The 8 Best Metal Dildos for Stainless Steel Satisfaction

Gail Hooper
by Gail HooperUpdated:

I’ve reviewed and ranked 13 of the absolute best metal dildos you can buy. I’ve looked at every tiny aspect of them, and gathered first-hand reviews to base my rankings on! I’ve found metal dildos for beginners and more advanced players and options to suit every budget. Plus, I’ve made sure to include metal dildos for both anal and vaginal use! I’ve even dropped in some really handy hints and tips for how to choose the best metal dildo for and how to use metal dildos for all sorts of fun!

Test Winner4.9njoy Pure Wand rating 4.9
Runner Up5.0Le Wand Hoop rating 5.0
Best for Beginners5.0Le Wand Bow rating 5.0
Expert Pick4.8Le Wand Arch rating 4.8
Best Beaded4.8njoy Fun Wand  rating 4.8
Largest4.9njoy Eleven  rating 4.9
Best for anal4.9njoy Pure Plug rating 4.9
Best vibrator4.4Crave Vesper rating 4.4
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  • Quality, design and presentation
  • Curved for G or p-spot stimulation
  • Weight is great for deep massage
  • Double ended-design
  • Very easy to clean
  • It is heavy
  • Looks a bit scary
  • Will hurt if you drop it on your feet
  • High quality metal dildo
  • Extremely durable
  • Provides great g-spot or p-spot stimulation
  • Expensive
  • Multiple sensations
  • Temperature play
  • Two very different shaped heads
  • Ridges for extra sensation
  • May be too heavy for some
  • Ridges can be irritating for some
  • The weight is really satisfying
  • Deliciously full feeling
  • Great internal stimulation
  • One bulbed tip and one tapered tip
  • Could be too heavy for some
  • Not a big difference in size between the two ends
  • Expensive
  • Slim build is very beginner-friendly
  • Beaded side for extra sensations
  • Versatile design
  • Great couples' toy
  • Ideal for intense g-spot or p-spot stimulation
  • May be too small for some
  • Slippery when lubed up
  • Be still be too intimidating for anal beginners
  • Expensive
  • Big metal dildo for big sensations
  • Amazing craftsmanship
  • Comes with a premium leather storage bag
  • Satisfying weight
  • Will be too large for many
  • Very expensive
  • May be too heavy for some operate comfortably
  • Offered in multiple sizes
  • Comfortable to wear once inserted
  • Warms up quickly
  • Wide base with loop handle
  • Tip could be more tapered
  • Expensive
  • Doubles as jewelry
  • Small but powerful
  • Discreet and portable
  • Different vibration modes to explore
  • Not waterproof
  • No travel lock
  • Pricey
  • Short battery life

How We Test metal dildos

We’re a team of 266 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best metal dildos, our testers tried and reviewed 76 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre metal dildos didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 753 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
Metal Dildos Test and Reviews Explained

What to Consider Before Buying a Metal Dildo

When on the hunt for a metal dildo there are definitely a few bits and pieces you have to bear in mind. After all, if you want the perfect one for you, you’re going to have to keep your eyes peeled for some of the most important things to know about metal sex toys!

  • Are you okay with firm stimulation? – This might seem like an obvious statement, but metal dildos are hard. Like, very hard! Some people absolutely love that, but for others it’s really not all that pleasurable.
  • Dildo length and diameter – Metal dildos come in all kinds of shapes and sizes, some longer or wider than others. Make sure you check the length and diameter (width) of the toy before you buy, as you need one that you’re comfortable with!
  • Type of metal – When it comes to types of metal used for these dildos, stainless steel is always a winner. It is very easy to clean due to it being non-porous, and it won’t gather any bacteria or germs. If metal isn’t for you, why not try out a glass dildo or something a little more soft and realistic like a silicone or a body-safe TPE dildo.
  • Do you want it for anal – Metal is a great material for anal play but the dildo must have a flared base or significant curse to prevent it from being fully inserted.

