11 of the Best Sex Toys for Beginners
Today I’m bringing you all of the best sex toys for beginners of every type! I was too a beginner once, and made some crucial mistakes I’d like to help you avoid. To make it super easy, I’ve curated a list of the best beginner toys in every sex toy category. I’ve done this together with the Bedbible tester team, and we’ve had our hands of hundreds of different toys to decide on the right ones for this list.
Clit Vibrator4.3  | Clit Sucker4.7 | Couples 4.5 | Bullet Vibrator4.8 | Fleshlight4.5 | Dildo4.6 | G-Spot4.1 | Finger Vibrator4.6 | Masturbator4.5 | Butt Plug4.9 | Vibrating Butt Plug4.5 |
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How did we select and test these sex toys for beginners?
This review started with in depth research of beginner sex toys. As a sex toy expert I know that sex toys for beginners should be easy to use, easy to care for and not overwhelmingly big or powerful. I also made sure to look for sex toys that are made with quality without being too expensive.
Many of the sex toys in this review have been tested and put through their paces by myself or one of our amazing sex toy testers. To read the full in-depth user review, you can click on the review link under the Bedbible rating.
How to Find the Best First Sex Toy for You
Everyone has different desires when it comes to choosing their first sex toy, so I’ve put together some things to think about to help you decide which type of sex toy will be best for you!
- Do you want to use it alone, with a partner or both? If you want to use your sex toy with a partner during sex, you will need to look for a couple’s toy or one that can easily fit between your bodies.
- Which body part do you usually stimulate? Think about what you like to do during sex and masturbation and look for a toy that stimulates the same area. For example, if you usually stimulate your clitoris during masturbation, a clit sucker or clit vibrator is a great option!
- What type of stimulation do you usually enjoy? If you are a vulva owner and love the feeling of oral sex, you might want to look for a clit sucker. Or if you are a penis owner and want to recreate the feeling of vaginal sex, a Fleshlight would be perfect!
- Have you experienced penetration before? If you are looking for a vaginal or anal penetration toy and have had penetrative sex before, you can find a toy that is similar in size to the penis you had sex with. If you are totally new to penetrative play, you might want to opt for something more similar in size to a finger or two.
Reviews of the 11 best sex toys for beginners
Clit Vibrator Dame Pom
Overall Rating
4.3/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4/5.0
User Ratings:
4.7/5.0
Based on 1165 user reviews
Rating: Dame Pom was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.
Rating: Dame Pom was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Dame Pom was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Pricey
Rating: Dame Pom was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Dame Pom for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The Pom from Dame is a soft squishy vibrator that hugs your body while delivering 10 modes of pleasurable vibrations wherever you choose to use it! 5 intensites and 5 different patterns.
The pebble-shaped vibrator can be laid flat for broad stimulation or you can use the tip for more precise stimulation exactly where you want it. Plus the small peak on the underside is perfectly for nestling against your clitoris!
Intuitive to use, waterproof and easy to clean, this makes a great vibrator for beginners.
Pros
- ✅ Smooth, soft, and flexible
- ✅ Ergonomic shape is easy to hold
- ✅ Versatile shape
- ✅ Waterproof
Cons
- ❌ Easy to accidentally change settings during use
- ❌ Not powerful enough for some
- ❌ On/off button a little stiff
- ❌ Short battery life
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Dame Pom are silent, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly
Rating: Dame Pom was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Dame Pom felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Dame Pom was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Dame Pom felt to the reviewer.
Verdict
The Dame Pom ticks all the boxes for an amazing sex toy for beginners, which is exactly why I chose it as today’s test winner! Firstly, it is very easy to use — both the buttons and the shape are intuitive to use. Secondly, it’s soft and flexible and will flex to your body, making it comfortable to use. Lastly, it’s made from body-safe materials that are easy to take care of.
I also love that you can use it for all kinds of external stimulation and the little peak is just perfect for nestling over your clitoris.
My only real critique of the design is that it can be easy to accidentally change the settings during use.
This is a little expensive for a first time toy, but if you are looking for an external vibrator, I would say it’s worth the investment. You can also keep an eye out for a sale!
Buy, if you...
- want a vibrator for external use
- prefer gentle to moderate stimulation
- love soft, flexible silicone
- are looking for a discret toy
Don't buy, if you...
