11 of the Best Sex Toys for Beginners
Today I’m bringing you all of the best sex toys for beginners of every type! I was too a beginner once, and made some crucial mistakes I’d like to help you avoid. To make it super easy, I’ve curated a list of the best beginner toys in every sex toy category. I’ve done this together with the Bedbible tester team, and we’ve had our hands of hundreds of different toys to decide on the right ones for this list.
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How We Test sex toys for beginners
We’re a team of 274 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best sex toys for beginners, our testers tried and reviewed 44 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre sex toys for beginners didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 897 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
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Best Clit Sucker Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation
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The Satisfyer Pro 2 is one of the most popular sex toys of all time! This powerfully pleasing and affordable clit sucker is the perfect choice for clitoris owners looking to buy a first-time suction toy.
This suction toy provides intense stimulation without directly touching the clitoris, so you are less likely to experience the tingly numbness some people get with vibrations.
The wide mouth has a thick silicone rim, making it comfortable to use and it can be removed and replaced, making it easy to clean.
You get 11 intensities to choose from, so you can enjoy slow and sensual stimulation or turn it up for more intense power!
Pros
- ✅ Large mouth with soft silicone
- ✅ Good range of intensities
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Can remove/replace silicone mouth
Cons
- ❌ Gets loud on the higher settings
- ❌ Design feels a little bulky
- ❌ Not as powerful as other clit suckers
- ❌ Short battery life
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Why I Chose It
There’s a reason this sex toy is so popular! This really is the best clit sucker for beginners in my humble opinion! It allows you to experience the delicious sensations of clit suckers without being overwhelmingly powerful or breaking the bank. It’s also super simple to use and clean. It is however a little noisy on the higher settings, which is something to bear in mind if you live with other people. It is however waterproof, so you could use it in the shower for more discretion!
Best Clit Vibrator Dame Pom
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The Pom from Dame is a soft squishy vibrator that hugs your body while delivering 10 modes of pleasurable vibrations wherever you choose to use it! 5 intensites and 5 different patterns.
The pebble-shaped vibrator can be laid flat for broad stimulation or you can use the tip for more precise stimulation exactly where you want it. Plus the small peak on the underside is perfectly for nestling against your clitoris!
Intuitive to use, waterproof and easy to clean, this makes a great vibrator for beginners.
Pros
- ✅ Smooth, soft, and flexible
- ✅ Ergonomic shape is easy to hold
- ✅ Versatile shape
- ✅ Waterproof
Cons
- ❌ Easy to accidentally change settings during use
- ❌ Not powerful enough for some
- ❌ On/off button a little stiff
- ❌ Short battery life
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Why I Chose It
The Dame Pom ticks all the boxes for an amazing sex toy for beginners, which is exactly why I chose it as today’s test winner! Firstly, it is very easy to use — both the buttons and the shape are intuitive to use. Secondly, it’s soft and flexible and will flex to your body, making it comfortable to use. Lastly, it’s made from body-safe materials that are easy to take care of.
I also love that you can use it for all kinds of external stimulation and the little peak is just perfect for nestling over your clitoris.
My only real critique of the design is that it can be easy to accidentally change the settings during use.
This is a little expensive for a first time toy, but if you are looking for an external vibrator, I would say it’s worth the investment. You can also keep an eye out for a sale!
Best for Couples We-Vibe Chorus
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The We-Vibe Chorus is a revelation for penis-in-vagina (PIV) sex. This C-shaped has two powerful, rumbly motors that can be controlled on the toy, in the app or using the remote control.
The first motor is in the external arm, which provides intense clitoral stimulation for the wearer and the second is in the internal arm which stimulates the wearer’s g-spot and their partner’s penis at the same time!
The adjustable neck in the middle of the toy bends to fit your body, so you can enjoy all of this amazing stimulation hands-free!
You can also connect the Chorus to app for greater customisation or long-distance play.
Pros
- ✅ Strong rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Stimulation for both partners
- ✅ Hands-free clit stimulation during sex
- ✅ Squeeze activated remote
- ✅ Discreet charging dock/storage case
- ✅ Adjustable angles
Cons
- ❌ App connection not reliable
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Why I Chose It
I absolutely love the We-Vibe Chorus and think it makes an amazing couples vibrator toy for beginners and more advanced users alike. As someone who needs clitoral stimulation to have reliable orgasms during penetrative sex, this was a real game-changer!
It’s easy to get into position and stays in place and I really like that it comes with a physical remote so you don’t have to use your phone during sex if you don’t want to! It’s also fun that you can squeeze the remote for an extra boost of power to tip you over into an orgasm.
