Lelo Tiani 3 — Test & Review

Rachel Worthington
by Rachel WorthingtonLast updated: 
Lelo Tiani 3

The Lelo Tiani 3 is a wearable vibrator that delivers powerful vibrations to both the clitoris and g-spot. Made from silky silicone with luxurious gold-colored accents, the Tiani 3 can be used alone or can be worn during partnered sex. While the vibrations can be controlled from the toy itself, it also comes with a palm-sized remote control that offers preset vibration settings as well as innovative SenseMotion modes. These allow you to increase or decrease the intensity simply by moving your hand!

Design:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Lelo Tiani 3.

75/100
Ease of Use:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 55 out of 100, which means it is somewhat intuitive and easy to use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

55/100
Quality:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

100/100
Price:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is very expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

High
Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
Bedbible rating:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The Bedbible rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. 1 indicates a very bad product, while 5 indicate a very good product. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Lelo Tiani 3.

4.0/5.0
User rating:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 4.5 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The User rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. The score is an aggregated rating of all online ratings. We find and aggregate all ratings based on a weighting system that takes into account how many reviews are available at each source.

4.5/5.0
Sources
4.5 / 5  LELO (455)
5 / 5  Pinkcherry (1)
5 / 5  Adamandeve ()
5 / 5  Bijoux indiscrets ()
Design:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Lelo Tiani 3.

 75/100
Ease of Use:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 55 out of 100, which means it is somewhat intuitive and easy to use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

 55/100
Quality:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

 100/100
Price:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is very expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

 High
Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
Bedbible rating:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The Bedbible rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. 1 indicates a very bad product, while 5 indicate a very good product. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Lelo Tiani 3.

 4.0/5.0

User rating:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 4.5 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The User rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. The score is an aggregated rating of all online ratings. We find and aggregate all ratings based on a weighting system that takes into account how many reviews are available at each source.

 4.5/5.0

Sources
4.5 / 5  LELO (455)
5 / 5  Pinkcherry (1)
5 / 5  Adamandeve ()
5 / 5  Bijoux indiscrets ()
Price:High

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is very expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

Bedbible rating: 4

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The Bedbible rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. 1 indicates a very bad product, while 5 indicate a very good product. It is the overall rating given by our tester which makes it a very subjective score of the Lelo Tiani 3.

User rating: 4.5

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 4.5 out of 5, which means it is amongst the absolute best of toys that I can absolutely recommend you try out.

What it is: The User rating is indicated by 1-5 stars. The score is an aggregated rating of all online ratings. We find and aggregate all ratings based on a weighting system that takes into account how many reviews are available at each source.

Sources
4.5/5LELO (455)
5/5Pinkcherry (1)
5/5Adamandeve ()
LELO
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Adamandeve
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Table of contents (16)

My Personal Experiences

My Personal Experiences with Lelo Tiani 3

Ever since I found out about couples vibrators like these, I wanted to try one out. This desire only increased when I read Isabelle’s review of the We-Vibe Chorus! The idea of having a wearable vibrator that delivers extra clitoral vibrations whilst also giving extra pleasure to both me and my partner sounded like a pretty amazing concept. So, I was stoked when I got to test out the Lelo Tiani 3.

Trying it Solo

The first few times I used the Lelo Tiani 3, I was alone. I didn’t have any mind-blowing experiences in the beginning, but I enjoyed the hands-free-ness of it. The remote control was a nightmare to figure out, so for a while I gave up and used the button on the vibe itself. The vibrations weren’t super strong, a problem I’ve had with other Lelo toys like the Gigi 2, so I did have to push it against my body when I was getting close. I also wouldn’t really consider this a g-spot vibrator, since you couldn’t really feel much in the tail once it was inside. However, once I re-read the instructions a few times and figured out the SenseMotion controls, I had an amazing idea to wear the Tiani 3 and grind against some pillows — best feeling ever!!

