7 Best Vibrators for Beginners – Best of Every Type for First-Timers

Why I Chose It

The Arc is the perfect choice for beginners looking for deep G-spot stimulation. The Arc’s design is classy, simple, and super easy to use. Its slim shape and bulbous tip are perfect for easy insertion and a very satisfying deep massage. Our tester, and sex expert Rachel loved the versatility and simplicity the Dame Arc brings to the bedroom:

“Most of the time, I reach for it during partner sex to get some extra clitoral stimulation, but every so often I break it out on my own for some g-spot love. I also tried it out once during anal sex to experiment with some double penetration and had one of the most explosive times of my life. The Arc’s ergonomic design is perfect for all kinds of positions and uses, and I love how simple the controls are to use.”

When it comes to vibrations, they are strong but not overwhelming, which is precisely why I chose it as a perfect choice for beginners. The vibrations are powerful enough to give a deep, gentle stimulation without leaving your sensitive areas feeling numb. According to our tester: “the Arc falls somewhere between rumbly and buzzy, becoming more buzzy at higher speeds. However, the more I used it, the more I liked it.”

The Dame Arc is an amazing vibrator, but the high-quality experience comes at its price. The Dame isn’t the cheapest G-spot vibrator on the market. Still, if you love internal stimulation, or want a versatile vibrator that will allow you to explore different types of pleasure, I highly recommend the Dame Arc!

Why I Chose It

Our tester and sex expert, Rachel, is still absolutely in love with the Tango X, raving about how amazing and powerful this bullet is. So there is no doubt in my mind that this is the best bullet vibrator on the market and the best way to start your sex toy journey!

The Tango’s superpower is definitely its vibrations: “I was not prepared for just how rumbly the vibrations would be. Even at the lowest setting, it rumbled and wriggled around in my hand, and my eyes lit up. This was the bullet vibrator I had been looking for my whole life.” Surprisingly, the vibrations are also very quiet, so if you value your privacy, this is a great choice!

Also, the design brings your experience to another level. The lipstick shape provides a precise, pinpointed stimulation, perfect for all kinds of external stimulation, especially for your clitoris, and nipples. And thanks to its small size, and lightweight build, you can easily use this vibe during penetration, in all positions!

Out of all of the products in this round, a tiny yet powerful vibe like the We-Vibe Tango X is something I would start my sex toy journey with. It’s versatile, super discreet, and very easy to use, and it doesn’t need as much preparation as you would need with insertable sex toys like G-spot vibrators, or butt plugs. However, this is a pricey vibrator, and there is no doubt about it. In my opinion, if you are into clitoral stimulation, this is the best vibrator for you; however, if you are much more into internal stimulation, it won’t be worth it.

Why I Chose It

I was the lucky tester of the We-Vibe Sync 2, and I am sure that’s a great choice for couples looking for something easy and fun to use during sex. Its design is all about shared pleasure, which I think is a wonderful way to start your vibrator journey. I love that you can wear it during penetration and during solo play, and it provides extra stimulation for both people.

Also, the 2 remote controls just made everything so interesting, yet very easy. I am usually not the biggest fan of using apps during sex, so the remote control was my go-to. It gives you so much more freedom and invites you to explore different positions.

When it comes to vibrations, they were a bit too weak for my liking, but they were still pleasurable, although sometimes it was a bit hard to have that constant clitoral stimulation. But other than that, I enjoyed how small and comfortable this toy is. It’s flexible and lightweight, and the insertable part just goes on smoothly and doesn’t distract the other partner. It might take a bit to figure out the best fit for you, but once you do, you’re all set for some good times!

Why I Chose It

I can confidently say that I am a rabbit vibrator expert, and I know exactly what features a beginner-friendly rabbit vibrator should have to provide a comfortable and pleasurable experience, and the Je Joue Hera Flex is all about that! The Hera Flex is quite small, yet powerful. It has a slim shaft that makes insertion easy, and the bulbous tip helps reach and stimulate your G-spot. Plus, the wide, flexible rabbit arm delivers that broad clitoral stimulation and stays in place no matter the position.

But the most important feature is the “Body Flex Technology,” which allows you to adjust the shaft so it will fit your anatomy perfectly. For me, the flexibility of the rabbit is key. Dual-stimulating sex toys are known to come with a learning curve, and some are just not able to reach all of the sweet spots, but the “Body Flex Technology” makes the experience much easier. According to our tester, Cassie, the posable shaft is “so easy to move around yet holds it’s shape pretty well. Somewhere along the way, I actually was able to find a position that allowed the toy to hit all the sweet spots at the same time!”

