Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness — Test & Review

Isabelle Uren
by Isabelle UrenUpdated:
4.8/5

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Overall Rating

4.8/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5.0

Based on user reviews

90/100
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Rating: Strap-On-Me Diva Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

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85/100
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Rating: Strap-On-Me Diva Harness was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

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90/100
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Rating: Strap-On-Me Diva Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

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Rating: Strap-On-Me Diva Harness was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

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My Verdict

Overall, I think the Strap-On-Me is a really great strap-on harness for anyone looking for their first strap-on or a strap-on for occasional or semi-regular use. I love the design, comfort, easy of use and think I feel amazing wearing it! I also think it's good value for money and love that I can just pop it in the washing machine! However, if strap-on sex is your main type of sex, I would opt for something with more stability, like the Spare Parts Joque (check out our review for more info).

Buy, if you...

  1. Prefer a more feminine style strap-on
  2. Want a strap-on to use with different dildos
  3. Prefer an underwear style harness
  4. Are looking for a beginner-friendly harness

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Want an adjustable harness
  2. Are looking for a strap-on kit with a dildo
  3. Prefer a more gender-neutral design
  4. Want a very secure, stable harness

About The Strap-On-Me Diva Harness

The Strap-On-Me Diva is lingerie-style strap-on harness with an elastic O-ring that can fit any flared base dildo up to 1.6 inches in diameter. It features sexy lace inserts at the sides and an open back design, allowing the wearer to enjoy some butt play of their own! It comes in 5 sizes from small to 2XL and in a choice of four colours.

Pros

  • Sexy design with lace and garters
  • Open butt for easy access
  • Snug, comfortable fit
  • Compatible with dildos up to 1.6 inches in diameter

Cons

  • Requires a little extra stablization
  • Doesn't come with a dildo

The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness: Through My Eyes

My Personal Experiences with Strap-On-Me Diva Harness

They say dress for the job you want, so I finally got a strap-on harness. For some 2024 is the year of the dragon, for me it is the year of pegging! And I was lucky enough to find an enthusiastic partner to explore this new area with! I really love the more sexy, feminine design of the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness and couldn’t wait to put it on as soon as I opened it. I may or may not have been late to a social event because I was busy thrusting about in my apartment! I love how comfortable the harness feels and how easy it is to slip on and off. My partner in crime liked the design and liked that the harness looked like lingerie and had a cut out back as it allowed me to also have some extra fun while wearing it! Perfect for pairing with a cute butt plug. I wore it with my Rosebuds butt plug  and the Swarovski crystal really took the whole look to the next level! The dildo sits well in the harness but does require a little stabilisation, because the fabric can stretch as you thrust. However, I see that being an issue with underwear style harnesses in general rather than this particular harness. Any dildo with a flared base will work well in this harness. The Tantus Charmer and Vixen Mustang fit perfectly.

Exploring the Design

Strap-On-Me Diva Harness Exploring the Design

I really like the more feminine look of the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness. The lace details are very cute and I love the cheeky open back design. It looks super sexy and means you can wear it with a butt plug or enjoy some anal play without taking it off! I would love if the design were a little more high-waisted but that's a personal preference thing. I'm also a big fan of the garters that you can wear with stockings or take off if you don't want to use them. I'm not such a fan of the Strap-On-Me text and logo on the waistband, but it's not a huge issue for me.

Understanding the Accessibility of the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness

Strap-On-Me Diva Harness Understanding the Accessibility of the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness

I love how easy the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness is to use! It makes a fantastic introduction to strap-on play of all kinds. Unlike strap-style harnesses that come with a lot straps to figure out and adjust, you just slip it on like underwear! It's also very easy to slip a dildo into the elasticated O-ring. The downside of having just one, elasticated O-ring is that you are limited to using dildos that fit. This one can take dildos up to 1.6 inches in diameter, but it's worth keeping in mind that dildos much smaller than this won't be supported as well as ones that have a more snug fit. I will say, the hold-up fastenings are super fiddly but you can take the straps off if you don't want to mess around with stockings!

Standout Quality or Shortcomings?

Strap-On-Me Diva Harness Standout Quality or Shortcomings?

The Strap-On-Me Diva Harness feels very well-made! There's no loose stitching and the fabric is great quality — it's soft against the skin but also feels strong and durable. The only place where I wasn't that impressed by the quality was the garter straps, within the first use, one of the silky ribbons on the fastenings has come off, so I'll need to stitch that back into place.

The Price of Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness

Strap-On-Me Diva Harness The Price of Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness

I would say the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness is in the mid-price range for underwear style harnesses, and I think the overall quality and unique design justify the price! I think this makes a great investment for anyone excited to explore strap-on play!

