The 7 Best Grinder Sex Toys

Rachel Worthington
by Rachel WorthingtonUpdated:

As a personal fan of grinding, I’m so glad to see that sex toys made specifically for grinding are becoming more and more popular! In this review, I’ve taken my own experiences with grinders, as well as those from the rest of the Bedbible tester team, and curated a list of the best vibrating and non-vibrating toys that you can hump happily with.

Test Winner

5.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Runner Up

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Edie

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on user reviews

Budget-Friendly

4.4Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 136 user reviews

Most Powerful Vibrations

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Baran

User Ratings:

4.2/5

Based on 20 user reviews

Best Squishy Grinder

4.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

0/5

Based on user reviews

Best Oral Simulator

4.9Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Riccio

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on user reviews

Best Multi-Function Grinder

3.9Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

3.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

3.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.2/5

Based on user reviews

Uberrime LaBaeInmi Ride N GrindBumpher Grinding CushionFun Factory Laya IIITenga Iroha KushiVibePad 2Ruby Glow Blush
Uberrime LaBaeInmi Ride N GrindBumpher Grinding CushionFun Factory Laya IIITenga Iroha KushiVibePad 2Ruby Glow Blush
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Pros & Cons
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  • Unique and cute heart-shaped vulva design
  • Silky soft, squishy yet firm silicone
  • Compact design fits in a harness
  • No vibrations
  • Small size can make some angles awkward
  • Requires a good amount of lube
  • Two motors provide both vulva and perineum stimulation
  • Hands-free riding with remote control
  • Comfortable, squishy silicone
  • Weighted base keeps toy sturdy
  • No storage bag included
  • Vibrations could be rumblier
  • Packaging is tacky and not discreet
  • Prominent bumps press into sensitive areas
  • Great alone or when used on a dildo for extra strap-on cushioning
  • Comes in lots of different colors
  • Reasonably-priced
  • Hollow design can make grinding difficult
  • Only available in one size
  • Pricey for a toy add-on
  • Powerful, rumbly vibrations
  • Multiple speeds for each vibration pattern
  • Textured and smooth silicone allows you to customize your feel
  • Works as a grinder and a lay-on vibe
  • Textures are not so prominent
  • Very firm body
  • Very long charge time
  • Offers broad & precise stimulation
  • Made of silicone
  • Completely waterproof
  • Comes with a display case charger
  • Quiet motor
  • A bit loud
  • Vibrations travel quite a bit
  • Not the strongest motor
  • On the pricier side for such a small vibe
  • Small size could be hard for those with mobility issues
  • Silky smooth silicone
  • Warming is spread throughout the whole surface
  • Tongue is soft and flexible
  • Remote-controlled
  • Hard, rigid surface
  • Tongue requires exact placement
  • Short battery life
  • Allows you to enjoy both external and internal stimulation
  • Powerful vibrations from dual motors
  • Long-range remote control for hands-free riding
  • Bottom motor is very buzzy
  • Vibrations are loud when in the cradle
  • Very rigid exterior can hurt to press into

How We Test grinder sex toys

We’re a team of 324 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best grinder sex toys, our testers tried and reviewed 333 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre grinder sex toys didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1073 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
How I Ranked Each Grinder Sex Toy

Test Winner Uberrime LaBae Grinder

5.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Uberrime LaBae Grinder was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Uberrime LaBae Grinder was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Uberrime LaBae Grinder was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Uberrime LaBae Grinder was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Realistic vulva-like design
  • Palm-sized
  • Bright, marbled color in squishy, platinum-grade silicone

Pros

  • Unique and cute heart-shaped vulva design
  • Silky soft, squishy yet firm silicone
  • Compact design fits in a harness

Cons

  • No vibrations
  • Small size can make some angles awkward
  • Requires a good amount of lube

Why I Chose It

With grinding toys becoming more and more popular these days, I had a lot of choice when it came to picking our test winner. Luckily, once I read Vern’s review of the LaBae grinder from Uberrime, I knew that it was the best of the bunch!

