Pegging Toys: 8 Best Pegging Dildos, Strap-ons and More
Having tried different strap-ons, I know exactly whats important in a great pegging strap-on. Based on my own experience, and that of our testers, I’ve selected the very best pegging dildos and strap-ons for those just getting into pegging and more experienced peggers. I’ll be including some insights from my own experience and that of our other testers as I go over each product.
Test Winner | Runner Up | Budget-Friendly | Best for Beginners | Expert Pick | Best Pegging Dildo | Most Advanced | Best Pegging Harness |
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Strap-On-Me Strap-On | New Comers Strap-On Set | Piccolo Pegging Kit | Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit | Lovense Lapis | Tantus Silk Medium | Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro | Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness |
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How We Test pegging strap ons
We’re a team of 340 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best pegging strap ons, our testers tried and reviewed 96 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre pegging strap ons didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1255 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
Read more about how we test products.Table of contents (14)
Test Winner Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small
- Internal pony and clitoral pad stimulate the wearer
- Slim shaft with a sculpted tip
- Flexible neck with position memory
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Fantastic quality
- ✅ Good range of sizes to choose from
- ✅ Comfortable and stimulating to wear
Cons
- ❌ Can be a little difficult to control
Why I Chose It
I tested out this strapless strap on and I absolutely loved using it. I’ve even grown to love it the more I’ve used it. From the silky soft silicone to the comfortable fit, I’ve been impressed by this dildo from the get-go!
As the wearer, I loved how the internal egg nestled against my G-spot, giving a pleasant massage with each movement. This extra stimulation gave my arousal a real boost. The raised clitoral pad did also add a little external stimulation but it was the internal stimulation that I enjoyed the most.
I was also impressed by how well it stayed in during use. Of course, I did need to readjust now and again, but I feel like that will always be the way with this style of strap-on. I will say it’s not quite as easy as strap-on with a harness, but it wasn’t as difficult as I’d imagined.
The shape of the dildo was also a hit. I really like that they’ve given it a pronounced head — it’s great for massaging over the prostate. The only downside is that it’s a little floppy. A slightly firmer dildo would have been easier to insert and control.
Runner Up Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Set
- Smooth silicone dildo
- Adjustable harness
- 1.25 inch O-ring
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Slim enough for beginners
- ✅ Good value for money
Cons
- ❌ Takes time to adjust
- ❌ Dildo can slip a little
Why I Chose It
I chose the Sportsheets New Comer Strap-On Kit as the runner up because I think it’s simple, high-quality pegging strap-on. I find a strap-on in a harness like this is easier to use than a strapless strap-on and this is what I would go for if I was new to pegging.
Our tester, Catherine, liked that this set was “easily adjustable, easy to use, versatile, and unintimidating”. In my experience, this is exactly what you want from a strap-on kit, so you can focus your attention on the action!
Another reason I chose this pegging kit as the runner up is that the smooth dildo is perfect for pegging, as there’s minimal friction and is “somewhat less intimidating” than a dildo with a lot of texture or realism.
Catherine also appreciated that it’s “very simple to step into the harness and tighten the adjustable straps until it’s comfortable.” Comfort is a top priority for me when it comes to strap-ons, so I was happy to read that Catherine found it “fits comfortably, without digging into skin”.
The one complaint with this strap-on set is that the O-ring can stretch out when the straps are tightened, which can occasionally let the dildo slip out. I will say, I also experienced this with the Romp Piccolo Strap-On so this issue isn’t unique to the New Comers Strap-On.
Budget-Friendly Romp Piccolo Pegging Kit
- 5 inch silicone dildo
- Adjustable harness
- Both harness and dildo have space for bullet vibrator
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Beginner-friendly
- ✅ Easy to adjust
- ✅ Size inclusive
Cons
- ❌ Excess straps can get in the way
- ❌ O-ring could be smaller
Why I Chose It
I also tested out the Romp Piccolo and found it to be a great introduction to harness-style strap-ons and I was pleasantly surprised by the quality given the low price!
Right off the bat, I loved the design of the dildo. I prefer a colorful, non-realistic design and was happy to see that they’d also managed to make it gender-neutral. I also liked that the tip was slightly tapered and curved, making it easier to inset and target the prostate.
I found the harness relatively comfortable and I appreciated that it caters to range of different sizes. I would say that it’s not super comfortable to wear for longer sessions and if I was looking for a harness to use on the regular, I would probably opt for one with softer, wider straps. However, for occasional use this one is fine!
The one issue I ran into in use was that the O-ring felt a little big for the dildo so it felt less secure than I would have liked. I think either a smaller O-ring or bigger dildo would give better control.
