The 14 Best Sex Toys for Beginners — Vibrators, Masturbators, Butt Plugs & More

Isabelle Uren
by Isabelle UrenUpdated:

Today I’m bringing you all of the best sex toys for beginners of every kind! Whether you are looking for the best masturbators for beginners or a first-time vibrator or couples toy, you will find the best option on the market in this review! I’ve included all my expert advice to help you start your exciting adventure into the exciting world of sex toys, including explanations of all the different types of sex and how to choose the best beginners sex toy for you!  

Clit Vibrator4.3Dame Pom  rating 4.3
Clit Sucker4.7Satisfyer Pro 2 rating 4.7
G-spot4.1Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine rating 4.1
Couples 4.5We-Vibe Chorus  rating 4.5
Bullet Vibrator4.8Maude Vibe  rating 4.8
Dildo4.6Tantus Charmer rating 4.6
Finger4.6Dame Fin rating 4.6
Masturbator4.3Tenga Egg New Standard rating 4.3
Fleshlight4.5Fleshlight Go Surge  rating 4.5
Butt plug4.9njoy Pure Plug rating 4.9
Vibrating Butt Plug4.5Butt Tingler rating 4.5
Nipple toy4.5FSOG Nipple Suckers rating 4.5
Bondage4.9S&M Bondage Starter Kit  rating 4.9
Strap-on5.0New Comers Strap-On Kit  rating 5.0
Dame Pom Satisfyer Pro 2Satisfyer Yummy SunshineWe-Vibe Chorus Maude Vibe Tantus CharmerDame FinTenga Egg New StandardFleshlight Go Surge njoy Pure PlugButt TinglerFSOG Nipple SuckersS&M Bondage Starter Kit New Comers Strap-On Kit
Dame Pom Satisfyer Pro 2Satisfyer Yummy SunshineWe-Vibe Chorus Maude Vibe Tantus CharmerDame FinTenga Egg New StandardFleshlight Go Surge njoy Pure PlugButt TinglerFSOG Nipple SuckersS&M Bondage Starter Kit New Comers Strap-On Kit
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  • Smooth, soft, and flexible
  • Ergonomic shape is easy to hold
  • Versatile shape
  • Waterproof
  • Easy to accidentally change settings during use
  • Not powerful enough for some
  • On/off button a little stiff
  • Short battery life
  • Large mouth with soft silicone
  • Good range of intensities
  • Easy to use
  • Can remove/replace silicone mouth
  • Gets loud on the higher settings
  • Design feels a little bulky
  • Not as powerful as other clit suckers
  • Short battery life
  • Loop handle for comfortable use
  • Gently curved for g-spot stimulation
  • Buttons are textured and glow when pressed making them easier to find
  • Deep wave-like ridges for more complex internal stimulation
  • Made with body safe materials
  • Difficult to position clitoral stimulation bump
  • Vibrations can be felt in the handle
  • Controls feel limited
  • On the pricier side for its limited features
  • Magnetic charger likes to disconnect mid-charge
  • Strong rumbly vibrations
  • Stimulation for both partners
  • Hands-free clit stimulation during sex
  • Squeeze activated remote
  • Discreet charging dock/storage case
  • App connection not reliable
  • Simple, discreet design
  • Silky soft silicone
  • Rechargeable
  • Easy to use
  • A little loud
  • Battery runs out quickly
  • Limited vibration modes
  • High-quality silicone
  • Ridges add extra stimulation
  • Curved for g-/p-spot stimulation
  • Suitable for anal or vaginal use
  • O-ring harness compatible
  • Wide tip won't suit everyone
  • No suction cup base
  • Intuitive to use
  • Great to use on a partner
  • Choose between pointy side and flat side
  • Use with or without the finger tether
  • Vibrations are quite buzzy
  • Gets loud on the higher settings
  • Not submersible
  • No patterns
  • Not a lot of difference between soft and pointy side
  • 6 different textures to try
  • Will stretch to envelope your whole shaft
  • Great for travel
  • Only single use
  • Compact model is great for travel
  • Two different textural sensations
  • Adjustable suction
  • Hard, discreet case
  • Suction is adjustable
  • Compact size might not fit larger penises
  • Requires thorough cleaning and drying
  • Could be a little bit too tight for some
  • Plain looking orifice entrance
  • Unrealistic skin tone
  • Beautifully made
  • Compatible with all lubes
  • Smooth insertion
  • Can be warmed or cooled before use
  • Loop handle for easy insertion/removal
  • End is not that tapered
  • May be too weighted for some
  • Slim size is perfect for beginners
  • Tapered end for easy insertion
  • Smooth silicone
  • Use with or without bullet vibrator
  • Vibrations are quite mild
  • Battery powered
  • Increase sensitivity without pinchy pain
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Super soft silicone
  • Very affordable
  • Can also be used on your clitoris
  • Don't look particularly sexy
  • Can fall off during use
  • Sensual and sexy
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Restraints, blindfold, & feather tickler
  • Might not satisfy more advanced tastes
  • Slim dildo is perfect anal or vaginal penetration
  • Smooth shaft for easy insertion
  • Easy to use
  • Adjustable harness
  • Can use harness with other 1.25 inch dildos
  • Dildo will be too small for those with more experience