- prefer rigid materials
- need very precise pinpoint stimulation
- crave a lot of power
Clit Sucker Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation
Overall Rating
4.7/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.6/5.0
Based on 7495 user reviews
Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.
Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The Satisfyer Pro 2 is one of the most popular sex toys of all time! This powerfully pleasing and affordable clit sucker is the perfect choice for clitoris owners looking to buy a first-time suction toy.
This suction toy provides intense stimulation without directly touching the clitoris, so you are less likely to experience the tingly numbness some people get with vibrations.
The wide mouth has a thick silicone rim, making it comfortable to use and it can be removed and replaced, making it easy to clean.
You get 11 intensities to choose from, so you can enjoy slow and sensual stimulation or turn it up for more intense power!
Pros
- ✅ Large mouth with soft silicone
- ✅ Good range of intensities
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Can remove/replace silicone mouth
Cons
- ❌ Gets loud on the higher settings
- ❌ Design feels a little bulky
- ❌ Not as powerful as other clit suckers
- ❌ Short battery life
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation are noisy, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly
Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is noisy.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation felt to the reviewer.
Verdict
There’s a reason this sex toy is so popular! This really is the best clit sucker for beginners in my humble opinion! It allows you to experience the delicious sensations of clit suckers without being overwhelmingly powerful or breaking the bank. It’s also super simple to use and clean. It is however a little noisy on the higher settings, which is something to bear in mind if you live with other people. It is however waterproof, so you could use it in the shower for more discretion!
Buy, if you...
- Want to try a clit sucker
- Find vibrators irritating or numbing
- Want to explore new sensations
Don't buy, if you...
- Need a very quiet sex toy
- Prefer a smaller, more precise suction mouth
Couples We-Vibe Chorus
Overall Rating
4.5/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.6/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.5/5.0
Based on 120 user reviews
Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.
Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Pricey
Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend We-Vibe Chorus for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The We-Vibe Chorus is a revelation for penis-in-vagina (PIV) sex. This C-shaped has two powerful, rumbly motors that can be controlled on the toy, in the app or using the remote control.
The first motor is in the external arm, which provides intense clitoral stimulation for the wearer and the second is in the internal arm which stimulates the wearer’s g-spot and their partner’s penis at the same time!
The adjustable neck in the middle of the toy bends to fit your body, so you can enjoy all of this amazing stimulation hands-free!
You can also connect the Chorus to app for greater customisation or long-distance play.
Pros
- ✅ Strong rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Stimulation for both partners
- ✅ Hands-free clit stimulation during sex
- ✅ Squeeze activated remote
- ✅ Discreet charging dock/storage case
- ✅ Adjustable angles
Cons
- ❌ App connection not reliable
Vibrations: The vibrations of the We-Vibe Chorus are quiet, very powerful, and somewhat rumbly
Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of We-Vibe Chorus felt to the reviewer.
Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of We-Vibe Chorus felt to the reviewer.
Verdict
I absolutely love the We-Vibe Chorus and think it makes an amazing couples vibrator toy for beginners and more advanced users alike. As someone who needs clitoral stimulation to have reliable orgasms during penetrative sex, this was a real game-changer!
It’s easy to get into position and stays in place and I really like that it comes with a physical remote so you don’t have to use your phone during sex if you don’t want to! It’s also fun that you can squeeze the remote for an extra boost of power to tip you over into an orgasm.
The vibrations are powerful and rumbly and everything you could want and the silicone is velvety soft!
I personally didn’t have much luck with the app and found it unreliable, but I haven’t tried it recently so it might be more stable now.
Buy, if you...
- want a sex toy to use during penetrative sex
- struggle to orgasm from penetration
- love dual clit and g-spot stimulation
- love rumbly vibrations
Don't buy, if you...
- are looking for a toy for solo play
- want reliable long-distance connection
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Bullet Vibrator We-Vibe Tango X
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Rachel WorthingtonUser Ratings:
4.6/5.0
Based on 52 user reviews
Rating: We-Vibe Tango X was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.
Rating: We-Vibe Tango X was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: We-Vibe Tango X was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: We-Vibe Tango X was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend We-Vibe Tango X for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
This We-Vibe vibrator is a simple but stylish vibrator that looks like a minimalistic sculpture!
The teardrop shape means you can enjoy pinpoint stimulation using the tip or broad stimulation by laying it flat against your body.
The single-button controls make it easy to switch between the three different vibration intensities.
