7 Best Prostate Massagers

Kasia Halinowska
by Kasia HalinowskaUpdated:

With the help of a large team of testers here at Bedbible, I’ve ranked the best prostate massagers we’ve ever tested. We’ve spent the last couple of years testing, reviewing, and comparing—this ranking is the culmination of that work. I made sure to include options for every scenario possible; therefore, on my list, you will find the best manual prostate massagers and P-spot vibrators, including rotating or app-controlled ones!

Test Winner

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Tim Vecere

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 71 user reviews

Best for Beginners

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Moe Lawn

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on user reviews

Budget-Friendly

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Jesse Roberts

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 123 user reviews

Expert Pick

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.3/5

Based on 31 user reviews

Most Powerful

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Robby Stiles

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 207 user reviews

Best Rotating

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Moe Lawn

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 30 user reviews

Best for Manual Massage

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 284 user reviews

Lovense Edge 2Aneros Helix TridentMantric P-Spot Probe VibratorLelo Loki Wave 2We-Vibe Vector+Nexus Revo StealthnJoy Pure Wand
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Pros & Cons
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Pros & Cons
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Pros & Cons
  • App compatible
  • Strong vibrations
  • Long distance feature
  • Top quality materials
  • Flexible shaft
  • Expensive
  • Can be too much for beginners
  • Might slip out in some positions
  • A great beginner toy
  • Ergonomic shape for manual stimulation
  • Wearable
  • Firm stimulation with the hard ABS plastic
  • The two tabs on the base can cause irritation after a while
  • Reaching prostate pleasure with this product can take some practice
  • Wide array of vibration modes to choose from
  • Sleek and neutral design
  • 100% waterproof
  • Does not provide super targeted prostate massage
  • Not wearable
  • No perineum stimulation
  • Sleek design and high-end feel
  • Satisfying size of the shaft
  • Powerful vibrations
  • The "come-hither" motion feels natural and unique
  • Strong dual stimulation
  • Loud
  • Vibrations get buzzy on higher settings
  • The smaller head could be more flexible
  • Can't be used hands-free
  • Easy to use app
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Beginner-friendly size
  • Wearable and comfortable
  • Pricey
  • Might be too small for more advanced users
  • Intense prostate stimulation
  • Vibration and rotation can be turned on and off independently
  • Charge lasts a long time
  • Great for foreplay
  • Magnetic charger is not super strong
  • Heavy base will cause the toy to slip out in most positions and can't be sat upon
  • Not great for versitile sex positions
  • The weight of metal adds more pressure on the P-spot
  • Firm and filling sensation
  • Versatile use
  • Works well with any kind of lube
  • Can be a bit pricey
  • Can get slippery when using lube

How We Test prostate massagers

We’re a team of 340 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best prostate massagers, our testers tried and reviewed 139 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre prostate massagers didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1255 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
How We Tested These Prostate Massagers

Test Winner Lovense Edge 2 Prostate vibrator

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Tim Vecere

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 71 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Edge 2 Prostate vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the prostate massager.

70/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Edge 2 Prostate vibrator was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Edge 2 Prostate vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Curved shaft can be adjusted
  • Base has a perineum vibrator
  • Connect with the Lovense app (custom vibrations patterns, music sync, and long-distance features control)

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Edge 2 Prostate vibrator was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Edge 2 Prostate vibrator felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovense Edge 2 Prostate vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Edge 2 Prostate vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • App compatible
  • Strong vibrations
  • Long distance feature
  • Top quality materials
  • Flexible shaft

Cons

  • Expensive
  • Can be too much for beginners
  • Might slip out in some positions

Why I Chose It

Tim tested the Lovense Edge 2 for us and had nothing but good things to say about it, saying it is “a must have in your toy collection” further expanding that it “shot straight into my mine and my partner’s top 3 toys to play with.”.

He was beyond impressed with the app-controlled features and the long-distance options.

Both he and his partner had a blast exploring everything it had to offer.

Just like Tim, I’m a big fan of this prostate massager. Having personally tested the Lovense app, it’s a great addition to add a whole new world of options during play (long distance control, custom vibrations, and much more).

As an expert, one thing that is critically important in almost all porstate massagers, is that they have an adjustable neck. The Lovense Edge has that, and it will always be a win in my book.