And With a Partner

After realising that the tail vibrations weren’t much, I had my doubts about how the Lelo Tiani 3 would work during sex. I’m a pretty small person, and I honestly didn’t know if both the vibrator and my boyfriend would… you know, fit. We went slowly, with a lot of lube, and nothing terrible happened. I was a little worried about the fact that it might affect the condom we were using, but it was totally fine. However, afterwards, my boyfriend asked sheepishly if we could not try it again! It squeezed him quite a lot and felt pretty uncomfortable — I imagine because the tail isn’t very flat. I also noticed that the ‘head’ was quite big, and became uncomfortable between us after a while when in missionary-style positions.

Pros
ProsLuxurious design
ProsSenseMotion remote control
ProsPowerful vibrations
ProsHands-free clitoral stimulation
Cons
ProsExpensive
ProsComplex controls
ProsMay not fit all bodies
ProsDoesn't stay in place

Design

My Personal Experiences with Lelo Tiani 3

A lot of things about the design of the Lelo Tiani 3 feel like a swing and a miss. It's designed specifically for use during PIV (or DIV) sex, and yet it doesn't seem that practical for that purpose. Firstly, there's a very bulbous 'head' that houses the motor. It's fairly square, so it didn't nestle that well on my clitoris or vulva, and so big that it got in the way during sex. Then, there's the 'tail' that goes inside. It's quite narrow, making it comfortable to insert, but not thin enough to be comfortable for your penis-owning partner during sex. Most of these didn't affect my solo experience, but weren't enjoyable with my boyfriend.

Ease of Use

My Personal Experiences with Lelo Tiani 3

If you want to use the Tiani 3 as is, it's quite simple to use. You just press the button on the top of the head to cycle through the 6 pre-programmed vibration speeds and patterns. However, there's also a remote control that can be used by yourself or your partner to control these modes, as well as the two SenseMotion control modes. These allow you to increase or decrease the intensity based on the angle you hold the remote at, or the speed with which you move it. Though, if you want to use these, you'll have to look up the very opaque instructions online.

Quality

My Personal Experiences with Lelo Tiani 3

Like other Lelo toys I've reviewed, the Tiani 3 feels like a premium, high-quality product. The silicone feels soft and smooth, and the gold plastic feels sturdy and durable. In fact, the whole toy really oozes a luxurious vibe. I was, however, a bit surprised when I opened the vibrator to charge it and found that the charger didn't really fit all the way into the port. But, it still charged with no problems.

Price

My Personal Experiences with Lelo Tiani 3

I can't wholeheartedly recommend the Lelo Tiani 3 when given its high price tag. I did enjoy it, and I think it's well-constructed and high-quality. However, the design is not going to fit everyone's body (or their partner's), and it may well ending being uncomfortable or even unusable for some. That being said, if you're really intrigued by the SenseMotion remote control capabilities and want a wearable vibrator to use solo, the Tiani 3 could be worth it for you. For the price, you'll receive the toy, the remote, a charging cable, a plastic 'key' for opening the remote, a storage pouch, a sample of water-based lube, and a warranty card.

Performance

My Personal Experiences with Lelo Tiani 3

I actually really enjoyed the Lelo Tiani 3 the first time I used it! The vibrations were fairly powerful, even if I did have to press the vibrator down a bit to get the full effect. The vibrations, however, don't travel down the tail that much when you're wearing it. I would say that the tail, instead, acts like more of an anchor, except it actually kept coming out as I was using it. I wish it was posable instead, rather than just a flexible piece of silicone.

Packaging

My Personal Experiences with Lelo Tiani 3

Every Lelo product comes in similar packaging: a black card box with gold lettering and a window in the front where you can see the toy. I quite like it — it feels simple and yet luxurious! However, I don't feel any qualms about throwing it away like I do with some other sex toy packaging. Since the Tiani 3 comes with a storage pouch, you don't need to keep any of the packaging anyway.

