Pegging Toys: 8 Best Pegging Dildos, Strap-ons and More

Cassie Mørch
by Cassie MørchUpdated:

Having tried different strap-ons, I know exactly whats important in a great pegging strap-on. Based on my own experience, and that of our testers, I’ve selected the very best pegging dildos and strap-ons for those just getting into pegging and more experienced peggers. I’ll be including some insights from my own experience and that of our other testers as I go over each product.

Test Winner

5.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Runner Up

4.6Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Catherine Seeley

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 704 user reviews

Budget-Friendly

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

3.8/5

Based on user reviews

Best for Beginners

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.1/5

Reviewed by: 

Christina Dynamite

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 70 user reviews

Expert Pick

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Joseph Mohrmann

User Ratings:

4.0/5

Based on user reviews

Best Pegging Dildo

4.6Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 36 user reviews

Most Advanced

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Jess Adams

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Best Pegging Harness

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Strap-On-Me Strap-OnNew Comers Strap-On SetPiccolo Pegging KitBend Over Beginner Strap-On KitLovense LapisTantus Silk MediumFun Factory ShareVibe ProStrap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness
Strap-On-Me Strap-OnNew Comers Strap-On SetPiccolo Pegging KitBend Over Beginner Strap-On KitLovense LapisTantus Silk MediumFun Factory ShareVibe ProStrap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness
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  • Fantastic quality
  • Good range of sizes to choose from
  • Comfortable and stimulating to wear
  • Can be a little difficult to control
  • Easy to use
  • Slim enough for beginners
  • Good value for money
  • Takes time to adjust
  • Dildo can slip a little
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Easy to adjust
  • Size inclusive
  • Excess straps can get in the way
  • O-ring could be smaller
  • Harness will fit most sizes
  • Great quality dildos
  • Harness sits securely
  • Easy to clean
  • Vibrator pocket doesn't work very well
  • Harness not so comfortable for long-term wear
  • Simultaneous pleasure for both wearer and receiver
  • Vibrations are customizable with the app controls
  • Adjustable body to get the right angle for your bodies
  • Requires a lot of effort to keep in place
  • Insertable pony may be too girthy for some
  • Expensive
  • Made of premium silicone
  • Curved tip and firm feel helps massage the prostate
  • Perfect for beginners
  • Easy to use and super easy to clean
  • No suction cup base
  • Too simple for very experienced users
  • Great for both pegging or solo play
  • Stays in without a harness for the most part
  • Fully waterproof
  • Strong but quiet vibrations
  • Attracts hair and lint very easily
  • Has a bit of learning curve
  • Elegant and sexy design
  • Open back design allows wearer to enjoy some anal play
  • The snug fit is very comfortable
  • Easy to use and machine washable
  • Thrusting is not as stable as with a nylon or leather harness
  • No dildo included

How We Test pegging strap ons

We’re a team of 340 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best pegging strap ons, our testers tried and reviewed 96 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre pegging strap ons didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1255 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
How I Tested the Best Pegging Dildos

Test Winner Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small

5.0/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the pegging dildo.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • Internal pony and clitoral pad stimulate the wearer
  • Slim shaft with a sculpted tip
  • Flexible neck with position memory

Specifications

Pros

  • Fantastic quality
  • Good range of sizes to choose from
  • Comfortable and stimulating to wear

Cons

  • Can be a little difficult to control

Why I Chose It

I tested out this strapless strap on and I absolutely loved using it. I’ve even grown to love it the more I’ve used it. From the silky soft silicone to the comfortable fit, I’ve been impressed by this dildo from the get-go!

As the wearer, I loved how the internal egg nestled against my G-spot, giving a pleasant massage with each movement. This extra stimulation gave my arousal a real boost. The raised clitoral pad did also add a little external stimulation but it was the internal stimulation that I enjoyed the most.

I was also impressed by how well it stayed in during use. Of course, I did need to readjust now and again, but I feel like that will always be the way with this style of strap-on. I will say it’s not quite as easy as strap-on with a harness, but it wasn’t as difficult as I’d imagined.