The Performance of the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness

Strap-On-Me Diva Harness The Performance of the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness

I felt amazing wearing the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness and It was very comfortable to wear. I love that you can slip it on or off. The dildos I've tried sit very well in the harness and are comfortable to wear. Given the stretchy nature of the fabric, it does require a little stabilising, although this is pretty hard to avoid with underwear style harnesses. If you want something more stable, I would go for a harness with non-stretchy adjustable straps.

The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness: Presentation and Packaging

Strap-On-Me Diva Harness The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness: Presentation and Packaging

The Strap-On-Me Diva Harness comes in a stylish box with a picture of a woman wearing the harness with a dildo on the front. It's not very discreet, so be sure to open your parcel in private! The back has sizing and care instructions. Inside the box, is another plain cardboard box, which I thought was an unnecessary use of materials, especially considering the harness is wrapped in black tissue paper. I would much rather they stuck to just one box and the tissue paper.

Materials and care

Strap-On-Me Diva Harness Materials and care

The Strap-on-me Diva harness is made from microfiber and lace. The website and box say that the harness is machine washable, but label inside says hand wash only, which is a little confusing. I will be washing mine on a low temperature and avoiding tumble drying to prolong the quality as long as possible. Once clean and dry, you can just pop it in your drawer ready for next time!

Specifications and features

MaterialsMicrofibre and lace 
DiameterO-ring: up to 1.6 inches
AdjustableNo 
Harness SizeWaist: (S) 26.7, (M) 28.3, (L) 29.9, (XL) 31.4, (2XL) 32.28 inches

Comparing Strap-On-Me Diva Harness with alternatives

Compare Strap-On-Me Diva HarnessStrap-On-Me Diva Harness
Overall score4.8 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 3.9 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.6 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 3.8 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0
User rating5 / 5.0
from 1 users
4.6 / 5.0
from 391 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 54 users
4 / 5.0
from 34 users
4.1 / 5.0
from 25 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 788 users
PriceAffordable Pricey Moderate Pricey Premium Pricey
Design90 / 100 95 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 70 / 100 70 / 100
Ease of use85 / 100 95 / 100 90 / 100 85 / 100 65 / 100 100 / 100
Quality90 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100 95 / 100 90 / 100 40 / 100
Sound---20 / 100 40 / 100 80 / 100
Power---80 / 100 80 / 100 80 / 100
Buzzy/Rumbly---somewhat rumbly somewhat rumbly somewhat rumbly
MaterialsMicrofibre and lace Nylon Microfiber, Polyester, Polyurethane Foam Nylon and spandex Silicone Silicone PVC, Plastic
DiameterO-ring: up to 1.6 inches--1.4-1.6 inchesnull inchesRabbit Vibrator 5.25 inches, Butt Plug 1.2-3.2 inches, Jiggle Balls 4.25 inches, G-Spot Vibrator 4.25 inches, Anal Beads up to 3 inches
AdjustableNo -Yes — legs and waist straps ---
Harness SizeWaist: (S) 26.7, (M) 28.3, (L) 29.9, (XL) 31.4, (2XL) 32.28 inches-20 inches & 50 inches inches---
Length-24 inches-11 inches5.24 inchesRabbit Vibrator 8 inches, Butt Plug 4.5 inches, G-Spot Vibrator 8 inches, Anal Beads 10 inches
Width-14 inches----
Height-7 inches----
Waterproof-Moisture-Resistant Liner -Yes Yes -
Colors Available-Black, Blue, Red, Purple, Gray, Brown -Dark Violet & Pink Black Pink, Purple, Black
Vibration speeds---2 5 1 to 4
Vibration patterns---3 4 -
Insertable length---5.5 inches-Rabbit Vibrator 5.5 inches, Butt Plug 4 inches, G-Spot Vibrator 7 inches, Anal Beads 8 inches
Flexibility---Flexible --
Battery Life---45-90 minutes175 minutes-
Rechargeable---Yes Yes -
Charging Time---120 minutes70 minutes-
Weight---.92 lbs-Jiggle Balls 0.125 lbs
Travel Lock---No Yes -
Diameter (internal)----1.75 inches-
Storage Bag Included----Yes -
Remote Controls----Yes, via the app -
Vibration modes-----Clitoral stimulator 4, All others sliding low to high
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FAQ

Can you remove the garter straps?
Yes they clip on and off in the same way a strapless bra straps clip off.
Is the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness machine washable?
Yes, Strap-On-Me states that the harness can be washed in the washing machine.
What size dildo can I use with the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness?
The Diva Harness works best with dildos that are around 1.5 inches in diameter.

Instructions - Manual

There’s no manual available for the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness but check out my how to use guide above.

Author
Isabelle Uren
Isabelle Uren

Site Manager | Aiming to empower people to embrace sexual pleasure one sex toy at a time or two, whatever takes your fancy! As well researching and writing about all things sex, I study Tantra and love finding new way to enhance intimacy, alone or with a partner. My life philosophy is the three Ms approach — meditation, masturbation, and mmm a good cup of tea!

Age: 32
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: Doxy Die Cast
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