Tantus Charmer — Test & Review

Isabelle Uren
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Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Tantus Charmer.

Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).


Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.


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Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.


Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.


Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.


Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

My Verdict

I really like the Tantus Charmer as an anal dildo, and think it's well worth the investment. If you are looking for a dildo to use vaginally, bear in mind that, unlike many dildos, the shaft get's narrower towards the base, so you might not get that full feeling with the whole dildo inserted. You can use the tip for some good g-spot stimulation though.

Buy, if you...

  1. enjoy relatively firm dildos
  2. want a dildo for vaginal or anal use
  3. enjoy rippling textures

Don't buy, if you...

  1. want a suction cup dildo
  2. prefer very girthy dildos
  3. are looking for very soft, squishy silicone

About The Tantus Charmer

The Tantus Charmer is lightly curved silicone dildo that features four rolling ridges that are great for g-spot or p-spot stimulation. The flared base means this dildo is anal safe and can be used in a harness for strap-on play!


  • High-quality silicone
  • Pleasure ridges
  • Lightly curved for g-spot or p-spot stimulation
  • Firm but flexible shaft
  • Vaginal and anal safe
  • Harness compatible


  • No suction cup base
  • No storage bag

Reflections on the Tantus Charmer

My Personal Experiences with Tantus Charmer

I was attracted to the lovely shimmering lavendar color of the Charmer and the fact that it was made by Tantus, who are known for their high-quality silicone. I initially bought it for vaginal use but soon figured out I much preferred it for anal use, so it was transferred to my anal toys drawer! I find the firm but flexible silicone and the shape are much better suited to anal play, for me at least! The slightly larger head and slimmer shaft feel great anally, but left me wanting a fuller feeling when using vaginally. The ridges have the slight feel of anal beads, as the shaft is inserted but not as intense, and they add some subtle stimulation while the toy is inside as well. I’ve had the Tantus Charmer for a few years now and still find myself reaching for it on the regs, which is a definite win in my books! The only downside in my books is the lack of a suction cup base.

The Design: A Closer Look

Tantus Charmer The Design: A Closer Look

The Tantus Charmer comes in a beautiful shimmering purple color, called purple haze, which has an almost iridescent finish. The shaft is wider at the top and slightly narrower at the base with four gentle ridges and a slight curve. It's made in Tantus' glossy finish, which makes it lovely and smooth, especially with a slick of water-based lubrication.

User-Friendliness: A Deep Dive into the Tantus Charmer

Tantus Charmer User-Friendliness: A Deep Dive into the Tantus Charmer

The Tantus Charmer is pretty easy to use, although it doesn't have a suction cup base, which would open up a whole more options for positions and hands-free riding. The other thing to bear in mind is that the widest part of the dildo is at the head and not the base, so you are inserting the largest part first.

Analyzing the Quality of the Tantus Charmer

Tantus Charmer Analyzing the Quality of the Tantus Charmer

Tantus are known for making high-quality silicone sex toys using their own 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone formula and the Charmer certainly lives up to their high standards. I've had this dildo for a couple of years and has been boiled many times since I bought it and there are no signs of damage or wear.

Is the Tantus Charmer Worth It?

Tantus Charmer Is the Tantus Charmer Worth It?

I think this is a very reasonable price for a high-quality silicone dildo that is made to last. I was disappointed it didn't come with a storage bag though!

The Tantus Charmer: Does it Deliver on Pleasure?

Tantus Charmer The Tantus Charmer: Does it Deliver on Pleasure?

The ridges on the Tantus Charmer are relatively subtle — they are pronounced enough to that you can feel them without being too intense. I found this most pleasurable when used anally, as I can feel the ridges moving in and out a little more. The silicone is relatively firm with some flexibility but it's definitely on the more firm end of the scale.

Analyzing the Packaging: First Impressions

Tantus Charmer Analyzing the Packaging: First Impressions

Unfortunately, I threw out the packaging when I bought the Tantus Charmer a while ago, but from what I remember, it was very basic and came in clear package, so be sure to open it in private!

The Tantus Charmer’s Material and Care

Tantus Charmer The Tantus Charmer’s Material and Care

As the Tantus Charmer is made from 100% silicone, you can wash it with warm water and mild, unscented soap. You can also boil it to sterilize it. Once clean, dry it thoroughly and store it in a clean bag or box. You should also use a generous slick of water-based lube with the Charmer — it helps the glossy silicone slide smoothly and feels amazing!