The shape of the dildo was also a hit. I really like that they’ve given it a pronounced head — it’s great for massaging over the prostate. The only downside is that it’s a little floppy. A slightly firmer dildo would have been easier to insert and control.

Runner Up Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Set

4.6/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Catherine Seeley

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 704 user reviews

75/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Set was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the pegging dildo.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Set was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Set was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Smooth silicone dildo
  • Adjustable harness
  • 1.25 inch O-ring

Specifications

Pros

  • Easy to use
  • Slim enough for beginners
  • Good value for money

Cons

  • Takes time to adjust
  • Dildo can slip a little

Why I Chose It

I chose the Sportsheets New Comer Strap-On Kit as the runner up because I think it’s simple, high-quality pegging strap-on. I find a strap-on in a harness like this is easier to use than a strapless strap-on and this is what I would go for if I was new to pegging.

Our tester, Catherine, liked that this set was “easily adjustable, easy to use, versatile, and unintimidating”. In my experience, this is exactly what you want from a strap-on kit, so you can focus your attention on the action!

Another reason I chose this pegging kit as the runner up is that the smooth dildo is perfect for pegging, as there’s minimal friction and is “somewhat less intimidating” than a dildo with a lot of texture or realism.

Catherine also appreciated that it’s “very simple to step into the harness and tighten the adjustable straps until it’s comfortable.” Comfort is a top priority for me when it comes to strap-ons, so I was happy to read that Catherine found it “fits comfortably, without digging into skin”.

The one complaint with this strap-on set is that the O-ring can stretch out when the straps are tightened, which can occasionally let the dildo slip out. I will say, I also experienced this with the Romp Piccolo Strap-On so this issue isn’t unique to the New Comers Strap-On.

Budget-Friendly Romp Piccolo Pegging Kit

4.3/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

3.8/5

Based on user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Romp Piccolo Pegging Kit was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the pegging dildo.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Romp Piccolo Pegging Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Romp Piccolo Pegging Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • 5 inch silicone dildo
  • Adjustable harness
  • Both harness and dildo have space for bullet vibrator

Specifications

Pros

  • Beginner-friendly
  • Easy to adjust
  • Size inclusive

Cons

  • Excess straps can get in the way
  • O-ring could be smaller

Why I Chose It

I also tested out the Romp Piccolo and found it to be a great introduction to harness-style strap-ons and I was pleasantly surprised by the quality given the low price!

Right off the bat, I loved the design of the dildo. I prefer a colorful, non-realistic design and was happy to see that they’d also managed to make it gender-neutral. I also liked that the tip was slightly tapered and curved, making it easier to inset and target the prostate.

I found the harness relatively comfortable and I appreciated that it caters to range of different sizes. I would say that it’s not super comfortable to wear for longer sessions and if I was looking for a harness to use on the regular, I would probably opt for one with softer, wider straps. However, for occasional use this one is fine!

The one issue I ran into in use was that the O-ring felt a little big for the dildo so it felt less secure than I would have liked. I think either a smaller O-ring or bigger dildo would give better control.

Best for Beginners Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit

4.3/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.1/5

Reviewed by: 

Christina Dynamite

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 70 user reviews

60/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is designed well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the pegging dildo.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

75/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Two silicone dildos of different sizes
  • Waterproof bullet vibrator
  • Adjustable harness with pocket for bullet vibrator

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Harness will fit most sizes
  • Great quality dildos
  • Harness sits securely
  • Easy to clean

Cons

  • Vibrator pocket doesn't work very well
  • Harness not so comfortable for long-term wear

Why I Chose It

The Tantus Bend Over Beginners Strap-On Set stood out as the best option for beginners, as it comes with the smallest dildo, measuring just 0.8 inches in diameter. It also comes with a second, bigger dildo for something to work up to!

Christina and her partner tested this strap-on kit for us and enjoyed all parts of this comprehensive kit! In particular, they liked that “it has reasonably-sized and über-smooth dildos which can ease any apprehension and yet still provide decent vaginal and anal stimulation.”