I think it might take a while for complete beginners to prostate massagers to get used to it. In my experience a bit of practice makes it worth it!

Best for Beginners Aneros Helix Trident

4.5/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Moe Lawn

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Aneros Helix Trident was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the prostate massager.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Aneros Helix Trident was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

95/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Aneros Helix Trident was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Manual prostate massager
  • Small beginner-friendly size with a slightly tapered tip
  • “Hooked” base allows you to rock the massager back and forth by flexing your pelvic floor muscles

Specifications

Pros

  • A great beginner toy
  • Ergonomic shape for manual stimulation
  • Wearable
  • Firm stimulation with the hard ABS plastic

Cons

  • The two tabs on the base can cause irritation after a while
  • Reaching prostate pleasure with this product can take some practice

Why I Chose It

Our tester, Moe Lawn, has at this point tested well over +20 different prostate massagers, and a TON of Aneros products among those.

The reason I chose this as the best for beginners is because it was Moe’s first, and “continues, to this day, to be a great one” for him.

As a sex toy expert, I know that finding a good beginner toy is about two things: Buying something that is ‘easy’ to start using, but also that it works for you even as you continue your journey.

According to Moe, The Helix Trident is a perfect match for beginners as it “from the beginning [was] inserted easily, was very comfortable, and keeps me coming back for more.”.

What really settled it for me is that he continues to be a fan of this entry-level prostate massager despite having explored many other Aneros products since then.

As the Helix Trident is manual he does note that it can take a bit of time to learn how to use your pelvic floor muscles to create motion and stimulation. When you’re got the technique down, it’s apparently very much worth it! And, the reason it works out as a great long-term toy for anyone starting here.

In short it’s a simple prostate massager that won’t overwhelm you as you begin your journey towards prostate pleasure. It’s a great size for beginners but also a great shape for delivering impressive sensations to even seasoned prostate players!

The small bulbous head puts just enough pressure on the prostate while the slim neck makes it super comfortable to leave in for a while.

Budget-Friendly Mantric P-Spot Probe Vibrator

4.5/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Jesse Roberts

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 123 user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Mantric P-Spot Probe Vibrator was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the prostate massager.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Mantric P-Spot Probe Vibrator was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Mantric P-Spot Probe Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Handheld prostate massage with handle
  • LED panel on the handle show the vibration settings
  • The flared base in the middle features a nubby texture

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Mantric P-Spot Probe Vibrator was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Mantric P-Spot Probe Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Mantric P-Spot Probe Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Mantric P-Spot Probe Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Wide array of vibration modes to choose from
  • Sleek and neutral design
  • 100% waterproof

Cons

  • Does not provide super targeted prostate massage
  • Not wearable
  • No perineum stimulation

Why I Chose It

To preface this choise, I’ve primarily chosen hands-free prostate massagers for this list.

But, if you really want to get a great budget-friendly option , then this manual one will save you quite a bit (no need for remotes or special complicated designs that run up the price).

We had Jesse test the Mantric, and the amount of power he reported it had, made it the undeniably strongest manual prostate massager of all the ones we’ve tested at Bedbible.

He enjoyed the many vibrations settings this little device had to offer.

Personally I think it’s a pretty genious design on paper to show the vibration mode with colours, as it’s easy to remember your favorite mode by it’s color as Jesse did with “turquoise is my favourite”. But, a downside of that (is of course with any) that he “would have to remove the toy to” see the colour.

He did mention that it didn’t quite hit the spot (yes, literally!). Compared to other prostate toys he has used before, the shape of the Mantric P-Spot Probe didn’t seem to target the prostate as intensely.

The reason of this, is that it’s not angled enought to really target the p-spot – but you can manually do so. I actually think it’s a good idea that it isn’t angled, as you would otherwise have a problem relieving the pressure. And, because of the rather large size, insertion would also be harder.

Overall Jesse “thoroughly enjoyed the Mantric P-spot Vibrator, multiple times!”, and thinks “It’s a brilliant sex toy” with “a great variety of vibration settings.”.

