Are male masturbators safe?

Yes, of course they are! As long as they are made of body-safe materials and sold from a reputable vendor then you should have absolutely no problems with your male masturbator or any sex toys that you buy. So yes - they're safe!

Does using a male stroker hurt?

No! Or it shouldn't do anyway! As long as you and the toy are properly lubricated then you should have no issues. If you feel any friction or unwanted resistance then stop, lube up some more, and try again! It needs to feel good!

How do vibrating male masturbators work?

Vibrating masturbators work like a Fleshlight or penis sleeve, just with added vibes! Most have a inner sleeve made from TPE or silicone, where you insert your penis and thrust away. Then, you can turn on the vibrations, which add extra sensations to your experience and can increase your sensitivity.

What's the best male stroker for a beginner?

If you’ve never used a stroker before, we recommend picking up the TENGA Egg Wavy II Textured Masturbator or the TENGA Original Deep Throat Onacup. Although they’re both single-use toys, they should give a good insight into whether stroker toys are right for you without spending a lot of money!

Do all vibrating masturbators look realistic?

Some, but not all. There are a huge variety of vibrating male toys out there these days, some of which have anatomical orifices and designs, while others look pretty neutral (or even futuristic!).

Isn't it weird to use a male masturbator?

Hellz no! Who became president of the world and said that just because you're a guy you shouldn't be able to use male masturbators or other sex toys?! Exactly - no one! Women use vibrators, dildos, and manner of toys and implements to help get their rocks off, and it's only right that men should get their own sex toys too! That's where male masturbators prove their worth!

Are male masturbators worth buying

Yes! Some toys might be pricey but for the amount of times you'll use them and the amount of fun you're going to have it really is worth it. Okay, we get it, some male masturbators are advertised as 'one use and done' kind of toys, but even then you can still get PLENTY of fun out of them! So are male masturbators worth buying? Totally!

Are vibrating masturbators easy to clean?

Compared to other sex toys like simple vibrators or dildos, vibrating masturbators can be a bit more tricky to clean. Many aren't fully waterproof, so they can't be submerged in water to clean them. If this is a concern for you, consider getting a vibrating masturbator that's easier to clean, like the Fun Factory Manta or the Tenga Flip Zero EV — read more about them below.

Do male masturbators feel like the real thing?

Male masturbators have one job: provide a stimulation as close to the real thing as possible. Granted, while it might not feel 100% like a real vagina, butt or mouth, they can definitely be considered the next best thing. Besides, we've rarely heard of a man that's dissatisfied with his masturbator!

What are male strokers used for?

Masturbation! It's all about achieving that male orgasm. Sometimes guys will use their hands, but other times they want to use something else, something more...fun. That's where the stroker comes in!

Can I make my own male masturbator?

Yes you can! Simply go to the top of the BedBible page, find the search function, and type "How to Make a DIY Pocket Pussy" to find our awesome blog post that talks you step by step through making a male masturbator!

What lube should I use with my male masturbator?

Water-based lube is always our go-to lubrication! It contains fewer chemicals than other lubes meaning it is body-safe, it won't cause any damage to your toys, and it will leave no sticky or messy residue when you're trying to clean your male masturbator! Water-based lube really is the MVP of the sex toy world!

Do male strokers help with stamina?

Yes, they can do! The more you stimulate your penis in a variety of ways, the more chance it has of becoming used to that heavy stimulation. This in turn ensures that the next time you get down to the real thing with a partner you have built up a 'resistance' to that stimulation, which makes you last that much longer in bed!

Can I use my male masturbator with a partner?

Of course! While only you can feel the effects of it while you have your cock in there, you can ask your partner to take control of it. Allow them to stroke it up and down on your cock while you lay back and enjoy the show! It really is a fun and intimate act!

What kind of lubricant should I uses with my male stroker?

Any lubrication will do but we would always recommend using a water-based lubricant. They're kinder to the body and contain fewer chemicals than non-water-based lubes.

Can I use a male stroker with a partner?

Yes! Although many male strokers are designed with masturbation in mind, adding a stroker into the mix can certainly be a fun way to spice up “sexy time”!

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21 Best Male Masturbators to Stroke and Satisfy

byJosh Gill

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|Updated: November 15, 2023

In this review, I’ll be exploring some of the best male masturbators available on the market today! From small strokers to large sex doll torsos, and the most realistic masturbators! I’ve included something for everyone. Now, I aim to provide you with a balanced and objective review that offers the pros and cons of each and every toy, so you know that what you’re getting won’t have any nasty surprises! And on top of all that I’ll give you some hints and tips on how to find the best one for you and how to get the most out of your male masturbator. Good times!

