The 8 Best Small Strap Ons for Petite Penetration

Oli Ochoa
by Oli Ochoa
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FAQ

Is Using a Small Strap-On Safe?
Strap-ons are perfectly safe, but they require care and preparation. Take things slowly, properly clean the anus if you are planning to be pegged, and never use a toy from anal to vaginal use without properly cleaning before the swap. Select a size that is appropriate to your experience level.
How Do I Graduate to Bigger Strap-Ons?
By being patient and moving from progressively larger sizes. While both the vagina and anus are capable of stretching to several times their size, doing so too quickly can cause damage or discomfort. A training set can give you different sizes to experiment with.
How To I Choose the Right Strap-On?
Beginner strap-ons with a versatile or swappable o-ring are the perfect way to find the right strap-on for you. They allow for graduating sizes and adjustments to increase your pleasure. Take special note of features, like vibration, waterproof level, and included dildoes.
What Kind of Lubricant Should I Buy?
Lubricants should always be water-based, as this protects the integrity of your toy. Look for long-lasting lubes, so they don't wear off with friction. Avoid anything flavored, as they can contain sugars, which feed bacteria and may damage silicone.
How Do I Suggest Strap-Ons to My Partner?
Open communication is critical when discussing any sexual acts with your partner. Be direct, letting them know you have been fantasizing about using strap-ons. Be prepared to drop it if they refuse or show little interest. Let them know what about it turns them on and how you would feel participating in the act with them.

What is a Small Strap-On?

A small strap-on is a wearable penetrative toy that is slimmer or shorter and more comfortable for beginners or those who are more sensitive to sexual acts. They come in many varieties, including vibrating, double penetration, strapped, and strapless. Many are versatile to allow for bigger dildoes to be added later on.

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The 8 Best small strap ons in Test

1 Testwinner

Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit

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Tantus is a name synonymous with quality on the sex toy market, and they have maintained that reputation here. The Tantus Bend Over Harness and Dildo Kit is the perfect beginner’s unisex set for easing you and your partner into mutually pleasurable penetration. Whether you are a same-sex couple looking to add a new element to your intimacy or delving into pegging for the first time, strap-ons can be intimidating. This set takes the nerves out of the process, offering petite dildos with a versatile o-ring for later upgrades.

Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit test
Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit features
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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Tantus Bend Over if you...
Want an easy to use beginner's harness.
Are looking for wearer-vibration.
Need discretion.
You should NOT buy the Tantus Bend Over if you...
Enjoy intense vibrations.
Want a vibrating dildo.
Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit features
Features
Harness Size17 - 60 inches
Length4.5, 5.25 inches
Diameter0.79, 1.14 inches
Vibration speedsSingle Speed 
WaterproofSplashproof 
Pros
Comfortable
Adjustable sizing
Vibration for wearer
Perfect dildo for beginners
Cons
Vibration could be stronger
Dildo doesn't vibrate
Not waterproof
Not rechargeable
Conclusion

While the features on this harness might not be as advanced as you would hope, it is a solid beginner’s kit. The included dildos are perfect for anyone who doesn’t want to jump in with a large size. The harness itself vibrates to provide pleasure to the wearer without adding additional toys. The o-ring can be used to level up to a larger dildo if you choose. Best of all, the adjustable waist is good for users from dress sizes 4  to 30, making it a versatile option regardless of body type. While it is a little pricey, it isn’t nearly as expensive as more advanced models and is great if you aren’t ready to commit.

2 Cheapest

Strap U Pegged Pegging Dildo with Harness

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Are you curious about pegging but don’t know if it will be for you or your partner? You will love the Strap U Pegged harness. Featuring a super simple design, it has no frills. But it is an affordable option to start testing the waters, including an ultra-basic adjustable strap with a versatile o-ring, and the perfect beginner’s dildo. Not only is it slim and short enough for those who haven’t done any significant anal training, but it has a curved upward tilt that will target the prostate to ramp up the pleasure from the first thrust.