Expert Pick Lelo Loki Wave 2

4.5/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.3/5

Based on 31 user reviews

98/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lelo Loki Wave 2 was rated 98 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the prostate massager.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lelo Loki Wave 2 was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lelo Loki Wave 2 was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Rabbit-style vibrating prostate massager
  • Features a large, bulbous shaft with a tapered tip and a smaller external arm to stimulate the perineum
  • The WaveMotion technology/ “come-hither” motion provides a more natural finger-like sensation

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lelo Loki Wave 2 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is noisy.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lelo Loki Wave 2 felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Lelo Loki Wave 2 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lelo Loki Wave 2 felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Sleek design and high-end feel
  • Satisfying size of the shaft
  • Powerful vibrations
  • The "come-hither" motion feels natural and unique
  • Strong dual stimulation

Cons

  • Loud
  • Vibrations get buzzy on higher settings
  • The smaller head could be more flexible
  • Can't be used hands-free

Why I Chose It

I picked the Lelo Loki Wave 2 as a sex expert pick because I think this is a unique and powerful prostate toy that many users will deeply enjoy! I was really interested in what innovative wave technology feels like, so I got one for my partner, who was really pleased with it! The “come-hither” motion stimulates the prostate in a completely different way than any other prostate vibrators he’s ever tried. Also, the shaft shape is quite bulbous and nicely tapered at the tip, which provides a nice filling sensation that feels satisfying but comfortable, even for less advanced users. Its vibrations are powerful, and even the external arm delivers a nice buzz, so quality-wise, I rate it 10/10.  

Even though my partner enjoyed his experience with this powerful prostate massager, I have some notes. Firstly, the Lelo Loki Wave 2 isn’t the easiest for solo play, and hands-free play would be very hard to achieve. All the control buttons are placed on the handle, which might be hard to reach in certain positions, so it’s much better to use with a partner. I wish a remote or app control was added to this toy; it would make it much more accessible and easier to use.

Most Powerful We-Vibe Vector+

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Robby Stiles

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 207 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: We-Vibe Vector+ was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the prostate massager.

97/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: We-Vibe Vector+ was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: We-Vibe Vector+ was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • App-compatible prostate massager (controls customized vibration patterns + long-distance features)
  • Dual motors designs ensures powerful vibrations both internal and external
  • Tapered tip and slim neck makes the We-Vibe Vector+ beginner-friendly
  • Rigid silicone build
  • Adjustable neck/head and the flexible base

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: We-Vibe Vector+ was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of We-Vibe Vector+ felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: We-Vibe Vector+ was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is extremely powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of We-Vibe Vector+ felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Easy to use app
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Beginner-friendly size
  • Wearable and comfortable

Cons

  • Pricey
  • Might be too small for more advanced users

Why I Chose It

Robby had a great experience testing out the We-Vibe Vector+ for us, having tested other prostate massagers as well.

His concluding remarks says it all, I beleive: “I love this toy and I highly recommend it to anyone who is looking for a prostate vibrator that is high tech, comfortable, extremely portable, and well designed.”

He pointed out that being able to adjust the neck allowed him to find the perfect positions.

The overall design of it also just made it breeze to insert while still putting the perfect amount of pressure of the prostate and perineum.

He was also really stunned with the We-Vibe app, saying: “I am a complete slut for the We-Vibe app and it’s innumerous personal settings each user can cater to themselves with.”.

As an expert I will add here that we’ve had testers in the past experience technical difficulties with the app. However, recently those bugs have been fixed. Generally speaking, the Lovense app seems to be better if you really value using the app-features.

I wanted to include this on the list as  I’m really impressed by the sensations it delivers and the raw level of power in the vibrations!

One thing I also want to highlight is the slightly lifted perinium base that flats out at the end, this adds to the pressure on the prostate by using a flatter/wider pressure on the perinium. This means two things, a higher pressure, and less irritation about the pressure on the perinium.

Another thing that enhanced the feeling of how powerful the vibrations are.

It is simply the strongest vibrations out of all the products on this list.

The deep vibrations from the Vector+ just provide a whole other sensation to your prostate stimulation than manual massage or rotations do. It’s a massive upgrade from the old Vector that we’ve also tested.

Best Rotating Nexus Revo Stealth Prostate Massager

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Moe Lawn

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 30 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Nexus Revo Stealth Prostate Massager was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the prostate massager.

