The 10 Best Lay On Vibrators to Ride and Grind On!
Lay on vibrators are a fantastic choice for sex toy novices. Their simple, discreet design and more broad vibrations make them less intimidating than other sex toys. Whether you’re a sex toy newbie or sex toy enthusiast though there’s a lot to be said for the easy, relaxing pleasure lay on vibrators can bring. We’ve found the 10 best lay on vibrators so you can enjoy some riding and grinding fun!
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How I tested the lay on vibrators
Testing these lay on vibrators required a lot of research! I spent a long time reading reviews and researching each vibrator so I could get the best idea of what the average user thought. When you’re considering buying a sex toy I think it’s important to know what people like you think. That’s why I spent over 30 hours researching these lay on vibrators and writing up my thoughts.
Of course it’s always nice to know what sex toy enthusiasts think to the toys too. They’ve seen their fair share of good and bad toys so know what makes a great toy (and what makes a not-so-great one!). That’s why, where possible, we have sex toy testers review the toys and provide an in depth review. You can always read these reviews, if they’re available, by clicking on ‘read full review’ under the Bedbible rating.
Reviews of the 10 best lay on vibrators
Test Winner Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame
The Pom is a cute little lay on vibrator that is super beginner friendly.
It’s small size makes sure that it snuggly fits into the palm of your hand and I think this would be a good choice for people that have struggled to grip other vibrators in the past.
Don’t be fooled by its small size though. The Pom is still pretty powerful. It has 5 vibration patterns and 5 vibration intensities while staying super quiet. If rumbly vibrations are your thing then the Pom definitely delivers.
I like that the simple yet luxurious design ensures that it feels super soft against your skin. Thanks to the flexibility of this lay on vibrator, you can get pretty close too! It bends and flexes with your body to ensure you can get the best control for both precise and broad stimulation.
- ✅ Flexes with your body
- ✅ Small, ergonomic design
- ✅ Fits between bodies for partner play
- ❌ Controls are very easy to knock and change
- ❌ Takes a while to charge compared to usage time
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame are silent, very powerful, and somewhat rumbly
If you’re wanting a small but powerful lay on vibrator then the Pom could be for you.
It’s a beginner friendly design that’s easy to operate and looks nice. However I do think it’s on the pricier side compared to a couple of the other lay on vibrators on this list so it’s not necessarily a beginner friendly price point.
A big selling point for me is the small and discreet design. Even on the highest setting, this vibrator is super quiet. The ergonomic design is small enough to fit into the palm of your hand so if you find other vibrators uncomfortable or difficult to grip then I think this could be a really good choice.
However, as much as I love the Pom it does have some very slight drawbacks. The controls are very easily knocked when the toy is in use, this could be a tricky one for partner play. The toy is brilliantly designed to fit between bodies so I feel like more thought could have gone in to the buttons.
The charge time is also relatively long as 2 hours compared to just 1 hour of usage time.
You should buy the Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame if you...
- Want a quiet but powerful vibrator
- Struggle to grip vibrators
- Like flexible toys
You should not buy the Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame if you...
- Prefer rigid toys
- Want a toy with a short charge time
- Need a toy where the buttons won't get knocked
Cheapest plusOne Mini Massager
The PlusOne Mini Massager has a beautifully curved design with the idea of being used for pinpoint clitoral stimulation at the tip as well as for use on other external erogenous zones. The broader base allows for up close use on your vulva.
I like that this offers a more unique shape to some of the other more flat and broad designs on this list. Unlike some of the other lay on vibrators in this round-up, this does offer up more precise stimulation for those that prefer it.
A positive design element for me is the one button design that sits flush against the toy. I like that there aren’t a lot of controls to get used to, just hold the button in to turn it on and off and do a short press to cycle through the 10 vibration settings.
- ✅ Really cheap for a lay on vibrator
- ✅ One button for all controls
- ✅ Flashing light indicates when the battery is low
- ❌ Vibrations may not be strong enough for some
- ❌ Not flexible enough for some
Vibrations: The vibrations of the plusOne Mini Massager are silent, quite powerful, and somewhat buzzy
I appreciate that the PlusOne Mini Massager offers something different in terms of shape. The curved design allows for both precise and broad stimulation. I would say that if you do like real pinpoint stimulation though, the PlusOne won’t give you that.
I think the one button design is super handy and makes using this lay on vibrator a breeze. It’s easy to turn on and off and cycle through the different settings but it doesn’t feel like your going to accidentally bump the button when using it. I like that the button also flashes when the battery is running low so you get a bit of warning without it cutting out at a crucial moment!
While the shape of the PlusOne is different, it won’t be suitable for everyone, and the lack of flexibility when this lay-on vibrator could prove tricky for some.
You should buy the plusOne Mini Massager if you...
- Want a lay on vibrator to use on all erogenous zones
- Like one button controlled toys
- Want a lay on vibrator with a long usage time
You should not buy the plusOne Mini Massager if you...
- Desire strong vibrations
- Prefer a flat design over a curved one
- Prefer rumbly vibrations
Beginner ROMP Wave Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator
The ROMP Wave is a little dose of summery fun. It gives me holiday vibes with its unique surfboard shape and it’s delightful minty colour.
I really enjoy the shape of this vibrator and the unique design. However the design does also hinder the vibrations slightly as they’re not very focused.
Because of the buzzy, lighter vibrations you get from this lay on vibrator, I think it lends itself nicely to been a toy for foreplay rather than one that is going to take you all the way to climax.
It’s very small and discreet in design and sound so would be perfect for travelling.
- ✅ Good as a foreplay companion
- ✅ Good for travelling
- ✅ Fun design
- ❌ Vibrations won't be strong enough for a lot of people
- ❌ Shape can make it difficult to hit the right spot
Vibrations: The vibrations of the ROMP Wave Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator are silent, weak, and very buzzy
The ROMP Wave is a fun little vibrator that would be great for foreplay. However I think it lends itself to been more pleasing on the eye than it is on the body.
I love how beginner friendly it looks with its surfboard shape and pretty colour. However because it is quite a weak vibrator, I would go as far as to say that that lay on vibrator is perfect for those that are brand new to any kind of sex toy.
The shape makes it a little tricky to hit the right spot and I think this makes the vibrations seem really unfocused. It’s good for getting warmed up but I wouldn’t expect the vibrator to take you all the way to climax without the use of manual stimulation or another toy.
It’s cute and unique but for me, it falls short in the pleasure category. It certainly has it’s uses as a foreplay aide but I think there are much stronger but equally as beginner friendly lay on vibrators in this list that would be a better choice.
You should buy the ROMP Wave Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator if you...
- Want lighter vibrations
- Want a toy for foreplay
- Appreciate a unique design
You should not buy the ROMP Wave Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator if you...
- Desire strong vibrations
- Need a toy to take you all the way to climax
- Want focused vibrations
Dual Function Laya III
The Laya III combines vibrations and tapping motions for a dual functioning lay on vibrator.
It a lovely ergonomic design and the bean shape fits snuggly into your hand while the buttons are super easy to operate even when in use. I think this is a great choice for anyone with grip on mobility issues in their hands. However you may have a problem changing the settings if you’re wanting a toy that works between bodies.
Design wise, I love the slightly futuristic feel of this. It’s a nice shape with some light texture in the form of ridges. The colours on offer are subtle pastel offerings which is always a big win with me.
The vibrations on this are quite rumbly, but much like the other lay on vibrators on this list, you’ll struggle to get anything too deep. I do like the added tapping motion though.
- ✅ Rumbly vibrations and tapping
- ✅ Easy to control when in use
- ✅ Memory function - start where you last left off
- ❌ Extremely long charging time
- ❌ Vibrations not deep enough for some
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Laya III are silent, very powerful, and somewhat rumbly
This is a fine example of a tapping lay on vibrator done right! The other tapping vibrator on this list, the Playboy Pleasure Palm just cannot live up to this. The vibrations and tapping motion are equally as pleasurable and fairly powerful in the Laya III. Considering the Laya III and the Palm have very similar price points, I’d definitely recommend this one over the Palm.
Design wise, I’m a big fan of the more futuristic look of this. However it still maintains a beginner friendly status thanks to the small size and ease of use. I also quite like the more pronounced buttons here. I’m normally a fan of more flush buttons but this design choice really lends itself to that more futuristic look.
