11 Best BDSM Toys and Equipment for Bondage Fun

Isabelle Uren
by Isabelle UrenUpdated:

I’ve gathered best very best BDSM toys to give your bondage gear collection a boost! I’ve got the best bondage toys and BDSM equipment of every kind. From bed restraints to bondage furniture and body harnesses. Not to mention, the best BDSM Toy and Tools to tease your partner with once you’ve got them where you want them! On top of that I packed this post with useful information, including a bondage gear buying guide, safety considerations and instructions for how to use your new BDSM toys!

Nipple Clamps4.4FSOH Nipple Clamps rating 4.4
Bed Restraints4.8Sportsheets Bed Restraints rating 4.8
Paddle 5.0Saffron Loop Paddle rating 5.0
Flogger4.5Sportsheets Saffron Flogger rating 4.5
Cuffs4.8Quickie Cuffs rating 4.8
Spanking Paddle 4.0Slut Slapper rating 4.0
Gag4.8Fetish Fantasy O-ring gag rating 4.8
Bondage Rope4.2Kink Bind & Tie Bondage rope Kit rating 4.2
Chastity Cage5.0Man Cage Chastity Cage rating 5.0
Furniture4.8Liberator Wedge rating 4.8
Ball Gag4.9Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag rating 4.9
FSOH Nipple ClampsSportsheets Bed RestraintsSaffron Loop PaddleSportsheets Saffron FloggerQuickie CuffsSlut SlapperFetish Fantasy O-ring gagKink Bind & Tie Bondage rope KitMan Cage Chastity CageLiberator WedgeSportsheets Saffron Ball Gag
FSOH Nipple ClampsSportsheets Bed RestraintsSaffron Loop PaddleSportsheets Saffron FloggerQuickie CuffsSlut SlapperFetish Fantasy O-ring gagKink Bind & Tie Bondage rope KitMan Cage Chastity CageLiberator WedgeSportsheets Saffron Ball Gag
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  • Easily adjustable
  • Adorned with small weights
  • Comfortable silicone tips
  • Perfect for beginners
  • Can be fiddly to get on
  • Tips don't open very wide
  • Quick and easy to install
  • Easy to adjust
  • Portable
  • Strong
  • Comfortable
  • Might not satisfy more extreme bondage tastes
  • Loop design creates a loud noise on impact
  • Stylish design
  • Wrist loop for secure grip
  • Vegan leather
  • Too big to travel with
  • Not as durable as real leather
  • Soft, strong suede
  • Long tails
  • Easy to grip handle
  • Wrist strap
  • Easy to use
  • Not suitable for beginners
  • Material can shed
  • Not for more heavy duty impact play
  • Quick to get on
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Travel/airport-friendly
  • Waterproof
  • Great for beginners
  • Nowhere to attach other restraints
  • Only good for light bondage
  • Not the sexiest design
  • Dual-layer designed for improved slap sound
  • Cut out SLUT logo
  • Leather
  • Suitable for beginners
  • Difficult to achieve SLUT imprint
  • Might not be intense enough for people who crave more pain
  • Multiple holes for comfortable breathing
  • Adjustable clamps
  • Soft, medical-grade silicone ball gag
  • Flexible silicone straps
  • Adjustable screws for tightness of clamps
  • Chain is not detachable
  • Small buckle that can be used for lock and key
  • Lock and key not included
  • Neck strap could be longer
  • Will not fit objects with a diameter over 1.5"
  • Holds knots well
  • Soft on the skin
  • Easy to clean
  • Available in three colors
  • Soft but strong rope
  • Ends fray quickly — need to be sealed
  • Not the most durable
  • Rope sheds quite a bit
  • Pricey
  • Non-porous materials
  • Restricts penis and separates balls
  • Ventilation and urination holes
  • Comfortable for long-term wear
  • Adjustable ring sizes
  • Too small for larger penises (bigger models available)
  • Need to remove to clean cock ring
  • Dense foam doesn't flatten under body
  • Lovely soft cover
  • Deeper penetration
  • Versatile
  • Machine washable covers
  • Takes up a lot of storage space
  • Cover is a little slippery
  • Solid silicone ball is comfortable to bit on
  • Locking buckle
  • Easy to use and easy to clean
  • High quality materials
  • May not be ideal for complete beginners
  • The brand tag can feel a bit uncomfortable

How We Test BDSM toys

We’re a team of 266 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best BDSM toys , our testers tried and reviewed 123 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre BDSM toys didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 749 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
How We Tested the BDSM Toys in This Post

Nipple Clamps Fifty Shades of Grey The Pinch Nipple Clamps

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Jess Adams

User Ratings:

4.2/5

Based on 297 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey The Pinch Nipple Clamps was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM toy.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey The Pinch Nipple Clamps was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey The Pinch Nipple Clamps was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey The Pinch Nipple Clamps was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other BDSM toys .