How did we select and test these sex toys for beginners?

This review started with in depth research of beginner sex toys. As a sex toy expert I know that sex toys for beginners should be easy to use, easy to care for and not overwhelmingly big or powerful. I also made sure to look for sex toys that are made with quality without being too expensive.

Many of the sex toys in this review have been tested and put through their paces by myself or one of our amazing sex toy testers. To read the full in-depth user review, you can click on the review link under the Bedbible rating.

 

How did we select and test these sex toys for beginners?
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How to Find the Best First Sex Toy for You

Everyone has different desires when it comes to choosing their first sex toy, so I’ve put together some things to think about to help you decide which type of sex toy will be best for you!

  • Do you want to use it alone, with a partner or both? If you want to use your sex toy with a partner during sex, you will need to look for a couple’s toy or one that can easily fit between your bodies.
  • Which body part do you usually stimulate? Think about what you like to do during sex and masturbation and look for a toy that stimulates the same area. For example, if you usually stimulate your clitoris during masturbation, a clit sucker or clit vibrator is a great option!
  • What type of stimulation do you usually enjoy? If you are a vulva owner and love the feeling of oral sex, you might want to look for a clit sucker. Or if you are a penis owner and want to recreate the feeling of vaginal sex, a Fleshlight would be perfect!
  • Have you experienced penetration before? If you are looking for a vaginal or anal penetration toy and have had penetrative sex before, you can find a toy that is similar in size to the penis you had sex with. If you are totally new to penetrative play, you might want to opt for something more similar in size to a finger or two.

Different Types of Sex Toys

The sheer number of different types of sex toys can be overwhelming when looking for a sex toys for beginners. Here are some of the options and what they are good for:

cock rings, bondage gear, nipple toys

  • Internal vibrators can be used vaginally, while only ones with flared bases are anal-safe. You can also use internal vibrators externally! G-spot vibrators tend to be curved to make it easy to stimulate the front wall of your vagina.
  • External vibrators can only be used to stimulate external areas, like the clitoris, penis, perineum, and nipples.
  • Dildos are mainly used for internal stimulation to recreate the feeling of penetrative sex. Again all dildos can be used vaginally but only flared base dildos are safe for anal use. Dildos for beginners tend to be smaller in size.
  • Anal toys should always have a flared base to prevent them travelling up inside you. Some common anal toys include butt plugs, vibrating butt plugs, anal beads, and anal dildos.
  • Cock rings lightly constrict the penis to give a firmer erection. You can also get vibrating cock rings that stimulate a partner’s clitoris during penetrative sex.
  • Bondage gear includes all types of sexual restraints for tying up/down your partner. They are great for exploring domination and submission and can be used during penetrative sex or other types of stimulation.
  • Nipple toys include nipple clamps, nipple suckers, and nipple pumps. They all work to increase nipple sensitivity but nipple suckers are the most beginner-friendly as they don’t involve any pain and are easy to use.

