The 7 Best FtM Sex Toys
I am familiar enough with the sex toy market to know how difficult it can be for trans folks to find suitable products. The marketing is often very gendered which can easily lead to some gender-dysphoric discomfort. In this review, I’ve tried my best to create a safe space to communicate which products may be suitable for certain bodies. Today, I’ll diving into FtM sex toys specifically. Together with some queer and trans members from our Tester Team, I’ve picked out of favorites for you to read about below!
Test Winner | Runner-Up | Best For Beginners | Best Rabbit Vibe | Best Packer | Best Stroker | Best Strap-On |
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Dame Com | Satisfyer Curvy 1+ | NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi | Fun Factory Miss Bi | Vixen Mr. Right Silicone Packer | Arcwave Ghost | Lovense Lapis |
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How We Test FTM Sex Toys
We’re a team of 340 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best FTM Sex Toys, our testers tried and reviewed 92 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre FTM Sex Toys didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1255 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
Read more about how we test products.Table of contents (12)
Test Winner Dame Com
- Wand vibrator with an ergonomically curved handle
- Coated in body-safe silicone
- Powerful cordless vibrations
- 5 speeds and 5 patterns to explore.
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Comfortable grip
- ✅ Gender-affirming design and packaging
- ✅ Delivers deep and rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Completely waterproof (great to use in the bath or shower)
Cons
- ❌ Short battery life compared to the long charging time
- ❌ A bit loud
Why I Chose It
I’ve picked out the Dame Com as our Test Winner today because it’s a great all-rounder. Wand vibrators are some of the most versatile sex toys out there. They’re great for stimulating any external part of the body regardless of anatomy.
Our tester, Vern, loved the overall quality and feel of the Dame Com at first: “Dame products are silky smooth, likely the best body-safe silicone I’ve ever felt, and easy to use! It’s shaped for accessibility. […] It’s angled to rest closer to your body, it’s like my hands and arms are getting a break! Plus, the vibrations are deep and rumbly without going overboard.”
I think it’s great as a FtM sex toy since it works wonders for any erogenous zones on all kinds of bodies. It’s also a great transitional toy that will keep stimulating you as your body changes. Last but not least, the design itself offers some mild gender affirmation:
“The Dame Com is perfect for my bottom dysphoria and gender euphoria. At times, I wish that I had something more that I could grab, like a penis, rather than my vulva and clitoris. […] When my hand grasps onto its shaft it feels like I’m holding and stroking a penis of my own.”
The packaging as well “is gender-neutral and promotes safe, healthy sex and highlights the Dame Com’s ability to be used by a variety of body types and genitalia”.
Runner-Up Satisfyer Curvy 1+
- Clitoral suction toy with air pulse and vibration
- Wide suction nozzle
- Coated in soft, body-safe silicone
- Connect to the Satisfyer Connect app to unlock unlimited stimulation modes and long-distance features.
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Suitable for an enlarged clitoris
- ✅ A lot of different pleasure combinations to explore
- ✅ Great for long-distance couples
- ✅ 100% waterproof
Cons
- ❌ The surface gets scuff marks easily
- ❌ Long charging time
Why I Chose It
“I don’t hesitate to claim that the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ is my favourite sex toy to date. […] As a trans man, I worried that my clit wouldn’t fit into the chamber due to hormone growth, or that the sensation would be too intense. […] The Curvy 1+ enveloped my clit and fit like a glove, creating a perfect vacuum seal.”
The Runner-Up is another favorite here at Bedbible, a clit sucker from Satisfyer. First of all, the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ is a great quality construction, it offers both vibrations and air pulse stimulation, it’s app compatible, has an ergonomic design, and completely waterproof. Having tried out the Satisfyer Curvy 2+ myself, I am very familiar with all the pleasure this little thing has to offer.
That said, I picked out the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ as a great FtM sex toy specifically because of it’s wide suction nozzle. It was also the main advantage for our tester, Nick: “The most cherished attribute I hold is the suitability for trans-masc users. As I mentioned earlier, I have clitoral growth due to hormone treatment, but that didn’t impede on the immense pleasure the toy provides.”
One of my favorite parts of this clit sucker is the app control function. They unlock so many extra settings, interactive features, and allow you to be intimate with someone long-distance. It just offers a lot more versatility compared to your average clit sucker out there!
Best For Beginners NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi
- Soft and squishy palm vibrator
- New and improved version of the Iroha+ Kushi
- Ribbed texture and pinpoint tip.
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Quiet motor
- ✅ Single-button control is easy to use
- ✅ Super lightweight and compact
- ✅ The design offers varied sensations
Cons
- ❌ Not the most powerful
- ❌ Quite pricey
Why I Chose It
I like to recommend soft and versatile vibrators to complete beginners since they’re so unintimidating and easy to use. The NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi is just that! This vibrator is covered in incredibly soft and squishy silicone. Our tester, Vern, found it “extra cozy and comfortable to hold and use.”
I like how the design allows for you to enjoy both pinpoint stimulation with the tip as well as broader stimulation with some added texture. This makes it a lot more versatile when using it different body parts and erogenous zones. However, for Vern, “as someone who prefers widespread vibration, my only issue is the Kushi’s motor, where most vibrations are in the tip of and not much is going on in the wider section of the toy.”
There are also a few minor drawbacks about the Kushi. Vern noted that the price was a bit steep for such a small vibrator. The vibrations themselves are also not the most powerful. The small size itself could also prove to be tricky for some. “As a fat person with some issues with wrist mobility, I sometimes had trouble finding the perfect angle to fit the vibrator against my body.”
That said, the quality of the materials and the construction still shines through. It’s super cute, has a pretty unassuming design, and feels really nice to grind up against!
Best Rabbit Vibe Fun Factory Miss Bi
- Rabbit-style vibrator
- Dual-motor design for internal and external stimulation
- Short and curved insertable shaft
- Flexible clitoral stem on the outside.
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Great for those who don't like deep penetration
- ✅ Can be used both vaginally and anally
- ✅ Suitable for any phase of your transition journey
- ✅ “Booster” button amps up the intensity quickly
Cons
- ❌ Easily attracts dust and lint
Why I Chose It
“Honestly, my previous rabbit vibrators never massaged my G-spot as well as Miss Bi did mine! Between its broad extension arm for clitoris/perineum stimulation, its heavenly curve, and the full feeling it gives, I was in paradise! “
Vern, our tester, was already interested in Fun Factory since they “love toys and brands that highlight their gender neutrality and ability to pleasure a wider array of bodies”. The unique design of the Fun Factory Miss Bi is exactly why I’ve included it in this review of FtM sex toys.
The finger loop base design makes it easier to use solo, and less awkward to use with a partner. Combined with the unique dual-arm, dual-motor design, I think this unique option could appeal to a lot of people.
The main appeal to me is definitely the shape and size of the insertable arm. The fact that you get to enjoy targeted g-spot stimulation without the penetration feeling too deep or overwhelming is a huge plus for people who may struggle with the idea of being penetrated.
Best Packer Vixen Mr. Right Silicone Packer
- Platinum silicone packer from Vixen
- Doubles as a soft dildo
- Available in 3 colors: Vanilla, Caramel, Chocolate.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Very realistic design
- ✅ Easy to clean
- ✅ Can be used with packing straps
- ✅ 100% body-safe materials
- ✅ Non-slip base
Cons
- ❌ Material can feel a bit sticky to the touch
- ❌ A bit too flexible for anal penetration
- ❌ No size variations to choose from
Why I Chose It
“The Vixen Mr. Right Packer isn’t just adequate at its job, but is an absolute MUST for someone seeking a high-quality piece to stuff into their undies, themselves, or a play partner!”
Our tester, Nick, had a really positive experience with the Vixen Mr. Right Silicone Packer. The realistic design, especially the detailed textures on the ball sack, was impressive. The soft silicone made it really comfortable for packing, making it feel more like a natural extension of his body. However, its size made it look somewhat conspicuous under clothing, particularly for people who are more petite or short.
I love that this packer doubles as a functional dildo! Of course, it’s not the stiffest thing out there, but it gets the job done. It’s comfortable and enjoyable, though its softness makes it less suitable for more intense play or anal penetration.
The price might seem high, but considering its handmade quality and high-grade materials, I think it’s a reasonable investment for those seeking a high-quality packer. It’s a great option for those who pack regularly and are looking for a durable, realistic option.
Best Stroker Arcwave Ghost Silicone Stroker
- Small silicone stroker
- Super soft and stretchy
- Reversible design with varied textures on both sides
- Comes with a discreet storage case with ventilation holes.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Small size is perfect for bottom growth
- ✅ Reversible design offers more variation
- ✅ High-quality, body-safe silicone
- ✅ 100% waterproof and easy to clean
- ✅ Reusable and long-lasting
Cons
- ❌ No added vibrations or suction
- ❌ Gets very slippery with lube
Why I Chose It
The Arcwave Ghost is one of the best beginner-friendly strokers that we’ve tested here at Bedbible. It’s basically a TENGA Egg but made with 100% body-safe premium silicone. This means that it’s reusable and easy to clean!
I love that this stroker is soft and stretchy enough to wrap around all penis sizes. Being able to adjust the pressure with you hand as you stroke makes it super accessible to newbies, since it’s basically an elevated hand job.
Our tester, Nicolae, really enjoyed the Arcwave Ghost. Even though it was simple, it definitely was stimulating enough to get the job done and make the experience more enjoyable overall.
My favorite part is definitely the reversible feature that gives you some variety in sensation. For Nicolae, he found “the intense surface with nodules to be more exciting for a quick release, as for the smooth part with grooves for a longer experience.”
Best Strap-On Lovense Lapis
- Vibrating strapless strap-on
- 3 independently controlled vibrating motors
- Adjustable base for the wearer
- Textured shaft with a pronounced head for more stimulation during penetration
- App-controlled
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Strong and rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Adjustable design
- ✅ Pleasure for the wearer and the receiver
- ✅ Semi-realistic design
- ✅ Realistic experience
Cons
- ❌ Can slip out of wearer if not using harness
- ❌ Insertion point can be uncomfortable or too big for wearer
Why I Chose It
The Lovense Lapis is one of the best vibrating strapless strapons on the market. It features three powerful motors, and its shape provides rumbly vibrations for both, the wearer and receiver. As a sex toy expert, I’ve tried plenty of strapless strap-ons, but this one is the most high-end and it’s app-controlled, which helps a lot with hands-free play.
According to our tester, Joseph, the Lovense Lapis is a high-quality toy: “The motor is strong but quiet, the patterns are highly customizable, you can adjust the fit, and the material feels just like skin once it’s warmed up.” They also highlighted the powerful and rumbly vibrations saying: “I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting.”
They enjoyed the size, and the ergonomic design saying “Using it to top was fun, and I did get some gendergood feelings about having a penis with no obvious straps holding it up.” However, as it often happens with strapless strap-ons the toy was slipping out, so I highly recommend using it with a harness. For those looking for a more realistic experience, I suggest using it with harness underwear for a more natural and comfortable fit. On the plus side, our tester actually enjoyed the combination of the Lapis and a harness saying, “Using it with a harness is fantastic, though. It really presses the ribbed bottom of the shaft against you, so you can feel just as much of the vibrations as your partner can.”
In my opinion, the Lovense Lapis is a top-of-the-line strapless strap-on. It’s nice and weighty, with powerful vibrations, and the app-controlled features are a great solution for couples that want full control of their experience.
Comparison
Best | Test Winner | Runner-Up | Best For Beginners | Best Rabbit Vibe | Best Packer | Best Stroker | Best Strap-On |
Overall score | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.3 / 5.0 from 3 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 43 users | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | 5 / 5.0 from 10 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 3 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 288 users | 4 / 5.0 from 1 users |
Price | Affordable | Moderate | Pricey | Moderate | Pricey | Cheap | Premium |
Design | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
Quality | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Sound | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 60 / 100 | - | - | 40 / 100 |
Power | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 80 / 100 | - | - | 100 / 100 |
Buzzy/Rumbly | somewhat rumbly | somewhat rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | somewhat rumbly | - | - | very rumbly |
Vibration speeds | 5 | 3 | 5 | 6 | - | - | 3 preset |
Vibration patterns | 5 | 7 | 3 | 6 | - | - | 4 preset |
Length | 10.5 inches | 5.2 inches | 4.01 inches | 6.69 inches | 5.5 inches | 4 inches | 9 inches |
Materials | Medical grade silicone | ABS plastic, silicone | Silicone, TPU | ABS plastic, silicone | Platinum silicone | Silicone | Silicone |
Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Battery Life | 60 minutes | 60 minutes | 60 minutes | 30 - 60 minutes | - | - | Up to 150 minutes |
Rechargeable | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | - | - | Yes |
Charging Time | 150 minutes | 240 minutes | 120 minutes | 600 - 720 minutes | - | - | 105 minutes |
Travel Lock | Yes | No | No | Yes | - | - | No |
Storage Bag Included | Yes | No | No | - | Resealable packaging | Yes | Yes |
Colors Available | Periwinkle, Quartz | Red, White | Beige, Pink | Pink, Grape, Jade, Black | Vanilla, Caramel and Chocolate | Black, Blue, Teal | Pink |
Clitoral suction | - | 11 modes | - | - | - | - | - |
Diameter | - | - | - | 1.6 inches | 1.25 inches | 1.3 inches | Shaft: 1.61 inches, Base: 1.52 inches |
Insertable length | - | - | - | - | - | - | Shaft: 5.43 inches, Base: 3.43 inches |
Adjustable | - | - | - | - | - | - | Yes |
Remote Controls | - | - | - | - | - | - | App controls |
Different Types of Sex Toys for Different Trans Bodies
While nearly any toy can be enjoyed by anyone, some types of FtM sex toys will work better with different trans bodies than others. Let’s take a quick look at the options.
If you:
- Are pre-T, then vibrators, rabbit vibrators, strapless strap-ons, and packers are great options.
- Are pre-op, you’ll likely enjoy small strokers, “clit” suckers or pumps, and vibrators that are good for grinding against.
- Are post-op, then sleeves and penis-friendly vibrators will likely become your go-to choice. However, depending on the type of surgery you’ve undergone (metoidioplasty or phalloplasty etc.) you might still be able to enjoy using some of the aforementioned types of toys. You might also be able to enjoy new toys specifically designed for penis owners.
Beyond the types of toys available to you, it’s also worth considering the type of experience and sensation you’re after. Are you looking for…
- External or internal stimulation?
- Vibrations or manual massage?
Figuring this out will help you find your favorite toys fast, but there’s nothing wrong with experimenting a bit either. After all, finding your favorite turn-ons can take a bit of time.
Other Helpful Accessories for GNC Folx
So far, we’ve looked at a bunch of different great transgender sex toys. Hopefully, by this point, you’ve found a few you liked!
However, you might find yourself searching for some accessories to enjoy with your newfound toy(s). Here are a few other types of sex toys that might be helpful for all kinds of gender non-conforming people out there.
Trinity Vibes Lubricant Launcher
Pretty much every sex toy out there requires lube. If you’ve ever used lube before, chances are, you’re well aware of how messy it can get! Fortunately, you can easily minimize the mess simply by using a Lubricant Launcher!
Ohnut Wearable Penetration Buffer
If your current partner or toy selection is currently too big for you to enjoy comfortably, that can really take away from the mood. However, using the Ohnut, you can easily limit how deep the penetration goes while increasing pleasure for both partners!
Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers
Lots of people enjoy nipple play. If you fall into that group then why not pick up a cheap pair of nipple suckers, like the Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers? They might be gentler than nipple clamps, but that doesn’t mean they’re any less stimulating!
Bumpher Soft Silicone Dildo Base
Even if you’re buying a FTM dildo, there’s no guarantee that the experience will feel as good for you as it will for your partner. Even out the playing field (i.e., increase your own stimulation) with the Bumpher, a silicone dildo base that fits comfortably behind a harness!
Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs
Perfect for packing as well as strap-on play, the Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs are both comfortable and practical. Not only can you use these for a standard dildo, but these shorts also work with double-ended dildos for twice the fun!
Specifically for Trans Femmes
We’ve seen plenty of toys for trans men, so now let’s take a look at some options for trans femmes!
Calexotics Inspire Dilator Kit
Designed for training (either vaginal or anal), this dilator training set offers a safe and comfortable way to work your way up to penetrative sex with a large penis. Check out our review of the Calexotics Inspire Dilator Kit here!
Reviewed by:
Vern Holland