Pegging Toys: 6 Best Pegging Dildos, Strap-ons and More

Different Types of Pegging Strap-Ons

There are a lot of different pegging strap-ons on the market; therefore, I have written down a small guide that hopefully will come in handy.

• Harness Strap-Ons: (most popular) A harness strap-on features a harness that is worn around the waist and thighs with a dildo attached. The harness is usually adjustable for different body sizes, and the dildos are interchangeable, so you can explore different shapes and sizes for your anal play.
• Strapless Strap-Ons: These are designed to be worn without a harness. The most popular type of strapless strap-on is when one end of the dildo is inserted into the vagina or anus of the wearer, and the other end is used to penetrate the partner. They are gaining popularity because strapless strap-ons can stimulate both the wearer and the receiver; however, they are not as comfortable and easy to use as classic harness strap-ons.
• Panty Strap-Ons: These strap-ons are built into a pair of underwear or shorts. They are usually more comfortable to wear and easier to use, and they have a more casual design than harness strap-ons but offer less adjustability.
• Hollow Strap-Ons: These are designed to use with a penis. They feature a hollow dildo that can be worn over the penis. They can be used for men with erectile dysfunction or for those who want to increase the size of their penis.
• Double Penetration Strap-Ons: These usually have two dildos attached to the harness, which allows you to explore simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration. There are also different designs with only one dildo and a ring for a penis, so you can freely penetrate your partner and use a dildo for DP.
• Vibrating Strap-Ons: A vibrating strap-on can have a dildo with a built-in vibrating motor, or there is an extra bullet vibrator that you can place inside the dildo or in the top pocket of the harness for a delicate buzz.

Good to Know:

• Harness: A supportive structure that wraps around your waist, butt, or genitals. It holds the dildo in place, allowing you to play hands-free. Harnesses come in various styles and materials, including leather, fabric, or PVC, and they often have adjustable straps for a comfortable fit. Some harnesses also have pockets for bullet vibrators to enhance the experience.
• O-ring: This is a ring, typically made of metal, rubber, or plastic, that is attached to the harness. The dildo is inserted through the O-ring, which holds it firmly in place during use. O-rings come in different sizes to accommodate various dildo sizes, and some harnesses have interchangeable O-rings for versatility.
• P-Spot: This refers to the prostate, an erogenous zone located in the male anus. When stimulated, the P-spot can lead to intense orgasms. Some dildos are specifically designed with a curved/bulbous shape to target the P-spot.
• G-Spot: This is a sensitive area located on the front wall of the vagina. Similar to the P-spot, the G-spot can produce powerful orgasms when stimulated. Many dildos have curved or angled shapes for better and deeper G-spot stimulation.
• Bullet Vibrator: A small vibrator that can be used to add extra stimulation during sex. Bullet vibrators can be used for clitoral, anal, or nipple stimulation. Some strap-on harnesses have special pockets where a bullet vibrator can be inserted, providing additional pleasure for the wearer during strap-on play.

What Types of Pegging Dildos Are There?

There is a huge range of dildos and strap-ons on the market today, and it can pretty intimidating to find the ones that are right for you. With so many shapes and sizes and odds and ends, which types are best for what? Here’s a quick, and by no means exhaustive, list of some of the most common types of pegging dildos you’ll encounter:

The Slim Beginner

Beginners to pegging and strap-on play should consider starting with a slimmer, smoother type of dildo. These types of pegging dildos are less realistic than others, with a rounded head and a smaller size. They’re still great at stimulating all the right spots, but will be easier for first-timers – especially if you’re going the anal route.

The Realistic Dildo

Some love them, some hate them, but realistic styles of dildos are everywhere. The idea is to create a more penis-like sensation during penetration, which can be arousing for some people and really add to the kink factor during a role reversal. The extra texture can also lead to more stimulation for those who are more sensitive, just make sure to use plenty of lube.

The Double Trouble

While traditional strap-ons are great in many ways, they generally don’t provide a lot of stimulation for the wearer beyond the psychological aspect. Double dildos, on the other hand, are a great way for both parties to get some penetration action. They vary widely in style and shape, but the basic idea is that one shaft goes into the wearer and the other into the receiver like normal.

The Vibrator

When simple thrusting isn’t enough to get you going, you could try adding some vibes to the mix with a vibrating pegging dildo or strap-on. Again, these can vary a lot in appearance, from dildos with slots in the base for a bullet vibrator to remote-control dildos. It’s often best to opt for one that has multiple levels of vibration intensity so that you can find what works best for you and your partner.

The Strapless

Strapless strap-ons are pretty impressive looking toys. The idea of them is that one end is inserted into the vagina and held there whilst you penetrate your partner with the other end. In reality, they require a lot of pelvic floor strength and can be hard to find the right position for pleasure. However, once mastered, they can deliver an experience and sense of connection unlike any other. Many people recommend using them with a harness or pegging underwear to make them a little less unwieldy.

The Clit Stimulator

It can be a struggle for wearers with a clitoris to feel super aroused during pegging if they’re not getting any clit stimulation at the same time. Fortunately, there are a lot of pegging dildos and strap-ons out there that offer just such a thing, including rabbit ears and vibrating bulges that tease the clitoris as you thrust. Many of these types of pegging toys are of the strapless variety, but not all.

