoney Intermediate Unisex Strap On Kit was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

79/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovehoney Intermediate Unisex Strap On Kit was rated 79 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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Rating: Lovehoney Intermediate Unisex Strap On Kit was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other strap ons.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Take things to the next level with this strap on set from Lovehoney! The 7 inch dildo gives you a little more to play with and really ups the sensation! It also features a more pronounced curve to really massage your g- or p-spot with each thrust. The harness offers plenty of support so you can focus on enjoying the moment and it comes with three different size O-rings to use with other flared base dildos, and there’s also a pocket for a bullet vibrator. The harness is machine washable, making upkeep a breeze!

Pros

  • Curved, silicone dildo
  • Pocket for bullet vibe
  • Adjustable, machine washable harness
  • Unisex harness
  • Compatible with other dildos

Cons

  • Straps are quite long
  • Can be a little uncomfortable for wearers with a penis

Why I Chose It

With an insertable length of 6 inches and a diameter of 1.5 inches, this strap on is perfect for anyone with some penetrative experience under their belt. The dildo is made from lovely, soft silicone that feels fantastic with a slick of water-based lube. It’s also great that it comes with three O-rings so you can swap in any other dildo for more variety. This is a great price for silicone strap on kit and well worth the modest investment!

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Best Strapless Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap On Dildo

5.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Joseph Mohrmann

User Ratings:

0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap On Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap On Dildo was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap On Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

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Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap On Dildo was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Lovense Lapis is a luxurious, vibrating strapless strap-on, designed for hands-free use but functions optimally with a harness. It features app-controlled customizable vibrations and is made from soft silicone. However, it may slip out without a harness and is on the expensive side.

Pros

  • Very powerful motor
  • Good battery life
  • Customizable vibrations modes
  • Adjustable angles

Cons

  • I have experienced it slip out
  • Insertion point can be uncomfortable
  • Quite expensive

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap On Dildo was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap On Dildo felt to the reviewer.

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Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap On Dildo was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is extremely powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap On Dildo felt to the reviewer.

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BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

From my perspective, the Lovense Lapis stands out in its category for several reasons. Its strong yet quiet motor, combined with the customizable vibration patterns, offers a unique and pleasurable experience. The design is both sophisticated and ergonomic, making it appealing and comfortable to use. However, the fact that it tends to slip out when used strapless can be a bit disappointing, especially given its high price point. This product is perfect for those who enjoy technological integration in their intimate experiences and don’t mind spending a bit extra for premium quality. But if you’re on a budget or prefer a simpler, traditional strap-on without app dependency, this might not be the best fit for you.

Best Underwear Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Strap On Harness

4.8/5

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Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Strap On Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Strap On Harness was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Strap On Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Strap On Harness was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness is a stylish and functional strap-on harness designed with a blend of comfort and aesthetics. It’s made with a combination of lace and fabric, offering a lingerie-like appearance. The harness is adjustable and compatible with a variety of dildos, making it versatile for different users and preferences.

Pros

  • Really sexy design
  • Has lace and garters
  • Open back for free access
  • Snug and comfortable fit
  • Compatible with dildos (up to 1.6 in diameter)

Cons

  • Requires extra stablization
  • Does not come with a dildo

Why I Chose It

In conclusion, the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness is a great option for those who prioritize style and comfort in their intimate wear. Its elegant design, combined with its functional features, makes it a unique addition to your collection. While it may not be the best fit for those seeking a purely utilitarian harness, its versatility and aesthetic appeal make it an excellent choice for those looking to blend fashion with function. I would recommend it for anyone who wants to add a touch of elegance to their intimate moments while maintaining practicality.

Best Harness SpareParts Joque Harness

4.7/5

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Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Jen Schmidt

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 54 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: SpareParts Joque Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: SpareParts Joque Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: SpareParts Joque Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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Rating: SpareParts Joque Harness was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Joque unisex harness is comfortable and secure, allowing you greater control over your strap-on, so you can focus on the moment and not your harness!

Both the waist and legs are adjustable so you can find the perfect fit for your body. The harness is fitted with a stretchy O-ring that can accommodate any dildo between 1.25 and 2 inches in diameter, making it easy to switch between your favorite dildos.

The Joque also has two pockets for you to slip your favorite bullet vibrator into!

Pros

  • Fully adjustable
  • Thick, comfortable straps
  • Unisex design
  • Two bullet vibe pockets
  • Machine washable

Cons

  • Doesn't come with a dildo
  • Pricey

Why I Chose It

The Joque is one of the best strap-on harnesses on the market! The thick adjustable straps make it comfortable, even over longer periods of time, and give you great control of the dildo, all of which makes strap-on sex feel much more seamless and intimate. It’s super easy to get on and off as well which is a big pro. Plus, once you are done, it’s easy to throw in the washing machine! I would recommend this to anyone who engages in strap-on sex on a regular basis — this is definitely worth the investment!