According to our tester, the vibrations “were nice and powerful”, but not too strong. It will give you a comfortable and satisfying experience, but it is perfectly catered to those new to vibrations.

Overall, I think this is a wonderful little rabbit that every beginner should try. I can highly recommend it to anyone looking for a classy, and simple vibrator that will give you dual-blended orgasms. But of course, like all rabbits, I recommend taking your time, and exploring different angles and positions. It might feel a bit frustrating at first, but once you get it, it will all be worth it!

Why I Chose It

The Lovehoney Deluxe Mini Massage Wand is an ideal first-time wand for a beginner looking for super-powerful and versatile external stimulation. I chose it as the best wand for beginners, mostly because of its small size, great price, and easy-to-use design. It’s less complicated than a rabbit or a love egg; magic wands really do deliver when it comes to supercharged clitoral stimulation. Plus, this mini magic wand is equipped with a wide, ergonomic head, helping you to stimulate those hard-to-reach nerve endings.

Our tester, Ella, enjoyed using the Deluxe Mini Massage Wand, however, she mentioned that “the vibration is a high-intensity buzz, as opposed to a rumbling vibration, which I tend to prefer.” That might be a big drawback to those looking for a deep and rumbly sensation, but for such an affordable price, I think it’s worth a shot. Plus, thanks to its small design, you can easily use it for partner, and solo play: “The Lovehoney Deluxe Mini Massage Wand Vibrator became more exciting and appealing to me when I used it for partnered sex. It fits well between our bodies, and I loved that the large size of the wand and the high intensity was able to stimulate my clitoris, even when it wasn’t sitting in the perfect location.”

This toy can also be used on the external body, whether it be the other erogenous zones – or even just as an on-the-go back and neck massager. However, if you’re looking for a multi-purpose vibrator with penetration functions, this toy is not for you, as it is for external use only. Affordably priced under $50 and perfect for a first-time vibrator, this little toy is our best wand for beginners!

Why I Chose It

The Satisfyer Pro 2 is the absolute clit sucker icon loved by many, not only beginners but more advanced users as well! The reason I chose this toy as a top clit sucker for beginners is the gentle, yet powerful stimulation it provides, its affordable price, and its easy-to-use and maintain design.

Our tester, Rachel, loved using the Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3. She wasn’t really impressed with the vibrations, as they felt a bit buzzy, but she was absolutely in love with the Liquid Air feature, which she compared to a “soft, fluttering tongue that you can tease your clitoris with or press down for satisfyingly firm pressure. With a generous dollop of lube, the deep, rumbly stimulation is similar to oral sex in many ways and is oh-so pleasurable.”

And let’s not forget about the app-control! The Satisfyer app offers many fun features, like synching up to your favorite music, exploring different stimulation patterns, and modes, long-distance play, and so much more. According to Rachel, it was “very easy to connect the toy to the Satisfyer Connect app, you simply hold down the power button until you feel two pulses and a light comes on, and I didn’t experience the toy disconnecting at all.”

Overall, I think the Satisfyer Pro 2 is a great starter toy if you’re looking for a toy designed for targeted clitoral stimulation. It’s extremely easy to use and perfect for those who want to try different sensations, as it offers vibrations and a suction feature. I also recommend this toy for its affordable price – if you’re just starting out using vibrators, you don’t want to splurge hundreds of dollars on a single-function toy that you might not like.

Why I Chose It

The Lush 2 was one of my first sex toy ever, and it showed me a new exicting way of looking at sex toys, that’s why I had to recommend it. It’s powerful, easy to use, and a very fun toy for couples, also those who like public play, or in a long-distance relationship.

Design-wise, this is a high-end that provides super powerful internal vibrations, I found them to be rumbly, but quiet enough to be used in public. However, I was disappointed by the clitoral tail; it was far too weak for my liking, so if you are after a dual vinbrator, that’s not it.
But a big highlight is the Lovense App, which in my professional opinion is the most advanced, and most reliable app on the market. If you are on a long-distance relationship, or like public play, Lovense sex toys are the best to get!

I can definitely see the Lovense Lush 3 as a great starter toy for couples, you can definitely use it for solo play as well, but it’s much more useful and fun to use it with somebody. It’s design is super comfortable to wear around the house, or use it as an extra during forplay, or oral sex. It’s honestly one of the most versatile, and easy to use sex toys that I own, and I use it very often for all kinds of fun!