Test Winner njoy Pure Wand

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 294 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: njoy Pure Wand was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the metal dildo.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: njoy Pure Wand was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: njoy Pure Wand was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

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PricePrice

Rating: njoy Pure Wand was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The njoy Pure Wand is a metal dildo that has reviewers raving about its design, presentation, workmanship and the incredible stimulation they’re getting from it. It’s even known as the squirting wand!

The sensually curved shaft of this metal sex toy ends in a 1″ ball at one end and a 1.5″ ball at the other. It’s made of medical-grade stainless steel and is perfect for temperature play.

The curved design and weightiness makes it easy to deliver intense g-spot or p-spot stimulation with minimal effort!

 

Pros

  • Quality, design and presentation
  • Curved for G or p-spot stimulation
  • Weight is great for deep massage
  • Double ended-design
  • Very easy to clean
  • Feels outstandingly good

Cons

  • It is heavy
  • Looks a bit scary
  • Will hurt if you drop it on your feet

Why I Chose It

The njoy Pure Wand is cult classic metal sex toy for very good reason. The weighty balls nestle against your g-spot or p-spot beautifully and only need the slightest amount of pressure to deliver an intensely pleasurable, deep massage.

The metal is beautifully smooth and only needs a small amount of your lube of choice to slide smoothly. It also holds temperature incredibly well! It’s pure and perfect.

It may well be a little intimidating for beginners, the smaller ball is only 1 inch, which is suitable for most levels! That’s joy of having two ends to play with!

Runner Up Le Wand Hoop

5.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Le Wand Hoop was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the metal dildo.

97/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Le Wand Hoop was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Le Wand Hoop was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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Rating: Le Wand Hoop was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Le Wand Hoop is actually very similar in design to the nJoy Pure Wand. It’s double-ended with a strong curve. One end has a larger tapered bulb with a few subtle ridges on the shaft and the other end features a smaller bulb. This makes it perfect for reaching all those internal erogenous zones in the vagina or rectum. With the Le Wand Hoop, you’ll be able to provide some impressive stimulation to your g-spot, a-spot, or your prostate! Both the metal dildo and the packaging itself just screams luxury with the padded storage pouch and the small polishing cloth included!

Pros

  • High quality metal dildo
  • Extremely durable
  • Provides great g-spot or p-spot stimulation

Cons

  • Expensive

Why I Chose It

Our tester shared that the experience with the Le Wand Hoop was nothing short of eye-rolling ecstasy. The weight of the dildo, combined with its dramatic curvature, makes pinpoint G-spot massage incredibly easy and effective. I also really enjoy the versatility of this metal dildo as a tool for sensation play and teasing external stimulation.

The sleek and unyielding design of the Le Wand Hoop looks and feels like a high-end sex toy. The two different ends provide varied sensations and allow for exploration of different uses. While I didn’t really notice the subtle ridges under the teardrop bulb during vaginal penetration, they might be more noticeable when used anally.

The Le Wand Hoop is definitely a premium quality metal sex toy, and its price reflects that. It’s not the most budget-friendly option, but for those who enjoy firm internal massage and want a durable toy that will last a lifetime, it’s well worth the investment.

Best for Beginners Le Wand Bow

5.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Le Wand Bow was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the metal dildo.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Le Wand Bow was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Le Wand Bow was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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PricePrice

Rating: Le Wand Bow was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Bow is a luxurious double-ended metal dildo from Le Wand.

It’s beautifully curved with ridges curling around one end, which add some textural stimulation. One end features a beautiful bulbous end, which is great to use as a regular dildo or g-spot stimulator. The other end is smaller and teardrop-shaped, it’s designed to delight your g or p-spot to perfection.

The weight and curve of this metal dildo presses against your sweet spots, putting juicy orgasms within your reach.

Pros

  • Multiple sensations
  • Temperature play
  • Two very different shaped heads
  • Ridges for extra sensation

Cons

  • May be too heavy for some
  • Ridges can be irritating for some

Why I Chose It

Le Wand’s Bow has been designed with your pleasure in mind. It’s double-ended, with two very different tips, one has a spiral of ridges on the shaft leading up to it adding to the sensations. The spirals add some interesting texture but can get a little irritating when used for shallow stimulation.

