The 7 Best Sex Toys for Virgins

Why I Chose It

I think the Dame Pom is a perfect vibrator for those new to sex toys. Its soft, beginner-friendly design allows for comfortable use and easy control. The reason I chose the Dame Pom as the best sex toy for virgins is its versatility. The compact size fits comfortably in your palm, allowing you to freely explore your body and massage all your erogenous zones.

According to our tester, Mariah, the Dame Pom “packs quite a punch!” and provides powerful yet gentle vibrations. Another reason why I think this is an excellent vibrator for virgins is its soft and squishy body. Mariah said that “it bends and curves to your body depending on the pressure,” which offers a super comfortable and user-friendly experience.

Personally, I would’ve loved the Pom if I were looking for a simple, satisfying vibrator for external stimulation. It’s got everything you need to explore your body and indulge yourself in some rumbly good time. Its neutral and discreet look is also a huge plus!

Why I Chose It

As a professional sex toy tester, I always recommend being open to different sensations, and in my opinion, trying a high-quality clit sucker is a great way to start! Clit suckers provide a more natural and gentler stimulation than a vibrator, yet for many users, this type of pleasure feels much more intense!

Our tester and sex toy expert, Rachel, absolutely adores this toy, and so do I! She said, “The new Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 hits all of the marks for me and has given me some absolutely spectacular orgasms!” Rachel highlighted the Liquid Air option, which according to her felt like “a soft, fluttering tongue that you can tease your clitoris with or press down for satisfyingly firm pressure. With a generous dollop of lube, the deep, rumbly stimulation is similar to oral sex in many ways and is oh-so pleasurable.”

In my opinion, the Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 is the best clit sucker for virgins. It features 3 different types of stimulation: the traditional Air Technology that feels like gentle kisses of air, the Liquid Air Technology that delivers sensations similar to oral sex, and you can also turn on the good old vibrations! I like its silicone body, which looks more high-end and feels more comfortable to hold. It’s easy to use and clean and has app control, making the experience much more fun, especially for couples!

The only problem is that the suction might get louder on higher settings and has buzzy vibrations. Other than that, it’s a great sex toy for virgins!

Why I Chose It

I see the Gaia Eco Bullet as a great first-time-ever vibrator. It’s small, discreet, easy to use, and super affordable. I can highly recommend it to any beginner looking for more targeted stimulation around the clit, vulva, or nipples. I love its cute look and the fact that it’s made of plant-based bioplastic—a great option if you want to value environment-friendly products that deliver great results!

Our tester, Kiki, was surprised that despite its small size, this little vibe is quite powerful! She said, “This is not the kind of toy that is going to turn you into a pile of jelly or make you see stars, but it gets the job done and pretty dang quickly!”And I think this is exactly what a person new to sex toys needs: something “quick and easy” that will make you excited about self-pleasure!

Kiki also enjoyed exploring all vibration patterns and speeds and said that the toy is quiet and super easy to use. The only thing she didn’t like that much was the slightly buzzy vibrations. However, I think given the super low price of the Gaia Eco Bullet, all is forgiven!

Why I Chose It

The PalmPower Recharge Wand Massager is the classic wand vibrator but in a portable version. It’s also slightly less powerful than classic wands, which I think is the perfect amount of power for virgins. It provides an intense yet not overwhelming sensation that will be perfect for all-over-body exploration.

The Bedbible tester who reviewed this toy, Edie, absolutely loved this toy. She had only positive things to say about this toy, especially about its lightweight design and power: “I tried the wand all over my body, at different speeds, and it just melted! The more rumbly vibration penetrates deeply into your body instead of just buzzing the top layer of skin. Plus, it didn’t make my hand go numb or my private parts.” 

I picked this product because of its simple design, affordable price, and some small details like the bendable neck and silicone neck that I usually go for because they adjust to the body better. Another reason would be the fact that wand vibrators are super versatile; you can use them everywhere on the body, no matter the gender, and they are great for couple’s play!

Why I Chose It

Now it’s time for those looking for the best dildo for virgins! If you’ve never tried an insertable toy before, I think the Tantus Charmer will be a great match. The slimline shaft with a delicate texture will provide a comfortable yet exciting experience. According to our tester and sex expert Isabelle, the ridges “have the slight feel of anal beads, as the shaft is inserted but not as intense, and they add some subtle stimulation while the toy is inside as well.” She also said that the shaft is “firm but flexible,” which helps during insertion, especially during anal play.

Our tester and sex expert Isabelle said that the ridges. It’s made from high-quality silicone, which is body-safe, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean. It also has a suction cup, allowing hands-free play and exploring different positions. So give this classy dildo a chance and enjoy your first G-spot orgasm!

Quality-wise, I really like Tantus dildos; I’ve tested a few, and they are all made with top-quality silicone, so they are definitely worth the prize, as they will last you for a very long time. The only thing that I wish the Charmer had was the suction cup base.

Why I Chose It

I think a finger vibrator is something anyone starting with the journey of self-pleasure should start with. The Dame Fin is designed to fit snugly between your fingers, delivering focused stimulation right where you want it. According to our tester and sex toy expert, Cassie, the Fin is “light and easy to hold in place,” which makes the sexploration experience comfortable and pretty fun! Cassie even said that holding the vibrator felt like an “effortless extension of my hand.”

While it might not pack the most powerful punch, Cassie said that it gets “extremely powerful on the highest setting.” On the other hand, the vibrations are rather buzzy, which is not my personal choice, but I am sure I would still enjoy them, especially during foreplay or a couple’s play.

I love the wearable and discreet design of the Dame Fin, and I am sure that many people will enjoy it as well. The ability to effortlessly explore the whole body or combine the sensation with different sex toys is a great option. That would be my top pick if I were looking for a tiny yet powerful sex toy.

Why I Chose It

The We-Vibe Nova 2 was one of the first insertable vibrators I’ve ever tried, and to this day is my favorite vibrator ever! I got it before I understood the superiority of the poseable shaft, and now I can’t imagine using a rabbit vibrator without it. It hits the right spot every time, and the flexible rabbit ears feel super comfortable on the clit. The vibrations are incredibly rumbly, which provides a deep and satisfying stimulation that no other rabbit in my collection could match. Plus, it’s app-controlled, which allows me to explore different vibration patterns and modes, and I often give my partner control over the toy to spice things up in the bedroom.

My only concern is that the bulbous tip might be too big for someone who has never tried any insertable toy before. Also, in general, dual-stimulating sex toys come with a learning curve; you have to give yourself time to get to know the toy and find the right angles and positions. I had great luck with the Nova 2, but I am aware that everybody is different, so keep that in mind if you are interested in double-blended orgasms!