This gorgeous palm-sized grinding pad is made from top-quality, platinum-grade silicone that’s both soft and firm at the same time. Vern described it as “flexible enough to squish like a stress ball and firm enough to grind on for stimulation“. They loved its supreme softness, and found it so satisfying to use by itself or in tandem with a wand vibrator. One thing they did find, though, is that it feels best with lube — stick to a water-based option to avoid damaging the silicone.

The top looks like a heart-shaped vulva, which both Vern and I just adore. As well as being a satisfying texture to grind on, Vern found that “using it feels like I’m scissoring someone without the awkwardness of the right angles on another person’s body“. If you’re someone who enjoys or is interested in scissoring (also known as tribbing), I think this could be a great place to start.

As someone who’s tried grinding with different toys before, I appreciate the compact size. It makes the LaBae perfect for using with a cushion or pillow, or placing inside a strap-on harness. Then, once you’re done, you can store it away easily and discreetly, rather than having to find a place for a large grinding pad.

Runner Up Inmi Ride N Grind

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Edie

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Inmi Ride N Grind was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Inmi Ride N Grind was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

98/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Inmi Ride N Grind was rated 98 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Inmi Ride N Grind was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Remote-controlled, saddle-shaped grinding vibrator
  • Two ridges with independent motors
  • Slightly squishy surface

Pros

  • Two motors provide both vulva and perineum stimulation
  • Hands-free riding with remote control
  • Comfortable, squishy silicone
  • Weighted base keeps toy sturdy

Cons

  • No storage bag included
  • Vibrations could be rumblier
  • Packaging is tacky and not discreet

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Inmi Ride N Grind was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Inmi Ride N Grind felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Inmi Ride N Grind was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Inmi Ride N Grind felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

Personally, I can’t live without some extra vibrations when I’m grinding. I’ve tried a few out, but most have been lacking in the power and/or comfort department. However, when Edie tried out the Ride N’ Grind from Inmi, her verdict was that it is simply “sheer perfection“!

The thing I was immediately drawn to about this toy is the soft, textured silicone surface. Edie and I were on the same page here — she called it “soft, smooth and perfectly squishy“. She found that the texture felt fantastic to grind against, with “plenty of bumps“. These factors make grinding on this bad boy a treat that’s both pleasurable and comfortable. The vibrations are somewhere between a buzz and a rumble, and while I personally prefer a very rumbly motor, Edie really loved the sensation.

Edie mentions in her review that her disability can make it difficult to straddle and ride on toys, but the height and remote controls of this toy were exactly what she needed. The base of the toy is also weighted to prevent it from tipping over, even on soft surfaces like your bed, which is a smart touch that I hope more toy makers adopt.

Budget-Friendly Bumpher Dildo Base Grinding Cushion

4.4/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 136 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Bumpher Dildo Base Grinding Cushion was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

70/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Bumpher Dildo Base Grinding Cushion was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Bumpher Dildo Base Grinding Cushion was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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PricePrice

Rating: Bumpher Dildo Base Grinding Cushion was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Can be used as a grinder or dildo cushion
  • Made from medical-grade silicone
  • Semi-realistic design

Pros

  • Prominent bumps press into sensitive areas
  • Great alone or when used on a dildo for extra strap-on cushioning
  • Comes in lots of different colors
  • Reasonably-priced

Cons

  • Hollow design can make grinding difficult
  • Only available in one size
  • Pricey for a toy add-on

Why I Chose It

“When I usually use suction cup dildos in a strap-on, I have trouble with the suction cup pressing hard into my mons pubis, which feels wicked uncomfortable.”

Recognize that issue? Vern, who tested out the Bumpher from Banana Pants, knows the feeling all too well, and was excited to find a solution in this neat little toy! While I haven’t had the opportunity to test out a strap-on myself, I’ve seen my fair share of harnesses and have been surprised with the complete lack of padding that most provide. The Bumpher can help, with a hollow design and open back that you can slide onto any dildo with a flared base.

Made from silicone with a “cushiony soft feel“, it makes harness-wearing tons comfier, and can even provide some vulva stimulation thanks to the prominent central ridges. This does depend on your anatomy, however, as Vern found that “it didn’t add a lot of stimulation… unless I was pressing really hard, which isn’t as comfortable“.

