The 7 Best Couples Sex Toys and Vibrators
With the help with all of the testers at Bedbible (and their partners), I’ve carefully compared and selected the very best couples sex toys out there. I’ve found the best couples vibrators for all all situations, including wearable ones for hands-free stimulation, some for foreplay and some with app capabilities!
Test Winner4.3  Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.4/5 User Ratings: 4.3/5 Based on 351 user reviews | Best App Controlled4.4 Overall Rating 4.4/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.5/5 Reviewed by: Kasia HalinowskaUser Ratings: 4.3/5 Based on 632 user reviews | Best Vibrating Cock Ring4.8 Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.9/5 Reviewed by: Amanda NilsenUser Ratings: 4.6/5 Based on 27 user reviews | Best Wand4.9 Overall Rating 4.9/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.8/5 Reviewed by: Cassie MørchUser Ratings: 5.0/5 Based on 7 user reviews | Best Finger Vibrator4.7 Overall Rating 4.7/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Ashley SnyderUser Ratings: 4.4/5 Based on 13 user reviews | Best Penis Vibrator4.8 Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.8/5 Reviewed by: Maxie McBrienUser Ratings: 4.7/5 Based on 76 user reviews | Strap-on4.5 Overall Rating 4.5/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Joseph MohrmannUser Ratings: 4.0/5 Based on 1 user reviews |
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How We Test couples sex toys
We’re a team of 274 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best couples sex toys, our testers tried and reviewed 54 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre couples sex toys didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 897 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
Read more about how we test products.
Which Couples Toy is Best For You and Your Partner?
- Toys to wear during heterosexual penetrative sex are a great way for a partner with a vulva to enjoy hands-free clitoral stimulation. If that’s what you’re looking for, I recommend the We-Vibe Sync 2 or the Fun Factory NOS cock ring.
- Toys to use on a vulva owner can be used for internal stimulation, like the Lovense Lush 3, or external stimulation, like the Fun Factory VIM Wand Vibrator. The VIM is also great for using on a penis or for a nice massage.
- Toys to use on a penis can focus on the sensitive tip or be sued to stimulate the whole shaft. The Lovehoney Power Play Male Massage Wand is great for targeted stimulation or stroking!
- Strap-ons allow a vulva owner to penetrate their partner anally or vaginally. They are great for vulva-vulva partners but also for vulva-penis partners to explore some role reversal. The Lovense Lapis has a double-ended design that pleasures both people at the same time.
Test Winner We-Vibe Sync 2 Couple Vibrator
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.4/5
Reviewed by:
Kasia HalinowskaUser Ratings:
4.3/5
Based on 351 user reviews
Rating: We-Vibe Sync 2 Couple Vibrator was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the couples vibrator.
Rating: We-Vibe Sync 2 Couple Vibrator was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: We-Vibe Sync 2 Couple Vibrator was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: We-Vibe Sync 2 Couple Vibrator was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend We-Vibe Sync 2 Couple Vibrator for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Stimulation for both partners
- Wireless remote
- App-controls with long-distance option
- Adjustable neck
Pros
- ✅ Completely hands-free design
- ✅ Easy to find the right fit
- ✅ Versatile design is great for solo and couples play
- ✅ 2 different remote control options
Cons
- ❌ The app can be unreliable and lose connection
- ❌ Takes some time getting used to
- ❌ Vibrations get a bit buzzy on higher settings
Why I Chose It
For me, getting my first C-shaped vibrator, the We-Vibe Chorus, was such a game changer for getting clitoral stimulation during sex! I love how these vibrators give you exactly what you want without needing to hold anything!
While I really love the Chorus, I chose to include the We-Vibe Sync 2 instead, as it has the most important features but at a more accessible price.
Kasia described it as “one of the most versatile sex toys,” and she loved that it wasn’t “only for penetrative sex but also for solo action, public play, hands-free shower fun and so much more.”
She was also pleasantly surprised that the Sync 2 was “small enough to quickly slide in, but the shape makes it stay even with more intense thrusting motions.” Although you mind find you need to use your hand to apply for pressure against the clitoris in some positions.
The app enabled features are also great for close or long-distance control, and Kasia said she”never had a problem connecting and using the We-Vibe app” and she “would rate their app at 100/100.” That being said, she also really liked the option of having a physical remote, which makes it easy to change settings during use without having to get your phone out!