Of course, as with most other metal sex toys. it’s is on on the more expensive. However, this is an amazing quality stainless steel dildo for beginners who are ready to explore the world of firm internal massage.

Expert Pick Le Wand Arch

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Le Wand Arch was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the metal dildo.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Le Wand Arch was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Le Wand Arch was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

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PricePrice

Rating: Le Wand Arch was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Le Wand Arch is another double-ended stainless steel dildo that offers versatile stimulation. One thing that stands out is the sheer weight of it! Since this is a fairly thick metal dildo, it’s also a heavy hitter. This just adds to the stimulation and intensity of your thrusts.

The shaft is gently curved to help angle the ends at your internal sweet spots. One head is small and flatter, with a bulbous head that’s perfect for g-spot or p-spot stimulation. The other end has a thicker shaft with a tapered tip and slightly ridged texture to stimulate the vaginal opening.

Pros

  • The weight is really satisfying
  • Deliciously full feeling
  • Great internal stimulation
  • One bulbed tip and one tapered tip

Cons

  • Could be too heavy for some
  • Not a big difference in size between the two ends
  • Expensive

Why I Chose It

The Le Wand Arch is designed to please with its perfectly smooth body, slight curve, and two differently shaped ends to play around with. Compared to some of the other metal sex toys on this list, it’s pretty heavy! It’s a weighty beast which helps with stimulation as the Arch does most of the work for you. Although, if you struggle with hand or wrist strength then it might not be ideal.

While the two ends are shaped differently, they are very similar in size, so that’s something to consider. I like that the size is approachable for beginners looking for more fun and still thick enough to satisfy some experienced dildo users.

Best Beaded njoy Fun Wand

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 76 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: njoy Fun Wand was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the metal dildo.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: njoy Fun Wand was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: njoy Fun Wand was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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Rating: njoy Fun Wand was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The njoy Fun Wand is another luxury metal dildo with a lot of sensation to offer. This stainless steel dildo has a smaller width and less insertable length. Perfect for beginners or those who simply prefer smaller beads and tips on their dildos.

It has an elegant s-shaped curve with one side featuring a bulbous tip for pinpoint g-spot or p-spot stimulation. On the other side, you get ot enjoy the pleasures of a beaded shaft with three balls gradually increasing in size and intensity, while the tip is tapered for easy and enjoyable anal insertion and more p-spot massage.

This double-ended dildo really does bring double the fun! Explore the differet sides and sensations, and share the joys with your partner as both a vaginal toy and an anal toy. Being stainless steel, it’s also great for temperature play.

Pros

  • Slim build is very beginner-friendly
  • Beaded side for extra sensations
  • Versatile design
  • Great couples' toy
  • Ideal for intense g-spot or p-spot stimulation
  • Beautiful storage case

Cons

  • May be too small for some
  • Slippery when lubed up
  • Be still be too intimidating for anal beginners
  • Expensive

Why I Chose It

I think the njoy Fun Wand is a great introduction to stainless steel dildos and metal sex toys in general. I personally love the beautiful design, and the unique double-ended two-in-one functionality. It also looks pretty non-threatening, because of the slim diatmeter and it actually being the smallest size dildo in njoy range.

Our tester really loved how intense the g-spot stimulation felt with the more bulbous tip. She also very much appreciated the versatility in the shape and features of this dildo. While it was a favorite for vaginal play for her, her partner also really enjoyed it for anal play and experienced some very impressive prostate massage! While the beaded design wasn’t necessarily a favorite for them, they liked the varied stimulation it offered, and mentioned that it would be ideal for couples who also love to use anal beads but also want a dildo they both can enjoy!

While I personally like that the other end works as a handle while using it, some reviewers online did find that the s-shape of this metal dildo made it more difficult to use for solo play.

Overall, the njoy Fun Wand gets a lot of points for it’s versatility, high quality, and fr provided a lot of fun as promised! It’s perfect for beginners and those who find it difficult to play with some of the heavier metal dildos available.