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

These tweezer style clamps are great for beginners and more advanced users alike, as you can turn up the pinch to suit your desires! The soft silicone tips let you enjoy a firm squeeze while also being gentle on your sensitive skin. Tipped with weighted balls that add and extra pull, these nipple clamps will leave your nips super sensitive and ready for some seriously good stimulation!

Pros

  • Easily adjustable
  • Adorned with small weights
  • Comfortable silicone tips
  • Perfect for beginners

Cons

  • Can be fiddly to get on
  • Tips don't open very wide

Why I Chose It

Whether or not you are a fan of the FSOH franchise, these nipple clamps look and feel fantastic! It can be a bit tricky to figure out how to get the tweezer clamp into position at first, but once in place, they provide a pleasing pinch that you can turn up or down easily. The weighted balls add to the look and it’s fun to see them sway with the movement of your body while also adding some extra stimulation. These are a great addition to any sex toy collection, especially considering how cheap they are! And they even come with a storage bag so you don’t lose them in between uses!

Bed Restraints Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 1128.9 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

This clever under-bed restraint system can transform any bed into a bondage bed fit for a BDSM dungeon in a matter of minutes. Simply place the main strap under your mattress and then pull the wrist and ankle restraints out to get your lover locked in at and ready to tease! The wrist and ankle cuffs are lined with soft fabric and fasten using velcro, making it quick and easy to get into and change positions. Perfect for discreet bondage at home or even taking with you for some incredibly hot holiday sex!

Pros

  • Quick and easy to install
  • Easy to adjust
  • Portable
  • Strong
  • Comfortable

Cons

  • Might not satisfy more extreme bondage tastes

Why I Chose It

I love how quick and easy this is to set up and adjust! You can enjoy full body bed restraint without having to install permanent hardware or buy a bondage bed.  It’s also super easy to tuck the cuffs under the bed when not in use to keep things discreet. The cuffs feel strong and comfortable and you definitely feel locked in, even though they fasten with velcro. You can also remove the cuffs and use them separately or use the harness to secure your partner to other furniture, so it’s a pretty versatile piece of bondage gear! Not to mention, it’s so portable that it can easily be thrown in a suitcase for bondage play wherever you go.

Paddle Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle

5.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM toy.

97/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

95/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Enjoy the loud thwack of the Saffron Loop Paddle as it meets your partner’s behind!

This thick vegan leather paddle is suitable for all levels and can be used to create a range of sensations from gentle teasing to more intense spanking!

The handy wrist loop also keeps the paddle secure while you play.

Pros

  • Loop design creates a loud noise on impact
  • Stylish design
  • Wrist loop for secure grip
  • Vegan leather

Cons

  • Too big to travel with
  • Not as durable as real leather

Why I Chose It

Whether you are looking for your first paddle or you have more experience, this is a fantastic option! Our tester loved the the wide surface area and how it could be used to create more gentle, thuddy sensations as well as more intense stingy ones.

They also enjoyed the psychological thrill of the loud slapping noise as well!

There really is very little to critique here, especially considering the very reasonable price!

Flogger Sportsheets Saffron Flogger

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

0/5

Based on user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Flogger was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other BDSM toys .

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Well, buckle up folks, because the Sportsheets Saffron Flogger reviewed on BedBible is a game-changer in the world of BDSM play. It’s a blend of elegance and wicked delight. The flogger, with its striking red and black design, is quite a stunner, and it delivers an experience that’s just as thrilling. With strands made of faux leather, you can achieve a variety of sensations, from light teasing to more intense stinging sensations. Despite being quite lightweight, this flogger doesn’t skimp on quality. It also has a loop at the end of the handle for easy storage or added control during play.

Pros

  • Soft, strong suede
  • Long tails
  • Easy to grip handle
  • Wrist strap
  • Easy to use
  • Wrist handle for security
  • Vegan-friendly
  • Dual color design

Cons

  • Not suitable for beginners
  • Material can shed
  • Not for more heavy duty impact play

Why I Chose It

In wrapping things up, I’ve got to say, I’m impressed with the Sportsheets Saffron Flogger. It’s definitely one of those toys that both newcomers and experienced BDSM enthusiasts will find value in. Its lightweight design makes it easy to handle, and the variety of sensations it can provide really spices things up. I love that it can cater to different levels of intensity depending on your comfort zone or mood. Despite its sensual intensity, the aesthetic of the flogger is quite luxurious, which adds to the overall experience. So, whether you’re dipping your toes into the world of BDSM or are looking to add a versatile tool to your collection, this flogger might just be your new best friend.

Cuffs Quickie Cuffs

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 40 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Quickie Cuffs was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM toy.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Quickie Cuffs was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Quickie Cuffs was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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Rating: Quickie Cuffs was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other BDSM toys .