Test Winner4.6	Runner Up4.0	Cheapest3.7	Beginner4.4	Automatic3.9	Hands free4.2	Stroker Machine4.2	App-Controlled4.5	Vibrator4.2	Discreet4.3	Blowjob4.4	Vagina Masturbator4.8	Double ended4.2	Boobs4.5	App-Controlled4.2	Torso4.2	Open-Ended4.3	Butt4.7	Couples4.3	4.9	4.4

Fleshlight Riley Reid Utopia	Lelo F1S V2	TENGA Egg Wavy II	TENGA Flip Zero	Autoblow AI+	Keon by Kiiroo	The Handy	Lovense Calor	Fun Factory Manta	Tenga Flex	Blowmotion Warming Masturbator	Dirty Talk Masturbator	Fleshlight QUICKSHOT Vantage	Pipedream Extreme Dirty Talk	Lovense Max 2	Pipedream Extreme Fuck Me Silly Doll	Arcwave Voy	Thrust Pro Elite Alana	Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo Lux	Fleshlight Stoya Destroya	Fleshy Pro
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Pros ✅Cast off of Riley Reid ✅Realistic looking and feeling ✅Large 9 inch inner canal Cons ❌Pricey for a fleshlight ❌Could be too tight for some	Pros ✅Delivers deep and intense vibrations ✅Good battery life and rechargeability ✅Customizable vibration patterns Cons ❌Limited internal diameter and length ❌App can be tricky to use	Pros ✅Great feeling pattern ✅Small and discreet ✅Very well designed Cons ❌Kind of difficult to clean ❌Only recommended for one-time use	Pros ✅Super easy to keep clean ✅Awesome sensations ✅Discreet and easy to use Cons ❌Might be too small for some ❌Pretty expensive	Pros ✅Adjustable penis gripper ✅Voice control feature ✅Quiet motor Cons ❌Bulky and not very discreet ❌Removing the sleeve can be tricky ❌Power cable can get a bit annoying	Pros ✅Very interactive ✅Hands-free fun ✅Variety of settings Cons ❌The high price ❌Pretty loud	Pros ✅Customizable ✅Good selection of speed settings ✅Compatible with any kind of sleeve Cons ❌Not super quiet ❌Quite bulky	Pros ✅Easy to use app ✅Long distance control ✅Heating & vibrations Cons ❌The magnetic charger function is very fragile and disconnects easily ❌Expensive ❌You have to warm it first	Pros ✅Super quiet ✅Good for solo play ✅Great for couples Cons ❌Not very adjustable for smaller/larger cocks ❌Material can be quite abrasive ❌Might not provide biggest orgasms ever	Pros ✅Super flexible and customizable ✅Discreet and elegant casing ✅Easy to clean, dry, and store Cons ❌Doesn't feel as compact as other strokers ❌The suction hole can be tricky to cover during use	Pros ✅Travel size ✅Discreet look ✅Various vibrational patterns Cons ❌No remote control to switch between settings ❌Grip can hinder masturbation ❌Warming feature can become uncomfortable	Pros ✅Versatile in use ✅Lightweight ✅Vibration Cons ❌Drying takes a while ❌Somewhat pricey	Pros ✅Soft material ✅Double ended ✅Nice and compact Cons ❌Not as textured as it could be ❌Overly tight for larger cocks	Pros ✅Combines breasts, vagina and butt ✅Built in speakers ✅Vibrating inner canal Cons ❌Quite strange looking ❌Sounds might get repetitive ❌Expensive	Pros ✅Soft and textured ✅Tight opening ✅Good price for a VR sex toy Cons ❌Not the strongest vibrator ever ❌Quite big and bulky ❌No realistic opening	Pros ✅Two tight holes ✅36DD breasts ✅Realistic texture Cons ❌Large and heavy ❌Unrealistic proportions	Pros ✅Adjustable levels of tightness ✅Great quality and good value ✅A variety of sensations packed into one stroker Cons ❌The sleeve can be tricky to remove from the casing ❌Quite expensive	Pros ✅Realistic look and feel ✅Easy and simple to use ✅Authentic internal textures Cons ❌Quite bulky and indiscreet ❌Porous material ❌Expensive	Pros ✅Cool wrist-mounted controls ✅Hands-free fun ✅Lots of vibration options Cons ❌Quite bulky ❌Fairly loud ❌Not massively powerful	Pros ✅Tight and textured internal canal ✅Realistic look and feel ✅Direct replica of Stoya's vulva Cons ❌Not suitable for people with a girthier penis	Pros ✅Sleek design ✅Intense suction mode ✅Easy to use and to clean Cons ❌Not waterproof ❌Some might prefer a more realistic-looking sleeve ❌The vibrations are not expertly powerful
My verdict The Riley Reid Utopia Fleshlight looks and feels just like the vagina of the toy’s namesake. Cast directly from the porn actress, it looks and feels incredible. The ridges and nubs on the inside provide just the right amount of stimulation as you pump into it, and the depth... Read review	My verdict If you’re looking to get the Lelo F1S V2 because you really need an app-controlled masturbator, you probbaly shouldn’t bet all of your money on this product. The app connectivity is quite tricky, and even getting some of the basic features to work was a bit difficult ... Read review	My verdict The TENGA Egg Wavy II is a weird and unique kind of masturbation toy. It’s a super stretchy egg containing a small, rippling masturbator! As you stretch it down the length of your penis you will feel the massaging ‘waves’ on the inside. Delicious! Masturbation eggs have bec... Read review	My verdict Want an easy to use and even easier to clean toy? You do? Then the TENGA Flip Zero is a shamazing option. This little vibrating vixen is small enough to be discreet while offering a massive variety of sensations within its 6 inch length. As mentioned in our full review of the TEN... Read review	My verdict A great device for anyone