The harness, although not the most luxurious looking, “did not loosen at all while thrusting” and was comfortable to wear without chaffing. The only let-down with the harness was the bullet vibrator pocket didn’t function as designed, which “was more distracting than exciting”.

The bullet vibrator itself was more impressive though! For something so small, I was impressed that it had “decently strong” and rumbly vibrations, which you might not expect from such a small bullet. It even survived a trip through the washing machine — a testament to its durability!

Expert Pick Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On

4.5/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Joseph Mohrmann

User Ratings:

4.0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the pegging dildo.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Vibrating strapless strap-on with two motors
  • Ridged design on the shaft and clitoral pad
  • Connect to the Lovense Remote app

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is extremely powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Simultaneous pleasure for both wearer and receiver
  • Vibrations are customizable with the app controls
  • Adjustable body to get the right angle for your bodies

Cons

  • Requires a lot of effort to keep in place
  • Insertable pony may be too girthy for some
  • Expensive

Why I Chose It

Introducing the Lovense Lapis as our Runner-Up. This pegging dildo is much more than just strap-on. It’s a strapless strap-on with a unique design that can stimulate both wearer and receiver and send impressive vibrations through both ends. Lovense products also feature app control so you can change the vibrations in both parts of the toy with your device!

After trying it out, our tester, Joseph, could conclude that it’s “a fantastic choice for a strap-on accessory. The motor is strong but quiet, the patterns are highly customizable, you can adjust the fit, and the material feels just like skin once it’s warmed up.”

Although the biggest drawback is that is doesn’t stay in very easily. While it can be used without a harness, Joseph found that it required a lot more grip to keep it in. “When I used it without a harness, I ended up needing to hold it in place with one hand so it didn’t slip out, which didn’t ruin the mood but was annoying”. Using it in a harness helps you focus on enjoying the experience better.

Still, the sensations that this Lovense Lapis delivers are worth having to use the harness. Joseph first let their partner use it on them, “and boy let me tell you, it felt amazing. I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting”. The ridges at the base of the shaft are great for the wearer to rub up against, “and the shaft itself also has a gentle ripple design that feels amazing for the person the toy is being used on.”

Best Pegging Dildo Tantus Silk Medium

4.6/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 36 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Silk Medium was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the pegging dildo.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Silk Medium was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Silk Medium was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Smooth silicone dildo
  • Round, flared base
  • Diameter of 1.1 inches

Specifications

Pros

  • Made of premium silicone
  • Curved tip and firm feel helps massage the prostate
  • Perfect for beginners
  • Easy to use and super easy to clean

Cons

  • No suction cup base
  • Too simple for very experienced users

Why I Chose It

The Tantus Silk Medium is one of our more simple and beginner-friendly pegging dildos. It’s one the cheapest good quality pegging dildos that we’ve reviewed here at Bedbible. So just because you’re on a budget, you won’t have to compromise with the quality of your pegging experience.

Even though our tester, Kasia, tried it out primarily for vaginal penetration, she concluded that this shape and size was better suited for anal play and pegging in particular. In terms of the design, it’s completely smooth and has a uniform diameter along the whole shaft. I think this shape is perfect for anal play since Kasia also found that “the insertion went so quickly, even without a lube”.

It has a slightly curved shaft that and the feel of the silicone itself is “flexible, but the core is firm, so I had no problem reaching the G-spot”. Of course, this also translates into how well the Tantus Silk Medium could target the prostate during pegging.

For such a simple dildo, I would have loved to see a suction cup base. This would make it a lot more versatile for solo play. Luckily, the flared, rounded base is still perfect to strap into a harness.

Most Advanced Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Jess Adams

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the pegging dildo.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • Vibrating strapless strap-on
  • Girhty insertable pony with unique design
  • Slightly bulbous tip on the shaft
  • Fully adjustable hinge

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Great for both pegging or solo play
  • Stays in without a harness for the most part
  • Fully waterproof
  • Strong but quiet vibrations

Cons

  • Attracts hair and lint very easily
  • Has a bit of learning curve

Why I Chose It

I wanted to include an option for more advanced level pegging. The Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro stood out as the best option, with it’s girthier shaft and powerful vibrations.

