The 9 Best Non-Phallic Dildos That Don’t Look Realistic

Kate Breen
by Kate BreenUpdated:

Welcome to this in-depth review of some of the best non-phallic dildos on the market right now. Perfect insertable alternatives for anyone who’s looking dildos that don’t actually look like dildos! I’ve consulted the Bedbible Tester Team to help figure out how each of these dildos perform in real life. I’ve then ranked them and rated each of them individually in terms of design, price, and quality. I’ve also described any major pros and cons so you have all the information you need to find the perfect fit for you!

Test Winner

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 46 user reviews

Budget-Friendly

4.4Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Mike Johnson

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 93 user reviews

Best for Beginners

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 45 user reviews

Best G-Spot

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.9/5

Based on 40 user reviews

Best Beaded

5.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Emily Cloud

User Ratings:

4.9/5

Based on 548 user reviews

Best Metal

4.9Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 390 user reviews

Best Poseable

4.6Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Mike Ortiz

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 19 user reviews

Best Ribbed

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Jenay Leger

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 114 user reviews

Best Glass Wand

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Katie Elizabeth

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 141 user reviews

Tantus CushGläs Purple RainTantus Charmer Tantus CurveLovehoney Beaded Glass Dildo Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel DildoFun Factory Limba FlexMaia Kendall DildoCrystal Heart Wavy Glass Dildo 6 Inch
Tantus CushGläs Purple RainTantus Charmer Tantus CurveLovehoney Beaded Glass Dildo Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel DildoFun Factory Limba FlexMaia Kendall DildoCrystal Heart Wavy Glass Dildo 6 Inch
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  • Dual density feels super lifelike
  • Premium quality
  • Harness compatible
  • Intense internal massage
  • Gradient design
  • No suction cup base
  • Pronounced ridge can be uncomfortable for some
  • Double-ended design
  • Easy to use
  • Easy to clean and sterilize
  • Curved for G-Spot or P-spot stimulation
  • Compatible with all kinds of lube
  • Could become slippery with lube
  • Less durable than metal or silicone dildos
  • Perfect for beginners
  • 4 massaging ridges along shaft
  • Flared, harness compatible base
  • 6.5 inches, insertable length
  • Flexibility is rigid
  • Some find the dildo is too short
  • Flexible shaft may not stimulate spots
  • No suction cup base
  • 100% body-safe silicone
  • Flexible yet firm
  • Dramatic curved for targeted g-spot or p-spot pleasure
  • Tapered tip for easy insertion
  • Harness-compatible
  • The silicone does have a bit of a rough, grippy texture
  • Requires a lot of lube
  • No suction cup
  • Made of 100% body-safe borosilicate glass
  • Good size and shape for different levels of experience
  • Temperature responsive glass
  • Compatible with all types of lube
  • Easy to clean and sterilize
  • No suction cup base
  • Glass may be too firm for some
  • Not harness compatible
  • Made of stainless steel
  • 8 inches of insertable length
  • 1 inch, 1.75 inch diameter ends
  • Temperature responsive metal
  • No textured elements along shaft
  • No base for non-phallic strap-on play
  • Weighted feeling may not suit some
  • Can be intimidating for beginners
  • Incredibly poseable
  • Srong suction cup base
  • High quality materials
  • Simple to use
  • Easy to clean and sterilize
  • Doesn't provide a very internal massage
  • There a bit of learning curve to master the poseable feature
  • The sanded silicone attracts hair and lint
  • Spiralled ridges for extra stimulation
  • Suction cup base
  • 100% waterproof
  • Curved shaft for internal massage
  • Body-safe silicone
  • Can be a bit too firm for some
  • Not suitable for beginners
  • Suction cup may not be strong enough
  • 1.4 inch ridged bulbs
  • 6 inches of insertable length
  • Heart topped base
  • Tapered end for easy insertion
  • Small flared base
  • Glass is temperature responsive
  • Is inflexible to unique body angles
  • Weighted feeling may be unpleasant

How We Test non-phallic dildos

We’re a team of 265 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best non-phallic dildos, our testers tried and reviewed 80 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre non-phallic dildos didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 801 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
How These Non-Phallic Dildos Were Reviewed and Rated

Test Winner Tantus Cush

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 46 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Cush was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

97/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Cush was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Cush was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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Rating: Tantus Cush was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Tantus Cush is a high-quality dual density dildo that combines a solid silicone core with a soft, squishy exterior layer.