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Best App Controlled Lovense Lush 3 Partner Controlled Vibrator
Overall Rating
4.4/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5
Reviewed by:
Kasia HalinowskaUser Ratings:
4.3/5
Based on 632 user reviews
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 Partner Controlled Vibrator was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the couples vibrator.
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 Partner Controlled Vibrator was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 Partner Controlled Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Pricey
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 Partner Controlled Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Lovense Lush 3 Partner Controlled Vibrator for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- App and long-distance capabilites
- Bulbed shape for G-spot stimulation
- Options found activated vibrations
Pros
- ✅ Strong vibrations
- ✅ Fixed tail provides some clitoral stimulation
- ✅ 5-hour battery life
- ✅ Great app connectivity
Cons
- ❌ Higher settings can get a little loud for discreet play
- ❌ Weak external stimulation
- ❌ Difficult to keep the tail positioned on the clitoris
Vibrations:
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 Partner Controlled Vibrator was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Lush 3 Partner Controlled Vibrator felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovense Lush 3 Partner Controlled Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Lush 3 Partner Controlled Vibrator felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
The Lovense Lush was the toy that really brought public play to the mainstream and in my expert opinion, it’s still one of the best out there! The Lovense app is by far one of the best I’ve used. It’s got a tonne of fun features and the connectivity is the most reliable I’ve come across. This is a big part of why I picked it as the best couples sex toy for public play!
Our tester, Kasia, was also impressed by the performance of this pink pleaser! She loved that the egg “provides powerful vibrations, and it’s very comfortable to wear and walk around with it inside.” Another big plus for discreet play is that it’s “powerful, super quiet, and extra discreet.”
Unfortunately, the tail was a bit of a letdown, as she found it that “the vibrating tip is so small and flimsy” that it was nothing of great consequence when it came to clitoral stimulation. With that in mind, I personally just wouldn’t go for this toy if I was mainly looking for clitoral stimulation but as an internal vibrator, I think it’s fantastic!
The thing that really makes the Lush 3 stand out is the impressive battery life! With up to 5 hours of play time, you can really take this thing on some adventures!
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Best Vibrating Cock Ring Fun Factory NŌS Vibrating Cock Ring
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.9/5
Reviewed by:
Amanda NilsenUser Ratings:
4.6/5
Based on 27 user reviews
Rating: Fun Factory NŌS Vibrating Cock Ring was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the couples vibrator.
Rating: Fun Factory NŌS Vibrating Cock Ring was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fun Factory NŌS Vibrating Cock Ring was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Fun Factory NŌS Vibrating Cock Ring was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Fun Factory NŌS Vibrating Cock Ring ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Two motors
- Stretchy silicone cock ring for light restriction
- Split tip to surround the clitoris
Pros
- ✅ Comfortable for both partners
- ✅ Deep vibrations
- ✅ Non-slip design keeps it in place
Cons
- ❌ Requires lube
- ❌ No remote control
Vibrations:
Rating: Fun Factory NŌS Vibrating Cock Ring was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fun Factory NŌS Vibrating Cock Ring felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Fun Factory NŌS Vibrating Cock Ring was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fun Factory NŌS Vibrating Cock Ring felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
Having tried my fair share of cock rings that just didn’t work, I was really impressed when I saw the clever design of NOS, which is why it got the top spot as the best cock ring for couples. In my experience, cock ring have two big flaws — the clit stimulator doesn’t get enough contact with the clitoris and the ring tends to move around during use.
Our tester, Amanda, found that NOS has found some clever solutions to these problems! The silicone ring has a more oblong shape, so she found it “stayed in place” and she “didn’t have to correct it a single time.”
Plus, she commented that the “two tips will embrace your clitoris,” while the slim design doesn’t hinder deep penetration.
She was also a fan of the vibrations which she described as being “deep powerful ones.”
While I would say this is quite pricey for a cock ring, I actually think it’s worth the investment, as for me, cheaper ones with more a more basic design and buzzy vibrations have been such a waste of money!
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Best Wand Fun Factory VIM
Overall Rating
4.9/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
5.0/5
Based on 7 user reviews
Rating: Fun Factory VIM was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the couples vibrator.