Of course, the Bumpher can also be used as a slightly cheaper alternative to traditional solo grinding toys! Since it’s hollow, I recommend bolstering it on a pillow or stuffing it with something soft to stop it collapsing under you. You could stick it on a dildo during solo play and alternate between rubbing it against your vulva and penetrating yourself with the dildo!

 

Most Powerful Vibrations Fun Factory Laya III

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Baran

User Ratings:

4.2/5

Based on 20 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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PricePrice

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Ridged silicone surface
  • Curved shape
  • Powerful motor with customizable and programmable functions

Pros

  • Powerful, rumbly vibrations
  • Multiple speeds for each vibration pattern
  • Textured and smooth silicone allows you to customize your feel
  • Works as a grinder and a lay-on vibe

Cons

  • Textures are not so prominent
  • Very firm body
  • Very long charge time

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fun Factory Laya III felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fun Factory Laya III felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

Where are all my power queens (and all other royalty) at? I had to include a toy in this review to satisfy the power-hungry, and that toy is the Fun Factory Laya III. Sarah, who wrote our review, found that “the motor is powerful enough to provide intense pinpoint arousal” and is “quiet enough to be discreet, yet powerful enough you may not be able to keep quiet” — high praise indeed!

The Laya III has a curved shape that allows it to hug the body, reaching all the parts of your vulva that deserve attention. Alternatively, you could also use it curved away from you to help apply more pressure where you want it, since the firmness means it won’t give way beneath you. In my experience with grinding toys, I’ve found that toys that are both firm and flat often leave some areas out, so this feature is so appealing.

The silicone is textured to provide a little extra stimulation when it rubs against you, but there is also a smooth area on the underside so you can choose whichever you prefer. Of course, you may prefer more prominent textures, but since the vibrations on this thing are so strong, some slight ridges may be more than enough to satisfy. Sarah also found that the texture made the toy “easy to hang on to when things get really slick“, which is a great feature for those with grip issues.

Best Squishy Grinder Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator

4.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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PricePrice

Rating: Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Super squishy surface and tip
  • Ridged design
  • Palm-sized

Pros

  • Offers broad & precise stimulation
  • Made of silicone
  • Completely waterproof
  • Comes with a display case charger
  • Quiet motor
  • One-button controlled
  • Lightweight, soft silicone

Cons

  • A bit loud
  • Vibrations travel quite a bit
  • Not the strongest motor
  • On the pricier side for such a small vibe
  • Small size could be hard for those with mobility issues

Why I Chose It

If you’re anything like me, then squishiness is close to the top of your grinding toy wishlist. Iroha understand, because they created a gorgeously soft and squishy grinder in the Iroha+ Kushi. I actually tested out the original version of this vibe, but then they went and released a new version, which Vern took for a test run.

When reviewing this toy, they mentioned that they just couldn’t “get over how soft and squishy the Iroha+ Kushi is! I love the design of this toy, from its simplistic one-button system to the soft silicone, and especially the squishy tip and ridges“. I feel similarly — both the top and the tip of the Kushi have a deep squish to them, which is just so satisfying to sink down into or press into the clit.

The Kushi has surprisingly strong vibrations for such a small toy. Vern found that “most vibrations are in the tip“, though I’ve found in my usage that they transmit quite well through the back too, in a more diffuse way. They aren’t the rumbliest vibes in the world, but they are deep enough to feel super satisfying and not tickly at all.

As they experimented with this toy, Vern discovered that grinding is a truly perfect way to enjoy it. In their own words, “As a fat person with some issues with wrist mobility, I sometimes had trouble finding the perfect angle to fit the vibrator against my body. However, with the use of a pillow underneath me if laying on my stomach… the toy was a lot easier to manage“.

Best Oral Simulator VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Riccio

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

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PricePrice

Rating: VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Two vibrating motors
  • Flexible flickering tongue
  • Heating function
  • Handheld remote control

Pros

  • Silky smooth silicone
  • Warming is spread throughout the whole surface
  • Tongue is soft and flexible
  • Remote-controlled

Cons

  • Hard, rigid surface
  • Tongue requires exact placement
  • Short battery life

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

“When I grind on the VibePad 2, I get to enjoy vibration across my entire vulva and have my clitoris warmed up and licked simultaneously. It is wildly pleasurable.”