I really like the vibrations in Fun Factory toys in general and, thanks to our tester, Jess, I know how big of an upgrade this model is from the original Fun Factory ShareVibe. The dildo is slightly girthier but features an ergonomic shape with a bit of bulbous tip for added prostate pleasure.

“The Pro was easier to peg without a harness due to the adjustable hinge” and the unique (and girthy) shape of the insertable pony. Being able to adjust the hinge according to your bodies makes a huge difference in how well it stays in place during use. As far as the girth goes, “depending on the shape your vagina (it) could be uncomfortable if you do not get it placed correctly at first. I did have a little bit of a learning curve with placement for myself.”

A small bonus of the adjustable hinge is that Jess was able “to use it as a standard vibrating dildo with a handle, as well as a dildo with clitoral stimulation by closing the hinge more and pushing the other end into the clit.”

As far the vibration goes, Fun Factory states that Share Vibe Pro offers natural-feeling thrusting and has the strongest motor of any double dildo on the market. In her review, Jess concluded that she thinks “it 100% lives up to those promises.” She was even “amazed at the sound level, given the strength of them.”

Best Pegging Harness Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the pegging dildo.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • Lingerie-style strap-on harness with an open-back design
  • Removable garter straps
  • Elastic O-ring fits dildos up to 1.6 inches in diameter

Specifications

Pros

  • Elegant and sexy design
  • Open back design allows wearer to enjoy some anal play
  • The snug fit is very comfortable
  • Easy to use and machine washable

Cons

  • Thrusting is not as stable as with a nylon or leather harness
  • No dildo included

Why I Chose It

Last but certainly not least is my top recommendation for a good quality strap-on harness that both feels comfortable and looks incredibly sexy. This is the perfect harness for leaning into that elegant pegging aesthetic!

The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness even has removable garter straps so you customize to your preferred level of ‘dressing up’. For our tester, Isabelle, her partner  liked how it actually looked like lingerie “and had a cut out back as it allowed me to also have some extra fun while wearing it! Perfect for pairing with a cute butt plug.”

“The dildo sits well in the harness but does require a little stabilization, because the fabric can stretch as you thrust.” That said, this is often the case with strap-ons made of fabric rather than nylon or leather.

It offers pretty good value for money since it’s so comfortable to wear and easy to put on and take off. It’s not adjustable but is available in multiple sizes (S, M, L, XL, & 2XL). However, as a plus-size person I would have loved to see a wider range in sizes.

All in all, I think the Strap-On-Me is a great strap-on harness for anyone looking for their first strap-on or an elegant and sexy strap-on for occasional use. “I love the design, comfort, easy of use and think I feel amazing wearing it!”.