Rating: Fun Factory VIM was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fun Factory VIM was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: Fun Factory VIM was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Fun Factory VIM ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Weighted motor
- Textured silicone head
- Flexible neck
Pros
- ✅ Powerful rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Light texture improves grip and stimulation
- ✅ Quiet for a wand vibrator
- ✅ Easy to use buttons
Cons
- ❌ Higher settings get buzzy
Vibrations:
Rating: Fun Factory VIM was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fun Factory VIM felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Fun Factory VIM was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is extremely powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fun Factory VIM felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
In my experience, wands are some of the best toys to use with or on a partner. The long handle and broad head make it easier to hit the right spot than with a bullet vibrator. They are also suitable for all over stimulation and can be used on a penis or a vulva!
The reason I chose VIM as the overall best wand to use with the a partner is the cordless design with a clever grippy texture that means it’s less likely to slip out of your hands!
Even though our tester, Cassie, confessed she’s not usually into wands, she actually enjoyed the “intense vibrations delivered with a broad surface area along with delicious textures.”
She enjoyed the lower setting more as they “felt nice and rumbly” but the “higher settings were more buzzy.”
Overall, this is a “super versatile, great for people with grip or mobility issues, and easy to use,” which in my expert opinion, ticks all the boxes for a great magic wand vibrator for couples!
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Best Finger Vibrator Fun Factory Be One Finger Vibrator
Overall Rating
4.7/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Ashley SnyderUser Ratings:
4.4/5
Based on 13 user reviews
Rating: Fun Factory Be One Finger Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the couples vibrator.
Rating: Fun Factory Be One Finger Vibrator was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fun Factory Be One Finger Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Fun Factory Be One Finger Vibrator was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Fun Factory Be One Finger Vibrator for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Unique design sits between fingers
- Two motors
- Travel lock & carry case
Pros
- ✅ Quiet vibrations
- ✅ Great for travelling
- ✅ Can be used between fingers or labia
Cons
- ❌ Could be tricky to hold as it's very small
- ❌ Vibrations are not super powerful
Vibrations:
Rating: Fun Factory Be One Finger Vibrator was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fun Factory Be One Finger Vibrator felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Fun Factory Be One Finger Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fun Factory Be One Finger Vibrator felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
I want to include a finger vibrator, as I feel like they are very intuitive to use and unobtrusive, making them a great couples vibrator! Our tester, Ashley, loved that she had found a “discreet vibrator, but with all the power of your nightstand toy.” She was “incredibly surprised at how quiet this toy was, even on full power,” making it great for anyone who needs to keep their sexy activities on the down-low!
While it looks very firm, she was happy that the “rubbery part is also flexible, so it won’t be too stiff if you press or move it around.” It comes with 5 different modes but the “flirt setting was definitely my favorite setting!”
She was also really impressed by the thoughtful extras that came with it, including “nice details the company puts into their packaging” and “the travel lock and the sturdy plastic egg is a wonderful touch,” which make it a great travel vibe too!
Her only small criticism of the Be One was that the vibrations can be felt in the main body.
Best Penis Vibrator Lovehoney Power Play Male Massage Wand
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5
Reviewed by:
Maxie McBrienUser Ratings:
4.7/5
Based on 76 user reviews
Rating: Lovehoney Power Play Male Massage Wand was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the couples vibrator.
Rating: Lovehoney Power Play Male Massage Wand was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovehoney Power Play Male Massage Wand was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Lovehoney Power Play Male Massage Wand was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Lovehoney Power Play Male Massage Wand ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Flexible wings fit most size penises
- Waterproof
- Travel lock
Pros
- ✅ Lightweight and travel-friendly
- ✅ Easy single-button design
- ✅ Powerful vibrations
- ✅ Added texture for secure grip
Cons
- ❌ Gets loud
- ❌ Only has three speeds
- ❌ No storage bag
Vibrations:
Rating: Lovehoney Power Play Male Massage Wand was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is noisy.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovehoney Power Play Male Massage Wand felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovehoney Power Play Male Massage Wand was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovehoney Power Play Male Massage Wand felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
Couples vibrators tend to focus more on vulva pleasure, but I wanted to make sure everyone gets a slice of the action! This penis vibrator is designed to cradle the shaft and I personally would love the fun of using this on a partner!
Our tester, Maxie, put it though it’s paces and “absolutely enjoyed this wand vibrator!”
As well as really enjoying using it as a stoker, he really appreciated that the “penis vibrator is universal” and he could “use the actual head of the wand to simulate other areas of the body too.” In my opinion, this is another big plus when it comes to using it with a partner!
When he first started using the wand he “preferred the first and lowest vibration” but he found himself “enjoying the different speeds and vibrations with more use of the wand.”