The whole thing is covered in deliciously smooth silicone that feels fantastic against your body with a slick lube!
Pros
- ✅ Simple, discreet design
- ✅ Silky soft silicone
- ✅ Rechargeable
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Incredibly rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Lipstick-style shape for precision stimulation
Cons
- ❌ A little loud
- ❌ Battery runs out quickly
- ❌ Limited vibration modes
- ❌ No internal stimulation
Verdict
I’m so hyped about the We-Vibe Tango! It is by far one of the best vibratos (overall) I’ve ever tried. It’s a super simple bullet vibrator which is what makes it so perfect for beginners. It is one of the smaller toys on the list, at least compared to most other vibrators. That can make it a little difficult to find the exact right spot. Overall though it’s super rumbly and a fantastic place to start your sex toy journey.
Buy, if you...
- prefer simplicity
- want a vibrator for external use
- enjoy pinpoint stimulation
- aren't bothered about patterns
Don't buy, if you...
- want to explore patterns
- need a submersible vibrator
- have a very sensitive clitoris
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Fleshlight Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator
Overall Rating
4.5/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.4/5.0
Reviewed by:
Dennis AdamsUser Ratings:
4.6/5.0
Based on 198 user reviews
Rating: Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.
Rating: Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other sex toys for beginners.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Good things come in small(er) packages is most certainly true where the Fleshlight Go Surge is concerned. You get all the pleasure of a full size Fleshlight, just in a smaller, compact model.
The realistic vulva leads to a delightfully soft sleeve that’s laced with textures that add intense stimulation with each thrust. This sleeve features three texture canals with pleasurable nubs and cross-hatch textures.
Plus, you can adjust the suction intensity by tightening or loosening the cap at the end of the case.
Pros
- ✅ Compact model is great for travel
- ✅ Two different textural sensations
- ✅ Adjustable suction
- ✅ Hard, discreet case
- ✅ Suction is adjustable
- ✅ Easier to use due to being smaller
- ✅ Easier to store
- ✅ Cheaper than regular Fleshlights
Cons
- ❌ Compact size might not fit larger penises
- ❌ Requires thorough cleaning and drying
- ❌ Could be a little bit too tight for some
- ❌ Plain looking orifice entrance
- ❌ Unrealistic skin tone
Verdict
The smaller size and cheaper price of this compact model makes the Fleshlight Go Surge a perfect masturbator for beginners or just smaller-sized penises. The medium intensity texture is exciting without being overwhelming and the discreet flashlight-style case is great if you live with other people or for travel!
The compact size might not be big enough to accommodate larger-than-average penises, in which case, you are betting off going for a full-size Fleshlight.
The inner sleeve material is lovely and soft and feels amazing when combined with some lube but you have to will to clean and dry it thoroughly after each use to prevent it from getting nasty! Here’s how to clean your Fleshlight.
Buy, if you...
- want a compact masturbator
- enjoy realistic masturbators
- want a travel-friendly sex toy
- Enjoy the use of strokers
- Are looking for a cheaper toy
- Are looking for something smaller and easier to store
Don't buy, if you...
- have a penis that's longer than 7 inches erect
- prefer an anal sex toy
- want more varied textures
- Are looking for a full-sized Fleshlight
- Want something less tight
Dildo Tantus Charmer
Overall Rating
4.7/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.7/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.6/5.0
Based on 39 user reviews
Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.
Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Tantus Charmer for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The Tantus Charmer will certainly charm your sweet spots with its rippling shaft and top-quality silicone!
The 6.5 inch insertable shaft has a slight curve and four ridges to massage you g-spot or p-spot with each thrust.
This dildo is anal and vaginal safe and can be slipped inside a harness for all kinds of strap-on play!
Pros
- ✅ High-quality silicone
- ✅ Ridges add extra stimulation
- ✅ Curved for g-/p-spot stimulation
- ✅ Suitable for anal or vaginal use
- ✅ O-ring harness compatible
Cons
- ❌ Wide tip won't suit everyone
- ❌ No suction cup base
Verdict
I love both the look and feel of the Tantus Charmer! At just 1.1 inches in diameter, it makes a great dildo for beginners. The silicone is soft and has a glossy finish, making it glide effortlessly with a slick of lube.
I personally prefer the shape as anal dildo, but if it’s your first time exploring anal penetration, I would recommend using a finger or two to warm up first!
