The 8 Best Soft Dildos for Squishes to Make You Squeal
How was the soft dildos tested?
When we test products here on Bedbible, we do it wholeheartedly. There is not a single part of the toy that hasn´t been screened and multiple external reviews have been read, and after all our research we do our best, to sum up, everything, in just a couple of sentences.
The reason we don´t just try them, and instead read external reviews and also have our own testers is to provide you with an honest review that´s not written in a subjective way. I mean there are over 50 hours spent on this test. We want to help you find the best product for you, and we know that isn´t easy.
So the best of luck from us to you, in finding your new favourite soft dildo!
What´s all this hype with Soft Dildos?
You will know it as soon as you try it, a soft dildo has many perks and the big thing with soft dildos is the feeling. It feels way more realistic than any other dildo, when it comes to the surface and the core. A soft dildo has a smooth surface, sometimes it haves hints of veins or some extra pattern for stimulation but in general, it´s flat. The core is flexible and sometimes you can bend it just in the way you want it, it´s like a designable dildo just for your body.
So, how to choose the best soft dildo for you?
When choosing a soft dildo you can have in mind what you like with your other toys or if you´re new to soft dildos, you can think about how you like it when you masturbate.
- Size – Do you like to use smaller or bigger toys internally or maybe think of how many fingers you enjoy inside of you?
- Softness – A soft dildo can of course be more and less soft, and it can also be less or more squishy, so do you want it to be very bendable but with a non-squishy feel or the opposite, a squishy dildo with a hard core?
- Look – How do you want it to look, should it be more of a penis replica or a discrete toy, or one of those toys you just want to show off to everyone and then use as an interior?
FAQ
What is soft dildo?
A soft dildo has got the shape of a classic dildo, it can look realistic or more discrete, with veins or just with a flat surface. What is unique is how it feels, there are two different types of soft dildos. There are the ones that are soft on the outside, some are even squishy, they have a smooth surface and are nice to caress the skin gently with. Then the other type, it´s when the shaft is soft and bendable.
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The 8 Best soft dildos in Test
Lovehoney Super Soft Silicone Galaxy Dildo
“If I had a fireplace, I would have put it on top, just to show it off”, enough said, what a beauty this super soft dildo is.
It´s a soft flexible dildo, but with a firm shaft and together with a flared base, it makes a perfect anal dildo. Maybe not for the beginners, but great for the more experienced. As many of you know, this means that it´s not the girthiest soft flexible dildo on the market. But it still works fine for both ways.
It´s made of ultra soft dildo silicone, Lovehoney Super Soft Dildo, might actually not be super soft, but yes, softer than most dildos. It´s rather soft on the surface instead of being a squishy dildo. Although, it still places as the best soft dildo.
Thanks to the flared base this is a soft suction cup dildo you can use in a harness or why not buy this matching galaxy butt plug, what a beautiful set right?
| Length | 7 inches |
| Insertable length | 6 inches |
| Diameter | 1,4 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
A soft suction cup dildo delight for both the eye and the body. If you are looking for a soft dildo with multiple possibilities to use, this is the perfect one for you!
This soft flexible dildo you can use anal, vaginal and as a strapon dildo. The suction cup also makes it possible to use it completely hands-free, stick it onto the shower wall or to a flat surface and ride it out.
The name of this dildo -Lovehoney Super Soft Silicone Galaxy Dildo, is a bit misleading, instead of being super soft in a squishy way, it´s softer on the surface, still softer than classic dildos either way.
Au Naturel Sensa Feel
If you are looking for a soft realistic dildo then Sensa Feel Dildo by Au Naturel is the one you should try. This is as soft as the real deal, and will not make you disappointed. For this price, you get a high-quality soft dildo with a realistic look.
The realistic look comes both out of how it feels and how it looks. The sense feel technology makes this material feel like real skin and with the Flexi shaft technology, it´s got the perfect firmness in the shaft. So yes, it really does feel like the real thing.
Some people complain about the glans, that it´s not really that clear with the details, for example, the penile cord is missing.