Materials and care

My Personal Experiences with Lelo Tiani 3

The Lelo Tiani 3 is made from silicone and ABS plastic, both of which are non-porous, 100% body-safe materials. The silicone feels silky smooth to the touch and pleasant against the skin. The Tiani 3 and its remote control are waterproof, which means they can be easily cleaned with warm water and a mild, unscented soap. Just lather it up, making sure to get into the crevices where the materials meet, and then rinse off thoroughly. It also comes with a storage bag to keep it clean and safe between uses.

Tested and reviewed by

Rachel Worthington

Age:
25
Sex toy experience:
Experienced
Gender:
Female
Sexual orientation:
Bisexual
All-time favorite sex toy:
Recommended for the beginner and intermediate

The Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 30 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
The vibrations of the Lelo Tiani 3 are quiet, very powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly
Sound:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lelo Tiani 3 felt to the reviewer.

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Power:

Rating: Lelo Tiani 3 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lelo Tiani 3 felt to the reviewer.

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Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

You should buy the Lelo Tiani 3 if you...

You should buyLike the idea of a hands-free vibrator
You should buyWant a vibrator to use during PIV sex
You should buyDon't want to fiddle around with buttons on the vibrator itself
You should buyLike the luxurious look

You should NOT buy the Lelo Tiani 3 if you...

You should NOT buyAre looking for internal vibrations as well as external
You should NOT buyHave a smaller anatomy
You should NOT buyPrefer simple controls
You should NOT buyAre on a budget

Specifications and features

Specifications and features Lelo Tiani 3
Vibration modes6 (+ SenseMotion controls) 
Length6.25 inches
Insertable length3 inches
Diameter(Internal) 1 inch, (External) 1.25 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic 
WaterproofYes 
Battery Life120 minutes
RechargeableYes 
Charging Time120 minutes
Remote ControlsYes, Remote Control Included 
Travel LockYes 
Storage Bag IncludedYes 

Conclusion

The Lelo Tiani 3 was a mixed bag for me, but the more I used it, the more I liked it! Of course, the main reason I wanted it was to use during sex, but the shape of the vibrator was just not compatible with mine and my partner's bodies. However, I think it works pretty amazingly as a clit vibrator when you use it by yourself! For those who like the idea of not having to grip a bullet, wand or any other kind of handheld vibrator, the Tiani 3 could be a great experience. Just as long as you have the budget for it.

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Comparing Lelo Tiani 3 with alternatives

Lelo Tiani 3
Lelo Tiani 3
Lelo Dot
Lelo Dot
Dame Arc
Dame Arc
Honey Play Box Seduction
Honey Play Box Seduction
Bombex Butterfly Desire Vibe
Bombex Butterfly Desire Vibe
ZALO Queen Set
ZALO Queen Set
Overall score4.3 / 5.0 4.4 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.4 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.0 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0
User rating4.5 / 5.0
from 456 users
4.2 / 5.0
from 224 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 541 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 138 users
5 / 5.0
from 119 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 21 users
PriceHigh Medium High Medium Low Medium
Design75 / 100 100 / 100 98 / 100 70 / 100 85 / 100 90 / 100
Ease of use55 / 100 90 / 100 95 / 100 70 / 100 90 / 100 80 / 100
Quality100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 95 / 100
Sound40 / 100 20 / 100 40 / 100 60 / 100 20 / 100 60 / 100
Power80 / 100 40 / 100 80 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100 60 / 100
Buzzy/Rumblysomewhat rumbly somewhat buzzy somewhat rumbly somewhat rumbly very rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly
Vibration modes6 (+ SenseMotion controls) 8 --10 PulseWave: 4 Speeds & 4 Patterns | Vibrations: 2 Steady & 6 Patterns
Length6.25 inches6.5 inches7.5 inches16.5 inches-216 mm / 8.5 inches
Insertable length3 inches-5 inches-4 inches131 mm / 5.12 inches
Diameter(Internal) 1 inch, (External) 1.25 inches-(bulb) 1.4 inches-1.5 inches35 mm / 1.4 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic Silicone, ABS plastic -ABS (hard plastic), Silicone Silicone Silicone & ABS Plastic
WaterproofYes Yes Yes Splashproof Yes No, Splashproof
Battery Life120 minutes120 minutesAt least 90 minutes60 minutes40-60 minutes120 minutes
RechargeableYes Yes Yes -Yes, USB charging Yes
Charging Time120 minutes120 minutes120 minutes120 minutes150 minutes60 minutes
Remote ControlsYes, Remote Control Included ---Physical Remote App
Travel LockYes Yes Yes No Yes Yes
Storage Bag IncludedYes Yes Yes No No Yes
Width-2.4 inches-Base: 4.5cm, Suction head: 8 inches--
Vibration speeds--5 ---
Vibration patterns--5 10 licking modes --
Clitoral suction---5 sucking patterns modes10 modes modes-
Weight---140g lbs-Vibrator: 165 g / 0.36 lbs | Attachment: 30 g / 0.07 lbs
Texture---Smooth --
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How to use Lelo Tiani 3