The only thing that would make the Charmer even more charming would be the addition of a suction cup base!
Buy, if you...
- enjoy firm but flexible silicone
- want a dildo for anal or vaginal use
- have a little experience with penetrative sex
Don't buy, if you...
- want a very soft, squishy dildo
- need a suction cup base
- prefer a smooth shaft
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G-Spot Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator
Overall Rating
4.1/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
3.2/5.0
Reviewed by:
Emily HudsonUser Ratings:
4.9/5.0
Based on 133 user reviews
Rating: Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is designed well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.
Rating: Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator was rated 65 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Get those yummy sunshine vibes all year round with the Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator.
With 12 vibration modes to explore, the Yummy Sunshine is great for internal or external stimulation.
The gentle curve and ripples of this beautifully flexible shaft are perfect for treating your g-spot to some intense pleasure!
Plus, the Yummy Sunshine is waterproof, so you can use it in the bath or shower!
Pros
- ✅ Loop handle for comfortable use
- ✅ Gently curved for g-spot stimulation
- ✅ Buttons are textured and glow when pressed making them easier to find
- ✅ Deep wave-like ridges for more complex internal stimulation
- ✅ Made with body safe materials
- ✅ Rechargeable
- ✅ Waterproof
Cons
- ❌ Difficult to position clitoral stimulation bump
- ❌ Vibrations can be felt in the handle
- ❌ Controls feel limited
- ❌ On the pricier side for its limited features
- ❌ Magnetic charger likes to disconnect mid-charge
Verdict
This is a wonderful vibrator for beginners, especially if you are looking for a g-spot vibrator. The combination of the curved shaft and vibrations, makes it easy to find and stimulate your g-spot. The ergonomic loop handle is also a really nice feature!
The shaft is very flexible making comfortable to press against your g-spot. For some it might be a bit tricky to enjoy the clitorial stimulation at the same time as the shaft is pretty long.
The shaft get’s a little thicker towards the base, so you might need to work up to inserting the whole thing if you are totally new to penetration.
Buy, if you...
- enjoy g-spot stimulation
- prefer flexible shafts
- have some experience with penetration
- You want something that is solely for internal stimulation
- Are looking for a heftier toy
- Like the idea of deep rugged, waves for internal stimulation
- Prefer buzzy vibrations
Don't buy, if you...
- are sensitive to vibrations in your hand
- need very intense, rumbly vibrations
- are looking for dual stimulation
- Don't like the idea of only internal stimulation
- Would prefer a toy that is soft and squishy
- Need a toy that is more on the quiet side
Finger Vibrator Dame Fin
Overall Rating
4.6/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.7/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.4/5.0
Based on 573 user reviews
Rating: Dame Fin was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.
Rating: Dame Fin was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Dame Fin was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Pricey
Rating: Dame Fin was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Dame Fin for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Slip the Dame Fin over your finger and let your hands wander!
The Fin features one side with soft, squishy silicone for more gentle, broad stimulation and a side with a more rigid point for pinpoint stimulation. Perfect to explore angles, positions and pinpoint stimulation.
You can also choose to use the silicone tether to secure it to your fingers or simply use the finger handle on the back to hold the Fin in place as you explore your or your partner’s body.
This intimate, intuitive finger vibrator has three speeds to choose from and is USB rechargeable.
Pros
- ✅ Intuitive to use
- ✅ Great to use on a partner
- ✅ Choose between pointy side and flat side
- ✅ Use with or without the finger tether
Cons
- ❌ Vibrations are quite buzzy
- ❌ Gets loud on the higher settings
- ❌ Not submersible
- ❌ No patterns
- ❌ Not a lot of difference between soft and pointy side
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Dame Fin are fairly quiet, gently, and somewhat buzzy
Rating: Dame Fin was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Dame Fin felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Dame Fin was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Dame Fin felt to the reviewer.
Verdict
The Fin makes a great addition to solo or couples play and the cute, approachable design makes it an ideal candidate for a vibrator for beginners. Another reason I think this is one of the best sex toys for beginners is it is so intuitive to use on yourself or a partner — you can use your hands or fingers as you would usually just with the added power of vibration!
The shape is great for using on all areas of the body and all types of genitals, but there’s not a lot of difference in sensation between the squishy side and pointy side.
The vibrations do tend towards the more buzzy end of the spectrum but they are powerful and still pleasant, especially if you enjoy more buzzy, surface stimulation. It does get loud on the highest settings so keep that in mind if you need a discreet vibrator.
