Where to buy bdsm toys?

You always want to shop for BDSM gear from reputable, trustworthy shops to make sure you are getting a quality product that is safe to use! You can shop safely for BDSM toys from any link on the page as we only recommend shops we trust!

Can I make my own BDSM toys?

We always recommend buying purpose-made BDSM tools as these are the safest option. That being said, you can use some household objects to explore sensation play. Check out the 'DIY BDSM for Kinky Crafters' blog post for more some ideas.

How to store your bdsm toys?

You should always store you BDSM toys in a dry, clean space. Each item should have its own storage bag, especially if it is something that is inserted into your body.

What are the best bondage toys for beginners?

If you are just getting started with bondage, I would recommend trying out some simple restraints such as velcro cuffs or getting a bondage kit that comes with a selection of beginner-friendly options.

Where to buy bondage gear?

You should always shop from known and trusted sex toy stores like the ones in this post! We only work with stores we love and trust to give you the best shopping experience. Lovehoney has an amazing range of light bondage gear for beginners and more intense items for intermediate players. Stockroom is our go-to for more advanced or extreme bondage gear. They also have a great range of leather bondage gear and latex bondage gear. If you are looking specifically for men's bondage gear, OXY-shop specialises in chastity cages and cock and ball toys!

How to store bondage gear?

Cleaning and storing your bondage supplies correctly is essential for preventing infections and keeping your toys in good condition. Sex toys should be stored their own bag or box to prevent damage from materials degrading each other and keep them clean between uses. Ropes and restraints should be kept clean and wrapped up so they don't get tangled and preferably stored in a bag.

Which bondage gear is best for beginners?

I would recommend some simple restraints such as handcuffs or wrist restraints to get started. If you enjoy those, you can work up to upper body or full body restraints.

How to make bondage gear?

We always recommend buying your bondage gear as this is the safest option, but we do have some simple DIYs toward the end of this post!

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BDSM Toys: 17 Best Bondage Toys, Gear, Equipment, Tools, and Accessories

byIsabelle Uren

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|Updated: November 15, 2023

I’ve gathered best very best BDSM toys to give your bondage gear collection a boost! I’ve got the best bondage toys and BDSM equipment of every kind. From bed restraints to bondage furniture and body harnesses. Not to mention, the best BDSM Toy and Tools to tease your partner with once you’ve got them where you want them! On top of that I packed this post with useful information, including a bondage gear buying guide, safety considerations and instructions for how to use your new BDSM toys!