The vibrations are powerful and rumbly and everything you could want and the silicone is velvety soft!
I personally didn’t have much luck with the app and found it unreliable, but I haven’t tried it recently so it might be more stable now.
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Best Bullet Vibrator We-Vibe Tango X
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This We-Vibe vibrator is a simple but stylish vibrator that looks like a minimalistic sculpture!
The teardrop shape means you can enjoy pinpoint stimulation using the tip or broad stimulation by laying it flat against your body.
The single-button controls make it easy to switch between the three different vibration intensities.
The whole thing is covered in deliciously smooth silicone that feels fantastic against your body with a slick lube!
Pros
- ✅ Simple, discreet design
- ✅ Silky soft silicone
- ✅ Rechargeable
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Incredibly rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Lipstick-style shape for precision stimulation
Cons
- ❌ A little loud
- ❌ Battery runs out quickly
- ❌ Limited vibration modes
- ❌ No internal stimulation
Why I Chose It
I’m so hyped about the We-Vibe Tango! It is by far one of the best vibratos (overall) I’ve ever tried. It’s a super simple bullet vibrator which is what makes it so perfect for beginners. It is one of the smaller toys on the list, at least compared to most other vibrators. That can make it a little difficult to find the exact right spot. Overall though it’s super rumbly and a fantastic place to start your sex toy journey.
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Best Dildo Tantus Charmer
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The Tantus Charmer will certainly charm your sweet spots with its rippling shaft and top-quality silicone!
The 6.5 inch insertable shaft has a slight curve and four ridges to massage you g-spot or p-spot with each thrust.
This dildo is anal and vaginal safe and can be slipped inside a harness for all kinds of strap-on play!
Pros
- ✅ High-quality silicone
- ✅ Ridges add extra stimulation
- ✅ Curved for g-/p-spot stimulation
- ✅ Suitable for anal or vaginal use
- ✅ O-ring harness compatible
Cons
- ❌ Wide tip won't suit everyone
- ❌ No suction cup base
Why I Chose It
I love both the look and feel of the Tantus Charmer! At just 1.1 inches in diameter, it makes a great dildo for beginners. The silicone is soft and has a glossy finish, making it glide effortlessly with a slick of lube.
I personally prefer the shape as anal dildo, but if it’s your first time exploring anal penetration, I would recommend using a finger or two to warm up first!
The only thing that would make the Charmer even more charming would be the addition of a suction cup base!
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Best Stroker Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator
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Good things come in small(er) packages is most certainly true where the Fleshlight Go Surge is concerned. You get all the pleasure of a full size Fleshlight, just in a smaller, compact model.
The realistic vulva leads to a delightfully soft sleeve that’s laced with textures that add intense stimulation with each thrust. This sleeve features three texture canals with pleasurable nubs and cross-hatch textures.
Plus, you can adjust the suction intensity by tightening or loosening the cap at the end of the case.
Pros
- ✅ Compact model is great for travel
- ✅ Two different textural sensations
- ✅ Adjustable suction
- ✅ Hard, discreet case
- ✅ Suction is adjustable
- ✅ Easier to use due to being smaller
- ✅ Easier to store
- ✅ Cheaper than regular Fleshlights
Cons
- ❌ Compact size might not fit larger penises
- ❌ Requires thorough cleaning and drying
- ❌ Could be a little bit too tight for some
- ❌ Plain looking orifice entrance
- ❌ Unrealistic skin tone
Why I Chose It
The smaller size and cheaper price of this compact model makes the Fleshlight Go Surge a perfect masturbator for beginners or just smaller-sized penises. The medium intensity texture is exciting without being overwhelming and the discreet flashlight-style case is great if you live with other people or for travel!
The compact size might not be big enough to accommodate larger-than-average penises, in which case, you are betting off going for a full-size Fleshlight.
The inner sleeve material is lovely and soft and feels amazing when combined with some lube but you have to will to clean and dry it thoroughly after each use to prevent it from getting nasty! Here’s how to clean your Fleshlight.
Best for G-Spot Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator
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Get those yummy sunshine vibes all year round with the Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator.
With 12 vibration modes to explore, the Yummy Sunshine is great for internal or external stimulation.
The gentle curve and ripples of this beautifully flexible shaft are perfect for treating your g-spot to some intense pleasure!
Plus, the Yummy Sunshine is waterproof, so you can use it in the bath or shower!