70/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Nexus Revo Stealth Prostate Massager was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Nexus Revo Stealth Prostate Massager was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Rotating shaft for intense prostate massage
  • 2 speeds of rotation and 2 possible rotation directions
  • Thick vibrating base provides some textured stimulation to the perineum
  • Wearable design for hands-free fun
  • Slim yet satisfying shape for targeted P-spot massage

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Nexus Revo Stealth Prostate Massager was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Nexus Revo Stealth Prostate Massager felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Nexus Revo Stealth Prostate Massager was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Nexus Revo Stealth Prostate Massager felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Intense prostate stimulation
  • Vibration and rotation can be turned on and off independently
  • Charge lasts a long time
  • Great for foreplay

Cons

  • Magnetic charger is not super strong
  • Heavy base will cause the toy to slip out in most positions and can't be sat upon
  • Not great for versitile sex positions

Why I Chose It

As I’ve already disclosed, Moe, who tested the Nexo Revo Stealth, is our utmost expert on prostate massagers. And, when he says that the Stealth is the “automatic prostate stimulator to buy if you only want to buy one” I trust that statement, a lot!

So, why isn’t it the test winner? Well, because those automatic movements (rotations, thrusting, or come-hither) cater to very specific needs.

As Moe says, automatic movements is typically for those that don’t want “to do the work yourself”. But, he also does admit that trying the rotational movement of the Stealth slightly changed his mind about it.

He does admit that he’s “enjoy pleasure I’ve not felt from a mechanical prostate massager”. So, albeit the handheld, manual or hands-free options is what most goes for. The automatic prostate massagers is nothing to sneeze at!

And, the Nexus Revo Stealth is best in class!

Best for Manual Massage nJoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 284 user reviews

96/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: nJoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 96 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the prostate massager.

98/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: nJoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 98 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

98/100
QualityQuality

Rating: nJoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 98 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Very curved metal dildo 
  • Weighted, rigid material, very firm manual massage
  • Double-ended design for different sizes and angles
  • Stainless steel is temperature responsive (temperature play)

Specifications

Pros

  • The weight of metal adds more pressure on the P-spot
  • Firm and filling sensation
  • Versatile use
  • Works well with any kind of lube

Cons

  • Can be a bit pricey
  • Can get slippery when using lube

Why I Chose It

Isabelle tested the nJoy Pure Wand and wrote her review based on using it vaginally for G-spot stimulation.

Although a lot of the same feedback is also relevant for P-spot owners!

She really loved how intense the massage is with the metal dildo. It has completely changed the way she views G-spot stimulation and manual massage of that internal sweet spot.

Isabelle found that due to the “weight distribution and curve” it doesn’t require “all of the hard work” to get that “deep stimulation exactly where you want it”.

What is so great is that you “only have to apply minimal pressure to get some incredibly intense sensations.”. 

In fact in my expert opinion, this is by far the prostate massager you can get the highest pressure on the P-spot from. Even with limited effort.

Another great aspect is the curved design that “really opens up the range of movements you can make as well” especially those “come hither motion that so many […] p-spots love!”.

As a sex toy review site, we’ve seen SO many people rave about the nJoy pure wand, but I will say that beginners should thread carefully before applying a lot of pressure. Using hard materials like steel or glass you’re generally better off going slow and easy at first!

This is likely better for someone who enjoys manual massage instead of vibrations or rotations!

