7 Best Remote Control Vibrators and Sex Toys

Why I Chose It

I’ve picked out the Lovense Exomoon as the Test Winner because I honestly think it’s one of the best bullet vibes on the market today. It’s super easy to use and beginner-friendly but still packs enough of a punch to satisfy experienced users.

Our tester, Isabelle, “was surprised by both the power and rumbliness of the Lovense Exomoon. On the lowest settings (accessible in the app) the Exomoon provides a gentle rumble that would suit even the most sensitive clits”.

What I love most about it is the lipstick design. Yes, it’s cute and fun, but it’s also super practical and very discreet with both the case and the storage bag. I just love sex toys that are small enough to fit in your purse when you’re going on a little trip. Plus, “the small size means you can use it in pretty much any position, solo or with a partner!”

For manual control, there’s only one button to use, which is quite limited since you have to scroll through all the settings to find the one you want. Of course, this is where the app control comes in to offer so much more customization. However, I will say, compared to the wearable vibrators in the post, a lipstick vibrator might not be the most intuitive to use long-distance and it doesn’t work for public play. All things considered though, I think the Lovense Exomoon is one of the best bullet vibrators on the market, along with the We-Vibe Tango X.

Why I Chose It

I picked out the Lovense Lush 3 because it really is a crowd pleaser. It’s surprisingly versatile, since the rumbly vibrations from the egg can be used to caress any part of the body, really. I also appreciate when powerful vibrators are quiet enough to be used even when living with roommates or family members. In this case in particular, it’s ideal for public play.

In my experience, Lovense toys have great Bluetooth connectivity for app controlled sessions. Although, keep in mind that bulky clothes or thicker thighs can sometimes interfere with the Bluetooth connection when you’re out and about.

The one thing that I feel lets this toy down slightly is the weak clitoral vibration in the tail. If you are someone who relies on very strong clitoral vibrations to orgasm, this toy might not get you all the way but rather aid in some manual stimulation. Instead I would recommend checking out the Lovense Flexer or We-Vibe Moxie+ later in the review as they offer more clitoral stimulation.

Our tester Kasia was initially excited for some hands-free orgasms with the Lush 3. Although, after discovering that the vibrations didn’t travel very well through the “tail” for some extra clitoral stimulation while the egg was inserted, she had to give up on that dream. But there was ultimately a solution:

“I also finally found a way to enjoy the tail that I thought was cursed! I found it a great addition to delicate fingerplay on my clit, and then the gentle vibrations turned out to be not so useless. And in combination with powerful G-spot stimulation and a long and exciting foreplay beforehand, the orgasms were incredible!”

Why I Chose It

I think, as far as panty vibrators go, the We-Vibe Moxie+ is a fantastic option. I like that the design features a pronounced ridge that creates direct contact with the vulva when secured to snug underwear. I also think it works really well as a toy for some long drawn out teasing at home or out and about in public!

Our tester, Daphne, was pleasantly surprised by just how much fun this little vibrator can be! She found it was better suited to foreplay since she “need(s) something stronger to send (her) over the edge. That being said, I like this toy way more than I thought I would. It’s fun to slide into my panties and let it touch me without having to do any work.” 

She did have quite a bit of trouble connecting to the app but got it to work after resetting the toy and the phone. However, the connectivity does seem to be a problem for a lot of users in general. While the We-Vibe app seems to work a lot better these days, I still think the app compatibility can be a bit hit or miss.

On the bright side, the physical remote control still allows you to use it for public play, power play, or general hands-free fun while wearing it. While the Moxie+ is more expensive than other remote control panty vibrators on the market, this little device definitely offers a certain sense of quality and some pretty impressive, rumbly vibrations.

Why I Chose It

For anyone who struggles to orgasm during partnered sex and needs a lot of clitoral stimulation to get there, this remote controlled vibrator is fantastic! It offers deep and rumbly vibrations for both internal and external stimulation, stays in place during use, and can even be enjoyed by your partner as well.

Our tester, Isabelle, was super impressed by how powerful and rumbly the vibrations were with this couple’s remote control vibrator. It was a fantastic addition to penetrative PIV sex and was a great help in achieving some awesome hands-free, simulataneous orgasms.

