7 Best BDSM Restraints for Bedroom Bondage

Isabelle Uren
by Isabelle UrenUpdated:

I’ve used my knowledge and experience as a long time BDSM’er and sex toy expert, together with the help of the Bedbible tester team, to select the best restraints possible for this review! I’ve put together a list of 7 different types of BDSM restraints that met all of my criteria. My list includes different types such as handcuffs, sex bed straps, a spreader bar, and a couple of kits! 

Best Bed Straps

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 1205.9 user reviews

Best Spreader Bar

4.9Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Best Door Restraints

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 61 user reviews

Best Bondage Tape

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.2/5

Reviewed by: 

Britnee Wild

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 665 user reviews

Best Handcuffs

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Edie

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 112 user reviews

Best Collar

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Best Bondage Rope

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Peter Wenham

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 369 user reviews

Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint SystemSportsheets Saffron Spreader BarSportsheets Door Jam CuffsLovehoney Bondage TapeBondage Boutique Handcuffs Bow Tie Collar and LeashBondage Boutique Rope
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  • Easy to install
  • Can be left in place
  • Comfortable cuffs
  • Easy to adjust
  • Not high security/heavy duty bondage
  • Cuffs are comfortable to wear
  • Swivel clips for easy movement
  • Easy to use and change position
  • Sturdy construction
  • Not adjustable
  • Cuffs are a little stiff to begin with
  • Quick and easy to use
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Adjustable cuffs
  • Great for travel
  • Limited uses
  • Height is not adjustable
  • Cuffs cannot be removed for independent use
  • Doesn't feel that luxurious
  • Doesn't stick to skin or hair
  • Doesn't dig in
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Quick and easy to use
  • Can fold in on itself
  • Not very secure
  • Easy to use
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Can clip to themselves or restraint points
  • Fits most wrist sizes
  • Not suitable for heavy duty bondage
  • Metal clips could be stronger
  • Collar is comfortable to wear
  • Black bow tie design is gender neutral
  • Good amount of adjustability
  • Swivel attachment for lead
  • A lot of cable ties in packaging
  • Collar is quite chunky
  • Chain style leash is a bit clunky
  • Knots hold well
  • Feels comfortable in use
  • Can be used for different restraint projects
  • Doesn't come with storage bag
  • Ends can fray

How We Test bondage restraints

We’re a team of 265 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best bondage restraints, our testers tried and reviewed 138 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre bondage restraints didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 801 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
Our Reviews of BDSM Restraint Toys Explained

How to Find the Best BDSM Restraints for You

When choosing your new bondage straps there are a few points you’ll want to consider.

Best Bed Straps Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 1205.9 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm restraint.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Detachable ankle and wrist cuffs
  • Adjustable straps to fit most beds
  • Velcro fastening cuffs

Pros

  • Easy to install
  • Can be left in place
  • Comfortable cuffs
  • Easy to adjust

Cons

  • Not high security/heavy duty bondage

Why I Chose It

This has to be the best BDSM restraint I have tried to date! No it’s not the most secure or heavy duty restraint but my goodness it’s SO much fun!

The thing I love about these sex bed straps is that once I installed them, which was actually very easy to do, they have just stayed under my bed, ready and waiting for any impromptu bondage sessions that may arise!

My absolutely favorite thing about this set is when my partner tightens the straps — the sound of the straps, combined with my wrists and legs getting pulled tight to the bed sends excitement coursing through my body!

I will say, they aren’t the most secure restraints and the straps can move around a little during use, so if you are looking for more heavy-duty, high security bondage, I would go for restraints with buckles that secure directly to the bed. Otherwise, I wouldn’t hesitate to buy these again!

