Dame Pom — Test & Review

Mariah Lyons
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Mariah Lyons

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Based on 1165 user reviews


Rating: Dame Pom was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Dame Pom.

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Rating: Dame Pom was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).


Rating: Dame Pom was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.


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Rating: Dame Pom was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.


Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.


Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.


Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

My Verdict

The Dame Pom is one of the few toys that I can honestly say I would back as a truly 'beginner' level toy. It doesn't come in at a beginner price point, but if you're looking to make your way into sex toys, and want something that's not intimidating while still being extremely nice, the Pom is for you! I love this toy and I personally cannot wait to have a long, and happy life together.

Buy, if you...

  1. Enjoy the traditional "finger rub" method
  2. Have grip issues
  3. Enjoy a bendable toy
  4. Like soft velvety toys
  5. Prefer direct clitoral stimulation
  6. Looking for your first vibrator

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Prefer bullet or less organic shaped toys
  2. Want a longer battery life
  3. Prefer grinding toys
  4. Need extremely strong vibrations to orgasm

About The Dame Pom

The Dame Pom is an entirely silicone, waterproof vibrator ergonomically designed to hug your every curve. Its soft, flexible body features a powerful motor with 5 patterns, and 5 intensity levels without being overtly loud. It also comes in two color options, plum (purple) and ice (light blue).

The vibrations of the Dame Pom are silent, very powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly

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Rating: Dame Pom was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Dame Pom felt to the reviewer.

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Rating: Dame Pom was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Dame Pom felt to the reviewer.

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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).


  • Flexible
  • Quiet
  • Powerful motor
  • Rechargable


  • Battery life is on the short side
  • Buttons can be easily bumped
  • Magnetic charging (easily disconnected)

The Dame Pom test: How it faired

My Personal Experiences with Dame Pom

I’ll be honest, when I found out I was getting to test out a Dame product I was pretty damn excited. I absolutely love their approach to masturbation as a wellness concept and their company is genuinely, and thoughtfully targeted towards women in a way that I truly feel helps break the stigma of women getting a little sexy time in.

Great Expectations

Right at the packaging, this vibrator already feels nicer than anything else I own. The minimalist design lends itself to a more luxury feel while still maintaining the fun with it’s bold blue and white color scheme. Just inside, the Pom is nestled in its plastic packaging cradle (that kinda resembles a vortex when you’re looking at it), looking like the cutest easter Peep I’ve ever seen. I’m genuinely excited. Powering on is pretty simple, just press and hold the button on the back of the toy, and tap the same button to change the patterns. I found adjusting the intensity pretty straight forward as there’s specific buttons on the underside dedicated to ‘up’ and ‘down’.  Now, onto the most impressive part of this toy, for me, as someone with grip issues. The Dame Pom has no internal plastic body, meaning it bends and curves to your body depending on the pressure, making it an excellent vibrator if you’re a fan of the old fashion ‘rub it out’ method. The little beak on the tip allows for targeting specific areas with intensity, and the wide body diffuses the vibration some if you enjoy something that covers a little more surface area.

Maybe I Just Really Like Cute Things?

I don’t know if I’m just biased because I like adorable things, but honestly this little guy packs quite a punch. I’m usually able to get myself off pretty quickly, but the Pom cut that honestly in half (I don’t time myself but for the sake of this review we’re going with half). I had absolutely no issues with holding it in my hand, since it hugs nicely against your body, and the third intensity on the straight vibration pattern pretty much took care of business! I can totally see this making it into my rotation, especially for those quickies needed in the middle of the day on a Tuesday sometimes.

Breaking Down the Design of the Dame Pom

Dame Pom Breaking Down the Design of the Dame Pom

The Dame Pom is ergonomically-shaped, almost like a marshmallow peep, with no internal hard body, allowing it to reach every bend and curve. The full silicone body is velvety to the touch and feels like a luxury toy from moment one.

The Dame Pom: User Convenience Reviewed

Dame Pom The Dame Pom: User Convenience Reviewed

The Pom is honestly super easy to use, there's only 3 buttons to choose from so it's not overwhelming at all, and it has a magnetic charger, so that's even easier. I do have to say that if you're using it for grinding, it is easy to bump the buttons and accidentally change the settings, but that's not a deal breaker.

A Review of the Dame Pom’s Quality

Dame Pom A Review of the Dame Pom’s Quality

Dame products are known for their quality, and the Pom is no exception, from the packaging, to the actual design of this toy, you can really tell every step was thoughtfully planned out and executed. Their toys are designed with vaginas in mind every step of the way.

Is it worth it?

Dame Pom Is it worth it?

For a vibrator, coming in at $95 the Dame Pom is a little pricey, however if you're looking for a company that supports sexual wellness and really cares about their target market, it's honestly worth the price. I've not come across another vibrator that really felt like it was 'for me' before this one, and that feeling is important, at least for me, when purchasing a product.