 

Reviews of the 14 best sex toys for beginners

Clit Vibrator Dame Pom

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Mariah Lyons

User Ratings:

4.7/5.0

Based on 1165 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Dame Pom was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Dame Pom was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Dame Pom was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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Rating: Dame Pom was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Dame Pom

The Pom from Dame is a soft squishy vibrator that hugs your body while delivering 10 modes of pleasurable vibrations wherever you choose to use it! 5 intensites and 5 different patterns.

The pebble-shaped vibrator can be laid flat for broad stimulation or you can use the tip for more precise stimulation exactly where you want it. Plus the small peak on the underside is perfectly for nestling against your clitoris!

Intuitive to use, waterproof and easy to clean, this makes a great vibrator for beginners.

Pros

  • Smooth, soft, and flexible
  • Ergonomic shape is easy to hold
  • Versatile shape
  • Waterproof

Cons

  • Easy to accidentally change settings during use
  • Not powerful enough for some
  • On/off button a little stiff
  • Short battery life

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Dame Pom are silent, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Dame Pom was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Dame Pom felt to the reviewer.

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Rating: Dame Pom was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Dame Pom felt to the reviewer.

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BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

My verdict

The Dame Pom ticks all the boxes for an amazing sex toy for beginners, which is exactly why I chose it as today’s test winner! Firstly, it is very easy to use — both the buttons and the shape are intuitive to use. Secondly, it’s soft and flexible and will flex to your body, making it comfortable to use. Lastly, it’s made from body-safe materials that are easy to take care of.

I also love that you can use it for all kinds of external stimulation and the little peak is just perfect for nestling over your clitoris.

My only real critique of the design is that it can be easy to accidentally change the settings during use.

This is a little expensive for a first time toy, but if you are looking for an external vibrator, I would say it’s worth the investment. You can also keep an eye out for a sale!

 

Buy, if you...

  1. want a vibrator for external use
  2. prefer gentle to moderate stimulation
  3. love soft, flexible silicone
  4. are looking for a discret toy

Don't buy, if you...

  1. prefer rigid materials
  2. need very precise pinpoint stimulation
  3. crave a lot of power

Clit Sucker Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation

4.7/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.6/5.0

Based on 7495 user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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PricePrice

Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation

The Satisfyer Pro 2 is one of the most popular sex toys of all time! This powerfully pleasing and affordable clit sucker is the perfect choice for clitoris owners looking to buy a first-time suction toy.

This suction toy provides intense stimulation without directly touching the clitoris, so you are less likely to experience the tingly numbness some people get with vibrations.

The wide mouth has a thick silicone rim, making it comfortable to use and it can be removed and replaced, making it easy to clean.

You get 11 intensities to choose from, so you can enjoy slow and sensual stimulation or turn it up for more intense power!

 

Pros

  • Large mouth with soft silicone
  • Good range of intensities
  • Easy to use
  • Can remove/replace silicone mouth

Cons

  • Gets loud on the higher settings
  • Design feels a little bulky
  • Not as powerful as other clit suckers
  • Short battery life

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation are noisy, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is noisy.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

My verdict

There’s a reason this sex toy is so popular! This really is the best clit sucker for beginners in my humble opinion! It allows you to experience the delicious sensations of clit suckers without being overwhelmingly powerful or breaking the bank. It’s also super simple to use and clean. It is however a little noisy on the higher settings, which is something to bear in mind if you live with other people. It is however waterproof, so you could use it in the shower for more discretion!

 

Buy, if you...

  1. Want to try a clit sucker
  2. Find vibrators irritating or numbing
  3. Want to explore new sensations

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Need a very quiet sex toy
  2. Prefer a smaller, more precise suction mouth

G-spot Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator

4.1/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.1/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

3.2/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Emily Hudson

User Ratings:

4.9/5.0

Based on 133 user reviews

60/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is designed well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.

65/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator was rated 65 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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PricePrice

Rating: Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator

Get those yummy sunshine vibes all year round with the Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator.

With 12 vibration modes to explore, the Yummy Sunshine is great for internal or external stimulation.

The gentle curve and ripples of this beautifully flexible shaft are perfect for treating your g-spot to some intense pleasure!

