Dame Com — Test & Review
Table of contents (16)
Unveiling My Experience with the Dame Com
Ever since I first laid eyes on the Dame Com, I knew I was going to love it. Oh boy did it exceed my expectations! Not only is this wand powerful and doesn’t numb my bits, but it’s comfortable, easy on my wrists, and is even gender affirming. It’s by-far the best wand I’ve ever used, and it’s a toy that definitely won’t be leaving my nightstand any time soon. I love the Dame Com, and I encourage anyone interested in a wand-style vibrator to get one for yourself!
Comfortable & Curvaceous
Consider it love at first sight, but my experience with the Dame Com has been nothing but perfection. Dame products are silky smooth, likely the best body-safe silicone I’ve ever felt, and easy to use! It’s shaped for accessibility. If you’re like me and your wrists ache from the weird angles you sometimes have to do for stiffer wands, then you should definitely try the Dame Com. It’s angled to rest closer to your body, it’s like my hands and arms are getting a break! Plus, the vibrations are deep and rumbly without going overboard. (Looking at you, Lovense Domi 2, your vibrations were so numbing!) The Dame Com is soft and powerful, it makes me feel more in touch with my body.Gender Affirming?!
The Dame Com is perfect for my bottom dysphoria and gender euphoria. At times, I wish that I had something more that I could grab, like a penis, rather than my vulva and clitoris. The Dame Com is long, longer than many wands I’ve seen before. It contours to my curves and is easy to hold in a variety of positions. When my hand grasps onto its shaft it feels like I’m holding and stroking a penis of my own. It’s not just the toy that is gender affirming! The packaging itself is gender-neutral and promotes safe, healthy sex and highlights the Dame Com’s ability to be used by a variety of body types and genitalia. I highly recommend this toy for other trans folks who may want more comfort, ease, and gender euphoria from their sex toy experience!
5% coupon available
Show coupon
Coupon verified
10% coupon available
Show coupon
Coupon verified
Design Quirks: The Good and the Bad
The look of the Dame Com is striking. The entire toy, head and body, is the soft silicone that Dame is known for. You can always point out a Dame product by their gentle pastel colors and silky-smooth feeling! Then, of course, there's that unique curve that hugs my body like nothing else. It's a beautiful design all around!
The Dame Com: My Take on Ease of Use
There are three buttons, one to turn the vibrator on and off that doubles as a way to change the toy's pattern, and two to change the intensity. There isn't a learning curve necessarily, but the smoothness of the buttons that melt into the rest of the silicone body, it took a few tries to find the right spots for the right change I was looking for. But it's perfect for those who may have mobility issues, as this toy will hug your body and is very easy to hold onto!
How Well-made is it?
The Dame Com is so close to getting a perfect quality rating, but those buttons keep me from going all the way. They're a little tricky to figure out at first, and sometimes seem to get a little stuck as if it didn't read my pressure at first. But it is one of the quietest wands I've used, is sturdy and built to last, and feels like a great quality toy.
Cost of the Dame Com
The price of this toy is NOT going to break the bank! When debating getting a Dame Com of your own, remember that you're getting a great quality toy for a fair price. It's not cheap, per say, at just under $90, but it's a price that shows its top-notch quality while being accessible to folks with varying budgets!
How I think the Dame Com performed
I wish the Dame Com had a slightly better battery life. At only an hour or so of run time I can get a couple of sessions in with it before it dies mid-use. Otherwise, it has a great vibration strength that is stronger than other Dame products while not being overpowering to the point of numbing my vulva and clitoris. It's not too loud, doesn't get too hot, and all around performs better than many of the toys I have in my arsenal!
A closer Look at it’s packaging
I love Dame's gender-neutral packaging, but I have seen a slight downgrade in their packaging over time. While I love that their plastic is recyclable, my Com arrived with the plastic holding it being folded over, so my grand reveal was a bit of a bummer and made me worry about the quality of the toy. Still, after unfolding the plastic (with few blemishes, as seen in the image) and looking at the rest of the products in the box, I found it to be wonderfully well-done. I love the sticker and the pamphlet on demystifying sexual wellness and pleasure, as well as on how to get the most out of your Dame Com!
Materials and Maintenance
The Dame Com is lightweight for its size and made of body-safe silicone that's soft to the touch. It's totally waterproof, so you can easily clean it in warm water and soap, or just your choice of toy cleaner. It even comes with a cute storage bag for you to the toy into for safe keeping once it's been cleaned!
Rating: Dame Com was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Dame Com felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Dame Com was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Dame Com felt to the reviewer.