Specifications and features

Length7 inches
Insertable length6.5 inches
Diameter1.1 inches

Comparing Tantus Charmer with alternatives

Compare Tantus CharmerTantus Charmer
Overall score4.7 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.7 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0
User rating4.6 / 5.0
from 51 users
4.9 / 5.0
from 40 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 46 users
4.4 / 5.0
from 114 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 89 users
PriceAffordable Moderate Pricey Affordable Pricey
Design90 / 100 95 / 100 95 / 100 98 / 100 100 / 100
Ease of use90 / 100 87 / 100 97 / 100 98 / 100 95 / 100
Quality100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 99 / 100 100 / 100
Length7 inches6 inches7 inches8 inches7.5 inches
Insertable length6.5 inches5 inches6.5 inches7 inches6.5 inches
Diameter1.1 inches1.37 inches1.75 inches1.75 inches-
WaterproofYes Yes Submersible Yes Yes
MaterialsSilicone Ultra-Premium Silicone Ultra-Premium Silicone Silicone Platinum grade silicone
Flexibility-Flexible Flexible Flexible -
Storage Bag Included-No No No No
Colors Available-Purple Rose Quartz, Twilight --
Texture---Ribbed -
Width----1.6 inches
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Tantus Charmer vs. Tantus Curve

The Tantus Charmer and the Tantus Curve are both top-notch dildos that offer unique experiences. The Charmer, with an overall score of 4.7/5.0 and a Bedbible rating of 4.7/5.0, impresses with its ridged shaft and a design score of 90/100. It has a 6.5-inch insertable length and a diameter of 1.1 inches, perfect for beginners or those who prefer a more gentle approach. On the other hand, the Tantus Curve, outdoing the Charmer with an overall score of 4.8/5.0 and the same Bedbible rating, boasts a slightly shorter insertable length of 5 inches but a wider diameter of 1.37 inches, catering to those seeking a fuller sensation. Both made of high-quality silicone, the Curve steps up the game with a more realistic texture and a curved shaft designed for targeted G-spot or P-spot stimulation. The Tantus Curve is also much more flexible and soft, whereas the Tantus Charmer is more rigid.

Tantus Charmer vs. Maia Kendall Dildo

Comparing the Tantus Charmer to the Maia Kendall Dildo reveals two distinct approaches to pleasure. The Charmer, with its smaller size and ridged silicone design, offers a comfortable introduction to insertable toys with its beginner-friendly dimensions (6.5 inches insertable length, 1.1 inches diameter). The Maia Kendall, on the other hand, boasts a perfect Bedbible rating of 5.0/5.0 and an equally impressive design score of 98/100. It’s notably larger, with an 8-inch length (7 inches insertable) and a wider 1.75-inch diameter, featuring a ribbed texture across the whole shaft for added stimulation. The Kendall emerges as a strong contender for those seeking a more budget-friendly alternative, however, the quality of Tantus dildos is much better and more durable.

Tantus Charmer vs. Vixen Creations VixSkin Mustang

The Charmer, with its respectable ratings and ridged design, is well-suited for beginners and those who favor a slimmer profile. The Mustang, however, takes the lead with top scores (4.8/5.0 overall, 5.0/5.0 Bedbible) and a perfect design rating of 100/100. It offers a slightly longer insertable length (6.5 inches) and a comparable diameter but stands out with its platinum-grade silicone material and the dual-density feature that feels incredibly life-like. The Mustang is an ideal choice for those who are looking for a natural experience and value high-quality products and unique designs. Whereas, the Tantus Charmer is much more suitable for those looking for a small and textured dildo.

Tantus Charmer vs. Tantus Cush

In comparing the Tantus Charmer to the Tantus Cush, we see two high-quality options suited to different preferences. The Charmer, with a 6.5-inch insertable length and a 1.1-inch diameter, is ideal for beginners due to its slender size and ridged texture. It scores well with an overall 4.7/5.0 and a design rating of 90/100. The Cush, on the other hand, offers a 6.5-inch insertable length and 1.75-inch diameter. It matches the Charmer in overall score but exceeds in design and ease of use, making it a premium choice for those who prefer a fuller size without the ridges. Both are excellent, but the Cush caters to a slightly different, more experienced audience.


What is the Tantus Charmer made of?
The Tantus Charmer is made using Tantus' Ultra-Premium Silicone. It is non-toxic and non-porous, making it a great material!
What lube can I use with the Tantus Charmer?
As the Tantus Charmer is made from silicone, you should only use water-based lubrication.
Does the Tantus Charmer have a suction cup base?
No, the Charmer does not have a suction cup base.

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Isabelle Uren
Isabelle Uren

Site Manager | Aiming to empower people to embrace sexual pleasure one sex toy at a time or two, whatever takes your fancy! As well researching and writing about all things sex, I have studied Tantra and am currently studying towards becoming a psychosexual therapist. My life philosophy is the three Ms approach — meditation, masturbation, and mmm a good cup of tea!

Age: 32
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: Doxy Die Cast
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