6 Best FtM Sex Toys

Why I Chose It

I’ve picked out the Dame Com as our Test Winner today because it’s a great all-rounder. Wand vibrators are some of the most versatile sex toys out there. They’re great for stimulating any external part of the body regardless of anatomy.

Our tester, Vern, loved the overall quality and feel of the Dame Com at first: “Dame products are silky smooth, likely the best body-safe silicone I’ve ever felt, and easy to use! It’s shaped for accessibility. […] It’s angled to rest closer to your body, it’s like my hands and arms are getting a break! Plus, the vibrations are deep and rumbly without going overboard.”

I think it’s great as a FtM sex toy since it works wonders for any erogenous zones on all kinds of bodies. It’s also a great transitional toy that will keep stimulating you as your body changes. Last but not least, the design itself offers some mild gender affirmation:

“The Dame Com is perfect for my bottom dysphoria and gender euphoria. At times, I wish that I had something more that I could grab, like a penis, rather than my vulva and clitoris. […] When my hand grasps onto its shaft it feels like I’m holding and stroking a penis of my own.”

The packaging as well “is gender-neutral and promotes safe, healthy sex and highlights the Dame Com’s ability to be used by a variety of body types and genitalia”.

Why I Chose It

“I don’t hesitate to claim that the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ is my favourite sex toy to date. […] As a trans man, I worried that my clit wouldn’t fit into the chamber due to hormone growth, or that the sensation would be too intense. […] The Curvy 1+ enveloped my clit and fit like a glove, creating a perfect vacuum seal.”

The Runner-Up is another favorite here at Bedbible, a clit sucker from Satisfyer. First of all, the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ is a great quality construction, it offers both vibrations and air pulse stimulation, it’s app compatible, has an ergonomic design, and completely waterproof. Having tried out the Satisfyer Curvy 2+ myself, I am very familiar with all the pleasure this little thing has to offer.

That said, I picked out the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ as a great FtM sex toy specifically because of it’s wide suction nozzle. It was also the main advantage for our tester, Nick: “The most cherished attribute I hold is the suitability for trans-masc users. As I mentioned earlier, I have clitoral growth due to hormone treatment, but that didn’t impede on the immense pleasure the toy provides.”

One of my favorite parts of this clit sucker is the app control function. They unlock so many extra settings, interactive features, and allow you to be intimate with someone long-distance. It just offers a lot more versatility compared to your average clit sucker out there!

Why I Chose It

I like to recommend soft and versatile vibrators to complete beginners since they’re so unintimidating and easy to use. The NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi is just that! This vibrator is covered in incredibly soft and squishy silicone. Our tester, Vern, found it “extra cozy and comfortable to hold and use.” 

I like how the design allows for you to enjoy both pinpoint stimulation with the tip as well as broader stimulation with some added texture. This makes it a lot more versatile when using it different body parts and erogenous zones. However, for Vern, “as someone who prefers widespread vibration, my only issue is the Kushi’s motor, where most vibrations are in the tip of and not much is going on in the wider section of the toy.”

There are also a few minor drawbacks about the Kushi. Vern noted that the price was a bit steep for such a small vibrator. The vibrations themselves are also not the most powerful. The small size itself could also prove to be tricky for some. “As a fat person with some issues with wrist mobility, I sometimes had trouble finding the perfect angle to fit the vibrator against my body.” 

That said, the quality of the materials and the construction still shines through. It’s super cute, has a pretty unassuming design, and feels really nice to grind up against!

Why I Chose It

Grinders are always amazing for those who love to masturbate by rubbing against something. This type of masturbation is also great regardless of how much bottom growth you have. Vern absolutely LOVED the Uncover Creations Lunar Grinder: “As a fiction fan and a person who loves a little fantasy in the bedroom, the Lunar Grinder is a great addition to my toy arsenal. Easy to use and soft to the touch, I’m obsessed with the squishy silicone and beautiful design of this alien tentacle and moon base creation!”

Now, it may not sound like much to rub passionately against some textured, squishy silicone but you might want to keep an open mind, according to Vern: “As someone who prefers vibrating toys, I was surprised with how much feeling I got from the textures involved with the Uncover Creations Lunar Grinder. I love the grooves and ridges of the tentacle, how it dips internally just a couple of inches like it’s teasing me.” 

Not all grinders have an insertable element, so if this isn’t your jam, there are plenty other to choose from. But Vern really enjoyed that the tentacle did provide some shallow penetration. It’s definitely not as stimulating as a dildo, but it does add some fun!

Why I Chose It

Now, this stroker is one of my favorite FtM sex toys to recommend. It’s perfect for those who are already on testosterone and have enough bottom growth to stroke. As our tester, Vern, noted, it is incredibly gender-affirming and generally great for those with bottom dysphoria. Now, it’s only for stroking and does not double as a packer, but it’s a wonderful visual to enjoy during playtime.

“This pleasure sleeve is made of high-quality silicone with details to swoon over, like a “urethral” hole for lube to appear like pre-cum and a ribbed canal for good stimulation for you. I really love the PeenPocket Pleasure Sleeve, and that’s coming from someone who doesn’t tend to enjoy realistic phallic toys!”

Sure, Vern did say that it’s not the most stimulating on it’s own. Although, once you get the hang of it, it’s a great toy to whip out for foreplay and partnered play.

In terms of quality, “the silicone can be thin in some places which can lead to it tearing”. This doesn’t bode well for the longevity of the product which is honestly not super cheap as is. Still, it’s a great first-time stroker for trans men out there who want something tailored to their bodies.

Why I Chose It

The Lovense Lapis is one of the best vibrating strapless strapons on the market. It features three powerful motors, and its shape provides rumbly vibrations for both, the wearer and receiver. As a sex toy expert, I’ve tried plenty of strapless strap-ons, but this one is the most high-end and it’s app-controlled, which helps a lot with hands-free play.

According to our tester, Joseph, the Lovense Lapis is a high-quality toy: “The motor is strong but quiet, the patterns are highly customizable, you can adjust the fit, and the material feels just like skin once it’s warmed up.” They also highlighted the powerful and rumbly vibrations saying: “I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting.”

They enjoyed the size, and the ergonomic design saying “Using it to top was fun, and I did get some gendergood feelings about having a penis with no obvious straps holding it up.” However, as it often happens with strapless strap-ons the toy was slipping out, so I highly recommend using it with a harness. For those looking for a more realistic experience, I suggest using it with harness underwear for a more natural and comfortable fit. On the plus side, our tester actually enjoyed the combination of the Lapis and a harness saying, “Using it with a harness is fantastic, though. It really presses the ribbed bottom of the shaft against you, so you can feel just as much of the vibrations as your partner can.”

In my opinion, the Lovense Lapis is a top-of-the-line strapless strap-on. It’s nice and weighty, with powerful vibrations, and the app-controlled features are a great solution for couples that want full control of their experience.