Another thing I really value in a partnered toy is simplicity as there’s nothing like fussing about with controls to dampen the mood! Maxie found that the Power Play wand was “a simple toy in it design and is very intuitive to use.”
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Strap-on Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On
Overall Rating
4.5/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Joseph MohrmannUser Ratings:
4.0/5
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the couples vibrator.
Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- App-controlled
- 3 motors that can be controlled separately
- Adjustable neck
Pros
- ✅ Powerful vibrations
- ✅ 2.5 hour long battery life
- ✅ A lot of in-app customisation
- ✅ Great app connectivity
Cons
- ❌ Might still need a harness
- ❌ Power button is a little fiddly
- ❌ No other color options
Vibrations:
Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is extremely powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
I chose the Lovense Lapis as the best strap-on for couples as it’s just got so much to offer! As well as providing stimulation for the wearer and the receiver, the app enabled features, like long-distance control or vibe to music add a lot of variation!
Joseph tested it out and really liked that the “motor is strong but quiet, the patterns are highly customizable, you can adjust the fit, and the material feels just like skin once it’s warmed up.”
Another big pro for him was the “gendergood feelings about having a penis” he got while wearing the Lapis!
Unfortunately, he ran into the age old problems of strap-ons — “it really didn’t want to stay in place and kept sliding out.” As a sex toy expert, I have to say that, unfortunately, this issue is just a flaw of this type of toy rather being particular to the Lapis. However, I still think they are great toy as it means both partners get to enjoy stimulation. I always tell people that if they want a strapless strap-on, they will probably need to wear it with a harness.
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Comparison
| Best | Test Winner | Best App Controlled | Best Vibrating Cock Ring | Best Wand | Best Finger Vibrator | Best Penis Vibrator | Strap-on |
| Overall score | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.3 / 5.0 from 351 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 632 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 27 users | 5 / 5.0 from 7 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 13 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 76 users | 4 / 5.0 from 1 users |
| Price | Premium | Pricey | Moderate | Premium | Affordable | Moderate | Premium |
| Design | 85 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 97 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 97 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
| Quality | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Sound | - | 40 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 20 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 40 / 100 |
| Power | - | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | somewhat rumbly | somewhat rumbly | very rumbly | somewhat rumbly | somewhat rumbly | very rumbly |
| Vibration speeds | 3 | 3 | - | 5 | 5 | 3 | 3 preset |
| Vibration patterns | 7 | 4 | - | 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 preset |
| Materials | Silicone | Silicone | Silicone | Silicone, Brushed Aluminum, ABS Plastic | Silicone | Silicone | Silicone |
| Remote Controls | App + physical remote | - | - | - | No | - | App controls |
| Insertable length | 3 inches | 3.5 inches | - | - | - | - | Shaft: 5.43 inches, Base: 3.43 inches |
| Rechargeable | USB | Yes | - | USB | Yes | - | Yes |
| Battery Life | 120 minutes | 300 minutes | 60 minutes | 60-360 minutes | 60 minutes | 90 minutes | Up to 150 minutes |
| Charging Time | 90 minutes | 60 minutes | 120 minutes | Initial charging time: Up to 360 minutes | 60-120 minutes | 150 minutes | 105 minutes |
| Waterproof | Yes | Yes | - | Splashproof | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes | Yes | - | No | Yes | - | Yes |
| Flexibility | Flexible internal arm | - | - | Flexible neck | - | - | - |
| Length | - | 8 inches | 3 inches | 12.3 inches | 2.84 inches | 8 inches | 9 inches |
| Diameter | - | 1.4 inches | - | Head: 2.4 inches | - | - | Shaft: 1.61 inches, Base: 1.52 inches |
| Width | - | - | 1,3 inches | - | 0.79 inches | - | - |
| Vibration modes | - | - | 4 intensity levels and 1 surprise pattern. | - | - | - | - |
| Travel Lock | - | - | Yes | Yes | Yes | - | No |
| Texture | - | - | - | Different patterns on tip & handle | - | - | - |
| Colors Available | - | - | - | Sunrise Orange, Midnight Blue | Black | - | Pink |
| Adjustable | - | - | - | - | - | - | Yes |
Interactive Partner Toys for Long Distance Sex
There’s a lot to love about sex toys that couples can use together in the bedroom, but what about all the couples that aren’t in the same room? Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship, or have a partner who’s away from home frequently, you’ll be glad to know that they are a set of sex toys that can bring you together, wherever you are in the world.