Buy, if you...
- want an vibrator for solo or partnered play
- prefer buzzy vibrations
Don't buy, if you...
- need intense, rumbly vibrations
- need a quiet vibrator
- want to explore vibration patterns
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Masturbator Tenga Egg New Standard Pack
Overall Rating
4.5/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Jason BragdonUser Ratings:
4.0/5.0
Based on 111 user reviews
Rating: Tenga Egg New Standard Pack was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.
Rating: Tenga Egg New Standard Pack was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tenga Egg New Standard Pack was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Tenga Egg New Standard Pack was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other sex toys for beginners.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Tenga Egg New Standard Pack for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Make masturbation egg-citing again with the Tenga Egg New Standard Pack!
The ideal male masturbator for beginners. These masturbation eggs reveal a soft and stretchy TPE sleeve with a delicious internal texture. Lube it up and use it as a stroker for an incredibly enhanced handjob!
As the sleeve stretches over the shaft with every stroke it envelops your shaft and teases it from base to tip with teasing textures. Plus, each egg has a different internal texture to discover!
Now these eggs are made for single use, so clean-up is a breeze since you just have to chuck it out when you’re done! They’re super compact, lightweight, and easily portable, making them great to throw in your bag for some fun wherever you go!
Pros
- ✅ 6 different textures to try
- ✅ Will stretch to envelope your whole shaft
- ✅ Great for travel and on-the-go fun
- ✅ Affordable
- ✅ Very discreet and easy storage
Cons
- ❌ Only single use
Verdict
I think masturbation eggs make a great introduction to masturbators as you can try out different textures before committing to a full masturbator sleeve. They also make a great gift for a partner or an an exciting addition to a handjob!
Our tester really enjoyed the Tenga Egg New Standard Pack! He liked being able to try out a bunch of different textures and designs within the same product, as well as how compact and portable these babies are! Of course, you do have to consider whether or not you’re looking for a reusable masturbator or if you’re fine with experimenting with these first. I definitely think they’re very approachable for first-timers!
The TPE is very stretchy so will fit most penis sizes but can tear if you are very vigorous with it. Of course, this is where the disposable aspect is pretty practical. If you do enjoy these sensations, TENGA makes some really great reusable masturbators too, like the Tenga Spinner and the Tenga Flex Silky White.
Buy, if you...
- want to try masturbators for the first time
- don't mind single-use sleeves
- are on a budget
- want a fun gift for a partner
- want a travel-friendly masturbator
Don't buy, if you...
- would rather invest in a reusable masturbator
- prefer something with a realistic design
Butt Plug njoy Pure Plug Small
Overall Rating
4.9/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Rachel WorthingtonUser Ratings:
4.8/5.0
Based on 95 user reviews
Rating: njoy Pure Plug Small was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.
Rating: njoy Pure Plug Small was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: njoy Pure Plug Small was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Pricey
Rating: njoy Pure Plug Small was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend njoy Pure Plug Small for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
This sleek silver butt plug from njoy features a bulbed tip that provides a satisfying feeling fullness whether you enjoy it alone or during sex.
Made from pure stainless steel, this plug has a pleasant weightiness and it is compatible with all lubes. Plus, you can gently warm the plug before insertion for a more sensual, relaxing feel or even cool it for some tingly fun.
The base features a loop handle making it easy to insert, move during use, and remove.
Pros
- ✅ Beautifully made
- ✅ Compatible with all lubes
- ✅ Smooth insertion
- ✅ Can be warmed or cooled before use
- ✅ Loop handle for easy insertion/removal
Cons
- ❌ End is not that tapered
- ❌ May be too weighted for some
Verdict
While you might not instantly think of stainless steel as a beginner sex toy material, it actually has a lot of benefits. It’s incredibly smooth, which makes insertion much easier and you can use silicone lube, which has more slip than water-based lube.
The handle also makes it very easy to manoeuvre. The added weight also creates a sensation of fullness without the bulb being too big.
This is great for anyone has dipped their toes into anal play with some anal fingering and is ready to take it up a level with some anal toys. The price is quite high but this metal butt plug will last a lifetime with the correct care!
Buy, if you...
- prefer a rigid butt plug
- want to be able to use silicone lube
Don't buy, if you...
