The 7 Best Grinder Sex Toys for Bumping & Grinding

Lauren Gill
by Lauren GillUpdated:

Ready to purchase a brand-new grinding sex toy? Well, if you just keep reading, you’ll find the perfect one for you below! I’ve tested and reviewed each option with the Bedbible Team. I’ve highlighted the pros and cons to make your shopping experience a streamlined one. Every grinding sex toy on this list brings something unique to the table.

Test Winner

5.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Runner Up

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Edie

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on user reviews

Budget-Friendly

4.4Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 136 user reviews

Most Powerful Vibrations

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Baran

User Ratings:

4.2/5

Based on 20 user reviews

Best Squishy Grinder

4.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

0/5

Based on user reviews

Best Oral Simulator

4.9Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Riccio

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on user reviews

Best Multi-Function Grinder

3.9Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

3.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

3.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.2/5

Based on user reviews

Uberrime LaBaeInmi Ride N GrindBumpher Grinding CushionFun Factory Laya IIITenga Iroha KushiVibePad 2Ruby Glow Blush
Uberrime LaBaeInmi Ride N GrindBumpher Grinding CushionFun Factory Laya IIITenga Iroha KushiVibePad 2Ruby Glow Blush
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Pros & Cons
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  • Unique and cute heart-shaped vulva design
  • Silky soft, squishy yet firm silicone
  • Compact design fits in a harness
  • No vibrations
  • Small size can make some angles awkward
  • Requires a good amount of lube
  • Two motors which can be used separately or synced together.
  • Includes a remote control for true hands-free use.
  • Soft, supple and squishy silicone for a comfortable ride.
  • The perfect height and weight to keep the toy in place.
  • The right length for clitoral and external anal stimulation.
  • Doesn't include a storage bag.
  • The packaging is tacky and includes nudity.
  • Reasonably priced
  • Exotic coloring
  • Highly textured
  • Waterproof
  • No additional features
  • Only offered in one size
  • Pricey for a toy add-on
  • Waterproof
  • Silky Textured Silicone
  • Rechargeable
  • Travel Lock
  • Ergonomic Design
  • May not be a comfortable fit for some positions depending on body type
  • Speeds and patterns are not independent controls
  • Not for internal use
  • Offers broad & precise stimulation
  • Made of silicone
  • Completely waterproof
  • Comes with a display case charger
  • Quiet motor
  • A bit loud
  • Vibrations travel quite a bit
  • Not the strongest motor
  • On the pricier side for such a small vibe
  • Small size could be hard for those with mobility issues
  • Made of silicone
  • Warming action
  • Integrated flicking tongue
  • Remote-controlled
  • Only for use with water-based lubes
  • Not the most compact toy
  • Short battery life
  • Two-toy combo
  • For internal & external stimulation
  • Dual-motor design
  • Waterproof wand
  • Could be quieter
  • Hard exterior
  • Vibes travel down the handle

How We Test grinder sex toys

We’re a team of 279 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best grinder sex toys, our testers tried and reviewed 296 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre grinder sex toys didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 910 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
How I Ranked Each Grinder Sex Toy

What Makes a Good Grinder Sex Toy?

Any company can make a lay on vibrator, but there are a few different minimum requirements that these grinding sex toys must meet before they can be considered any good.

Here are a few things you’ll want to watch out for when shopping:

  • Softness – Ideally, you want a grinder toy to be soft, squishy, or a combination of both. Harder toys tend to be uncomfortable, especially if you’re putting your entire weight on them.
  • Textures – Different textures will provide different sensations against your clitoris and labia. As such, this is something you’ll want to consider: what texture(s) do you prefer?
  • Vibrations – Not all of the grinder sex toys vibrate. In fact, some of the best models are manual! Still, if you’re buying one that does vibrate, you’ll want to make sure it offers enough speed and pattern options to keep you satisfied.
  • Battery life – If your toy does vibrate, you have to ask yourself if the battery life will last an entire session. A toy can be amazing, but if the battery dies before you finish then it might not be worth spending your hard-earned money on.
  • Design – Ergonomics are very important. Take a close look at any toy you’re considering. Is it easy to hold in place? Will it be comfortable to ride and/or use for a long time?