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Looking for some quick and dirty, beginner-friendly bondage gear? Then look no further! These silicone cuffs can have your partner’s wrists restrained quicker than they can say yes Master!

The silicone has just the right amount of stretch to slip over your hands while still being firm enough to secure them in place.

Plus, they are waterproof, airport-friendly, and easy to clean!

Pros

  • Quick to get on
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Travel/airport-friendly
  • Waterproof
  • Great for beginners

Cons

  • Nowhere to attach other restraints
  • Only good for light bondage
  • Not the sexiest design

Why I Chose It

These silicone cuffs are the perfect bondage gear for beginners! They are quick and easy to slip on, so you don’t need to stop play to figure out how to fasten them and you can easily get out of them if you need to. Not to mention, are a very affordable way to dip your toes into bondage.

Our tester loved just how easy they are to use and that they wouldn’t set of the alarms going through airport security, making these fantastic handcuffs for sex on the go!

The only thing our tester was missing is the ability to attach the cuffs to other restraints or furniture to restrict movement even more.

Spanking Paddle Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle

4.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

3.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Katie Elizabeth

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 79 user reviews

60/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is designed well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM toy.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

60/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

This unique spanking paddle from Sportsheets delivers intense impact play and has a naughty message to put your sub in their place! The dual-layer design creates an incredibly satisfying slapping sound with each swing of the paddle, adding to the excitement and anticipation! The carved slut logo will look so good imprinted your partner’s behind — perfect for anyone who enjoys erotic humiliation!

Pros

  • Dual-layer designed for improved slap sound
  • Cut out SLUT logo
  • Leather
  • Suitable for beginners

Cons

  • Difficult to achieve SLUT imprint
  • Might not be intense enough for people who crave more pain

Why I Chose It

If you love the thrill of spanking and the audible slap, but don’t want too much pain, the Slut Slapper is a great option. The dual-layer designs mean this slapper is more bark than bite! You still get a good stingy slap, but it’s not the most intense and you can use it lightly and still get a great sound. The slut design is exciting, especially if you love being humiliated in bed but it’s difficult to actually make an imprint — you need to be pretty heavy with the paddle to leave a mark.

Gag Fetish Fantasy Extreme O-ring gag

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 21 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fetish Fantasy Extreme O-ring gag was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM toy.

97/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fetish Fantasy Extreme O-ring gag was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fetish Fantasy Extreme O-ring gag was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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Rating: Fetish Fantasy Extreme O-ring gag was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

When I came across the Fetish Fantasy Extreme O-Ring Gag on BedBible, I was intrigued. It’s a wickedly enticing bondage toy that promises to add a dash of kink to your playtime. Made with quality leather straps and a sturdy metal O-ring, it’s comfortable to wear yet serves its purpose perfectly in domination/submission games. One thing I found handy about this little number is that it can be adjusted to fit pretty much anyone, making it a versatile tool in any collection. Not to mention, it looks pretty badass. Plus, the gag has a quick-release mechanism – a safety feature I really appreciate.

Pros

  • Multiple holes for comfortable breathing
  • Adjustable clamps
  • Soft, medical-grade silicone ball gag
  • Flexible silicone straps
  • Adjustable screws for tightness of clamps
  • Lockable hook
  • Silicone coating is comfortable for the teeth and gums
  • 100% waterproof
  • Can be sterilized
  • Silicone strap is flexible and adjustable
  • Suitable for beginners
  • Lockable

Cons

  • Chain is not detachable
  • Small buckle that can be used for lock and key
  • Lock and key not included
  • Neck strap could be longer
  • Will not fit objects with a diameter over 1.5"

Why I Chose It

To wrap it up, the Fetish Fantasy Extreme O-Ring Gag definitely gets my seal of approval. Whether you’re new to bondage or a seasoned player, this is a piece worth considering. It’s more intense than some of the other toys out there, but I like that about it. Despite its intimidating aesthetic, safety and comfort are clear priorities in its design, so you won’t have to worry about biting off more than you can chew. It’s not just a gag – it’s a blend of edgy allure, functionality, and safety that’ll help you explore your boundaries in a secure, controlled way. All in all, I think this is one gadget that should definitely be on your radar when navigating the world of bondage toys.

Bondage Rope Kink Bind & Tie Initiation Kit

4.2/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.2/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.2/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

0/5

Based on user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Kink Bind & Tie Initiation Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM toy.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Kink Bind & Tie Initiation Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

70/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Kink Bind & Tie Initiation Kit was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: Kink Bind & Tie Initiation Kit was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Bondage rope offers the flexibility to tie your partner up however you like! This soft, braided cotton bondage rope is perfect for restraining your partners arms and legs, securing them to your bed or a chair, or exploring more Shibari rope art. It’s also machine washable, making it easy to keep the rope clean.