- prefer something soft and squishy
- are completely new to anal play
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Vibrating Butt Plug Lovehoney Butt Tingler
Overall Rating
4.5/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Emiel VizziUser Ratings:
4.4/5.0
Based on 476 user reviews
Rating: Lovehoney Butt Tingler was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.
Rating: Lovehoney Butt Tingler was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovehoney Butt Tingler was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Lovehoney Butt Tingler was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other sex toys for beginners.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Lovehoney Butt Tingler for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Discover the sweet sensation of anal vibration with the Butt Tingler.
Featuring a tapered tip for easy insertion and 10 function bullet vibrator, this vibrating butt plug is a pleasurable addition to solo or partner play. The T-bar base sits comfortably between your cheeks and keeps the plug safely anchored outside your body.
And, the whole thing is waterproof so you can slip it in before you slip into the shower.
Pros
- ✅ Slim size is perfect for beginners
- ✅ Tapered end for easy insertion
- ✅ Smooth silicone
- ✅ Use with or without bullet vibrator
Cons
- ❌ Vibrations are quite mild
- ❌ Battery powered
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Lovehoney Butt Tingler are silent, weak, and somewhat buzzy
Rating: Lovehoney Butt Tingler was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovehoney Butt Tingler felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovehoney Butt Tingler was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is weak.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovehoney Butt Tingler felt to the reviewer.
Verdict
This is a super approachable anal toy and makes for a fantastic first time vibrating butt plug. The size is manageable even for beginners and the vibration is pleasant without being overwhelmingly intense.
I also like that you can use the plug with or without the bullet vibrator giving you more ways to play for your money.
The only downside of this vibrating butt plug is that it’s battery powered, so you’ll have to stock up on batteries!
Buy, if you...
- are new to anal play
- want a slim, vibrating anal plug
- prefer a removable bullet vibrator
Don't buy, if you...
- crave intense vibrations
- are looking for a rechargeable vibrating butt plug
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Comparison of the 11 best sex toys for beginners
| Best | Clit Vibrator | Clit Sucker | Couples | Bullet Vibrator | Fleshlight | Dildo | G-Spot | Finger Vibrator | Masturbator | Butt Plug | Vibrating Butt Plug |
| Overall score | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 3.2 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.7 / 5.0 from 1165 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 7495 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 120 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 52 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 198 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 39 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 133 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 573 users | 4 / 5.0 from 111 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 95 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 476 users |
| Price | Pricey | Moderate | Pricey | Moderate | Cheap | Affordable | Moderate | Pricey | Cheap | Pricey | Cheap |
| Design | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 80 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 97 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 65 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Quality | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Sound | 20 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 40 / 100 | - | - | - | - | 60 / 100 | - | - | 20 / 100 |
| Power | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 80 / 100 | - | - | - | - | 40 / 100 | - | - | 20 / 100 |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | somewhat rumbly | - | - | - | - | somewhat buzzy | - | - | very buzzy |
| Vibration speeds | 5 | - | - | 8 | - | - | - | 3 | - | - | 3 |
| Vibration patterns | 5 | - | - | 7 | - | - | - | - | - | - | 7 |
| Length | 3.25 inches | 6.5 inches | 3.5 inches | 3.9 inches | 8.5 inches | 7 inches | 8.9 inches | 2.75 inches | Unstreched: 2.4 inches | 2.75 inches | 5 inches |
| Width | 2.2 inches | 1.5 inches | - | - | - | - | - | 1 inches | - | - | - |
| Waterproof | Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes, IPX7 waterproof | Splashproof | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone | ABS plastic, silicone | Silicone | Silicone/ABS Plastic | TPR, TPE, ABS Plastic | Silicone | Silicone, ABS Plastic | Medical Grade Silicone, ABS | Sleeve: TPE, Packaging: Polyproplyene, Polyethylene | Stainless Steel | Silicone, ABS Plastic |
| Rechargeable | Yes | - | Yes | Yes | - | - | Yes | Yes | - | - | No (1 x AAA battery) |