Test Winner Uberrime LaBae Grinder

5.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Uberrime LaBae Grinder was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Uberrime LaBae Grinder was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Uberrime LaBae Grinder was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: Uberrime LaBae Grinder was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Realistic vulva-like design
  • Palm-sized
  • Bright, marbled color in squishy, platinum-grade silicone

Pros

  • Unique and cute heart-shaped vulva design
  • Silky soft, squishy yet firm silicone
  • Compact design fits in a harness

Cons

  • No vibrations
  • Small size can make some angles awkward
  • Requires a good amount of lube

Why I Chose It

With grinding toys becoming more and more popular these days, I had a lot of choice when it came to picking our test winner. Luckily, once I read Vern’s review of the LaBae grinder from Uberrime, I knew that it was the best of the bunch!

This gorgeous palm-sized grinding pad is made from top-quality, platinum-grade silicone that’s both soft and firm at the same time. Vern described it as “flexible enough to squish like a stress ball and firm enough to grind on for stimulation“. They loved its supreme softness, and found it so satisfying to use by itself or in tandem with a wand vibrator. One thing they did find, though, is that it feels best with lube — stick to a water-based option to avoid damaging the silicone.

The top looks like a heart-shaped vulva, which both Vern and I just adore. As well as being a satisfying texture to grind on, Vern found that “using it feels like I’m scissoring someone without the awkwardness of the right angles on another person’s body“. If you’re someone who enjoys or is interested in scissoring (also known as tribbing), I think this could be a great place to start.

As someone who’s tried grinding with different toys before, I appreciate the compact size. It makes the LaBae perfect for using with a cushion or pillow, or placing inside a strap-on harness. Then, once you’re done, you can store it away easily and discreetly, rather than having to find a place for a large grinding pad.

Runner Up Inmi Ride N Grind

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Edie

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Inmi Ride N Grind was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Inmi Ride N Grind was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

98/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Inmi Ride N Grind was rated 98 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: Inmi Ride N Grind was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Remote-controlled, saddle-shaped grinding vibrator
  • Two ridges for clitoral and perineal stimulation
  • Slightly squishy surface

Pros

  • Two motors which can be used separately or synced together.
  • Includes a remote control for true hands-free use.
  • Soft, supple and squishy silicone for a comfortable ride.
  • The perfect height and weight to keep the toy in place.
  • The right length for clitoral and external anal stimulation.
  • Great for older people, those with mobility issues, and those in transition.

Cons

  • Doesn't include a storage bag.
  • The packaging is tacky and includes nudity.

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Inmi Ride N Grind was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Inmi Ride N Grind felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Inmi Ride N Grind was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Inmi Ride N Grind felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

Personally, I can’t live without some extra vibrations when I’m grinding. I’ve tried a few out, but most have been lacking in the power and/or comfort department. However, when Edie tried out the Ride N’ Grind from Inmi, her verdict was that it is simply “sheer perfection“!

The thing I was immediately drawn to about this toy is the soft, textured silicone surface. Edie and I were on the same page here — she called it “soft, smooth and perfectly squishy“. She found that the texture felt fantastic to grind against, with “plenty of bumps“. These factors make grinding on this bad boy a treat that’s both pleasurable and comfortable. The vibrations are somewhere between a buzz and a rumble, and while I personally prefer a very rumbly motor, Edie really loved the sensation.

Edie mentions in her review that her disability can make it difficult to straddle and ride on toys, but the height and remote controls of this toy were exactly what she needed. The base of the toy is also weighted to prevent it from tipping over, even on soft surfaces like your bed, which is a smart touch that I hope more toy makers adopt.

