5 Best Vibrating Strap Ons

Kasia Halinowska
by Kasia HalinowskaUpdated:

I know that finding a comfortable and powerful vibrating strap-on can be difficult, so if you’re looking for the best one, reading my handy review guide was the best thing you could have done! I had the pleasure of working with Bedbile’s team of expert sex toy reviewers, and together we selected the best vibrating strap-ons and reviewed them according to their price, size, comfort, and durability. Whether you are looking for a strapless or harness strap-on, I’ve prepared 5 different vibrating strap-ons to suit everyone’s needs!

Test Winner

4.9Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Jess Adams

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Best for Beginners

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.1/5

Reviewed by: 

Christina Dynamite

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 70 user reviews

Budget-Friendly

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.3/5

Reviewed by: 

Emiel Vizzi

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 215 user reviews

Best Remote Control

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Peter Wenham

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 19 user reviews

Best App Control

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Joseph Mohrmann

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on user reviews

Fun Factory ShareVibe ProTantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On KitTracey Cox Supersex KitDesire Luxury Strap-OnLovense Lapis
Fun Factory ShareVibe ProTantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On KitTracey Cox Supersex KitDesire Luxury Strap-OnLovense Lapis
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Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
  • Silky smooth silicone
  • Perfectly curved for deep internal massage
  • USB rechargeable
  • Waterproof
  • Can be used without a strap-on harness
  • Comes with a learning curve
  • Vibrations don't carry to the shaft very well
  • Shaft is quite short
  • Attracts hair and lint very easily
  • Great starter set for beginners
  • Comfortable harness
  • Silky, flexible silicone dildos
  • Can be used with larger dildos as well
  • The bullet vibrator is low quality
  • Weak vibrations and only one mode
  • Vibrator pocket does not stay in place
  • Dildos have a similar size
  • Big size difference between the dildos
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Easy to use
  • Comes with everything you need to start
  • Battery powered bullet
  • Weak vibrations
  • Harness can be tricky at first
  • Bright pink dildo might not be everyone's taste
  • High quality product
  • Strong vibrations
  • Wide range of vibration settings
  • Comfortable harness
  • Easy to use
  • Might be too rigid for some
  • Comes with one dildo only
  • Vibrations are quite buzzy
  • Top-quality product
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Customizable vibration with app
  • Long battery life
  • Adjustable insertion point
  • Can slip out of wearer if not using harness
  • The size of the shaft might not fit everyone

How We Test vibrating strap ons

We’re a team of 324 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best vibrating strap ons, our testers tried and reviewed 79 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre vibrating strap ons didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1073 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
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If You Are Looking For…

  • The best vibrating strapless strap-on: I recommend the Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro; it’s the most comfortable strap-on with strong dual stimulation for both partners. The other great choice is the Lovense Lapis; I think it’s perfect for more advanced users who will also appreciate the extra powerful vibrations and the option of app control. 
  • The best vibrating strap-on with a harness: In my opinion, the best option would be the Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strap-on Kit, the most powerful strap-on on my list, and I think the addition of the remote-controlled vibrating dildo is a great feature!
  • The most powerful vibrating strap-on: The Lovense Lapis is the most powerful and the rumbliest toy on my list. Additionally, it’s app-controlled, which offers unlimited options for vibration speeds and patterns.

Test Winner Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro Strapless Strap-On Dildo

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Jess Adams

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro Strapless Strap-On Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the vibrating strap on.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro Strapless Strap-On Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro Strapless Strap-On Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro Strapless Strap-On Dildo was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Vibrating strapless strap-on
  • Provides dual stimulation for the wearer
  • Curved shaft with a tapered tip for easy insertion
  • Flexible insertable arm

Pros

  • Silky smooth silicone
  • Perfectly curved for deep internal massage
  • USB rechargeable
  • Waterproof
  • Can be used without a strap-on harness
  • Vibrations are fairly quiet

Cons

  • Comes with a learning curve
  • Vibrations don't carry to the shaft very well
  • Shaft is quite short
  • Attracts hair and lint very easily

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro Strapless Strap-On Dildo was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro Strapless Strap-On Dildo felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro Strapless Strap-On Dildo was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro Strapless Strap-On Dildo felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

The Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro is one of the best vibrating strapless strap-ons we’ve ever tested. Its ergonomic design will be perfect for pegging and all kinds of shared pleasure. The vibrations are designed to stimulate both the wearer and the receiver, enhancing the experience for both partners. Our tester, Jess, had a wonderful time with the Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro, particularly enjoying its deep, rumbly vibrations and the added clitoral stimulation. She also praised its flexibility, saying, “The hinge makes it a lot easier to adjust once you put it inside, which prevents the toy from falling out during penetration.”

