The 8 Best Sex Pillows for the Comfiest Coitus
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Why Get a Sex Pillow?
If you’re curious about using sex wedges and the benefits they can provide, let us give you an abbreviated list of the advantages they offer! Here are five reasons why you should be using a sex pillow (if you’re not already!).
- Better angles. Using a pillow will allow you to get (and stay in) the proper angle, allowing you to enjoy consistent stimulation rather than constantly having to readjust.
- More G-spot contact. With better angles comes more G-spot contact! By using the pillow to raise your hips, the penis will be able to access your g-spot easier, rather than just hitting the back of your vagina nine times out of ten.
- Deeper penetration. Being able to adjust the angle also means easier access, which, in turn, means deeper penetration!
- Less fatigue. Since the pillow will be supporting your weight, you won’t get tired as easily, meaning you can stay in your favorite positions for longer!
- New positions. Now that you have support, you’ll be able to try all those positions you wanted to try (but didn’t have the stamina for!).
Types of Sex Pillow
- Wedge – Able to be used alone or with other wedges, this type of pillow can raise your hips, allowing you to position yourself for the perfect penetration angle(s)!
- Ramp – These pillows offer the same benefits as wedges, but—thanks to their larger size—can support your entire body!
- Half Moon – This particular type of half-moon-shaped pillow is designed with a toy holder in the middle, allowing you to mount your favorite dildo, prostate massager, probe, or other toy in the middle, which can then be ridden.
- Cylinder – Similar to the half-moon pillow, these toys could be considered “full moon”. Depending on the design, they can be used as a sex toy mount, a way to position your body, or both!
- Inflatable – For those who don’t have top dollar to drop on premium foam-filled sex pillows, inflatable furniture offers a functional, more affordable alternative.
- Sex Toy Mount – Any type of pillow that can hold (mount) a sex toy to itself would fall under this category.
FAQ
What is a sex pillow?
A sex pillow is a pillow (typically with a foam base) that's used for supporting your body during sex. They can help elevate the hips to allow for deeper penetration, better access for oral sex, whatever you can think of! They provide bespoke support to relieve any aches and pains that may come from certain sexual positions, making them invaluable items to people with joint pains or back problems. While most sex pillows are self-supporting, some pillows are inflatable, allowing them to be deflated for simple storage. In addition to body support, certain pillows integrate toy holders into their design, allowing them to be ridden like a partner for solo sessions!
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The 8 Best sex pillows in Test
Liberator Sex Position Wedge Ramp Combo
Looking for a two-in-one? The Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo delivers ultimate support in two premium parts. This combo is great for extended sex sessions and effortless transitions. Get ready for longer sessions, deeper penetration, and maximum comfort. This sex pillow puts you and your partner’s bodies in comfortable and stable positions without the added pressure on the knees, wrists, or back. Plus, the removable microfiber cover is easy to remove, easy to wash, and feels amazing against your skin.
The Sex Position Wedge/Ramp Combo from Liberator promises to be the ‘greatest invention for sex since the bed’ and it just might be. While it’s not cheap, you’re sure to get endless use out of it, as the two parts can be stacked in a variety of ways to unlock dazzling new positions. The added support makes for deeper penetration and overall more intimate positions. It’s completely body-safe, comfortable, and extremely luxurious.
Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow
Low on storage space? From Adam and Eve, the Inflatable Position Pillow inflates for your pleasure and deflates for your convenience. Easy grip handles at either side give you something to hold onto, and keeps yourself and the pillow in place. And that’s not all the handles can do! If you’re interested in bondage, grab your favorite ties and turn this inflatable sex pillow into a bondage pillow!
The Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow is an inexpensive option for anyone looking to dip their toes into the sex pillow world. Overall, however, it just doesn’t hold up. Many users report being unable to inflate the pillow at all, and those that can get it to inflate see it burst after just a few uses. That being said, if you’re not interested in particularly strenuous play, then this is a good, inexpensive option, even if it doesn’t quite bring the quality that others do.