Lovense, the app-controlled toy experts, have created three toys that can connect together in an amazingly intuitive way: by sensing each other’s movements. Using the Long Distance Sex function in the Lovense app, you can connect the Lovense Max 2, the Lovense Nora, or the Lovense Calor together and enjoy a sensual session together, controlling the functions of each other’s toys through your movements.
You can read all about how to do it in our review of the Lovense Max 2 and Nora, but here’s a bit more about each of the toys.
Lovense Max 2
The Lovense Max 2 is a high-tech male masturbator that’s designed to feel incredibly realistic, and oh-so pleasurable. Within the hard plastic shell is a soft, squishy sleeve that’s full of texture from top to bottom. Simply lube up and slide in, before turning on the various functions that the Max 2 offers. You have a range of super rumbly vibrations, as well as an adjustable inflatable lining that creates different levels of tightness and suction! Connect it to the app, and you’ll have unlimited options, custom patterns, and, of course, the option to enjoy Long Distance Sex with another Max 2, the Nora, or the Calor.
Lovense Nora
The Lovense Nora is a big rabbit vibrator that is large and in charge! This rabbit has two functions that come together to give you a unique and pleasurable experience. The flexible rabbit arm moves to hit your clit every time, and vibrates with multiple levels of intensity, while the undulating shaft rotates inside of you! When you hook it up to the Long Distance Sex function, your partner can control both functions with their movements — it’s an experience you’ve never come close to before, I promise!
Lovense Calor
The newest addition to the Long Distance Sex set is the Lovense Calor. This vibrating masturbator is super simple to use, and incredibly easy to care for, thanks to its all-over silicone and open-ended design. On the side, you’ll find a squeezable panel that allows you to control the tightness and intensity as you stroke. But, that’s not all! As the name might suggest, the Calor also has a pre-heating function that makes all the sensations feel so much more realistic, and so much more fun!
Sex Toy Kits for Couples
I love a sex toy kit for a sexy weekend date! Imagine coming home and finding one of these on the bed. I know I’d be excited! They are also a great way to start your sex toy collection or try a few different things at once!
Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit
If you and your boo are ready to dip your toes into some light bondage, the Lovehoney Bind Date Kit is the perfect introduction.
The kit includes:
- Sex bed straps
- Silk restraints
- Blindfold
- Feather tickler
- Kama Sutra
- Instructional dice
b-Vibe Anal Training Kit
If you are looking to explore anal play together, the b-Vibe Anal Training Kit comes with everything you need, including an educational guide on anal play.
Here’s what you get:
- A small, beginner-friendly butt plug
- A medium-sized vibrating butt plug
- A large, weighted butt plug
- An anal douche
- A lube applicator
How to Choose Your Perfect Couples' Sex Toy
When you’re shopping for a sex toy to use with your partner, there’s a whole lot of choice out there.
Here are some key factors to keep in mind to help you figure out what you’re looking for, and to make sure you get the best bang for your buck…
Things to Consider
- Dimensions — You will want to check the measurement of the toy to make sure it is compatible with both of your bodies, especially if there are insertable components.
- Stimulation settings — Some toys have a massive range of speed and pattern settings, whereas others just have a few or sometimes don’t have any patterns. Check out the feature table to see what each product offers in terms of settings.
- Volume — If you live with other people, you most likely don’t want to alert them to your activities, so it’s a good idea to shop for a quieter, more discreet option!
- Materials — We always recommend shopping for a non-toxic and non-porous material, such as silicone.
- Clitoral stimulation or penetration — Think about what type of stimulation you prefer. If you are looking for some added clitoral stimulation during PIV sex, a vibrating cock ring or c-shaped vibrator is a great option. If you are a vulva owner that wants to penetrate your partner, a strap-on is going to be the toy for you!
Type of Toy
Of course, the first thing to decide upon is what type of toy you’re looking for.
This will depend on what your partnership looks like, what body parts you both have, what kinds of stimulation you prefer, and how you want to use your toy.
Do you want a toy for the clit, penis, vagina, anus, or somewhere else? Do you like very strong or rumbly vibrations? Do you want something to use during sex or for foreplay?
Materials
When you’re searching for a couples’ sex toy, keep an eye out for what it’s made from.
Generally, you want to stick to body-safe, non-porous materials like silicone, ABS plastic, steel and glass.