However, like all strapless strap-ons, it does require some practice. Jess noted that the size can be a bit challenging, and while she was able to use it without a harness, she did “occasionally have to reach down and hold it in for additional support.” Because of this, you might find it easier to use a strap-on harness with the ShareVibe, as it helps keep everything in place during those more active moments.

 

Best for Beginners Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.1/5

Reviewed by: 

Christina Dynamite

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 70 user reviews

60/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is designed well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the vibrating strap on.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

75/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Classic strap-on design with an adjustable harness
  • The set comes with a choice of two silicone dildos in different sizes and a bullet vibrator
  • Curved dildos for deeper internal stimulation
  • Two different o-rings included, which means you can swap out the dildo included in the set and slip in another dildo or plug of your choice

Pros

  • Great starter set for beginners
  • Comfortable harness
  • Silky, flexible silicone dildos
  • Can be used with larger dildos as well

Cons

  • The bullet vibrator is low quality
  • Weak vibrations and only one mode
  • Vibrator pocket does not stay in place
  • Dildos have a similar size

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is weak.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingPower ratingPower ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit is the most popular beginner strap-on kit! It has everything you need to start your pegging journey, including a bullet vibrator, an easy-to-use, and an adjustable harness that works on many different body types. Yet, the key feature of this strap-on kit are the popular Tantus Silk Dildos! I own the Tantus Silk Medium, and I am pretty impressed with its quality and overall performance. Usually beginner toys feature cheap, stiff dilods, but these feel totally different! Both are made with flexible, silky-smooth silicone and come in two beginner-friendly sizes. Based on our tester’s review of the product, “The dildos feel luxurious compared with most beginner butt products.” 

Performance-wise, Christina said that “the harness did not loosen at all while thrusting, and the dildo stayed securely in place,” but she and her partner wished that the straps were made from softer material. When it comes to the vibrations, our tester said that the bullet has a “decently strong buzz and has proven durable,” but it felt a bit “cheap” and didn’t offer a ton of stimulation once inserted in the pocket. 

All in all, I think that the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit is a good, reliable product, perfect for total beginners that want to have a smooth and comfortable first experiment with pegging but don’t want to invest in a high-end vibrating strap on. I agree that the design and quality of the harness and the bullet could be better, but given the attractive price and the addition of 2 really well-made dildos, I think it’s worth a try.

 

Budget-Friendly Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.3/5

Reviewed by: 

Emiel Vizzi

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 215 user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the vibrating strap on.

75/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

85/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Vibrating strap-on kit from
  • Adjustable harness
  • Two silicone dildos included
  • Comes with a bullet vibrator and 3 different size o-rings

 

Pros

  • Big size difference between the dildos
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Easy to use
  • Comes with everything you need to start

Cons

  • Battery powered bullet
  • Weak vibrations
  • Harness can be tricky at first
  • Bright pink dildo might not be everyone's taste

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

This is a very inclusive toy—anyone who enjoys anal or vaginal penetration will enjoy these smooth silicone dildos. This vibrating strap-on set is perfect for pegging, and the size is great for beginners and more advanced users alike. I really like that the sizes and styles of these dildos are very different; it adds so much more versatility to your play! 

While the harness is best used with a partner, the dildos and bullet vibe are also great for solo pleasure. The versatility doesn’t end there! The harness, complete with three o-rings, can be paired with your favorite toys to switch things up. Our tester, Emiel, who reviewed this product with his partner, was impressed with the quality and adjustability of the harness, saying: “The harness fit me comfortably and positioned really well with my own anatomy… Even with faster-paced thrusting, everything stayed really secure.” 

While you get some high-quality kit for the price, there are a couple of things that could be improved. Firstly, the vibrations from the bullet tend to lose strength when inserted into the pocket. Emiel said, “While it wasn’t enough for me to orgasm, it felt really good the whole time,” so if you’re looking for super strong vibrations, maybe this isn’t for you. On a side note, the bullet is great for some pinpoint stimulation.