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FSOH Nipple Clamps	Sportsheets Bed Restraints	Saffron Loop Paddle	Sportsheets Saffron Flogger	Quickie Cuffs	Slut Slapper	Fetish Fantasy O-ring gag	Kink Bind & Tie Bondage rope Kit	Man Cage Chastity Cage	Liberator Wedge	Bondage Boutique Restraint Harness	Saffron Ball Gag	Frisky Feather Tickler	Seduce Me Lover's Bed Bondage Kit	Bondage Boutique Blindfold	Bondage Boutique Cuffs	Bondage Boutique Spreader Bar
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Pros ✅Easily adjustable ✅Adorned with small weights ✅Comfortable silicone tips Cons ❌Can be fiddly to get on ❌Tips don't open very wide	Pros ✅Quick and easy to install ✅Easy to adjust ✅Portable Cons ❌Might not satisfy more extreme bondage tastes	Pros ✅Loop design creates a loud noise on impact ✅Stylish design ✅Wrist loop for secure grip Cons ❌Too big to travel with ❌Not as durable as real leather	Pros ✅Soft, strong suede ✅Long tails ✅Easy to grip handle Cons ❌Not suitable for beginners ❌Material can shed ❌Not for more heavy duty impact play	Pros ✅Quick to get on ✅Comfortable to wear ✅Travel/airport-friendly Cons ❌Nowhere to attach other restraints ❌Only good for light bondage ❌Not the sexiest design	Pros ✅Dual-layer designed for improved slap sound ✅Cut out SLUT logo ✅Leather Cons ❌Difficult to achieve SLUT imprint ❌Might not be intense enough for people who crave more pain	Pros ✅Multiple holes for comfortable breathing ✅Adjustable clamps ✅Soft, medical-grade silicone ball gag Cons ❌Chain is not detachable ❌Small buckle that can be used for lock and key ❌Lock and key not included	Pros ✅Holds knots well ✅Soft on the skin ✅Easy to clean Cons ❌Ends fray quickly — need to be sealed ❌Not the most durable ❌Rope sheds quite a bit	Pros ✅Non-porous materials ✅Restricts penis and separates balls ✅Ventilation and urination holes Cons ❌Too small for larger penises (bigger models available) ❌Need to remove to clean cock ring	Pros ✅Dense foam doesn't flatten under body ✅Lovely soft cover ✅Deeper penetration Cons ❌Takes up a lot of storage space ❌Cover is a little slippery	Pros ✅Looks incredible ✅Can be worn two ways ✅Comes with a leash Cons ❌Waist belt is too big for smaller bodies ❌Some parts can dig in or scratch ❌Only one color/design option	Pros ✅Comfortable silicone ball ✅Locking buckle ✅Easy to design Cons ❌Not breathable — not suitable for beginners	Pros ✅Elegant black design ✅Coque feathers ✅Wrapped handle Cons ❌Can lose feathers with time ❌Vegans might not want to use real feathers	Pros ✅Complete kit ✅Matching metallic pink design ✅Faux fur lined restraints Cons ❌Pink won't suit all tastes ❌Flogger is a little small	Pros ✅Soft & comfortable ✅Fleece lined ✅Fitted shape for better coverage Cons ❌Can let a small amount of light in	Pros ✅Secure buckle closures ✅Vegan leather ✅Easy to care for Cons ❌Can be too big for smaller people ❌Can't remove chain completely	Pros ✅Adjustable bar and cuffs for customized pleasure ✅Plenty of extra keys for safe play! ✅Can be disassembled for easy transport Cons ❌Not suitable for heavy duty restraint
My verdict Whether or not you are a fan of the FSOH franchise, these nipple clamps look and feel fantastic! It can be a bit tricky to figure out how to get the tweezer clamp into position at first, but once in place, they provide a pleasing pinch that you can turn up or down easily. The wei... Read review	My verdict I love how quick and easy this is to set up and adjust! You can enjoy full body bed restraint without having to install permanent hardware or buy a bondage bed. It’s also super easy to tuck the cuffs under the bed when not in use to keep things discreet. The cuffs feel str... Read review	My verdict Whether you are looking for your first paddle or you have more experience, this is a fantastic option! Our tester loved the the wide surface area and how it could be used to create more gentle, thuddy sensations as well as more intense stingy ones. They also enjoyed the psycholog... Read review	My verdict In wrapping things up, I’ve got to say, I’m impressed with the Sportsheets Saffron Flogger. It’s definitely one of those toys that both newcomers and experienced BDSM enthusiasts will find value in. Its lightweight design makes it easy to handle, and the variety... Read review	My verdict These silicone cuffs are the perfect bondage gear for beginners! They are quick and easy to slip on, so you don’t need to stop play to figure out how to fasten them and you can easily get out of them if you need to. Not to mention, are a very affordable way to dip your toes... Read review	My verdict If you love the thrill of spanking and the audible slap, but don’t want too much pain, the Slut Slapper is a great option. The dual-layer designs mean this slapper is more bark than bite! You still get a good stingy slap, but it’s not the most intense and you can use ... Read review	My verdict To wrap it up, the Fetish Fantasy Extreme O-Ring Gag definitely gets my seal of approval. Whether you’re new to bondage or a seasoned player, this is a piece worth considering. It’s more intense than some of the other toys out there, but I like that about it. Despite ... Read review	My verdict This is a great bondage rope for beginners — it’s soft and strong and the knots stay put without slipping. You can choose between three colors — the purple is available on Lovehoney and Hustler Hollywood have it in red and black. Unfortunately, the rope can start to show ... Read review	My verdict Whether you are looking for your first chastity cage or you want a comfortable cage for day to day wear, this is a winning option! Our testers loved how comfortable it was while still fully restricting erections and restricting arousal. They really liked the ventilation and urina... Read review	My verdict While the Liberator Wedge isn’t a bondage item per se, it can really enhance your bondage play and open up new position possibilities when using other restraints! I love combining a sex pillow, like the Wedge with my Sportsheets under the bed restraint system as it gives a ... Read review	My verdict The faux snakeskin is actually done very well here — it feels and looks high quality! The harness is comfortable to wear and the clips feel very sturdy. Being able to wear it on the front or back is great as you can experiment with different positions, and I love how many D-rings... Read review	My verdict Ball gags make incredible submissive toys — giving up your main form of communication and not even being able to cry out in pleasure! I love the style of this ball gag, the red signals both danger and passion — perfect for helping you get into subspace! The silicone ball is filli... Read review	My verdict If you love sensation play or want to explore it, this feather tickler is a great place to start! The feathers have a beautiful iridescent quality that shimmers and changes color as the light hits them. The handle is a good size and easy to use and the whole tickler feels well ma... Read review	My verdict I chose this bondage kit as today’s test winner because not only does it look incredible, but it’s also great quality and really versatile for exploring restraint and sensation play! And the other users agree! This kit has received overwhelmingly positive reviews with... Read review	My verdict This makes a perfect beginners blindfold. It’s soft, sexy, and does a great job of blocking your sense of sight. The fitted shape around the nose really reduces how much light can get in and gives much better coverage than standard eye masks. That being said, some light doe... Read review	My verdict Bondage cuffs are a BDSM staple for beginners and advanced players alike and these are fantastic option! The padding on these cuffs makes the comfortable to wear, no matter how long you are locked up! The faux leather design and black metal give a sleek look that will suit most s... Read review	My verdict This spreader bar is a great bondage device for anyone looking to play around with a full-body restraint system that is adjustable to your personal preferences, but also secure enough to not allow you to escape without your partner’s permission. The soft cuffs will give you... Read review