Comparison

BestTest Winner Runner Up Budget-Friendly Best for Beginners Expert Pick Best Pegging Dildo Most Advanced Best Pegging Harness
Overall score5.0 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.9 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.1 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0
User rating5 / 5.0
from 3 users
4.4 / 5.0
from 704 users
3.8 / 5.0
from 5 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 70 users
4 / 5.0
from 1 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 36 users
5 / 5.0
from 2 users
5 / 5.0
from 1 users
PriceModerate Affordable Affordable Affordable Premium Affordable Premium Affordable
Design95 / 100 75 / 100 95 / 100 60 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100
Ease of use85 / 100 85 / 100 90 / 100 85 / 100 85 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100 85 / 100
Quality100 / 100 80 / 100 90 / 100 75 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100
Sound---40 / 100 40 / 100 -20 / 100 -
Power---40 / 100 100 / 100 -80 / 100 -
Buzzy/Rumbly---somewhat buzzy very rumbly -somewhat rumbly -
Insertable length6.1 inchesDildo: 4.75 inchesDildo: 5 inchesSmall Dildo: 4.25 inches, Medium Dildo: 5.5 inchesShaft: 5.43 inches, Base: 3.43 inches5.25 inchesWearer: 4.5 inches, Receiver: 6.1 inches-
DiameterPony: 1.53 inches, Dildo: 1.06 inchesDildo: 0.9 inches, O-ring: 1.25 inchesDildo: 1 inchesSmall Dildo: 0.8 inches, Medium Dildo: 1 inchesShaft: 1.61 inches, Base: 1.52 inches1.1 inches1.42-1.61 inchesO-ring: up to 1.6 inches
MaterialsExterior: Premium silicone, Interior: ABS plastic Dildo: Silicone, Harness: Polyester, Polypropylene, ABS Plastic, Nitrile Silicone, SBR Fabrics Dildos: Silicone, Harness: Polyester, Hard Plastic Silicone Premium silicone Silicone Microfibre and lace
WaterproofYes Yes Dildo: Yes, Harness: Splashproof Dildos: Yes, Vibrator: Yes, Harness: Machine-Washable Yes Yes Yes -
Storage Bag IncludedYes No No No Yes No No -
AdjustablePoseable "hinge" Yes Yes -Yes -Yes, dildo angle is adjustable No
FlexibilityFlexible shaft -------
Colors AvailableBlack, Purple Purple/Black -Purple Pink Black, Purple Burgundy, Cool Grey -
Harness Size-Fits waists up to 60 inchesWaist: up to 55.1 inches, Legs: up to 31.5 inchesFits hips up to 60 inches and legs up to 26.5 inches inches---Waist: (S) 26.7, (M) 28.3, (L) 29.9, (XL) 31.4, (2XL) 32.28 inches
Length-Dildo: 5.75 inchesDildo: 5.5 inchesSmall Dildo: 4.5 inches, Medium Dildo: 5.75 inches9 inches5.75 inches9.92 inches-
Vibration speeds---3 3 preset -3 -
Rechargeable---No, Uses 1 N-type Battery Yes -Yes -
Remote Controls---No --No -
App Controls---No Yes -No -
Travel Lock---No No -Yes -
Vibration patterns----4 preset -5 -
Battery Life----Up to 150 minutes-90 minutes-
Charging Time----105 minutes-360 minutes-
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Some Other Great Pegging Dildos

If you want to add some versatility to your pegging play, here are the best pegging dildos designed to provide with amazing sensations. Always check the size of the O-ring on your harness to make sure it can accommodate your new dildo.

Tantus Charmer Dildo

Tantus Charmer Dildo

Tantus Charmer Dildo

This stunning dildo from Tantus is the Prince Charming you’ve been waiting for.

Made from top-quality silicone, this purple pleaser is curved to perfectly reach the prostate or the g-spot and features four raised ridges that provide internal stimulation to delight all your sweet spots.

The flared base makes it ideal for use in a strap-on harness – all you need is an O-ring with a diameter of 1.25 inches. Simply slot it into your chosen harness and get down to some fairytale pegging play.

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Vixen Mustang

Vixen Mustang

Vixen Mustang

Experience the height of pleasure with the Vixen Mustang! Made from premium silicone, it offers a luxurious feel and durability. Its perfect size and shape target the right spots for intense pleasure. And with the dual-density feature, be prepared for extra realistic sensations!

The Vixen Mustang has a large base designed specifically to be worn with a pegging harness, and it is compatible with O-rings for extra stability during play.

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More Pegging Harnesses

Strap-on kits are amazing if you want to get all pegging sex toys at once. But if you already have your favorite pegging toy, and want to find a perfect strap-on harness for more comfortable play, here are my two top recommendations:

SpareParts Joque - Unisex Strap-On Harness

SpareParts Joque - Unisex Strap-On Harness

SpareParts Joque - Unisex Strap-On Harness

If you’re looking for a perfect strap-on harness, I’ve got just the thing for you: The Spareparts Joque. This harness is comfortable, adjustable, and super easy to use. Plus, it comes in a range of sizes to find the perfect fit!

Whether you’re into pegging or want to explore some bedroom fun, Joque got you covered. It’s designed to hold your favorite dildo securely, and the O-ring system is a breeze to work with.

