Sex Pillows: The 8 Best Cushions, Wedges, and Rams
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Why Get a Sex Pillow?
If you’re curious about using sex wedges and the benefits they can provide, let us give you an abbreviated list of the advantages they offer! Here are five reasons why you should be using a sex pillow (if you’re not already!).
- Better angles. Using a pillow will allow you to get (and stay in) the proper angle, allowing you to enjoy consistent stimulation rather than constantly having to readjust.
- More G-spot contact. With better angles comes more G-spot contact! By using the pillow to raise your hips, the penis will be able to access your g-spot easier, rather than just hitting the back of your vagina nine times out of ten.
- Deeper penetration. Being able to adjust the angle also means easier access, which, in turn, means deeper penetration!
- Less fatigue. Since the pillow will be supporting your weight, you won’t get tired as easily, meaning you can stay in your favorite positions for longer!
- New positions. Now that you have support, you’ll be able to try all those positions you wanted to try (but didn’t have the stamina for!).
Types of Sex Pillow
- Wedge – Able to be used alone or with other wedges, this type of pillow can raise your hips, allowing you to position yourself for the perfect penetration angle(s)!
- Ramp – These pillows offer the same benefits as wedges, but—thanks to their larger size—can support your entire body!
- Half Moon – This particular type of half-moon-shaped pillow is designed with a toy holder in the middle, allowing you to mount your favorite dildo, prostate massager, probe, or other toy in the middle, which can then be ridden.
- Cylinder – Similar to the half-moon pillow, these toys could be considered “full moon”. Depending on the design, they can be used as a sex toy mount, a way to position your body, or both!
- Inflatable – For those who don’t have top dollar to drop on premium foam-filled sex pillows, inflatable furniture offers a functional, more affordable alternative.
- Sex Toy Mount – Any type of pillow that can hold (mount) a sex toy to itself would fall under this category.
What is a sex pillow?
A sex pillow is a pillow (typically with a foam base) that's used for supporting your body during sex. They can help elevate the hips to allow for deeper penetration, better access for oral sex, whatever you can think of! They provide bespoke support to relieve any aches and pains that may come from certain sexual positions, making them invaluable items to people with joint pains or back problems. While most sex pillows are self-supporting, some pillows are inflatable, allowing them to be deflated for simple storage. In addition to body support, certain pillows integrate toy holders into their design, allowing them to be ridden like a partner for solo sessions!
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The 8 Best sex pillows in Test
Liberator Sex Position Wedge Ramp Combo
Looking for a two-in-one? The Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo delivers ultimate support in two premium parts. This combo is great for extended sex sessions and effortless transitions. Get ready for longer sessions, deeper penetration, and maximum comfort. This sex pillow puts you and your partner’s bodies in comfortable and stable positions without the added pressure on the knees, wrists, or back. Plus, the removable microfiber cover is easy to remove, easy to wash, and feels amazing against your skin.
The Sex Position Wedge/Ramp Combo from Liberator promises to be the ‘greatest invention for sex since the bed’ and it just might be. While it’s not cheap, you’re sure to get endless use out of it, as the two parts can be stacked in a variety of ways to unlock dazzling new positions. The added support makes for deeper penetration and overall more intimate positions. It’s completely body-safe, comfortable, and extremely luxurious.
Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow
Low on storage space? From Adam and Eve, the Inflatable Position Pillow inflates for your pleasure and deflates for your convenience. Easy grip handles at either side give you something to hold onto, and keeps yourself and the pillow in place. And that’s not all the handles can do! If you’re interested in bondage, grab your favorite ties and turn this inflatable sex pillow into a bondage pillow!
The Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow is an inexpensive option for anyone looking to dip their toes into the sex pillow world. Overall, however, it just doesn’t hold up. Many users report being unable to inflate the pillow at all, and those that can get it to inflate see it burst after just a few uses. That being said, if you’re not interested in particularly strenuous play, then this is a good, inexpensive option, even if it doesn’t quite bring the quality that others do.