To me, that sounds perhaps as close to heavenly as you can get down here on Earth! This is what Sarah discovered when she tested out this grinder. She had actually already used the first VibePad, but found that the warming function and the moving tongue “improved the concept of the original and create a more pleasurable user experience“.

Face-sitting, or queening as it’s sometimes called, is a pretty fantastic experience, most of us can agree. But, what about when it’s not an option? The VibePad 2 is a fantastic replacement, with its “quick, fluttering” silicone tongue. Unlike other tongue vibes that Sarah has tried, this one was “smooth, soft and flexible, and it adapts to the weight of your body in a comfortable and pleasurable way” rather than feeling sharp or mechanical. You can also pair this with the vibrations, which Sarah described as “more rumbly than buzzy“. The one thing that was slightly annoying for her was that you really have to position yourself correctly to get the tongue in the right place.

Sarah also loved how the heating function of this grinder was spread out across its whole surface, which added to the pleasure offered by the smooth, soft silicone. The one thing I would point out, though, is that the two ridges are rigid and not cushioned, which might be off-putting if you’re like me and enjoy more squish.

Best Multi-Function Grinder Ruby Glow Blush

3.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

3.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

3.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.2/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Ruby Glow Blush was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Ruby Glow Blush was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

70/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Ruby Glow Blush was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Ruby Glow Blush was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Can be used as a grinder or an insertable dildo
  • Two humps for clitoral and perineal stimulation
  • Firm body with no flexibility
  • Handheld remote control

Pros

  • Allows you to enjoy both external and internal stimulation
  • Powerful vibrations from dual motors
  • Long-range remote control for hands-free riding

Cons

  • Bottom motor is very buzzy
  • Vibrations are loud when in the cradle
  • Very rigid exterior can hurt to press into

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Ruby Glow Blush was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Ruby Glow Blush felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Ruby Glow Blush was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Ruby Glow Blush felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

I had the honor of testing the Ruby Glow Blush myself, and it was actually the first purpose-made grinder toy I ever tried. What first intrigued me was the idea of having a remote-control grinder that I could also use in other ways — since grinding isn’t the only way I enjoy masturbating, I think it’s nice to get more for my money!

This toy comes with a ‘wand’ that you can use like a dildo or a g-spot vibe, as well as a cradle that you can place the wand inside of and ride. As a grinder, the two bumps on the wand provide body-hugging clitoral and perineal stimulation, and as an insertable toy the curve at the end of the shaft allows you to find your g-spot more easily while the second bump acts almost like clit-stimulating rabbit vibe!

The body is very rigid and un-cushioned, which I have mixed feelings about. It works well when you insert it, and if you want to have a lot of firm pressure when you grind, but it can also hurt me sometimes, too! Personally, I think I prefer a bit more squish, like with the Iroha Kushi.

Then, we get to the vibrations. There are actually two separate motors in the Blush, and the one in the tip is both powerful and relatively rumbly — perfect! The bottom motor, however is a bit weaker and is much buzzier. However, I don’t think this is too much of an issue because it works well enough with just the top motor if you’re put off by more tickly vibes.