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How We Tested the BDSM Toys in This Post

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We also know the value of getting first-hand experiences which is why we collect thousands of ratings from real user, and, where possible, even have one of out amazing sex toy testers put the BDSM toy through it paces. Our testers are never afraid to share the good, the bad, and the ugly when it comes to reviewing sex toys.

Together with bringing you all the product specs, these multifaceted approach gives you all the information you need to decide if the toy will be a good match for you!

How We Tested the BDSM Toys in This Post

Popular Types of BDSM Toys

Bondage gear refers mainly to the different types of restraints you can use to lock up your partner but we’ve also included some other BDSM gear to use once you’ve got them securely in place!

Restraints — Restraints are perfect for exploring dominance and submission, as they leave you tied up and at the mercy of your partner! Bondage rope and bondage tape, give you the most freedom as they can be used in almost any position but can be more difficult to use. There are also loads of different restraints designed to be used in different positions, such as thigh cuffs, bed restraints, hogtie restraints, cuffs, and spreader bars.
Sensation play toys — Awaken the senses with ticklers, pinwheels, or even an electric dildo!
Impact toys — Keep you sub in line with a flogger, spanking paddle, or cane. Impact toys are a great tool for exploring dominance/submission, and they also help increase blood flow, making the area extra sensitive to touch. Impact play tools create a sense of anticipation and excitement as well as increasing blood flow and sensitivity. It can be a thrilling addition to dom/sub play and also makes for a good BDSM punishment. Floggers and spanking paddles are a good place to start as you can use them for more gentle impact play. Canes are better suited to more experienced users.
Ball gags — If you love complete submission or need to muffle your partner’s moans of pleasure, a gag could be the toy for you! Some popular types of gags are ball gags, O-ring gags, spider gags, and penis gags.
CBT Toys — If the idea of having your cock and balls teased and tortured there are plenty of tools to choose from — a BDSM cock ring, some testicle weight, or a ball stretcher!
Fetish wear — The right outfit can really help you get into the mood! So whether you are looking for the perfect outfit for you medical role play or you simply love leather or PVC, there’s a design to suit every style!
Chastity — Chastity belts and chastity cages are perfect for orgasm denial and total submission of your pleasure! Get locked up and give your partner the key or build the excitement with some chastity games.
Sensation Play Tools — Toys such as pinwheels or feather ticklers are great for creating a range of sensations that put the body into a state of high alert.
Sensory deprivation/submission — Taking away one of the senses is a great way to create a feeling of submission and heighten the other senses. Blindfolds are perfect for beginners, while ball gags and masks are great for taking things to the next level.