The 28 Best Strap Ons for Perfect Partner and Power Play

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Things to consider when buying a strap on
- Harness Style — You want a harness that is going to be comfortable, and supportive, but also one that matches your style and makes you feel like your sexiest self! The two main options are strap-style harnesses, which are the most supportive but can be fiddly, and underwear-style harnesses, which offer a little less support but can feel more natural. If you have a bigger body, there are also some really great plus-size harnesses out there.
- Harness Material — If you want a strap on for everyday use, I would recommend going for something machine washable. However, if you are looking for more of BDMS style, a leather harness definitely looks the part!
- Dildo Size — Whoever is on the receiving end should pick the dildo. If you are using your strap-on for anal play/pegging, or you are just getting into penetrative play, I recommend going for something smaller. Check out the beginner’s option in the review for our favorite first time strap on.
- Dildo Shape — If you are looking for some delicious g-spot or p-spot stimulation, shop for a strap on that comes with a curved dildo.
- Dildo Material — As always, we recommend buying a non-toxic, non-porous dildo, such as silicone dildo, as this is safe for your body, easy to care for, and long-lasting.
- Dildo Compatibility — Some harnesses are only compatible with a very limited range of dildos, whereas others can be used with a wider range, giving you more options to switch things up. Harnesses that use O-rings, for example, can be used with any dildo with a flared base, giving you endless opportunities to try new dildos in your trusty harness.
- Vibrations — Some strap ons come with bullet vibrators that can be inserted into the dildo or the harness for some extra stimulation while some do not. However, if you crave strong vibrations, I would recommend looking for a strap on with built in vibrations as the quality and strength of the vibrations tend to be better.
FAQ
What is a strap on?
A strap on is a harness with a dildo that allows you be the penetrating partner without having a penis or an erection. The harness is worn like a pair of underwear and holds a dildo of your choice, allowing anyone to experience what it is like to penetrate their partner as if they had a penis. Strap ons are often be used for penetrative sex between two partners with vulvas or for pegging — where a vulva owning partner penetrates their partner anally. There are also hollow strap ons that can be worn over a penis to experience a bigger erection or help with erectile dysfunction. There really is a strap on for every occasion!
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The 13 Best strap ons in Test
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap On Pegging Kit

The strap on set that has it all! The super sex strap on kit from sex and relationship expert Tracy Cox comes with not one but two silky soft silicone dildos for you and your parter to explore. The harness has a unisex design, meaning it can be worn by anyone and it comes with three O-rings so you can use it with any flared base dildo that takes your fancy! And, on top of all of that it comes with it’s very own bullet vibrator that can be slipped inside the harness for some added stimulation for the wearer!


This really is a fantastic kit, and the perfect place to start your strap on adventure. The smaller, smooth dildo is perfect for people who are new to penetrative play or anyone trying anal sex for the first time, while the larger dildo is great if you want a little more stimulation in terms of size and texture. Having two dildos means you can each choose your favorite or work your way up from the smaller to the bigger one, and as both have suction cup bases, you can even ride them hands free! The harness is really easy to use as well and I love that it can be used with any harness compatible dildo, so you will never get bored! Not to mention, it’s machine washable! The bullet vibrator isn’t the strongest, as you might expect, and it’s difficult to get it in the right position in the pocket for clit stimulation, but it can be used handheld for other areas, like on the nipples. Overall a high quality, versatile strap on kit at a very reasonable price!
Silicone Phallic Strap On Set

If you are looking for a silicone strap on at a great price, this is the strap on for you! The 4.25 inch, realistic, silicone dildo features a veiny shaft and sculpted head that adds to lifelike sensations. Simply screw it on to the harness and you ready to play! The harness has a faux leather black design and is fully adjustable to fit most waist sizes!


I didn’t think it would be possible to find a strap on set this cheap that comes with a silicone dildo! This is a great option for anyone wanting to for a cheap strap-on dildo. The dildo is a quite small, so might not be the best option if you already have some experience with penetration. The straps can also be a little uncomfortable to wear for a long time. You should also bear in mind that this harness is not compatible with other dildos, but at such a steal, that’s not really a surprise!
Tantus Beginner's Unisex Vibrating Strap On Harness Kit

Tantus are known for their top quality silicone dildos and this starters strap on set is no exception! The kit comes with two smooth silicone dildos that a perfect for anal or vaginal penetration. The smaller dildo measures just 4.5 inches long and a petite 0.8 inches wide, which is perfect this is your first experience with penetration! You also get a slightly bigger dildo, giving you something to work up to! The harness is easy to adjust and can be used with any flared based sex toy!


This set makes for an absolutely fantastic starter strap-on. The non-phallic design is not intimidating in any way and the smooth surface means they glide easily when used with water-based lubrication and the rounded tips are easy to insert. The curve also provides some gentle g-spot or p-spot stimulation without being too intense. I would say these are only suitable if you are beginner and if you have more experience or prefer a larger dildo, I would recommend looking at the intermediate or advanced options as these might be a little on the small side for you! The harness is also well designed, comfortable to wear, and can be used with other dildos, which is great if you want to size up!
Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap On Kit

Take things to the next level with this strap on set from Lovehoney! The 7 inch dildo gives you a little more to play with and really ups the sensation! It also features a more pronounced curve to really massage your g- or p-spot with each thrust. The harness offers plenty of support so you can focus on enjoying the moment and it comes with three different size O-rings to use with other flared base dildos, and there’s also a pocket for a bullet vibrator. The harness is machine washable, making upkeep a breeze!


With an insertable length of 6 inches and a diameter of 1.5 inches, this strap on is perfect for anyone with some penetrative experience under their belt. The dildo is made from lovely, soft silicone that feels fantastic with a slick of water-based lube. It’s also great that it comes with three O-rings so you can swap in any other dildo for more variety. This is a great price for silicone strap on kit and well worth the modest investment!
Lovehoney Deluxe Strap On Kit

Bring on the big boy with the Deluxe Strap On Kit from Lovehoney! Perfect for people who crave the full on satisfaction of a bigger dildo or are working their way up to it! The smaller dildo provides the perfect warm up for the larger, 8-inch whopper! With realistic veins and a sculpted head, the larger dildo also offers enhanced sensations and a little more realism compared to the smaller, smoother dildo. And if that wasn’t enough variation for you, you can also use the three included O-rings to sub in another dildo of your choice. The harness is easy to adjust and will fit anyone with up to a 67 inch waist.