There’s some light texture with the ridges, but nothing too full on like you see on the Kushi. If you appreciate some textured stimulation then I think you’ll like this one.
The big drawback to this toy though is the charging time. However that is the only negative I could find. This lay on vibrator has the longest charge time of any vibrator on this list with a whopping 6-7 hours! Forward planning is definitely required!
You should buy the Laya III if you...
- Want vibration and tapping motions
- Like textured toys
- Want to micro-adjust the settings
You should not buy the Laya III if you...
- Don't like tapping motions
- Desire deep vibrations
- Want an easy to operate toy for between bodies
Tapping Playboy Pleasure Palm Tapping Clitoral Vibrator
The Playboy Pleasure Palm Tapping Clitoral Vibrator (could they have come up with a longer name?) is a dual-functioning toy providing vibrations at one end and a tapping motion at the other.
At the wider end you’ll find a small silicone protrusion that provides the tapping motion. The opposite, more tapered end provides vibrations so you can switch things up depending on which sensation you want.
You’ll find 10 tapping functions and 10 vibration functions, however I think there’s more of a focus on patterns rather than varying speeds with these functions.
Design wise, it looks really nice. The curved moon shape is pleasing to look at and the delicate ivory pink colour fits in with the sensual, feminine look they seem to have gone for. It’s designed to fit in the palm of your hand hence the name but I do think people with grip issues will struggle using the buttons on this and finding a comfortable way to hold it.
- ✅ Tapping motion
- ✅ Dual function
- ✅ Pleasing design
- ❌ Vibrations not strong enough
- ❌ Tapping protrusion has the potential to nip
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Playboy Pleasure Palm Tapping Clitoral Vibrator are silent, weak, and somewhat buzzy
On paper this looks like it could be an excellent choice for a lay on vibrator. However I don’t think Playboy have quite got it right.
I’ll start with the weakest element of the toy and that’s the vibrations. I think there’s much more of a focus on patterns rather than speeds here and the vibrations just felt a bit unnecessary because they weren’t that great.
The tapping element has the potential to be really good, but again it has some shortcomings. Again the focus is on patterns rather than speeds and I personally would have liked more variety in speed. The tapping protrusion also has the potential to nip and leave the clitoris feeling a little tender. If you can get the right spot and not move the toy around, the tapping sensation is great but it does take some work.
Personally I wish that Playboy would have focused on perfecting the tapping sensations rather then trying to include vibrations too as they could have had something good here.
You should buy the Playboy Pleasure Palm Tapping Clitoral Vibrator if you...
- Enjoy tapping clitoral stimulation
- Want a dual-ended toy
- Don't require a lot of pressure from sex toys
You should not buy the Playboy Pleasure Palm Tapping Clitoral Vibrator if you...
- Struggle with your grip
- Want a toy to grind on
- Need strong motions to climax
Insertable Ruby Glow Blush Ride On Vibrator & Wand Combination
The Ruby Glow Blush is a lay on vibrator that can also be used a G-spot stimulating wand and it’s nothing short of magical!
When used as a lay on vibrator it sits comfortably nestled inside the docking station. The magnetic charging pins secure the toy to the base ensuring that even with the most enthusiastic grinding, this toy isn’t going anywhere!
Remove the vibrator from the base to use it as a G-spot stimulating wand. The curved heads makes massaging your G-spot a breeze and I like that there’s the option of clitoral stimulation from the middle hump, though I appreciate that this won’t work for all anatomies.
There’s two motors, the tip has lighter vibrations while the middle hump has deep and rumbly vibrations. Both motors can be controlled by the remote or on the toy when used as a wand.
- ✅ Can be used internally and externally
- ✅ Has both light and rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Has a secure base for grinding
- ❌ Too expensive for some
- ❌ Not a quick enough climax for some
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Ruby Glow Blush Ride On Vibrator & Wand Combination are quiet, very powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly
In my opinion, the Ruby Glow Blush is nothing short of perfect. The dual functionality, the high quality design, the G-spot stimulation, the docking station. It ticks all the boxes.