It´s more squishy than our test winner, so you´re in for a treat when buying this.
| Length | 7 inches |
| Insertable length | 5,5 inches |
| Diameter | 1.75 inches |
| Materials | Blush Sensa Feel® Phthalate Free TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) |
| Waterproof | Yes |
This is a flexible dildo with super soft skin, thanks to sense feel different technologies it´s a realistic feeling and a real-looking dildo. This technology makes sure that the soft dildo feels like the human body and makes sure that the shaft is rigid.
Some might say this is a normal-sized soft dildo, some might say that it´s got a bit more girth than normal. The reality is that the size goes by the regular classic dildos, but the realistic look makes it look bigger. Either way, this means that it could feel a bit too big for anal play.
Fun Factory Limba Flex
It´s a flexable dildo, one of a kind really, this is the perfect soft dildo for beginners. This is for many reasons, but mostly for the size. If you are interested in Fun Factoy Limba flex in a bigger size – look here.
This flexi dildo is easy to bend up and down, side to side, and the best thing – it stays. So if you are one of those people struggling to find your g-spot or p-spot, and tried it out before with a g-spot dildo, then this is your chance. You can adapt the shaft so it becomes perfectly suited for your body.
It has a smooth surface that feels nice against the skin, it can make it a bit too slippery with lube on though. So make sure you always have the flared base free.
| Length | 5 inches |
| Insertable length | 4,5 inches |
| Width | 1,1 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
Fun Factory Limba Flex is a silicone dildo with a magnific feel, the smooth silicone material embraces your skin and with a bit of lube it slides in easy.
You can use it hands-free when taking advantage of the suction cup on a flat surface, or in a harness with an O-ring (make sure the diameter measures 1,25 inches).
It´s flexible in an unusual way, most dildos you can turn and twist by using, but not like this. This is a dildo that you can shape like clay, if you bend it to one side it will stay like that. This kind of makes this soft dildo to one of the most ergonomic dildos on the market.
Vixen Vixskin Mustang
Vixen Vixskin Mustang is a soft realistic-looking dildo with a suction cup that has a lot to offer. Have a look at our in-depth review here.
You can get Mustang in four different colours, three different skin tones and one in rainbow-colour, pretty, right? The rainbow colour also makes a perfect match for the lesbian couple that still wants the realistic feel and not a plastic toy, but still doesn´t want the realistic look of a penis. Of course, this is the case for more people than lesbian couples.
The vixskin material is a pleasure to touch. It has got a slightly curved shaft, and together with the marked glans, this is perfect for stimulating the g-spot or the p-spot. The head’s softness makes it very comfortable to rub against your clitoris or back on forth on the perineum.
| Length | 7,5 inches |
| Insertable length | 6,5 inches |
| Diameter | 1,6 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
Vixen Viskin Mustang, oh my, this is the go-to dildo and to be honest, it makes quite a few dildos in this test seem pointless… It´s an extra soft dildo with a curved shaft to make your pleasure more intense. The shaft makes it more comfortable for you to either find your g-spot or p-spot.
It feels lifelike and if you attach the suction cup to a flat surface, add some lube and close your eyes, it will be almost like the real thing.
Bear in mind, that if you want to use it for anal use, make sure you warm up carefully before. Some think the actual head (the glans) is a bit too soft, but after all, it is an extra soft dildo.
Also, it has got a suction cup, but it´s not the biggest which means that it can be hard to stick to some surfaces. But it should be fine if the surface is completely flat underneath. Such as maybe your shower wall? It suits better in a harness.
Shilo Pack & Play Posable Dildo
Wow, New York Toy Collective has once again made it, a perfect pack & play soft dildo, Shilo is specially designed for queer penetrative sex. Of course, it can be used by all sexualities and identities.
So why is it called Pack & Play? It´s a soft flexible dildo whit a shaft you can design so it suits you. You can choose to tuck it in when not in use, maybe wear it under your pants and then when you want to use it, you just untuck it and make the erection flow.