Bring on the Pillo! Pillo is comfortable yet structurally firm, allowing you to take familiar positions and elevate them, or turn your world upside-down. The 100% cotton cover is removable and easy to machine wash or spot-clean, and blends in with your furniture when the fun is done. The unique, ergonomically-designed shape is perfect for people suffering with joint stiffness, chronic pain, or any level of physical discomfort during sex.
The Pillo by Dame shoots for the middle in price, and the top in quality. It’s very well-designed and rigorously tested to be comfortable for solo pleasure, couples, all shapes and sizes. If you’re used to a standard sex pillow, you may find the Pillo to be a little too high and a little too steep. Overall, however, it’s an excellent investment that is sure to take your position game to the next level!
Liberator BonBon Toy Mount
The BonBon toy mount from Liberator is a little different from most sex pillows, with a secure slot to insert your favorite toy into! This sex pillow is compatible with flared and non-flared toys, vibrators, dildos, whatever you fancy! It doubles as a position pillow, too. Adding this innovative position pillow to your sex life will enhance masturbation, enable hands-free arousal, and even make double penetration a piece of cake when enjoyed with your partner.
If you’re looking for sex furniture, you’re going to come across Liberator. And when you come across Liberator, you might be a little put off by the prices. But generally speaking, Liberator’s bespoke sex furniture lives up to the hype, and this is no exception. You might find that this particular mount is a little too short for you, or if you want something more weighted, check out our roundup of other sex toy mounts here!
Liberator Black Label Hipster With Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold & Tethers
The Black Label Hipster from Liberator is a position pillow built for bondage. Enjoy comfortable, new sex positions with the handy cuff connectors on each side of the pillow, suited perfectly for the wrist cuffs, blindfold, and tethers that come with the sex pillow. The high arch gives you complete control while exploring anal sex, while the lower end is perfect for prolonging your oral sex sessions. The ebb and flow of this sex furniture piece boosts your body and provides impressive access and G-spot stimulation.
Liberator’s Black Label collection is a super comfortable bondage pillow that puts in the work. Honestly, the only downside is the price, but if you think you’ll get a lot of use out of it, it’s definitely worth the price. All the restraints are detachable, so you can take them off and store it in plain sight discreetly. It’s great for people with disabilities, especially if you cramp a lot and find typical restraints difficult to manage. Plus, we can all benefit from a little lumbar support!
DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge
Boost your sex position game with this simple wedge sex pillow from LoveHoney’s DOMINIX range! With a pair of sturdy loops for attaching your choice of restraints (not included), this sex pillow also doubles up as a bondage accessory and, thanks to its wedge-shaped design, it lifts the receiving partner’s pelvis and puts them in prime position for precise stimulation and mind-blowing orgasms.
The DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge is a no-brainer. It’s simple, easy to use, and helps just the way it should. If you’re not into a velvety texture, you way want to look elsewhere, but it does help that it’s a non-slip material. It’s inconspicuous enough that you can have it around the house and nosey guests won’t notice, and is easy to sort underneath the bed if you’d rather keep it out of sight.
Liberator Heart-Shaped Sex Position Wedge
Isn’t this so cute? This adorable heart-shaped sex pillow provides easy access for deep penetration and G or P-spot stimulation! It’s a more compact version of the typical Liberator wedge, and the design makes it easy to blend it in with your other furniture. The firm, yet pliable material allows for easy positioning and experimentation. Covered in ultra-soft velvish material in designer colors to match your bedding, this design looks right at home on top of the bed.
Honestly, for aesthetic value alone, this is a great addition to your collection. More practically speaking, the main issues with this product come with the height and texture. It can be very difficult to position if you’re under 5’5″, and there aren’t any size options that make this problem easier. If you’re not a fan of firmer textures, too, maybe give this one a miss. Otherwise, the Liberator Heart Wedge Pillow works just as well as any other sex pillow, and is super cute on top!
Liberator Jaz Motion Rocking Sex Position Cushion
The Liberator Jaz is a petite alternative to Liberator’s wide range of sex furniture for those looking for something a little more compact. The small size makes it great for travelling, or as an alternative to typical sex pillows if you’re on the shorter side! The boost is great for oral sex, doggy style, and plain ol’ missionary – plus, there’s no need to worry about making a mess! The moisture-proof liner and microvelvet cover are easy to wash after you’re done playing.