Porous materials like PVC, TPE, jelly, vinyl and rubber, on the other hand, have microscopic holes on their surface that can harbor germs and dirt. This makes them very difficult to clean and potentially unhygienic to use inside the body.
Size
If you’re after an insertable toy, size matters 100%. One of the biggest mistakes novice sex toy buyers make is overestimating how much they can take, and their too-big toy often gets stored away forever after an unsuccessful session.
External toys also have a size consideration to make, especially if you want to use them during sex. Stick to something smaller or low profile if you want it to stay out of the way.
Rechargeability
Battery-powered sex toys are alluring for their affordability, but they’re often more trouble than they’re worth. They can produce buzzier, weaker vibrations, and can actually end up costing you more in the long run.
Remote Controls and App-Compatibility
Are you interested in the prospect of controlling your partner’s pleasure? Or perhaps you’re in a long-distance relationship and would love to connect with your partner by having them control your toy from wherever they are?
In that case, look out for couples’ sex toys that have physical remote controls or app-compatibility. Many companies offer these features, but Lovense, We-Vibe, Kiiroo and Satisfyer are some of the most famous.
Waterproofing
It can sometimes be difficult to figure out whether a sex toy is waterproof or not, and exactly how waterproof it is. That’s why we tell you in every Bedbible review!
The basic things to know are that “waterproof” or “submersible” generally means that the toy is fully waterproof, and can be used in the bath or shower (and is very easily cleaned, too). “Splashproof” means that it can withstand some droplets, and can be run under the faucet for a short amount of time, but not submerged. Non-waterproof toys should be kept away from water completely.
Ease of Use
And finally, don’t forget to check how easy the sex toy is to use!
Are the buttons placed conveniently? Is the toy heavy or bulky to hold? Is the accompanying app simple to use and easy to connect to?
Often, the best way to find these things out is to read the user reviews, though reading a Bedbible review is helpful, too!
Types of Vibrators That Work Well for Couples
If you still aren’t sure which is the right type of couples vibrator is right for you and your partner, here are some popular types and what they can be used for!
You can use sex toys in lots of different ways so feel free to get creative.
The only big rule to remember is that only toys with a flared base can be uses anally as you don’t want the toy to accidentally slip all the way in!
Bullet Vibrator
Bullet vibrators provide precise stimulation that’s perfect for targeting smaller sensitive spots, such as the clitoris, frenulum, and nipples. Their small size makes them easy to hold between two bodies. The Tango X is popular amongst sex toy enthusiasts for it’s incredibly intense rumbly vibrations!
Clitoris Sucker
Clitoris suckers deliver intense but indirect clitoral stimulation using air pulses rather than vibrations. Most are better for foreplay as they are difficult to use during penetrative sex. The Womanizer OG has a slim design that won’t seem super bulky during partnered play and can provide air pulsation pleasure to both your clit and g-spot! Clit suckers are also great for nipple stimulation. Have your partner suck on one nipple while the toy works on the other!
G-Spot Vibrator
G-spot vibrators are usually curved to make it easy to stimulate the g-spot/internal clitoral structure. They can also be used for external stimulation of the clitoris, nipples, penis, or perineum or for double penetration with a partner. The Dame Arc delivers style and stimulation and got more than a thumbs up from our reviewer!
Strap-on Vibrators
Strap-on vibrators give vulva owners the power to penetrate their partners! They are perfect for enjoying penetrative sex between two vulva owners or for pegging. The Desire Luxury Vibrating Strap-On even has a remote control to make it easy to switch settings mid-session.
Remote Controlled Vibrators
If you love a bit of power play or simply want to lie back and enjoy the ride, a remote control vibrator is the way to go! Hand over the remote and let you partner take control. Some, like We-Vibe Moxie, can even be controlled from you partner’s smart phone no matter where they are!
C-Shaped Vibrators
C-shaped vibrators are here to answer our prayers for hands-free clit stimulation during PIV or DIV sex! As well as the external vibrations, the internal arm vibrates against your g-spot and their shaft for simultaneous stimulation. The We-Vibe Sync is powerful, rumbly, app-enabled, and has a squeeze activated remote!
Vibrating Cock Rings
Another option for simultaneous stimulation, vibrating cock rings provide clit stimulation while also helping the penis owning partner maintain a stronger erection for longer! The We-Vibe Verge has some serious power to it!
Reviewed by:
Kasia Halinowska