So, if you’re ready to rock some strap-on action with confidence and comfort, give it a go. You won’t be disappointed!

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Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs

Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs

Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs

Looking for budget-friendly strap-on underwear that’s perfect for beginners? Check out the Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs. They’re soft, stretchy, and seriously comfortable. These briefs are made for all body types and all kinds of intimate activities. Whether you’re into pegging, packing, or just want to feel great, they’ve got you covered. They even have a pocket for a bullet vibrator and a stitched O-ring for your favorite dildo!

Experience strap-on fun without breaking the bank with the Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs. Perfect for beginners and budget-conscious adventurers who want comfort and style. Get ready for an amazing ride!

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Different Types of Pegging Strap-Ons

There are a lot of different pegging strap-ons on the market; therefore, I have written down a small guide that hopefully will come in handy.

  • Harness Strap-Ons: (most popular) A harness strap-on features a harness that is worn around the waist and thighs with a dildo attached. The harness is usually adjustable for different body sizes, and the dildos are interchangeable, so you can explore different shapes and sizes for your anal play.
  • Strapless Strap-Ons: These are designed to be worn without a harness. The most popular type of strapless strap-on is when one end of the dildo is inserted into the vagina or anus of the wearer, and the other end is used to penetrate the partner. They are gaining popularity because strapless strap-ons can stimulate both the wearer and the receiver; however, they are not as comfortable and easy to use as classic harness strap-ons.
  • Panty Strap-Ons: These strap-ons are built into a pair of underwear or shorts. They are usually more comfortable to wear and easier to use, and they have a more casual design than harness strap-ons but offer less adjustability.
  • Hollow Strap-Ons: These are designed to use with a penis. They feature a hollow dildo that can be worn over the penis. They can be used for men with erectile dysfunction or for those who want to increase the size of their penis.
  • Double Penetration Strap-Ons: These usually have two dildos attached to the harness, which allows you to explore simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration. There are also different designs with only one dildo and a ring for a penis, so you can freely penetrate your partner and use a dildo for DP.
  • Vibrating Strap-Ons: A vibrating strap-on can have a dildo with a built-in vibrating motor, or there is an extra bullet vibrator that you can place inside the dildo or in the top pocket of the harness for a delicate buzz.

Good to Know:

  • Harness: A supportive structure that wraps around your waist, butt, or genitals. It holds the dildo in place, allowing you to play hands-free. Harnesses come in various styles and materials, including leather, fabric, or PVC, and they often have adjustable straps for a comfortable fit. Some harnesses also have pockets for bullet vibrators to enhance the experience.
  • O-ring: This is a ring, typically made of metal, rubber, or plastic, that is attached to the harness. The dildo is inserted through the O-ring, which holds it firmly in place during use. O-rings come in different sizes to accommodate various dildo sizes, and some harnesses have interchangeable O-rings for versatility.
  • P-Spot: This refers to the prostate, an erogenous zone located in the male anus. When stimulated, the P-spot can lead to intense orgasms. Some dildos are specifically designed with a curved/bulbous shape to target the P-spot.
  • G-Spot: This is a sensitive area located on the front wall of the vagina. Similar to the P-spot, the G-spot can produce powerful orgasms when stimulated. Many dildos have curved or angled shapes for better and deeper G-spot stimulation.
  • Bullet Vibrator: A small vibrator that can be used to add extra stimulation during sex. Bullet vibrators can be used for clitoral, anal, or nipple stimulation. Some strap-on harnesses have special pockets where a bullet vibrator can be inserted, providing additional pleasure for the wearer during strap-on play.
Author
Cassie Mørch
Cassie Mørch

Content Specialist | Anthropologist with a passion for exploring how humans understand sex, pleasure, and intimacy. I believe sexual well-being and pleasure is intricately linked to our overall health and well-being in ways that we probably can’t even comprehend! That’s why I love being able to write about all things related to sex, masturbation, and kink. Hopefully, our informative and sex-positive approach here at Bedbible will allow you to explore your true desires – and help you fulfill them!

Age: 26
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: Le Wand Hoop Stainless Steel Dildo
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