Pros
- ✅ Loop handle for comfortable use
- ✅ Gently curved for g-spot stimulation
- ✅ Buttons are textured and glow when pressed making them easier to find
- ✅ Deep wave-like ridges for more complex internal stimulation
- ✅ Made with body safe materials
- ✅ Rechargeable
- ✅ Waterproof
Cons
- ❌ Difficult to position clitoral stimulation bump
- ❌ Vibrations can be felt in the handle
- ❌ Controls feel limited
- ❌ On the pricier side for its limited features
- ❌ Magnetic charger likes to disconnect mid-charge
Why I Chose It
This is a wonderful vibrator for beginners, especially if you are looking for a g-spot vibrator. The combination of the curved shaft and vibrations, makes it easy to find and stimulate your g-spot. The ergonomic loop handle is also a really nice feature!
The shaft is very flexible making comfortable to press against your g-spot. For some it might be a bit tricky to enjoy the clitorial stimulation at the same time as the shaft is pretty long.
The shaft get’s a little thicker towards the base, so you might need to work up to inserting the whole thing if you are totally new to penetration.
Best Finger Vibrator Dame Fin
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Slip the Dame Fin over your finger and let your hands wander!
The Fin features one side with soft, squishy silicone for more gentle, broad stimulation and a side with a more rigid point for pinpoint stimulation. Perfect to explore angles, positions and pinpoint stimulation.
You can also choose to use the silicone tether to secure it to your fingers or simply use the finger handle on the back to hold the Fin in place as you explore your or your partner’s body.
This intimate, intuitive finger vibrator has three speeds to choose from and is USB rechargeable.
Pros
- ✅ Intuitive to use
- ✅ Great to use on a partner
- ✅ Choose between pointy side and flat side
- ✅ Use with or without the finger tether
Cons
- ❌ Vibrations are quite buzzy
- ❌ Gets loud on the higher settings
- ❌ Not submersible
- ❌ No patterns
- ❌ Not a lot of difference between soft and pointy side
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Why I Chose It
The Fin makes a great addition to solo or couples play and the cute, approachable design makes it an ideal candidate for a vibrator for beginners. Another reason I think this is one of the best sex toys for beginners is it is so intuitive to use on yourself or a partner — you can use your hands or fingers as you would usually just with the added power of vibration!
The shape is great for using on all areas of the body and all types of genitals, but there’s not a lot of difference in sensation between the squishy side and pointy side.
The vibrations do tend towards the more buzzy end of the spectrum but they are powerful and still pleasant, especially if you enjoy more buzzy, surface stimulation. It does get loud on the highest settings so keep that in mind if you need a discreet vibrator.
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Best Masturbator Tenga Egg New Standard Pack
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Make masturbation egg-citing again with the Tenga Egg New Standard Pack!
The ideal male masturbator for beginners. These masturbation eggs reveal a soft and stretchy TPE sleeve with a delicious internal texture. Lube it up and use it as a stroker for an incredibly enhanced handjob!
As the sleeve stretches over the shaft with every stroke it envelops your shaft and teases it from base to tip with teasing textures. Plus, each egg has a different internal texture to discover!
Now these eggs are made for single use, so clean-up is a breeze since you just have to chuck it out when you’re done! They’re super compact, lightweight, and easily portable, making them great to throw in your bag for some fun wherever you go!
Pros
- ✅ 6 different textures to try
- ✅ Will stretch to envelope your whole shaft
- ✅ Great for travel and on-the-go fun
- ✅ Affordable
- ✅ Very discreet and easy storage
Cons
- ❌ Only single use
Why I Chose It
I think masturbation eggs make a great introduction to masturbators as you can try out different textures before committing to a full masturbator sleeve. They also make a great gift for a partner or an an exciting addition to a handjob!
Our tester really enjoyed the Tenga Egg New Standard Pack! He liked being able to try out a bunch of different textures and designs within the same product, as well as how compact and portable these babies are! Of course, you do have to consider whether or not you’re looking for a reusable masturbator or if you’re fine with experimenting with these first. I definitely think they’re very approachable for first-timers!
The TPE is very stretchy so will fit most penis sizes but can tear if you are very vigorous with it. Of course, this is where the disposable aspect is pretty practical. If you do enjoy these sensations, TENGA makes some really great reusable masturbators too, like the Tenga Spinner and the Tenga Flex Silky White.
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Best Butt Plug njoy Pure Plug Small
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This sleek silver butt plug from njoy features a bulbed tip that provides a satisfying feeling fullness whether you enjoy it alone or during sex.
Made from pure stainless steel, this plug has a pleasant weightiness and it is compatible with all lubes. Plus, you can gently warm the plug before insertion for a more sensual, relaxing feel or even cool it for some tingly fun.
The base features a loop handle making it easy to insert, move during use, and remove.