 

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Best Remote Control Desire Luxury Strap-On Kit

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Peter Wenham

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 19 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Desire Luxury Strap-On Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the vibrating strap on.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Desire Luxury Strap-On Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Desire Luxury Strap-On Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Desire Luxury Strap-On Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Strap-on set with a vibrating dildo
  • Adjustable harness
  • Comes with a wireless remote
  • Comes with three o-rings so you can switch up the dildo with one of your own

 

Pros

  • High quality product
  • Strong vibrations
  • Wide range of vibration settings
  • Comfortable harness
  • Easy to use
  • Waterproof
  • USB Rechargeable

Cons

  • Might be too rigid for some
  • Comes with one dildo only
  • Vibrations are quite buzzy

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Desire Luxury Strap-On Kit was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is noisy.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Desire Luxury Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Desire Luxury Strap-On Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Desire Luxury Strap-On Kit felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

The Desire Luxury Strap-On Kit is a unique vibrating strap-on on my list! Usually, strap-on kits just add a bullet vibrator for that extra buzz, but with this set, you get a vibrating dildo with remote-controlled settings! In my opinion, this vibrating strap-on will be perfect for more advanced users who want up their experience with deep and powerful vibrations! The wireless remote makes switching up the intensity way easier and can be used to tease your partner. The dual-motor vibrations are also a step up and pack some real vibrating power.

Based on our tester, Peter’s review, this toy looks and feels “luxurious”, and its performance is top-quality. Peter even said, “It definitely made me squirm around in extreme pleasure.” He said that the vibrations were powerful and surprisingly quiet, and there were many different patterns and speeds to choose from. Additionally, the remote allows you to enjoy your experience hands-free and can also be used for power-play! 

There was no negative feedback from Peter and his wife, and even I struggled to find any flaws. I like the sleek design of this strap-on, its power, and the fact that the dildo is remote-controlled, which is a rare find! The only issue might be the size and weight of the dildo, but luckily, there are additional o-rings included, so you can switch things up whenever you please. 

 

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Best App Control Lovense Lapis

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Joseph Mohrmann

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Lapis was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the vibrating strap on.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Lapis was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Lapis was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Lovense Lapis was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Vibrating strapless strap-on
  • Provides dual stimulation for the wearer
  • App-controlled vibrations
  • Textured shaft with a bulbous tip
  • Flexible insertable arm

Pros

  • Top-quality product
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Customizable vibration with app
  • Long battery life
  • Adjustable insertion point
  • Comfortable to use

Cons

  • Can slip out of wearer if not using harness
  • The size of the shaft might not fit everyone

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Lapis was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Lapis felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovense Lapis was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is extremely powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Lapis felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

The Lovense sex toys belong to my favorite sex toy brand, and I was excited when they finally released an app-controlled vibrating strapless strap-on! I expected the deep and rumbly vibrations and a premium-quality design, and lucky for us, that’s exactly what we got. 

Our Bedbible tester, Joseph, really enjoyed their experience with the Lapis! They were impressed by the strong vibrations so much, they said, “I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting.” Therefore, I am proud to say that this is definitely the most powerful vibrating strapless strap on the market, and I can highly recommend it to any advanced user looking for a premium pegging toy. Design-wise, Joseph pointed out that the added texture on the shaft and at the base adds extra stimulation, especially for the wearer, which I think is a great plus. 

The key feature of this toy is the app control, and as I expected, it works flawlessly. As a sex toy expert, I’ve tested many app-controlled sex toys, and Lovense Remote has never disappointed me. 

The only reason why I didn’t choose the Lovense Lapis as the test winner is the price and the fact that, sadly, it didn’t pass the strapless test. You can still use it with a harness, and I don’t think it’s that big of a deal since many strapless strap-ons have the same issue, but given the price, I was expecting a more innovative solution to solve the universal strapless issue. 