As both a lay on vibrator and a G-spot wand I think this vibrator performs wonderfully. There’s absolutely no compromise on pleasure or quality across both usages unlike other vibrators on this list such as the Playboy Palm.
As a lay on vibrator the addition of the base is a great idea as it really secures the vibrator in place so you can grind away to your hearts content!
As a G-spot massager I think it has the perfect angle and just the right amount of girth to feel great as an insertable toy,
The addition of two motors that are controlled separately is always a winner for me and I really like that they’ve included both light and rumbly vibrations. Though I do think this could make reaching climax a little slower for some people, especially when used as a lay on vibrator.
The colour and materials feel really luxurious and the deep ruby colour with metallic accents adds a really sensual look to this toy.
If I really had to pick a negative, it would be the price as it’s the most expensive lay on vibrator on this list. However I do think the price tag is totally justified!
You should buy the Ruby Glow Blush Ride On Vibrator & Wand Combination if you...
- Want a vibrator to lay on and insert
- Appreciate a luxury toy
- Want rumbly vibrations with G-spot stimulation
You should not buy the Ruby Glow Blush Ride On Vibrator & Wand Combination if you...
- Don't want to spend a lot of money
- Don't want and insertable vibrator
- Don't like a slower build up to orgasm
Soft Tenga Iroha+ Kushi Vibrator
I think the first thing you notice with this lay on vibrator is how nice it looks. Almost like you know how soft and squishy it’s going to be before you even touch it.
I personally like the ridges on this though I know the highly textured nature of this toy won’t be to everyone’s liking. The good news for a toy this textured too is that it’s completely waterproof meaning you can get right it there with cleaning. It also has an anti-dust coating which I think is a nice addition and not one any of the other toys on this list (apart from the other Tenga Iroha+ toy) can promise.
This lay on vibrator does allow for both broad and more precise stimulation and to be fair the vibrations in this one are pretty decent! Not as deep and rumbly as a traditional vibrator but not too bad at all for a broader toy.
- ✅ Fairly powerful for a broader vibrator
- ✅ Soft, textured body
- ✅ Flexible tip for more precise stimulation
- ✅ Has a charging case
- ❌ Vibrations can be felt strongly through the hand
- ❌ Not many vibration functions
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Tenga Iroha+ Kushi Vibrator are quiet, very powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly
From my diligent research it would appear people are very divided on what this lay on vibrator reminds them of. There’s team hedgehog and team shell. I’m definitely team shell as upon seeing the vibrator for the first time I was instantly reminded of a shell. I think it plays into the soft and serene feeling of the toy a bit more than a hedgehog too!
There’s no denying that this is a lovely vibrator to look at and touch. It feels incredibly soft and squishy and I feel like that element comes through before you’ve even felt it. Due to the squishy nature, you’d be forgiven for thinking that the vibration on this would be quite light. Wrong! I was pleasantly surprised that this was a little more rumbly. Definitely not deep enough for some but certainly a commendable effort from a broader toy!
I’m personally not a huge fan of the charging case. It’s a cute, small, delicate toy and the charging case just seems a little out of character and a bit bulky but it gets the job done and you can always put it away and buy a separate storage back for the vibrator if you want.
It’s a great option for a more delicate level of stimulation but it won’t be suited to those that don’t like textured toys or that don’t like to feel the vibrations travelling through their whole body.
You should buy the Tenga Iroha+ Kushi Vibrator if you...
- Prefer soft and squishy toys
- Want both precise and broad stimulation
- Appreciate a nice design
You should not buy the Tenga Iroha+ Kushi Vibrator if you...
- Prefer deep vibrations
- Don't like textured sex toys
- Need a firm vibrator
Satisfyer Purple Pleasure Clitoral Vibrator
The Purple Pleasure makes a nice refreshing change in a world of bright pink vibrators! The deep purple hue is complimented by a metallic purple casing.
It’s a nice flat shape which I think makes it an ideal choice for use during partner play as it should fit between bodies quite nicely. The lack of curves and contours makes it a good choice for use on other external erogenous zones too.
For a cheap price, this lay on vibrator actually has a decent range of functions which I was quite pleased to see. It has 15 rumbly settings to work through which is more than some of the more expensive lay on vibrators have on this list!