Sensory Exploration: Evaluating the Dame Pom’s Performance

Dame Pom Sensory Exploration: Evaluating the Dame Pom��’s Performance

For its little size, the Dame Pom packs a comfortable but powerful punch! The lowest setting is a wonderful warm up, and the highest setting is still whisper quiet. I haven't ran the battery out, but the user manual says it has a one hour battery life, which is a little on the short side compared to other rechargeable toys, but honestly you'll be finished and ready for a snack before the battery runs out. I'm sure of it. Coming in with a 2 hour charge time, I would definitely say using this toy takes a little bit of planning, but overall it's not a terrible charge time. Maybe play Candy Crush while you're waiting though, your phone will be done charging before the Pom.

Packaging of the Dame Pom

Dame Pom Packaging of the Dame Pom

I truly cannot say enough about the Dame Pom's packaging. The sleek blue box is so appealing to the eye, and the internal packaging is the same shade of blue, making it a stark and lovely contrast against the pale periwinkle toy hiding inside. The Pom also comes with a storage bag! (If you've read any of my other reviews you know that's my biggest gripe with toys at higher price points). It also comes with a charging cable, and a cute little instruction manual.

Materials and care of the Dame Pom

Dame Pom Materials and care of the Dame Pom

The Dame Pom is 100% silicone, meaning it is 100% waterproof. Clean up is a breeze with toy cleaner, or some soap and water. Dry it off, put it to bed in it's little bag and you're all set. As with any silicone toy, it is recommended to use water-based lubricants.

Special feature

Dame Pom Special feature

I think the most special thing about the Pom is its lack of a rigid internal body. It’s hard to find flexible vibrators that are still powerful, and this little guy knocked it out of the park.

Specifications and features

Vibration patterns5 
Vibration speeds5 
Length3.5 inches
Width4.4 inches
MaterialsMedical-grade silicone 
Battery LifeAt least 60 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockYes 
Storage Bag IncludedYes 
Colors AvailablePlum, Ice 

Comparing Dame Pom with alternatives

Compare Dame PomDame Pom
Overall score4.3 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.2 / 5.0
User rating4.7 / 5.0
from 1165 users
4.6 / 5.0
from 52 users
3.6 / 5.0
from 17 users
4.4 / 5.0
from 573 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 240 users
4.4 / 5.0
from 17 users
PricePricey Moderate Cheap Pricey Cheap Pricey
Design100 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 95 / 100 95 / 100 80 / 100
Ease of use80 / 100 97 / 100 100 / 100 85 / 100 87 / 100 80 / 100
Quality100 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 90 / 100 98 / 100 80 / 100
Sound20 / 100 20 / 100 20 / 100 80 / 100 40 / 100 40 / 100
Power80 / 100 80 / 100 20 / 100 80 / 100 80 / 100 60 / 100
Buzzy/Rumblysomewhat rumbly somewhat rumbly very buzzy somewhat rumbly somewhat rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly
Vibration patterns5 7 4 -7 7
Vibration speeds5 8 6 3 8 5
Length3.5 inches3.9 inches4.3 inches(With tether attached) 2.75 inches4 inches3.5 inches
Width4.4 inches---1.7 inches-
MaterialsMedical-grade silicone Silicone/ABS Plastic Silicone Medical-grade silicone Body-Safe Silicone -
WaterproofYes Yes Submersible Splashproof Yes Yes
Battery LifeAt least 60 minutes120 minutes60 minutes90 minutesUp to 120 minutes (my battery finally died at 1 hour 48 minutes after one use) minutes120 minutes
RechargeableYes Yes Yes USB Yes Yes
Charging Time120 minutes90 minutes120 minutes120 minutes90 minutes120 minutes
Travel LockYes Yes No -Yes No
Storage Bag IncludedYes Yes No Yes Yes No
Colors AvailablePlum, Ice --Navy, Quartz, Citrus Coral, Blue -
Diameter-0.9 inches1.9 inches1 inches--
Flexibility--Flexible Tether is flexible and stretchy --
Openings---Tether made to fit ring sizes: 4-12 --
Allergies---Phthalate-free --
Remote Controls----No -
Insertable length-----2 inches
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While the Pom is waterproof, is it submersible?
Pom is rated IP67 for waterproofness which is a fancy was of saying, feel free to take it in the bath with you!
How do you turn it off?
Pom's On/Off button works when you hold it down for a moment. Because of where the buttons are positioned, it is possible to hit the On/Off button and the Intensity buttons on the other side at the same time.
Does the Pom come with a charging cable? Or is it a standard micro usb?
Pom comes with its own magnetic charging cable! One end is a standard USB that can plug into your laptop or charging block while the other end connects to the magnets on Pom's base.
How long does the Dame Pom take to charge? How long can you use it for?
From a full charge, Pom will last a little over an hour on its highest setting. It takes about 2 hours to reach a full charge from a drained battery.

Instructions - Manual

An instruction manual for the Dame Pom can be found here on their website.

Mariah Lyons
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Age: 28
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Sex toy experience: Beginner
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