Materials for Pegging Dildos

Materials are a pretty important consideration when buying any sex toy, but particularly when you’re buying something that you’re going to insert inside the body.

• Silicone – Silicone is a good choice for a pegging dildo as it is a soft, easily insertable material that is super easy to clean. It is non-porous and non-toxic, does not degrade fast, and can hold temperature.
• Glass and metal – People are often put off by the idea of such rigid materials being inserted into their anus, however not only are these materials completely body-safe, but they’re also great for pinpoint pleasure as they do not move around.
• Hard plastic – just as glass and metal are great for pinpoint pleasure, hard plastic is too. It’s easy to clean, however, it won’t withstand heat so be careful!

Pegging dildos come in all kinds of different materials, so here’s a small guide to which could work best for you:

Silicone

We love silicone! It’s almost universally considered to be the best material for dildos and other sex toys. It’s soft, smooth and velvety to the touch, and is not porous, meaning that it’s easy to clean and slow to degrade. It’s also hypoallergenic! There are just a few things to consider with a silicone pegging dildo. Firstly, they’re usually pretty firm and not that bendy. There also require some special care to keep them in tip-top condition – avoid storing them with other silicone toys to prevent them from bonding accidentally, and only use them with water-based lubes.

Plastic/Jelly

Yes, there are some plastic/PVC pegging dildos included in this list. Is it the best material for dildos? Not really. While plastic and jelly dildos are often cheaper and more flexible than their silicone peers, plastic is a porous material. This means that they’re harder to clean and quicker to degrade, and bacteria can accumulate that can’t be washed away at all! Also, some plastic toys contain phthalates, which are both caustic and carcinogenic (though we try our very best to only recommend phthalate-free products).

Glass

Glass dildos can be kind of scary, especially for beginners, but they’re perfectly safe if used correctly. In fact, they’re easy to clean and often dishwasher-friendly. Glass pegging dildos are very firm, which can be stimulating for the receiver but may mean that the wearer is a little less comfortable. Just make sure to handle them carefully – they can’t be used once they’re chipped or cracked.

What Will You Get In a Pegging Kit?

Let’s take a look at a few of the key items that you’re going to find in your pegging kit, and explore what they do!

• Dildo – One of the most important features of a pegging kit is the dildo! After all, how can you peg without one! You will find that every strap on kit comes with its own dildo (maybe more than one, in some instances).
• Harness – You need something to strap the dildo into so the pegging can take place. That’s where the strap-on harness comes in. It allows you to firmly and comfortably strap the dildo to your body. The harness will have straps around your hips, thigh, and/or butt to secure the pegging action. You can also get brief-style harnesses!
• O-ring – These rings allow you to slip the length of your dildo through them while holding the base of it securely over the crotch of the wearer. It’s what physically secures the dildo to the strap. O-rings come in various sizes (depending on the dildo you have) and provide a firm and strong grip to the toy.
• Bullet vibrator – Sometimes pegging gits even come with a bullet vibrator, which allows the wearer to get something out of it too! The bullet vibrator can also be used on your partner in all kinds of different ways. Not every kit comes with a vibrator though!

What to Look for in a Good Pegging Kit

As we mentioned, there are a lot of things included in pegging kits, but what do you need to look for in a more general sense? Here are a few things you need to bear in mind when shopping for your pegging kit!

• Right size dildos – You want a dildo that’s comfortable for whoever will be taking it. You need to check both the length and girth of the toy, as you don’t want a dildo that is too long or wide for them to be able to handle! Keep an eye on the measurements and remember that it’s always better to start small and work your way up!
• Silicone dildos – If you want a dildo that is body-safe then silicone is the way to go. Silicone strap ons are non-porous, meaning that they won’t harbor any bacteria or germs, making them easy to clean. Also, they feel very real and life-like!
• Curved dildo – If you want to hit that P spot (prostate) while pleasuring your male partner, a curved dildo will help you do the trick. While it’s totally achievable with a straight one, it is still a little tricky. On the other hand curved dildos are shaped to head directly for that P spot!
• Adjustable harness – When it comes to preparing for pegging you need a harness that is adjustable. You want it to fit right against your body so that you have plenty of control when moving. Adjustable harnesses also accommodate most body sizes, but there are also plus size strap-on harnesses available for larger people.
• Comfortable harness – You need a harness that is comfortable. After all, you can’t have much fun if the straps are digging in or rubbing against you and causing you discomfort. Find a harness that is padded or coated in something that is more friendly to the body!

Finding the Best Pegging Dildo Harness

• Size – Most harnesses are adjustable, but you’ll want to measure yourself before buying a harness to make sure everything fits. We want everyone to find the right fit so we’ve also found the best plus-size harnesses out there!
• Materials – Polyester, polypropylene, leather, and spandex are all popular harness materials. Leather has a great aesthetic but is more difficult to clean and care for!
• Style – harness with adjustable straps can be adjusted to fit your body. Underwear-style harnesses are easier to put on and can be more comfortable, but don’t offer as much support as a strap-style harness.