In other words, it´s a posable core, and another thing, that really makes this ultra soft dildo something extra; is it´s handmade in the US. Good to know is that The Shilo is available in five colours: cashew, caramel, hazelnut, chocolate, and turquoise.
| Length | 7 1/4 inches |
| Insertable length | 6 1/4 inches |
| Diameter | 1 1/2 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Yes |
Shilo Pack & Play is one of a kind when it comes to soft dildos, when buying this you know it´s the real deal. It´s also not all about the posable shaft, it also has some nice details – a prominent head and veins that will add a lot of stimulation.
It´s got a soft outer layer which feels comfortable and smooth against your body, together with a firm core that you can adjust as you want. The adjustable core makes it easy for you to change and point the shaft so it fits your body, this is your time to be creative.
Most people find it difficult to clean their toys, and it´s difficult to know if it´s really that clean. With this soft dildo, you don´t have to worry, you can put it in boiled water, it even works to put it in the dishwasher.
Lovehoney Star Lust
Look like a star, act like a star and use a star dildo, this is a cute super soft dildo. It´s perfect for the one that wants to spice up the sex toy drawer with some fun design.
This super soft dildo is perfect for pegging, don´t know what pegging is – read here. It´s great for placing in a harness (use one with an O-ring that´s 1,75 inches in diameter) and the flared base is also perfect just for solo masturbation.
It´s a pretty big difference when it comes to the size of the head and the size of the shaft, some might need some warm-up before using the star dildo. It is also about 1 inch longer than average dildos, which makes it a big soft dildo.
| Length | 8 inches |
| Insertable length | 7 inches |
| Diameter | 1,59 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
This really is a likeable dildo; a dildo dressed up like a star and you can find it in two different colours, pick what suits you best. It´s made out of super soft silicone which will caress your skin smoothly.
A star dildo like this can be used in many different ways. Use the flared base as a handle for solo play or as the suction cup it´s supposed to be used. Use it for pegging your partner and/or use it in a harness as a strapon.
One thing to have in mind is that some find the flared base to be a bit too big or at least a bit uncomfortable to press against, if you happen to be one of them, we recommend you to get a proper harness with a harder surface to attach the super soft dildo against. Make sure when using lube, that you don´t lube the flared base, it makes the handle a bit too slippery for comfortable use.
The look is very non-intimidating which can be a plus for a lot of people, especially beginner users. Although, some think it´s a large dilso. It´s just the head that is a bit bigger, besides that it´s not a thick soft dildo. But as soon as you are warmed up, you will love this.
Solaris Slim Dual Density
For the ones who want a less girthy soft dildo, this is the one to pick! Evey single Solaris Slim Dual Density Dildo is unique, the reason is that they are all handcrafted. Can you imagine using a dildo that someone personally made of love and have produced hand-poured. That is something to brag about, right?
They all have a firm outer layer and it feels thinner than the ones reviewed before which makes it a perfect anal-safe dildo. Some people think the surface is too firm. So this one is for you, for you who want an ultra soft dildo.
| Length | 7 inches |
| Insertable length | 5,75 inches |
| Diameter | 1,5 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Yes |
A unique handcrafted dildo appreciated by the one who loves the smooth dildo. This really is an ultra soft dildo with no extra textures, which makes it easy and especially good for safe anal play.
This is also one of the few soft dildos in this test that is 100% waterproof, so take your time, slid down in the bath and enjoy. You can use it everywhere, no matter if you´re in the ocean or in the bathtub. Remember that even if it´s smooth, it can be a bit more friction using it in water.
It´s comfortable to use as a strapon dildo because of the sturdy base with an added buffer, everything so it can be as comfortable as possible for you.
Tantus Adam Super Soft
It´s a super soft dildo without being one of the floppy dildos. This is definitely BedBibles softest reviewed soft dildo thanks to the usage of Tantus’s own ultra premium-soft silicone.
It´s a big soft dildo with a big curve, a curve that makes it very suitable to wear in a harness. It´s not seen so clear, but if you touch it, you can feel the hints of veins popping out of this large soft dildo.
You might have understood that now, but this dildo is girthier than all the others in the test, it´s got a diameter of 1,75 inches and the insertable length goes up to 7 inches. You can choose between two different colours. Just like the Pack & Play, this too can be washed in the dishwasher or boiled in hot water.
| Length | 7,5 inches |
| Insertable length | 7 inches |
| Diameter | 1,68 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Yes |
Where you one of the big jelly dildos-fan, and still do enjoy soft rubber dildos? Say no more, this thick, soft dildo will be your best replacement so far.