Pros
- ✅ Beautifully made
- ✅ Compatible with all lubes
- ✅ Smooth insertion
- ✅ Can be warmed or cooled before use
- ✅ Loop handle for easy insertion/removal
Cons
- ❌ End is not that tapered
- ❌ May be too weighted for some
Why I Chose It
While you might not instantly think of stainless steel as a beginner sex toy material, it actually has a lot of benefits. It’s incredibly smooth, which makes insertion much easier and you can use silicone lube, which has more slip than water-based lube.
The handle also makes it very easy to manoeuvre. The added weight also creates a sensation of fullness without the bulb being too big.
This is great for anyone has dipped their toes into anal play with some anal fingering and is ready to take it up a level with some anal toys. The price is quite high but this metal butt plug will last a lifetime with the correct care!
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Best Vibrating Butt Plug Lovehoney Butt Tingler
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Discover the sweet sensation of anal vibration with the Butt Tingler.
Featuring a tapered tip for easy insertion and 10 function bullet vibrator, this vibrating butt plug is a pleasurable addition to solo or partner play. The T-bar base sits comfortably between your cheeks and keeps the plug safely anchored outside your body.
And, the whole thing is waterproof so you can slip it in before you slip into the shower.
Pros
- ✅ Slim size is perfect for beginners
- ✅ Tapered end for easy insertion
- ✅ Smooth silicone
- ✅ Use with or without bullet vibrator
Cons
- ❌ Vibrations are quite mild
- ❌ Battery powered
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Why I Chose It
This is a super approachable anal toy and makes for a fantastic first time vibrating butt plug. The size is manageable even for beginners and the vibration is pleasant without being overwhelmingly intense.
I also like that you can use the plug with or without the bullet vibrator giving you more ways to play for your money.
The only downside of this vibrating butt plug is that it’s battery powered, so you’ll have to stock up on batteries!
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Comparison
Best | Best Clit Sucker | Best Clit Vibrator | Best for Couples | Best Bullet Vibrator | Best Dildo | Best Stroker | Best for G-Spot | Best Finger Vibrator | Best Masturbator | Best Butt Plug | Best Vibrating Butt Plug |
Overall score | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 3.2 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.6 / 5.0 from 7495 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 1165 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 120 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 52 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 39 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 198 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 133 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 573 users | 4 / 5.0 from 111 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 95 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 476 users |
Price | Moderate | Pricey | Pricey | Moderate | Affordable | Cheap | Moderate | Pricey | Cheap | Pricey | Cheap |
Design | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
Ease of use | 95 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 97 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 65 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
Quality | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
Sound | 80 / 100 | 20 / 100 | 40 / 100 | - | - | - | - | 60 / 100 | - | - | 20 / 100 |
Power | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 80 / 100 | - | - | - | - | 40 / 100 | - | - | 20 / 100 |
Buzzy/Rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | somewhat rumbly | - | - | - | - | somewhat buzzy | - | - | very buzzy |
Clitoral suction | 11 modes | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Length | 6.5 inches | 3.25 inches | 3.5 inches | 3.9 inches | 7 inches | 8.5 inches | 8.9 inches | 2.75 inches | Unstreched: 2.4 inches | 2.75 inches | 5 inches |
Width | 1.5 inches | 2.2 inches | - | - | - | - | - | 1 inches | - | - | - |
Materials | ABS plastic, silicone | Silicone | Silicone | Silicone/ABS Plastic | Silicone | TPR, TPE, ABS Plastic | Silicone, ABS Plastic | Medical Grade Silicone, ABS | Sleeve: TPE, Packaging: Polyproplyene, Polyethylene | Stainless Steel | Silicone, ABS Plastic |
Waterproof | Yes | Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes, IPX7 waterproof | Splashproof | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Battery Life | 30 minutes | 60 minutes | 90 minutes | 120 minutes | - | - | 50 minutes | 90 minutes | - | - | - |
Charging Time | 90 minutes | 120 minutes | 120 minutes | 90 minutes | - | - | 210 minutes | 120 minutes | - | - | - |
Travel Lock | No | Yes | Yes | Yes | - | - | No | - | - | - | - |
Storage Bag Included | No | - | Charging/storage case | Yes | - | Comes with a Case and Cap | No | Yes | Comes with individual shells and egg carton box | Presentation box | - |
Vibration speeds | - | 5 | - | 8 | - | - | - | 3 | - | - | 3 |
Vibration patterns | - | 5 | - | 7 | - | - | - | - | - | - | 7 |
Rechargeable | - | Yes | Yes | Yes | - | - | Yes | Yes | - | - | No (1 x AAA battery) |
Vibration modes | - | - | 10 + more in app | - | - | - | 12 | - | - | - | 3.5 |
Insertable length | - | - | 3 inches | - | 6.5 inches | 7 inches | - | - | Stretches up to 7.8 inches | 2.25 inches | - |
Remote Controls | - | - | Yes — physical + app | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Diameter | - | - | - | 0.9 inches | 1.1 inches | - | 1.7 inches | - | Unstretched: 1.9 inches | 1 inches | 1.1 inches |
Diameter (internal) | - | - | - | - | - | 0.5 inches | - | - | - | - | - |
Adjustable | - | - | - | - | - | Yes | - | - | - | - | - |
Colors Available | - | - | - | - | - | Black (Case); Rose (Sleeve) | Yellow | - | - | - | - |
Weight | - | - | - | - | - | - | 0.6 lbs | - | - | 0,43 lbs | - |
Texture | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | Includes WAVY II, BOXY, BRUSH, TORNADO, SPHERE, and SILKY II | - | - |
How to Decide on Your First Sex Toy
Everyone has different desires when it comes to choosing their first sex toy.
