8 Best Non-Phallic Dildos

Kasia Halinowska
by Kasia HalinowskaUpdated:

Personally, I am not a fan of realistic dildos. That’s why I know exactly what to look for when it comes to non-phallic dildos that still feel incredible! So, I’ve compiled a list of my top recommendations! All dildos in this review have been personally tested and reviewed by our Bedbible Tester Team. They’ve been rated based on quality, design, and ease of use to help you find the best dildo for your needs.

Test Winner

5.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Runner-Up

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 49 user reviews

Best for Beginners

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 49 user reviews

Budget-Friendly

5.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Emily Cloud

User Ratings:

4.9/5

Based on 607 user reviews

Expert Pick

4.9Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 428 user reviews

Best Textured Dildo

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Jenay Leger

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 139 user reviews

Best G-Spot Dildo

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 44 user reviews

Best Poseable Dildo

4.6Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Mike Ortiz

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 21 user reviews

Chrystalino Superior Glass DildoTantus CushTantus Charmer Lovehoney Beaded Glass Dildo njoy Pure WandMaia Kendall DildoTantus CurveFun Factory Limba Flex
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  • Amazing for g-spot or prostate stimulation
  • Easy to use for lots of different experience levels
  • Great for temperature play
  • Compatible with all types of lube
  • No storage bag included
  • Cannot be used for strap-on play
  • Dual density feels super lifelike
  • Beautiful gradient design
  • Premium quality silicone
  • Flexible and squishy
  • No suction cup base
  • Pronounced ridge can be uncomfortable for some
  • Perfect size and shape for complete beginners
  • The ridges create a dynamic experience
  • Great size for anal play
  • May not be satisfying for experienced users
  • No suction cup base
  • Good size and shape for different levels of experience
  • Temperature-responsive glass
  • Compatible with all types of lube
  • Easy to clean and sterilize
  • No suction cup base
  • Not harness compatible
  • Provides super intense sensations
  • Great for squirting
  • Great for temperature play
  • Easy to clean and sterilize
  • Compatible with all lubes
  • No flared base or suction cup base
  • Can be a bit too heavy for some
  • Expensive
  • Intense and dynamic texture
  • Firm silicone provides great internal massage
  • Strong suction cup base
  • Can be a bit too firm for some
  • Strong curve effectively targets the g-spot or prostate
  • Tapered tip for easy insertion
  • Great for using in a strap-on harness
  • The silicone has a bit of a rough, grippy texture
  • Requires a lot of lube
  • No suction cup
  • Holds its shape very well
  • Great for anal penetration
  • Stong suction cup base
  • Comfortable to use
  • Might be too slim for some users
  • There a bit of learning curve to master the poseable feature
  • The sanded silicone attracts hair and lint

How We Test non-phallic dildos

We’re a team of 340 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best non-phallic dildos, our testers tried and reviewed 120 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre non-phallic dildos didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1255 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
How These Non-Phallic Dildos Were Reviewed and Rated

Test Winner Chrystalino Superior Glass Dildo

5.0/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Chrystalino Superior Glass Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

97/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Chrystalino Superior Glass Dildo was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Chrystalino Superior Glass Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • Double-ended dildo made of durable, borosilicate glass
  • One end features a large, tapered bulb and the other end offers two smaller beads
  • Measures 1.3 inches in diameter at its widest point.

Specifications

Pros

  • Amazing for g-spot or prostate stimulation
  • Easy to use for lots of different experience levels
  • Great for temperature play
  • Compatible with all types of lube

Cons

  • No storage bag included
  • Cannot be used for strap-on play

Why I Chose It

I picked out the Chrystalino Superior Glass Dildo as the Test Winner in this review because it is in fact superior! Glass dildos are a game-changer since the firm material provides amazing internal pressure. The particular size and shape of the Chrystalino Superior Glass Dildo even makes it satisfying yet approachable for lots of different experience levels.