Comparison

BestTest Winner Best for Beginners Budget-Friendly Expert Pick Most Powerful Best Rotating Best for Manual Massage
Overall score4.8 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0
Bedbible rating5.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0
User rating4.6 / 5.0
from 71 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 6 users
4.4 / 5.0
from 123 users
4.3 / 5.0
from 31 users
4.6 / 5.0
from 207 users
4.6 / 5.0
from 30 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 284 users
PricePremium Moderate Moderate Premium Pricey Pricey Pricey
Design100 / 100 100 / 100 85 / 100 98 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 96 / 100
Ease of use70 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 95 / 100 97 / 100 70 / 100 98 / 100
Quality90 / 100 95 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 98 / 100
Sound20 / 100 -40 / 100 80 / 100 40 / 100 60 / 100 -
Power80 / 100 -80 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100 60 / 100 -
Buzzy/Rumblysomewhat rumbly -somewhat rumbly somewhat rumbly very rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly -
Vibration modes4 (more in-app) -4 12 ---
Vibration speeds3 (more in-app) -3 -4 3 Vibration Speeds, 2 Rotation Speeds -
RechargeableUSB -Yes USB Yes Yes -
Length4.8 inches-7 inches8 inches4.5 inches147mm, 5.8 inches9 inches
Insertable length3.59 inches3.5 inches3 inches4 inches4 inches95mm, 3.75 inches8 inches
MaterialsSilicone ABS plastic -Silicone, ABS Plastic Silicone Silicone Stainless steel
WaterproofSubmersible Submersible Submersible -Yes Yes Submersible
Remote ControlsApp control ---Yes, Physical Remote and App Physical Remote -
Battery Life100 minutes--120 minutes120 minutes120 minutes-
Charging Time30-40 minutes-180 minutes120 minutes60 minutes120 minutes-
Diameter-0.98 inches1.43 inches1.4 inches1.1 inches34mm, 1.34 inches1.8 inches
Flexibility-Firm firm ----
Storage Bag Included-No -Yes Yes Yes -
Travel Lock--Yes -No --
Texture--silicone ----
Colors Available---Black, Blue, Violet Black, Blue Black -
Vibration patterns----6 3 Vibration Patterns -
Width------1 inches
Weight------1.5 lbs
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If You’re Looking For…

Types of Prostate Massagers

Depending on your needs or personal preference, you might need to know exactly what type of prostate massager you’re looking for. They offer different kinds of stimulation, different intensities, some are suitable for hands-free fun and wearable, and others are great for couples’ play. Let’s have a look!

Manual

If you’re looking for the perfect beginner prostate massage toy then you’ll likely begin your journey with a manual prostate massager. These can be large or small prostate massager toys, but they all require manual input to provide stimulation.

Vibrating

Depending on the model, vibrating prostate massagers can be operated by buttons on the device itself or by using a provided remote control. These often offer a higher level of internal stimulation.

Anal Plug

An anal plug is a type of anal toy that’s designed to be inserted, sitting in place inside of your anus. While smaller models may simply provide the “full” feeling that you’re after, larger models with more reach can stimulate your prostate.

Remote Controlled

While many often feature buttons on the device itself, having the ability to use a remote lets you enjoy the toy without your hands constantly getting in the way!

What to Look for in Prostate Massagers

Before we start to get into the toys themselves, let’s briefly go over what you should be considering when looking for a beginner prostate toy. There are quite a few things that you’ll want to keep in mind!

 

Step 1

Step 1

Step 1

First, you need to consider the size of the toy itself. That includes both the diameter (thickness) and the length of the toy. If you’ve never experimented with anal toys before, you may be tempted to choose the thinnest option. Don’t do that. Instead, use your fingers to get a rough idea of how big of a toy you’ll be able to comfortably accommodate. This will prevent you from purchasing a toy that you quickly outgrow!

Step 2

Step 2

Step 2

Next, you’ll want to consider the shape of the toy. Some toys (like plugs) are shaped in a way that allows them to stay in place once inserted. Other toys (such as probers) are shaped in a way that allows you to easily move and position the toy, making them more suitable for active stimulation. For toys that stay in place, you’ll want to ensure the toy(s) in question have a flared base. This will prevent them from slipping up inside your anus, which would require an unpleasant trip to the ER.

Step 3

Step 3

Step 3

After sizing and shape considerations, you’ll want to start thinking about materials and functionality. Non-porous materials like silicone can be completely sterilized but generally cost more, whereas porous materials are cheaper but impossible to sterilize. In terms of functionality, some toys feature additional functions like vibrations, travel locks, or rechargeable internal batteries. Don’t forget to consider these goodies as well!

Alright, now that you have a general idea of what to look out for (and think about) when buying a beginner prostate toy, let’s start looking at the options!

How to Find the Best Prostate Massager for You

As you can tell from this review, there are lot of differet types of prostate massagers out there! It can be difficult to know which one might be best for you and your needs. There are lot of factors to consider. So, here’s a thorough guide to finding the best prostate massager for you.

Stimulation Mode

Stimulation Mode

Stimulation Mode

Consider how you would like your prostate to be massaged – there are so many options! Do you enjoy manual stimulation by your own (or your partner’s) hand? Do you like firm or soft stimulations? Strong vibrations or a slight tapping motion? Perhaps you might be a fan of a rotating shaft to press up against your prostate!