Pros

  • Holds knots well
  • Soft on the skin
  • Easy to clean
  • Available in three colors
  • Soft but strong rope
  • Enough rope for larger projects
  • Safety shears included
  • Comes with a storage bag
  • Free access to rope school

Cons

  • Ends fray quickly — need to be sealed
  • Not the most durable
  • Rope sheds quite a bit
  • Pricey

Why I Chose It

This is a great bondage rope for beginners — it’s soft and strong and the knots stay put without slipping. You can choose between three colors — the purple is available on Lovehoney and Hustler Hollywood have it in red and black.   Unfortunately, the rope can start to show signs on wear pretty quickly, and the ends fray easily and need to be sealed. That being said, if you are beginner or only use bondage rope every now and again, this is a great purchase, as its comfortable and easy to use, and you get a decent amount of rope for the price.

Chastity Cage Man Cage Model 19 Chastity Cage

5.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Tawney Seren

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Man Cage Model 19 Chastity Cage was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Man Cage Model 19 Chastity Cage was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Man Cage Model 19 Chastity Cage was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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Rating: Man Cage Model 19 Chastity Cage was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Explore the thrilling world of cock bondage and chastity play with this cock cage from Man Cage!

The Man Cage Model 19 is made from sleek black silicone and features ventilation slits along the side and a urination hole, making this a great cage for both short and long-term wear.

It also features a ball splitter, which separates the testicles to further restrict arousal and leave you desperate for that sweet release!

The cage can accommodate up to 4.5 inches in length and the adjustable ring has a 45 mm to 60mm diameter. The kit also comes with a padlock with two keys and five single use plastic locks.

Pros

  • Non-porous materials
  • Restricts penis and separates balls
  • Ventilation and urination holes
  • Comfortable for long-term wear
  • Adjustable ring sizes
  • Comes with padlock and keys

Cons

  • Too small for larger penises (bigger models available)
  • Need to remove to clean cock ring

Why I Chose It

Whether you are looking for your first chastity cage or you want a comfortable cage for day to day wear, this is a winning option! Our testers loved how comfortable it was while still fully restricting erections and restricting arousal.

They really liked the ventilation and urination holes as they were able to urinate and shower without taking the cage off, although you should, of course, remove for regular cleaning. The only bit they could access to clean while in use was the cock ring.

They were also impressed by the price considering the high-quality design and materials!

Be sure to double check your measurements while flaccid before ordering, as there are more sizes available.

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Furniture Liberator Wedge

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 320 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Liberator Wedge was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM toy.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Liberator Wedge was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Liberator Wedge was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: Liberator Wedge was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Liberator Wedge is a sex pillow that will elevate your sex to new levels of pleasure!

Made of thick dense foam that stays firm under your body, the pillow provides support in more adventurous sex positions. The angle also allows for deeper, more satisfying penetration with more G-spot stimulation during good old missionary!

The pillow cover is made of buttery soft micro-velvet and has a moisture proof lining, in case things get wet and messy! Plus the cover is machine washable!

Pros

  • Dense foam doesn't flatten under body
  • Lovely soft cover
  • Deeper penetration
  • Versatile
  • Machine washable covers
  • Increased G-spot stimulation

Cons

  • Takes up a lot of storage space
  • Cover is a little slippery

Why I Chose It

While the Liberator Wedge isn’t a bondage item per se, it can really enhance your bondage play and open up new position possibilities when using other restraints! I love combining a sex pillow, like the Wedge with my Sportsheets under the bed restraint system as it gives a partner much better access to stimulate my genitals or even have penetrative sex while being fully restrained!

It also gives you more support when exploring more intense forms of play or more advanced sex positions.

Our tester was shocked by just how much more pleasure she got from missionary sex with this pillow under her hips and having tried the Liberator Jaz, a smaller version, I can say I totally agree! Wow, what a difference it makes!

The only minor issue is that the cover is so lovely and soft, that it can sort of slide out from underneath you a bit.

Ball Gag Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Joseph Mohrmann

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 13 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other BDSM toys .

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Muffle your partners moans as you tease them from head to toe with the Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag! This silicone ball gag is comes in a sexy red and black design that looks amazing in their mouth!

The ball itself is made of solid silicone and is both comfortable and 100% safe to put in your mouth. It’s super easy to clean and very satisfying to bit down on.

The strap is made of vegan leather and is fully adjustable to fit most sizes. It closes with a buckle fastening for a snug and secure fit. A small loop on that buckle allows you to use a smalle padlock to make sure your sub can’t release themselves from your gagged fantasies.

Pros

  • Solid silicone ball is comfortable to bit on
  • Locking buckle
  • Easy to use and easy to clean
  • High quality materials

Cons

  • May not be ideal for complete beginners
  • The brand tag can feel a bit uncomfortable

Why I Chose It

Ball gags make incredible submissive toys — giving up your main form of communication and not even being able to cry out in pleasure! I love the style of this ball gag. The red signals both danger and passion — perfect for helping you get into subspace!

The silicone ball is filling but won’t be as hard on your teeth as a solid plastic ball, making it comfortable to wear for longer sessions. Not to mention, silicone is also 100% non-porous and body-safe. It’ll also be a dream clean up after use.

The strap is also quite comfortable and fastens securely into place. As there are no breathing holes in the ball gag, it’s best suited to those with some experience of being gagged. If you are new to gag play, check out these amazing breathable ball gags that give you all the thrill with a little more ease! You can also check out our full reveiw of the Sportsheets Saffron Breathable Ball Gag for a similar alternative to this product.

Overall, I think this is a great BDSM toy for you to explore those gagged fantasies. It’s relatively affordable, good quality, adjustable, and just a great example of a classic solid ball gag.

Comparison

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Overall score4.3 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 - 4.8 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 - 5.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.5 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 3.5 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.2 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0
User rating4.2 / 5.0
from 297 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 1128.9 users
5 / 5.0
from 1 users
- 4.8 / 5.0
from 40 users
4.6 / 5.0
from 79 users
4.6 / 5.0
from 21 users
- 5 / 5.0
from 3 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 320 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 13 users
PriceCheap Moderate Affordable Cheap Cheap Affordable Moderate Pricey Moderate Pricey Cheap
Design90 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 90 / 100 60 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100 95 / 100 95 / 100
Ease of use85 / 100 100 / 100 97 / 100 100 / 100 95 / 100 80 / 100 97 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 95 / 100 100 / 100
Quality80 / 100 90 / 100 95 / 100 80 / 100 90 / 100 60 / 100 100 / 100 70 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100
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Length3.5 inchesConnector strap: 60 inches; Straps 60 inches inches17 inchesFalls: 17 inches, Handle: 6 inches-13 inches22.5 inches1 x 600 inches, 2 x 360 inches-24 inchesTotal: 24 inches
MaterialsMetal & silicone Polypropylene, polyester, nickel free metal, hook and loop, ABS plastic Vegan PU leather Polyurethane, nickel free metal, nylon Silicone Leather Medical grade silicone and metal Hemp Certified-safe silicone and non-porous polycarbonate Nylon Microfiber, Polyester, Polyurethane Foam Silicone, PU, Nickel-free metal
Storage Bag IncludedYes ---No -No Yes No -Yes
Adjustable-Fits any size mattress --No -Adjustable between 14" and 20.5" in circumference ----
Width--3 inches------14 inches-
Diameter----1.95 inches-1.5 inches6 mm/ 0.23 inchesAdjustable ring diameter from 1.8 to 2.4 inches-1.8 inches
Waterproof----Yes -Yes -Yes Moisture-Resistant Liner Yes
Fastening----Slip-on -Lockable buckle ---Buckle
Colors Available----Black, Red ----Black, Blue, Red, Purple, Gray, Brown Black/Red
Flexibility------Strap are flexible, o-ring is rigid ----
Insertable length--------4.5 Inches inches--
Height---------7 inches-
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Where to buy the best bondage gear?

Most sex toy stores have a decent selection of bondage supplies these days, but there are some that cater to more specific needs or different budgets. Here are my favorite places to get your hands on some new bondage gear.

Lovehoney

Lovehoney

Lovehoney

Lovehoney has a broad selection of bondage gear catering to complete beginners as well as intermediate levels. They also have some very affordable options!

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SheVibe

SheVibe

SheVibe

SheVibe have a great selection of bondage items on offer as well as some more niche fantasy options that are perfect for role play.

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The Stockroom

The Stockroom

The Stockroom

The Stockroom has a lot more options for advanced level bondage and extreme BDSM gear with an amazing range of hand made leather restraints and even bondage furniture fit for a dungeon!

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Oxy-Shop

Oxy-Shop

Oxy-Shop

Oxy-shop stocks more niche and extreme bondage items and BDSM gear for those looking to push their limits!

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Buying Guide for Finding the Best Bondage Gear

There’s a whole lot of bondage gear out there but not all are made equal!

When stocking up your bondage supplies, it’s important to buy safe, quality gear that’s going to let you fulfil your desires, so I’ve put together some things to consider when shopping for new bondage equipment.

Safety

Safety

Safety
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Safety should always be your main priority! Whether you are shopping for restraints or toys to use on your tied up partner, always look for bondage supplies made from body safe, sturdy materials and stick to trustworthy shops and brands.

Function

Function

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Really consider what you want to achieve before deciding which bit of bondage gear you buy.

Think about whether you have a specific fantasy you want to act out and what you need to make it come to life!