Plus, the Yummy Sunshine is waterproof, so you can use it in the bath or shower!

 

Pros

  • Loop handle for comfortable use
  • Gently curved for g-spot stimulation
  • Buttons are textured and glow when pressed making them easier to find
  • Deep wave-like ridges for more complex internal stimulation
  • Made with body safe materials
  • Rechargeable
  • Waterproof

Cons

  • Difficult to position clitoral stimulation bump
  • Vibrations can be felt in the handle
  • Controls feel limited
  • On the pricier side for its limited features
  • Magnetic charger likes to disconnect mid-charge

My verdict

This is a wonderful vibrator for beginners, especially if you are looking for a g-spot vibrator. The combination of the curved shaft and vibrations, makes it easy to find and stimulate your g-spot. The ergonomic loop handle is also a really nice feature!

The shaft is very flexible making comfortable to press against your g-spot. For some it might be a bit tricky to enjoy the clitorial stimulation at the same time as the shaft is pretty long.

The shaft get’s a little thicker towards the base, so you might need to work up to inserting the whole thing if you are totally new to penetration.

 

Buy, if you...

  1. enjoy g-spot stimulation
  2. prefer flexible shafts
  3. have some experience with penetration
  4. You want something that is solely for internal stimulation
  5. Are looking for a heftier toy
  6. Like the idea of deep rugged, waves for internal stimulation
  7. Prefer buzzy vibrations

Don't buy, if you...

  1. are sensitive to vibrations in your hand
  2. need very intense, rumbly vibrations
  3. are looking for dual stimulation
  4. Don't like the idea of only internal stimulation
  5. Would prefer a toy that is soft and squishy
  6. Need a toy that is more on the quiet side

Couples We-Vibe Chorus

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.5/5.0

Based on 120 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the We-Vibe Chorus

The We-Vibe Chorus is a revelation for penis-in-vagina (PIV) sex. This C-shaped has two powerful, rumbly motors that can be controlled on the toy, in the app or using the remote control.

The first motor is in the external arm, which provides intense clitoral stimulation for the wearer and the second is in the internal arm which stimulates the wearer’s g-spot and their partner’s penis at the same time!

The adjustable neck in the middle of the toy bends to fit your body, so you can enjoy all of this amazing stimulation hands-free!

You can also connect the Chorus to app for greater customisation or long-distance play.

 

Pros

  • Strong rumbly vibrations
  • Stimulation for both partners
  • Hands-free clit stimulation during sex
  • Squeeze activated remote
  • Discreet charging dock/storage case
  • Adjustable angles

Cons

  • App connection not reliable

Vibrations: The vibrations of the We-Vibe Chorus are quiet, very powerful, and somewhat rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of We-Vibe Chorus felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: We-Vibe Chorus was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of We-Vibe Chorus felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

My verdict

I absolutely love the We-Vibe Chorus and think it makes an amazing couples vibrator toy for beginners and more advanced users alike. As someone who needs clitoral stimulation to have reliable orgasms during penetrative sex, this was a real game-changer!

It’s easy to get into position and stays in place and I really like that it comes with a physical remote so you don’t have to use your phone during sex if you don’t want to! It’s also fun that you can squeeze the remote for an extra boost of power to tip you over into an orgasm.

The vibrations are powerful and rumbly and everything you could want and the silicone is velvety soft!

I personally didn’t have much luck with the app and found it unreliable, but I haven’t tried it recently so it might be more stable now.

 

Buy, if you...

  1. want a sex toy to use during penetrative sex
  2. struggle to orgasm from penetration
  3. love dual clit and g-spot stimulation
  4. love rumbly vibrations

Don't buy, if you...

  1. are looking for a toy for solo play
  2. want reliable long-distance connection

Bullet Vibrator Maude Vibe

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Oli Ochoa

User Ratings:

4.8/5.0

Based on 2008 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Maude Vibe was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Maude Vibe was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Maude Vibe was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: Maude Vibe was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Maude Vibe

This Maude vibrator is a simple but stylish vibrator that looks like a minimalistic sculpture!

The teardrop shape means you can enjoy pinpoint stimulation using the tip or broad stimulation by laying it flat against your body.