Strap U Pegged Pegging Dildo with Harness test
Strap U Pegged Pegging Dildo with Harness features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Strap U Pegged if you...
Want a super simple starter strap-on.
Don't want to spend much money.
Are looking for a super petite dildo.
Will be pegging your partner.
You should NOT buy the Strap U Pegged if you...
Are looking for a same-sex strap-on.
Want a solid harness with many features.
Strap U Pegged Pegging Dildo with Harness features
Features
Harness Size44 inches
Length5 inches
Diameter.31 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
Pros
Slim dildo
Great for p-spot stimulation
Easy to use harness
Small pocket for bullet vibe
Cons
Very basic
Limited size adjustment
Leg straps not suited for thick thighs
Conclusion

Though not as comfortable as some harnesses, this is a great beginner’s kit for anyone looking to make pegging a part of their bedroom play. Adjustable up to 44 inches, thicker hips and thighs need not apply. But for those who fit the dimensions, it will help you get into the flow of things without breaking the bank. The pocket holds a bullet vibe that provides pleasure for the one wearing it, so you can get off together. As for the dildo itself, it is slim and comfortable for newcomers to the anal game and curves up to make sure the p-spot gets plenty of love.

3 Beginner

Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Kit

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You may have heard of this particular harness kit, as the Sportsheets New Comers set has become very popular with the pegging community. If you haven’t, allow us to introduce you to one of the best first-timer pegging tools on the market. The harness itself isn’t much to write home about, but its ease of use makes it a great choice; just step in, pull up, and tighten the straps with a tug. The dildo itself is a nice thickness, and the soft silicone material makes initial penetration easier and more comfortable than many others. The wider flared base keeps it in place, which eliminates a lot of awkwardness from inexperienced topping. Placing the front a little higher at the crotch even compensates for greater height differences between partners.

Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Kit test
Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Kit features
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You should buy the Sportsheets New Comers if you...
Need a larger size harness.
Want a flexible, soft dildo.
Don't want to fiddle with straps.
You should NOT buy the Sportsheets New Comers if you...
Plan to graduate to much thicker dildos.
Want a vibrating harness.
Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Kit features
Features
Harness Size60 inches
Length5 inches
Diameter.75 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
Pros
Good placement for thrusting
Wider flare keeps dildo in place
Soft silicone is comfortable
Cons
Material of harness could be better
No vibration for wearer
Conclusion

If the wearer wants to get off with the bottom, they will have to add an additional toy, which is a bummer. But otherwise, this is a great starter harness that makes thrusting for a first-time pegger easier than those that lay lower on the hips. The dildo is tilted just right with a smooth, rounded head for gentle p-spot stimulation. But it isn’t so curved to make it uncomfortable for unisex use, and it would also give plenty of opportunities for women to have their g-spot stroked.

4 Strapless

Wet For Her Four More Double Ended Dildo

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Looking for a truly unique product that will bring you and your partner to your knees? Look no further than the Wet For Her Four More Double Ended Dildo. Unlike most strap-ons, this one foregoes the strap altogether. Instead, it offers an inserted stem that keeps it in place. A bulge at the front provides vibration for the wearer while giving a textured dildo for an ultra-sexy time. No need for adjustments or worrying about buckling or tightening.

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Wet For Her Four More Double Ended Dildo features
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Want a unique alternative to strap-ons.
Are looking for dual-pleasure with partner.
Don't like harnesses.
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Are just starting out with strap-ons.
Have limited movement.
Don't want a learning curve.
Wet For Her Four More Double Ended Dildo features
Features
Length4.7 inches
Diameter1.38 inches
Vibration speeds5  
Pros
Intense vibrations
No harness
Dual-pleasure
Rechargeable
Cons
Takes getting used to
Not great for beginners
Harder for pegging
Conclusion

This is a better toy for same-sex couples looking for some penetrative playtime, but it is possible to peg your partner with it. It will take a bit of practice, and most users report a steep learning curve. But once you get the hang of it, it makes a fantastic toy for exploring your sexual tastes. The unique double stem of the dildo isn’t too thick but offers more texture. The insertable dildo for the wearer and clitoral stimulation mean you can enjoy yourself and reach the end together. This is a great introduction to strapless strap-ons.

5 Double Penetration

Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit

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Panty strap-ons are becoming all the rage. More comfortable than many of their counterparts, they offer an alternative that works as a great introduction that is unisex. The Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration kit reduces the adjustment period, which is fantastic for beginners and advanced users. The dildos are a little on the small side, which is great given the promise in this article of petite penetration. But if you are looking to graduate to thicker toys later on, it limits your options a bit.

Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit test
Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit features
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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
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You should buy the Lovehoney Double Up if you...
Don't like strap harnesses.
Want to experience double penetration.
Find traditional strap-ons restrictive.
You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Double Up if you...
Want a thicker dildo.
Need a size over 14 US.
Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit features
Features
Harness SizeOne Size inches
Length5 inches
Diameter.95 inches
Vibration speeds2 
Vibration patterns5 
WaterproofSplashproof 
Pros
Powerful vibrations
Comfortable
Double penetration
Cons
Sizing only goes to 14 US
Not rechargeable
Limits dildo size
Conclusion

This panty-style strap-on can be slipped right on without a complicated harness. That makes it perfect for anyone who is just getting into the kink and offers veterans of pegging or strap-ons what they need to enjoy themselves. The sizes, both in the waist and the dildo itself, might leave something to be desired. But it is still a solid alternative and will leave you both very happy. Just consider going a size up, as it runs small.

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Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit

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Tracey Cox is a trusted name in kink wear, and they have done it again with this Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit. It is made with anal training in mind, offering one smaller, smooth dildo for first-time use and a second, larger dildo that has plenty of texture to tickle the senses. Unlike many competing strap-ons, it comes with both speed and patterns to play with to enhance your experience. While technically made for anal, it is unisex, and the tilted end works for both prostate and g-spot stimulation. It is even completely waterproof, which is uncommon in vibrating strap-ons.

Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit test
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit features
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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
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What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Tracey Cox Supersex if you...
Want hardcore strap-on with entry level use.
Like lots of vibration.
Prefer some variation with dildos.
You should NOT buy the Tracey Cox Supersex if you...
Can't handle a bit of length.
Are looking for rechargeable options.
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit features
Features
Harness Size65 inches
Length4.5, 6 inches
Diameter.87, 1.51 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
Vibration patterns7 
Pros
Strong vibes
Different sizes
Wider base for more control
Fully waterproof
Cons
Intimidating size for first timers
Not rechargeable
Conclusion

If you have already played around with anal, you are going to love this strap-on. The textured, 6 inch dildo really hits the spot, and for those who aren’t experienced, the 4 inch, smooth dildo makes for a great introduction to penetration. While a pegging-specific toy, they made it useable for vaginal use. The vibrations are intense enough to get you to a satisfying climax, and your partner will love the control the wider base gives over your thrusts.

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Lovehoney Beginner's Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit

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Beginner’s can get a lot from this Unisex Strap-On from Lovehoney. Easy to use and adjust, you can slip it on quickly, and it holds adjustments without slipping. The straps themselves are a little uncomfortable, with the material being stiff and rough. But as it is machine-washable, it will soften over time. A pocket for a bullet vibrator (not included) and three swappable o-rings make it more versatile than many. Buying this harness is an investment towards graduating to thicker toys, without the price making it prohibitive for those who are just experimenting.

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Lovehoney Beginner's Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Lovehoney Strap-On Kit if you...
Aren't concerned with comfort.
Want an especially slim dildo.
Plan on playing with dildo sizes.
You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Strap-On Kit if you...
Will be wearing long-term.
Lovehoney Beginner's Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit features
Features
Harness Size68 inches
Length5 inches
Diameter.95 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
Pros
Easy to use
Swappable o-rings
Pocket for bullet vibe
Cons
Uncomfortable material
Sizing varies with body shape
Conclusion

Many harnesses aimed more toward curious users are limited in their use. This one is fantastic because it gives you room for growth…literally. You can change the o-ring to include dildos as thick as you like, a perfect feature for unisex use. The included dildo is very slim and tilted just right for p-spot and g-spot use, with flexible and soft silicone that makes it better for beginners that haven’t gotten used to the feel of penetration.

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Fetish Fantasy Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On

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Sometimes you want to look sexy, and the functionality isn’t so important. This harness by Fetish Fantasy gives you great aesthetics but leaves something to be desired in the actual use. The material is soft and satin-like, in a rich purple that looks fantastic. While it offers three different o-rings to change dildos based on diameter, they are slightly flimsy. But the vibrations are fantastic, thanks to the thinner fabric of the harness itself, and a suction cup on the dildo will give you more stability.  The dildos themselves are made of a soft jelly silicone that provides a softer introduction to anal play.

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Fetish Fantasy Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On features
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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
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You should buy the Fetish Fantasy Strap-On if you...
Are focused on aesthetics.
Like soft material against the skin.
Are looking for more vibration.
You should NOT buy the Fetish Fantasy Strap-On if you...
Want a long-term harness.
Prefer firm dildos.
Like o-ring versatility.
Fetish Fantasy Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On features
Features
Harness Size32 inches
Length5.5 inches
Diameter1.27 inches
WaterproofNo 
Vibration modesSpeeds 
Pros
Soft fabric
Intense vibrations for wearer
Gentle penetration
Three o-rings
Looks great
Cons
Lower quality material
Reduced thrust
Not waterproof at all
Conclusion

When you want to show off your assets while giving you some light pegging fun, this is the perfect harness. The panty-style design has a thong for extra visual appeal, and the swappable o-rings let you play with sizes and lend themselves well to anal training. It is a unisex harness, though it won’t allow for strong thrusts because of its design. You can experiment and look good doing it but will want to graduate to a more traditional harness if you plan to move beyond the curious stage.

Make Any Dildo Comfortable

One of the most common complaints people have when using a strap-on is that there is no way to control the depth. For more advanced users, this isn’t a problem. For beginners or anyone who is more sensitive, it becomes prohibitive. Luckily, there is a solution.

Anal Essentials

Anal preparation is very important due to hygiene concerns. It is the part of the process no one likes talking about, but we all know is necessary. Whether it is cleaning yourself out, or adding enough slickness to avoid damage to the rectum, having the right tool will take a lot of the stress out of getting ready for backdoor play.

Position Ideas for Strap-On Beginners

Half of being successful with a strap-on is knowing the right positions to make it easier. When there is a size difference between partners, this is especially crucial. While there is no single way to engage in these sex acts, playing around with some basic positions will give you the foundation you need for more creative moves later on.

Missionary

The gold standard, missionary is the easiest sex position for most couples using strap-ons. It is also an intimate one, giving you face to face interaction. When pegging, it might require the bottom to put up their legs, but otherwise the usual method is fine. Use a pillow under the hips to account for height differences.

Spooning

Another easy position, spooning is when one partner lays on their side with the one receiving scooted back against their crotch. It can also be done facing one another, but this adds a new layer of difficulty and may require a longer dildo.

Doggy

Both kinky and simple, doggy style gives you direct access to both anal and vaginal penetration with few adjustments needed. The bottom partner can bend deeper as needed, and the one wearing the strap-on can use a pillow under the knees to raise them higher.

Seated

A favorite for lesbian couples, this is another very intimate way to engage in penetration. Turn to face one another with the legs intertwined the one partner pushed up into the others’ lap.

Cowboy

Cowgirl is a popular position, but have you heard about cowboy? This is when the man is on top, seated on top of the strap-on for anal penetration. It is fantastic for newcomers to pegging as it gives the bottom more control over speed and depth.

How To Use a Small Strap-On For Pegging

A small strap-on is easier for beginners because it is more petite and comfortable when being penetrated. But how do you get started, especially if you have never used one before?

How To Use  a Small Strap-On For Pegging

Clean Properly

Clean Properly

The first step is always to prepare the anal passage for pegging. A gentle anal douche, such as the one recommended above, will ensure you are avoiding common hygiene problems that come with anal play.

Select the Right Lube

How To Use  a Small Strap-On For Pegging

Lubricant is critical for any pegging play. Without it, too much friction can cause small tears or agitation, and limit your pleasure. You want a water-based lubricant that is long-lasting and provides plenty of slickness. Avoid anything flavored.

How To Use  a Small Strap-On For Pegging
How To Use  a Small Strap-On For Pegging

Find the Right Strap-On

Find the Right Strap-On

Selecting the right strap-on will impact the quality of your pleasure. Anything too large without anal training can sour the experience. Take note of the tip as well, as a tilted head will rub against the prostate and improve results.

Start Slow

How To Use  a Small Strap-On For Pegging

Remember that you can always build up to more intense activity later. The trick to good anal is to take your time, starting slow and finding what you like before you test your limits. Make sure your partner is prepared to check in regularly in the beginning and don’t be afraid to speak up if you aren’t digging it.

How To Use  a Small Strap-On For Pegging
How To Use  a Small Strap-On For Pegging

Don't Neglect the Genitals

Don't Neglect the Genitals

While it is possible to have an orgasm through prostate manipulation alone, avoiding the genitals makes it harder to reach the peaks of your pleasure. Whether your partner is reaching around to stroke your penis, you are doing it yourself, or you are using a toy, get stroking!

How To Clean Your Small Strap-On

Cleaning your toys is a must, especially with toys being used in anal activity. Purchase an anti-bacterial, water-based cleaner that is highly rated and easy to use. You can also use soap and water, though it is usually considered less effective when used alone. Avoid anything with alcohol, which can dry out your toy and lead to cracks that hold bacteria.

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
materials

Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.