For example, do you want restraints that restrict the whole body or just one specific body part?

What sexual activities do you want to enjoy while restrained?

Restraint compatibility

Restraint compatibility

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If you already have some bondage gear at home, you might want to look for restraints that can be used together with what you already have to save on money and storage space!

Size

Size

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While most restraints are designed to be adjustable to fit most bodies, if you have a larger or smaller than average body, you might need to look for more size-specific bondage gear.

Beginner’s Tips!

Since you’re here, you’re probably already aware of what BDSM is and why some people really enjoy engaging in it. If you want to know a bit more, read our blog about basic BDSM for beginners.

In this blog post, however, we will be focusing on BDSM toys and how to use them.

BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism.

The term more commonly refers to any type of sexual act that might be considered especially “kinky”, “rough”, or “hardcore”. BDSM activities often involve some type of sexual power play, expanding the possibilities you have to either dominate or submit to (or both!) to a special someone.

BDSM toys are any kind of tool, accessory, equipment, or toy used to play around with BDSM activities and hopefully enhance the experience! Here’s our pick of the best BDSM toys to get started on your kinky journey!

Don’t Be Intimidated…

Some people may initially be cautious when learning about these toys. Although, I assure you, BDSM play can also be super gentle, slow, and soft.

Actually, it can be whatever you want it to be. You’re the boss. Start slow, play around, do what makes you feel good, and be willing to explore what that means to you while learning about these toys and how to use them.

Before you begin using one of these toys, I would recommend getting to know it outside of the bedroom first. Touch it, examine it, test it, and explore its features – the texture, the weight, the sensation. This way, you will be much more familiar with the product before you introduce it to a sexually charged situation where one might be a bit distracted from examining a toy’s safety features…

24 different types of BDSM toys

The world of BDSM toys can seem overwhleming at times. So, for any confused kinksters out there, I’m here with the ultimate guide to all the different types of BDSM toys out there!

BDSM itself is a very broad term encompassing all sorts of sexual practices that involve some kind of bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism and masochism. Kinky sex can be practiced at many different levels of intensity and generally in many ways!

These types of BDSM toys are simply creative tools that enhance these experiences. Although, the wide range of BDSM practices means that BDSM toys come in a lot of different types and styles. Each designed to cater to specific preferences and kinks.

Today, we’ll delve into the different types of BDSM toys and their uses. Of course, I will also go over some basic BDSM safety tips to ensure a pleasurable and safe kinky experience.

1. Bondage Rope

1. Bondage Rope

1. Bondage Rope
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Bondage rope is a type of BDSM toy used for binding, restraining, or decorating the body in BDSM play. Use this versatile tool in a variety of ways. You can make simple wrist or ankle ties as well as more complex body harnesses or artistic rope patterns.

Bondage rope comes in different lengths, thicknesses, and materials. The most common materials include cotton, nylon, jute, and hemp. Each material has its own pros and cons in terms of flexibility, friction-level, comfort, and suspension-suitability. The material basically dictates which type of bondage you can do with it.

Cotton and nylon ropes are softer and easy to work with. Therefore, they’re great for beginners. Hemp and jute ropes are more durable and hold knots well. These kind of bondage rope are popular choices for more advanced bondage or suspension bondage.

Safe use of bondage rope requires a certain level of familiarity with safe bondage techniques. You should learn how to tie and untie knots quickly, how to avoid restricting circulation, and how to position the body to avoid nerve damage.

Check out Isabelle’s full review of the Kink Bind & tie Initiation Kit which is a set of high quality hemp bondage ropes! Here, you can see some of the basic knots she tried out with the bondage rope kit!

2. Bondage Tape

2. Bondage Tape

2. Bondage Tape
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Unlike your traditional duct tape, bondage tape only sticks to itself and not to skin or hair. This makes it much safer and more comfortable to use for your kinky sessions. It’s typically made of PVC and is available in a bunch of diffent colors.

Bondage tape can be used to bind, gag, blindfold, or even make a cute (mostly kinky) outfit for your sub. I’ve even got another blog post you can check out if you’re looking for different ways to use bondage tape like a pro!

It’s versatile, easy to use, and quick to remove if you’re ever in a pinch! This is why I think its a great options for both beginners and experienced players in the BDSM scene. Its non-sticky nature means it can be used multiple times, and won’t leave any residue or marks on the skin.

The flexibility of bondage tape allows for a variety of uses. It can be used to create elaborate outfits, bind limbs together, or even create makeshift handcuffs. Its ease of use and versatility make it a staple in many BDSM toy collections.

3. Bondage Cuffs

3. Bondage Cuffs

3. Bondage Cuffs
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Want a simple yet effective way to restrict your subs movement? Bondage cuffs are great for creating a sense of vulnerability and surrender, enhancing the power dynamics between partners. Handcuffs for sex are suitable for use on different body parts, most commonly the wrists and ankles, and can easily be paired with other kinky accessories.