Largest njoy Eleven

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.9/5

Based on 29 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: njoy Eleven was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the metal dildo.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: njoy Eleven was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: njoy Eleven was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

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PricePrice

Rating: njoy Eleven was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The njoy Eleven is for anyone who wants something very large and in charge. This sleek silver whopper of a metal sex toy will leave you feeling satisfyingly stretched!

At 11 inches long, this metal dildo will help you fulfil your very deepest desires. At one end, you have a textured shaft and tapered tip of 1.75 inches, and at the other, an even thicker, smooth shaft with a juicy bulbous tip measuring 2 inches in diameter!

Each njoy Eleven comes with its very own premium leather storage bag with a beautiful magenta lining.

Pros

  • Big metal dildo for big sensations
  • Amazing craftsmanship
  • Comes with a premium leather storage bag
  • Satisfying weight

Cons

  • Will be too large for many
  • Very expensive
  • May be too heavy for some operate comfortably

Why I Chose It

This is definitely one for the size royalty out there! The size of this metal dildo is intensified by the unyielding rigidity and the sheer weight of it! The construction itself intensifies the sensations with every small move! But, if you love stretching your limits and enjoy intense internal stimulation, then this big metal sex toy will knock your socks off!

I also really love the both ends offer truly different sensations and sizes. The “smaller” end seems almost like a walk in the park compared to the *gulp* big one. Now, that one will msot likely require some serious warm-up. I definitely would not recommend this metal dildo to anyone who isn’t very experienced with girthy insertables beforehand!

I think the quality of the product is outstanding — it’s hand polished to get the smoothest, shiniest finish and the leather storage bag adds an extra layer of luxury!

The only real downside to this metal dildo is the price tag. Premium price for a premium quality product. It’s almost worth it’s own weight in coins! However,  if you love big sex toys and want to invest in your pleasure, the njoy Eleven is a winning choice!

Best for anal njoy Pure Plug

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 95 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: njoy Pure Plug was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the metal dildo.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: njoy Pure Plug was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: njoy Pure Plug was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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PricePrice

Rating: njoy Pure Plug was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Perhaps you’re intested in exploring anal play with metal sex toys but aren’t quite ready to take on a long and girthy metal dildo. Enter, the njoy Pure Plug!

Loved by the team here at Bedbible as well as a ton of happy customers, these metal butt plugs come in three different sizes, so you can pick the perfect size for your level of experience.

The plug is 100% waterproof, easy to insert, easy to clean, and has a bit of satisfying weight to it!

Whether you’re a first-timer or an experienced anal plug aficionado, the njoy Pure Plug  is a plug you’ll surely enjoy!

Pros

  • Offered in multiple sizes
  • Comfortable to wear once inserted
  • Warms up quickly
  • Wide base with loop handle

Cons

  • Tip could be more tapered
  • Expensive

Why I Chose It

I like that the “Small” size of this plug is quite versatile. With a maximum diameter of just under an inch, this stainless steel toy is sized perfectly for the complete beginner. While it’s approachable for beginners it still delivers a fulfilling weight for more experienced users.

I love that the base of the plug is looped, making it easy to insert or remove the toy. The body of the plug offers three inches of insertable length, so you still get to experience a tad of depth.

Another benefit of this brand of stainless steel anal toys? They come in their own storage case, ensuring you’ll be able to keep your brand-new piece safe and protected from the outside world.

However, this premium experience does come at a cost. With even the small plug costing nearly $100, these toys definitely aren’t for the budget-conscious. That said, if you can swing it and really want to invest in a high-quality plug, the njoy Pure Plug is a metal sex toy that won’t leave you disappointed.

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Best vibrator Crave Vesper

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.2/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 56 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Crave Vesper was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the metal dildo.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Crave Vesper was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Crave Vesper was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Crave Vesper was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Alright, alright! I am very well aware that this is not technically a metal dildo. It is however a metal sex toy that offers delicious and discreet vibrations!

The Crave Vesper is a sleek and elegant vibrator that doubles as a necklace. I mean, style and pleasure do go together. Available in silver, rose gold, and 24k gold, this slimline pendant houses a small but mighty motor, offering discreet vibrations on the go.