Best for Beginners Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit
- Two silicone dildos of different sizes
- Waterproof bullet vibrator
- Adjustable harness with pocket for bullet vibrator
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Harness will fit most sizes
- ✅ Great quality dildos
- ✅ Harness sits securely
- ✅ Easy to clean
Cons
- ❌ Vibrator pocket doesn't work very well
- ❌ Harness not so comfortable for long-term wear
Why I Chose It
The Tantus Bend Over Beginners Strap-On Set stood out as the best option for beginners, as it comes with the smallest dildo, measuring just 0.8 inches in diameter. It also comes with a second, bigger dildo for something to work up to!
Christina and her partner tested this strap-on kit for us and enjoyed all parts of this comprehensive kit! In particular, they liked that “it has reasonably-sized and über-smooth dildos which can ease any apprehension and yet still provide decent vaginal and anal stimulation.”
The harness, although not the most luxurious looking, “did not loosen at all while thrusting” and was comfortable to wear without chaffing. The only let-down with the harness was the bullet vibrator pocket didn’t function as designed, which “was more distracting than exciting”.
The bullet vibrator itself was more impressive though! For something so small, I was impressed that it had “decently strong” and rumbly vibrations, which you might not expect from such a small bullet. It even survived a trip through the washing machine — a testament to its durability!
Expert Pick Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On
- Vibrating strapless strap-on with two motors
- Ridged design on the shaft and clitoral pad
- Connect to the Lovense Remote app
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Simultaneous pleasure for both wearer and receiver
- ✅ Vibrations are customizable with the app controls
- ✅ Adjustable body to get the right angle for your bodies
Cons
- ❌ Requires a lot of effort to keep in place
- ❌ Insertable pony may be too girthy for some
- ❌ Expensive
Why I Chose It
Introducing the Lovense Lapis as our Runner-Up. This pegging dildo is much more than just strap-on. It’s a strapless strap-on with a unique design that can stimulate both wearer and receiver and send impressive vibrations through both ends. Lovense products also feature app control so you can change the vibrations in both parts of the toy with your device!
After trying it out, our tester, Joseph, could conclude that it’s “a fantastic choice for a strap-on accessory. The motor is strong but quiet, the patterns are highly customizable, you can adjust the fit, and the material feels just like skin once it’s warmed up.”
Although the biggest drawback is that is doesn’t stay in very easily. While it can be used without a harness, Joseph found that it required a lot more grip to keep it in. “When I used it without a harness, I ended up needing to hold it in place with one hand so it didn’t slip out, which didn’t ruin the mood but was annoying”. Using it in a harness helps you focus on enjoying the experience better.
Still, the sensations that this Lovense Lapis delivers are worth having to use the harness. Joseph first let their partner use it on them, “and boy let me tell you, it felt amazing. I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting”. The ridges at the base of the shaft are great for the wearer to rub up against, “and the shaft itself also has a gentle ripple design that feels amazing for the person the toy is being used on.”
Best Pegging Dildo Tantus Silk Medium
- Smooth silicone dildo
- Round, flared base
- Diameter of 1.1 inches
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Made of premium silicone
- ✅ Curved tip and firm feel helps massage the prostate
- ✅ Perfect for beginners
- ✅ Easy to use and super easy to clean
Cons
- ❌ No suction cup base
- ❌ Too simple for very experienced users
Why I Chose It
The Tantus Silk Medium is one of our more simple and beginner-friendly pegging dildos. It’s one the cheapest good quality pegging dildos that we’ve reviewed here at Bedbible. So just because you’re on a budget, you won’t have to compromise with the quality of your pegging experience.
Even though our tester, Kasia, tried it out primarily for vaginal penetration, she concluded that this shape and size was better suited for anal play and pegging in particular. In terms of the design, it’s completely smooth and has a uniform diameter along the whole shaft. I think this shape is perfect for anal play since Kasia also found that “the insertion went so quickly, even without a lube”.
It has a slightly curved shaft that and the feel of the silicone itself is “flexible, but the core is firm, so I had no problem reaching the G-spot”. Of course, this also translates into how well the Tantus Silk Medium could target the prostate during pegging.
For such a simple dildo, I would have loved to see a suction cup base. This would make it a lot more versatile for solo play. Luckily, the flared, rounded base is still perfect to strap into a harness.
Best Pegging Harness Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness
- Lingerie-style strap-on harness with an open-back design
- Removable garter straps
- Elastic O-ring fits dildos up to 1.6 inches in diameter
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Elegant and sexy design
- ✅ Open back design allows wearer to enjoy some anal play
- ✅ The snug fit is very comfortable
- ✅ Easy to use and machine washable
Cons
- ❌ Thrusting is not as stable as with a nylon or leather harness
- ❌ No dildo included
Why I Chose It
Last but certainly not least is my top recommendation for a good quality strap-on harness that both feels comfortable and looks incredibly sexy. This is the perfect harness for leaning into that elegant pegging aesthetic!