| Battery Life | 60 minutes | 30 minutes | 90 minutes | 120 minutes | - | - | 50 minutes | 90 minutes | - | - | - |
| Charging Time | 120 minutes | 90 minutes | 120 minutes | 90 minutes | - | - | 210 minutes | 120 minutes | - | - | - |
| Travel Lock | Yes | No | Yes | Yes | - | - | No | - | - | - | - |
| Clitoral suction | - | 11 modes | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Storage Bag Included | - | No | Charging/storage case | Yes | Comes with a Case and Cap | - | No | Yes | Comes with individual shells and egg carton box | Presentation box | - |
| Vibration modes | - | - | 10 + more in app | - | - | - | 12 | - | - | - | 3.5 |
| Insertable length | - | - | 3 inches | - | 7 inches | 6.5 inches | - | - | Stretches up to 7.8 inches | 2.25 inches | - |
| Remote Controls | - | - | Yes — physical + app | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Diameter | - | - | - | 0.9 inches | - | 1.1 inches | 1.7 inches | - | Unstretched: 1.9 inches | 1 inches | 1.1 inches |
| Diameter (internal) | - | - | - | - | 0.5 inches | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Adjustable | - | - | - | - | Yes | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Colors Available | - | - | - | - | Black (Case); Rose (Sleeve) | - | Yellow | - | - | - | - |
| Weight | - | - | - | - | - | - | 0.6 lbs | - | - | 0,43 lbs | - |
| Texture | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | Includes WAVY II, BOXY, BRUSH, TORNADO, SPHERE, and SILKY II | - | - |
The Essential Tool (Lube) with Any Sex Toy for Beginners
Hopefully you’ve found your perfect sex toy for beginners and are excited to get your hands on it and try it out, but before you get started, you are going to want some lube!
Lube is essential for a pleasurable experience allows your sex toy to glide over your chosen sex toy to glide over the sensitive skin in your intimate areas without any friction. It’s especially important if you are using an anal toy as the anus does not produce any of it’s own lubrication.
You might be tempted to go rogue and make your own lube with stuff you have at home, but that’s a really bad idea! Not only can these things be harsh or damaging to your most sensitive areas, they can also damage your sex toys. Here are some things to avoid:
- Oils — coconut, olive, any cooking oil
- Vaseline or any similar products
- Yoghurt
To keep both you and your sex toys safe and happy, choose a purpose-made lubricant for sex. Here are my top picks:
Sliquid H2O Original Water-Based Lubricant
Sliquid’s water-based lube is a fantastic lube to use during foreplay, vaginal sex and with all kinds of sex toys. It is hypoallergenic, non-toxic, and glycerin-free, making a great choice for anyone with a sensitive vulva. Check out our full review of Sliquid H2O to see what our tester thought of it!
Lovehoney Discover Water-Based Anal Lubricant 3.4 fl oz
If you are using an anal toy or want a lube for anal sex, a thicker water-based lubrication, like this one from Lovehoney, is a better option. The thickness provides better prevention against friction and will mean you need to reapply lube less often! It’s also safe with all sex toy materials.
Sliquid Organics Natural Silk Hybrid Lubricant 4.2 fl oz
If you want even longer lasting slippery sensations, a hybrid lube, like the Sliquid Organics Silk, is a great option. It is mostly water-based, making it condom and sex toy compatible but it has a small amount of silicone for added slip!
How Much Should You Spend on Your First Sex Toy?
You should never spend more than $200 on sex toys as a beginner, start by buying just 1 good quality toy. The worst thing you can do as a beginner is go for a whole bunch of sex toys at once, or buy a very cheap product. You will likely have a bad experience and ruin your future relationship.
I can’t give an exact amount. So the exact answer to this very good question of course depends on the type of toy and your budget. It can be a good idea to opt for a more affordable sex toy in the beginning, as you can never really be sure you will like the sensation the toy provides.
That being said, it does pay to spend a good amount to get a safe sex toy that’s made of body-safe materials. If you are buying a vibrator, you might also want to avoid very cheap options as they tend to have low-quality vibrations that will leave you feeling unsatisfied.
Here are my tips for buying your first sex toy without breaking the bank:
Look for sex toys made from safe materials
Anything you put inside your body should be non-toxic and non-porous, meaning there are no microscopic holes for mold or bacteria to grow in.
These materials are all body-safe:
- Silicone
- Borosilicate glass
- Metal, such as steel or aluminium
- ABS plastic
Most of these materials can be found relatively cheaply, especially silicone, ABS plastic, and glass
Sex toy materials to avoid:
- PVC
- Jelly
- Rubber
- Soft plastic
- Silicone blends
TPE/TPR is non-toxic but it is porous. This type of material is generally considered safe for external toys, such as masturbators, but not for internal toys as bacteria can grow in the microscopic holes.