who wants to sit back and relax while they let this automatic blowjob machine pamper their cock. The Autoblow AI+ has quite a few good improvements from its successor, like adjustable penis grip, a Whisper Quiet motor, and access to a private web-app for... Read review	My verdict As far as interactive VR compatible male masturbators go the Keon by Kiiroo Interactive Combo Set is pretty damn good. This toy can wirelessly link up to your device and deliver customized stimulation to your cock as you get immersed in the adult material. Noise wise it’s not the... Read review	My verdict The Handy definitely is capable of delivering fast and impressive strokes! It looks modern and stylish, it feels great, and it’s easy to use. Although it provides some nice textures and sensations, the included sleeve is made of porous TPE which is difficult to keep clean a... Read review	My verdict The Lovense Calor is a commendable addition to my collection, especially with its unique heating feature and app capabilities. However, while its performance is good, it doesn’t quite hit the top shelf, especially considering its price point. The magnetic charger can be a b... Read review	My verdict The Fun Factory Manta is a pretty damn cool toy, to be fair. Okay, maybe it’s not 100% worth the steep price you’d pay for such a toy, but the ability to use it in a wide variety of ways makes it a worthy male masturbator to have in your toy arsenal. You see, not only can b... Read review	My verdict The Tenga Flex is suitable for anyone who loves being able to create a lot of variety in their stroking sensations. Twisting the flexible casing and blocking the suction who to create more of a vacuum allows you to play around with a lot of customized sensations depsite it not be... Read review	My verdict After experimenting with the Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator, I found it to be a unique experience. The warming feature, which can reach up to 104°F (40°C), added a layer of realism that I hadn’t encountered with other masturbators. The design, resembling an a... Read review	My verdict The Dirty Talk Interactive Fuck Me Silly Masturbator is a step up from traditional male masturbators, offering an immersive experience with its interactive sound and vibration features. While I enjoyed the responsive feedback, the cleaning process was a bit tedious due to its siz... Read review	My verdict The Fleshlight QUICKSHOT Vantage is – somewhat ironically – a toy with some ups and some downs. The soft plastic material it is made will feel life-like and exciting as it massages across the length of your cock, and the option of being able to select which end you... Read review	My verdict Yes, we’ll admit it; the Pipedream Extreme Dirty Talk is weird looking. It’s a toy that combines a cracking pair of tits with a vagina and butt! Luckily the whole thing feels realistic and fleshy, so you’re sure to feel satisfied whatever you choose to play with... Read review	My verdict When you think about the word modern we’re fairly sure that an app controlled masturbator isn’t the first thing that will spring to mind. But here we are! Because the Lovense Max 2 looks awesome! Controlled via an app and compatible with VR porn videos, it is an effec... Read review	My verdict With a tight butt, a smooth vagina, and two humongous breasts, the Pipedream Extreme Fuck Me Silly Doll Masturbator is a beast of a babe! You can have plenty of fun with this soft and realistic feeling toy! The body proportions are pretty off and unrealistic, so if you’re looking... Read review	My verdict The Arcwave Voy really is an impressive stroker! It scored top points in most of the categories I usually rate sex toys by, but the most impressive is simply the performance and sensations it brings with it. The ability to adjust the tightness during use (and the opne-ended desig... Read review	My verdict With Alana, you get what you see – and that’s pretty darn nice, if you ask me. The well-rounded figure to touch and enjoy as you pound her tight ass or pussy makes for a masturbation experience that both looks and feel great! This is also an ass masturbator that is su... Read review	My verdict The Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo Lux is a divisive vibrating masturbator. As a toy it is an exciting one that guarantees explosive results, but on the other hand it’s bulky and fairly noisy. But then of course it has 6 vibration patterns with 8 speeds each adding up to 48 different vib... Read review	My verdict Of course, most Fleshlight products are not the cheapest masturbators out there, but you are guaranteed a great quality product with every purchase. Also, keep in mind that this particular fleshlight is definitely more suitable for those of you who prefer a really tight feel with... Read review	My verdict If you are looking for a discreet male masturbator that will provide an intense and realistic experience, the Fleshy Pro is worth checking out! This masturbator is packed with amazing features like an intense sucking mechanism, powerful vibrations, and lifelike textures that offe... Read review