Specifications and features
| Vibration speeds | 5 |
| Vibration patterns | 5 |
| Length | 10.5 inches |
| Materials | Body-safe silicone |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Battery Life | 1 minutes |
| Rechargeable | Yes |
| Charging Time | 2.5 minutes |
| Travel Lock | Yes |
| Weight | 0.6 lbs |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes |
| Colors Available | Periwinkle, Quartz |
Conclusion
The Dame Com is a great, versatile wand with silky-smooth silicone and easy-to-use accessible features. It's perfect for folks who need travel locks and quieter vibes, for people who like to switch up their positions with their toys for grinding or lounging on their backs or anything in-between. The Com has a beautiful, unique design that's built for truly comfortable pleasure. I couldn't recommend this vibrator enough! I felt like wands weren't for me until I tried the Dame Com, it opened my eyes to what sex toys can offer people in such a multitude of ways. Please, do your body a favor and get yourself one today!
All available shops
5% coupon availableShow coupon
Coupon verified
10% coupon availableShow coupon
Coupon verified
Comparing Dame Com with alternatives
 | ||||||
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Overall score | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 3.2 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.3 / 5.0 from 3 users | 4 / 5.0 from 3 users | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 51 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 230 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 68 users |
| Price | Low | Medium | Low | Medium | High | Medium |
| Design | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 70 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 65 / 100 |
| Quality | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 78 / 100 |
| Sound | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Power | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | somewhat rumbly | somewhat rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | very rumbly | very rumbly | very rumbly |
| Vibration speeds | 5 | 5 | 3 | 10 | 10 | 3 Preset |
| Vibration patterns | 5 | 5 | - | 20 | 10 | 4 Preset |
| Length | 10.5 inches | 8 inches | 9.6 inches | 13 inches | 11.97 inches | 9.21 inches |
| Materials | Body-safe silicone | Silicone | ABS Plastic, Silicone | ABS Plastic, Silicone | Silicone, PC, ABS | Medical Grade Silicone and ABS Plastic |
| Waterproof | Yes | Yes | No | No | - | Splashproof |
| Battery Life | 1 minutes | 240 minutes | 150 minutes | Up to 180 minutes | 240 minutes | 300-360 minutes |
| Rechargeable | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Charging Time | 2.5 minutes | 300 minutes | 150 minutes | 180 minutes | 150 minutes | 150 minutes |
| Travel Lock | Yes | No | - | Yes | Yes | - |
| Weight | 0.6 lbs | - | .60 lbs | 1.49 lbs | - | 0.6 lbs |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes | Yes | No | Yes | Yes | Yes! |
| Colors Available | Periwinkle, Quartz | - | - | White, Gray, Blue, Pink, Matte Black | - | - |
| Diameter | - | Approx. 1.9 inches | 1.9 inches | (Head) 2.45 inches | (Head) 2.28 inches | 1.74 inches |
| Flexibility | - | Slight | - | - | - | - |
| Remote Controls | - | App Capabilities | - | - | - | App |
| Vibration modes | - | - | 1 | - | - | - |
Other products from Dame
Dame Eva was rated 4.6 out of 5 by Rachel Worthington. This is lower than Dame Com.
Dame Eva was rated lower on Design, rated lower on Quality, rated lower on Easy of Use compared to Dame Com
Users in general rated Dame Com as the better product.
Dame Fin Finger Vibrator was rated 4.7 out of 5 by Cassie Mørch. This is lower than Dame Com.
Dame Fin Finger Vibrator was rated lower on Design, rated lower on Quality, rated lower on Easy of Use compared to Dame Com
Users in general rated Dame Com as the better product.
Dame Pom was rated 4 out of 5 by Mariah Lyons. This is lower than Dame Com.
Dame Pom was rated the same on Design, rated lower on Quality, rated lower on Easy of Use compared to Dame Com
Users in general rated Dame Com as the better product.
How to use Dame Com
Wondering how to get the most out of your Dame Com? Check out these tips!
FAQ
Instructions - Manual
Check out the manual for the Dame Com! Just click this link to learn more.
How did the Dame Com get tested and reviewed?
Receiving the productWe sent the Dame Com to the tester’s address, free of charge. They tested the product and got to keep it afterward, with no strings attached.
Testing and writingOur tester then put the product through its paces. After trying the product out at home, the tester then recorded their experience, evaluation, and overall rating of Dame Com to share with you in this review.
The test is uploaded hereAfter non-substantial editing, the review is uploaded to this page. Both good and bad reviews get uploaded, and no points that the tester writes in their review are left out.
The only editing we do is uploading and adding additional information such as the product specifications, comparisons to other products, and links to places where you can buy the Dame Com.