Our tester, Rachel, was completely enamored with it: “After I used this dildo, I seriously considered whether it could take the top spot in my entire sex toy collection. That’s how much I love it.” Thanks to the firmness and smoothness of the glass and the large bulbed tip “it feels truly heavenly”.

While the double-ended design renders it unfit for use with a strap-on harness, it does offer some great versatility, since the beaded end is slightly more dynamic and the bulbous end is amazing for g-spot and a-spot (or p-spot) massage. The slight curve also makes it easy to target those areas.

Runner-Up Tantus Cush Dual Density Dildo

4.7/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 49 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Cush Dual Density Dildo was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

97/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Cush Dual Density Dildo was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Cush Dual Density Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Dual density dildo with a solid silicone core and a soft, squishy exterior layer
  • Unique non-phallic design with a deep ridge about halfway down its shaft and a pronounced glans
  • Flared base makes it suitable for anal use and compatible with strap-on harnesses.

Specifications

Pros

  • Dual density feels super lifelike
  • Beautiful gradient design
  • Premium quality silicone
  • Flexible and squishy

Cons

  • No suction cup base
  • Pronounced ridge can be uncomfortable for some

Why I Chose It

The Tantus Cush is a clear runner-up in this review. I love the beautiful gradient design, and the pronounced yet tapered tip, along with the raised ridge around the middle. This makes this simple dildo look just non-phallic enough while still providing a lifelike internal feel.

The most important feature, however, is the dual-density; it is a life changer! Our tester,  Cassie, said the Tantus Cush has a “cushy, squishy, comfy feel,” which makes it “super comfortable to use in all sorts of ways.” She also pointed out that this dildo is ”stable and solid enough to provide some delightful internal massage yet comfortable to use for a longer period of time.”

However, she did find that the pronounced ridge, while adding to the stimulation, did create more friction than expected, which just required extra lube. This wasn’t a deal-breaker but something to be mindful of. I do think the lack of a suction cup base is a slight letdown, especially considering the price point. Despite these minor drawbacks, I still think the Tantus Cush is a fantastic choice for those seeking a non-phallic, high-quality dildo.

Best for Beginners Tantus Charmer G-Spot and P-Spot Dildo

4.7/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 49 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Charmer G-Spot and P-Spot Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Charmer G-Spot and P-Spot Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Charmer G-Spot and P-Spot Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Slim, silicone dildo
  • Slightly ridged shaft for added stimulation
  • Flared base makes it suitable for anal use and compatible with strap-on harnesses.

Specifications

Pros

  • Perfect size and shape for complete beginners
  • The ridges create a dynamic experience
  • Great size for anal play

Cons

  • May not be satisfying for experienced users
  • No suction cup base

Why I Chose It

I think the Tantus Charmer is a great non-phallic dildo for first-timers. It’s significantly thinner and shorter than most other dildos in this review. The shape is also comfortable for beginners to use vaginally and for more experienced users to enjoy anally!

Our tester, Isabelle, is pretty experienced so she pointed out that “the slightly larger head and slimmer shaft feel great,” but the slimmer shaft at the bottom left her wanting a “fuller feeling when using vaginally.” So, for those who are looking for a slimmer non-phallic dildo that can still grow with you as you level up, I think it’s a great option!

The ridged shaft is designed to stimulate your G-spot and A-spot repeatedly as it moves in and out. They provide some dynamic stimulation during thrusting, especially during anal play! Performance-wise, Isabelle liked the ridged shaft, saying that they have “the slight feel of anal beads as the shaft is inserted but not as intense, and they add some subtle stimulation while the toy is inside as well.” 

Overall, I think that the Tantus Charmer is a high-quality non-phallic dildo that many users will appreciate for its unique design. The only small issue is the lack of a suction cup base.

Budget-Friendly Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo

5.0/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Emily Cloud

User Ratings:

4.9/5

Based on 607 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Beaded glass dildo that provides a unique sensation during both vaginal and anal penetration
  • Made of 100% body-safe and non-porous borosilicate glass
  • Curved shaft for a more precise internal stimulation.