Bondage cuffs can be made of leather, metal, faux fur, and neoprene. Of course, each material offers a different aesthetic, different level of comfort, and are suitable for different kinds of BDSM play. Some cuffs are also padded or lined with soft materials for added comfort during extended wear.

Ankle cuffs, thigh cuffs, leg cuffs, you name it! There are so many different types to choose from. Some can be used by themselves, while others can be connected with chains, ropes, or other hardware for more complex bondage scenarios.

Cuffs often feature adjustable straps or buckles. The fastening points allow you to use all those previously mentioned attachments or to secure someone to a piece of furniture. The adjustability make them a lot more accessible to a wide range of body sizes and shapes.

4. Harnesses

4. Harnesses

4. Harnesses
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Ready for some full-body restraint? With these kinky little devices, you don’t need a bunch of different products to tie your sub down limb-by-limb. One single product can offer a whole lot of restriction. A restraint harness can restrict movement more generally and provide a stronger sense of confinement.

They’re often made of leather or nylon and wrap around various parts of the body, such as the chest, waist, or limbs.

Restraint harnesses can have a lot of different designs and styles depending on their intended function. Some er more decorative with more intricate designs but less suitable for heavy duty bondage. Others focus more on the restraint functionality with several attachment points (D-rings, O-rings, buckles etc.) or multiple straps and buckles to bind the arms, legs, or entire body.

As with all BDSM gear, it’s important to use restraint harnesses safely and consensually. This includes checking for a proper fit. Make sure the wearer can breathe and move comfortably – whatever that means for them!

5. Hogties

5. Hogties

5. Hogties
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In a classic hogtie, the wearer’s ankles and wrists are tied together, with the ropes or straps pulling their hands and feet towards one another at the back. This intensely restricts movement and can put the wearer in a very vulnerable position, often lying on their stomach.

You can easily make a hogtie out of other bondage equipment, like ropes, cuffs, or evne bondage tape. Although a ready-made hogtie restraint may make things a lot easier. Also, I personally enjoy the look of a hogtie restraint and would prefer it over a make-shift hogtie any day! This type of hogtie usually consists of a central O-ring or bar with several attachment points for cuffs or ropes.

In terms of safety, it’s important to keep an eye on your sub. This position can be tiring over time, so check in with them. Make sure they can breathe comfortaly and that circulation isn’t being cut off.

6. Spreader Bars

6. Spreader Bars

6. Spreader Bars
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A spreader bar is the type of BDMS toy that has that classic kinky look and feel. This piece of equipment will keep a person’s legs or arms spread apart, so they stay open and ready for anything…

The bar is usually made of metal and can be coated in leather or nylon. There’s often several cuffs and attachment points at each end where the wrists or ankles can be secured. Some spreader bars are also adustable in length so you can spread your sub’s legs wide open.

During use, it’s important to make sure the cuffs are not too tight and that the wearer can maintain their balance when their legs or arms (or both) are spread.

Check out Erin’s in-depth review of the Fifty Shades of Grey Spreader Bar! And if you need some inspiration for the best spreader bar positions, you can have a look at Edwina’s blog post.

7. Ball Gags

7. Ball Gags

7. Ball Gags
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Want to silence your sub? Perhaps you just love the sounds of them desperately sputtering out muffled moans? Well, a bondage gag might be something for you. Bondage gags and ball gags restrict a person’s speech and keep their mouth open. There are so many different types of bondage gags out there! There’s the classic ball gags, bit gags, o-ring gags, panel gags, dildo gags, fleshlight gags, hook gags, funnel gags, you name it!

The insertable parts of bondage gags are usually made of silicone, ABS plastic, or, in some cases, metal. The straps are then usually made of leather, faux leather, nylon, or silicone. They are often adjustable to accommodate a range of different sizes.

Bondage gags are very versatile and can be used as a decorative or functional accessory. They’re great at enhancing that sense of submission or objectification. The sense of vulnerability can also intensity with this muffled features. The person wearing the gag cannot speak clearly and must rely on non-verbal communication which might elevate the power dynamics in a BDSM scene.

8. Bondage Hoods and Masks

8. Bondage Hoods and Masks

8. Bondage Hoods and Masks
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A bondage hood or BDSM mask is a type of BDSM gear that covers the head partially or completely, often restricting sight, hearing, or speech to some degree. Depending whether they’re made of leather, latex, lace, or rubber, your bondage hood experience can vary greatly!

Bondage hoods are a good option for anyone who enjoys certain levels of sensory deprivation, or even just some mystery and anonymity to a scene. Some hoods will restrict the wearer’s ability to see, hear, or speak, which can heighten other senses and create a more intense experience.