The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness even has removable garter straps so you customize to your preferred level of ‘dressing up’. For our tester, Isabelle, her partner liked how it actually looked like lingerie “and had a cut out back as it allowed me to also have some extra fun while wearing it! Perfect for pairing with a cute butt plug.”
“The dildo sits well in the harness but does require a little stabilization, because the fabric can stretch as you thrust.” That said, this is often the case with strap-ons made of fabric rather than nylon or leather.
It offers pretty good value for money since it’s so comfortable to wear and easy to put on and take off. It’s not adjustable but is available in multiple sizes (S, M, L, XL, & 2XL). However, as a plus-size person I would have loved to see a wider range in sizes.
All in all, I think the Strap-On-Me is a great strap-on harness for anyone looking for their first strap-on or an elegant and sexy strap-on for occasional use. “I love the design, comfort, easy of use and think I feel amazing wearing it!”.
Comparison
Best | Test Winner | Runner Up | Budget-Friendly | Best for Beginners | Expert Pick | Best Pegging Dildo | Most Advanced | Best Pegging Harness |
Overall score | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 |
User rating | 5 / 5.0 from 3 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 704 users | 3.8 / 5.0 from 5 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 70 users | 4 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 36 users | 5 / 5.0 from 2 users | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users |
Price | Moderate | Affordable | Affordable | Affordable | Premium | Affordable | Premium | Affordable |
Design | 95 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
Ease of use | 85 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
Quality | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | - | 40 / 100 | 40 / 100 | - | 20 / 100 | - |
Power | - | - | - | 40 / 100 | 100 / 100 | - | 80 / 100 | - |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | somewhat buzzy | very rumbly | - | somewhat rumbly | - |
Insertable length | 6.1 inches | Dildo: 4.75 inches | Dildo: 5 inches | Small Dildo: 4.25 inches, Medium Dildo: 5.5 inches | Shaft: 5.43 inches, Base: 3.43 inches | 5.25 inches | Wearer: 4.5 inches, Receiver: 6.1 inches | - |
Diameter | Pony: 1.53 inches, Dildo: 1.06 inches | Dildo: 0.9 inches, O-ring: 1.25 inches | Dildo: 1 inches | Small Dildo: 0.8 inches, Medium Dildo: 1 inches | Shaft: 1.61 inches, Base: 1.52 inches | 1.1 inches | 1.42-1.61 inches | O-ring: up to 1.6 inches |
Materials | Exterior: Premium silicone, Interior: ABS plastic | Dildo: Silicone, Harness: Polyester, Polypropylene, ABS Plastic, Nitrile | Silicone, SBR Fabrics | Dildos: Silicone, Harness: Polyester, Hard Plastic | Silicone | Premium silicone | Silicone | Microfibre and lace |
Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Dildo: Yes, Harness: Splashproof | Dildos: Yes, Vibrator: Yes, Harness: Machine-Washable | Yes | Yes | Yes | - |
Storage Bag Included | Yes | No | No | No | Yes | No | No | - |
Adjustable | Poseable "hinge" | Yes | Yes | - | Yes | - | Yes, dildo angle is adjustable | No |
Flexibility | Flexible shaft | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Colors Available | Black, Purple | Purple/Black | - | Purple | Pink | Black, Purple | Burgundy, Cool Grey | - |
Harness Size | - | Fits waists up to 60 inches | Waist: up to 55.1 inches, Legs: up to 31.5 inches | Fits hips up to 60 inches and legs up to 26.5 inches inches | - | - | - | Waist: (S) 26.7, (M) 28.3, (L) 29.9, (XL) 31.4, (2XL) 32.28 inches |
Length | - | Dildo: 5.75 inches | Dildo: 5.5 inches | Small Dildo: 4.5 inches, Medium Dildo: 5.75 inches | 9 inches | 5.75 inches | 9.92 inches | - |
Vibration speeds | - | - | - | 3 | 3 preset | - | 3 | - |
Rechargeable | - | - | - | No, Uses 1 N-type Battery | Yes | - | Yes | - |
Remote Controls | - | - | - | No | - | - | No | - |
App Controls | - | - | - | No | Yes | - | No | - |
Travel Lock | - | - | - | No | No | - | Yes | - |
Vibration patterns | - | - | - | - | 4 preset | - | 5 | - |
Battery Life | - | - | - | - | Up to 150 minutes | - | 90 minutes | - |
Charging Time | - | - | - | - | 105 minutes | - | 360 minutes | - |
Some Other Great Pegging Dildos
If you want to add some versatility to your pegging play, here are the best pegging dildos designed to provide with amazing sensations. Always check the size of the O-ring on your harness to make sure it can accommodate your new dildo.
Tantus Charmer Dildo
This stunning dildo from Tantus is the Prince Charming you’ve been waiting for.
Made from top-quality silicone, this purple pleaser is curved to perfectly reach the prostate or the g-spot and features four raised ridges that provide internal stimulation to delight all your sweet spots.