Check deals on sex toy websites
Popular sex toy stores, such as Lovehoney, SheVibe and HustlerHollywood often have discounts to celebrate special holidays or at different points throughout the year. These are a great opportunity to get more for your money!
Consider what's most important to you and prioritise that
Everyone has different priorities when it comes to sex toys so think about what’s most important to you. Is it that it has especially strong vibrations, how it looks or that it’s made from a specific material?
Read reviews before committing
Check out our reviews here on Bedbible and read user reviews on shop websites to get the best idea of whether a toy will be good for you, so you don’t waste your money.
What Type of Sex Toy a Beginner Should Choose
In almost all cases I would advise all beginners to choose a simple vibrator as their first toy.
But, to help you decide, allow me to explain a bit more.
The sheer number of different types of sex toys can be overwhelming when looking for a sex toys as a beginner.
Here are some of the types of toys you can consider, and what they are good for:
- Internal vibrators can be used vaginally, while only ones with flared bases are anal-safe. You can also use internal vibrators externally! G-spot vibrators tend to be curved to make it easy to stimulate the front wall of your vagina.
- External vibrators can only be used to stimulate external areas, like the clitoris, penis, perineum, and nipples.
- Dildos are mainly used for internal stimulation to recreate the feeling of penetrative sex. Again all dildos can be used vaginally but only flared base dildos are safe for anal use. Dildos for beginners tend to be smaller in size.
- Anal toys should always have a flared base to prevent them travelling up inside you. Some common anal toys include butt plugs, vibrating butt plugs, anal beads, and anal dildos.
- Cock rings lightly constrict the penis to give a firmer erection. You can also get vibrating cock rings that stimulate a partner’s clitoris during penetrative sex.
- Bondage gear includes all types of sexual restraints for tying up/down your partner. They are great for exploring domination and submission and can be used during penetrative sex or other types of stimulation.
- Nipple toys include nipple clamps, nipple suckers, and nipple pumps. They all work to increase nipple sensitivity but nipple suckers are the most beginner-friendly as they don’t involve any pain and are easy to use.
How to Introduce Sex Toys into the Bedroom as a First Time User
Bringing up using sex toys with a partner can be a little nerve-racking, especially if you aren’t used to these conversations, but being able to talk more openly about what you in the bedroom can be extremely beneficial for your sex life and relationship! Here are my top tips for bringing sex toys into the bedroom:
Always get consent
As with everything sex-related consent is a non-negotiable.
You should never use a sex toy on someone without their full enthusiastic consent.
You also shouldn’t coerce them into saying yes.
Talk to your partner when you both feel relaxed
Don’t bring up the topic in the heat of the moment.
Wait until you are both relaxed and in a good mood.
Reassure your partner
Some people can feel intimidated by sex toys or they might get the idea you aren’t satisfied with your sex life, which can make them feel sad or defensive.
It can be a helpful to reassure your partner that you love them and you enjoy your sex life but you want to make it even better for both of you.
Shop for sex toys together
Get onto to Lovehoney and browse the options together to make it a collaborative activity and so you can choose something you both enjoy.
Start out simple
Choose something easy to use, like a magic wand vibrator, masturbator, or cock ring to start off with and get used to using toys with each other.
Set and respect boundaries
You will need to clearly communicate your boundaries before using sex toys.
For example:
“I would love to use the dildo for vaginal penetration but anal is off limits.”
Take it slowly and communicate clearly
When you do get your new sex toy, start out gently with it as you learn what feels good for each of you. You will also need to guide your partner on what feels good. What pressure should they use, are they holding it in the right place, what speed feels good, etc.
You can also use the traffic light system to get feedback from your partner. Green means this feels great, keep going, yellow means you are getting close to a limit so proceed with caution, and red means stop.
Accept that things go wrong sometimes
Sex is unpredictable and might not always go according to plan.
If something doesn’t work for you, being able to laugh it off together is a great skill!
FAQ
What is a sex toy for beginners?
While there are no specific sex toys for beginners, a great sex toy for beginner's should be approachable, easy to use, and appropriately sized! Most people starting their sex toy journey will want a sex toy that isn't too big or intensely powerful as this can be overwhelming or even painful, so it's best to start out with something less intense and then work your way up if you enjoy it!
Reviewed by:
Mariah Lyons