Dame Pillo
Bring on the Pillo! Pillo is comfortable yet structurally firm, allowing you to take familiar positions and elevate them, or turn your world upside-down. The 100% cotton cover is removable and easy to machine wash or spot-clean, and blends in with your furniture when the fun is done. The unique, ergonomically-designed shape is perfect for people suffering with joint stiffness, chronic pain, or any level of physical discomfort during sex.
The Pillo by Dame shoots for the middle in price, and the top in quality. It’s very well-designed and rigorously tested to be comfortable for solo pleasure, couples, all shapes and sizes. If you’re used to a standard sex pillow, you may find the Pillo to be a little too high and a little too steep. Overall, however, it’s an excellent investment that is sure to take your position game to the next level!
Liberator BonBon Toy Mount
The BonBon toy mount from Liberator is a little different from most sex pillows, with a secure slot to insert your favorite toy into! This sex pillow is compatible with flared and non-flared toys, vibrators, dildos, whatever you fancy! It doubles as a position pillow, too. Adding this innovative position pillow to your sex life will enhance masturbation, enable hands-free arousal, and even make double penetration a piece of cake when enjoyed with your partner.
If you’re looking for sex furniture, you’re going to come across Liberator. And when you come across Liberator, you might be a little put off by the prices. But generally speaking, Liberator’s bespoke sex furniture lives up to the hype, and this is no exception. You might find that this particular mount is a little too short for you, or if you want something more weighted, check out our roundup of other sex toy mounts here!
Liberator Black Label Hipster With Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold & Tethers
The Black Label Hipster from Liberator is a position pillow built for bondage. Enjoy comfortable, new sex positions with the handy cuff connectors on each side of the pillow, suited perfectly for the wrist cuffs, blindfold, and tethers that come with the sex pillow. The high arch gives you complete control while exploring anal sex, while the lower end is perfect for prolonging your oral sex sessions. The ebb and flow of this sex furniture piece boosts your body and provides impressive access and G-spot stimulation.
Liberator’s Black Label collection is a super comfortable bondage pillow that puts in the work. Honestly, the only downside is the price, but if you think you’ll get a lot of use out of it, it’s definitely worth the price. All the restraints are detachable, so you can take them off and store it in plain sight discreetly. It’s great for people with disabilities, especially if you cramp a lot and find typical restraints difficult to manage. Plus, we can all benefit from a little lumbar support!
DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge
Boost your sex position game with this simple wedge sex pillow from LoveHoney’s DOMINIX range! With a pair of sturdy loops for attaching your choice of restraints (not included), this sex pillow also doubles up as a bondage accessory and, thanks to its wedge-shaped design, it lifts the receiving partner’s pelvis and puts them in prime position for precise stimulation and mind-blowing orgasms.
The DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge is a no-brainer. It’s simple, easy to use, and helps just the way it should. If you’re not into a velvety texture, you way want to look elsewhere, but it does help that it’s a non-slip material. It’s inconspicuous enough that you can have it around the house and nosey guests won’t notice, and is easy to sort underneath the bed if you’d rather keep it out of sight.
Liberator Heart-Shaped Sex Position Wedge
Isn’t this so cute? This adorable heart-shaped sex pillow provides easy access for deep penetration and G or P-spot stimulation! It’s a more compact version of the typical Liberator wedge, and the design makes it easy to blend it in with your other furniture. The firm, yet pliable material allows for easy positioning and experimentation. Covered in ultra-soft velvish material in designer colors to match your bedding, this design looks right at home on top of the bed.
Honestly, for aesthetic value alone, this is a great addition to your collection. More practically speaking, the main issues with this product come with the height and texture. It can be very difficult to position if you’re under 5’5″, and there aren’t any size options that make this problem easier. If you’re not a fan of firmer textures, too, maybe give this one a miss. Otherwise, the Liberator Heart Wedge Pillow works just as well as any other sex pillow, and is super cute on top!