So, I’ve put together some things to think about to help you decide which type of sex toy will be best for you!
- Do you want to use it alone, with a partner or both? If you want to use your sex toy with a partner during sex, you will need to look for a couple’s toy or one that can easily fit between your bodies.
- Which body part do you usually stimulate? Think about what you like to do during sex and masturbation and look for a toy that stimulates the same area. For example, if you usually stimulate your clitoris during masturbation, a clit sucker or clit vibrator is a great option!
- What type of stimulation do you usually enjoy? If you are a vulva owner and love the feeling of oral sex, you might want to look for a clit sucker. Or if you are a penis owner and want to recreate the feeling of vaginal sex, a Fleshlight would be perfect!
- Have you experienced penetration before? If you are looking for a vaginal or anal penetration toy and have had penetrative sex before, you can find a toy that is similar in size to the penis you had sex with. If you are totally new to penetrative play, you might want to opt for something more similar in size to a finger or two.
How Much Should You Spend on Your First Sex Toy?
You should never spend more than $200 on sex toys as a beginner, start by buying just 1 good quality toy. The worst thing you can do as a beginner is go for a whole bunch of sex toys at once, or buy a very cheap product. You will likely have a bad experience and ruin your future relationship.
I can’t give an exact amount. So the exact answer to this very good question of course depends on the type of toy and your budget. It can be a good idea to opt for a more affordable sex toy in the beginning, as you can never really be sure you will like the sensation the toy provides.
That being said, it does pay to spend a good amount to get a safe sex toy that’s made of body-safe materials. If you are buying a vibrator, you might also want to avoid very cheap options as they tend to have low-quality vibrations that will leave you feeling unsatisfied.
Here are my tips for buying your first sex toy without breaking the bank:
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Anything you put inside your body should be non-toxic and non-porous, meaning there are no microscopic holes for mold or bacteria to grow in.
These materials are all body-safe:
- Silicone
- Borosilicate glass
- Metal, such as steel or aluminium
- ABS plastic
Most of these materials can be found relatively cheaply, especially silicone, ABS plastic, and glass
Sex toy materials to avoid:
- PVC
- Jelly
- Rubber
- Soft plastic
- Silicone blends
TPE/TPR is non-toxic but it is porous. This type of material is generally considered safe for external toys, such as masturbators, but not for internal toys as bacteria can grow in the microscopic holes.
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What Type of Sex Toy a Beginner Should Choose
In almost all cases I would advise all beginners to choose a simple vibrator as their first toy.
But, to help you decide, allow me to explain a bit more.
The sheer number of different types of sex toys can be overwhelming when looking for a sex toys as a beginner.
Here are some of the types of toys you can consider, and what they are good for:
- Internal vibrators can be used vaginally, while only ones with flared bases are anal-safe. You can also use internal vibrators externally! G-spot vibrators tend to be curved to make it easy to stimulate the front wall of your vagina.
- External vibrators can only be used to stimulate external areas, like the clitoris, penis, perineum, and nipples.
- Dildos are mainly used for internal stimulation to recreate the feeling of penetrative sex. Again all dildos can be used vaginally but only flared base dildos are safe for anal use. Dildos for beginners tend to be smaller in size.
- Anal toys should always have a flared base to prevent them travelling up inside you. Some common anal toys include butt plugs, vibrating butt plugs, anal beads, and anal dildos.
- Cock rings lightly constrict the penis to give a firmer erection. You can also get vibrating cock rings that stimulate a partner’s clitoris during penetrative sex.
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