Here are some ideas for getting the most out of the Lelo Tiani 3...

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Solo Play
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Take the Tiani 3 for a solo spin for some hands-free clitoral stimulation. Lie on your back, lube up with some water-based lube and switch the remote to SenseMotion mode to customize your vibes.
During Sex
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The Lelo Tiani 3 can also be worn during sex. Try it out during PIV (or DIV) sex, or even just grinding on your partner!
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Lelo Tiani 3
Grinding
Lelo Tiani 3
Speaking of grinding, stacking up some pillows can give you the perfect surface to grind against whilst wearing the Tiani 3. If you find yourself needing to press it down more, you can go totally hands-free with this trick.

FAQ

How do I insert the Lelo Tiani 3?
The larger bulb of the Tiani should sit outside of your body, with the smaller stem inserted inside the vagina. To insert it, get yourself aroused, generously lube up both yourself and the stem with a water-based lube, and then gently insert it into your vagina.
Can the Lelo Tiani 3 be worn during sex?
Yes! The Lelo Tiani is a vibrator that's designed to be worn during PIV (penis in vagina) sex and provide both pleasure for the wearer and the penetrator. However, depending on your size and anatomy, it might be more or less comfortable to wear during sex.
How does the Lelo Tiani 3's remote control work?
First, press the button on the vibrator for 1-2 seconds until the light turns on. Then, press the + button on the remote to turn it on and switch it to SenseMotion mode 1. To switch to SenseMotion mode 2, or to use the other vibration patterns, press the center button on the remote.
How do I charge the Lelo Tiani 3?
To charge the vibrator part of the Lelo Tiani 3, you should unscrew the largest part of the silicone bulb where it meets the gold band. You'll see a charging port that you can plug the accompanying charging cable into. It uses USB charging, so you can plug it into an AC adaptor or a device with a USB port, like a computer. The remote control is battery-powered and cannot be recharged.
Are there any good alternatives to the Lelo Tiani 3?
If you're looking for alternatives to the Lelo Tiani 3, other vibrators that can be worn during sex include the We-Vibe Chorus, the We-Vibe Sync and the Satisfyer Double Fun. Alternatively, you could try the Dame Eva, which is not insertable but instead provides extra clitoral vibrations during sex.

How did the Lelo Tiani 3 get tested and reviewed?

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The only editing we do is uploading and adding additional information such as the product specifications, comparisons to other products, and links to places where you can buy the Lelo Tiani 3.

Author
Rachel Worthington
Rachel Worthington

Site Manager & Senior Writer — I’m a sex expert with a background in psychology and cognitive semiotics, and I’ve a got a passion for sex positivity, diversity and good vibes! As well as managing our growing team of sex toy testers, I’m here to help our readers find honest and helpful information about sex and intimacy, while having a whole lot of fun in the process! ❤️

Age: 25
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: We-Vibe Tango X
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