It features three intensity settings and one pulsation setting, with a USB charger for easy charging. Despite its petite size, it delivers surprisingly strong vibrations and a touch of glamour while you’re at it!

Pros

  • Doubles as jewelry
  • Small but powerful
  • Discreet and portable
  • Different vibration modes to explore

Cons

  • Not waterproof
  • No travel lock
  • Pricey
  • Short battery life

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Crave Vesper was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Crave Vesper felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Crave Vesper was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Crave Vesper felt to the reviewer.

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BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

While the Vesper’s design is undoubtedly chic and it functions impressively as a vibrator, its short battery life and the fact that it’s not waterproof does deduct some points form the overall score. I don’t think it’s the most practical choice for everyday use or for those who prefer deep, rumbly vibrations. However, as a sexy accessory and for those who enjoy pinpoint stimulation, the Vesper shines!

In summary, I do find the Crave Vesper to be an innovative product that offers both style and pleasure. It’s a great choice for those looking for a discreet vibrator with a touch of luxury. While it may not replace more traditional vibrators for some, its elegance and effectiveness make it a noteworthy addition to your metal sex toy collection (or your outfit for date night!).

Comparison

BestTest Winner Runner Up Best for Beginners Expert Pick Best Beaded Largest Best for anal Best vibrator
Overall score4.9 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0
Bedbible rating5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.2 / 5.0
User rating4.8 / 5.0
from 294 users
5 / 5.0
from 7 users
5 / 5.0
from 3 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 5 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 76 users
4.9 / 5.0
from 29 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 95 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 56 users
PricePremium Pricey Pricey Premium Moderate Premium Pricey Moderate
Design100 / 100 95 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100
Ease of use95 / 100 97 / 100 95 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 85 / 100 95 / 100 80 / 100
Quality100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100
Sound-------20 / 100
Power-------40 / 100
Buzzy/Rumbly-------somewhat buzzy
Length9 inches10.3 inches8 inches7.9 inches9 inches11 inches2.75 inches3.8 inches
Insertable length8 inches-7 inches-8 inches9.5 inches2.25 inches-
DiameterSmall: 1 inch, Large: 1.5 inchesLage bulb: 1.4 inches1.3 inches1.37-1.4 inches1 inchesSmall end: 1.75 inches(widest point) 1 inches0.5 inches
MaterialsMedical-grade stainless steel Medical grade stainless steel Medical-grade stainless steel Stainless Steel Metal 360 grade stainless steel Stainless Steel 316 stainless steel
Weight1.51 lbs1.39 lbs1.11 lbs 1.87 lbs-2.75 lbs7 oz. lbs-
WaterproofFully Submersible Fully Yes Yes Submersible Yes Splash-proof when fully assembled
Storage Bag IncludedPresentation box Padded storage pouch Yes Yes -Yes No, but has a storage box Yes
FlexibilityRigid -Solid -Rigid -None -
Allergies-Hypoallergenic Latex-Free , Phthalate-Free -Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free ---
Vibration speeds-------3
Vibration patterns-------1
Rechargeable-------Yes
Battery Life-------40 minutes
Charging Time-------90 minutes
Travel Lock-------No
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Types and Sizes of Metal Dildos

What Are the Pros and Cons of Metal Dildos?

While it might not be your first thought, metal is actually a fantastic sex toy material!

Let’s take a look at why, and at the end, I’ll also share some cons because we want you to have the whole picture!

What’s so great?

If you’ve made it this far and still aren’t convinced about metal dildos, I’ve put together all of the reasons metal makes for an amazing dildo material!

  • It provides intense stimulation that doesn’t come from vibrations. Maybe you don’t like vibrations or just fancy a change but still crave intense sensations — hello metal dildo!
  • It’s easy to enjoy a deep, firm massage without needing to strain your wrist, as the weight does a lot of the work!
  • Stainless steel, which good quality metal dildos are made from, are is non-porous and non-toxic making it one og the safest sex toy materials.
  • They are easy to clean and can be boiled to be sterilized.
  • Metal dildos are extremely durable and could probably survive the apocalypse. Maybe they will be displayed in space museums as the last remaining artefacts of human civilisation — I hope so at least!
  • You can use any lube you like with a metal dildo, as it won’t react with the material.
  • It hold temperature, making it the perfect temperature play accessory.
  • Metal dildos look sleek, elegant, and a little bit risky — a thrilling combination!
Temperature play

Temperature play

Temperature play
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Stainless steel or any kind of metal is a fantastic temperature conducter.