The single-button controls make it easy to switch between the three different vibration intensities.

The whole thing is covered in deliciously smooth silicone that feels fantastic against your body with a slick lube!

Pros

  • Simple, discreet design
  • Silky soft silicone
  • Rechargeable
  • Easy to use

Cons

  • A little loud
  • Battery runs out quickly
  • Limited vibration modes

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Maude Vibe are fairly quiet, quite powerful, and somewhat buzzy

SoundSound rating

Rating: Maude Vibe was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Maude Vibe felt to the reviewer.

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Rating: Maude Vibe was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Maude Vibe felt to the reviewer.

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BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

My verdict

 

 

Buy, if you...

  1. prefer simplicity
  2. want a vibrator for external use
  3. enjoy pinpoint stimulation
  4. aren't bothered about patterns

Don't buy, if you...

  1. want to explore patterns
  2. need a submersible vibrator
  3. have a very sensitive clitoris

Dildo Tantus Charmer

4.7/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.6/5.0

Based on 39 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Tantus Charmer

The Tantus Charmer will certainly charm your sweet spots with its rippling shaft and top-quality silicone!

The 6.5 inch insertable shaft has a slight curve and four ridges to massage you g-spot or p-spot with each thrust.

This dildo is anal and vaginal safe and can be slipped inside a harness for all kinds of strap-on play!

Pros

  • High-quality silicone
  • Ridges add extra stimulation
  • Curved for g-/p-spot stimulation
  • Suitable for anal or vaginal use
  • O-ring harness compatible

Cons

  • Wide tip won't suit everyone
  • No suction cup base

My verdict

I love both the look and feel of the Tantus Charmer! At just 1.1 inches in diameter, it makes a great dildo for beginners. The silicone is soft and has a glossy finish, making it glide effortlessly with a slick of lube.

I personally prefer the shape as anal dildo, but if it’s your first time exploring anal penetration, I would recommend using a finger or two to warm up first!

The only thing that would make the Charmer even more charming would be the addition of a suction cup base!

 

Buy, if you...

  1. enjoy firm but flexible silicone
  2. want a dildo for anal or vaginal use
  3. have a little experience with penetrative sex

Don't buy, if you...

  1. want a very soft, squishy dildo
  2. need a suction cup base
  3. prefer a smooth shaft

Finger Dame Fin

4.6/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.4/5.0

Based on 573 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Dame Fin was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Dame Fin was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Dame Fin was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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PricePrice

Rating: Dame Fin was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Dame Fin

Slip the Dame Fin over your finger and let your hands wander!

The Fin features one side with soft, squishy silicone for more gentle, broad stimulation and a side with a more rigid point for pinpoint stimulation. Perfect to explore angles, positions and pinpoint stimulation.

You can also choose to use the silicone tether to secure it to your fingers or simply use the finger handle on the back to hold the Fin in place as you explore your or your partner’s body.

This intimate, intuitive finger vibrator has three speeds to choose from and is USB rechargeable.

Pros

  • Intuitive to use
  • Great to use on a partner
  • Choose between pointy side and flat side
  • Use with or without the finger tether

Cons

  • Vibrations are quite buzzy
  • Gets loud on the higher settings
  • Not submersible
  • No patterns
  • Not a lot of difference between soft and pointy side

Vibrations: The vibrations of the Dame Fin are fairly quiet, gently, and somewhat buzzy

SoundSound rating

Rating: Dame Fin was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Dame Fin felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Dame Fin was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is gentle.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Dame Fin felt to the reviewer.

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BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

My verdict

The Fin makes a great addition to solo or couples play and the cute, approachable design makes it an ideal candidate for a vibrator for beginners. Another reason I think this is one of the best sex toys for beginners is it is so intuitive to use on yourself or a partner — you can use your hands or fingers as you would usually just with the added power of vibration!

The shape is great for using on all areas of the body and all types of genitals, but there’s not a lot of difference in sensation between the squishy side and pointy side.

The vibrations do tend towards the more buzzy end of the spectrum but they are powerful and still pleasant, especially if you enjoy more buzzy, surface stimulation. It does get loud on the highest settings so keep that in mind if you need a discreet vibrator.