Budget-Friendly Bumpher Dildo Base Grinding Cushion

4.4/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 136 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Bumpher Dildo Base Grinding Cushion was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

70/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Bumpher Dildo Base Grinding Cushion was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Bumpher Dildo Base Grinding Cushion was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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Rating: Bumpher Dildo Base Grinding Cushion was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Can be used as a grinder or dildo cushion
  • Made from medical-grade silicone
  • Semi-realistic design

Pros

  • Reasonably priced
  • Exotic coloring
  • Highly textured
  • Waterproof

Cons

  • No additional features
  • Only offered in one size
  • Pricey for a toy add-on

Why I Chose It

As my “Non-Vibrating” pick, I think a lot of people might avoid this one at first glance. Still, if you’re searching for grinding sex toys, surely you have to respect where it all started from!

The biggest advantage that this toy has is the external texturing. Squishy and soft, the exterior is designed to put pressure in all the right places as you grind yourself on it.

I really like how each one of these feels handcrafted. Not only is it a unique tidbit, but it also means that your Bumpher Grinder is essentially an art piece. Of course, this has nothing to do with the sexual stimulation factor, but it’s nice nonetheless.

All in all, I’d recommend The Bumpher to anyone who enjoys the manual method. While it might not have any fancy bells or whistles, thanks to the unique shape and high-quality materials, you’ll definitely still end up satisfied with these unique, handcrafted sex toys.

Most Powerful Vibrations Fun Factory Laya III

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Baran

User Ratings:

4.2/5

Based on 20 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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PricePrice

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Ridged silicone surface
  • Curved shape
  • Powerful motor

Pros

  • Waterproof
  • Silky Textured Silicone
  • Rechargeable
  • Travel Lock
  • Ergonomic Design
  • Easily Accessible Controls

Cons

  • May not be a comfortable fit for some positions depending on body type
  • Speeds and patterns are not independent controls
  • Not for internal use

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fun Factory Laya III felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fun Factory Laya III felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Best Squishy Grinder Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator

4.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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PricePrice

Rating: Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Super squishy surface and tip
  • Ribbed design
  • Palm-sized

Pros

  • Offers broad & precise stimulation
  • Made of silicone
  • Completely waterproof
  • Comes with a display case charger
  • Quiet motor
  • One-button controlled
  • Lightweight, soft silicone

Cons

  • A bit loud
  • Vibrations travel quite a bit
  • Not the strongest motor
  • On the pricier side for such a small vibe
  • Small size could be hard for those with mobility issues

Why I Chose It

The soft silicone exterior of this classy clit grinder earned it the “Squishy” mention on this list.

This soft, squishy exterior pairs well with the deeper vibrations of this clit grinder, ensuring that you’ll be able to take full advantage of all five speeds—and both patterns—this toy has to offer.

Of course, only having two patterns is a bit of a letdown, but the toy seems to do the job nonetheless. The battery life is only around an hour though, so I feel at least one of these areas could use improvement.

One thing that really stands out about this grind toy is the charging case. It doesn’t come with a travel case, but the display box that comes with this grinder sex toy actually doubles as a charging box.

This not only helps reduce waste, but also means your toy can look its best while recharging for the next session.

I think this might be better for beginners or those preferring a less intense experience. If you fall into one of these two categories and don’t mind the somewhat lackluster battery life then you really should consider getting a Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator of your own!

Best Oral Simulator VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Riccio

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

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PricePrice

Rating: VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Two vibrating motors
  • Flexible flickering tongue
  • Heating function
  • Handheld remote control

Pros

  • Made of silicone
  • Warming action
  • Integrated flicking tongue
  • Remote-controlled

Cons

  • Only for use with water-based lubes
  • Not the most compact toy
  • Short battery life

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

The original Vibepad was great, don’t get me wrong. I’m just saying that this new version of the grinding vibrator is better!