Specifications

Pros

  • Good size and shape for different levels of experience
  • Temperature-responsive glass
  • Compatible with all types of lube
  • Easy to clean and sterilize

Cons

  • No suction cup base
  • Not harness compatible

Why I Chose It

This beaded dildo offers an elevated sensation with its beaded texture, and I am sure many users will love this type of design for both vaginal and anal play. Plus, the temperature-play option is a great addition that can spice things up. I also appreciate that the tip is slightly tapered for an easier and more comfortable insertion.

A huge pro here is that this non-phallic dildo is one of the most versatile options in the review. It’s a curved, double-ended dildo that can be used as regular anal beads or as a vaginal toy. According to our tester, Emily, “the bulbous beads on this glass dildo felt great for that needed internal stimulation.” And “the heaviness of the glass also made me have a very full feeling as well which was a great sensation.” 

This non-realistic dildo is a bigger boy that packs a lot of sensation in one thrust, so I would say it’s good for users who already have some experience with using firm dildos.  Along with that, you should keep in mind that it doesn’t have a flared base and can’t be used with a strap-on harness. All anal play should be engaged in with extra caution as well!

Expert Pick njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

4.9/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 428 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Double-ended metal dildo 
  • Rounded tips for intense internal stimulation
  • Curved design targets the G-spot, A-spot, or P-spot
  • Suitable for anal play.

Specifications

Pros

  • Provides super intense sensations
  • Great for squirting
  • Great for temperature play
  • Easy to clean and sterilize
  • Compatible with all lubes

Cons

  • No flared base or suction cup base
  • Can be a bit too heavy for some
  • Expensive

Why I Chose It

The nJoy Pure Wand takes the cake as my Expert Pick out of all the non-phallic dildos in this review because of the amazing performance. The unique shape with its perfect curvature expertly hits your G-spot or P-spot for a firm and intense massage (that may or may not make you squirt like never before).

“The njoy Pure Wand absolutely deserves its place in the sex toy hall of fame.”

Our tester, Isabelle, is absolutely in love with this dildo! She was impressed by the effect of the weighty feel and the unique shape: “The sensations I felt with the Pure Wand were quite unlike any other dildo I’ve used before. The curve gives the perfect angle to massage the front wall of the vagina (the most sensitive part) and target your g-spot without straining your wrist.”

She also mentioned that she was surprised at how effortless this dildo is to use: “Not only was the pressure perfect for some of the best g-spot stimulation I’ve had with a dildo, but it was also so much easier to keep hitting the right spot at a steady rhythm for the amount of time I needed, which really is the magic combo!” 

Because it’s made of steel, it is quite heavy, which is definitely a question of preference. Some may really like how the added weight assists in massaging the G-spot or P-spot, whereas others might find it tiresome to use, especially if they have grip issues. Keep in mind that this smooth and simple dildo gets very slippery with lube!

Best Textured Dildo Maia Kendall Silicone Dildo

4.7/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Jenay Leger

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 139 user reviews

98/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Maia Kendall Silicone Dildo was rated 98 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

98/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Maia Kendall Silicone Dildo was rated 98 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

99/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Maia Kendall Silicone Dildo was rated 99 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Spiralled ridges on the shaft provide extra stimulation during thrusting
  • Bulbous head for impressive internal massage
  • Suction cup base
  • Harness compatible.

Specifications

Pros

  • Intense and dynamic texture
  • Firm silicone provides great internal massage
  • Strong suction cup base

Cons

  • Can be a bit too firm for some

Why I Chose It

The Maia Kendall Dildo is a delightful option for those who appreciate a bit of texture and curve in their play. The size and shape is perfect for both vaginal and anal play, and the ridged shaft will provide extra stimulation with every thrust.