There are many different types of bondage hoods and masks, each with its own unique features. Some are simple and only cover the eyes, while others may include built-in gags, blindfolds, or ear plugs. Some hoods even have attachments for other BDSM gear, like collars or leashes.

Regarding safety, it’s crucial to be aware of the wearers ability to breathe during use. Check in with them to also make sure that they are feeling safe and comfortable with the different levels of sensory deprivation you may be exploring.

9. Collar & Leash

9. Collar & Leash

9. Collar & Leash
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BDSM collars are basically functional bondage gear and stylish accessories all at once. There are so many different styles and designs. They’re mostly made of leather, metal, or fabric. Some are simple and unadorned, while others have many decorative elements like studs, spikes, or extra D-rings for attaching a leash or other restraints. The leash is typically a chain or leather strap that clips onto the collar.

In a BDSM context, wearing a collar can symbolize submission to a dominant partner. It can also be a sign of ownership or a relationship status within the BDSM community.

The collar should fit comfortably without restricting breathing, and both partners should agree on how the leash will be used. Remember to always lead your sub with slow and firm tugs, never rapid yanks! This can cause damage to the neck.

10. Arm Binders

10. Arm Binders

10. Arm Binders
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Arm binders er pretty self-explanatory. They’re bascially more extravangant cuffs for your forearms. They bind the arms and hands together either behind the back or in front of your body. This limits the wearer’s ability to move their arms or hands independently of each other.

Arm binders can look very different and they’re available in many different types of materials, including leather, latex, and canvas. Some are simple sleeves that encase the arms, while others may incorporate straps, buckles, or laces for a more secure fit. Some arm binders also have rings or other attachment points for connecting to other restraints or bondage furniture.

Using an arm binder can require a certain level of flexibility, and it’s important to ensure that the binder is not too tight or causing any discomfort. Also, help the wearer into a comfortable position, since this kind of restraint significantly limits their mobility.

You can have a look at Tawney’s review of the Saffron Gauntlett Cuffs to see if these arm binders would be something for you!

11. Anal Hooks

11. Anal Hooks

11. Anal Hooks
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Ah yes, anal hooks… Intimidating, exhilarating, and just plain intense. Ever wanted to combine anal with bondage? The anal hook is the answer!

Anal hooks are typically made of stainless steel and feature a curved shape, similar to a fishing hook, but with a ball at one end and a ring at the other. Insert the ball into the anus. Align the other end with your back. Now, you can tie ropes or clip leashes, or other restrains to the loop. For example, attach a rope to the hook. Tie this a collar or hair. Now you’ve got a unique form of bondage that can stimulate the wearer with every movement.

Anal hooks basically let you experience a certain type of predicament bondage. Say the anal hook is connected to a collar pulling on your neck in an (intentionally) uncomfortable position. Any movement you make with your neck will pull on the bulb in your anus. You’re then forced to endure either sense of discomfort with this kind of predicament bondage.

12. Wartenberg Pinwheel

12. Wartenberg Pinwheel

12. Wartenberg Pinwheel
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A Wartenberg pinwheel is actually a medical device made to test nerve reactions. However, it has lovingly been adopted by the BDSM community as a tool for sensation play.

A sturdy hands with a rotating wheel at the end, which is covered in sharp, evenly spaced points. When rolled across the skin, the pinwheel can produce a variety of sensations, from a tickling feeling to a more intense prickling or scratching sensation, depending on the amount of pressure applied.

In a BDSM context, the Wartenberg pinwheel helps you explore different sensory experiences and enhances the spicy anticipation of it all. I personally enjoy the idea of my partner having control over my sensation by controlling the pressure.

It can be especially effective when used in areas with a high concentration of nerve endings, such as the back, the inner thighs, or the soles of the feet.

13. Ticklers

13. Ticklers

13. Ticklers
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A tickler is a very common type of BDSM toy. A staple tool in the world of sensation play. Obviously, it creates a tickling sensation on the skin, which can be both arousing and teasing.

The design and materials can look very different in ticklers. It all depends on your preferred sensations!

  • Do you like ticklish yet soft and supple movements on your skin? Feather ticklers are great for this.
  • Do you want something that can send cold or warm tickles down your skin? Metal ticklers are temperature responsive. Heat them up or cool them down prior to your session.
  • Do you want something that feels light or heavy? Again, metal ticklers can provide some sturdy sensations, while lighter rubber or feather ticklers feel much lighter to the touch.

Using a tickler can be a gentle way to introduce BDSM play into a sexual relationship. Its non-intimidating and focuses on pleasure. Use them all over the body. Although, they’re especially effective on sensitive areas like the inner thighs, the back of the neck, or the underside of the breasts.

14. Electro-Stimulation Toys

14. Electro-Stimulation Toys

14. Electro-Stimulation Toys
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Electro-stimulation toys, or e