The VibePad 2 offers extremely rumbly vibrations, which are great because they penetrate deep within your body.

Unlike many of the other humping toys, this one is a bit larger, but it can still be folded up easily if you need to move it around.

The heating function helps get the blood flowing, while the tongue makes it feel more like “the real thing”. Essentially, it’s a facesitting grinder! In my opinion, this puts it leagues above other clit grinder toys that rely mainly on your own movements to get things going.

Of course, there are a few downsides. The battery doesn’t last very long, and, it’s no good for internal stimulation.

Still, I’d say these shortcomings are easy to overlook once you consider the bigger picture. If you’re looking for the last clit grinder you’ll ever need, news flash: the VibePad 2 is the one you’re looking for!

Best Multi-Function Grinder Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination

3.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

3.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

3.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.2/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the grinding sex toy.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

70/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Can be used as a grinder or an insertable dildo
  • Two humps for clitoral and perineal stimulation
  • Firm body with no flexibility
  • Handheld remote control

Pros

  • Two-toy combo
  • For internal & external stimulation
  • Dual-motor design
  • Waterproof wand

Cons

  • Could be quieter
  • Hard exterior
  • Vibes travel down the handle

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

Like any toy, I found that the the Ruby Glow Blush has its pros and cons. Fortunately, I think the pros outweigh the cons, but nonetheless, let’s start with the cons first.

Well, it has a battery life of 90 minutes. This isn’t bad, but it’s not the best I’ve seen either. Despite being covered in silicone, the toy is relatively hard, which means It did hurt a bit when I wasn’t careful enough when sitting down on it.

It’s also worth noting that it’s not the quietest thing around. It is definetely louder than most of the other grinding sex toys I’ve tested.

That said, the pros are important. This toy offers a combination of both buzzy and rumbly vibrations, can be used hands-free, is waterproof (wand only), and can be controlled by the remote up to 49 feet away.

Priced around $100, it’s not the cheapest toy, but I’d say it’s still with your money. If you want something that can stimulate you both inside and out then the Ruby Glow Blush is a hard bargain to beat!

Comparison

BestTest Winner Runner Up Budget-Friendly Most Powerful Vibrations Best Squishy Grinder Best Oral Simulator Best Multi-Function Grinder
Overall score5.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.4 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 - 4.9 / 5.0 3.9 / 5.0
Bedbible rating5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 3.5 / 5.0
User rating5 / 5.0
from 3 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 3 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 136 users
4.2 / 5.0
from 20 users
- 4.8 / 5.0
from 4 users
4.2 / 5.0
from 8 users
PriceAffordable Affordable Moderate Pricey Pricey Premium Moderate
Design90 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100
Ease of use100 / 100 100 / 100 70 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 80 / 100
Quality90 / 100 98 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100 70 / 100
Sound-20 / 100 -20 / 100 -40 / 100 40 / 100
Power-80 / 100 -80 / 100 -80 / 100 80 / 100
Buzzy/Rumbly-somewhat rumbly -somewhat rumbly -somewhat rumbly somewhat rumbly
Length3.5 inches6.5 inches4 inches4.3 inches4 inches11.42 inches7.4 inches
Width2.58 inches2.5 inches2.75 inches1.6 inches2 inches8.15 inches2 inches
Height1.5 inches2.5 inches1 inches-1.6 inches1.65 inches2.5 inches
MaterialsPlatinum-Grade Silicone Silicone, ABS plastic Medical-Grade Silicone Silicone Silicone, TPU Silicone Silicone, ABS Plastic
WaterproofYes Grinder: Yes, Remote: No, Uses 1 CR2032 Battery (Included) Yes Yes Yes Yes Wand: Yes, Stand & Remote: No
Storage Bag IncludedNo No No No No No No
Colors AvailableIndigo/Pink, Indigo/Violet Purple Blue, Purple, Pink, Turquoise, Black Soft Violet, Sage Green Beige, Pink Purple Burgundy
Vibration speeds-Each motor has 3 -7 5 Tongue Motor: 3, Back Motor: 2 3
Vibration patterns-Each motor has 7 -3 3 Tongue Motor: 4, Back Motor: 5 7
Battery Life-60 minutes-40 to 120 minutes60 minutes60 minutes90 minutes
Rechargeable-Yes -Yes Yes Grinder: Yes, Remote: No, Uses 1 LR23A Battery (Included) Yes
Charging Time-120 minutes-Initial charge: (6-7 hours) 360-420 minutes120 minutes120 minutes90 minutes
Remote Controls-Yes, Handheld Remote -No No Yes, Handheld Remote Yes, Handheld Remote
Travel Lock-No -Yes No No No
Diameter (internal)--3.25 inches----
Insertable length------5 inches
Diameter------Insertable Wand: 1.5 inches
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Honrable Grinding Sex Toy Mentions