“… the We-Vibe Chorus allowed me to have some of the best PIV sex yet, with some of the most intense blended orgasms I have ever experienced. So on that level, it scores 110%. If you need clitoral stimulation during PIV sex, this thing is magical! As well as being hands-free, staying in place, and having powerful vibrations, the Chorus has an internal stimulator that can be enjoyed by both partners.”

I love that it’s also more versatile than you would think. It can definitely be used for solo play by itself or with a dildo. It can also work well as a panty vibrator and for public play. The option of a physical remote may also be a plus for some that can’t be bothered with connecting the device to an app! The squeeze control is also a fun feature but comes with a bit of a learning curve.

I would love to give the We-Vibe Chorus a perfect 5/5, as this really is a revolutionary couples vibrator. However the app connectivity lets it down. It’s not the most reliable and for this price, I would expect full access to all the features it promises.

Why I Chose It

Our tester, Mariah, was beyond impressed with this remote control g-spot vibrator. She even unlocked the secret to squirting using this little device!

“I can say this with complete confidence, if you are interested in squirting, or aren’t sure if you can or even if you can but only if you physically try, purchase the Rave 2, and your waterfall will come… and likely involuntarily. The ability to bend the neck of this toy to fit your anatomy, as well as the dual-controlled motors (one for g-spot stimulation and one for stimulating the vaginal opening) is a complete game changer. […] Buy it, use it. Come back and thank me later, after you’ve mopped up.”

I love the new improvements that We-Vibe made to this toy! The dual motor vibrations just add more rumbles to more sensitive areas (this time including the vaginal opening), and the adjustable shaft offers a lot more customization to hit those sweet spots. I’ve tested the original We-Vibe Rave myself and wasn’t too impressed with the rigid shaft and slightly spiraled, off-center shape. It’s safe to say that this upgrade is so much better! I also think that We-Vibe have done a great job of improving the app and connectivity, which definitely was a problem with some of their older models.

Why I Chose It

If you’re a fan of clit suckers, vibrators, and long-distance sex toys then I think this the remote-control vibrator for you! I tested out the Satisfyer Curvy 2+ myself  and this little device helped me discover a new fascination with app controlled sex toys.

One thing I really appreciate about this sex toy is that you can control the suction and the vibrations separately for complete control over the sensations. I would advise others to consider the size of the suction nozzle beforehand. Anyone with a larger clitoris (or anyone who prefers are larger area of stimulation) may want to opt for a toy with a larger opening to fully envelope the clit. Regardless, I was still taken by surprise by the intense sensations.

One huge pro in the Curvy 2+ is definitely all the features available in the Satisfyer Connect App. A sublime source of endless, toe-curling entertainment, if you ask me. I found myself wanting to explore every inch of that app and suddenly the hours would just fly by. That may also be why my hand cramped up easily. That said, the curved handle doesn’t feel that ergonomic when it comes down to it.

Why I Chose It

I really like the design of the simple Lovense Domi 2. The smaller size and flexible head makes it nice and easy to use in a range of positions. It’s a pretty powerful wand vibrator, so I would recommend it to those who crave stronger stimulation and don’t get overstimulated easily.

Our tester, Vern, had a very overwhelming experience with the Domi 2. They found that the vibrations were super strong… but almost too strong! ““The first time I turned the Domi 2 on, it literally jumped out of my hand, the vibration was so strong! It made me giddy to try something with such an intense power — finally I was ready to see the hype of a wand vibrator.” That said, the vibrations can travel into the hand a little so that’s something to keep in mind if you are sensitive to that.

Although, the app controls were fun to use and made controlling the toy a lot easier. It also wasn’t the most discreet toy! “Once I caught the toy (it had been rolling across my bedsheets like a Beyblade), I noticed that it also lit up. […] There is no hiding this toy, it could be seen and heard from outside of my bedroom!”. This probably isn’t the best choice if you need something quiet and discreet. However, if you don’t mind a little noise, this is definitely one of the best remote control wand vibrators out there! Both the vibrations and the app features and connectivity are great.