The flared base makes it ideal for use in a strap-on harness – all you need is an O-ring with a diameter of 1.25 inches. Simply slot it into your chosen harness and get down to some fairytale pegging play.
Vixen Mustang
Experience the height of pleasure with the Vixen Mustang! Made from premium silicone, it offers a luxurious feel and durability. Its perfect size and shape target the right spots for intense pleasure. And with the dual-density feature, be prepared for extra realistic sensations!
The Vixen Mustang has a large base designed specifically to be worn with a pegging harness, and it is compatible with O-rings for extra stability during play.
More Pegging Harnesses
Strap-on kits are amazing if you want to get all pegging sex toys at once. But if you already have your favorite pegging toy, and want to find a perfect strap-on harness for more comfortable play, here are my two top recommendations:
SpareParts Joque - Unisex Strap-On Harness
If you’re looking for a perfect strap-on harness, I’ve got just the thing for you: The Spareparts Joque. This harness is comfortable, adjustable, and super easy to use. Plus, it comes in a range of sizes to find the perfect fit!
Whether you’re into pegging or want to explore some bedroom fun, Joque got you covered. It’s designed to hold your favorite dildo securely, and the O-ring system is a breeze to work with.
So, if you’re ready to rock some strap-on action with confidence and comfort, give it a go. You won’t be disappointed!
Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs
Looking for budget-friendly strap-on underwear that’s perfect for beginners? Check out the Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs. They’re soft, stretchy, and seriously comfortable. These briefs are made for all body types and all kinds of intimate activities. Whether you’re into pegging, packing, or just want to feel great, they’ve got you covered. They even have a pocket for a bullet vibrator and a stitched O-ring for your favorite dildo!
Experience strap-on fun without breaking the bank with the Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs. Perfect for beginners and budget-conscious adventurers who want comfort and style. Get ready for an amazing ride!
Different Types of Pegging Strap-Ons
There are a lot of different pegging strap-ons on the market; therefore, I have written down a small guide that hopefully will come in handy.
- Harness Strap-Ons: (most popular) A harness strap-on features a harness that is worn around the waist and thighs with a dildo attached. The harness is usually adjustable for different body sizes, and the dildos are interchangeable, so you can explore different shapes and sizes for your anal play.
- Strapless Strap-Ons: These are designed to be worn without a harness. The most popular type of strapless strap-on is when one end of the dildo is inserted into the vagina or anus of the wearer, and the other end is used to penetrate the partner. They are gaining popularity because strapless strap-ons can stimulate both the wearer and the receiver; however, they are not as comfortable and easy to use as classic harness strap-ons.
- Panty Strap-Ons: These strap-ons are built into a pair of underwear or shorts. They are usually more comfortable to wear and easier to use, and they have a more casual design than harness strap-ons but offer less adjustability.
- Hollow Strap-Ons: These are designed to use with a penis. They feature a hollow dildo that can be worn over the penis. They can be used for men with erectile dysfunction or for those who want to increase the size of their penis.
- Double Penetration Strap-Ons: These usually have two dildos attached to the harness, which allows you to explore simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration. There are also different designs with only one dildo and a ring for a penis, so you can freely penetrate your partner and use a dildo for DP.
- Vibrating Strap-Ons: A vibrating strap-on can have a dildo with a built-in vibrating motor, or there is an extra bullet vibrator that you can place inside the dildo or in the top pocket of the harness for a delicate buzz.
Good to Know:
- Harness: A supportive structure that wraps around your waist, butt, or genitals. It holds the dildo in place, allowing you to play hands-free. Harnesses come in various styles and materials, including leather, fabric, or PVC, and they often have adjustable straps for a comfortable fit. Some harnesses also have pockets for bullet vibrators to enhance the experience.
- O-ring: This is a ring, typically made of metal, rubber, or plastic, that is attached to the harness. The dildo is inserted through the O-ring, which holds it firmly in place during use. O-rings come in different sizes to accommodate various dildo sizes, and some harnesses have interchangeable O-rings for versatility.
- P-Spot: This refers to the prostate, an erogenous zone located in the male anus. When stimulated, the P-spot can lead to intense orgasms. Some dildos are specifically designed with a curved/bulbous shape to target the P-spot.
- G-Spot: This is a sensitive area located on the front wall of the vagina. Similar to the P-spot, the G-spot can produce powerful orgasms when stimulated. Many dildos have curved or angled shapes for better and deeper G-spot stimulation.
- Bullet Vibrator: A small vibrator that can be used to add extra stimulation during sex. Bullet vibrators can be used for clitoral, anal, or nipple stimulation. Some strap-on harnesses have special pockets where a bullet vibrator can be inserted, providing additional pleasure for the wearer during strap-on play.
Reviewed by:
Cassie Mørch