A really big selling point for me was the fact that you can actually cycle back and forth between the settings which is something that only one other vibrator – the Laya – offers. Considering the significant price difference between this toy and the Laya its definitely nice to see a cheaper toy offering that function.
- ✅ Can cycle back and forth between functions without starting from scratch
- ✅ Ideal for partner play
- ✅ Lots of vibration settings
- ❌ Vibrations tend to rattle through the plastic casing
- ❌ Not the quietest
- ❌ Very long charge time
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Satisfyer Purple Pleasure Clitoral Vibrator are fairly quiet, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly
For the price I think this is a great option for a lay on vibrator. There’s far more expensive vibrators on this list that don’t offer as many vibration functions as this does.
The vibrations it does offer are fairly rumbly however it does have some faults here. The vibrations can be felt fairly strongly through the toy and therefore through your hand. As the casing is plastic it can get a little rattly the stronger the vibration you use. I think this could be off-putting for some people and it also doesn’t make for very discreet play.
That been said I like that this is fairly flat offering. The lack of contours makes it perfect for use with a partner as I think it should fit quite snuggly between bodies. I also like that the shape allows for use on other erogenous zones.
I did find the charging time on this to be particularly long. At 3.5 hours it definitely requires some forward planning!
You should buy the Satisfyer Purple Pleasure Clitoral Vibrator if you...
- Enjoy simple toys
- Want a lay on vibrator to use with a partner
- Don't want to spend a lot of money
You should not buy the Satisfyer Purple Pleasure Clitoral Vibrator if you...
- Can't climax with broad stimulation
- Need a quiet vibrator
- Don't like to feel vibrations through your hand
Tenga Iroha+ Tori Vibrator
Tenga Iroha+ have done it again with their wonderfully designed Tori vibrator. This time offering up a cute origami style bird. I’m quickly becoming a fan of the design of Tenga Iroha toys and you can see that origami influence in almost all of the Iroha line.
It’s all well and good having a pretty lay on vibrator though but what really matters is how it performs. If you’ve been keen to try out the famous squish of Iroha toys but the Kushi was too textured for you then I think you’ll be pleased with the Tori.
It has that ultra soft trademark squishy silicone that Tenga are most known for, it honestly feels so different to any of the other lay on vibrators on this list (aside from the Kushi, of course). The vibrations are quite strong but seem to have a more softer quality to them rather than been too deep, but I think that’s inline with the whole look and feel of the toy.
If you need more pinpoint stimulation then I think the ‘beak’ part of this toy does a great job of providing that and despite the squish you can still apply some firm pressure.
- ✅ Unique, squishy texture
- ✅ Softer vibrations for a more sensual build-up
- ✅ Allows for pinpoint stimulation
- ❌ Not a lot of vibrations functions
- ❌ Not intense enough for some
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Tenga Iroha+ Tori Vibrator are quiet, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly
Those of you with a keen eye will have noticed that this is the second Tenga Iroha+ toy on this list. Did we need to feature two? Yes absolutely!
I am quickly becoming a big fan of Tenga’s Iroha+ line. They’ve managed to perfect the art of creating a lay on vibrator that looks amazing, has a unique squish and that actually performs well! That is no mean feat!
I feel like the Tori vibrator has been designed with a slower, more sensual experience in mind. Everything from the super soft feel, the origami influence and the softer (yet still powerful) vibrations conveys the message of taking your time to really feel and be in touch with the pleasure this toy can provide.
If you’ve been wanting to try out the famous squish for yourself but the Iroha+ Kushi was just too textured for you, then I highly recommend giving the Tori a go.
The only thing that has stopped me from rating this a full 5.0 is the lack of vibration functions. At this price point I would have liked to have seen a better offering beyond 5 speeds and 2 patterns.
You should buy the Tenga Iroha+ Tori Vibrator if you...
- Are keen to try the Iroha+ toys but don't like texture
- Want a squishy toy that still allows for firm pressure
- Enjoy softer vibrations
You should not buy the Tenga Iroha+ Tori Vibrator if you...
- Don't like super squishy vibrators
- Need deep, rumbly vibrations
- Need a lay on vibrator that fits between bodies