 

Comparison

BestTest Winner Best for Beginners Budget-Friendly Best Remote Control Best App Control
Overall score4.9 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.8 / 5.0 4.1 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0
User rating5 / 5.0
from 3 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 70 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 215 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 19 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 2 users
PricePremium Affordable Affordable Moderate Premium
Design90 / 100 60 / 100 85 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100
Ease of use90 / 100 85 / 100 75 / 100 100 / 100 85 / 100
Quality100 / 100 75 / 100 85 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100
Sound60 / 100 40 / 100 60 / 100 80 / 100 40 / 100
Power40 / 100 20 / 100 40 / 100 60 / 100 100 / 100
Buzzy/Rumblysomewhat buzzy very buzzy somewhat buzzy neither really buzzy nor rumbly very rumbly
Vibration speeds3 3 -12 3 preset
Vibration patterns5 --8 4 preset
Length9.92 inchesSmall Dildo: 4.5 inches, Medium Dildo: 5.75 inches4.5, and 6 inches-9 inches
Insertable lengthWearer: 4.5 inches, Receiver: 6.1 inchesSmall Dildo: 4.25 inches, Medium Dildo: 5.5 inches(bulb) inches7 inchesShaft: 5.43 inches, Base: 3.43 inches
Diameter1.42-1.61 inchesSmall Dildo: 0.8 inches, Medium Dildo: 1 inches0.87, and 1.51 inches1.6 inchesShaft: 1.61 inches, Base: 1.52 inches
AdjustableYes, dildo angle is adjustable ---Yes
Weight1 lbs----
MaterialsSilicone Dildos: Silicone, Harness: Polyester, Hard Plastic Silicone, ABS Plastic Silicone Silicone
WaterproofYes Dildos: Yes, Vibrator: Yes, Harness: Machine-Washable Yes Yes (not remote) Yes
Battery Life90 minutes-N/A minutes45 minutesUp to 150 minutes
RechargeableYes No, Uses 1 N-type Battery No, 3x LR44 batteries USB Yes
Charging Time360 minutes--90 minutes105 minutes
Remote ControlsNo --Yes App controls
App ControlsNo ----
Travel LockYes -No -No
Storage Bag IncludedNo No -Yes Yes
Colors AvailableBurgundy, Cool Grey Purple --Pink
Harness Size-Fits hips up to 60 inches and legs up to 26.5 inches---
Vibration modes--7 --
Width--(bulb) inches--
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Vibrating Strap-on Buying Guide

If you are looking for the best vibrating strap-on, you should know a few things before purchasing!

This comprehensive buying guide is designed to help you navigate the ins and outs of choosing the perfect toy to spice up your bedroom play:

What to Look For in Vibrating Strap-Ons

 

Harness vs Strapless Strap-On

There are two kinds of strap on styles, and while they’re both great, it’s good to know the pros and cons of each to ensure you’re getting the right strap on for you:

Harness Strap on
  • Keeps the dildo steady, and allows for more control
  • Can look visibly sexy
  • Can be tricky to get on in the heat of the moment
  • The penetrating partner doesn’t receive the same pleasure
Strapless Strap-on
  • Both partners receive pleasure
  • Great source of connection with a partner
  • Can be tricky at first, and take some getting used to
  • Don’t always stay in place

 

Best Materials

Now we’ve covered the pros and cons of the harness vs. strapless strap-ons, it’s time to talk about materials- honestly, it’s not as boring as it sounds, but it’s definitely important if you want to purchase a quality vibrating strap on!

  • Silicone — Pure, medical-grade silicone is an ideal material for any kind of sex toy; this is because it’s durable, body-safe, non-porous, soft, flexible, and great for temperature play. It is, however, important to remember that you should use water-based lube with silicone.
  • PVC — This material is widely used in the manufacturing of sex toys, mainly because it is cheap and flexible; though PVC makes many great toys, it is a porous material which means it absorbs bacteria and isn’t suitable for use in water. Any toy made from PVC will degrade quicker and harbor bacteria.
  • Hard Plastic — This type of material is, again, a good choice for those who want a vibrating strap-on that will last; hard plastic is not porous, which means it’s super easy to clean. It is, however, susceptible to heat and therefore shouldn’t be left in direct sunlight or near a heat source.
  • TPE — For fans of the realistic, this material might just be the one for you! The thermoplastic material is perfect for creating a realistic feeling within vibrating strap-ons. Of course, it has its downsides as do all materials; TPE is porous and degrades quicker than other materials due to bacteria infiltrating it.