Available in pink or purple, it features a striking gradient design that’s as visually appealing as it is pleasurable. The Cush has a special non-phallic dildo shape and is designed with a deep ridge about halfway down its shaft and a pronounced glans, targeting the G-spot and A-spot during penetration.

Even though it doesn’t have a suction cup base, I love that its flared, non-stick base makes it suitable for anal use and compatible with strap-on harnesses. Being 100% body-safe, waterproof, and easy to clean and sterilize, the Tantus Cush stands out for both its functionality and aesthetic appeal.

Pros

  • Dual density feels super lifelike
  • Premium quality
  • Harness compatible
  • Intense internal massage
  • Gradient design

Cons

  • No suction cup base
  • Pronounced ridge can be uncomfortable for some

Why I Chose It

I am personally a big fan of the beautiful gradient design of the Tantus Cush. The pronouced yet tapered tip, along with the raised ridge around the middle makes this simple dildo look just non-phallic enough while still providing a lifelike internal feel, thanks the dual-density aspect as well. The squishy exterior coupled with the solid core provided a comfortable yet firm experience!

However, I did find that the pronounced ridge, while adding to the stimulation, did create more friction than expected, which just required extra lube. This wasn’t a deal-breaker but something to be mindful of. I do think the lack of a suction cup base was a slight letdown, especially considering the price point. Despite these minor drawbacks, I still think the Tantus Cush is a fantastic choice for those seeking a non-phallic, high-quality dildo. This is also why it’s the Test Winner of this round-up!

Budget-Friendly Gläs Purple Rain Dildo

4.4/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Mike Johnson

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 93 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Gläs Purple Rain Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

75/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Gläs Purple Rain Dildo was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Gläs Purple Rain Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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PricePrice

Rating: Gläs Purple Rain Dildo was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Gläs Purple Rain Dildo is a uniquely designed glass dildo that stands out with its artistic and functional appeal.

This modest-sized dildo shape showcases four distinct bumps along its shaft, creating a sensory experience that’s both unique and stimulating. The double-ended design also allows you to enjoy a slimmer, smoother shaft with a curved, pronounced tip for targeted g-spot or p-spot massage.

I love that the design is far from realistic, but, on the other hand, resembles something an art deco architect might dream up!

Pros

  • Double-ended design
  • Easy to use
  • Easy to clean and sterilize
  • Curved for G-Spot or P-spot stimulation
  • Compatible with all kinds of lube

Cons

  • Could become slippery with lube
  • Less durable than metal or silicone dildos

Why I Chose It

I think the Gläs Purple Rain Dildo is an excellent choice for those seeking a stylish, simple dildo, and uniquely satisfying experience without breaking the bank.

Its design and material cater to those who appreciate subtle and specific pleasures. You can explore temperature play and experience the bliss of super firm internal massage with this little guy. While it may require additional stimulation for climax, I think its ability to enhance intimacy and explore new sensory realms makes it a valuable addition to any collection.

Ideal for intermediate users, I think it’s a stunning (and affordable) example of a dildo that doesn’t look like a dildo!

Best for Beginners Tantus Charmer G-Spot and P-Spot Dildo

4.7/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 45 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Charmer G-Spot and P-Spot Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Charmer G-Spot and P-Spot Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Charmer G-Spot and P-Spot Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Tantus Charmer G-Spot and P-Spot Dildo was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Measuring 1.2 inches in diameter, the Tantus Charmer is a sexy little toy, perfect for beginners wanting to explore the pleasures of non-phallic dildo fun.