Adam super soft is the perfect replacement for the one who used the old jelly dildos. It´s not as floppy as the jelly dildos could be tough. This is a thick soft dildo, something that can require a lot of patience during warm-up.
Tantus has made this dildo out of its own Ultram Premium Dual Density Silicone, which makes it very soft and nice to use. It´s got a discrete design with hints of veins and a clear glance.
It has a very curved shaft, something that makes it nice for both g-spotting and p-spotting, and also perfect to use in a harness. The flared base makes sure it stays properly in the harness, have in mind that it´s not a suction cup, just a base.
Looking for the Softest Vibrators Out There?
Of course, you can find a lot of other soft sex toys out there, and one of the most common soft toys to look for is a soft vibrator. So the question is, which one is the softest vibrator? Here below we have written about three of the softest vibrators we have found, we hope you will enjoy them.
Why You Should Avoid Jelly Dildos
It is becoming more and more known, a common truth among sex toy users that jelly dildos are a must to avoid!
But for you that are unsure why or didn´t
even know about it from the beginning, let us explain. For an extended version with more information, you can read here.
Jelly Dildos are covered up in chemical make-up!
Okay, not really make-up, but phthalates. This is added to plastic material to make it more flexible, and that´s how we want our dildos right, firm but flexible.
These chemicals are dangerous, they can give some really dangerous complications such as problems with fertility, breathing and different skin reactions.
Also, another thing with jelly dildos is that the material is porous. That means that it is a heaven for bacteria. So definitely a no-go to put in our sensitive bodies. This bacterial heaven also makes the material soon smell very bad.
The last thing that makes jelly dildos very bad, although it might not be the case for all of them, but most, is how the surface normally is a bit sticky and picks up dirt easily.
So if these aren´t reasons enough for you to avoid jelly dildos, I don´t know what reason you need. I just got one thing to say, please STOP buying jelly dildos – do your research!
Can You Make a Soft Dildo at Home?
DIY sex toys have been something that has blossomed lately, people want to be creative and make their own toys. Some toys are easier than others to make, have a look at some of our DIY:
But I´m afraid I need to tell you, that we do not recommend making a soft dildo at home due to safety reasons. The easiest way would have been to make a jelly dildo, but as mentioned above this is dangerous!
Making a soft dildo at home is too difficult and also you can not assure that it will break when it´s inside of you, which is very dangerous, especially when using it in your anus.
If you want to make a soft dildo that is safe and nice enough to use then it would be way too expensive and require a lot of work and tools.
If you want to get a new soft toy we recommend buying one instead, here are some good tips on where:
How to use a soft dildo
Using a soft dildo is easy, it´s possible to use it in a few different ways and as always, it´s just your own imagination that can hinder you. The usage depends on how it looks, which material it is and how big it is. Here below we will give you some ideas on how to use a soft dildo.
Always use lube
This isn´t a special advice for using a soft dildo, this is a general advice for anyone using a sex toy. Make sure to double check which material your sex toy is made of so you know which lube works.
For anal use
How to analy insert soft dildos?
It can be pretty difficult to use a soft dildo analy, if it´s one of the really squishy ones. So have patience, and be sure to warm up properly.
The most important thing to have in mind when using a toy in your anus is the base. The base needs to be flared so you can be sure that the whole toy doesn´t slip into you.
For vaginal use
You can use all soft dildos for vaginal use. If it´s too soft it can be more difficult, especially if you want to use it for stimulating the G-spot or P-spot.
How to clean a soft dildo
The best way to clean a sex toy, in general, would be to boil it, then you can be sure of having all the bacteria removed. But not all the materials can handle that, in this test there are only a few dildos that can. Note - only 100% silicone dildos with no electrical parts can be boiled. So we do recommend that you first rinse it, use mild soap and then rinse it again. When you´re done, no matter which method used, you should let it dry by itself or at most handdry it.
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.