Comparison

BestTest Winner Runner Up Budget-Friendly Most Powerful Vibrations Best Squishy Grinder Best Oral Simulator Best Multi-Function Grinder
Overall score5.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.4 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 - 4.9 / 5.0 3.9 / 5.0
Bedbible rating5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 3.5 / 5.0
User rating5 / 5.0
from 3 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 3 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 136 users
4.2 / 5.0
from 20 users
- 4.8 / 5.0
from 4 users
4.2 / 5.0
from 8 users
PriceAffordable Affordable Moderate Pricey Pricey Premium Moderate
Design90 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100
Ease of use100 / 100 100 / 100 70 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 80 / 100
Quality90 / 100 98 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100 70 / 100
Sound-20 / 100 -20 / 100 -40 / 100 40 / 100
Power-80 / 100 -80 / 100 -80 / 100 80 / 100
Buzzy/Rumbly-somewhat rumbly -somewhat rumbly -somewhat rumbly somewhat rumbly
Length3.5 inches6.5 inches4 inches4.3 inches4 inches11.42 inches7.4 inches
Width2.58 inches2.5 inches2.75 inches1.6 inches2 inches8.15 inches2 inches
Height1.5 inches2.5 inches1 inches-1.6 inches1.65 inches2.5 inches
MaterialsPlatinum-Grade Silicone Silicone, ABS plastic Medical-Grade Silicone Silicone Silicone, TPU Silicone Silicone, ABS Plastic
WaterproofYes Grinder: Yes, Remote: No, Uses 1 CR2032 Battery (Included) Yes Yes Yes Yes Wand: Yes, Stand & Remote: No
Storage Bag IncludedNo No No No No No No
Colors AvailableIndigo/Pink, Indigo/Violet Purple Blue, Purple, Pink, Turquoise, Black Soft Violet, Sage Green Beige, Pink Purple Burgundy
Vibration speeds-Each motor has 3 -7 5 Tongue Motor: 3, Back Motor: 2 3
Vibration patterns-Each motor has 7 -3 3 Tongue Motor: 4, Back Motor: 5 7
Battery Life-60 minutes-40 to 120 minutes60 minutes60 minutes90 minutes
Rechargeable-Yes -Yes Yes Grinder: Yes, Remote: No, Uses 1 LR23A Battery (Included) Yes
Charging Time-120 minutes-Intial charge: 180 minutes, Regular charge: 390 minutes120 minutes120 minutes90 minutes
Remote Controls-Yes, Handheld Remote -No No Yes, Handheld Remote Yes, Handheld Remote
Travel Lock-No -Yes No No No
Diameter (internal)--3.25 inches----
Insertable length------5 inches
Diameter------Insertable Wand: 1.5 inches
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Honrable Grinding Sex Toy Mentions

Alright, well, I’ve shown you all of the best grinding vibrator and humping toys you can buy online right now.

Still, there are a few more honorable mentions I want to make, so — if you haven’t found the perfect clit grinder for you just yet — keep reading!

VibePad 1 Rechargeable Grinding Vibrator

VibePad 1 Rechargeable Grinding Vibrator

VibePad 1 Rechargeable Grinding Vibrator

Slightly cheaper and without the tongue, the original VibePad is still a great toy that you’re sure to fall in love with. Offering remote controls and seven vibe modes to choose from, this toy is an amazing option for anyone who wants to enjoy some grinding fun!

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VibePad 3 Triple Stimulation Grinder

VibePad 3 Triple Stimulation Grinder

VibePad 3 Triple Stimulation Grinder

Offering clitoral, vaginal, and anal stimulation all at the same time, the VibePad 3 is a trifecta of pleasure that’s sure to scratch any itch. Remote-controlled and fitted with three motors, this toy can fulfill all of your fantasies (and more!).

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The Best Positions & Places for You to Get Your Grind On

Now you’ve got a new grinding vibrator, but what’s the best way to use it? Well, you have quite a few options. After all, it’s literally up to you how you enjoy your humping toys! Still, if you’re looking for inspiration, here are a few different ways to enjoy your new clit grinder:

  • Use Pillows – To do this, simply mount two pillows and place the grinding toy on top. Enjoy the clitoral stimulation and experience of “riding” a partner without the need for penetration!
  • Use a Chair – You can do a similar thing with the chair, sitting backward on a chair and grabbing onto the back for support as you grind away.
  • Use Your Bed – Depending on the design of your toy, lying down in bed and placing the toy underneath you might offer a satisfying grind!
  • Using Your Underwear – Certain toys can fit comfortably inside your underwear. Some are even made for this! To enjoy the process, simply get your grinder in place, find a chair, and grind to your heart’s content!
Author
Rachel Worthington
Rachel Worthington

Product Testing Program Coordinator & Senior Writer | I’m a sex expert and writer with a background in psychology and cognitive semiotics, and I’ve a got a passion for sex positivity, diversity and good vibes! As well as managing our growing team of sex toy testers, I’m here to help our readers find honest and helpful information about sex and intimacy, while having a whole lot of fun in the process! ❤️

Age: 27
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: We-Vibe Tango X
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