 

Buy, if you...

  1. want an vibrator for solo or partnered play
  2. prefer buzzy vibrations

Don't buy, if you...

  1. need intense, rumbly vibrations
  2. need a quiet vibrator
  3. want to explore vibration patterns

Masturbator Tenga Egg Easy Beat Six Pack New Standard Edition

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

3.8/5.0

Based on user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tenga Egg Easy Beat Six Pack New Standard Edition was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tenga Egg Easy Beat Six Pack New Standard Edition was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tenga Egg Easy Beat Six Pack New Standard Edition was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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PricePrice

Rating: Tenga Egg Easy Beat Six Pack New Standard Edition was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other sex toys for beginners.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Tenga Egg Easy Beat Six Pack New Standard Edition

Make masturbation egg-citing again with Tenga’s 6 pack of masturbation eggs!

Soft and stretchy, each egg envelops your shaft and teases it from base to tip with teasing textures. Plus, each egg has a different internal texture to discover.

These eggs are single use, making them great to throw in your bag for some fun wherever you go!

 

Pros

  • 6 different textures to try
  • Will stretch to envelope your whole shaft
  • Great for travel

Cons

  • Only single use

My verdict

Tenga eggs make a great introduction to masturbators as you can try out different textures before committing to a full masturbator sleeve. They also make a great gift for a partner or an an exciting addition to a handjob!

The TPE is very stretchy so will fit most penis sizes but can tear if you are very vigorous with it. While these are only single use, if you do enjoy them, Tenga make some really great reusable masturbators too, like the Tenga Spinner and the Tenga Flex Silkly White.

 

Buy, if you...

  1. want to try masturbators for the first time
  2. want disposable sleeves
  3. want a fun gift for a partner
  4. want a travel-friendly masturbator

Don't buy, if you...

  1. prefer something reusable

Fleshlight Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Dennis Adams

User Ratings:

4.6/5.0

Based on 198 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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PricePrice

Rating: Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other sex toys for beginners.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator

Good things come in small(er) packages is most certainly true where the Fleshlight Go Surge is concerned. You get all the pleasure of a full size Fleshlight, just in a smaller, compact model.

The realistic vulva leads to a delightfully soft sleeve that’s laced with textures that add intense stimulation with each thrust. This sleeve features three texture canals with pleasurable nubs and cross-hatch textures.

Plus, you can adjust the suction intensity by tightening or loosening the cap at the end of the case.

 

Pros

  • Compact model is great for travel
  • Two different textural sensations
  • Adjustable suction
  • Hard, discreet case
  • Suction is adjustable
  • Easier to use due to being smaller
  • Easier to store
  • Cheaper than regular Fleshlights

Cons

  • Compact size might not fit larger penises
  • Requires thorough cleaning and drying
  • Could be a little bit too tight for some
  • Plain looking orifice entrance
  • Unrealistic skin tone

My verdict

The smaller size and cheaper price of this compact model makes the Fleshlight Go Surge a perfect masturbator for beginners or just smaller-sized penises. The medium intensity texture is exciting without being overwhelming and the discreet flashlight-style case is great if you live with other people or for travel!

The compact size might not be big enough to accommodate larger-than-average penises, in which case, you are betting off going for a full-size Fleshlight.

The inner sleeve material is lovely and soft and feels amazing when combined with some lube but you have to will to clean and dry it thoroughly after each use to prevent it from getting nasty! Here’s how to clean your Fleshlight. 

 

Buy, if you...

  1. want a compact masturbator
  2. enjoy realistic masturbators
  3. want a travel-friendly sex toy
  4. Enjoy the use of strokers
  5. Are looking for a cheaper toy
  6. Are looking for something smaller and easier to store

Don't buy, if you...

  1. have a penis that's longer than 7 inches erect
  2. prefer an anal sex toy
  3. want more varied textures
  4. Are looking for a full-sized Fleshlight
  5. Want something less tight

Butt plug njoy Pure Plug Small

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.8/5.0

Based on 95 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: njoy Pure Plug Small was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the sex toy for beginners.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: njoy Pure Plug Small was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).