This means, that it will heat up or cool down easily.

And that is a fantastic ability for a sex toy for one reason – you can play with the temperature. For example by putting it in the fridge or in hot water – more on that later.

Hits the right (g) spot perfectly

Hits the right (g) spot perfectly

Hits the right (g) spot perfectly
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A metal dildo is hard, which means that it is the perfect material for super precise and strong internal stimulation.

This makes a metal dildo one of the best types of g-spot dildos out there.

If you are interesting in getting good g-spot stimulation you can also consider buying a g-spot vibrator. And lastly, a metal dildo will also make as a fenomenal prostate massager.

Easy to clean

Easy to clean

Easy to clean
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Metal is a non pourus material, meaning that cleaning and using it is super easy.

You can also boil it to sterilize it completely.

Unlike silicone you will likely not experience lint and other stuff sticking to it.

Added weight

Added weight

Added weight
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The added weight allows you to achieve more intense, deep stimulation with less effort!

Smooth sensations

Smooth sensations

Smooth sensations
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Metal dildos are lovely and smooth, meaning you are less likely to experience drag or friction when using them!

Just a small amount of lube will keep things moving smoothly.

Compatible with all lubes

Compatible with all lubes

Compatible with all lubes
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Unlike silicone dildos, metal dildos can be used with all kinds of lubricants.

So if you prefer the added slip of silicone lube, a metal dildo is a great choice!

Practically unbreakable

Practically unbreakable

Practically unbreakable
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Metal dildos are about as sturdy as it gets when it comes to sex toys!

If you take good care of them, they will last a lifetime!

Easy storage

Easy storage

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Metal dildos can be stored in a box or bag without fear of it getting damaged.

Although, you might want to be careful not to damage other sex toys in your drawer of box by dropping your metal dildo on it!

What are the cons of metal dildos?

  • Some find the weight too intense
  • They tend to be expensive (but they do last)
  • If you don’t like cold sensations, you will need to warm it before use
  • The weight might be difficult for some people to manoeuvre, especially for those with any hand or wrist issues

Dildo Materials Comparison — How Does Metal Measure Up?

Silicone tends to known as the ‘best’ dildo material as it’s soft, non-toxic and non-porous, but other materials, like glass, metal and ABS plastic, are also non-toxic and non-porous and have their own uniquely pleasure qualities. Plus, there are some materials you should avoid for safety reasons!

You’ll notice that glass and metal dildos share a lot of the same qualities, here’s a more detailed post about glass vs metal when it comes to sex toys.

Silicone

Silicone

Silicone
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  • Can range from soft and squishy to firm
  • Non-porous
  • Can be boiled to be sterilised (as long as there are no electrical parts)
  • Non-toxic
  • Comes in a wide range of colors
  • Only compatible with water-based lubricant
Borosilicate Glass

Borosilicate Glass

Borosilicate Glass
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  • Non-porous
  • Non-toxic
  • Can be sterilised
  • Can be heated or cooled
  • Beautiful designs with many different colors
  • Compatible with all lubes
  • They are strong but can break
  • Compatible with all lubes
Metal

Metal

Metal
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  • Non-porous
  • Non-toxic
  • Can be sterilised
  • Compatible with all lubes
  • Weight adds extra stimulation
  • Can be heated or cooled
  • Very difficult to break or damage
  • More limited colors
  • Can be too heavy for some
  • Can be expensive
Dildo materials to avoid

Dildo materials to avoid

Dildo materials to avoid
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These materials are either porous (meaning they have tiny holes for bacteria and mold to grow in), and they can contain harmful substances, such as phthalates.

  • Rubber
  • Jelly
  • Soft-plastic
  • Own brand realistic flesh
  • PVC

TPE/TPR is non-toxic but it is porous so should be avoided for insertable toys like dildos.