Plugs VS Handheld Toy

Plugs VS Handheld Toy

Plugs VS Handheld Toy

Some of the prostate massagers in this review are plugs that will stay in place by themselves during use. Others have handles with which you’re suppposed to manually massage your prostate. If you like being able to move the toy around yourself, a handheld toy is probably more enjoyable to you. Although handheld prostate massagers also tend to be more heavy duty products, whereas the plugs are often smaller and lighter.

If you’re planning on using the prostate massager during sex or wearing it about the house, I would definitely opt for something that plugs in and stays in place.

Extra Stimulation

Extra Stimulation

Extra Stimulation

Do you usually enjoy stimulation around the perineum or scrotum? Finding the perfect prostate massager for you might include a secondary motor or “arm” that will sit snugly against your perineum and be able to send delicious sensations to your perineum and scrotum.

Materials

Materials

Materials

It’s important to always go for products with 100% body safe materials when it comes to insertables. The best prostate massagers will be made of non-porous materials like silicone, ABS plastic, glass or metal.

Rechargeability

Rechargeability

Rechargeability

Of course, this isn’t super relevant if you’re going for a manual prostate massager. But if you’re going for something with a motor, it’s important for consider it’s rechargeability. I would definitely recommend getting a rechargeable toy over something that runs of batteries. Consider whether you’re looking for something that has a long battery life or need something with a shorter charging time.

Size

Size

Size

Are you a complete anal beginner or are you looking for a fulfilling feeling suitable for someone more experienced? Knowing which size you are comfortable with anally will definitely help find out which prostate massager you should go for! When it comes to anal, my tip is to always start out small and work your way up. Luckily, a lot of prostate massagers will deliver a wonderful massage regardsless of size!

Design

Design

Design

While all prostate massagers claim to have the absolute best ergonomic design to hit all those sweet spots, there is no one recipe for that. Everybody’s body is different. Some toys might hit different spots for different people.

You can consider which types of shapes and designs you might respond well too. A beaded shaft, something super curved, or something with a tapered tip?

Remote Control

Remote Control

Remote Control

If having your hands freed up or letting your partner easily control your pleasure is important to you during sex, then getting a remote controlled prostate massager might be a good option for you. If you like to enjoy different vibrations settings at different times during use, it can be nice not having to reach for the buttons all the time. That said, products with a remote control can be a bit more expensive, so if you find you don’t really have the need for one, you should perhaps opt for one without.

What Exactly is the Prostate (Male G-Spot) Again?

The prostate is a small gland located between the bladder and the penis also called the male P-spot. It is important to the production of sperm, secreting a fluid that provides nourishment and protection to seamen. Given its close proximity, the prostate can be stimulated via the rectum.

The prostate contains almost as many nerve endings as the clitoris, making it very receptive to external stimulation.

What?

What?

What?

The prostate is a walnut sized gland in (born) male bodies. The prostate gland is very sensitive, and used in the human body to nourish and transport sperm. Another important function of the prostate gland is, that it helps close the urinal tube during ejaculation. You don’t want to mix those two.

Where?

Where?

Where?

It is accessible anally, and sits up towards the stomach just below the bladder. It is situated close to, and around the tube that drains urine from the bladder. That is also why prostate massaging and milking can be beneficial to help against male incontinence.

How?

How?

How?

When playing around with butt stuff on men, you want to “hit that spot” (aka the walnut sized gland), as it will be a new world opening up for them. Any kind of anal penetration ‘runs the risk’ of hitting the prostate. So if you are in the middle of some butt stuff, playing around with your new prostate massager, and you feel something very good. Then that is very likely your walnut sized gland called the prostate.

Author
Kasia Halinowska
Kasia Halinowska

Content Specialist | Working with sex education has been a dream of mine for a long time, but after years of studying marketing and working at boring corporations, I never thought my dream could come true, but here I am! Therefore, my goal at Bedbible is to help you discover all the sex toy wonders that I have the pleasure of working with and touch on the subjects close to my heart, like body positivity, inclusivity, feminism, and most importantly, sex and intimacy! Plus, as a person with a marketing background, you can be sure I will not fall for any false advertising and be brutally honest with my reviews!

Age: 25
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
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