Best Spreader Bar Sportsheets Saffron BDSM Spreader Bar

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron BDSM Spreader Bar was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm restraint.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron BDSM Spreader Bar was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron BDSM Spreader Bar was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Sportsheets Saffron BDSM Spreader Bar was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Four cuffs for wrists and ankles
  • Buckle fastening
  • Cuffs clip on and off

Pros

  • Cuffs are comfortable to wear
  • Swivel clips for easy movement
  • Easy to use and change position
  • Sturdy construction

Cons

  • Not adjustable
  • Cuffs are a little stiff to begin with

Why I Chose It

I was the lucky tester of the Sportsheets Saffron Spreader Bar and it was my first time trying a spreader bar. I really liked that it had the option for both wrist and ankle restraint at the same time, as I was interested in exploring full body restraint, but I will also say it was quite an intense experience! Of all the restraints I’ve tried, I think this was one of the most intense, which also came with some fantastically subby-feelings!

That being said, I like that you can also use it just on the ankles or wrists for a less intense restraint, as the cuffs are detachable. This also has the added benefit of making it really easy to switch positions during use without having to undo and refasten the buckles on the restraints.

Although I found the vegan leather a little stiff, the cuffs are actually very comfortable to wear during use. I was also really surprised by how sturdy it is. I don’t have any worries using it for more rough play.

The red and black color combo isn’t my favorite, but once I was locked in, it made very little difference!

I actually now have a few BDSM products from the Saffron range, and I’ve been impressed with the quality. I think it makes for some great intermediate level bondage gear.

Best Door Restraints Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 61 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm restraint.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

70/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Secure behind any closing door
  • Velcro cuffs
  • Restrain wrists or ankles

Pros

  • Quick and easy to use
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Adjustable cuffs
  • Great for travel

Cons

  • Limited uses
  • Height is not adjustable
  • Cuffs cannot be removed for independent use
  • Doesn't feel that luxurious

Why I Chose It

I chose to include these door restraints are another really fun way to explore bondage outside the bed, and having your partner restrained while standing offers new and exciting ways to tease them!

The Door Jam restraints ticked loads of our tester Cassie’s boxes — they are “super affordable, very easy to use, ideal for bringing with you on the go, machine washable, and pretty much compatible with any kind of door you would have at home.”

She found these “by far one of the easiest ways to explore standing bondage play at every angle” without having to install hooks or more permanent solutions.

Overall, she was pleased with the quality and although they are lightweight and maybe not the best for heavy-duty bondage, she found “they actually are quite durable.” The cuffs themselves are quite basic and “shed a tiny bit” but they are “super soft on the skin.”

The main downside that Cassie discovered when testing them was the lack of adjustability in the strap-length. I can see this being an issue for anyone significantly shorter than average or using them with very high door frames.

Best Bondage Tape Lovehoney Black Bondage Tape

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.2/5

Reviewed by: 

Britnee Wild

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 665 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovehoney Black Bondage Tape was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm restraint.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovehoney Black Bondage Tape was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovehoney Black Bondage Tape was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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PricePrice

Rating: Lovehoney Black Bondage Tape was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other bondage restraints.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Self-adhesive tape
  • 20 meters
  • Reusable

Pros

  • Doesn't stick to skin or hair
  • Doesn't dig in
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Quick and easy to use

Cons

  • Can fold in on itself
  • Not very secure

Why I Chose It

I thought this bondage tape deserved a spot in the review, as it’s just so versatile and easy to use! While I don’t think it’s the best option for all kinds of bondage, I think it’s a really great way to tie someone up quickly and a fantastic ‘on-the-go’ option that I would chuck into my bag for some holiday fun!

Our tester, Britnee, loved how easy it was to use for wrist restraint but did find that “with vigorous movement/struggle, the tape became lax” and she was able to escape.

She also found some more creative uses for it and found that it made a “a nice wrap around the breasts or as a choker around the neck.” It was also impressive that “When used as a blindfold it doesn’t stick to the hair or pull out eyelashes/eyebrows”

The other drawback of using bondage tape, aside from it not being the most secure, is that it “will stick to itself and tends to bunch up or roll” so it can be a little fiddly.