This smooth dildo is 6.5 inches in insertable length, just long enough to charm your G-spot or P-spot into submission with its 4 ridges. Perfect for those sensual internal massages and for a filling and thrilling sensation!

Because of its flared base, it’s a great choice for anal play. Or why not pop it into a harness and explore the pleasures of strap-on play or some pegging?

Pros

  • Perfect for beginners
  • 4 massaging ridges along shaft
  • Flared, harness compatible base
  • 6.5 inches, insertable length

Cons

  • Flexibility is rigid
  • Some find the dildo is too short
  • Flexible shaft may not stimulate spots
  • No suction cup base

Why I Chose It

This Charmer of a non-realistic dildo from Tantus is a great addition to any play kit.

A slim and sexy warm-up dildo for those more experienced and a teasing training toy for beginners. The ridges are designed to repeatedly stimulate your sweet spot each time as it moves in and out.

The flared base makes it amazing for hands-free fun. Or to give in to some strap-on teasing. If you’re looking for a firm dildo that rubs you the right way, this is a great choice.

Best G-Spot Tantus Curve

4.8/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.9/5

Based on 40 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Curve was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

87/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Curve was rated 87 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Curve was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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Rating: Tantus Curve was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Tantus Curve is a non-phallic curved dildo crafted from premium, body-safe silicone.

Its standout feature is the pronounced curve of its shaft, designed to target the G-spot or prostate with precision. The dildo sports a slightly tapered tip and offers a balance of flexibility and firmness, ensuring both comfort and effective stimulation.

While it boasts a grippy, harness-compatible base, it lacks a true suction cup, which might limit some hands-free play options.

Pros

  • 100% body-safe silicone
  • Flexible yet firm
  • Dramatic curved for targeted g-spot or p-spot pleasure
  • Tapered tip for easy insertion
  • Harness-compatible

Cons

  • The silicone does have a bit of a rough, grippy texture
  • Requires a lot of lube
  • No suction cup

Why I Chose It

The Tantus Curve is a delightful addition to the world of non-phallic dildos, especially for those who appreciate a blend of creativity and functionality. Its curved design and tapered tip are excellent for deep, targeted stimulation of the g-spot or p-spot.

I did notice that the matte texture of the silicone, while requiring generous lubrication, adds to the overall experience, providing a unique sensation that differs from some of the smoother toys on this list.

I actually think it’s particularly suited for those who enjoy a fuller feeling and are not complete beginners in penetrative toys. Again, I’m not a fan of dildos without true suction cup bases, but I still think the Tantus Curve should get credit where credit is due. Its effectiveness in harness play, anal play, and solo use more than compensates.

Priced reasonably for its quality, I believe the Tantus Curve is a worthy investment for anyone looking to explore deeper, more targeted internal stimulation.

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Best Beaded Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo

5.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Emily Cloud

User Ratings:

4.9/5

Based on 548 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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PricePrice

Rating: Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo is another amazing glass dildo to add to your sex play kit. The unique beaded design provides a really fun sensation during both vaginal and anal penetration.

Made of borosilicate glass, this non-phallic dildo is gloriously weighted to give you that even fuller feeling. Measuring 7 inches in insertable length and 1.35 inches in diameter, you’ll be sure to be writhing in pleasure in no time. Even though this simple dildo may seem like a big boy, it has a slightly tapered head so insertion will only add to the waves of pleasure!

Pros

  • Made of 100% body-safe borosilicate glass
  • Good size and shape for different levels of experience
  • Temperature responsive glass
  • Compatible with all types of lube
  • Easy to clean and sterilize

Cons

  • No suction cup base
  • Glass may be too firm for some
  • Not harness compatible

Why I Chose It

This beaded dildo offers a really incredible sensation with its unique texture! Again, this is the kind of dildo that doesn’t actually look like a dildo. I appreciate that the tip is slightly tapered for an easier and more comfortable insertion.

A huge pro here is that this non-phallic dildo is on of the most versatile option in the review. It’s a double-ended dildo, it’s a glass dildo, it’s a beaded dildo, it can be used as regular anal beads, it’s a curved dildo, a weighted dildo, it can be used with all kinds of lube out there, and it’s even temperature responsive! So, yeah, you’re getting a lot of bang for your buck with this one!

This non-realistic dildo is a bigger boy that packs a lot of sensation in one thrust, so I would say it’s idea for users who already have some experience with using dildos.  Along with that, you should keep in mind that it doesn’t have a flare base and can’t be used with a strap-on. All anal play should be engaged in with extra caution aws well!

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Best Metal Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 390 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

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PricePrice

Rating: Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Here we have another dildo that doesn’t look like a dildo. The Njoy Pure Wand is a firm favorite among its buyers (and here at Bedbible) and it’s easy to see why!

This double-ended smooth dildo measures almost 8 inches from end to end but is actually 10 inches along the curve! The elegant curve is expertly designed to hit your G spot (or P spot), quickly pushing yourself over the edge of orgasm.

The smaller end measures 1 inch across and the bigger end comes in at 1.75 inches, perfect for whatever your body is craving. And because it’s stainless steel, it’s compatible with all lubricants and is super easy to clean!

Pros

  • Made of stainless steel
  • 8 inches of insertable length
  • 1 inch, 1.75 inch diameter ends
  • Temperature responsive metal

Cons

  • No textured elements along shaft
  • No base for non-phallic strap-on play
  • Weighted feeling may not suit some
  • Can be intimidating for beginners

Why I Chose It

The nJoy Pure Wand is an unrealistic metal dildo that keeps impressing users over and over again.

The unique dildo shape with its perfect curvature expertly hits your g-spot or p-spot for a firm and intense massage. And with the option of the differently sized ball ends, you’ll be sure to get your body writhing in Njoy-ment!

Because it’s made of steel it is quite heavy which is definitely a question of preference. some may really like how the added weight assists in massaging the g-spot or p-spot, where some might find it tiresome to use, especially if they have grip issues. Keep in mind that this smooth and simple dildo gets very slippery with lube!

One crucial aspect of this non-phallic dildo is the price. This is a luxury dildo that definitely has the price tag to go with it. This is not a budget-friendly item, and there are similar alternatives on the market that are slightly cheaper. However, there’s a reason why this simple dildo is oh so very popular. It performs very well. Also, this kind of metal dildo is known to be very durable and has lifetime warranty. You’ll be investing in your future pleasure when purchasing this dildo.

Best Poseable Fun Factory Limba Flex Medium Dildo

4.6/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Mike Ortiz

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 19 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fun Factory Limba Flex Medium Dildo was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fun Factory Limba Flex Medium Dildo was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fun Factory Limba Flex Medium Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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PricePrice

Rating: Fun Factory Limba Flex Medium Dildo was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Fun Factory Limba Flex is a flexible dildo like no other. It can be frustrating trying to find the perfectly angled unrealistic dildo suited to your body, especially if it’s an expensive guess. The Limb Flex has an internal wire allowing you to bend it to your favorite angles while it keeps its shape as you ride it!

Why not mold it to expertly rub against your G-spot and then give it to your partner to bend to hit their sweet spots? Coming in at 7 inches insertable length and 1.25 across the widest point, this flexible little guy offers thrilling satisfaction while still being beginner-friendly and ideal for anal play because of the super tapered tip!

Pros

  • Incredibly poseable
  • Srong suction cup base
  • High quality materials
  • Simple to use
  • Easy to clean and sterilize
  • Anal safe

Cons

  • Doesn't provide a very internal massage
  • There a bit of learning curve to master the poseable feature
  • The sanded silicone attracts hair and lint

Why I Chose It

Unlike other non-phallic dildos, the Fun Factory Limba Flex is extremely poseable and holds its new shape pretty well. Perfect for discovering and exploring all the different angles that will push you over the edge!

I really like how strong the suction cup ase is depsite its small size. This allows for some serious hands-free fun! I also like that the unique shape of the base lets you know while direction the dildo is curved towards one inside.

The super tapered tip makes this dildo absolutely perfect for exploring anal and pegging. Why not discover the pleasures you can give your partner with this non-phallic strap-on-friendly dildo? While it is on the pricier side, I can confirm that you’ll be getting high-quality dildo with the Fun Factory Limba Flex! Also, the poseable feature adds a lot to the overall value!

Best Ribbed Maia Kendall Dildo

4.7/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Jenay Leger

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 114 user reviews

98/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Maia Kendall Dildo was rated 98 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

98/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Maia Kendall Dildo was rated 98 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

99/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Maia Kendall Dildo was rated 99 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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PricePrice

Rating: Maia Kendall Dildo was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

The Maia Kendall Dildo is the ultimate toy for corkscrew pleasure! With an insertable length of 7.5 inches, this non-phallic dildo isn’t for the faint-hearted. But if you’re craving a filling feeling, this silicone dildo has you covered with its 1.8-inch diameter.

The spiralled ridges on the shaft provide impressive stimulation with every thrust, while the bulbous head can massage your internal sweet spots at the same time! I am happy to announce that this simple dildo has a strong suction cup base. Stick it on your bathtub, your wall mirror, or a sturdy chair and take it for a wild ride.

Pros

  • Spiralled ridges for extra stimulation
  • Suction cup base
  • 100% waterproof
  • Curved shaft for internal massage
  • Body-safe silicone

Cons

  • Can be a bit too firm for some
  • Not suitable for beginners
  • Suction cup may not be strong enough

Why I Chose It

The Maia Kendall Dildo is a delightful addition to any collection, especially for those who appreciate a bit of texture and curve in their play. You already know, I always appreciate a good uction cup base. This just adds a layer of versatility, making it suitable for hands-free enjoyment in all sorts of locations. 

I will say that the silicone is quite firm and not at all very squishy. So, if you were looking for something with a little but more give to it, I would suggest opting for one of the more flexible options or one of the dual-density options.

While it may not be the best choice for beginners due to its size and lack of vibrations, I think it’s an excellent option for intermediate users looking for a non-phallic, textured dildo! 

Best Glass Wand Crystal Heart Wavy Glass Dildo 6 Inch

4.7/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Katie Elizabeth

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 141 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Crystal Heart Wavy Glass Dildo 6 Inch was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

75/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Crystal Heart Wavy Glass Dildo 6 Inch was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Crystal Heart Wavy Glass Dildo 6 Inch was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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PricePrice

Rating: Crystal Heart Wavy Glass Dildo 6 Inch was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other non-phallic dildos.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look

Add a touch of magic to your fun with this Crystal Heart Wavy Glass pleasure wand! Made of body-safe borosilicate glass, this elegant non-phallic dildo is a must-have for those who want to bring some elegance to their dildo play!

With its 1.4 wide bulbous ridges, this heart-bottomed dildo is sure to caress every curve and pleasure center of your body with each thrust. And, because it measures 6 inches insertable length, you’ll be confident that no spot will be left behind!

Pros

  • 1.4 inch ridged bulbs
  • 6 inches of insertable length
  • Heart topped base
  • Tapered end for easy insertion

Cons

  • Small flared base
  • Glass is temperature responsive
  • Is inflexible to unique body angles
  • Weighted feeling may be unpleasant

Why I Chose It

This smooth dildo is a sultry but sexy toy for any solo or couple play. The flared base and heart topper are perfect sizes for solo grip (or if you want to give control to your partner).

However, the base may be too skinny for comfortable anal use or strap-on play. Unrealistic dildos made of glass add an extra weighted feeling, enhancing that feeling of fullness and pleasure. So, it may not suit everyone. But, it’s a very cute design and well worth its great price!

Comparison

BestTest Winner Budget-Friendly Best for Beginners Best G-Spot Best Beaded Best Metal Best Poseable Best Ribbed Best Glass Wand
Overall score4.8 / 5.0 4.4 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.8 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0
User rating4.7 / 5.0
from 46 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 93 users
4.6 / 5.0
from 45 users
4.9 / 5.0
from 40 users
4.9 / 5.0
from 548 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 390 users
4.4 / 5.0
from 19 users
4.4 / 5.0
from 114 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 141 users
PricePricey Moderate Affordable Moderate Moderate Premium Pricey Affordable Cheap
Design95 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 95 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 95 / 100 98 / 100 95 / 100
Ease of use97 / 100 75 / 100 90 / 100 87 / 100 100 / 100 95 / 100 95 / 100 98 / 100 75 / 100
Quality100 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 99 / 100 100 / 100
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Power---------
Buzzy/Rumbly---------
Length7 inches7 inches-6 inches--7 inches8 inches-
Insertable length6.5 inches5 inches6.5 inches5 inches7 inches8 inches6.8 inches7 inches6 inches
Diameter1.75 inches1 inches1.2 inches1.37 inches1.35 inches1, 1.75 inches1.26 inches1.75 inches1.4 inches
WaterproofSubmersible Yes -Yes --Yes Yes Yes
MaterialsUltra-Premium Silicone Glass Silicone Ultra-Premium Silicone Borosilicate glass Stainless Steel Silicone Silicone Borosilicate glass
Storage Bag IncludedNo Yes -No --Yes No -
FlexibilityFlexible -Firm Flexible Rigid Rigid Poseable Flexible -
Colors AvailableRose Quartz, Twilight Purple -Purple --Deep Sea Blue --
Texture-------Ribbed -
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Comparing the Best Non-Phallic Dildos at a Glance

When exploring the world of non-phallic dildos, the choices can be diverse and cater to a wide range of preferences and experiences. From materials like silicone, glass, and stainless steel to various shapes and sizes, each product offers a unique experience. Here’s a brief comparison of several non-phallic dildos, categorized to help you find the best fit for your needs, whether you’re a beginner, an advanced user, or looking for a budget-friendly option.

For Beginners:

  1. Tantus Charmer: With a relatively low price and a user-friendly design (90/100 in ease of use), this simple dildo is a great starting point for beginners. Its size (6.5 inches insertable length, 1.2 inches diameter) is manageable for those new to the experience.
  2. Gläs Purple Rain: This glass dildo is not only visually appealing but also beginner-friendly with its smaller size (5 inches insertable length, 1 inch diameter). It’s also medium-priced compared to other glass dildos on the market, and the cheapest opption on this list, making it accessible for newcomers.

For Advanced Users:

  1. Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo: For those seeking a more intense and unique experience, the Njoy Pure Wand offers a substantial size (8 inches insertable length, 1 to 1.75 inches diameter) and the unique sensation of weighted stainless steel. It’s a high-end option in terms of price but is renowned for its quality and ability to provide really intense stimulation. I mean, it’s even become known as the squirting dildo!
  2. Uberrime Aqua-King Dildo: This large dildo stands out with its impressive size (7.5 inches insertable length, 2 inches diameter) and unique handpoured design. It’s a low-priced option for those seeking a more adventurous experience and like the sensation of being stretched out or filled out by a non-representational dildo.

For Budget-Conscious Users:

  1. Maia Kendall Dildo: With a low price and high quality (99/100), this dildo is an excellent choice for budget-conscious users. It offers a good balance of size (7 inches insertable length, 1.75 inches diameter) and ease of use (98/100)
  2. Gläs Purple Rain: Another budget-friendly option, this glass dildo offers a unique texture and aesthetic appeal, along with a user-friendly size (5 inches insertable length, 1 inch diameter).

How to Choose the Right Non-Phallic Dildo

Figuring out which kind of dildo would be best for you can take some time and experimentation.

There are a lot of factors to consider: the size, girth, harness compatibility, safe for anal use, if balls are attached.

When it comes to non-phallic dildos, you also need to think of what type of design you like and if it fits your fantasy. Check out some of my best tips on how to pick the perfect non-phallic dildo for you!

Things to consider

If you’ve decided to buy a non-phallic dildo, you’ve undoubtedly realized that the options are near limitless! Of course, that doesn’t mean you should buy just any dildo, so here are a few factors to consider when picking out your new bedroom bestie.

  • Length – There are two lengths to consider here: the total length and the insertable length. Pay close attention to these, as the first one lets you know how much you’ll have to hold onto & the second measurement explains how deeply the toy can penetrate you.
  • Girth – Commonly measured in either diameter or circumference, this measurement simply states how wide the dildo actually is. Consider your level of experience (as well as how you plan to use the dildo) when comparing girth.
  • Material – As long as you choose a body-safe, non-porous material (like silicone, glass, or metal) then you’ll be good to go. However, the material you choose will affect the possibilities and limitations of your new toy in terms of rigidity or using different types of lube. Avoid using porous materials, like PVC, jelly, soft plastic, etc. since these aren’t safe for internal use as the material can harbor bacteria over time.
  • Shape – Non-phallic dildo shapes can get pretty creative, especially if you’re looking at fantasy dildos. Generally speaking, curved dildos will work best for g-spot stimulation, whereas straight dildos are more suited for size training.
  • Texture – The exterior texture of your dildo can make or break the experience. If you just prefer deep penetration then a smooth dildo may be fine, but people who enjoy intense stimulation should consider options like a ribbed dildo instead.
  • Flexibility – Your dildo will need a certain level of stiffness to be able to penetrate you effectively, but that doesn’t mean it needs to be “rock hard”. Silicone dildos are softer and more flexible, metal dildos and glass dildos are hard, and dual density dildos feel the most “lifelike” because of the solid inner core and the squishy, soft outer layer.
  • Features –  Some dildos offer additional features like flared bases (making them safe for anal use), suction cup bases, the ability to be posed, or added vibrations. Consider the available options and see whether they’re worth paying extra for or which features might be well suited for your needs.
Shape of You

Shape of You

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  • Shape is incredibly important to think about before buying a non-phallic dildo.
  • If you’re unsure what shape to choose, think whether you like a filling feeling or prefer long dildos over girth.
  • If you’re new to dildos, make sure to look for ones with a tapered end for easy insertion.
Materials Matter

Materials Matter

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  • Non-phallic or realistic, you should always go for dildos made of non-porous materials, like silicone, glass, metal, or even ABS plastic. The first three materials are most commonly seen in dildos and they’re also easy to clean and sterilize in boiling water.
  • Avoid porous materials since they aren’t actually safe for internal use. The microscopic holes in the surface of the material can harbor dirt and bacteria over time, making it unsafe for internal use. If you are using a dildo made of porous materials, at least slap a condom on it!
Ribbed For Your Peasure

Ribbed For Your Peasure

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  • What makes non-phallic dildos amazing is that they are limitless in how they are textures.
  • Many unrealistic dildos have bulb like ridges. Or, as in the case of the SelfDelve Corn on the Cob dildo, a knobbly shaft provides constant pleasure.
  • If you’re unsure what you’ll like, it’s a good idea to start with non-phallic dildos that don’t have extreme ridges in them until you know what you like
Author
Kate Breen
Kate Breen

Everyone deserves mind-blowing sex! And I’m determined to spread the word that there’s no shame if you need a little helping hand (or rabbit) to get you wanting more. When I’m not writing about sex toys and techniques, I love creating erotic short fiction. Anything to do with writing about sex, I’m in!

Age: 30
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Intermediate
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