How to Identify Real Stainless Steel from Other Metal Sex Toys

There are a few different methods you can use to see if your sex toys are made from something other than genuine stainless steel.

First, observe the toy itself. Is the surface of the toy smooth and shiny? If so, is the metal heavy?

You may want to compare the weight of your toy to the weight in the listing.

Rusting, staining, or discoloration are instant giveaways.

If you see any of these then your toy isn’t made from stainless steel.

You can also try rubbing a cloth dipped in isopropyl alcohol on your toy. If there’s a reaction—such as a residue–then it’s not stainless steel.

Different Types of Metal Dildos

In the following I will take you through the different types of metal dildos out there. Of course, that aren’t that much different other than mainly the different shapes – but picking out one it will do you good to know the differences.

Curved metal dildo

Curved metal dildo

Curved metal dildo
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To be fair, most metal dildos actually have some curvature to it. It naturally just makes sense from a design and usage perspective to make it curved. However, some come with a very explicit curve making it optimal for g-spot stimulation, as you can get a “come hither” movement, by just moving the curved metal dildo back and forth making it automatically hit the g-spot.

Bulbous metal dildo

Bulbous metal dildo

Bulbous metal dildo
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Again, a lot of metal dildos have som sort of bulbeous head which are meant to stimulate either the prostate or the g-spot. The bulb makes for a larger surface area that ensures it is easier to hit the exact right spot.

Double ended metal dildo

Double ended metal dildo

Double ended metal dildo
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On most metal dildos you will effectivly be able to use both ends. That is even if one end is shaped and meant to be a handle. If it works for you, it works for you. Typically one end of the dildo will be thicker or have different shapes and textures that the other giving you som flexibility, that is otherwise not really found in steel toys.

Double-ended dildos are of the most common designs. They have two different stimulation ends, with either different sized heads or different shapes and textures. This gives you the ability to explore different sizes or sensations with just one toy! Remember that the insertable length won’t be the same as the full length of the toy as you use one end as a handle.

G-spot metal dildo

G-spot metal dildo

G-spot metal dildo
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Typically the curved metal dildos will be perfect for hitting that g-spot. In essense, the material itself (metal) is awesome because of the hardness. Which is also why, you will see most dildos in metal being shaped in a way that is meant to effectively stimulate the g-spot.

Beaded metal dildo

Beaded metal dildo

Beaded metal dildo
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A beaded metal dildo is typically made to target anal use. Similar to anal beads (just harder). Using metal anal beads will stimulate you rectum in a wonderful way. The advantage of the beads and dildo being out of metal is so that it is easy to insert and use in thrusting motions (compared to the typically softer anal beads). Plus, the feeling will be more intense due to the rigidity of the beads.

Smooth metal dildo

Smooth metal dildo

Smooth metal dildo
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If you like a very smooth surface on your internal sex toys those are also made of metal. They are less popular, but I have come across some, that do still work quite well. For some people the textures of many of the metal dildos can be a bit to much, making the smoother option a lot nicer!

Electro metal dildo

Electro metal dildo

Electro metal dildo
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Spicing it up with electricity is also an option, as some types of metal dildos have the option to give you electrical shocks. Also called electro metal dildos. They are for the more advances, but a metal dildo also works especially will as an electricity conducter and therefore perfect as an electro sex toy.

Different sizes

Small metal dildos are a great option for anyone new to penetrative play or anyone looking for a metal dildo for anal use as the anus isn’t as stretchy as the vagina. Also, the weight and rigidity of metal dildos can make them feel more intense than a dildo made of a softer, lighter material like silicone. Small metal dildos tend to be under 6 inches in length and have a slimmer shaft or smaller ball.

Large metal dildos are best for those who already have some experience with large sex toys and enjoy the feeling of being stretched as they tend to be thicker in diameter. Again, the rigidity will make this feel more intense as the dildo won’t give against your body. It’s also recommended to warm up with a smaller toy if you are exploring particularly girthy metal dildos.

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Age: 50
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Beginner
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