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Best Handcuffs Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Edie

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 112 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm restraint.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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PricePrice

Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other bondage restraints.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Velcro fastenings
  • Soft lined cuffs
  • Quick-release clips

Pros

  • Easy to use
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Can clip to themselves or restraint points
  • Fits most wrist sizes

Cons

  • Not suitable for heavy duty bondage
  • Metal clips could be stronger

Why I Chose It

I couldn’t do a review of restraints without a good pair of handcuffs! They truly are a staple in any BDSM toolkit. I personally don’t think you need to spend a whole lot on super fancy hand cuffs, unless you really want to of course!

I actually think comfort and ease of use are much more important, which is why I chose the Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs.

Edie reviewed them for us and actually preferred these soft cuffs over others she’d tried because “they are comfortable, breathable, and don’t leave any bruises or marks.”

She also found that although the velcro was easy and non-intimidating, it was “surprisingly secure […]  Even pulling, wiggling and struggling while wearing these cuffs, they hold together so well” so although they are beginner-friendly, they are still very effective!

She also pointed out that the swivel clips are a nice addition as they allow for a little bit of movement. I also like that they can be attached to each other or other restraint points.

While I wouldn’t say these are the most luxurious handcuffs out there, I would be more than happy to add them to my collection!

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Best Collar Sportsheets Sincerely Bow Tie Collar and Leash

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Sincerely Bow Tie Collar and Leash was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm restraint.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Sincerely Bow Tie Collar and Leash was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

85/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Sincerely Bow Tie Collar and Leash was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: Sportsheets Sincerely Bow Tie Collar and Leash was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Vegan leather adjustable collar
  • Vegan leather and chain lead
  • Swivel attachment point

Pros

  • Collar is comfortable to wear
  • Black bow tie design is gender neutral
  • Good amount of adjustability
  • Swivel attachment for lead

Cons

  • A lot of cable ties in packaging
  • Collar is quite chunky
  • Chain style leash is a bit clunky

Why I Chose It

I wasn’t sure about this BDSM collar at first and thought it was going to look and feel a bit too chunky on me, but once it was on, I actually really liked it! I originally got it for some kitty role play but it’s actually a great collar for all kinds of power play!

I really love that the design in totally gender neutral and will look good on anyone and go with pretty much any style. The bow tie is a cute little extra but I was happy that it wasn’t too obvious or over the top.

The vegan leather feels nice and soft against my skin and I found it comfortable to wear. I really like the look of the chain leash but it’s quite long and can clank around a bit, so it can be nicer to unclip it when you aren’t using it.

It’s also really practical having D-rings on either side of the collar and swivelling mechanism on the clips. As someone who doesn’t use a collar often, this was the perfect price and quality for my needs. I think it’s a really fun little power play tool, as it instantly put me into my place as a sub!

Best Bondage Rope Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Peter Wenham

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 369 user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm restraint.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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PricePrice

Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

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A Closer Look
  • 10 meters
  • Approx 0.5 inches thick
  • Woven cotton

Pros

  • Knots hold well
  • Feels comfortable in use
  • Can be used for different restraint projects

Cons

  • Doesn't come with storage bag
  • Ends can fray

Why I Chose It

I think bondage rope is a great way to move from beginner’s bondage into more intermediate bondage, with a bit more freedom and creativity. I chose the Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope, as it’s a great quality rope at a great price that will satisfy most needs!

Peter tried it out for us and was very happy with its performance and said it “it is perfect for what it’s designed for” and the woven cotton style has “a good look to it and a very nice soft feel.”

Most importantly, “the rope held well and the knots stayed in place.” I love knowing that once I’ve got the rope in place it will stay put and won’t need to be readjusted!

I also think that 10 meters is a good amount of rope for exploring a fair few bondage projects, and I really like that you can use it to restrain arms/legs to each other or to a restraint point, giving a lot more freedom than a single purpose restraint.

Our tester did find that “the rope tightens up” during use, so I would be careful not to tie your ties too tightly and always leave a little room between the rope and your partner’s skin.

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Comparison

BestBest Bed Straps Best Spreader Bar Best Door Restraints Best Bondage Tape Best Handcuffs Best Collar Best Bondage Rope
Overall score4.8 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.8 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.2 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0
User rating4.8 / 5.0
from 1205.9 users
5 / 5.0
from 3 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 61 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 665 users
4.6 / 5.0
from 112 users
5 / 5.0
from 2 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 369 users
PriceModerate Affordable Affordable Cheap Cheap Affordable Moderate
Design100 / 100 90 / 100 80 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100 85 / 100 85 / 100
Ease of use100 / 100 100 / 100 95 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100
Quality90 / 100 90 / 100 70 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100 85 / 100 80 / 100
Sound-------
Power-------
Buzzy/Rumbly-------
Length60 inchesBar: 24.75 inchesStrap: 8.5 inches20m/65.7 ft/787 inches-Collar: 23 inches, Leash: 50 inches10 metres inches
MaterialsPolypropylene webbing, plastic hardware, nickel free metal hardware, Velboa fabric, Velcro Stainless Steel, Nickel-Free Metal, Polyurethane Foam Velboa fabric, polypropylene webbing, nickel-free metal hardware, and plastic Flexible PVC Neoprene, Velcro, Velour, Metal Faux leather (polyurethane), nickel-free metal Cotton
FasteningVelcro Buckle Velcro -Metal, swivel claw clasps and Velcro Buckle -
Waterproof--Yes Yes ---
Adjustable--No ----
Width---2 inches---
Storage Bag Included---No ---
Colors Available---Black, Red, Purple Black --
Diameter----Adjustable 5-10 inches--
Texture------Very soft
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Get More with Bondage Kit!

If you are just getting into bondage, it can be hard to know which types of restraints you will enjoy the most. If you want to explore a few different types of bondage, I recommend getting a kit as it’s often cheaper than buying everything separately. They are also great for a sexy weekend or date night!

Sportsheets Beginner's Bondage Fantasy Kit

Sportsheets Beginner's Bondage Fantasy Kit

Sportsheets Beginner's Bondage Fantasy Kit

The Sportsheets Beginners Bondage Kit comes with a selection of bondage items that can be combined for all kinds of kinky fun.

  • Sex bed straps
  • Velcro wrist and ankle cuffs
  • Soft lined blindfold
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Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit

Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit

Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit

The Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit is a more comprehensive kit that comes with some fun games to help guide your play as well! Here’s what you get:

  • Blindfold
  • Feather tickler
  • Bullet vibrator
  • Sexy dice game
  • Kama Sutra card games
  • 4 silk restraint for wrists and ankles
  • Sex bed straps
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Popular Types of BDSM Restraints 

  • Hand and Ankle CuffsHandcuffs for sex are available in a couple of different designs, but they all accomplish the same thing, restraining your sub from moving their hands or ankles!
  • Sexual Bed Restraints – These restraints are used to tie your sub to the bed, perfect for any full-body domination situation!
  • Door Restraints – The designs of these restraints vary. Most simply restrict your sub from moving their arms by holding their arms above their head using wrist restraints attached to the door frame, but some models may also restrict their ankles using the door frame as well.
  • Hogtie – Hogtie restraints restrain the sub’s arms and legs behind them, preventing any form of effective movement and giving you easy access to their clitoris/penis.
  • Spreader Bars – These bars feature restraints on each end of the bar. Once strapped in, your sub will be forced to keep their legs and/or arms spread wide!
  • Bondage Rope – Also known as shibari rope, this purpose-made rope is designed to safely restrain your sub using knots/designs of your choice. Rope is an excellent option for doms who want to get a bit more creative when restraining their partner.
Author
Isabelle Uren
Isabelle Uren

Site Manager | Aiming to empower people to embrace sexual pleasure one sex toy at a time or two, whatever takes your fancy! As well researching and writing about all things sex, I have studied Tantra and am currently studying towards becoming a psychosexual therapist. My life philosophy is the three Ms approach — meditation, masturbation, and mmm a good cup of tea!

Age: 32
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: Doxy Die Cast
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