His Strap On NassToys Double Penetrator Studmaker Strap On Cock Ring

3.1/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

3.1/5

Bedbible Rating:

2/5

Reviewed by: 

John Shepard

User Ratings:

4.3/5

Based on user reviews

30/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: NassToys Double Penetrator Studmaker Strap On Cock Ring was rated 30 out of 100, which means it is designed ok.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: NassToys Double Penetrator Studmaker Strap On Cock Ring was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

30/100
QualityQuality

Rating: NassToys Double Penetrator Studmaker Strap On Cock Ring was rated 30 out of 100, which means it is of mediocre quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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Rating: NassToys Double Penetrator Studmaker Strap On Cock Ring was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other strap ons.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Nasstoys Double Penetrator Studmaker Cock Ring is a beginner-friendly DP toy with a body-safe silicone shaft and easy cleaning. Its design includes a non-adjustable cock ring and weak bullet vibrators, making it a basic option for exploring DP on a budget.

Pros

  • Super cheap
  • Body-safe silicone shaft
  • Very easy to clean
  • Slim, beginner-friendly dildo

Cons

  • Bullet vibrator is poor quality
  • Cock ring isn't adjustable
  • No vibrations up shaft

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: NassToys Double Penetrator Studmaker Strap On Cock Ring was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of NassToys Double Penetrator Studmaker Strap On Cock Ring felt to the reviewer.

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Rating: NassToys Double Penetrator Studmaker Strap On Cock Ring was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is weak.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of NassToys Double Penetrator Studmaker Strap On Cock Ring felt to the reviewer.

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BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

Personally, I find the Nasstoys Double Penetrator Studmaker Cock Ring intriguing for beginners eager to delve into double penetration without a hefty investment. Its simplicity and ease of use are pluses, but the toy’s overall performance might be underwhelming for those with more experience or specific preferences. The tightness of the cock ring and the weak vibrations are notable drawbacks, suggesting it might not suit everyone. While it’s a good starting point for exploring new experiences, those seeking a more fulfilling and robust DP toy might want to consider other options.

Set Vac-U-Lock Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set

4.6/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.2/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Vac-U-Lock Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on.

75/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Vac-U-Lock Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

60/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Vac-U-Lock Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

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Rating: Vac-U-Lock Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

This versatile strap on kit is the ultimate in strap on realism! The three different dildos are made of dual density Ultraskyn for the most lifelike look and feel. Choose your dildo of the day and lock into place using either the standard Vac-U-Lock attachment or magically transform any on the dildos into a vibrator using the vibrating Vac-U-Lock base. It even comes with a remote control, making it super easy to switch between the 7 different vibrations modes without interrupting the action! As well as two bases and three dildos, you also get 3 different size O-rings, water based lubricant, toy cleaner, and toy powder, so you really are set for all the strap on fun you can imagine! What’s more, the two Vac-U-Lock bases can be used with any Vac-U-Lock dildos for even more variety!

Pros

  • Three different size dildos
  • Varied dildo designs
  • Dual density dildos for ultra realistic feel
  • Vibrating Vac-U-Lock plug for added vibrations with remote control
  • 360 degree suction cup for hands-free use
  • Water based lubricant, toy cleaner, and toy powder included
  • Available in three different skin tones

Cons

  • Dildos very similar in size
  • Dildos are porous

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Vac-U-Lock Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Vac-U-Lock Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Vac-U-Lock Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Vac-U-Lock Vibrating Ultraskyn Strap On Set felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

This set is pretty pricey but it does come with so many different ways to enjoy it! I think the vibrating base is super smart as it gives you two ways to enjoy each dildo — with and without vibrations. On top of that the swivelling base makes it easier to use the strap ons in a wider range of positions. The dildos look and feel extremely lifelike and you can choose between with or without balls. It’s also fantastic that there’s a choice between three different skin tones. The only down side to this set is that Ultraskyn is a porous material, meaning it can’t be fully sterilized and has miniscule holes that can harbour germs and mold over time. At this price, I would expect the dildos to be made of silicone.

Rabbit Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Vicki Moss

User Ratings:

4.1/5

Based on 249 user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the strap on.

40/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On was rated 40 out of 100, which means it is possible to figure out how it should be used.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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Rating: Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

This strapless strap on really goes the extra mile when it comes to stimulation! Not only does the Lovehoney Desire deliver stimulation to both partners simultaneously, the wearer also gets some delicious clitoral vibrations from the rabbit ears! Choose between a whopping 12 vibration modes in the shaft and three for the wearer to find your perfect couple’s combo! This vibrant vibrator is also USB rechargeable and fully waterproof for some seriously sexy shower time.

Pros

  • Adjustable angle
  • Feels more intimate than a harness
  • Stimulation for both partners
  • Two motors
  • Clitoral stimulation

Cons

  • Too rigid for some
  • Can be difficult to hold in
  • Difficult to change settings when in use
  • The color can be off-putting for some
  • Sometimes needed a bit adjustment

Why I Chose It

This is a great option if you are looking for a double ended strap on that can stimulate both partners at the same time, especially if you both love vibrations! You can adjust the angle, which makes it easier to find the right fit or use this strap on in different positions. The shaft and bulb are very rigid, which some people can find too intense, so if you prefer a softer or more realistic feeling dildo, this won’t be the best choice for you. Also, as with almost all strapless strap ons, it can be difficult to hold the bulb in place, and I would recommend combing it with a harness or underwear style harness for extra support. Unfortunately, this strap on only comes in bright pink, which isn’t going to be everyone’s cup of tea, but at least it’s easy to spot in the dark!

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