Our tester, Jenay, said that the design of the shaft allowed her to “hit all the right spots while being easy to hold and maneuver.” However, she also mentioned that this dildo is “fairly firm to the touch,” which will be great for intense stimulation, but less comfortable for beginners. So, if you are looking for something with a little bit more give to it, I suggest opting for one of the more flexible options or one of the dual-density dildos on this list.

Jenay was impressed with the strength of the suction cup, saying it stuck fast to the surface and wasn’t going to go anywhere, “ and that it was a great addition to the couple’s play, even in the shower!

Overall, while it may not be the best choice for beginners due to its size and lack of vibrations, I think it’s an excellent option for intermediate users looking for a non-phallic, textured dildo!

Best G-Spot Dildo Tantus Curve G-Spot Dildo

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 44 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Curve G-Spot Dildo was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

87/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Curve G-Spot Dildo was rated 87 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Curve G-Spot Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Silicone dildo with a tightly curved shaft
  • Slightly tapered tip and a flared base
  • Firm silicone that’s slightly bendy and squishy.

Specifications

Pros

  • Strong curve effectively targets the g-spot or prostate
  • Tapered tip for easy insertion
  • Great for using in a strap-on harness

Cons

  • The silicone has a bit of a rough, grippy texture
  • Requires a lot of lube
  • No suction cup

Why I Chose It

I chose the Tantus Curve for anyone who enjoys deep, targeted stimulation of the G-spot or P-spot. I think it’s particularly suited for those who enjoy a fuller feeling and are not complete beginners with penetrative toys.

Our tester, Rachel, loved the design and how “the flexibility and slight squish make it comfortable to insert, but its firmness means it still provides the g-spot, a-spot, or p-spot stimulation you deserve.”

I did notice that the matte texture of the silicone, while requiring generous lubrication, adds to the overall experience, providing a unique sensation that differs from some of the smoother toys on this list.

Again, I’m not a fan of dildos without a true suction cup base, but I still think the Tantus Curve should get credit where credit is due. Its effectiveness in harness play, anal play, and solo use more than compensates.

Best Poseable Dildo Fun Factory Limba Flex Medium Dildo

4.6/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Mike Ortiz

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 21 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fun Factory Limba Flex Medium Dildo was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the non-phallic dildo.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fun Factory Limba Flex Medium Dildo was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fun Factory Limba Flex Medium Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Slim silicone dildo with a very tapered tip
  • Asymmetrical suction cup base
  • An internal wire allows you to bend it to any desired angle for a customized experience.

Specifications

Pros

  • Holds its shape very well
  • Great for anal penetration
  • Stong suction cup base
  • Comfortable to use

Cons

  • Might be too slim for some users
  • There a bit of learning curve to master the poseable feature
  • The sanded silicone attracts hair and lint

Why I Chose It

Unlike other non-phallic dildos, the Fun Factory Limba Flex is extremely poseable and holds its new shape pretty well. It’s perfect for discovering and exploring all the different angles that will push you over the edge! I think its design is great for beginners as well as more advanced users (especially for anal play) since it can be customized to your liking.

According to our tester, Mike, the possibilities with this dildo are endless, and the idea of exploring something new every time is great:

“We’ve explored various methods of using the Limba Flex M to keep things exciting. From sticking it to different surfaces for a hands-free adventure to using it by hand, the versatility of this toy has added a level of creativity to our intimacy.” 

I was surprised to hear how strong the suction cup is. Mike even said it’s “too good at times,” which is rare with such a small dildo. This allows for some serious hands-free fun!

The only small issue I found was that Fun Factory silicone likes to attract lint, which requires extra attention during cleaning, but that’s all!

Comparison

BestTest Winner Runner-Up Best for Beginners Budget-Friendly Expert Pick Best Textured Dildo Best G-Spot Dildo Best Poseable Dildo
Overall score5.0 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0
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How to Choose the Right Non-Phallic Dildo

Figuring out which kind of dildo would be best for you can take some time and experimentation.

There are a lot of factors to consider: the size, girth, harness compatibility, safe for anal use, if balls are attached.