 

Vibrations

When it comes to vibrations, it’s not something to take lightly- or intensely, or rumbly, or buzzy, or… we could go on forever!

Battery operated vibrating strap-ons
  • With battery-operated vibrators, you never really know when the power might run itself out.
  • Battery-operated toys also tend to produce weaker vibrations as stronger vibrations would run the battery out quicker. Some also prefer them due to the fact that they have softer vibrations, and for those with very sensitive genitals, this can be a good option.
  • Some people prefer battery-operated toys due to the fact that you can remove the battery when traveling for peace of mind, or because they’re eco-friendly and don’t use lots of electricity.
Rechargeable vibrating strap-ons
  • When it dies you can simply plug the charger in and charge it instead of rooting around for a battery that fits.
  • They provide powerful vibrations where battery-operated toys do not.
  • Some people worry that the toy may spring to life during a plane ride, or from the bottom of their bag; yes, lots of rechargeable toys have a ‘travel lock’ option, but many don’t.

Bullet vs Internal Motor

  • Bullet — A vibrating strap-on might earn its name only when a bullet vibrator is inserted; this usually means that the strap-on dildo has a hollow hole in the underside of it which fits a bullet vibrator. Due to the bullet being separate from the dildo itself, vibrations are usually weaker and may not travel to the tip of the dildo; this kind of vibrating dildo is great for those that aren’t a huge fan of powerful vibrations but are looking for that extra kick during strap on play.
  • Internal Motor — A vibrating strap-on with an internal motor will for sure provide you with stronger vibrations. Some vibrating strap-ons have one motor, while some have two in order to balance the vibrations out between each person.
Harness vs. Strapless

Harness vs. Strapless

Harness vs. Strapless
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There’s a wide range of designs for vibrating strap-ons.

Some come with adjustable straps for a customizable fit, while others are strapless for more skin-to-skin contact.

The ones with a harness are much easier to use; however, they are mostly meant to please the receiver, while the strapless strap-ons please both users but are usually less comfortable to wear. The choice is yours!

Harness Design

Harness Design

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There are many types of strap-on harnesses, including thongs, strap-on underwear, or jockstrap designs.

The right harness combines comfort, security, and appeal, all tailored to your unique needs.

For comfort, look for a harness with lining or elasticity to avoid skin irritation during play.

Stability is crucial, too – your harness should secure the dildo firmly to avoid any mishaps. And don’t forget the sexy factor – choose a design that adds excitement for you and your partner!

Dildo Material

Dildo Material

Dildo Material
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The material of the strap-on can greatly impact comfort and feel.

Look for body-safe materials such as silicone, which is hypoallergenic, non-porous, and easy to clean.

Dildo’s size and shape

Dildo’s size and shape

Dildo’s size and shape
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Size matters, so make sure to choose something that aligns with your comfort level.

Vibrating strap-ons come in various lengths and girths, so there’s something for everyone.

Also, the shape of the dildo is very important. When looking for your perfect strap-on, you will come across many different shapes.

  • A smooth dildo is great for beginners because it provides easy and smooth insertion.
  • Meanwhile curved dildos are amazing for deeper P-spot or G-spot stimulation.
Vibrations

Vibrations

Vibrations
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The more settings, the more opportunities for pleasure!

Some models offer multiple speeds and patterns, allowing you to customize your experience.

Power Source

Power Source

Power Source
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Some vibrating strap-ons are battery-powered, while others are rechargeable.

Rechargeable models are usually more powerful and offer longer playtime, plus no one likes to mess around looking for new batteries in the middle of sex!

But the battery-operated vibrating strap-ons are usually much cheaper.

Price

Price

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The cost of vibrating strap-ons varies based on material, design, and brand.

The prices range from 50 dollars to 200, so think about what amount you are ready to spend.

Author
Kasia Halinowska
Kasia Halinowska

Content Specialist | Working with sex education has been a dream of mine for a long time, but after years of studying marketing and working at boring corporations, I never thought my dream could come true, but here I am! Therefore, my goal at Bedbible is to help you discover all the sex toy wonders that I have the pleasure of working with and touch on the subjects close to my heart, like body positivity, inclusivity, feminism, and most importantly, sex and intimacy! Plus, as a person with a marketing background, you can be sure I will not fall for any false advertising and be brutally honest with my reviews!

Age: 25
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
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