Alright, well, I’ve shown you all of the best grinding vibrator and humping toys you can buy online right now.

Still, there are a few more honorable mentions I want to make, so — if you haven’t found the perfect clit grinder for you just yet — keep reading!

VibePad 1 Rechargeable Grinding Vibrator

VibePad 1 Rechargeable Grinding Vibrator

VibePad 1 Rechargeable Grinding Vibrator

Slightly cheaper and without the tongue, the original VibePad is still a great toy that you’re sure to fall in love with. Offering remote controls and seven vibe modes to choose from, this toy is an amazing option for anyone who wants to enjoy some grinding fun!

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VibePad 3 Triple Stimulation Grinder

VibePad 3 Triple Stimulation Grinder

VibePad 3 Triple Stimulation Grinder

Offering clitoral, vaginal, and anal stimulation all at the same time, the VibePad 3 is a trifecta of pleasure that’s sure to scratch any itch. Remote-controlled and fitted with three motors, this toy can fulfill all of your fantasies (and more!).

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Grinder Sex Toy Comparison

Now that I’ve gone over all the top grinding sex toys, let’s do a quick recap of the important highlights of the various models!

Pretty much anyone will be satisfied with the Vipepad 2 and the Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator. While both functions primarily as a grinding sex toy, the Blush toy can also be used as a wand vibrator, giving it external and internal potential.

I strongly think any beginners are sure to love the We-Vibe Moxie+, with its small size and long battery life. Costing less than $100, this is a solid option to get started really easy. And, you have so many more options, like using it as an actual panty vibrator.

Prefer the manual approach? Then The Bumpher Grinder — where sex toy meets art piece — is what you want.

The Best Positions & Places for You to Get Your Grind On

Now you’ve got a new grinding vibrator, but what’s the best way to use it? Well, you have quite a few options. After all, it’s literally up to you how you enjoy your humping toys! Still, if you’re looking for inspiration, here are a few different ways to enjoy your new clit grinder:

  • Use Pillows – To do this, simply mount two pillows and place the grinding toy on top. Enjoy the clitoral stimulation and experience of “riding” a partner without the need for penetration!
  • Use a Chair – You can do a similar thing with the chair, sitting backward on a chair and grabbing onto the back for support as you grind away.
  • Use Your Bed – Depending on the design of your toy, lying down in bed and placing the toy underneath you might offer a satisfying grind!
  • Using Your Underwear – Certain toys can fit comfortably inside your underwear. Some are even made for this! To enjoy the process, simply get your grinder in place, find a chair, and grind to your heart’s content!
Author
Lauren Gill
Lauren Gill

After studying journalism and English at university I worked for almost a decade in education. I never thought I’d end up writing about sex toys but after deciding to quit education, here I am! I suppose you could say I’m still helping people learn but now I’m just in the field of sex education instead! It’s a fun and rewarding career that allows me to help people have fulfilling sex lives whilst expanding my own horizons too!

Age: 32
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Beginner
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