When it comes to non-phallic dildos, you also need to think of what type of design you like and if it fits your fantasy. Check out some of my best tips on how to pick the perfect non-phallic dildo for you!

Things to consider

If you’ve decided to buy a non-phallic dildo, you’ve undoubtedly realized that the options are near limitless! Of course, that doesn’t mean you should buy just any dildo, so here are a few factors to consider when picking out your new bedroom bestie.

  • Length – There are two lengths to consider here: the total length and the insertable length. Pay close attention to these, as the first one lets you know how much you’ll have to hold onto & the second measurement explains how deeply the toy can penetrate you.
  • Girth – Commonly measured in either diameter or circumference, this measurement simply states how wide the dildo actually is. Consider your level of experience (as well as how you plan to use the dildo) when comparing girth.
  • Material – As long as you choose a body-safe, non-porous material (like silicone, glass, or metal) then you’ll be good to go. However, the material you choose will affect the possibilities and limitations of your new toy in terms of rigidity or using different types of lube. Avoid using porous materials, like PVC, jelly, soft plastic, etc. since these aren’t safe for internal use as the material can harbor bacteria over time.
  • Shape – Non-phallic dildo shapes can get pretty creative, especially if you’re looking at fantasy dildos. Generally speaking, curved dildos will work best for g-spot stimulation, whereas straight dildos are more suited for size training.
  • Texture – The exterior texture of your dildo can make or break the experience. If you just prefer deep penetration then a smooth dildo may be fine, but people who enjoy intense stimulation should consider options like a ribbed dildo instead.
  • Flexibility – Your dildo will need a certain level of stiffness to be able to penetrate you effectively, but that doesn’t mean it needs to be “rock hard”. Silicone dildos are softer and more flexible, metal dildos and glass dildos are hard, and dual density dildos feel the most “lifelike” because of the solid inner core and the squishy, soft outer layer.
  • Features –  Some dildos offer additional features like flared bases (making them safe for anal use), suction cup bases, the ability to be posed, or added vibrations. Consider the available options and see whether they’re worth paying extra for or which features might be well suited for your needs.
Shape of You

Shape of You

Shape of You
  • Shape is incredibly important to think about before buying a non-phallic dildo.
  • If you’re unsure what shape to choose, think whether you like a filling feeling or prefer long dildos over girth.
  • If you’re new to dildos, make sure to look for ones with a tapered end for easy insertion.
Materials Matter

Materials Matter

Materials Matter
  • Non-phallic or realistic, you should always go for dildos made of non-porous materials, like silicone, glass, metal, or even ABS plastic. The first three materials are most commonly seen in dildos and they’re also easy to clean and sterilize in boiling water.
  • Avoid porous materials since they aren’t actually safe for internal use. The microscopic holes in the surface of the material can harbor dirt and bacteria over time, making it unsafe for internal use. If you are using a dildo made of porous materials, at least slap a condom on it!
Ribbed For Your Peasure

Ribbed For Your Peasure

Ribbed For Your Peasure
  • What makes non-phallic dildos amazing is that they are limitless in how they are textures.
  • Many unrealistic dildos have bulb like ridges. Or, as in the case of the SelfDelve Corn on the Cob dildo, a knobbly shaft provides constant pleasure.
  • If you’re unsure what you’ll like, it’s a good idea to start with non-phallic dildos that don’t have extreme ridges in them until you know what you like
Author
Kasia Halinowska
Kasia Halinowska

Content Specialist | Working with sex education has been a dream of mine for a long time, but after years of studying marketing and working at boring corporations, I never thought my dream could come true, but here I am! Therefore, my goal at Bedbible is to help you discover all the sex toy wonders that I have the pleasure of working with and touch on the subjects close to my heart, like body positivity, inclusivity, feminism, and most importantly, sex and intimacy! Plus, as a person with a marketing background, you can be sure I will not fall for any false advertising and be brutally honest with my reviews!

Age: 25
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
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