Liberator Jaz Motion Rocking Sex Position Cushion
The Liberator Jaz is a petite alternative to Liberator’s wide range of sex furniture for those looking for something a little more compact. The small size makes it great for travelling, or as an alternative to typical sex pillows if you’re on the shorter side! The boost is great for oral sex, doggy style, and plain ol’ missionary – plus, there’s no need to worry about making a mess! The moisture-proof liner and microvelvet cover are easy to wash after you’re done playing.
The Jaz Motion Rocking Cushion provides an excellent boost to your sex life on the go. Compact enough to fit in a small suitcase, this is a great option if you’re low on storage space, or simply travel a lot. The price is good for the quality you get if you’re likely to get a lot of use out of it. Make sure to consider the height before purchasing, as it is significantly smaller than typical pillows, so you may not get the boost you want.
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Get Your Grind On
Does grinding get you giddy? These accessories are made for just that.
Positions to Try with Your Sex Cushion
Stuck on how to start? Here are a few suggestions that’ll take your sex life to the next level.
Add a little oomph to missionary by elevating the hips with a sex pillow! Have the receiving partner lie with the pillow pointing their hips upwards, and have them rest their legs on your shoulders. This angle allows for deeper penetration and a great view!
If angles are a challenge for you during regular old doggy, or you just want a deeper penetration, try lying face down with a pillow under your stomach and legs together. Your partner can then penetrate you from behind, and the close fit will make for some mind-blowing orgasms.
This one is great with a vibrator mount. Lay face down over the mount, using your favorite vibrator for clitoral stimulation. Have your partner kneel between your legs and finger you for amazing dual stimulation!
DIY Sex Pillows
Want to experiment before you invest? Don’t have the cash right now? We’ve got you. Disclaimer: We do not recommend making your own sex toys, and always recommend that you purchase purpose-made sex toys from a reputable shop. We are in no way responsible for any harm caused due to the use or sharing of these DIYs. You are 100% responsible for the outcome should you choose to make your own sex toys.
If grinding’s your game, you may already know this trick. In a pinch, folding a pillow in half and grinding against it can feel seriously amazing. If you have lube on hand, it’ll be great for reducing some of that harsher friction. You can also lean against a folded pillow or two and use them for support!
Turns out, you’re just one elasticated band, strap, or even rope away from some sex mount action. You can easily attach your favorite vibrator to a standard pillow for a truly DIY sex pillow. You might want to change the cover afterwards!
Orthopedic pillows are typically memory foam pillows used to relieve all sorts of sleeping problems: apnea, acid reflux, neck problems, even snoring! They also come in a handy wedge form, look almost exactly like sex wedges, and can be a lot cheaper than built-for-purpose ones.
Who says you can’t build your own? If you’re especially crafty, grab a pair of scissors, some memory foam, an old bedsheet (and a few other bits), and follow along with this tutorial by an inspired Imgur user. Hell, you could even pattern your own!
How to use a sex pillow
Here are some tips to shake loose your sex pillow creativity!
Sex pillows are everything when it comes to giving good oral. Not only do you get a great view of your partner, you also get easier access and less stiffness, so you can really take your time!
Who says me-time doesn’t deserve the effort? There are so many ways to incorporate a sex pillow into your masturbation. The toy mount is obvious, but you can also grind against the sides, or simply use it to rest against, so you have a better view of the action.
Interested in bondage? Many sex pillows come with specific O or D-rings for attaching restraints, so you can easily restrain your lover in the most comfortable way possible. Check out or round-up of light bondage kits to get started!
How to clean
The frequency you clean your sex pillow at depends on what you use it for. If you're just leaning against it, that's at your discretion to spot clean as needed and throw in the wash after every few uses. If you're grinding against it, you'll want to clean it after every use. The great news is you can usually remove the outer lining of your sex pillow and wash as the instructions direct!
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.