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How I Tested and Reviewed These Male Masturbators

If you want technical specifications and all the PR fluff that comes with buying a male masturbator, then head over to websites such as Lovehoney, SheVibe, or Hustler Hollywood. But if you’re after honest, unbiased, and truthful reviews, then you’re in the right place right here! I’ve used the thoughts and opinions of real-life people from around the world to help create this super comprehensive and insightful review of 20 of the best male masturbators available out there right now.

In this review, I don’t only offer my thoughts that highlight the pros AND the cons, but I also help you get the most out of your male masturbator by providing useful extra information and tips on how to get started!

How I Tested and Reviewed These Male Masturbators

Different types of male masturbators

There are all kinds of different types of male masturbators out there – some more effective than others. We’re going to go through a few of the most popular male masturbators available today!

Strokers – This kind of male masturbator does exactly what it says on the tin: it strokes! Sliding a male stroker up and down on your cock feels amazing, and it can be held in the palm of your hand, so it makes it super easy to use.
Vibrating – Simple yet effective, vibrating strokers stimulate the penis through vibrations. It’s crazy how sensitive and easily pleased your cock is, and with just the buzziest and light of vibrations, we’re sure you’ll be struggling to hold back the orgasm!
Fleshlight – Fleshlights have a long, soft inner sleeve housed inside a plastic cup that doesn’t sound all that exciting, but it turns out it’s one of the most popular male masturbators there is!
Egg – Small, discreet, and super simple to use, masturbation eggs are made of a stretchy material that you can stretch over the head of your cock and down the length.
Torso – If you’re after a male masturbator that’s on the more premium side of things, you can pick up a sex doll torso. They not only look real but also feel real, and feature anatomically correct orifices that feel incredible as you pump into them. Despite being weighty and bulky, they feel incredible!
Double-ended – Similar in design to a fleshlight, double-ended male masturbators can be used from either side. One side might have a vagina opening, the other side might have a butt. Whichever you choose, you’ll have a different experience as you’ll be enjoying the textures from different angles.

What to Look For in a Male Masturbator

If you’re shopping for a male masturbator you’re going to want to keep an eye out for a few key things! These things might affect how you use the masturbator and the kind of experience you have. So let’s dive into what you’ll need to take note of!

Orifice – When it comes to orifices you have options. Vagina, butt, mouth, or a plain neutral hole.
Inner texture – You’ll want to explore the sensations that await you inside the masturbator before you buy. The inner texture affects whether you get an intense session or something more relaxed and low-key.
Material/ease of cleaning – Silicone, for example, looks and feels great, and is simple to clean. TPE on the other hand feels pretty good, but it can be a bit more of a ball ache to keep clean. These are the things you have to weigh up!
Size/discreetness – There are small male masturbators, and there are BIG male masturbators! Making sure that you choose a toy that’s the right size for you is important. If discretion is important to you then you should go for an egg or a stroker – toys that are easy to hide away. If you’re a little more daring you can go for something bigger like the torso – big, chunky, bulky, feels amazing, but definitely not discreet or easy to keep hidden!
Rechargeability – If you’re going the electrical route you’re going to want to check how to keep your male masturbator charged up. Some toys need batteries, others can be plugged into the mains to charge up. Batteries will wear out quicker, but electric-powered masturbators are limited by their cable.

Reviews of the 21 best male masturbators

Test Winner Fleshlight Riley Reid Utopia

4.7/5.0

Overall Rating

80/100

Design

80/100

Ease of Use

80/100

Quality

Medium

Price

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I suggest Fleshlight Riley Reid Utopia if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.

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21 Best Male Masturbators to Stroke and Satisfy

How I Tested and Reviewed These Male Masturbators

Different types of male masturbators

What to Look For in a Male Masturbator

Reviews of the 21 best male masturbators

Test Winner Fleshlight Riley Reid Utopia

Runner Up Lelo F1S V2 App Controlled Male Vibrator

Cheapest TENGA Egg Wavy II

Beginner TENGA Flip Zero

Automatic Autoblow AI+ Automatic Masturbator

Hands free Keon by Kiiroo Interactive Combo Set

Stroker Machine The Handy Stroking Machine

App-Controlled Lovense Calor App-Controlled Masturbator

Vibrator Fun Factory Manta

Discreet Tenga Flex Penis Masturbator

Blowjob Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator